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It’s okay I guess, wish it was better
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:38 AM
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It’s not me not cumming that’s a issue. I don’t care about that. It’s that I eat her out way more often and way longer then she’s ever sucked my dick.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:28 AM
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I guess I just feel that way, because I please her more then she pleases me. I’ll admit, I am a simp for her. She’s also a simp for me, but she just doesn’t please me like I do her, which kinda upsets me
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:25 AM
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Yeah, I guess I just don’t like the fact that I feel like I’m pleasing her more then I’m pleasing myself sometimes.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:21 AM
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I have the opposite problem. No girl is interested in me, unless it’s with the intent to have a relationship
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:21 PM
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I wouldn’t say she sees me in a completely non sexual way. We still had sex this morning and she was extremely wet and getting really into it. So that doesn’t track with me. I do get the feeling that she thinks of me that way sometimes. It hurts. I wish I wasn’t such a loaded mess all the time. I feel like my mental health is just so poor.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:07 PM
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Yeah, I’m not smoking again. At least, never with her. It just gives me horrible anxiety. I’m such a lightweight when it comes to weed. I used to not be. I used to smoke so much, and I was always fine. Then I started developing tons of anxiety, and the weed makes it worse sometimes. I get panic attacks and it’s so sad. I just feel so embarrassed. I was also basically crying in front of her, because I was just so mad at myself. I feel like such a idiot. I want to be the fun guy to be around. Not …
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:14 PM
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Same with me actually. My ex I was super needy early on and we were together 6 months. Sadly I only became more needy as the relationship went on and that pushed her away. I won’t make that same mistake again though. I got a new girlfriend and I’m doing my best to not be needy
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:19 PM
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Yes, I’ve told her about my therapy situation. I told her about that a week ago. Though I’ve also mentioned before that my struggles with depression and abandonment issues. Which most people would say is a bad idea, but I’m open and honest about it. Also, I don’t dwell on it, I always try to have fun and not let those things get in the way of how much fun we have.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:25 AM
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True, I just got a new gf and we fuck maybe 2 or 3 times almost every time we hang out lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:37 PM
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5’10
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:59 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:16 AM
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It’s not like I said anything all that unbelievable. I mean, I still had to talk to her. I still had to make the first move. It wasn’t like she did everything. All she did was come sit by me and smile and made sure I knew she wanted a convo.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:10 AM
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Yea, we kinda joke about that night all the time. Neither of us will admit who “folded” that night lmao. She said she just thought I was cute and for some reason really wanted to talk to me. She claims she shot her shot by “asking me to get her some juice” lmao😂😂😂
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:56 AM
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I do that a lot. Not every time, but I definitely go down on her more then she has on me. I just don’t think I’m good at it. Idk though
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:15 AM
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I think I’m both. I’m a sociopath(very much bipolar and depressive). I’m also telling the truth though. Either way, wether you believe me or not, I honestly couldn’t care less.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:50 AM
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Yeah, I’m trying my best to be that way. I can’t cut my hair because I’m on a grind to grow it out for the first time ever haha. We’ve gone to get coffee at different places several times. A picnic. A walk. A drive in the canyon. We’ve drank and smoked together a few times. I’m planning on taking her to this butterfly place(she’s a huge butterfly lover) to. I want to just shave fun and do things with her. Every time we’ve hung out has been a little different. Yeah we’ve Netflix and chilled a few…
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:16 AM
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Yeah, that’s what she told me. I guess she could’ve been sparing my feelings, but I think she just has a easier time doing it herself then during sex
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:11 AM
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I literally sit quietly at every party we have. I guess you can be skeptical, but my story is real. Also when I say “it works every time” it’s more just a joke. I’ve only used it on three girls(two of which I was on dates with, and not during a party at my house). I just think it’s funny, because in reality who can say no to seeing some cool ass creatures. I also didn’t skip any part between her in my room and is sleeping together. I asked her if she’d like to lay down with me more specifically.…
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:10 AM
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Incel mentality
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:02 AM
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Does seem like a dream for me to
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:52 PM
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Trying to everyday man. Working on myself in therapy. Trying to just live day by day
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:37 PM
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That is not true. Majority(a major majority) of people are not genuine people. Most people are snakes in the grass
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:36 PM
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?
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:28 PM
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I honestly don’t think so. I mean maybe. I have a above average size dick. Not to brag but I also have just a genuinely good looking dick. I keep it very well groomed to. Yet I still have yet to make her cum. Though she has said she’s only came from sex twice in her life so I don’t know
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:09 PM
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Because I’m a genuine person. Sometimes that’s all you need. Plus, social status is relevant. I’m okay with not having friends for the most part. I think that’s what she likes about me. She’s been surrounded by fake people her whole life, and I’m the first person that just wants to be alone and I think she is kinda envious of that
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:06 PM
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She doesn’t like snakes. No I wanted to show her my dick 😂😂😉
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:05 PM
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Not everyone is a piece of shit like you. There are people in this world who genuinely enjoy relationships. No need to have such a black pill view of the world
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:44 PM
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I’m not going to ask for her phone. That’s little boy shit. I’m not that insecure. Also “she touched your PP, she must be the one” I have no expectations for the future, just enjoying the moment. I’ve had sex with 6 other girls as well, so she isn’t the first. Also my family and me are not “well off” at all. I’m broke as fuck and live in a apartment I can barely even afford.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:33 PM
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I’m 5’10 and weigh 120. I literally look like a stick. Granted this girl is also super small, so that helps
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:31 PM
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I get compared to Timothy Chalamet a lot. I feel like if that’s the case I’m definitely the budget dollar store Timothy Chalamet though. I do deal with body dysmorphia though
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:30 PM
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It was in my own apartment. My roommates hosted it
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:29 PM
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It was in my own apartment. My roommates hosted it.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:29 PM
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No I haven’t been to needy. I’m actively avoiding that because I’ve definitely done that in past relationships, so I know better. Also I play overwatch at the top 500 level (;. Even have a overwatch poster in my room and she still likes me lmao
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:28 PM
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I’ll explain the night we met in detail. I was at the party because it was in my apartment. My roommates were the ones who hosted it. They invited everyone(like usual) and I sat on the couch and barely talked(like usual). My one roommate invited over this girl( the one I’m talking to) and she came over. They had never hung out before and it was their first time meeting. She came in and i honestly payed no attention at first. Throughout the night I played a few drinking games. Like pong and ragec…
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tvf8uj/how_should_i_go_about_dating_the_popular_girl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:18 PM
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You can’t believe there are genuine people in this world who want more then just sex?
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:04 PM
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I’m not even going to entertain this
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:01 PM
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While true, it’s still never been this easy with any other girl I’ve dated before. She’s always putting off good vibes, even when we start talking about deep stuff, it’s so easy. Like I said, I’m just living in the moment
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:54 PM
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Thank you (: but my life hasn’t been easy. I have abusive parents. Had many years where I couldn’t get a girl to even look in my directions also many many fake friends. Basically the reason I’m a introvert now. Still deal with depression daily, but I’m in therapy to work on it!
