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So when talking with these male friends how do the conversations go? What are the averages? Do you carry the conversation or do they carry it? Do they ask the questions of or do you? Do they talk more or do you? Do they start the conversation or do you? Where is your eye contact during conversations? Where is your phone, laptop, etc during conversations? Do you have a neutral, smile, or another look during conversations? Do you have a tick of any sort? Friends almost always lie. Usually in hopes…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 04:36 AM
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I’m glad I could help. If he is hard to read. Him opening up is a great start to learning to understand him. Finding the right way to build him up so he can continue to open up to you is important to encourage. It can be a uphill battle for sure. And you certainly can learn things that may put you off. You also have to ask yourself though would you be better off not knowing? Or are you better off having a partner who loves/trust you so much they can be honest with you. I feel it’s better to be w…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 10:11 PM
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Your feelings are understandable and warranted. I would like to point out the courage he took to bring this up. You mentioned he brought it up out of the blue. You mentioned he felt bad and sad. I think he trusts you so much he needed to get this off his chest. He may feel as you do. He possibly needed a shoulder to rely on. He may want to move past that part of his life that is dragging him down. Lots of men regret having casual sex. Not just women regret it. It is often meaningless and just li…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 05:00 PM
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Do you both actively go to church together? Born again Christian would imply you both actively read the Bible together and go to church functions to get to know one another and each other’s friends/church group?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 01:53 PM
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A broken leg can feel like torture. You aren’t alone. A lot of people who go from being active to forcibly handicapped can get depressed. It is important to not fall in a funk during the healing process. Falling into inactivity and depression can spiral out of control. Take control of the things you can do. Take this time to read 1-2 hours per day. Do not scroll through mind numbing TikTok’s and other social media. Do watch YouTubes about make up tutorials, cooking tutorials, and other informati…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 04:13 AM
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I wish I could say… Go for it, you’ll learn to love him. Your attraction will grow because he is so great. He will be a good father and that is what matters. He can provide for you and make you feel safe. You’ll regret not snatching him when you had the chance. Yeah all those things can and may be true. Yet like another had commented. It is a lot easier then the physical attraction is mutual. If he finds out that you are not physically interested in him he would be devastated. Also can you say y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 02:49 AM
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Everyone goes through should of, would of, could of. As well as the grass is always greener on the other side phases. Don’t ask about exes, specifically if it’ll irk you. He shouldn’t bring up exes as this relationship is between you and him and that is what matters. (Unless there is some kind of relevance.) Also you won?! I am not sure why you should give thought and attention to other women. He married you. He chose you. He probably feels retroactively bad/guilty at something he did or didn’t …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 03:14 PM
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You don’t need to like his hobby. You can be passive. The problem is you mentioned you were negative towards him or may have played a part in making him embarrassed/played a role in making him feel silly/lack confidence in his hobby. Because he is a HVM such as you say. You should want for him to be happy. And if anime makes him a happy guy. Then you should be supportive or at the very least passive and certainly not negative. I’m not playing games. Nor am I attempting to get you. I read your po…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 05:14 AM
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You don’t have to enjoy, like, or participate in a hobby your man enjoys. Not at all. However, you mentioned in other comments how if it wasn’t for him being a HVM you’d already leave him. You also mentioned you have made effort to help him hate his hobby. Or feel bad about liking anime. A lot of women have men who hunt deer and fish. Those women don’t participate. They don’t help, skin, butcher, clean, debone, etc. Because it isn’t their hobby and they dislike it. One thing these women with hun…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 02:42 PM
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I don’t know how to relate to this. If you are being honest. And you are saying he is amazing in every way and has helped you grow as a person. It is super petty and distasteful of you to judge him for enjoying a cartoon. That would be akin to being a horrible boyfriend to a lot of girls who like Disney stuff….. example - one of my coworkers who is a 24 year old female, who loves Disney to death, goes every year and collects the back packs, pop toys, and watches all the movie’s….. if her boyfrie…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 04:39 AM
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It sounds like you are attached to him and quickly at that. There is nothing wrong with this but it may be edging in on his boundaries and he may feel like he is being love bombed if you are so idk?needy?clingy? To be fair though I also get sad when we don’t cuddle in the morning. 5-15 minute cuddle sessions in the AM make the whole day more positive so I can completely understand where your coming from. So really it is about timeline and sounds like you want to move things along in a grownup fa…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 11:20 PM
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You should definitely establish a time line for your wants and goals. As an example now that I know marriage is a goal you should decide when you want that. How long do you need to date etc before you’d want to be a fiancé? How long do you want to be a fiancé before becoming a wife? For example I personally would not date someone longer than a year and still not have a ring nearby. A year is long enough to establish what both of your life goals are. When you want to achieve these goals. And whet…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 06:20 PM
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Sounds like you need a diary entry. You need to start writing down your issues or concerns. My initial thoughts are you two are on different wave lengths. He is a turtle taking his time and you are rabbit on edge. The question is why are you on edge? Do you feel you need to move on to the next step in your relationship? What are you missing that is keeping you from being content? Because it honestly sounds like he is content. So what is your block? What is getting in the way of you yourself bein…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:43 PM
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You aren’t feeling heard. You also don’t know how to maturely express your feelings or needs You need a couples walk 3-5 nights a week. Before or after dinner you need to have a walk with him. no cell phones and no distractions. maybe a fit bit to track your steps. 0.5 mile to 3 mile walk, 3-5 nights a week will do wonders. You’ll learn to open up and express yourself. You’ll learn how to walk in silence and still be happy or content. You’ll have opportunity to discuss concerns in a constructive…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 03:01 PM
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You should have bloodwork down. And be really upfront and request an ultrasound of your ovaries to check for cysts. Especially since you are having such problems!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 03:19 PM
