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I mean I feel like this is a really young problem. I’m in my thirties, I’m happy just to be secure with my partner and work to maintain vulnerability and connection. We’ve been together 11 years and had very hot, long, satisfying sex tonight. We still fuck regularly. It is… depraved and uninhibited. The type of sex where you’re aroused for hours after. When I was younger and anxiously attached there were definitely higher highs, but the lows were horrible. I’d never want to go back to a dynamic …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:04 AM
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I don’t believe the scenario I described is healthy. No one is going to feel secure in an anxious dynamic which in my experience leads to all sorts of bullshit no one should want to put up with. Like is she interested? Yes. But it’s not you she’s interested in. She just doesn’t want to be abandoned or left and you’re triggering that vulnerability. If the goal is to just have a woman around regardless of how miserable that experience is, then I guess it will work. But no secure woman will put up …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:42 PM
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I think it’s less that the man is “committed” because that’s not an unattractive trait and women would be turned off the moment you become exclusive (it’s usually the opposite, and women tend to be most aroused during initial infatuation/emotional connection), and more like having your favorite meal every day without switching things up. It can get a little boring and therefore women may be less inclined to try. Suddenly the incentive to have sex is far lower when comparing to the stressors of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:27 PM
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I agree with everything you’re saying but to be fair there are plenty of red/black pill men that have a whole system in place for what they believe women should act like, and how they should treat them for game. My assumption is these are wildly lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:35 PM
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Yeah it’s like, I barely ever drink alcohol, sugary drinks, etc and I work out a lot more than I did then (practically every day) but working on your butt all day is so detrimental. I was a waitress in my twenties it was so easy to maintain the same weight. I now have a cushy work from home job so you’re absolutely right. As for my skin, that’s just something I have to be conscientious of as I age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:28 PM
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I think I hit a wall in that it’s harder to stay thin compared to when I was in my early twenties. I’m in my 30s and in great shape, but the amount of effort it requires now is just ridiculous. And I’m so fucking pale I have to bathe in retinol to slow down the fine lines. It comes for all of us eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:28 PM
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This definitely changes with age too. Plenty of me. Become less attractive over time with balding, weight gain, etc while their partners continue to take care of themselves. Vice versa is true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:24 PM
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And you just earned a new follower! Doing the lords work 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:22 PM
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Man. I can’t even begin to comment on this in a way that actually means something. Like it or not, porn is a large part of our lives. It’s everywhere. Men are going to watch it so long as it’s available, and many women, like myself, partake as well. However, I try to do so ethically because regular shit kinda just makes me sad. In a perfect world, we wouldn’t need porn. But that’s not the world we live in and I’m not okay with policing what other people look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:21 PM
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Like, I’m more than willing to say there’s issues among all genders, but they won’t be caught dead saying anything like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:13 PM
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No this guy doesn’t think men are capable of causing problems in a relationship and it’s always the woman’s fault, obviously. Not worth arguing with someone so willfully disingenuous and lacks the ability to see nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:49 PM
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There are plenty of men who get laid often in the beginning of the relationship but find themselves in a dead bedroom once things get stale. It’s not always about the person’s attractiveness. And I’ve known and slept with some men that were super attractive but their ex just stopped having sex with them after about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:47 PM
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Confidence (while still being humble), integrity, a good sense of humor and they’re compassionate while maintaining their boundaries. I love physical touch and vulnerability. It’s also exactly what I’m into with women. Sexually they’re either firm and confident in bed or completely submit to me and aren’t ashamed of being submissive (I’m a bit of a switch). And there needs to be physical attraction. I like masculine appearing men, and feminine women. It’s really hot for me to have a hot, muscle …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:58 PM
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For your perusal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:50 AM
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Yeah… I don’t think you can speak for every man on this. I mean I can’t even take you seriously when you say something like “men don’t get traumatized when they’re raped.” There are plenty of studies and stories that beg to differ. I hope you’ve never been raped. But if you haven’t I really think you should shut the fuck up about it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Literally the dumbest take I’ve read in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:43 AM
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Oh I’m definitely a socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:49 PM
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Ohhhh sorry I didn’t realize you knew my political leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:41 PM
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Because I want to eat ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:31 PM
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That has never been my experience. Plenty of men are stylish and get laid frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:30 PM
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I got no refund this year. I owed. But whatever you have to to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:09 PM
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I’m a landowner and a taxpayer working in cancer research, so a functional member of society that actually contributes, but your opinion has been noted ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:21 PM
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We are already under the collapse of late stage capitalism. I’ll go out with my fingers up a girls ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:57 PM
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I enjoy being a degenerate, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:55 PM
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Is this invitation open to others? Because I could be into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:57 PM