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:39 PM
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??? How do I do that lmao
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:34 PM
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Yes, many times actually. Couldn’t even count how many but I’d say at least 20
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:06 PM
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Yeah, I even actually mentioned that to her. I told her that I tend to self sabotage relationships and situations. I agree, I need to be much better at not doing it.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:47 PM
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I mean, as far as sex goes. We’ve fucked a lot actually. I think the sex is pretty nice. She was a little worried actually that I was using her only for sex. I told her that wasn’t the case, but I guess according to you I shouldn’t have told her that lmao
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:29 PM
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True, yeah I feel like I vented a little to much to her. It’s always when she sleeps over. Usually the night before I’m super chill, but when I wake up in the mornings, I’m always in a depressed mood and I spill all my feelings
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah, tbh I think we both are fucked up a little bit mentally lmao. She’s opened up and told me some shit though to.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:05 PM
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True, I go back and forth due to my depression. Majority of the days I feel great about where we are at, and I’m just enjoying spending time with her. There is always those days for me that I get super down and feel bad about myself
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:46 PM
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Thank you bro. Yeah I really like her a lot. I would like a relationship. I’m not much into hookups, I catch feelings way to easy.
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:38 PM
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I still think she’s really interested. She told me that within two weeks of knowing me she deleted all her dating app accounts, because she just felt like “there was something different about me.” How bad of a move was it?
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:04 PM
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Sorry dude but that’s not true. Most girls prefer isolated, introvert guys over the douchebag(in the closet) bros at frats. Not saying they still don’t date them, because they do. Point is, is that women would rather not, it’s just frat guys tend to be more social and actually make the initiative to go after these girls whereas others do not
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:59 PM
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Oh, yeah she did choose them. She also chose one that literally used to physically abuse her. I would classify that as a “douchebag”
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:38 PM
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Wdym by “the last guy she wants”
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:12 PM
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Well I mean, I ain’t a bitch. I’d never take a cheating girlfriend back.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:41 PM
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Yeah, I’m not stressing about it lasting forever. I’m more asking in general two questions. One is, is being “safe” a turn off for women? Two is, is it possible that she could just be kinda using me to gain the “actual relationship experience?”
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:18 PM
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Lol. I’d say the two I had relationships with, and the one I’m talking to now are all 8’s at least. One was more like a 9, god her body was what you would see in a model magazine lmao
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:14 PM
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I just don’t see how 7 is even a bad number at my age lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:00 PM
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I mean, for 22 years old that’s not bad I think. Especially when you consider that I was at 0 when I was 19
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:47 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:54 PM
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Why do you have to wait for her to bring it up? I’m just curious. I’ve been seeing this girl for a little over a month, and we both really like each other. She’s never said no to hanging out, we have a lot of fun together, texts back fast, etc. I wouldn’t say she’s my girlfriend yet because we haven’t talked about it at all, but why would I wait for her to bring it up if I decide it’s what I want?
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:22 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:06 AM
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Hmm, not me. I swipe right about 50% of the time on tinder as well. Let’s just throw all online dating out the window and talk about real life though. Everywhere I go, I find about 50% of the women attractive. Wether it be school, work, or parties. Not sure why being single, not on tinder, and not into nightlife, determines how a girl looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:43 PM
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What would being distant with texts mean? We usually text for a while each day. I sometimes send the first text, she sometimes sends the first text. We just banter back and fourth, ask how each other’s day was, etc. I always end up leaving her on read though, because she just won’t stop texting if I dont
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:40 PM
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For me personally, I would say I find at least half(girls my age) attractive. I highly doubt any girl would consider above 30% to be attractive. I am open to other opinions though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:17 PM
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Been in therapy for year. I tried drugs one time, but won’t do it again. It made me feel even more lost. Like I was in a trance. Almost like the movie “get out.” I felt like I was watching a movie of someone else living their life in my body.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:14 AM
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This is honestly completely true. I have so many insecurities about myself. I’ve always believed I’m not good enough for anything. She’s obviously interested. She obviously likes me. Yet I’m so wrapped up in my thought that I can’t get out of the hole I’ve been in for years. I can’t even look at myself in pictures it’s that bad. I don’t know what to do. I honestly feel like I’m so mentally ill, but medicine isn’t an option, because I’m just so against it. I hate myself
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:12 AM
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The problem is mostly my mental state. I don’t have friends. I am constantly overthinking everything. I did start going to the gym. The problem with having hobbies, and friends is the fact that I don’t fuck with anybody. I feel like I just hate being around people all the time. I’m so depressed that I’m tied 90% of the time that I’m awake. I’ll take multiple naps in a day because I just can’t function without it.
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:59 AM
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Well I mean, I’ve been with 8 people women in my life. I am actually extremely smooth when I first meet a girl/ before I have feelings for a girl. It’s as soon as we develop a connection, I literally become Pepe le pew. I just don’t know if this is a bad thing or not
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:22 PM
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That’s not true. I’ve had sex with girls after meeting them 30 minutes before. There is no “average” amount of time. All it is is making sure they know that you are a good guy and while yes, you may want in her pants, that you also have the intent on making sure she’s having fun too
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:03 AM
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You probably go in for the kiss way to fast and make them feel uncomfortable. Are you talking with them for a bit at your place? Are you offering them a drink? Are you showing them your place and cool stuff? Are you making sure she feels comfortable?
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:05 AM
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???? You are married dude…. Leave her ass on read
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:53 PM
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I just don’t know what to do with all my free time. Cooking and the gym takes up only a small portion of what I played Xbox per day. I’ve watched a few movies as well.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:08 PM
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Smalle update: it’s day three, felt a little anxious and bored the last few days. I have gone to the gym every day so far. It sucks though because that usually takes me less then a hour(want to go up in time spent there, but I’m so weak that I’m literally gassed after 10 min, so I’m working towards it). I have eaten for every meal and feel more hungry so far. It’s been pretty easy, but still feel like the worst is to come
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:03 PM
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Smalle update: it’s day three, felt a little anxious and bored the last few days. I have gone to the gym every day so far. It sucks though because that usually takes me less then a hour(want to go up in time spent there, but I’m so weak that I’m literally gassed after 10 min, so I’m working towards it). I have eaten for every meal and feel more hungry so far. It’s been pretty easy, but still feel like the worst is to come
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:03 PM
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I’m doing this more for myself then for girls. Yeah, with bigger muscles, more girls will come and I’m excited for that. I’m doing this because I want to though, I’ve always hated the way I’ve looked. I hate being the skinniest guy everywhere I go
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:16 AM
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To please you
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:31 AM
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Tbh, I don’t care so much for money. I only want to improve my own health. Im currently in college and will soon have a bachelors degree. Hopefully I can get a job that does pay well, but I’m not a materialistic person whatsoever
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:55 PM
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Regardless, I’m not doing this only for women. I’m doing this for myself. I want to be bigger and stronger, because that’s what I want. I’ve always been the smallest guy in my entire family, it makes me feel like shit.