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PCOS, have you gone to the doctor and had blood work done? Certain underlying health conditions can cause slow progress in a weight loss journey. Please go see a doctor for an annual and discuss blood work to be done annually. Also o don’t know how long you’ve been at it…but Weight loss naturally takes a long time. About as long as it took to put on the weight. So please be patient and stay the course. Instagram and TikTok are fake. Any weight loss journey and muscle building journey that didn’t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 07:01 AM
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Exercise, it really can help you get out of most ruts. Physical or psychological. The chemicals from exercise, namely endorphins. They will leave you happier and less stressed. Which in turn makes you more approachable and attractive. So you’ll be hornier or your husband will be, that’s for sure. Edit: encourage your husband to exercise. Reducing his stress level will increase his libido. Also for men regular exercise increases testosterone levels naturally. Which also leads to more libido.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 03:15 PM
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R/niceguys Alert!!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 12:40 PM
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Please list your hobbies. I sincerely doubt there isn’t a club, function, gathering, event, or more involving all your hobbies you may have! Write out a list of your life goals! Make a plan by detailing all of them on paper. Then you can talk about if they are all reasonable expectations to have for a partner. Write out a list of what makes a man compatible for you. And what makes you compatible for a man! You can attract a guy pretty simply. I promise you I’m not being facetious. “You smile and…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 12:45 AM
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Yes looks fade. You can eat healthy, stay fit, and pamper yourself but eventually age is a slow torturing evil force. Which is why you don’t put all your eggs in one basket. If you are an Instagram model and all you do is market your body and face and that’s it. You screwed up. Diversification is your goal!!! You shouldn’t be just looks. You should be the the first person your man looks to when he has a problem he can’t solve. Or a need he has to be fulfilled. This can take many forms and is not…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 11:26 PM
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I agree with both those points. I wish everyone would wait till marriage. Sadly it is rare, uncommon, or virtually unheard of to do so anymore. But it is the healthiest thing. No sti / stds, no risk of pregnancy, no risk of giving yourself away only to be dropped like a hot potato. And yes ideally no birth control ever. I’d say condoms are, if used correctly, are just as effective as the pill. Condoms don’t feel as great but everyone should avoid prescription drugs if you safely can. (No I’m not…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 10:39 PM
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What if someone’s cycle is already regular? As well what if they don’t plan on having sex until they are in a serious relationship. What is the point of being on the pill at that point? If you take one look at r/nofap you can learn that oftentimes masturbation can be a viscous cycle that leads to more urges and if pornography is involved more of that as well. Which porn isn’t healthy for many reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 03:31 AM
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Starting to think about, crave, want sex before you even have a relationship that leads to marriage is a sure fire way to end up like those Tik Tok girls with deadbeat boyfriends. I get the urges, you can do things to avoid urges. Take down all photos of hotness. Unsubscribe to all hotness. And keep your mind stimulated hobbies that will build you. Don’t read romance novels! If you like hard core redpill advice. Nothing is more hard core for a red pill woman than to be chaste and very selective …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 03:25 AM
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Is it disgusting? Yes Is it low class? That is a bit off key considering regardless of wealth and status men from all walks of life are attracted to pretty girls and staring at them. Is it any different than being in the 1980s or 90s and finding hidden playboys under his bed? Not really. It is still wrong. Porn is bad for everyone regardless of sex. It can place unrealistic standards in our head and does not accurately portray real life or real sex, or even real happiness. Should you give him th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 01:27 PM
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Unspoken rules. There is no such thing that is only trouble. Unknown/unspoken really means there is no relationship. I have to be a bit harsh now. If you can’t have a heart to heart and tell him how important this relationship is. And he isn’t into you after all the hard work and effort you’ve put towards being the ideal women for him. And you can’t ask for a promise such as a promise ring. Nor will he offer one himself. I am sorry this is a no go. I am worried for you heart. You need to draw so…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:21 AM
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I am glad he is supportive to you. And I am happy for you for losing that weight. Regardless of what happens please continue to do that as you deserve a healthy body that you can be proud of! Has he been seeing you exclusively since the intimacy started? Has he made solid plans with you on a regular basis to prove you are true friends? Example, anytime he plans something your the first friend to pop into his head to invite? Friendship is a great way to have a strong marriage. It can lead to real…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 02:19 PM
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Sounds like he found Kevin Samuels content. “A woman should not be heavier than a man at the same height.” Idk I’m on the fence. He got you to lose weight. Which is wonderful tbh. You are now at less risk of diabetes, heart diseases, inflammation, etc etc, mental well being is most likely up, etc etc It depends on how he did it. If it was with love, care, consideration, etc maybe that isn’t bad. If it was with an ultimatum then that is no good at all. Idk this is so tuff because if you were insp…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 10:45 PM
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The sex life for two virgins doesn’t start off amazing. It’s rare that sex is pleasurable for both parties right out the gate. While I know you are not a virgin and your partner may not be as well. It is worth while to point out the two of you together are just starting out realistically. It often takes time, consideration, love and communication. With all this it will usually blossom into great sex so long as you’ve left the past behind. If you think about your exes and how they had this or tha…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 05:19 AM
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Impulse control….. Just like you shouldn’t sleep with anyone on a whim. You also shouldn’t accuse yourself of being low value or telling yourself you won’t be able to obtain a good husband on a whim. Firstly get rid of the negativity. We need to focus our energies on what we can change and prepare for. You are a person and you still matter at the end of the day. You need to first dig deep into why you chose to have a lack of control over who you slept with. Dig deep and fix that impulse and cont…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 05:06 AM
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It all depends on how he acts in person. I don’t think you can or should judge someone based on how they text. How does he act during the date? Talks with you? Asks you questions? Responds to your questions? Shows genuine interest? Looks at you more than his phone? That is what you should base your communication concerns over. You shouldn’t assume anything. I’m not sure what is or isn’t official supposed to mean. Dating is pretty simple y’all make it more complicated than it needs to be. Either …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 11:12 PM
