StrongBlacksmith8015 Archive

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1	How do you ban the thought of Su1cide as an easy way out of the nightmare? Yea, I get that DV is a massive issue. But, let's be honest, the entire male gender has now been villainised. If you insinuate that the court's villainse men, you get shat on and immediately approached with hostility and aggression... That should tell us everything we need to know. If you say you are struggling even the slightest with mental health, let's take his kids away. Meanwhile the mother gets sympathy and social stigma paints her the victim until proven otherwise. Then somehow, we are ex…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 05:29 PM
1	How do you ban the thought of Su1cide as an easy way out of the nightmare? Yes, but be careful what you say if there's a custody battle. Medical records can be forced open in some situations in some countries. Don't say things about offing yourself or anyone else, even under the context of intrusive thoughts	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:20 PM
1	Todays dream - still in the thick of it Then she wasn't the right one for you either.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 10:06 PM
3	Todays dream - still in the thick of it Strange , I had a dream last night and again tonight for the first time since the initial separation. I asked her not to give up on me, then she left. Been going to therapy for 6 months, it's taken a long time to accept she emotionally abandoned me long before the end and neglected us until she had enough leverage to blame me. She wasn't a terrible person, which made it that much harder to accept she was a terrible wife. I do miss her though, or maybe I just miss the concept of there being an us…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 08:21 PM
2	3 months in - It’s ok Sounds like you don't have kids. That's good	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/26 03:13 PM
3	Thinking About Divorce? Read This First. This did not resonate	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/26 05:54 AM
5	Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends? So I had some shared friends with the Ex, but they were mostly from her group of female friends (husband's etc). Those people I mostly list touch with immediately. Except 1 top bloke who still messages me. But. I had and have my own friends from highschool and university. The real lads, they were there day 1 for me. One of them flew over from across the country to spend. A week with me. Drop of a hat, he was on a plane. They took turns touching base, we made a what's app and there was always 1 p…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 01:54 PM
4	Divorce Over: Dealing With The Loneliness Just keep moving Brotherman. I'm 33 and 6.5 moths post separation, we have to wait a year for formal divorce. I'm doing something called dialectical behavioural therapy. I do get overwhelmed by emotions often. It really helped me find methods to push through the sadness when it hit. I'm 6 months out, something clicked last month. I moved away mentally from assigning blame, I really accepted the end of the marriage and that the whole thing was very "human". This is a good place to be, to just acc…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/25 12:47 PM
3	Appeal He's entitled to alimony, he should get it. The question is only if the juice is worth the squeeze. Don't bust his balls over it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/25 08:05 PM