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:35 PM
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I think my social skills are honestly good, it’s the fact that I never use them because I’d rather be in my room by myself 24/7. I also want to work out now. I don’t want to give up video games forever, just until I can establish healthy habits, such as eating every meal, working out, reading, etc….
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:42 AM
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Of course. Yeah I’m never disrespectful in any way. I hate rude people. The girl I’ve been sleeping with recently told me she liked me because I was quite and nice
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:35 AM
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Huh? I haven’t even had that much pussy. I’ve had sex with 6 girls in my life. 1 of which I actually truly loved and I lost her because I was to immature and well…. Addicted to video games. I won’t let that happen again
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:05 AM
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He wouldn’t do that. I don’t plan on quitting forever. I just don’t want it to be the main part of my life anymore. I got rid of it for now so I can establish healthy routines. Like eating properly every meal. Working out. Reading. Then once I can go a month straight of the gym, I’ll add the Xbox back into my life
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:04 AM
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I wish it didn’t have to be this way. I love video games. LOVE THEM. I believe they are the cheapest form of constant entertainment. I’ve beaten hundreds of games 100% to completion. I’ve been top 500 in overwatch for years now. I wish I didn’t have to give them up completely, and could just cut back. It’s not possible for me though. It’s either all the time, or none at all
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:35 AM
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Been going to therapy for a while. Today is actually my 22nd birthday. I’m making a big change in my life today. I’m taking my Xbox to my dads for at least a month. I’m going to start working out and cooking/eating daily.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:12 PM
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Yeah I understand that, but as soon as I get a “no, I don’t want to” I completely stop
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:00 PM
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I don’t disregard how they feel in any way. I’m curious why you think my post says I do that, and I’ll explain a little more
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:52 PM
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?
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:21 PM
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How exactly do I do that. I don’t know where to begin
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:10 AM
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Yeah, I feel like that’s definitely what I need to do. I can’t keep playing video games every day, not doing anything productive. I’m okay so much, that I’ll even skip meals just to play Xbox. Never gone to the gym consistently. Never hit anybody up to do anything. I just feel so alone. Lots of family trauma behind it
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:50 AM
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True. I just sent it. Fuck it bro. If they say yes, we’ll have a good time then I’ll just say “so I have a ton of Arnold palmers that need to be drank at my house. My roommates are probably home now too, if you want to come hangout”
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:40 PM
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No I understand that, I just feel bad because if it’s two girls I bet they both want their own guy to talk to. Would it be weird if I just said “let’s meet at (bar) for drinks?” I guess I am a little scared to go by myself. Not because I think I’ve wouldn’t be able to handle two girls. I just feel like if I say “let’s do this” and then they showed up and it was just me they might feel awkward expecting I would bring another friend
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:28 PM
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I don’t like the “cool” and “popular” guys. They weird imo
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:22 PM
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I mean yeah, I just struggle making guy friends. It’s mostly due to trauma from old high school friends. Still, I just think majority of guys are so fucking whack lmao. P.S would it be weird if I asked the two girls to just do something with me? I feel like that’s just a no go.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:16 PM
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I see what you are saying, but I feel like asking for attention on social media isn’t as bad as it sounds. For example, I knew a girl who was cute af. She didn’t have a single social media to her name, does she sound like a genuine person? Well she tried to fuck me multiple times while still with her boyfriend at the time. She is honestly a total hoe without the media personality. So why isn’t it possible for there to be loyal girls who do have that kind of social media presence
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:29 PM
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First: by “talking” I mean we’ve been going out. We met at a party and had sex that night. Since then we’ve gone out on several dates and she has always came back to my place for the nasty. She even sleeps over half the time. Second: I know it is about me because it was more specific then what I said in the OP. It was clearly about me. Third: feelings are a pretty important thing in my eyes lol.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:26 PM
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Okay, I don’t think I can get another girl on the fly, only because I’m just not the greatest when it comes to putting myself out there(I struggle with depression and anxiety) I definitely do have the mindset that there are billions of other girls though and being young, I’m not going to get to hung up on one
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:00 PM
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True, yeah I think I was a little too needy with my ex which was one of the issues that I think led to her breaking up with me. I’m trying to get better at it. Like last time we hung out she took me out for a picnic on Friday. Since then we have only really texted a few times a day. Yesterday she texted me asking how my day was, we chit chatted for a sec, then I just said if she was free Friday we should plan on doing something. She agreed but because of my past relationships I feel like I still…
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:54 PM
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Genuine question: I have been dating this girl for a few weeks now. She’s super big on social media(100k followers plus). I have basically set up every date we have hung out. We have had sex multiple times, and I’m genuinely just a nice person to her. Am I basically simping since I get real cute with her(aka: cuddling, kissing noses, etc) I don’t text her all day everyday, but I feel like I almost border on being a simp without actually being one
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:48 PM
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Yeah, that’s one thing I’m kinda worried about. I’m definitely more of a relationship kind of guy, but idk if she is a person I could trust to be loyal. I haven’t necessarily seen red flags telling me she isn’t that kind of girl, but at the same time, no girl I’ve ever been with has had this level of popularity
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I’ll let it go for now since it’s early and we’ve only been on 5 dates. I don’t think I’ll worry to much about it unless she says something specifically mentioning me, or bad mouthing me.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:53 AM
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Maybe I should clarify, we are doing more then just “talking” we’ve gone on several dates and fooled around multiple times.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:51 AM
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We’ve already gone on several dates before she posted this. We’ve had sex multiple times and i think we both really enjoy each other’s company
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah I get that. I’m not huge into social media, so I don’t really get it that much. Though I think she doesn’t mean majority of the shit she posts on there. She did tell me that “the best way to gain followers and likes, is by posting relatable content.” So I think she just picks stuff from her life others could relate to. I don’t think it means all that much. Though it does worry me that she might also just be super attention seeking and wouldn’t be relationship material Definitely a red flag,…
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:47 AM
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It was definitely about me. It was more specific then what I wrote in the OP. The comments were actually mostly stuff like “I had a guy like this once, and it was great” or “all green flags” in which she replied “it’s a first for me”
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:44 AM
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I think I’m just going to stay silent for a while. I’m not going to worry about it until she’s actually my girlfriend. I think if I brought it up at this time she’d just think I was stalking her or a jealous. If we continue dating and start to get serious, I’ll have a convo about what she posts on social media
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:41 AM
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I have been “dating” her though. We’ve gone out several times and had sex multiple times.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:34 AM
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True, she texted me tonight asking how I was. We chit chatted for a bit and I told her we should do something Friday and she said she’s down. I’m going to make sure to giver her space. That’s one issue I had with my ex. I always wanted to hangout with her
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:02 AM
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It definitely was about me, it was way to specific not to be.
