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This is so damn true for me as well
/r/seduction02/09/24 10:07 PM
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Exactly bro, just get back up and try again. Figure out what you did wrong, learn from it , and try something different
/r/seduction20/06/24 11:05 AM
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Bro all your comments are negative and bitter you need to work on your self talk
/r/seduction18/06/24 10:11 PM
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Bro lol, it’s so funny when I see comments like this , when the dudes in my friends group who get laid the most are 5’8 and 5’6 and continuously pull some bad ass women.
/r/seduction18/06/24 10:06 PM
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Two amazing books as far as vision go I recommend are “Psycho cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz” and “Atomic habits” . Don’t just read them though, apply the information . Wish you well on your journey bro
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:50 PM
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I’m going to be honest pop up blockers never worked for me , because I would always just use other methods to look at it . I used to use a supplement cause NAC that helped me overcome my urges , it’s reported to help with ocd and other impulsive tendencies , that and a strong why , like dude I was tired of sitting at home playing with myself while all the other dudes were smashing all the girls I wanted too. Try to get a strong vision of what you want your dating life too look like , and everyti…
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:43 PM
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Holding frame in my eyes means not being perturbed by a woman’s changing emotions, her tests or whatever else she throws at you. That does not mean you tolerate disrespect , it just means you have a strong center , where as your emotions aren’t tied to her behavior , neither is your self worth. In a nutshell being able to control your emotions
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:46 PM
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This is honestly what it is . In the back of his mind , he knows he can always fall back to porn if he doesn’t go for it in the moment , but when you give your brain no alternative such as “if we don’t seduce right now, we don’t get to see any vagina at all” his approach would be much different. This was a huge issue of mine at one point . Once he cuts out the porn it’ll rewire him to the women actually in his life, instead of the pixelated ones on the screen
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:30 PM
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The best thing I’ve learned here is , nothing is going to happen for or to you, unless you take some action, and to hold your frame
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:23 PM
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A friend actually recommended that book to me awhile ago, this may be a sign to check it out. Thanks
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:08 PM
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I see exactly what you mean , funny thing is in my earlier days of dating I was definitely the guy to freak out or be irritated by that type of shit , simply because I just didn’t understand it . I thought too logical about it , and didn’t understand for whatever reason , that’s just how women operate . I definitely try to keep more of a masculine frame now and not be as perturbed by it
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:03 PM
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In my experience , I believe it’s true . Even the ones you think are “drama free” . I don’t know what it is , but if things are going to good it’s like they always have to stir some shit up , to feel validated . I think in an indirect way , they want to see if we really care
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:51 PM
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Man I swear this is what I want , rather than just hooking up with random club girls .
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:49 AM
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Damn!! This is a bar
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:40 PM
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When I’m present , and comfortable I’m smooth as hell . When I start to overthink what I’m about to say , and start seeking approval easily 2/10
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:27 PM
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I don’t wanna dive to deep into the subject about the stands women have nowadays. But yesterday I was in the dining hall and there was literally 5 women sitting next to my table , and even they were having a discussion about the insane standards women have nowadays , saying things like “Women want a man to have everything, meanwhile she has nothing to offer her damn self” granted now they were a bit older maybe late 40’s early 50’s , but still . If other women are even saying that , that lets yo…
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:01 PM
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You said it ! I swear the one issue that would change my dating life completely , is if I could get out of my own head . I don’t care about height , money , or anything else , being able to be present would do a complete 180. The opportunities are always there always have been , I just need to stop thinking and act
/r/seduction03/06/24 04:48 PM
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Literally this. I just got back from a cruise , and this 42 year old guy I met (really cool guy ) in the casino , was banging this hot 19 year old he just met , dude was like 5’5 , but he was just so chill, she ended up going to the room with him and they were together for the whole trip. All because he opened his damn mouth , and just started speaking . She was waaaaay out of his league , in terms of physical attractiveness , but yet he still made it happen
/r/seduction03/06/24 04:47 PM
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He’s attractive I’ll admit, but it’s not like groundbreaking attractive
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:24 AM
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For one you need to find women who doesn’t care for your height . You can’t have a shot with a woman who’s already filtered you out . Two you gotta have a way with words, I always see this dude with women shorter than him and taller than him , I swear it’s like women overlook his height once they start talking to him . Funny thing is he’s not even special , he’s just has Chad like energy , and what I mean by that he just doesn’t give a damn whether the woman likes him or not . The opposite of th…