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I’m not giving you advice. We are generalizing here for how people behave. I am following your lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:35 PM
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Nice try. Solid effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:27 PM
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You mean my frog pictures? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:22 PM
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Reading comprehension is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:20 PM
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Did you miss the other descriptions OP provided aside from “dominant” in which I am referring to? Are you being purposefully disingenuous? In case you missed it: “The thing is you gotta be dominant, acting up, speak up, step up by yourself appear a bit cocky even”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:15 PM
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It matters how we label people. It’s very obvious when you consider how some men think all women are evil succubi because of a trend they saw. And I also don’t know what we mean by “asshole”. I assume you mean he’s mean and insulting toward her. I don’t consider confidence, boundaries, self assuredness and having options to be asshole traits. I don’t have a blatant distrust of men. I’m aware of the trend. I take precautions and have boundaries just like I wear a seatbelt. But that’s not the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:02 PM
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Schrondingers bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:48 PM
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Maybe adjust your example to normal, average women and not professional athletes who have to be extremely competitive to succeed in their sport where their only rivals or teammates are other women. I have many female friends, none of us act like you described. We have a community, we support each other, we celebrate one another. There have been plenty of times I’ve wingmanned for a girl and been so incredibly excited for them when they’ve hooked up with a hot guy, or proud of them for completing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:43 PM
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As long as he wants to. I mean, there’s no set amount of time for anything. You do it until you feel you can’t anymore, you don’t sit around on your hands waiting for them to be better so you can fuck them. You give every day your best, you try to be the best partner you can and challenge yourself until you literally can’t anymore. Like, if my husband were raped, the biggest thing on my mind isn’t going to be “how long am I willing to put up with this?” I’m going to be moving through it day by d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:30 PM
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That’s just having integrity, confidence and self respect. Those are attractive traits in everyone and something all humans should aspire to have. Doesn’t mean they’re assholes. I don’t know when or how these attributes started being considered a negative thing. Or why men internalized this to mean “women love douchebags”. The only thing I can assume is that many lonely, bitter individuals resent guys like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:18 PM
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It’s still a trope. You’re generalizing an entire subset of the population based on a positive trend. That’s a slippery slope. Like, men are more likely to rape their partners. I’m not going to call men rapists. It’s just unproductive and doesn’t actually help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:16 PM
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Hell yeah sister
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:14 PM
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100%. Like, oh we are experiencing a slog sexually? Let’s actually COMMUNICATE honestly and figure out a solution that’s unique to our particular issues lol. Shit isn’t going to get better unless you put in the effort to make it better and there’s no formulaic process that works in every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:51 AM
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And you didn’t do it?! What’s wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:45 AM
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Welcome, friend. I have a seat and some water-based lube for you in the pickle corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:44 AM
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Real talk. I love being thrown around like a sack of flour. It’s very novel. And waking up next to a dude half naked with abs and gazing at his body is a unique and fun little thrill. I’m sure it’s the same for men sleeping with a very fit woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:29 AM
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What does this mean? I either find specific traits attractive or I don’t. I have dated men I found to have traits I typically am not attracted to, but I was overall attracted to them because their style made up for it. As I said, this has its limits. But I literally fell in love with someone who had dwarfism (Pseudoachondroplasia) because he was the handsomest and most stylish Mfer in our grade and was confident as hell lol. And I’m 5’8” and have never had problems romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:21 AM
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Huh I honestly am more attracted to a man’s style than his face. Obviously this has its limits but I’ve dated less than attractive men because their style really upped their game. Unattractive men can’t really get away with wearing unstylish clothes. Whereas attractive men have an easier time with this, but it still can create bad first impressions. Imo style is really really important. I mean if Ryan gosling were wearing JNCOs and an insane clown posse t shirt that hasn’t been washed in a decad…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:13 AM
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Silicone, friend. Premium grade silicone. Sometimes glass ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:08 AM
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Lmao who are these people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:14 AM
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I really enjoy that image actually. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:13 AM
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Imagine being so confidently wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:13 AM
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Sure. Switches are a thing. I’ve known men that are really great at dominating and really great at taking it just like I am. A man could be submissive sexually but still carry his confidence and integrity and boundaries and that’s fucking sexy. The shame some men feel in their sexuality is what makes it unattractive (but I have compassion for them and it’s very human, it’s just not a turn on). In the past I’ve dated dominant men, and I’ve dated submissive men. They just need to be confident abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:53 AM
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I’m sorry but I both equally enjoy pegging men and dominating them and also enjoy having the soul fucked out of me by a dominant man. I can and demand to have both, thank you very much. And for the record, it’s in fact very rare that women are into femdom like you are insinuating. Men are more often the initiators of stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:35 AM
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