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:07 AM
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She wasn’t really blasting a “potential relationship” though. I honestly kind of thought it was flattering. Obviously if we continue dating and she keeps posting about me, I’ll talk with her about it. I think I’m just going to stay silent for now thought
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:11 AM
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Lmao, I think you are looking way to deeply into this. She’s not even my gf yet so why should I be worried about it. You sound insecure
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:54 AM
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I think it’s so funny that people say this. As of being a Reddit guy is any better
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:49 AM
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True, but I still really like her lol
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:47 AM
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So what should I think about that
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:42 AM
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Sure lol
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:42 AM
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Yeah, I mean I’m too much of a pussy to act on them though. It’s why I’ve struggled with girls a lot in my life
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:24 AM
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Yeah cause me being a Reddit isn’t a red flag in and of itself
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:21 AM
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It’s hard for me not to get oneistis lol. I don’t really have many “options” I for sure can pull when I get the opportunity, but they just don’t come as often as other people
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:03 AM
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It was too specific for that
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:56 AM
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What would be qualified as consistent? Should I be asking how her day was every day?
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:35 AM
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For sure, I need to not read into it. I need to have self control and honestly probably just not look at her TikTok at all. She posted another clip of her kissing a guy on the cheek claiming she’s always a “flirt at the party.” I got a little jealous for a sec, then I had to remind myself that she isn’t my gf yet, so I can’t be mad at all. Plus I think it was a old clip. I need to just relax
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:30 AM
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Yeah, that’s kinda my plan is to just carry on as is. Actually I was thinking about pulling back a little bit tbh. Just stop texting her daily is what I mean. I’ll still invite her to hangout, I think I’m just not going to text her daily and see what happens
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:24 AM
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True, lol. Which usually I wouldn’t be into that. Every single time we have hung out though, she won’t even look at her phone at all. Sometimes for 8 hours straight she won’t even check it. So while yeah I think she’s a little obsessed, she obviously likes me more then it
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:21 AM
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It was more specific then what I said. It was clearly about me.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:14 AM
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Yeah, I wasnt going to say anything about it. I just feel weird about it. Like she said all these good things about me; thoughtful, funny, good listener, which is great. Yet I feel like these are all bad things if I want to keep her attracted to me.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:10 AM
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Why do I feel like what she said about me is a bad thing? She called me “thoughtful, sweet, good listener, funny” yet I feel like all those things, while good, are not good if I want to keep seeing her.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:05 AM
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Yet we have fucked every time we have hung out? With her initiating 50% of the time. Hell we literally met at a party and fucked that night
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:30 PM
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Isn’t that the same thing I’m doing right now though? Lmao
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:28 PM
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If you have any guess, don’t say anything please lmao
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:18 PM
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Yep
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:49 PM
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Lol we are in our 20’s
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:59 PM
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I promise it’s about me. The post was a little more specific then what I said.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:51 PM
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Yeah, that’s kinda how I felt. Still it was surprising
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:18 PM
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I wasn’t planning on saying anything, but how would you feel if you saw that?
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:14 PM
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Your right. Yeah I need to stop with the porn. It really fucks me up. Been addicted to it since I was 12 years old
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:14 AM
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Yea. I kinda get scared that if I don’t I’ll cum way to fast. There was a time in my life where I didn’t masturbate, and it was when I with my ex. I kinda came quickly a lot and felt like I didn’t please her as I should’ve. It wasn’t just that I came fast, there was a lot of other issues to I had throughout the relationship, but still
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:05 AM
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Sounds like she was waiting for you to kiss her
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:53 PM
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You’re right and I know it. I need to just chill
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:00 AM
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True, true. Yeah, whenever I catch feelings for a girl, I kinda feel like I push to the boyfriend, girlfriend stage a little to quickly. I’m just a romantic at heart, so it’s hard for me not to want to treat them like my queen, but I understand that it can seem like I’m too needy when it’s early on
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:48 PM
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I think she did, I’m really weird when it comes to that shot though. I’ve always been a person that puts in the energy I get back. So I feel like now that I’ve sent a good morning text, I have to wait till she sends one back before I can do it again. I wish I wasn’t like that and just did whatever felt good for ME.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:41 PM
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Oh yeah, we’ve kissed lol. I met her at a party and we fucked that night. We also had sex again after our first date. We didn’t have sex the last time we hung out, but only because she was on her period. I sent a good morning text today and now I feel like I shouldn’t have done that. I think after we hang out tomorrow, I’ll just say “hey I got a busy week coming up, let’s plan on doing something next weekend” then I probably won’t text her for a few days and see what happens.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:34 PM
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Yeah, tomorrow if we end up having our picnic I’m just going to say “so I have a super busy schedule next week, let’s plan on hanging out next weekend” Side note: I sent her a good morning text today, we texted for a while, but I feel like a fool now and just get the feeling that it’s beta shit.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:32 PM
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Yeah, I tend to be able to attract a girl every night. Getting poi’s and such. I don’t always act on them, but yes if I tried every night at the bar I’m sure I could find a girl to go home with. Tbh, I personally would rather have a relationship though. I’m such a softie lmao
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:28 PM
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Relationships are harder for me. I can go out and hook up with girls every day of the week, but as soon as it comes to catching feelings for a girl, I go full simp mode and push them away. I’m a romantic at heart so it’s hard for me once I have those feelings
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:27 PM
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Yeah, I feel like I kinda messed up on that. If we do hangout tomorrow it will be the second time this week. Third time in eight days. It should be easier this next week though because I have a super busy schedule. So tomorrow I was just planning on telling her “hey so I have a super busy schedule this next week, so we should plan on doing something next weekend” I feel like one of the main problems though is that, it’s not that I invite girls out because I’m afraid if they don’t they will forge…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:10 PM
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Oh yeah, we fucked the first time we met at a party.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah, I’ve been going on dates with this girl for a few weeks now. We are supposed to go on a picnic tomorrow, I really like her. I just don’t want to come off too needy or anything. She seems to not mind so far but yeah, idk
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:48 PM
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I don’t know, I guess I was looking for advice on how to be less of a simp. It’s just in me though, like I said, I’m just such a romantic at heart
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:41 PM
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I am currently in college, but it’s a commuter school and very hard to make friends in. I’ve made a few acquaintances, but after the semester ends, we usually never talk again.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:53 PM
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I am currently in college, but it’s a commuter school and very hard to make friends in. I’ve made a few acquaintances, but after the semester ends, we usually never talk again
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:55 PM
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For example, my roommate, who I’ve known since elementary. He’s been a good friend and we used to hangout in the same group of people a lot. That group kind of disowned me as a friend specifically for trying to ask that we do better in our lives(less drugs, more education, etc). Anyways I’ve gotten over that mostly, but it still traumatized me from getting close to most people for a long time. My roommate though still says these people are some of his best friends, but he’s always talking shit b…
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:21 PM
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For example, my roommate, who I’ve known since elementary. He’s been a good friend and we used to hangout in the same group of people a lot. That group kind of disowned me as a friend specifically for trying to ask that we do better in our lives(less drugs, more education, etc). Anyways I’ve gotten over that mostly, but it still traumatized me from getting close to most people for a long time. My roommate though still says these people are some of his best friends, but he’s always talking shit b…
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I wish I would hit up more people, because I know it would easily change my life. My biggest problem is that most people just annoy me. Imo, most people are just fake af, and really dumb. I don’t like dumb people and I just can’t be around most people often
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:34 PM
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I invited her to walk my dogs with me today (: she said she’d love too haha The hanging out with people is somewhat a personal choice, but also a lack of social skills as well. I just don’t get invited many places tbh. I mean like I said, I rarely ever get a text from anybody, at the same time, I also never text anyone
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:18 PM
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Well maybe you aren’t confident enough? From my post, it makes it sound like I didn’t have to do anything to get this girl, which isn’t really true. She came over and sat down in the couch by me, and was talking to her friends on the other side of the couch about astrology and what not. I actually had to interject into their conversation to get the conversation going between me and the girl. She told me later on that, that was actually her plan in hopes that I would talk to her. So I actually di…
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:36 PM
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What’s been removed haha? What upset you about my post?
