StruggleMuffin75 Archive

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13	Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want. You've posted threads near every day for a month, in long, rambling fashion. I genuinely don't believe that you're well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 05:03 PM
23	Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want. Someone should get Lilith routine wellness checks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 04:58 PM
-1	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? No. Pregnancy test roulette.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 01:30 AM
-2	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? If this is the kind of thing girls do when they get together, it's a wonder the female suicide rate isn't higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 01:16 AM
6	Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies. If you're attractive, they will be attracted to you. No matter your hobbies, wearing a suit, or whatever other nonsense. Not to be rude, but you can't polish a turd. I've gotten numbers from gym bunnies while wearing pijamas and my hair tied up. I'm also 6'3. This idea that you can just add enough accessories and she'll be sexually attracted to you is stupid. She's not getting wet because of your hobbies, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 08:24 PM
5	Just have fun People like this can vote...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 05:24 PM
0	Virgin men that are rejected Weak as in failing in some regard. There's something wrong with the person socially/romantically. Women aren't attracted to men who fail in those regards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 01:31 AM
6	Virgin men that are rejected A man being an adult virgin is a warning sign that there's something wrong with you. Something wrong with you means that you're weak in some regard(s). Women are not attracted to weak men. It's not about teaching. Everyone's first time is awkward, but sex isn't so complex that you need lessons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 08:44 PM
5	Women are partially responsible for men not believing what women say. People in general lie. Don't listen to what anyone says. Look at what they do. The only trick is that you need to be aware of your own biases and hyper fixations in looking for certain things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 11:02 PM
1	Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what? Yeah, I mean, I see what you're saying. But whether she's being dumb or not, or whether her standards are too high or not, the end result is still the same. She's on her own and miserable. She'll hook up with guys every now and again, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 10:41 PM
8	Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what? I don't really care, personally. Due to some horrible life stuff, I'm pretty sure I'm ready to pack dating in. I'm 31, and I think I'm done. I'm totally ambivalent towards the whole thing at the moment. But I will say, the women I know don't want to be alone either. Just yesterday, a friend of mine was complaining about how she's unable to meet anyone and that the apps are all awful. She keeps getting messages from guys she just isn't into and can't seem to find anyone and how she wishes she cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 08:22 PM
29	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. I'd take it. Society is fine with insulting men in misandrist ways AND ungendered ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:30 PM
8	The hidden danger Victims pose. I'll be honest, regardless of deserving or not deserving, I'd avoid any interaction with a woman who has gangbangers in her retinue of exes, just for my own safety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 06:46 PM
22	CMV: Nice guys don't finish last I'd rather not be the nice guy a girl settles for once she's done having sex with X number of bad boys who have mistreated her. For one, it's just a totally different set of values than what I have towards sex and relationships. But other than that, like she said, who wants to deal with all the baggage? I don't want to be the bad boy who used her OR the nice guy who now gets to be settled for after she's finished being used. If my choice comes down to be an asshole or be a simp I'll just find so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 05:00 PM
1	8 possible reasons why Women don't approach Men. It's not that complicated. Women aren't attracted to the vast majority of men. On top of that, even in men, they DO find attractive, women heavily tend not to make the first move because it's scary and risks rejection. That's it. We can spend all day justifying it, but ultimately it boils down to "Thats hard and scary, I don't want to be the one to do the hard scary thing, I want someone else to do it instead." That's all it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 12:42 PM
28	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? Some girls have that mix of being super, I don't know how to put it. Tomboyish and aggressive, but in a kind and sweet way. Like, assertive, but gentle. I'm 6'3 and big with a deep voice. Most girls who're interested in me want a guy who's all dominant and assertive, but I'm really I'm fucking soft and shy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 04:41 PM
2	Q4M: Pick 1 - great sex + bad relationship OR no sex + great relationship? Woman A. I could fall in love with someone I couldn't have sex with. Honestly, at 30, sex isn't some mysterious, illusive thing anymore. I'd take companionship with someone who really loves me over pussy from someone who doesn't even care about me. Sex with someone you love is fantastic, but it's the love that makes it special. I never really craved sex, I just always wanted someone to be in love with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 04:37 PM
9	Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ? I once cut a woman who I was getting close with off because I'd found out she'd cheated on someone in her past. There's absolutely nothing she could say that wouldn't make me leave. I look at cheating as a binary. You cheat once, even if it was 10 years ago, you're a cheater. You cheat. It's what you are. It's a line you cross in life, where you can't go back. It takes a certain type of person to put a knife in the back of someone who loves them, for something as cheap and easy as sex. If I even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 08:53 AM