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:04 AM
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You know my pain then . I don’t have a creepy vibe, but I’m just so in head , that I feel like it can be misinterpreted as being “creepy” whenever I’m comfortable though , conversations flow so effortlessly . One of the best things that help me take my guard down is humor , I swear it like unlocks the fear center of my brain , and helps me relax …. Back to the friend I find it funny how he also pulls girls out his league , but it also goes to show us , that personality really is a huge factor ev…
/r/seduction02/06/24 12:17 AM
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I have a friend who is 5’6” and I swear to god you would not believe the gorgeous ass women he pulls, he has game and has the ultimate chad personality . Me watching him through the past couple of 2 years that I’ve known him , is that he just goes for it without thinking . Me I get all in my head , whenever this dude sees something he likes , he takes action. Doesn’t even give himself time to overthinking. For reference I’m 3 inches taller than him, I’m really attractive , and I don’t do as near…
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:33 PM
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If I went any closer to her I’d literally be grabbing her. When I say she comes and stand next to me , I mean directly next to me . Like she’s silently saying “hey I know you see me “
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:26 PM
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Dude I’m always in my freaking head ! “Will she think it’s weird if I say hello” meanwhile she’s basically the one following me around the club. I swear I hate my brain at times man
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:38 PM
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Dude this is so freaking true ! Every time I’ve ever fucked any girl in my past , it’s always because she made it the easiest she possibly could for me . Im a very shy guy so , her helping me cross the finish line always helps
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:08 PM
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Bro back in very shy days I’ve literally been in bed with 2 women (on separate occasions) and we were both in just our underwear and I was too scared to make a move . Even after they led me to the bedroom haha . The girl couldn’t make any more obvious that she wanted it . I was just too scared to execute
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:51 PM
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Needed this!!!!
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:59 PM
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I’m curious bro, because I see in previous post where you complained about your height? Do you not feel like that was a limiting factor for you at all ?
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:57 PM
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I promise if I told you, there is absolutely no way you would believe me . You’d think there’s no way that dude could’ve been that delusional and not see all those signs
/r/seduction16/04/24 03:51 AM
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This is awesome brother ! Glad this happen for you, I had the same thing happen with two coworkers of mine on two separate occasions . I swear it’s always better when it’s unexpected.
/r/seduction03/04/24 01:39 AM
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Nerdy, adventurous girl I can go to museums , and exhibits with and travel to different countries with and explore . My problem , I try to find this type at clubs , because that’s usually where I go to meet new people , mostly because that’s the only places my friends want to go
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:07 PM
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This just happened to me Saturday lol , funny thing is I hesitated a bit just to be sure , but I kinda figured she was trying to get closer to me , because she kept looking at me and then somehow made her way right next to me, and started dancing on me . We chatted for a bit , and I got her info and asked her if she wanted to go to a show with me this Friday . She looked sober , which is a good thing in my book, we’ll see how it goes though
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:34 PM
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The dudes who I know who get the most ass in my friend group are both 5’8” , I swear to you these dudes smash some of the baddest women simply because they have GAME! They know how to make a woman feel good , which in actuality all she really wants . Yes height may help but it isn’t everything dude , especially if your freaking personality sucks . Work with what you got
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:42 PM
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I agree on the nice fitting clothes . Just the other day I changed my shirt in the bathroom at work , I have a nice fitting gym shirt , and was walking out the door and my coworker looks at me and says “damn” loud. It’s usually hard to tell how jacked I am in the big shirts they give us at work
/r/seduction07/10/23 12:22 AM
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Oh I believe it dude, I’m pretty sure countless dudes on this sub have experienced the same thing . Human nature is a funny thing, because on paper this dude is everything every woman would tell you she doesn’t want; but in reality it’s just not true . It goes to show . When you go after what you want , you tend to get it . All that nice guy , holding back bullshit gets you nowhere , regardless of your financial standing
/r/seduction11/09/23 11:30 AM
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A guy I know who gets laid the most has no job, can’t stay out of jail, abusive , bipolar disorder , a known scammer and gets so much pussy you wouldn’t even believe it . Biggest thing I’ve noticed with him even with all those red flags is he has charisma and just doesn’t care about how he’s perceived when he interacts with women, and no this is not Incel mentality but it’s the classic take that “women love bad boys” . He’s just exciting to them
/r/seduction11/09/23 03:56 AM
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Its simple, It’s Reddit bro. It’s a faceless , social media site . People can be absolute dicks with no consequences to their actions or words
/r/seduction11/09/23 03:54 AM
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God damn you hit this right on the nail man !