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:32 PM
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Are you sad by my post?
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:14 PM
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LMAO. I’m not going to do all that bud. I’m not a mind reader. I’m just a guy who likes a girl.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:09 PM
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So you think the walking dogs is a good idea?
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:58 PM
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I mean, she likes going for canyon drives and she’s super into the gym and crystals and astrology and shit. I don’t think anyone doesn’t like walking dogs?
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:43 AM
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Simple, yet good advice. I want to try and be more fun, and less clingy this time around. I just want to have a good time with her, and by doing that, she’ll want to have a good time with me
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:41 AM
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Everything you said is very true. I don’t know enough about her to say that she is a “hoe” yet per say. She does know a lot of people, and a lot of guys know her which kind of scares me, but I’m not going to get to worked up on it yet. I mean, I just figure why should I worry if she is a hoe, if I’m not dating her yet. I don’t want to make the same mistake I have in the past and rush into it. I’m going to try my best to slow it down
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah, that’s what I plan on doing. My Ex broke my heart, and looking back on it, I think it was for two main reasons. I was to clingy I was too boring I’m planning on trying to make this relationship a lot more interesting. I was going to invite her to walk my dogs with me sometime this week. I want to actually do stuff with her. Not all the time, but with my ex, if she didn’t initiate, we would usually never do anything
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:10 AM
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True, she seems really interested in me still. She was texting me today about how we should go on a canyon drive sometime, and she wants to take me to her fav coffee shop because she thought I’d like it. So next time, I’m going to eat the punany
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:01 AM
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I don’t ever really focus on my own orgasms anyways. In fact, I actually normally don’t even cum when I have sex. Still, I do need to get a little better at eating pussy. Though, I’d say I’m definitely not bad at it. I’ve never had a problem finding the clit haha
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:57 AM
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Wdym?
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:43 PM
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The part where you say “the friends that you do have, are rock solid” isn’t necessarily true. I don’t have anybody I truly consider a close friend
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:50 PM
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Lol okay
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:21 PM
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I see what you are saying, it’s not like I’m trying to make it seem like I have more friends then I have. My problem is that I have absolutely no friends at all.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:03 PM
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For sure, I honestly wish I was better at that though.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:42 PM
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Me too tbh. I know I’ve only known her a little over a week, but I haven’t felt a connection like this since I was 19.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:38 PM
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I wouldn’t even say I’m that good looking. I’d probably objectively rate myself as a 7. I think I have the potential to be a 8 or 9 if I worked out consistently, but rn I think it’s honestly just the fact that I’m a genuine person
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:34 PM
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Thing is, I enjoy playing Xbox by myself. I like being alone, not worrying about the world. It’s just how I live my life. I’ve always been a loner. I grew up in a household that never socialized me with anybody. I never had a single friend till I was in middle school. It was hard for a long time, but I have gotten significantly better at socializing, regardless, I still just like to be by myself a lot of the time
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah, what’s funny is I even have a overwatch poster in my own room. I’m absolutely a nerd. She even said “so are you a nerd” I just answered “yes I’m absolutely a nerd, I love Star Wars and everything marvel and could right 100s of pages of my opinions on it” and she just laughed
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:11 PM
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True, so far I think I’ve done pretty good. The only reason I started stressing was because I was talking to my roomates about it, and they were saying “oh yeah, (name) knows everybody.” I started stressing because I realized that I know nobody and that when she realizes that “yeah he seems confident, but he doesn’t have any friends” and then she’ll see it as a red flag
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:09 PM
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True, I think I can fuck good. I need to be better though. I feel like our first two time haven’t been my best, I usually get better as time goes on with each girl though. My last fwb said she was sad when we decided to stop seeing each other, not because she had feelings for me, but because she thought it would be hard to find another guy who could fuck her like I did. My biggest issue when it comes to sex is stamina tbh. I can last a long time when it comes to not ejacualating, but I get so ti…
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah, she said she thought I was cute and that she was attracted to me, because I was the “quite one in the room” which tbh has honestly kind of worked for me. It doesn’t always work, but does sometimes
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:08 PM
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I guess, but I’m worried she’ll get bored with me. It’s not like I have friends I can introduce her too, or parties that I can invite her too.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:07 PM
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I went on a date last night with a girl who has a huge following on tik tok, insta, etc. she’s huge into it, and posts we’ll the time. I told her I don’t have a insta, and I think she liked it. I mean I did end up tapping. It just depends on the girl
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:10 PM
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Okay troll
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:39 PM
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Thankfully, I’ve been able to have sex and a few girls interested in me, otherwise I’d probably be killing myself over my ex. Still it’s hard
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:29 PM
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No…. It isn’t. Mine is 6 inches, so a little above average and every girl I’ve been with has always wanted more
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:37 PM
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Huh? Wtf is a typical Russian dick? Just send her a dick pic, who cares? Tbh, I think size doesn’t really matter much unless you are under 5 inches. Otherwise I think the only thing that matters is, is your dick aesthetically pleasing to look at.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:05 PM
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5.5 inches isn’t small? That’s about average
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:39 PM
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I do get results tbh. I struggle with getting dates sometimes, because I struggle getting confidence to ask girls out. What’s crazy though is that every first date I’ve had in the last three years, the girl always ended up back at my place
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:13 AM
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It’s not always a week though, sometimes it’s months at a time. My point is that I just can only ever focus my energy into one girl.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:22 PM
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Don’t take that advice OP. While I wish you could, if you do, you’ll end up in prison and she wont
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:10 PM
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I like fucking women as much as the next guy. I’ve gotten much better at seducing women as well over the past few years. I was a virgin till I was 19, now I’m about to turn 22 and have a body count of 7, with two gfs included in that mix. Regardless, my end goal will always be to find my one true love.