55	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work Of all the advantages, privileges, and easier times women have in their lives over men's, an easier time being a whore isn't the first that springs to mind, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 11:17 AM
15	If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player? I've turned down every hookup and fwb situation I've ever been offered. Sex without a romantic, emotional connection seems like it would be awful and uncomfortable. Sex without love sounds makes me feel like it would be more akin to awkward wanking with a stranger than what I think of as sex. I've only slept with 2 women at 30, but I've turned down like 8 or 9. Casual, short-term, and situationships hold no interest for me. Edit: I sat back, and l tried to recall from 18 to 30. It was 11 offers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 06:43 PM
5	Most women don’t pick men based on their status or money For hooking up/short term and sex/lust, women choose more larger, taller, more physically attractive men. For long term partners, women prioritise money and status in a partner. Even over aspects such as kindness, whether they're a good person, gentleness and so on. Obviously they'd rather the whole package, but these things are prioritised differently. If a woman is with you and you earn less than her, she doesn't intend to be with you for the long term. But on the bright side, you're sexually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 08:15 AM
-1	How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you? So many women lying about being fine with it. Anyone who's been in a relationship with a woman will know just how easily they can be set off by the smallest thing just by taking it the wrong way. The idea that you could tell a woman you're dating I wasn't attracted to you when we first met. and she wouldn't lose her shit is fucking nonsense. I hate how every time someone asks something like this, women universally become fucking Vulcans, only able to understand pure logical thinking. Lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 01:54 PM
33	You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someone That's just someone's social skills and attractiveness. That person who has instant "chemistry" with you, has instant "chemistry" with most people they meet. You're confusing someone's social ability and attractiveness to make a person feel special with a genuine connection. It's not that your connection is special, it's that this person has the ability to make most people feel as though the interaction was special.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 07:18 AM
3	If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawed Men are seen and treated as the FAR, FAR more disposable person on society when compared to women. But women are seen as and treated as more disposable when compared to infants and children. This is just women being treated as the second class human, as men are constantly. When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 04:18 PM
51	Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too: Point 2 is so spot on, lol. Disaster struck, both my sets of grand parents needed medical help, my mother suddenly got some serious medial issues and they all live relatively close to one another. So I had to stop renting, go back home and give up the €92,000 I'd been saving up for a house to pay for their care, instalation of equipment and medical private medical costs. Realistically, I can't leave for a long, long time, because I'm STILL going to be paying for so much stuff. Now I'm flat broke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:18 PM
1	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Women tend to end a relationship before they end a relationship. Whether it be meeting someone else, or just not wanting their current partner anymore. They also tend to keep a partner around while they emotionally and mentally disconnect. So as to spare themselves as much pain as possible. The void has been mostly filled/closed up before it was ever opened. It's cruel, but it's also very smart and self preservative. Of course, it leaves the partner totally fucked, but they're past caring what h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 09:57 PM
8	Study: Average Age to Lose Virginity by Country 2024. Does this match your experience? I think all the cheating, lying, deliberate/unconcerned hurting and so on I've spoken about in both posts I've made here constitutes shitty behaviour. As far as teens go, I'd imagine being from environments where that kind if behaviour seemed FAR more accepted would also lead to younger people having sex more early than other places. Not souly the interest in sex, as is normal for the majority of people during puberty, but the way sex is treated and thought of. A comprehensive sex education does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 09:59 PM
4	Study: Average Age to Lose Virginity by Country 2024. Does this match your experience? Well, of course. That's what anecdotal experience is. But everyone's experience is anecdotal. That's what asked for. Whether the study lines up with others anecdotal experiences. Their personal observations. Unless you were asking if others personally conducted studies lined up with this particular study. I met them while I was doing work between Sweden and Norway. One was a teacher, one sold news papers, one worked with me... and I'm not sure what the other two did. They were all unrelated to o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 07:17 PM
3	Study: Average Age to Lose Virginity by Country 2024. Does this match your experience? It's super limited anecdotal experience. Having lived there for nearly two years. But every girl I've known from Scandinavia countries were MASSIVELY promiscuous, with very little concern for morals in how they conducted sexual relationships. Just REALLY shitty people. The boys aren't any better. Cheating on their partners with tons of other boys, sleeping with boys who also had partners, lying about getting STD checks while reassuring boys they were sleeping with that they've been tested and ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 06:58 PM
0	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me I don't know if it counts as old, but I'm 30. I've had a few really early 20s women wanting to get together. I do some volunteering work and recently had a 19 year old there tell me she wanted to hang out like that. I'm not going to do it, because I feel like we're so far apart in age that it would feel strange for me. But there's no shortage of women actively seeking to go a higher in age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 04:56 PM