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I am glad college is going well with you. I hope you are planning ahead to find other support groups/functions for yourself once college is done. Such as the ones I mentioned. If you aren’t going to Christian meetings every Sunday and event/functions already. That should be your main focus to keep yourself busy and around the environment you seem to be succeeding in. And I never meant to poo poo college itself. I am actually quite for it. Having rent and food on the table is top priority in my b…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 08:19 PM
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I guess I don’t understand the point of college debt with degrees that don’t pay the bills. If you were in college studying something in STEM and surrounded by tons of men who will go on to be successful in their careers. Yeah that is a great way to find a High Value man for sure. Lots of different stem fields at college have Christian clubs so that’s good to join. You can study the Bible on your own. For free You can rent a enormous amount of books from the library on theology and philosophy. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 03:57 PM
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You should of liked yourself enough not to agree to an open relationship. If you don’t put your feelings and relationship first you are turning yourself into a door mat for these men. When you enter an open relationship you are an option. A disposable option. These relationships don’t feel good. You’ll often regret it, become jaded, and drop your standards. Again I am sorry for these harsh words but I don’t think you are understanding how important it is to focus your time and energy on a health…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 04:31 PM
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Praise - positive comments when you come home and he has done anything even if it isn’t much. That positivity will hopefully build and he will be self encouraged to do more at home that you can praise him for. Ask him for things he can only do. Tell him what you want and have him do the laborious research. Such as obtaining hiking equipment for your family. A kid carrier to go on trails. Researching where to go for said family outing. Encouraging him and praising him for researching and preparin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 04:04 PM
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If you treat yourself like an option. Then you are one. Guys only see you as what you present yourself as. Dating lots of men - No short or long term exclusive relationship - No monogamy - No mention of homely or mothering skills that benefit a man in a LTR - Allowing men to take you on a roller coaster of emotions and not immediately dropping and blocking them - No mention of what you are genuinely after in a relationship - (marriage? Kids? Working mom? SAHM?) All your choices seem to never ben…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 03:55 PM
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Being at a healthy weight for your height has a bigger impact in your value than any other factor imo. Healthy weight makes the male monkey brain excited because you look fertile, etc Just like how the female gorilla brain gets excited from the strong silverback and they flock to that male. ((Yes my jokes are bad)) Healthy weight with healthy muscle definition is an strong indicator of someone who has mental fortitude, good work ethic, healthy habits, and sign of self care. I’d like to reiterate…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 05:34 PM
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Everyone treats everyone as a back up. It is personal responsibility to block, remove, and be done with them. As you said in your post. So many people do not block, remove, and follow through with it. What happens is men or women continue to follow and check in with their perceived options at random. Some men and women like the orbit attention so much they allow it to happen or performing the orbiting has worked out with a positive reaction and thus continue to do it. If everyone did what you sa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 04:11 PM
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Anything that made you want to wait until now to seek marriage? What would you say are the barriers that kept you from potential marriage in your early to mid 20s? Or perhaps what did you gain experience or relationship wise for you to have better success now in your soon to be thirties?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 05:45 AM
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Establishing a routine can enforce healthy habits. Cooking every meal and sitting down for breakfast and dinner with husband routinely and with no tv or electronic devices to have a regular intimate conversation and connection. You can establish household routines to be prepared for having a child. Going to bed at appropriate times. Having the house ready. Joining a book club at your local life library or online to stay social and have a social life. Find a hobby to increase your social reach. B…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 03:43 PM
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If you aren’t attracted to him physically and emotionally you are doing both parties a disservice. He will be missing out on finding a spouse who loves him for who he is physically. He will be marrying a woman who feels she is settling for second best or a runner up. If he finds out he will be heartbroken and dismayed. No one deserves to be someone’s 2nd bench pick. For yourself, you will always ask yourself what if, is the grass greener, am I missing out? This will come off in how you may act, …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 03:24 PM
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I was looking for this comment. I am also curious how this person made it past three months without a discussion regarding kids. Let alone over a year. Also if they weren’t sure about marriage after 1 year of dating. I don’t understand why they are still together. Seems like a waste of both parties time if no marriage plans aren’t discussed/planned out after a year of dating.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 01:28 AM
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Can you elaborate on how you feel like a man? If you are more masculine. Are there any women you idolize that you can start to copy or model yourself after? Attempt to slowly, and gently work new traits into your own mannerisms to become more feminine, and soft? Something that I always struggle with is being slow and soft in speech. I need to constantly remind myself to not let my words sting like venom. Rather they always be sweet like honey. It makes peoples experience with me positive and the…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 02:17 PM
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Attitude first. The best time to start saving for the future is now. The best time to start investing in yourself is now. The best time to start a workout routine and go to the gym 2-5 times a week to a fun spin class is in fact - Now! You’ll get into the groove of a healthy workout routine which will often help you want to eat clean. Then in 3 - 4 months you’ll be upset that you are only losing say 1lb a week. Then you’ll have to fix that attitude again. That 1 lb a week is already an amazing a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 02:19 AM
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Ideally don’t wait. There are articles I see saying it’s okay to wait to settle down. Focus on your career and marriage and kids will come later. There’ll always be a man available… Then you can go search and find too many articles of women who regret waiting. And how they feel they’ve missed out or put it off too long and all the good ones are taken and where are all the good men left. The best time to find someone is in college. Ideally finding a smart guy who is sharing your struggles of scho…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 02:14 AM
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Words now have more “fluid” definitions than 10+ years ago. So I’ll have to give it in my own words. Feminine to me: beautiful, inspirational, soft, kind, strong feelings for caring, nurturing, taking responsibility for the weak and helpless, all the things which men admire about women. Another way to look at it is being “anti masculine”. You want to avoid conflict. Always looking for ways to resolve or turn a negative into a positive. No man wants to come home from a hard day to the home of a m…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 10:52 PM