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:50 PM
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The whole entanglements thing happened way after Will and Margot have been seeing each other. Plus why can’t you understand that HE LOVES HER. That’s literally the only thing that matters. He loves this woman and stood up to defend her. That’s what a real man does
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:03 PM
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Well they are in a open marriage? You don’t think Will Smith hasn’t been dicking down Margot Robbie for years? Lmao
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:00 PM
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It was his wife? If you don’t simp for your wife, that’s actually pretty sad. When I finally find and marry the girl of my dreams, your damn right ima simp for her. Maybe that’s just me though
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:53 PM
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I think definitely reason the room is great advice. The only time I ever ask for permission is when it’s the first time I’m having sex with a girl. I usually just ask “is it okay if I take this clothing off?” I do this to gauge how far they want to go.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:30 PM
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I was thinking about inviting my roommate and his girlfriend out with us on Friday and getting dinner and bowling to maybe increase the fun we have. What do you think about that?
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:51 PM
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Okay any advice for future ones. I’m low key kinda stressing about this girl only because I thought we had a real connection. I won’t develop oneistis as I’m also planning on asking out this girl tomorrow in my night class, I just hope this one goes well
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:30 PM
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I was just going to wait until Friday morning(around 9am, I’ll be at work) and say “hey we still on for tonight?” Then I’ll just specify a time and place and ask if she wants to meet there or I could pick her up. Also, she didn’t say 4 or 5 works for her, she said that she’s usually free after 4 or 5 You’re right I didn’t specify a time, but I did say “dinner” which I feel like kinda implies that it would be around 7, no?
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:09 AM
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Lmao, it was a joke. It could mean she loves you, or it could mean absolutely nothing. Don’t look to deep into one comment that is so ambiguous
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:17 AM
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I was just worried, because I think this girl is super cool. I’m more of a romantic tbh. I like fwb’s and have one currently, but I’m always looking for a girl that I can have a real relationship with. This is a girl I could see myself dating. Yeah, I get your points though, they are all true. Lol now I’m stressing that I fucked up by not setting a plan in motion first and not texting her Wednesday instead. It is what it is though.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:34 AM
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We didn’t plan any location yet, but I was just going to text her that day saying “hey we still on for tonight?” Wait for her response, and by then I’ll have my plan of where to go and say “okay, let’s plan 6:30 at (insert place), I can pick you up or meet you there, what would you like? Yeah I was just scared because we met Saturday but my next free day is this Friday. I felt like I had to text her otherwise she’d just think i wasn’t interested, or only wanted sex. I really hope she doesn’t can…
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:22 AM
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Noted, yeah I didn’t want to plan that far ahead, but at the same time, I feel like I had to text her while the iron was still hot. I’m just busy the rest of this week. We clicked really well I thought, so I hope she had the same idea and planning it on Friday was good
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:31 AM
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So I shouldn’t text or talk to her at all till Friday? That’s what my plan was just making sure it’s solid
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:17 AM
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You really think? Even the texting part? I feel like I’m not doing it right if I’m not texting/talking every day. At the same time, I hate the texting everyday. If it was my girlfriend, I wouldn’t mind. This girl isn’t though, so I’d rather just never text and meet in person
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:42 AM
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I don’t know how to do that through texting though. I prefaced her before she left, and told her, “just so you know, I’m really bad at texting.” When should I hit her up? Is it okay to just wait and till I’m going to have a free day then ask if she wants to do something that day?
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:11 PM
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I haven’t been on many dates, but the ones I’ve had, and asked them to come back to my place have had a 100 percent
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:43 AM
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Or you might just be a pedo?
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:54 AM
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Idk bro, that sounds kinda gay
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:45 PM
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Yes you are wrong
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:32 PM
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Nothing he said at all was gay? You sound like you got something to hide 🤔
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:21 PM
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He doesn’t need a background statement? You’re way to obsessed with women and that will be your downfall.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:18 PM
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Don’t pay attention to him, he’s a troll
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:47 AM
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Where in this comment are you helpful at all? Get the fuck off this sub you negative troll. Nobody likes you.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:41 AM
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Should I ask her to do something right then? Or should I get her number and set something up? We usually get out of class at like 6:30-7 and she has told me that she goes to the gym after class
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:00 AM
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I know you don’t have to have muscles to get girls. I’ve had girls in my life, but only a couple that I actually found super attractive. The problem isn’t being skinny, the problem is that I’m not confident with being skinny. I don’t want to be a beef head, I just want to not look anorexic(I’m 120 lbs, 5’9 at 21) Also, one more thing, I want to be strong so that I can at least fight in some situations. I had a chance to get with a straight up 10 of a girl. Petite, blonde, beautiful face, tight b…
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:30 PM
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That could be said for my video games, and weed. It doesn’t apply to the one that affects me the most though, and that’s my weight. Being skinny all my life has been so hard, it affects my confidence more then any other thing.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:59 PM
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The difference may be because you are honestly happy with those vices. I…. Am not. I want to do these things for myself, nobody else
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:31 PM
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I’m 21 and absolutely need to get in the gym. I’m not bad looking(i get compared to Timothy Chalamet a lot). I get some attention from girls which can boost my ego, but I feel like the main reason I struggle with girls is because im not happy with myself. I hate being skinny. I hate that I play video games to much. I hate that im addicted to weed, nicotine, and masturbation. If I was to correct these things, I would be so much happier, and the girls would come with it.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:24 PM
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Agree. Like I’m not the 6’ tall chiseled man I wish I was. At the same time though, I don’t think I’m ugly whatsoever. Literally almost every time I go out to the bar, I get somebody telling me “you look exactly like Timothy chalamet.” That man gets girls, so it can’t be the way I look. I just realized I have no medium between talking about the weather, or talking about space exploration lol. Like I don’t know what to talk about, how to ask questions, or how to talk in general
/r/seduction22/03/22 04:23 PM
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I don’t know what questions to ask
/r/seduction22/03/22 04:01 PM
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When I say I “go to deep” I mainly mean that I start talking about the universe, or history, like weird shit. I understand the idea of people like to talk about themselves. It’s almost like deep down inside me though, I honestly don’t give a fuck what anyone else has to say. At the end of the day, I’m always right.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:45 AM
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The thing is, I don’t feel weird in the moment. It just feels natural. As soon as I sit down and think about it though, I realize how weird I was.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:38 AM
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Concealed carry is what I’d recommend. It’s not always going to be a 1 on 1
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:24 PM
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This sounds like major depressive/anxiety symptoms. I get the thought that she might want a better guy. By the time you are taking a girl home though, you should never give that energy off. You are the man. That’s what you need to think. This girl is coming with me because I’m just a player and she wants this dick.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:35 PM
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That’s just a stupid opinion
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:47 PM
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I don’t think someone willing to kill someone else over a approach is the best person to fight with
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:37 PM
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Question, do you think it’s the porn, or the masturbation that causes depressive thoughts. Also I feel like I don’t want to give up porn, I just don’t want to be doing it daily. Have you been able to find a good medium?
