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| 11 | Seperated 2 months.Similar story. My daughter is 16 and son 10. Married for 16 years. My wife started dating someone else when we were married and she is still seeing her now. We are cordial and still did the holidays together, no fighting yet but a few disagreements on kids/money stuff. I moved out in November and got my own place. We also need to live apart for a year before filing for divorce. We plan to file in November of this year. For me, moving out was the best thing I did. My own space to start over. I bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 02:27 PM |
| 3 | What are your 2025 goals post divorce?Focus on: 1) My Health 2) My kids 3) My Money | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Wife came out and it's overWell, first of all it’s just advice that worked for me. It may not land for you. I’m not sure what you mean by “my mistakes.” I was responding to the OP. My point is that in the thick of things, in the moment, it all seems terrible but down the road you may find someone that makes you even happier or something else could happen that you just can’t see right now. And you’ll look back and be glad your life shifted course when it did. I’ve been to war, lost jobs, lost meaningful relationships, and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Wife came out and it's overSame thing happened to me. Different details but the same end result. For 12 months after it all blew up I really struggled. After I got my own place, finalized the separation, spent quality time with my kids, and focused on myself, things got much better. I’m only looking forward now. Support groups are OK, I was involved with OurPath for a little while. But eventually, you’ll get tired of feeling like shit. Cut the cord and move on and you’ll be better off for it. Just keep working every day t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How did you deal with living together right before the physical separation?Very similar story. Sounds like you’re doing all the right things. Keep it up. After two months I realized I couldn’t continue and just made a decision and went and got my own place. It was rough and scary at the time but the minute I got settled in my new place I was able to start moving on and my life has improved dramatically, and it’s only been three weeks! Not sure what you’re going through, or if there is a reason for the delay, but the sooner you can get out the better. My kids are 10 and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/24 06:28 PM |
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