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How are your feminine qualities? If you radiate feminine energy. It makes a world of difference for men to feel comfortable or confident in approaching you. It also makes you a attractive as a potential wife to people looking for kids, a wife, and a picket fence. You are probably giving off the wrong signals if you are not getting the attention you seek.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 02:43 AM
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In a couple of the red pill mens Reddit’s. A man will go to those Reddit’s with a similar issue. “Lack of sexual interaction, intimacy, desire, etc” The first thing these reddits do is ask weight height and what do they squat/bench/etc. often times the “OP” will be lacking in all of the above and as is normal with men rib the guy a new one and ask what are you doing to fix these things to make your wife/gf desire you? Why should she desire you if you aren’t putting forth effort to care? While I …
/r/RedPillWives30/03/22 02:10 AM
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HVM is too subjective of a term to say that is what every woman wants or will be happy with. HVM for example based on Kevin Samuels definition is a man who will never settle. This HVM will have a rotation of women and you should simply be happy to be on his rotation. He says you should understand this and be content. His definition though is a man who is worth not just hundreds of thousands but often into the millions. Who is well fit, charismatic, and more. If that is what someone wants that is…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 01:52 PM
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I’m sorry this is insane. Man or woman. You’ve been locked in your house for two years and you don’t jump at the chance to get dolled up and in your Sunday best to go out on the town??? If this pandemic has taught me anything. Its that I need to go out of my way to schedule more Saturday and Sunday events that involve getting the heck out of the house! (I have now done a coffee company tour and a brewery tour. The tickets are 7-15$ and they usually give you glass souvenir cups and 1-2 free drink…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 04:23 PM
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Prenups are pointless. Dr. Dre should know. His wife told the judge, that “prior to her choosing to marriage and say I do” he coerced/forced her to sign it. And they threw the prenup out….. You have kids with him. Prenup is also generally tossed by most judges… I’ve rarely seen or heard of a prenup being upheld without there being a lot of extenuating circumstances or unless your spouse is a top 3% and can buy every one off….. Edit: never mind dr Dre is a top %3 and his was still thrown out. I’m…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 06:12 AM
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Modern day Feminism has said that women should not be judged for their choices of labor and wage earnings. A very large majority of men have with open arms or begrudgingly accepted this as fact. The room mate sounds like he has open armed accepted this. I watched a Leon lush video with my spouse regarding a women with 3 boys and a husband and stating each month from her only fans she makes anywhere from 500$ to 100,000$+. Entirely depending on how much content she produced. ((Is this healthy for…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 11:54 PM
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What is the dollar amount in this condition? (Side note about a woman never thriving with this shared financial life style) ((I just met a man a month ago that had his credit card declined at the place I work. This caused him to look into it further. He came back two weeks ago and said thanks to us he found his wife had 500k in gambling debt. So it definitely can go both ways is all I’m saying.)) If it is $1,000 and up I see no reason not to have this rule. I let my spouse pick everything but th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 06:14 AM
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What is the dollar amount in this condition? If it is $1,000 and up I see no reason not to have this rule. I let my spouse pick everything but that is because they will do the research, YouTubing, and reviewing of expensive purchases. Now I have everything i want. Two sets of Japanese knives from William Sonoma. Gas stove, home theatre system, so on and so forth. These decisions should be a family matter most times. Or in my case left up to the person who will spend countless amounts of time on …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 06:04 AM
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Call it what it is. “Stringing people along”. It is a unhealthy thing to do and to have done to you. It is a form of manipulation when you choose to not make your intentions clear. On one hand though the man hasn’t made his intentions clear either sometimes. Is it just a lustful pump and dump he is after for years? Or does he want a relationship. Either way though it is wrong to play with peoples hearts if you have no intentions or goals with them. This leads to all kinds of trouble. People feel…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 08:48 PM
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After three years he just now mentions his wants? You’ve been with him for three years and aren’t interested in marriage with him? Some women want to work after marriage and some don’t. So I understand your the latter. In marriage there is usually compromises. Have you discussed with him your feedback and wants regarding work? You’ve been with him for three years. The general concern of everyone here is if he is “abusive” financially or emotionally. The reason is because you say he wants to “con…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 07:42 PM
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Religious worship and religious activities ((Even colleges have religious clubs for careers and they go on expeditions to help out in 3rd world countries.)) Going to cooking classes, community college is decent. Going to classes at your local recreation center is good. Start a career in baby sitting. Work on getting certified. Make contacts with people. Start yoga class now. Start going to and doing these activities. You’ll build a social network of women and men and through word of mouth more l…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:06 PM
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Why are you snappy to begin with? Are you sleeping enough? Are you having a balanced diet? Are you taking supplements/vitamins with iron etc? Do you constantly feel depleted/low blood sugar? Are you giving your body the care it needs with exercise? If all those are in good shape…. Have you tried turning all electronics off and having a 1 - 1 sit down with your husband? If unable to have that. Have you tried writing your husband a detailed letter regarding your frustrations? Writing it out can re…
/r/RedPillWives08/02/22 07:11 PM
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You can let your husband lead you by the hand and guide you sure. He can make the plans, decide where to go, and feel like a real leader. You shouldn’t let him leave you in his dust as he goes has fun on a vacation? Vacations are good times for a family recharge and for a couple to find some much needed bedroom inspiration again. No stress vacation loving is always the best. Him leaving without you feels more like he is a captain running ashore leaving the plebs to clean up the ship while he fin…
/r/RedPillWives07/02/22 05:14 AM
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The point of being married is you wanna be with that person for the rest of your life. That includes vacations and events. The only time I go to a special event by myself is when my spouse refuses to go but I am still obligated/want to go myself. What you are saying is bordering on being a door mat/a live in nanny whose only job is to stay with the kids and keep the house clean while he can freely do as he pleases. Now I know I am being a bit hyperbolic. I hope you see my point though.
/r/RedPillWives07/02/22 01:48 AM
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Go as a couple. Leave the kids with a sitter. Concerns are your husband insists on going alone rather than as a couple and skipping the kids coming. And if you husband routinely goes to planned or unplanned trips without you. That is a serious concern as this can lead to infidelity that I’ve seen in other couples.