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:28 PM
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I don’t even know about that anymore . I personally deleted Instagram, FB, never even downloaded tik tok and I’m 21. Much of the trends today seem to agree that social media is trash and living in the real world is better
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:38 PM
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I wouldn’t be mad at your wingmen. From what I’m reading, it isn’t on purpose or them trying to fuck you over. They just don’t have the confidence or social skills. Once they see a opportunity to say something after you present it, they jump in because they don’t want to look like a total loser. I’ve definitely been there before.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:40 PM
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Im recently trying to break all of my bad habits right now. I’m three days sober off of masturbation and weed. Next, I’ll kick the nicotine.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:34 PM
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Nobody is supporting the meta verse. There is a reason Facebooks stock has dropped like a body being disposed by the mafia
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:59 AM
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I used to have like 700 followers. Was getting over a 100 likes per post, but my account got banned. Once I realized that you have to actually work to gain followers after high school, I gave up and just deleted it
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:39 AM
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Or even better, no Instagram at all. Builds more intrigue in her. Now she can’t spy and see if his Instagram is “good” or not. She’ll have to discover his actual real life.
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:19 AM
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The problem is that it’ll only help if you have an actual “online presence.” If you don’t have over 700 followers, then it doesn’t matter at all to girls. I’ve actually met a lot of girls who have said they won’t date a guy who has more followers then they do. It also makes you more mysterious if you don’t have social media. It works both ways, but unless you are actually willing to put in the work to gain 1000s of followers, then it won’t do jack shit for you with girls
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:37 AM
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Not true at all. I’m 21 and deleted Instagram long ago. I may not pull tons of girls but I’ve had multiple girls since deleting Instagram. Hell this one girl who was drop dead gorgeous didn’t have any social media platform other then Snapchat because she hated it just as much as me. She was also kinda obsessed with me at a point and even tried to cheat on her boyfriend with me, though I declined her advances
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:08 AM
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I’m done being on social media. It hurts me emotionally. Like I said I’m not photogenic whatsoever. I’m 21 right now but kinda never understood texting or social media really. I like looking at it, but just don’t post or do much. It’s kind of why I’m a loner lol. I never text anybody and people never text me. I used to get so worked up about not having enough followers and what not. Since I’ve deleted Instagram and Facebook I’ve felt better about myself. Not much, but a little bit helps. I still…
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:00 AM
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That’s the problem though. You can’t do that. To have a presence on social media you have to at the very least post monthly. If you don’t care about likes or anything go for it. If you hop on to post yearly though, you will never have a following. That’s where you have to decide yourself. I decided that I’m not going to post frequently and because of this I’d rather just delete the social media
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:52 PM
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I’m not the OP haha. I’m 21 and never been out of country
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:32 PM
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Some people aren’t meant for social media. I myself am extremely not photogenic. I also rarely ever posted, like maybe once a year if that. Go live in the real world.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:30 PM
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Just delete Instagram. If a girl cares more about your Instagram then your real self, she’s just a fake bitch
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:32 PM
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That’s up to you. I’ve found I have actually more confidence when I’m alone, but it depends on the person
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:09 PM
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If I was you, just delete Instagram. I deleted my Instagram, and Facebook. It’s immensely helped my confidence. I used to worry tons that I wasn’t getting enough likes, etc. who cares though. Fuck social media. That especially goes for Instagram and Facebook though
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:25 PM
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Is that true? I’ve always imagined that even though Americans get a lot of hate, the reality is that every country kinda loves us. If you go to another country and say you are an American and you’re at least a decent looking guy you’ll get attention
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:20 PM
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Stop giving scripts, they don’t work. It should be a natural conversation. Sometimes just saying “hey” is the best way
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:00 AM
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I mean it is the only bathroom in the place. I wouldn’t suggest fucking in other peoples bathrooms. It’s disrespectful and other people need to use it as well.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:05 AM
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Same tbh. I catch girls often giving me a look at the club, but I can’t ever approach
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:08 PM
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I did meet her on tinder, but I don’t use it anymore because that one meet was a fluke.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:15 AM
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Hey, I was in that boat as well. Ended up having sex at 19 then remained sexless for another two years until I landed a cute gf with literally the body of a model. Ended up fucking up the relationship 6 months in by being a dick, but some people it takes more time
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:53 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:22 AM
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I don’t think my style is bad, it could be better….. if I could afford clothes :/
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:48 PM
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Agree with this point
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:45 PM
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Is it abnormal to think? We are all human
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:04 AM
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It sounds better then it was for me. My dad wanted to act like a player, but really he has no game. He would lie and say he’d slept with hundreds of women even though he’s only slept with maybe 5 or 6. Which there is nothing wrong with that, but then he’d give me horrible advice about how to talk to girls. He’d tell me to use cheesy ass pickup lines and just be a straight up dick to girls. Then when I would do that stuff and it wouldn’t work, I would become so frustrated. It got to a point that …
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:23 PM
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No, you don’t. While growing up I think was constantly called a loser because I didn’t have a girlfriend, I was told to be an asshole. It completely destroyed my perception of love and friendships. I have been depressed since I was in 5th grade and don’t understand even basic social skills. I’ve been told I’d be better as a girl by my own parents because I’m not “good” enough to be a man
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:13 PM
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It’s just so hard for me to meet girls and talk to them normally. Hell I can’t even make guy friends. I never learned any basic social skills as a child. I never hung out with a single person until I was in 7th grade. I never had cousins or brothers. My mom and dad were at the bar getting hammered every night. I basically spent my entire childhood on World of Warcraft because I had nothing else
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:06 PM
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No, that will only feed a bottomless ego of mine, plus with this toxic mentality it actually makes it harder to gain the thing I want
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:55 PM
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She always shows up late, otherwise this would’ve already been my plan
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:13 PM
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She always shows up a few minutes late so not possible
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:09 PM
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I didn’t know how long she would be staying though, tbh I waited for like a good 60 seconds before I decided to bail. I’m not going to just wait to talk to her, that’s just gonna look desperate
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:09 PM
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Who said anything about her being a decent girl, for all I know she could be a pornstar. I find her attractive, that is all
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:33 AM
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It’s not a numbers game to me though. I’m honestly a hopeless romantic, and while that may be uncommon in this subreddit, I myself absolutely want to find the “one” that I can be with forever
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:31 AM
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No one is scared, just didn’t get a opportunity. I’ve had my fair share of girls, I ain’t worried about it
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:28 AM
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I wouldn’t say I’m sexually inexperienced though. Have I been with as many girls as others, no. I was a virgin until I was 19, but that being said in the two years since then I’ve had sex with 8 different girls which imo is honestly a lot. I also never said I’m only looking for girls who have less experience then me. In actuality it’s the opposite, the Better they are at sucking dick, the better ima feel about myself
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:26 AM
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True, but I doubt that’ll happen. I rarely see anyone on campus, but if I do I will take this advice
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:24 AM
