| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | What is the real average men look like? | Discussion | Striking_Coat5481 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:52 PM |
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| 1 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?Surely i don’t care about what they say as well , I don’t want to listen to any mansplaining that makes women feel bad, like what you’re doing now is a perfect example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?I also notice that if I’m good at something they’re not, or they know little about they’ll change the topic 180, and try to get back to their comfort zone 😂 some men just have a fragile ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsErrrr😂 I can only say it’s not self reported. He wants to date me at the beginning but I’m not recovered from past wounds. The good looking guys are busy, there’ll be another 10 good looking girls throw themselves to. Average guys still got many chances… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsOp is talking about women don’t want men in any means, including casual setting. But it is not true. And quite the opposite as u imagine, he is an average looking 5’9 guy, a young good looking woman offer hooking up is ideal situation for him, but nowadays men aren’t really relationship driven or sex driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsLol you can check my recent post about men prefer to be single because they enjoy working, playing video games and watching sports, than actually being with women. It’s mutual, we don’t choose each other, not all on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?There’re attraction level you know, sometimes it’s not a 8-10 it’s just 5-6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:19 PM |
| 0 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?They already make move on me, ask me on a date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:26 AM |
| 2 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?No. I don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:33 AM |
| 5 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?yeah that’s what I mean, most women as I know feel the same. It’s not like the typical Reddit comment men are drooling over every women, women find most men gross. Irl most dates are very neutral. And that’s why people always say they don’t feel the spark. Because it’s not good not bad just meh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:25 AM |
| 4 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?I’m a woman I get many times men want to go on a date but he doesn’t find me attractive😂 I can tell he’s not all over me, maybe no one’s at his roster maybe he wants some accompany. No sex involves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:45 PM |
| 6 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?Yes. Sometimes out of boredom Sometimes because I can’t find anyone attractive. Do man date girl that he always find attractive 100%? I don’t think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:14 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthbecause having sex with a random dangerous man who you’re not attracted to, is more miserable than celibacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to be chosen for being "providers" - why do they advertise themselves this way?I wouldn’t be with someone not offering to pay for the first date 🥲 it matter for me. But to each of their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:16 PM |
| 5 | If men don't want to be chosen for being "providers" - why do they advertise themselves this way?Maybe during the date she finds someone turn off or maybe she just like to split the bill I have no idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | If men don't want to be chosen for being "providers" - why do they advertise themselves this way?Some guys who were trying to hookup or date with me, like to brag about their degrees, intelligence, money, nice house nice car blahblah But there’s nothing to do with me, you even don’t want to pay for a date💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneI don’t think it’s compulsory if you don’t like it, but there’s really no need like OP to throw a study on her face that let her learn to orgasm through PIV, no offense to anyone who doesn’t like orals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 03:57 PM |
| -7 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration Alonewell well well 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:24 AM |
| 5 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneTelling me you hate eating pussy without telling me you hate eating pussy😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:04 AM |
| 7 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceSame. I got approached at different venues, most are very direct compliments. If I’m interested I’ll talk or leave them my number. If not, I just say sorry I’m busy rn and turn away. No one ever continue to chase after me or creep me out. I think both side should just be chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:20 PM |
| 9 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceI’m tired of this kind of how to approach questions. My advice would be just ask whoever you like whenever you want, if you really can’t figure out the social clue. You two are strangers, even if she’s not interested, it doesn’t hurt. You only live once, only care about what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:28 PM |
| – | Do you think the average straight woman feels this way about guys?I think you’re completely normal, the internet nowadays is hyper saturated with sexual content that makes you feel like everybody is sex addicted. But in reality, it’s not. I’m East Asian, I don’t want to generalize people, but many of my EA friends are like you, they think being in relationship is boring, sex is meh, they’d rather work and stay at home with their cat, I’m quite on the opposite side that I always want the dopamine rush from dating or sex. They actually live more peaceful life th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:33 AM |
| – | Do you think the average straight woman feels this way about guys?Nah almost every girls I know have at least 1 celebrity crush in some period of their life, if you went to any tiktok fan page commenting section, there are a loooooot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:24 AM |
| – | What is the real average men look like?Neither of these are above average, men have faster metabolism naturally, staying relatively low body fat is not that hard, unless someone binge eating all the time or genetically obese. very few people irl have crooked feature and the average male height in the UK is 5’10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"I agree, that’s why I said see if, which I think it’s unlikely to happen to OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:16 PM |