/r/seduction07/09/23 09:17 PM
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Lmao dude perfect analogy . This is so damn true
/r/seduction06/09/23 01:18 AM
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Dude every damn time !!! I can guarantee you that dude has charisma out of the ass . I know a guy who’s about average height and is always pulling the baddest girls, because he knows how talk. He knows how to talk to a woman and make a woman feel attracted , dude isn’t anything special at all, he’s just got hella game
/r/seduction06/09/23 01:16 AM
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Submissive?! Nooooo far from it
/r/seduction30/08/23 11:55 PM
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Oop 😏🤫
/r/seduction30/08/23 11:36 PM
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I appreciate the effort though 😏
/r/seduction30/08/23 11:21 PM
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Are you my therapist now? lol
/r/seduction30/08/23 11:10 PM
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I don’t have negative feelings about women at all. I think women are amazing, you’re still projecting. Approval seeking was a pattern I learned from childhood , to cope with trauma . So everyone was pretty much propped on a pedestal. This schema of seeking approval just happened to ruin my relationships with women the most
/r/seduction30/08/23 11:03 PM
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Love the way you put this
/r/seduction25/08/23 10:23 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/seduction25/08/23 10:22 PM
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Regret is always waaaaaay worse !
/r/seduction25/08/23 10:20 PM
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Dawg if this isn’t the truth I don’t know what is
/r/seduction25/08/23 10:14 PM
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Boiii this is straight up facts !!
/r/seduction11/08/23 06:06 PM
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Yeaaa man she was never the brightest. Like imagine having everything that early at a young age , and then deciding to share it with a bum lol. Then has the nerve to complain on social media about the dude not raising the kid , knowing damn well he wasn’t shit from the beginning . Now that’s funny
/r/seduction19/07/23 01:09 PM
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She had his baby homie lol
/r/seduction19/07/23 12:41 PM
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I know this gorgeous woman who is 23 , and has her own home and drives a new series BMW , and keeps fucking a dude who has no job , and can’t stay out of jail to save his life , and she is absolutely infatuated with that man, I’m pretty sure there are so many untold stories just like this. I agree 1000% we should be working to get our shit together , but I promise you IN TERMS of meeting women it’s not the end all be all
/r/seduction19/07/23 02:02 AM
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What a goofball comment
/r/seduction17/07/23 03:06 PM
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I literally couldn’t have said this any better
/r/seduction17/07/23 02:57 PM
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I used too. The only problem with this is they usually tend to want to stick around ie (relationship) when all I wanted from the ordeal was sex
/r/seduction13/07/23 11:10 PM
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I posted in this group before , but about a month ago he and I Went to the club and he started bantering with some girl , and next thing you know he was making out with the same girl who was about 5’10” . Imagine that .
/r/seduction01/07/23 04:26 PM
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Bro y’all kill me with this argument . I have a buddy who is 5’6 who has no problem getting women cause he has game . Is height beneficial in attracting a partner, it most definitely can be. But it’s not the end all be all
/r/seduction01/07/23 04:10 PM
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Average height my dude
/r/seduction01/07/23 11:16 AM
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If she’s really into you, you could say any of these and she’d still want to go
/r/seduction20/06/23 03:50 PM
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So many others are going to same thing , but it’s the truth. It’s because you’re not as needy, and thirsty . Women can sense that you don’t need them
/r/seduction19/06/23 03:47 PM
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Yep even if I’m not attracted to you, I appreciate the effort that you were honest, and made your intentions known
/r/seduction14/06/23 10:55 PM
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Facts!!! None of that shit matters , If you can’t hold a conversation and make her feel a type of way. Eventually she’ll start to look elsewhere
/r/seduction09/06/23 03:36 AM
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What in the hell
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 11:05 PM
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Bro hearing this hurt so bad, because this is exactly what happened to me
/r/seduction01/06/23 03:20 AM
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A key reason as to why I hate social media, for millions of years that’s literally how mating was done , you walk up to someone and introduce yourself and now I have to add you on a dating app? Shit is laughable
/r/seduction01/06/23 02:55 AM
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Umm no , this is why we don’t take relationship advice from women. My ex Gf literally gave me no signs at all, if I waited for a “sign” or hint we’d never have been together . She was way too shy , and even avoided eye contact whenever she walked by me . There are so many of us guys who have the mentality of waiting for the perfect opportunity to approach, and it never comes so we never take the chance and end up beating ourselves up . That’s why I said stop waiting for those circumstances, and …
