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| 8 | Women's ideal isn't "asshole." The reality is that many men don't know how to achieve her ideal w/o defaulting to "asshole."this comment is so dumb it’s making me leave the sub thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man bad enough at sex that you wouldn't want to see him again?no, you enjoy it. if she enjoyed it her legs would be shaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 19 | What makes a man bad enough at sex that you wouldn't want to see him again?no intention of making me orgasm. If a guy tries and fails I’ll give him the A for effort but if you don’t eat or touch my vagina, just stick your dick in, finish, and roll away, then yeah you’re not getting the benefit anymore. also disrespecting boundaries. like when they try to escalate, you say no, they say it’s okay, then they try again 10 minutes later. did you think just 10 more minutes of making out would make it okay for you to reach up my pants? no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?FACTS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 17 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.coercing = caring now? okay keep on with your abusive mind set | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Most women aren't attracted to bald menbald is fine. hair is fine. thinning isn’t. don’t try to hold onto your hair, gracefully let it go edit: like if it’s receding it’s fine but once you have that halo of hair, say goodbye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?but it’s often not enough. just cause it should be enough doesn’t mean it is. that’s what i’m saying. relationship =/= confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?you said having a partner makes you feel better about yourself. not always true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?people in healthy relationships can feel extremely shitty about themselves. people who have never been kissed can be extremely confident. being in a relationship doesn’t equate to self love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?if you only rely on other people for your opinion of yourself that’s another issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on transgender people?that’s really interesting, and i’m glad to know that next time i get in an argument with transphobes lol however it isn’t what i was getting at (and honestly probably because i might not get the idea of the post). I often identify more with how men think and react and cope, but I am not a trans man. Not all people who “have a male brain” are trans. Some are, and that physically explains why they have gender dysphoria. but not all are. i feel like trans people probably have the brain they identif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on transgender people?i don’t think a male and female brain are a thing. and if they were, i don’t think you automatically have what sex you were born with’s brain. my girl and guy friends alike tell me I “think like a guy” cause i look to vent instead of look for advice, and think literally nothing unless prompted. these are “guy” brain traits. am i a trans man? no, i’m a cis woman. i just think and act a certain way. i don’t think we should attribute mental functioning to sex or gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Ugly truth: the only good mother is a self-sacrificing antifeminist mother.childless women probably have money to travel, have nice things, etc. i can’t imagine a mother of multiple children will have such a luxury unless they are very wealthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel?bait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Ugly - hot peopleunfortunately I found out after a few months that he has a girlfriend. Not a homewrecker haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Ugly - hot peopleyes, i work with a guy who I didn’t find attractive at first. He was generally the opposite of the guys i usually date. But as we talked I realize he is funny and we have an insane amount in common. Eventually I did find him cute, very cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Women act like men when they switch seats at speed datingi mean this is sort of explained by the stanford prison experiment. they weren’t “acting like men”, they were assuming their role | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?since you’re still bothering me a week later, fine. Simone de Beauvoir, ruth badger ginsburg, angela davis, gloria steinem, michelle obama. satisfied ? have i proven to you that feminism exists and stands for equality, by listing names? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men.male gaze vs female gaze. check the video on my profile. Basically, women don’t want a protector, or a guy who is “masculine”, that’s what men are taught women want. But it’s not actually what women desire. (8:43) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?I have some views that would be categorized as “feminist” okay cool so why is that a problem. He doesn’t need to identify as feminist but if he is anti-feminist then he is clearly a misogynist. Whenever I hear a man identify as a feminist, my immediate thought is that he's probably very unmasculine Bold of you to assume I look for masculinity in men. Idk why all men assume this even though KPop idols and Harry Styles are wearing dresses and being fawned over. Masculinity is 100000000000% overrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?I didn’t answer because the question made no sense. Do you want me to list hundreds of thousands of women who are doing feminism correctly? No, you don’t, because then you would just bring up ones who aren’t doing feminism correctly. I’m not gonna win with you. I’m not gonna change your mind. Also I’m not encyclopedia and Google exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?relationship statuses change faster than i feel like updating my profile cause i have a life beyond the internet, but okay go off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?you can’t blame a whole movement for one group of wrongly led social activists. the movement means what it is defined as. If people misuse that, they are misusing the name of feminism. simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?fem·i·nism /ˈfeməˌnizəm/ noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 