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I wouldn’t do this in person while she has the kids. That’s just setting it up to go sideways if she reacts emotionally and the kids end up stuck in the middle. Handle the loan first, get a plan in place, then send a neutral message updating her.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 01:06 AM
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Courts usually care less about arguments and more about consistent financial evidence. If there’s a gap between claimed income and business ownership/lifestyle, that’s something you can dig into. Get a good lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:34 AM
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Focus on custody plan first and finances after. Don’t try to figure it out directly with her if it’s already at the serving stage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:31 AM
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For a 13yo stability matters more than fewer handoffs. Maybe stick with week-on/week-off because it balances consistency with not being away from either parent too long.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 05:07 PM
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If she’s not open to counseling and you both keep looping like this, then,,,this may just be the dynamic now. If it does more harm to you mentally then maybe there's no point, I'm sure once your kids grow up they will understand the situation.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 05:05 PM
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Maybe phrase it like this: no child is enrolled in extracurriculars without prior written agreement from both parents and there’s a defined timeframe for responding. You can also add limits on number of activities and how costs are split.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 05:02 PM
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After 18 years and 10+ years out of the workforce, courts also factor in lost earning capacity and long term dependency created during the marriage, not just income history.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 05:00 PM
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The only reliable way to limit damage are good prenup/postnup, clean financial separation early, proper documentation, and a good lawyer who understands high-asset divorces. I'd recommend Arusyak from bay area law group, she's been handling my family's cases previously.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 04:59 PM
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Went through this too and just keep things basic and factual, like what happened, when, and who was involved, and separating that from how I felt about it cause it got in the way a lot of times.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 04:49 PM
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Document everything you can (missed visits, communications, any interference) as it can help if you need to go back to court.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 03:09 PM
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If she won’t work on things and you’re miserable despite your efforts, it’s reasonable to start thinking about separation. You need to talk to a family law attorney so you understand your rights, especially regarding custody, finances, and your baby, so you can plan your next step the right way. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 03:08 PM
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Yes, you should update your STBX. Even if you don’t agree with the appointment, it’s important to communicate about scheduling and coverage, especially since this involves your child’s care.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 03:04 PM
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