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:27 PM
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It’s been like that since the beginning of time
/r/seduction31/05/23 01:06 PM
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Doesn’t make it not true for the vast majority of cases , as most women don’t usually approach men , instead they wait to be approached
/r/seduction31/05/23 11:25 AM
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You do understand that approach anxiety could very well stem from those traumatic experiences right ? Example , repetitive negative experiences in our childhood with our caregivers could start to form the perception that we’re not worthy of love , or that something is wrong with us, thereby creating anxiety whenever we try and make ourselves more visible . Our brain will then try and sabotage any efforts of putting ourselves out there , because it doesn’t want to feel the pain of rejection we ex…
/r/seduction31/05/23 07:06 AM
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You obviously want something otherwise you wouldn’t be an a forum titled “seduction”
/r/seduction31/05/23 12:27 AM
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You’re so very welcome. As a shy guy I realized , my lack of success was because I was sitting back waiting for life to happen to me , rather than approaching the things I actually wanted . I Just had to share
/r/seduction31/05/23 12:26 AM
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Good luck having sex with your car
/r/seduction31/05/23 12:22 AM
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IK it sucks man but you have to put in the work if you want to create the life you really want, have you ever thought about trying therapy ?
/r/seduction30/05/23 11:27 PM
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A lot us are bro, but we still have to do it while we’re afraid . Otherwise we’ll always be in the same spot
/r/seduction30/05/23 11:08 PM
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That’s why you gotta live in the moment , stop focusing on the end result. Easier said than done, but that’s really the solution
/r/seduction30/05/23 11:01 PM
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Broooo exactly that ! This is why very well meaning guys who are anxious always come off as creepy to women, she can sense that you’re not being yourself and trying to become something else to impress her . It’s very unsettling especially when she doesn’t know you because she can’t tell what your intentions are, or if you’re potentially dangerous to her. That’s when you’ll hear “I have to go to the bathroom “ or she’ll make some other excuse to get away from you because she’s uncomfortable. Figu…
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:27 PM
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Exactly that , don’t overthink it . You don’t have to come up with some super cool catchphrase, just be you . She’ll either be receptive or not , if not , at least you still tried . On to the next one
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:16 PM
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Dudeeee you put this so eloquently! Exactly this !!
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:52 PM
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You need to become more comfortable with yourself . Whether that be through therapy, journaling , meditation etc. There’s a barrier preventing you from just being your authentic self . I had this and still dealing with this, I know it comes from my childhood
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:51 PM
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Yet you’ll see some women with a broke ass, good looking dude who’s with her because he knows how to make her feel safe , a range of emotions high and low, and some sexual tension. Please stop this
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:07 PM
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Maybe because you’re trying to impress her , and come up with some witty response instead of just being yourself ? This was my problem, I had to ask myself why is it that I can talk to my friends effortlessly with no anxiety , but whenever I see a woman I’m attracted to my mind goes completely blank. Stop trying to be someone you think she’d like , figure out who you are as a person and express yourself, she’ll either be interested or she won’t . Either way you won’t lose , because at the end of…
/r/seduction30/05/23 07:58 PM
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They stopped selling them , but they may come back in stock soon. It’s called “Muscle fit Pique shirt”. Bro I’m telling you, if you build that physique up right , men and women will notice . No extra effort on your part , when women start coming up to you and just start randomly feeling on your arms, you’ll see
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:29 PM
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Anytime I’m at a club, I have this particular blue muscle collared shirt I got from H&M and dude every single time I wear that to the club , I swear some random woman will walk up to me and tells me how handsome I am . I kid you not . It definitely helps that I’m fit , and have some really nice arms .
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:35 AM
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Don’t wait for opportunities. Create them
/r/seduction08/05/23 04:36 AM
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Ayeeee my man ! Congratulations, you called that
/r/seduction08/05/23 03:55 AM
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Literally the perfect woman
/r/seduction08/05/23 01:11 AM
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You have a link to your book?
/r/seduction08/05/23 01:10 AM
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