19 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?feminism rocks and i don’t wanna be with any guy who says or thinks otherwise because by definition that means they view me as less than them rather than equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 0 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardof course the correct diagnosis matters ?? how else will you know how to deal with them ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardit entirely depends on the person obviously. To say that every single person with BPD will respond the same way to the angel turning into a demon is incredibly unresearched. Not everyone has the same reactions.. Some will say rude things while others will just say nothing to let their relationships fade. You REALLY haven’t studied this while it is literally what I am getting a degree in. You said They will both act with complete disregard to others and say/do anything to get their own way. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardbig generalization, but thank you at least for not calling them literal psychopaths like that other guy did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 0 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Reward“A "psychopath" is someone whose hurtful actions toward others tend to reflect calculation, manipulation and cunning; they also tend not to feel emotion and mimic (rather than experience) empathy for others.” “With borderline personality disorder, you have an intense fear of abandonment or instability, and you may have difficulty tolerating being alone. Yet inappropriate anger, impulsiveness and frequent mood swings may push others away, even though you want to have loving and lasting relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardthey are incredibly different lmao that’s like calling a sociopath and a psychopath the same thing, do some research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:48 AM |
| -1 | (Discussion/Q4A): Risk Taking & Risk/Rewardouch. Why do people with borderline get thrown around like an insult 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:21 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There isn’t someone for everyone.Sorry but I do not remember the guy wants young girl part in his post. That’s cause he only talked about women having high standards when both genders have reasonable standards. Even if he meant what you said, it came out as “WOMEN have high standards and WOMEN don’t wanna date down” Not a word about how men are exactly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There isn’t someone for everyone.it’s gone now but the post was like “women want rich and tall guys with money” but no mention of how men want young and thin girls 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There isn’t someone for everyone.why is all the blame in this post on the women????? lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:55 AM |
| -1 | Red Pill does not work, CMV.“it works! it works! for me? oh, for me it doesn’t work, but i have faith!” LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 10:53 AM |
| 0 | Unattractive females don't have it easier or harder than unattractive males. The key point is that men fall into the unattractive category way easier than women does.canada | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive females don't have it easier or harder than unattractive males. The key point is that men fall into the unattractive category way easier than women does.canada | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Unattractive females don't have it easier or harder than unattractive males. The key point is that men fall into the unattractive category way easier than women does.i’m not a misandrist lmfao all i said was girls near me date down. keep projecting ! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Unattractive females don't have it easier or harder than unattractive males. The key point is that men fall into the unattractive category way easier than women does.wow, a red pill guy who hates “most” women? shocking /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 20 | Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text)no one is responsible for anybody else’s orgasms, but if you care about your sexual partner you will try to please them. And that’s so so so much easier for women to do than men considering the orgasm gap. They don’t try, they don’t put the effort in. it seems like you’re blaming women for men getting off easy but what do i know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Unattractive females don't have it easier or harder than unattractive males. The key point is that men fall into the unattractive category way easier than women does.that’s funny cause i only see the opposite. where I life anyone average weight or more gets no dates, so all the girls in relationships are skinny and beautiful. who are they dating? neckbeards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do promiscuous women justify their past by saying “it’s just sex”?if she gives you permission, that’s an open relationship and it’s different. Plus if you’re dating a “promiscuous woman” then what need is there to cheat when they likely have a high libido? You just wanna punish women who have sex more than you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do promiscuous women justify their past by saying “it’s just sex”?funny how he doesn’t respond to the comments that make sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do promiscuous women justify their past by saying “it’s just sex”?it’s not a double standard. One happens while in a relationship aka cheating and the other happens out of a relationship aka not cheating. “just sex” has nothing to do with anything at all. It’s insane that you’re trying to justify your POV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do promiscuous women justify their past by saying “it’s just sex”?you. are. insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do promiscuous women justify their past by saying “it’s just sex”?wtf kind of logic is this? Someone slept with a lot of people in the past, and you think it’s okay to cheat on that person??? Please let me know if i misread the post because this is the stupidest “logic” i could imagine ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about snooping?i mean you do you, still strange to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about snooping?snooping is bad, and I agree that if you can’t trust them don’t date them. but you’d have to be extremely paranoid and/or hiding something to turn off face ID and fingerprints when you’re sleeping with someone. Seems very extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 0 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)I think this is an extremely extreme example and not many people do this at all let alone to this extent. She gives other women a bad name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with using a man as a cash cow.because in both cases the other person probably wasn’t in the relationship to get used ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 11:55 PM |