/r/RedPillWives06/02/22 08:33 PM
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If you go to work and you wanna climb the ladder. You show yourself as a go getter and self starter. If you have a meritocracy workplace you’ll be rewarded. If you go above and beyond in school. College, high school etc, any good teacher will notice and often will change your b- to a B+ since you are showing up, trying, and this makes them proud to have you as a student. My long drawn out point. Is go after what you want or risk losing your chance. For all you know there are 3 other girls all in…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 08:54 PM
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All or nothing. Red pill is about serious monogamous relationships that benefit both parties. Your needs are commitment with a rock solid foundation. If a girl does this or a guy does this, and yes both sexes do it. They are just keeping the back door open selfishly for themselves. Either we are serious about a commitment that is going to grow into a life long relationship. Our love is growing. We are building one another up and making sure we are wonderful dance partners. We are better as a cou…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 02:27 AM
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This poor guy. He probably had a girlfriend get mad at him prior for holding doors open for other women and accused of looking at /hitting on them. Now he has one that is upset he won’t go out of his way to assist other women. You should look at the stye/rafter in your own eye. Before you push this fella away.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 11:49 PM
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What’s your budget? Simple gifts that reflect your understanding of him and his passions are a great way to link you to his hobbies. Makes him feel like you listen and care about him. Overwatch, keychain/mug/fridge magnet Go to blicks and buy him something he might be missing from his oil paint collection. Gift card to audible Gift card to kindle Or buying a kindle if the budget allowed. Maybe a overwatch themed apron or a oil painting styled apron for cooking?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 11:27 PM
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I understand not being able to move in with his parents and him. ((My sibling did with their spouse’s parents but that could be a special case)) Can you not encourage him that you don’t mind seeing him less and you can still be together but it may only be on Sunday’s or whatever and you are good with that? Can you not offer to help? Every business needs a book keeper, inventory manager, receptionist, scheduler? You’d have to think of ways to support him. And support his business. It’ll hurt thou…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 08:32 AM
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Tinder and bumble are hook up apps. Avoiding them can sometimes be good because it can give you a serious case of inflated ego. Yes you’ll have every guy from 18-40+ in your dms but that doesn’t mean anything. You want someone interested in a relationship, marriage, kids, and so on. Weeding out everyone on a hook up app to get to the long term relationships may be cumbersome. Best bet is go where guys you like would be. Sports games football/cricket etc etc. Religious events and family events (s…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 08:22 AM
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Not enough information. Is he moving? Why can’t you move with him? What does he mean he no longer can provide for you? Is he giving you money? Are you making his life easier so he can’t leave you? Example (I won’t be able to do it justice): I read a hilarious women say she leaves her husband ball sack empty and his belly full so he just can’t function without her. Being a great wife or g/f is about being able to support your man and his business opportunities. Him leveling up is always a benefit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 08:11 AM
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For a women to choose her path. Make her own choices and plans. Love and live the way she is happiest. Well that is the purest form of feminism. If you being a SAHM makes you happy, it’s your choice and it brings you joy. Haters gonna hate. You gotta dust them off your mind and get them out of the way of your life goals.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 02:54 AM
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Mother Nature has placed a time line on fertility and she is very unforgiving. Most women can always pull dates, have men chase them, like their statuses, slide into their dm’s, etc etc. Tinder studies have shown. Blogs, articles all about the tinder phenomenon has been written. If you decide to wait until your early fourties’ to settle down I wouldn’t be surprised if their were still men interested in you. Talking you up and DMing I would believe it. You don’t seem to understand the pool of ava…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 02:49 AM
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How is it clever to not disclose very important information that is dear to you? And let’s your partner know where you stand on intimacy so they know what they can expect from you so they understand and respect your boundaries? What negative preconceptions are you referring to? Isn’t being open and bubbly a great way to weed out men who are only interested in side pieces/one night stands/friends with benefits?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 11:02 PM
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Being a virgin is not a big deal. Nothing wrong with making healthy choices for your mind, body and spirituality. There have been enough articles written about millennials losing their virginity later than their parents and now it appears gen z is possibly losing it on average later than millennials. Again nothing wrong with waiting until marriage to have sex. You should be up front with him about it though. It’d be best not to withhold or not discuss your plans. It is important to lay out your …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 05:43 PM
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Government entities - they see marriage as a contract. Their is ownership of belongings and financial but it is split 50/50 usually unless their is bias of some sort. They see parents as owning their children. Well that is how it was 10+ years ago. This has been eroded over time now as the nanny state and schools seem to as of recently believe they should be able to teach your children what they want and how without any input from parents. And more but I’d rather not derail. Philosophically - ev…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 07:54 PM
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Your relationship should be about two people in love. In a dance where one leads and one follows but you both compliment each other and are there for one another. Neither allowing either to fall. A perfect duo watching out for each other. Kids are secondary. After they turn 18+ they leave you. And you will want to be left behind with an amazing partner who is ready to be with you through thick and thin. If you have each other’s back and your husband is your primary and your his. Children will se…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 01:59 AM
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Serious question, why date without exclusivity? Marriage is about exclusivity. Most here want or have marriage. Why go after anyone without intention of exclusivity? Also do we know what he defines a HVW as? Make up and dressing nice is good. But what do you mean by “You having your own life”?? Does he like your family? Has he met them and accepted them? Does he like that you are in school? Or is he ambivalent?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 01:52 AM
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These are some very important questions and concerns. You are at an age where you know what you want and how. He may not be at this point in his life. It is your job to ensure you both aren’t wasting your time. Especially your own. Asking these questions to him in a loving and calm way. Expressing your feelings and being positive at first. “I really life you” “ I can see myself being with you for the long haul” “you are dreamy” but then lead into the concerns that need to be ironed out. If you a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:48 PM
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My two cents. The gym is a good spot. Especially some of the classes are great to meet people. I know it sounds silly. And to be honest it is silly. There are literal vice articles about “gym bros” and such. There is something to it though. Most red pilled YouTube channels always talk about going to the gym and bettering yourself. You go there to feel strong and empowered and you end up meeting nice people who care about themselves. A sign of a healthy minded person is if they care for themselve…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 06:12 AM
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Every family is different. It is important to find a man with similar life goals and similar expectations of their partner. Finding the right teammate or dance partner is key. Not all men have the means to support a house wife. Not all women want to stay at home. Everyone has different wants or choices. Both of us choose to work but thankfully since we both put in the effort it is a fantastic dynamic. We each only have to work 3 full 8 hours on average per week. Which leaves plenty of time for b…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 12:19 PM
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You are a team. When he wins you win. When you win he wins. You are a team. If you are fighting or competing for anything. You are doing it to better the family. If anything you are challenging each other to come up with rock solid plans to keep your family strong, motivated and healthy in the crap world that wants to tear your team apart. It should be a you and him against the world and he just so happens to be a strong lead in this dance. Some women feel lucky finding a dance partner who is a …