| 9 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"If you ever look into any hook up site or dating app from the female side, you’ll find how many average or below average joe are seeking casual sex and don’t want relationship, 80% of them are just like OP. No one can be trusted no matter how he looks. Most women are highly selective in terms of casual sex. It’s not like every girl are having a lot fuck buddies and high counts. Most women are somewhere at the middle. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 7 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"and you ignore the fact that many joe are also making fake commitments…it’s not like joe always have a better heart than chad 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 04:52 PM |
| 15 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"It’s not good but at least you gain the bf/gf experience from a hot person, it doesn’t hurt. it’s still better than used by a ugly man. Women participate casual sex know what they’re doing, it’s 2024 no one expects using sex to tie one’s heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 04:46 PM |
| 53 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"If you want casual sex, like simply just sex nothing emotional, you can either go for someone uglier than you, to see if they’re desperate enough to hookup with you. Or simply find a hooker. Because pretty women are not obligated to just have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:09 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionEven Marylyn Monroe said she can turn of her aura immediately when she doesn’t want attention. Average looking people in their casual daily outfit are not noticeable to people at all 😂 for me even I receive both attention but they’re not the same kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionBecause there’s no win or loss in the situation, like what do you win from another girl you don’t even know, to get their job or to win over their men?? Your deep insecurities makes you take every girl as imagination enemy. People with this kind of mindset making female friendships ugly sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:03 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionI disagree, are we all promoting being girl’s girl rn? I always believe girls are not as jealous as media portraits in terms of look. If another girl looks good, I’ll compliment but I don’t feel I have to try harder than her😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:15 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionI’m a women, I rarely agree on red pill opinion but this one I agree. Sexy clothes are usually tight and revealing, it’s really uncomfortable to wear for women, and I’m constantly worried about bum being seen and boobs showing off too much in the public. I don’t think women genuinely enjoy being in them, mostly is because we want to feel sexy and want attention. If I genuinely don’t want any attention, I would put myself in my most comfy and warm outfit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 03:21 PM |
| – | A majority of men underestimate just how good-looking they are.If 6 people are 3, 2 are 8, 2 are 10, the average would be around 5, but actually most of them are bellow 5. Because they’re not evenly distributed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toyou’re mixing with hookup and dating, I do require clear communications to know what each other into but I don’t want any feelings involved in casual setting. And I don’t want to entertain ugly guys just because they talk good. anyway, maybe you require for more emotion and feelings involved but there’re many women only care about sex and fun. They can always get someone like that. If they can’t get anyone is most likely because the look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toHe’s talking about casual sex, you’re talking about relationship, people don’t want to sweet talk a lot when they only want sex, that can lead people on. they’ll probably hit on 10 women, there’ll always be someone horny they can get, if he’s an actual ok looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toYou should touch more grass…not all couples are sexless, and not all fwb are kinky and lustful. Many people are just vanilla in their natural, doesn’t mean they have kinky stuff going on with someone else 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted towhat are you talking about? women still have sex with their bf, it’s just not only about the look but more about personality, career, life goals etc. like men have different standards for hookup and relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:47 PM |
| 4 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted tofyi. most f boy I’ve known in my life are terrible at conversation, still many women pursue them because they’re hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:37 AM |
| 6 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toPersonality is only for relationships, the only factor for casual sex is the look, hygiene ofc. I had fwb that is so dumb, can’t hold any conversations, only replies in one word during texts, we don’t share anything in common but he’s hot, I want to keep him around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:33 AM |
| 5 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toI’m 30 I’m still into these guys, these men are being delusional 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:24 AM |
| 9 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toIf you had a toned body and average face, good hygiene, you’ll have no problem with getting women laid. At least, every single men I know like that can do it easily. If you feel it’s hard, women constantly avoid you, maybe you’re not average looking you’re ugly. I’m sorry OP, people irl tend to comfort ugly people that they’re average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:06 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?I think loneliness cause more diseases than stress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants?Because why don’t they just have a same gender friend? Most people feel more comfortable with their same gender, they feel each other more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:15 AM |
| 19 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleThe internet simp is different from real life dating, we’re just drooling over the screen for a month or two, next month we move on, no one set their real life dating standards as Jacob Elordi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Men want new pussy very quickly after getting a girl (no matter how good the sex is) and they don’t like admitting it because it’s unpleasant. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex.I’m a woman I kinda agree. If it’s just sex, it’s hard to last for more than 3 times. If it lasts, there must be feelings or other things involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:28 AM |
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