4	Paternity test is not fidelity test I wish people wouldn't act as though cheating is this incredibly rare thing. I think every single person I know has either cheated, or been cheated on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:27 PM
6	Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men? People WILDLY over estimate and underestimate technology progression. People, we've only just figured out how to make a fleshlight holder that moves along a single axis and sounds like you're running a power drill. And it costs like, hundreds of dollars. Sex robots that aren't just Chuck E' Cheese robots with creepy uncanny valley latex skin are so far out the reach of anyone in this sub, both in lifespan and justifiable financial situation that planning in them is like planning on living in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 08:30 AM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” It depends wildly on my relationship with them. I'm almost always going to play back, I can't see a scenario in which I don't. But the way I play back would vary wildly from stranger to loved one. If it's someone I don't know, I'm just blowing a little air out of my nose to acknowledge they've said something with humour as the intent. If its someone I love, it'll be far more wild of a response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:30 PM
8	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. Abusive relationships happen all the time. You can minimise it as much as you want, but it doesn't change the reality that having insurance against them is a genuinely good idea. Listen, I just don't think you have a lot of real world around issues like this, but like I said. Nothing you say here will change anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:30 PM
17	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. Like how women sit men down and tell them about all the ways that they're planning in escaping if he's abusive towards them? Sure. Look, men have every right to defend themselves in secret, the exact way women do. Have a big of a shit fit as you want, that's what it is. Exactly the same thing I'd say to a man who was upset a woman can have plans to defend herself for an abusive partner, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:06 PM
26	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. Okay, but if you have some kind of escape plan, secret escape money, or anything like that, you're calling your partner an abusive scumbag. You take a test/have a back up plan because all humans have the potential to be abusive backstabbers. Only the people you love can deeply betray you. Understanding that women are human and humans have flaws isn't insecurity, no matter how much you throw around your new catchall buzzword. This silly obsession with the idea that lying, cheating, abusive women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 12:44 PM
8	Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you. I've never really seen attractive women befriend sexually unattractive men. I've seen them on pleasant enough acquaintance level, I've seen sexually unattractive men follow them around like lost puppies while the woman is too soft to tell him to go away, and I've seen them be "friends" in as much as they're actually friends with an attractive man that she's friends with and the unattractive man comes as a bundle. But never true, platonic friends with a sexually unattractive man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 03:01 PM
–	What some people get wrong about flirting There's not really much to debate. If they find you attractive, nearly any form of flirting will work. If they find you unattractive, no form of flirting will work. I've ended up in relationships with girls where our first few interactions were me choking on my words, awkwardly floundering and painfully blushing because I'm so pale it's impossible to hide. But I'm also 6'3 and pretty big in general. If these girls weren't attracted to be before I started speaking, nothing I could have said would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:19 PM
14	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. When talking to autists, it's best to speak autistically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 11:33 AM
16	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. I think a specific boundary like that needs to be set early on. I don't think a no porn boundary is commonly expected in relationships, so I wouldn't fault someone for not being aware of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 10:55 AM
45	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. Cheating is whatever violates the relationship agreement. Typically in regards to romance and sexuality. People can be in an open relationship, sleep with other people and not consider it cheating. If you've agreed in your relationship that neither of you are going to watch porn, then you watch porn, it's cheating. All boundaries are controlling behaviour. Not all controlling behaviour is bad. It's that this boundary/controlling behaviour effects you negatively, so you don't like it. The only th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 10:22 AM
39	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? The window for being a female loser is FAR, FAR smaller than the window for being a male loser. To be a woman who is a loser, you truly have to be an awful mix of insanely unlucky and a host of your own faults. To be a man who is a loser, you just have to be ever so slightly below average in two or three regards without being so lucky as to massively compensate in other regards. I'd guess that out of 100 men and 100 women, there may be 1 woman who is viewers as a loser, where as there would be 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 07:15 AM
3	Men need to learn to be happy being single Just be happy, Bro...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:24 PM
7	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... I'll just fast forward through the thread. People will almost unanimously say that it's an immediate deal breaker and will have no more dealings with this person. They will also hold the belief that false accusations don't happen. If there's no evidence, the man just hid it or got lucky. But when they do, they don't destroy the person's life. And the false accuser shouldn't be punished for it because other women might not accuse men without evidence in the future. I've known three different men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:52 AM
25	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Can women ever just have a negative attribute without someone bending over backwards to some how make it mens fault? Women don't do this because a handful of randos on the Internet say something. The vast, vast majority of women have never heard "pick better" at any point in their lives. And of those who have, 99.9% of those have only heard it online in places like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 02:17 PM