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 12:02 PM
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You are both “seeing” other people while “dating” one another? Sounds like the man is getting everything he wants from you. I am not sure why he should ever commit. Excuse my rudeness but why buy the cow if the milk is always free. You’ve trained him for months that you are casual. He is allowed to play the field as much as he chooses and you give him the girlfriend experience. You’ve sold yourself short and when it comes time to commit he will most likely move on to another girl who will give m…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 10:41 PM
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7 hours of sleep isn’t enough. 8 hours is ideal and even then he probably can’t fall asleep due to the stress and gets less than he should even if going to bed early. Are you positively sure you expressed these feelings to him in words? Does he realize what his lack of energy is doing to you? If you haven’t expressed yourself to him for him to have a chance to know about your feelings is he truly LV? Does he live alone? Clean his own place and take care of all the house by himself? If so how hig…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 03:16 AM
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I love this sub. And agree with its tenants and similar subs. Please don’t bad me either hah. I agree with you though. Good women come with faults. Finding a women who accepts her faults and your own faults is very impossible though for a majority of us. Yes I know there are some who get lucky who marry a girl 17-19. If she hasn’t had any dick before and she is essentially marked by you she is less likely to cheat or leave and so on. There are studies to back this up with the whole pair bonding …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 04:57 PM
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Can confirm was at a wedding and most women were overweight. The amount of females that were there and at a healthy weight was sadly in the single digits. What is now the norm is no one complains about it. It has just become a way of life to be unhealthy and accepting of everyone working towards type two diabetes. The only shaming and negativity I saw about weight was the bride complaining about other women at her party who were “skinny bitches”. How dare those specific women come to my wedding …
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 05:49 AM
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We don’t need useless uneducated individuals to tell us there are problems in the world. We have plenty of documentaries and source material we can look at for proper information. Examples would be the smog in China’s big cities and trash all over India and water pollution are huge. Watch Tim pool and see how he explains. Emotional garbage is just smoke and mirrors. Soon as you put on the tears and emotions you may as well be screaming and ranting. A conversation is to be had yes. But not adult …
/r/MGTOW02/10/19 06:05 AM
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A loved one is there to be with you. Regardless of wether you have or do not have money. A loved one should want to be with you. If you are low on funds and need to do free things. Then do free things because. They most importantly want to hang out with you for you. Not for your money. You should shit test the shit out of her. Plan only free dates. Bike ride, soccer in the park, make her make you and her lunch/dinner. Watch a free movie from friends/family collections. Keep doing no cost stuff. …
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 01:56 PM
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Concrete is porous. It absorbs oils and other liquids. Stains occur often especially from lawn mowers, snow blowers, cars, etc. anytime you leave a cement floor unfinished this can occur. Certain salts can also cause damage and erosion of cement. In a basement you never wanna paint cement as the cement can breathe and dry out if water occurs around it. Above ground concrete or inside a building on first lvl or higher it is good to seal it. Concrete is also easy to chip if you drop a heavy enough…
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 04:11 AM
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Your cars are great but the garage is all finished. Big beautiful windows. A nice heating system for Canada cold winters. Well organized and well lit. excuse me while I head to the bathroom.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 03:53 PM
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Get a rice cooker. Takes the guess work out. Add rice, water and little seasoning. It’ll cook till it is done with water and add more if needed. Worth it if you make rice a lot.
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 03:10 PM
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Strongly agree. I can’t even watch female YouTube/content creators as they often lack their male counterparts. I love my wife and while it is nice to go to fairs, events, conventions and have someone to share food with so you can indulge in more food opportunities during those events. Sadly it is rare she has much of an opinion outside of that. She often just agrees with me, listens to me, and acknowledges that I am right. She rarely plays devil advocate if ever. She doesn’t argue or offer much …
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 02:36 PM
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Disregard females. Acquire currency and freedom.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 08:49 PM
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Let your imagination run wild. Weird shit to turn yourself off is very effective. You see the 70yr old in the elliptical. Yeah she just unzipped his pants. Now you can’t tell if he is having a heart attack or enjoying himself could go either way. See those two girls chatting it up. One is bitching about both her current boyfriend, her orbiter and the guy she is trying to monkey branch to. She is theoretically riding 3 dicks at once. This type of imaginative thinking of putting AWALT behavior int…
/r/MGTOW20/07/19 03:06 AM
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Memes win wars my friend. Memes are the path to mgtow. Memes lead to truth. Truth leads to enlightenment. Enlightenment leads to happiness. Calling out inappropriate behavior is important. Calling out the true nature of things is important. And in this sub people call out even when men overreact or act inappropriate as well. While this article didn’t help you perhaps. There are some men scrolling for the first time that it may have helped them realize their mom, sister, or significant other is d…
/r/MGTOW12/07/19 01:13 PM
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You need to vent your frustration and feelings on this subject. It’s unfair that your parents won’t give you the time of day to discuss matters of importance to you. Regardless of their leanings they should hear you out as a young adult and give their perspective while you give theirs. Focusing on finding common ground. Sadly it is not advisable for you to talk to them. If they are going to punish you for thinking differently that is inappropriate. You should still obey them with your curfew, ho…
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 06:04 AM
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I’ll chime in. Father passed as a teenager but he wasn’t around much and was abusive. We need a way to learn these things we missed. I buried myself in books and video games. This didn’t really help me as much as I wish. My love of characters like Drizzt Do’Urden did teach me that women and gynocentric society’s can be fucked. Read dark elf culture and you will be black pilled hard. You need to find the ways that teach you and work for you. Older men are amazing to learn from you just have to fi…
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 04:20 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. Bad ideas need to be aired out in the open so people can criticize and discuss what’s best. To many people are being deplatformed, banned, censored. Pushing people into darker territory by not being able to express themselves. Biggest reason to go to therapy. Someone who is not supposed to judge you and listen to you. And ask the right questions so you can find the best answer that will be healthy for your mind and body and soul.
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 01:57 AM
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As the others are saying you are being played. My sister is the worst. She will cry, moan, back you into a corner until she gets what she wants. She can turn it off and on whenever she likes. She is a serial cryer and manipulator. Her goal is to always get you trapped. She would park in front of my moms car. Cry for an hour or more and break my mother down until she got whatever she was looking for. Wether it was a loan. Or anything. I had to beg my mom to never meet with my sister without me. O…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 02:05 PM
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Honestly I’m not scared for him. If you have watched him for the past 6 months he has done several videos talking about his life before her and after moving in with her. He has always been good looking but just like most men dude is getting better with age. During these videos he talks about how he dropped out of college, lived paycheck to paycheck, lived in a tiny one studio in a high rise in a okayish area. This woman met him and dated him during that time. Went into the relationship with him …
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 06:43 PM
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It’s important to treat yourself. You work hard daily. Buy that smoothie. Go get yourself some disc golfs and play 18 holes. Go to the shooting range and pop some targets. There is a hell of a lot of life out there for you to dip your toes in. And all you need is yourself.