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Of course and I thought this earlier today, tomorrow I’m going to the club and going to pick up on other girls. You are right there is always other girls, I’m not obsessed at all, just sad I didn’t get the opportunity tonight when I was feeling myself
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:24 AM
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Sleeping with 10 other men means I don’t have to teach her how to suck dick. That’s a plus. This is some incel shit if I’ve ever heard it
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:21 AM
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For sure, but that doesn’t mean I won’t try. It’s more that you automatically assumed “she’s out fucking other guys right now.” The problem with that assumption is that it’s wrong. Most girls don’t just go around having sex, many are also looking for relationships, or at least 1 fwb that they don’t stray far from. This is especially true where I live. I live in a pretty conservative state, so there is a lot less hooking up here then say, California
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:23 AM
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Nah, I understand a woman wanting to have sex, but 3 guys in two weeks, that is a lot. I have no problem with it, tbh I’m kinda attracted to it. Still, it is a lot and I’m more of a relationship kinda guy
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:58 AM
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All good, just sucks because I was really feeling myself tonight
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:56 AM
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Eh, idk about that. I didn’t know how long she would need to talk to the teacher, and I’m not going to wait on her, I feel like that would just look weird or desperate
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:56 AM
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That’s what I did today, showed up looking fly and with cologne on. I was so ready to talk to her, even if it was just to let her know my name. Sucks that she had to stay after class to talk with the teacher
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:55 AM
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Technically three because we don’t have class for the next two weeks, so I have to wait three for the next class
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:33 AM
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You know a lot of sluts then, even if she does, not my business. I just wanted to talk to her tonight, but didn’t get the opportunity, too bad I guess
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:33 AM
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While this is true, it sucks because it goes both ways. The guys they match with are usually the attractive guys. These guys don’t have to try at all which then in turn makes them turn into assholes most the time because there is always another girl willing to go on a date with them. I’m not a incel by any means, and I think I’m a average looking guy, but I have only had two real dates from online dating and I’m 21. Those two that gave me a chance did turn into girlfriends so you are right about…
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:01 AM
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No, not possible. You are only 17, you aren’t even legal for the vast majority of the people there. You are on vacation with your family. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:12 AM
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Bad advice
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:51 AM
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You have a choice. It’s the only thing you CAN do. She set a boundary and you have to choose wether to accept it or not.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:51 AM
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Actually this kinda sounds a little like me. Sometimes I can talk to girls in very intriguing ways, but a lot of the times I almost always have the belief that the only thing that matters ins my looks. I go into a club hoping that their are girls who just find me attractive enough to make out or what not. I don’t want to be that person. I would not take advantage of a drunk girl, that’s just not who I am. I need to learn to actually talk to them and rely on looks second
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:20 PM
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21, about to be 22
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:06 PM
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That’s true, one time I managed to make out with this girl from my highschool that I always found super attractive a night at the bar. Funny thing was, I stayed relatively quite that whole night
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:04 PM
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This is really good advice too, I feel like when I try to pick up or talk to girls I ask for loads of information at once, and on first dates I can also tend to dump loads of information onto them which I think scares them off
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:24 AM
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I don’t think not being funny is my problem though. I can honestly be pretty funny at times, and I get people to laugh all the time. I’ve had girls laugh and flirt with me before, but it’s almost like I’m always second best. I’m never the first option for any girl I actually really like
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:19 AM
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This might actually be one of the best piece of advice I’ve ever heard in my life. I always come on way to strong, and while it works sometimes, most times its horrible. I need to be more laid back, and just say hey sometimes. I feel like I always start the conversation with a well thought out statement instead of even asking what their name is.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:08 PM
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So then why when I’m the only guy my age willing to go up and ask a girl straight up to go out for drinks and what not without any worry of rejection, I still get rejected every time. Like I said, the rejection itself doesn’t hurt at all, it’s that I don’t know why I get rejected and it messes with my head
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:35 PM
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It matters a lot actually, I see you are 22. So we are in basically the same boy except I’ve had 1 long term gf and that’s it
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:33 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:20 PM
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I’ve done this, I’ve even emulated one of my social butterfly friends to the point that I have been told “omg you and (name) are so much alike” yet they have friends and I dont
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:57 PM
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Well I mean it would make sense. I’ve always been socially retarded. Never had any cousins or brothers from age 1-7 and my parents basically just left me home alone all the time so they could get plastered at the bar every night. I spent my entire childhood in a online video game because I never had any social interaction. I never even hung out with a single person until I was 13. I fear I’m way to far fucked up to ever change the damage that occurred in my early childhood. I never learned how t…
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:29 PM
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Maybe I’m just ugly lmao. I’ve kinda always had a feeling but I try to deny it so much
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:25 PM
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I feel like it might be the opposite for me, I may be to non serious
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:42 AM
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True, and that’s how I feel most of the time. I can say anything with confidence. It’s just what I say are the wrong words, They seem to scare others off
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:00 AM
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It’s trash. I wish I was happier in life. I wish I had motivation. Most importantly, I wish I had friends. Some things aren’t meant to be though
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:18 AM
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I guess you are right, I just don’t know how to talk to people. It’s been that way since I was a kid. My dad used to let me play video games for 8 plus hours a day. I never hung out with a single person until junior high. I feel like I’m so socially damaged sometimes that there is no way I can come back
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:03 AM
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I usually ask them about there week and how it’s been. If the ey got any fun plans and what not and mostly just random stuff like anime or school or what not
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:55 AM
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One of my biggest issues is finding people in general. Like I’d aid I’m basically by myself in this game. It seems like everyone has their group that they stick to while I’ve been by myself since birth. Never got along with either of my parents, and was backstabbed by my only friends in highschool. Been on my own since then. I wish I knew places to meet new people that actually want to meet others as well
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:50 AM
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I do all that stuff, I actually consider myself to be a very funny guy, i make my classes laugh on multiple occasions with jokes and tell jokes and banter a lot. I actually feel like I banter to much since I can be extremely passionate about a lot of things
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:40 AM
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What do you mean by that, I’m curious? I say yes to every opportunity that is presented to me, but they rarely come. I’ve actually never in my life been asked out on a date. Hell it’s been years since I’ve had anyone other then 2 or 3 people have asked me to do anything at all
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:37 AM
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Makes sense, I’ve tried talking to people in my classes to try and get to know them as well, but it never works out. Everyone just ignores me and nothing ever comes of it. I try to be as friendly as possible
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:33 AM
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True, but at work I have no time to talk to anyone in my store. She was doing her job and I was doing mine(which I get timed on) like I said we rarely dare each other and they even got mad at me for the small thirty second convo we had, I just don’t feel like their is any other way
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:28 AM
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Agree, I’ve struggle at gaining sec my whole life. Was a virgin until 19 and stayed sexless after till I was 21. I’m 21 now and have sex with a few other girls but I wish I could get better at it. I still have so much trauma from highschool that sucks my life out of me
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:16 AM
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