–	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Women tell you time and time again, they want the finished product and that average isn't good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 09:12 AM
2	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Abuse is only when you can die. So, not counting emotional abuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 11:10 AM
10	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Yeah. It's far worse than a lot of things that can also be deemed abuse in a relationship. Just because it's not legally defined as abuse, doesn't mean that it isn't abusive. It's a particularly abusive act, that is committed by a spouse against their partner. Men should have the same right to protect themselves as women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 04:41 PM
14	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan I forgot, something is only abuse when it can happen to a woman. It's one of the worst things that can happen to a person. And it's done intentionally, by a spouse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 04:35 PM
10	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan One is abusing your partner, the other is also abusing your partner. Paternity fraud is abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 04:07 PM
13	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan If you're going to have THIS MANY escape plans on your partner, I don't ever want to hear complaints about paternity testing ever again. Women here say "If you don't trust your partner, don't have children with them." and then post stuff like this, lol. Women have back up plans, secret accounts, safety nets, escape routes and people they plan on saving them. And I'm fine with that. Protect yourselves. In the past, I've encouraged my partners to do the same. I'll never hurt them, but do what you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 03:46 PM
0	How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily? Having a lot of something tends to lower it's value in your mind. The majority of women are inundated with suitors. You don't value something if you always have more of it lined up for you. Women Will always be pursued by men, so they don't worry about particular men, as there will always be 5 new men around the corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 02:40 PM
1	The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stopped Male friends is a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:09 PM
-1	Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed? Obviously, I can't answer this as a woman. But the brain is an incredibly important sexual organ. The psychological effects a hotter, more attractive partner brings, probably does result in a better sexual experience for both men and women. Where as its it's harder for a partner to please someone sexually the more unattractive they find them, I imagine it makes sense that the more attractive a partner is, the more easily they're able to please someone due to the added arousal. A very, very attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 01:58 PM
11	Q4W who "make men wait for sex": what culture, religion, and/orcountry are you from? Not a girl, obviously. But I don't have sex with a girl until I know I've developed real feelings towards her. I've had girls push towards sex without being sure of an emotional connection before. I just don't enjoy sex with someone I don't feel have a particular emotional bond with. I imagine they're doing something similar. Less "making them wait" and more establishing a strong romantic and emotional connection before taking the step towards being physical intimate with the boy they're into. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 01:41 PM
14	What advice would you give to your struggling son? It's funny to see so many users who've proclaimed that women don't date above their level and people of a similar level end up with one another, now turn around and say things like average isn't good enough. lol. And how many of them I've seen talk against looks maxing, and how near every single comment is go to the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 04:11 AM
11	Why do (some) women monopolize being pampered as something only women are entitled to in a relationship? It's pretty straightforward. The majority of women are generally pursued, desired and wanted by men. The same cannot be said for men. So women constantly have a lot of options in men. Where as men don't have a lot of options in women. This gives women leverage to demand more in relationships than an equal split. Ending in more men giving more to women than women give to men. This is why women want and expect to be treated like women. Which is soft, pampered and gentle. While men are to be expect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 11:00 AM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. "Women could fix X issue for men if they just did Y!" How many times do we have to do this? Women aren't interested in helping men that they don't find attractive. Those men don't exist to them. Shy isn't typically attractive to women. Women don't want to help what they aren't attracted to. There's three types of people. Upper Men, Women and Lower Men. Upper Men and Women get cared and and helped. People care about them. Lower Men don't get either. The types of men this shift would help, aren't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:01 PM
3	If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves? To be fair, offline, not on reddit but in the real world, I hear women talk shit about girls being sluts, easy and whores all the time. I'm willing to bet that most irl women would also look down on OnlyFans girls, girls posting TikThots and thirst posts too. They're either just not exposed to it a lot, or it's just not brought up in normie conversation. The whole pro sexwork, normalising having a 100 sexual partners and walking around half naked thing is a VERY online thing. I've seen more girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 06:21 AM
13	Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men? It's not that complicated. If it benefits what a women wants in some way, it's positive masculinity. If it's a detriment to what a woman wants in some way, it's toxic masculinity. People just what to encourage what benefits them. It doesn't have to make sense, be coherent, be good or bad for the said men. It just has to benefit the person giving their opinion on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 05:42 AM