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 05:49 PM
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She is “on the spectrum” I find it funny that she says that this guy pursuing a sex worker may expose that woman to STDs or expose “the woman” to pregnancy. Clearly forgetting the fact it is a sex worker who may do this for a living by choice and take their own precautions. As if the woman isn’t capable to protect herself ffs.
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 11:52 PM
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The hardest part about being young is trying to make connections. We assume we can talk freely in a 1st amendment society if you are in America. Without it costing your livelihood for stating your opinion. Wrong. You better not talk politics, religion, or personal view points. It’ll cost you an HR visit. Cost you a promotion. Have a false allegation levied against you. You will be judged unfairly by those around you. Learn to be a wise cop. Assume people are going to lie to you and about you to …
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 04:58 PM
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His friendship is headed to being ended anyways. It is better for him to try and fail then to never have tried at all.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 02:01 AM
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You are not alone. My brothers wife becomes physically abusive when she drinks. Blows up his phone if he doesn’t tell her where he is. Even if he is at my house hanging out. She now has the app running where she can see his gps location now. Your brother is in an abusive demeaning relationship. A man needs to be the head of his household and able to be strong. He is being broken down and whittled away. Chipped bit by bit. If it was an all out assault from the get go he could of seen it coming an…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 06:20 AM
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Gotta give the YouTuber itsagundam props. He is a man who has seen the darkness of women and lived to tell others.
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 03:29 PM
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A man should never stoop to this girls level. If you stoop to it. They’ll always be able to claim victim hood. Always take the high road like this guy. This type of person always does a good job at making themselves look bad.
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 05:32 AM
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Jesus is very much mgtow. One man having all that success? Being known throughout the world. Inspiring, encouraging, teaching, and helping others? Giving up his life, sacrificing himself for others of his own choice. And never had a woman by his side. Only his father and his few mates? ((Yes except for I know Judas)) Christian or not it’s worth learning about a man who chose his own path and had such a passion for it and he never needed nor wanted a woman. Also the 1st Corinthians were mentioned…
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 05:13 AM
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Is he really mooching? In a lot of cultures it is normal to stay at home until you are married. For a lot of those cultures this is just a natural course to stay at home and take care of the ones who took care of you. Besides that it isn’t usually just yourself who makes it to the big leagues on your own. A good father is often behind the scenes. And if he has one who is his best friend. Why leave his best friend in the world who cheers him on. Versus leaving where you’ll find more people cheeri…
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 01:35 PM
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Electrical and HVAC will give you life long skills you can take anywhere in the world. You will make more money. Be needed more than any 12 year old who can walk a few blocks. Just like women replace men and monkey branch. Jobs are the same way. You have to make yourself skilled and difficult to replace. Or skilled enough you can go anywhere so as to not be a simp to your boss and company. A real man learns a craft and is sought after by companies like a thot seeks a man with money. If you don’t…
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 04:18 AM
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I always go Honda and Toyota. The resale value is decent. Parts are usually plentiful and fairly priced.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 03:17 AM
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Eventually he gets some. But it’s pathetic. We see a man waste his time fawning over a woman who is trash. And whiteknighting everything for her.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 01:10 PM
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You wanna see something bad? Start watching the Netflix show YOU. Dudes the biggest pathetic simp I’ve ever seen. When an alpha male gives him actual factual information and he sees it play out for himself.. he ignores all the signs... the chick he wants he even witnesses her banging other guys while she makes him wait. Banging guys on impulse. But not wanting to bang him because “she doesn’t want him to see her that way” lol The show is like a walking advertisement for MGTOW. Proving that you s…
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 04:25 AM
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If you like rap try hopsin. Dude is a bit all over the place because some stuff he is a simp. But songs like “False Advertisement” speaks true to female nature so well. And his song about losing his son to an Australian thot is another red pill.
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 04:43 PM
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Being agreeable and humble has its advantages. You aren’t so much a fool. You are a very good poker player. Depending on your work environment it’s usually better to keep your cards close at hand and not let anyone know them. Especially if you own a business or run a department. No one needs to know the ins and outs of you as a person but yourself and your boss. And even your boss or clients aren’t going to often care about all that. They simply need to know if you are getting the job done or if…
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 04:40 PM
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Agreed. I know we shouldn’t be surprised by the disgusting people of reddit and their ideas on minors. But they always find a way to sink lower. He should keep her off social media until she is 18 to protect her and men from being jailed. It’s better for society if no one goes against the law. Especially underage troubles. He should report her account to tinder to get it banned. He should also delete her snap chat / ban it and change password so she loses all the contact information on all these…
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 08:00 PM
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Most people can work through their problems by talking it out. It’s not so much you have to give advice but just listen to the person and hopefully they can help themselves by rationalizing what is best for them. But if she is still an active and current sex worker. I pray for this mans sanity and hope when he is heartbroken he doesn’t harm anyone especially himself... ugh...