8	Do you think it's harder to find a good job or a good partner? Partner. No competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 05:39 AM
64	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Social aptitude is incredibly important in terms of male attractiveness. It's as important as physical appearance. Autistic men have very low social aptitude. Past a certain point on the spectrum, while still very much being in the functional adult zone, is a death sentence, romantically speaking. You'll be seen as almost and entirely sexless being. No one will think of you sexually. Criminals tend to have a high level of social aptitude. Romantic success is not about being a good person or any …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 12:25 PM
–	Do you believe positive physical characteristics can offset negative ones in males? You basically never get truthful responses in these threads. Listening to women answer these questions, you'd think women would date 5'1, fat, ugly, bald, toothless, disabled fishmen with progeria, autism and $3 to their name because "he has a good heart" or some other nonsense. But let's be real. How many ugly, autistic sweetheart guys with good hearts and kind personalities out there are being ignored and disregard by the world? Now how many 6'4 men in good shape with attractive faces are swim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 11:03 AM
22	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men There's probably a lot more to consider in terms of conviction rates and severity of sentencing, rather than individual laws. The legal system is HEAVILY biased towards women, but likely not in terms of law applied by gender. Other than, here in the UK at least, women cannot legally rape a man, as only rape can only be committed with penile penetrative sex. If I'm ever going to court, 110% I'd rather be going as a woman. Not because so few laws apply to me, but because how might lighter sentenci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:50 PM
1	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men Men looking for mommies and easy, low effort sex. Women so desperate for companionship that they'll put up with it. Real life isn't sex in the city.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:05 AM
15	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options See what I mean? The thought of choosing one of the romantic options they have available to them is akin to genital mutilation and dismemberment. These things are not comparable in any capacity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 07:35 AM
30	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options Some men are starving to death, and women just don't want what's in the refrigerator, so they won't eat. It is what it is. Women can talk all day about how X amount of men aren't options, but they are options. Just options they don't like. I truly don't think that the vast majority of women understand what it is to truly have nothing. No one. No options. Most women live in a reality where that isn't even a possibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 06:18 AM
–	Are my standards too high? I've seen this issue a lot with religious girls. There are TONS of this type of boy out there. Go to any church and they're there by the dozen, every Sunday. The problem is, they're not sexually attractive to women. They're dorks. Not the nerds girls fall in love with, the socially poor, don't know how to dress themselves type of dorks. The ones that act homeschooled and look like Carl Wheezer. You wanting what you've listed isn't unreasonable at all. You wanting what you've listed AND wanting h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:33 PM
–	Do women judge other women who cheat? In my experience, they care in the sense that they gossip about X being such a whore behind their back, but not in any meaningful sense. They're still friends with them, associate with them and so on. Men are similar to the extent that they don't care, but they also don't really gossip about it. In the real world, cheating isn't seen as that big of a deal. You can utterly devastate and destroy someone emotionally, and no one will really care. I hate it, but it is what it is. There's no real cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:52 AM
1	Do women judge other women who cheat? In my experience, they care in the sense that they gossip about X being such a whore behind their back, but not in any meaningful sense. They're still friends with them, associate with them and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:52 AM
6	Q4W: What Lets You Trust a Man? Friends who were girls have told me that being good and kind with animals is an instant green flag for whether a man is safe to be around or not. They were talking about a boy we knew who would take care of stray cats. But he was also a drug dealer. So, take that for what it's worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 03:26 AM
22	Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date? First date? As in first time meeting one another? No. It's just such a far cry from my values around sex and relationships that I wouldn't have any interest in continuing that connection. I also wouldn't sleep with her. But, I've known some women for a long time, interacted with them continously for months until we'd really fallen for one another, to the point where one confessed her love for me before we'd even kissed. THEN gone on a "date" and slept with one another the first night. But I don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 12:45 AM
4	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. Lower Percentage Men don't have the social worth to shame anyone. Their opinions are quite literally irrelevant. Only women's and Top Percentage Mens opinions matter, and they don't aline with yours. Women want access to Top Percentage Men, and Top Percentage Men want access to women. Lower Percentage Men are irrelevant. They aren't seen as people. Generally they're utterly invisible, unless they're causing too much of an issue and become annoying. In which case, they're shamed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 10:59 PM
73	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. Dating is fine for the types of men that women find attractive. If men stopped being thirsty we'd be in exactly the same spot. The men who get women will continue to do so, the men who don't, will not. Women still wouldn't be interested in the men that aren't interested in now. Women's preferences would still go Upper Percentage Men > Being Alone > Lower Percentage Men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 10:05 PM