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 01:01 AM
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If you have deep conversations with him and a true friend then analyze this situation with him. What does this woman have over half the other girls he has liked? If he hasn’t liked that many why is he choosing to settle so quickly? When going out does she pay her own? She makes decent money is she respecting him and reciprocating with who buys the meals? And the tickets to events? If not you should encourage him to start shit testing her like a women does. Ask him if they’ve discussed open relat…
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 09:32 PM
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Working out will keep yourself busy and physically active. Whoever put you on meds have your testosterone level checked and possibly thyroid or just general panel. Watch cooking videos, and exercise videos. Even if you don’t do those things it is a learning experience. Learn to cook like a real man. Eat things that will make you feel full but without causing you to feel bloated and lethargic. You need to challenge yourself mentally as well. Start by reading 1 book a month that you choose for you…
/r/MGTOW30/03/19 09:12 PM
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No one mentioned this yet.... surprisingly.... Don’t think with your dick / hormones... Your hormones are raging and it is annoying as hell. It can seriously effect your decision making ability. Just do your best to always remind yourself to think with your brain and not your hard on. Some will recommend fapping and some will not. If you wanna explore no fap I’d recommend the no fap reddit. The nice thing about avoiding porn and fapping is you can generally get other important things done. You a…
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 05:56 AM
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she began a PhD program in philosophy with a 22k stipend. He started working as a computer engineer making six figures. Due to her commitment to the equality ideology, instead of appreciating him and admiring him for his career, she began to subconsciously resent him for it. She began bringing him down in many ways, criticizing everything he did, how he spent his free time, and even calculating the hours she spent working on her PhD to prove she works just as hard as him and as an argument for s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 08:29 PM
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If you read the post she admits to this within the first few paragraphs. Her sister is indoctrinated into the ideology of equality of outcome. Rather than the equality of opportunity. If OP’s sister believed in equality of “opportunity” she would be proud to have such a positive man in her life. Someone who worked hard and was rewarded for his good choices in life. He had the opportunity to seize a degree that would benefit him and his family. He worked his butt off to achieve success and is now…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 06:45 PM
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Just hire a surrogate to be artificially ensiminated so you can ensure a son. Follow sandman on YouTube he has talked about this subject already. He mentions he is looking into it for himself.
/r/MGTOW21/03/19 03:30 AM
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Idk there is a lot of good money in nursing. Anecdotal... I know a male surgery tech who has been one for most of his life. In his 60s now. My understanding is the male surgeons preferred him and he would be chosen to be in surgery due to being able to avoid drama, politics, taking a joke, and less risk to the male surgeons in the long run. Another anecdotal... I know another male heart tech who does have more jobs put on him by women because somehow men or he is stronger.................... But…
/r/MGTOW21/03/19 03:10 AM
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She goes to school where she is brainwashed into a mode that makes over generalized, sweeping opinions and decisions and is wearing glazed sunglasses that view the world through some unfair victimhood lenses. It’s disgusting that she isn’t proud, supportive, and happy that he is an amazing resource and their debt would be paid off in no time with his job. Even though her phd will mean often next to nothing if she turns around and decides she or both want kids. Instead of treating her SO as someo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 03:01 AM
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No they are not worth it. You have far more important things in life to think and focus on then a SO/relationship that isn’t marriage material. It’s like pursuing a degree you don’t want or won’t use. You want to invest time, money, and affection into something that’ll be taken away or fall apart at some point? That falls closer to the tinder line of thinking. The only reason to invest resources in a non marriage material mate is for instant gratification. Which only hurts you in the long run no…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 06:29 PM
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Why would anyone be ok with killing a helpless animal even if it is a toad. Ffs both of those eat mosquitoes. Anything that eats mosquitoes are precious in my book. More bats? Hell yes please!!! Ffs why would you even want blood and guts on your shoes.... You run the f away because your balls are next on her shoe kill list.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 08:20 AM
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Ignore your feelings/love/emotions/ relationship. Getting your dick wet is a poor motivation for any of life’s decisions. Give it 5 years and you’ll understand it more and more. You have terrible risks of unwanted pregnancy, stds, stalkers, leeches, horrible break ins ((yes women do work with their pimps/bfs to trap guys by scouting their home and robbing them later)) You’ll also stand to risk major financial instability. Unless you are a master at Dutch and ghosting strategy. You go out to eat …
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 08:11 AM
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The hardship he had to endure is mind boggling. These are the types of stories movies should be made out of. I know others have posted various similar stories but a lot of them turn to suicide (just look at the mra websites/reddit for that data) and will never have their fair trial and justice in the court system they deserve.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 01:02 AM
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My best friend and I constantly make gay jokes about each other. One time my friend got me so good my wife started snorting. I of course called her a traitor and said I see how it is. Y’all going to gang up on me. But never once did I have such little self confidence and low self esteem I assumed she likes him in a sexual manner. Because of that? No. The wife still hugged me. Held my hand. Laid on my chest. Did everything physically to show she is in to me and no one else. Physical attachment sp…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 05:40 PM
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He asks a very important question. Dig deep there are a lot of ways to feel satisfied and whole. Each man is different though. I have a friend who is in his mid 30s and goes back to technical college every few years to learn a new trade such as welding. He has so much free time and money at his disposal he can find enjoyment with working with his hands that satisfies him. First step is to listen to your head and instead of doing things that impress women. Do things that impress yourself. This co…
/r/MGTOW09/03/19 06:46 AM
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Wow two pages in and this is like a play by play of what happened to the voice actor Vic mignogna.
/r/MGTOW09/03/19 06:33 AM
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You misinterpret. We all have things we want better for ourselves or want from or for our SO. Through positivity we, even if not on purpose, encourage good qualities and some might say bring out the best in each other. Example: you make an amazing dinner. Your SO appreciates it. Not only just saying thank you. But does the dishes because they loves it so much. Brought you a flower and showed extra affection that night. That positive behavior towards your hard work makes you feel proud and satisf…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 09:26 PM
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It’s far more about training good habits. You mentioned you weren’t wanting to argue. Well it was only a suggestion to get around the discussion. Training him in a way that installs good habits. Thus he can through habitual trial and error develop good behavior through your coaxing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 05:17 PM
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Having male friends for you yourself may be ok Your partner may also be ok with it as well. However I don’t think anyone has mentioned the other perspective. Are the male friends you’d potentially have ok with staying friends? Don’t forget the possibility that while you or your SO may have no problems. The male friend may cause some so I’d say be cautious. Problem with any of us is we fantasize. Someone mentioned cars here earlier and looking at or riding other brands than the one they chose to …
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 07:42 AM
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Brushing it off and and neglecting your feelings isn’t going to enhance, help or ever over come the situation. Odds are he hates being late as much as you and is upset about it perhaps and you bring it up and it simply irritates him more as he now has himself thinking about it and another person noticing? Just speculating mind you. Is there other advantages you can do for him or to him that changes the behavior without having to confront him or discuss it with him? As a hypothetical - say he is …
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 07:23 AM
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