| 13 | Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a womani believe you saying men like “all types of women” as much as you would believe me if I said women like all types of men. You don’t believe me, and i don’t believe you. say what you want but you can’t experience being a woman in those categories, just as I can’t experience being a man in those categories. I think both are shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 28 | Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sexThis post is filled with AWALT and incel ideas. You’re unwilling to admit you might be wrong (you are). A thousand women could prove your statements wrong with their own life experiences and you would still just chalk it up to “being the exception”. If there is that high a volume of exceptions then clearly that rule doesn’t work. Women only want to be treated like objects, if they truly wanted to be valued for more, they would take the necessary steps to do so. But they choose not to. “If women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:29 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The Average Male can become attractive enough for casual sexliterally what you described as “average” is enough for like 90% of girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Why? I like to get a sense of compatibility before I dive in, but once I like that person, I’m usually aware that they prefer hookups and I don’t want to scare away someone I fancy, by telling them I’m looking for something more serious. As a type C, I’m usually not looking for something serious, but it does happen. Cs have an increased likelihood to cheat, I feel like that is a large jump to make based on groups that you made up and don’t have any actual statistics on. I think you assume anyone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?As a group C member, it’s kinda hard when I do like someone enough to want to settle down, because the other people I date are also type Cs and I feel pressured into staying casual. In regards to your questions, I think As and Cs can mix, and Bs and Cs can mix, you, as an A, just have to avoid Bs. C’s can be swayed either way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?came back to add: a man who isn’t a selfish lover. Like the scene in OITNB where tiffany has that really sweet boyfriend in her hometown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?people liking the shy/quiet girl. People just think I’m weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 6 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?because they’re a troll. I got in an argument with them about how abuse is bad. They said it isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 01:51 PM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitherwell i’ve never related much to the “average” women according to this sub but all I can say for myself is that I don’t look for any of the qualities listed. And if i did they wouldn’t be a dealbreaker. But as I stated, other women seem to disagree with me ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:40 AM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitheri think these groups only exist on reddit tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:15 AM |
| 9 | What are things about being a feminine woman/wife that can only be taught by a woman? I.e. things dads would be largely unaware of.hair, periods, sex, boobs, guys, basically all the girl stuff | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?burning abused is worse, no contest. keep your kinks out of your world views please. people are being abused to death | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?no dad > abusive dad. not arguing with anyone else on this matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 13 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?you’re fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:42 AM |
| 13 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?I said something about abuse because I’ve been abused and it’s better to be alone. Hit me back when you’ve had your face bashed in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:24 AM |
| 14 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?Have to disagree. Abuse is worse than being alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 13 | Are most women really that desperate for marriage nowadays?no husband > shitty husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Women in favour of 'rape by deception' laws, are you also in favour of the criminal penalties for paternity fraud?i think it’s another issue you can’t tell when a women is wearing waist trainers, makeup and push up bras. All are pretty obvious enhancements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?I mean, I don’t care what they wear. I care about their personality and maybe their looks but not their style. I wear what’s comfortable to me and I’m sure the grand majority would call me a slob for it but at least I am clean and comfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 10:27 AM |
| – | Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies?according to my idea of a good body, about 60% of people have them. All it takes is not being morbidly obese really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:07 PM |
| – | Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies?there’s no singular definition for “good body” so basically there’s no way to disprove me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:07 PM |
| – | Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies?I know about 30 people who would disagree with you, just in my current line of sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:21 PM |
| – | Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies?The current president of Brazil, Argentina and South Korea are all men, Angela Merkel is a child of nepotism, as is the president of Kosovo and PM of bangladesh. The only person who actually earned their job out of the people you mentioned was the prime minister of Denmark, who clearly isn’t influential enough in men’s eyes for you to even mention her name. So basically you tried to disprove me but actually proved my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?i meant a link to a study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:12 PM |
| – | Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies?women are only valued by society for our bodies, it’s our only power. men are valued for actual accomplishments, which having a good body is only half an accomplishment since everyone’s metabolism is different and therefore some people don’t have to work for their desirable bodies at all. Just my two cents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?do you have any sources to back that up or is that just an opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?look I can’t sway a poll or anything but I can give you my genuine, honest perspective, because not all women are the same or like the same things. I do NOT like muscular guys. I do NOT like 6foot tall+ guys. So it’s not hopeless, okay? Okay. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?i pray it’s because we’re moving away from toxic masculinity and the nuclear family stereotypes. I can attest though that it’s true and not necessarily just “cause they’re kids”, I’m legally an adult and have been told for years I’m extremely mature and yet I don’t like the “masculine”/“alpha” types. It comes off as insecure in a society where we are free to be gender fluid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menBefore being born a fetus is not a child. It’s a fetus. A woman isn’t “killing her children”, because it isn’t a child, it isn’t a life, and she is not a mother. A fetus could not live without the support of the woman therefore it is a parasite. We get rid of parasites with drugs all the time. You want to talk about language games and then you go and call abortion murder. It’s impossible to even argue with people like you because you genuinely think you’re not insane for valuing a non-life over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Sex is higher pressure for menwomen are humans. Women are alive and in this world. a fetus, a clump of cells, is not a human yet, it is not alive yet, it is not in this world. You don’t value life, if you did you would respect the lives of the women who don’t want to ruin theirs for a life that doesn’t exist yet. Women’s rights are human rights. Unless you think women aren’t people (which sounds like your stance) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Can anybody link a texting guide for bumble and tindershudder | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Don’t think i’m stupid, i understood your attempted point the first time. My Issue with this is that it’s actually just incredibly easy to tell who is and isn’t attractive. You literally just have to look. If the hot guy thinks i’m out of his league, he is hot by definition, so i am being settled for. There is always a reacher and a settler, and if you can’t tell who is who in a relationship then you need to take off your rose tinted glasses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?anddd you just proved my original point. The attractive guys (and therefore the groups below as well) will say yes to anyone half-decent who asks. not good enough. i don’t wanna be settled for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?i have yet to see this group exist. Maybe in your life, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?but if i’m out of his league why would i be asking…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?why would I take that chance and waste my time and energy on a relationship if the person doesn’t want me? I don’t want to be a bandaid for someone’s loneliness. That’s what your right hand is for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?men who approach literally any woman that looks half decent without knowing anything about them definitely have low self esteem, i mean honestly don’t you think you deserve better than half decent? if not, keep approaching every woman you see. But if you wanna have some respect for yourself, start with some standards with the opposite sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to ease a date into me eating a special/restrictive diet?Why should your eating habits effect someone else? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 07:08 PM |
| 3 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?i just mean approaching complete strangers… i like speaking to someone once or twice first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?interesting standards you’ve got there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?i don’t date people i’m not at least acquaintances with, myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?sure, a guy will date the first girl to accept them, but he has to like her enough to ask in the first place right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Master key/ Bad Lock analogythat’s something I think is mostly on the internet…. guys are the ones who make sex a societal priority. I literally couldn’t give less of a fuck if the guy i’m sleeping with is a virgin. Or a slut. Frankly I think judging both parties is ridiculous. But in particular I notice slut shaming in real life and on the internet, whereas nobody actually cares if you lack experience because lots of people prioritize work and school so it’s kinda normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Master key/ Bad Lock analogyWomen don’t like it because it reenforces double standards. (if you’re going to say “yes double standards exist but we can’t do anything” then you don’t understand why women are mad in the first place). It’s annoying that a slutty man is appreciated and a slutty women is put down. It’s really as simple as that. It’s not fair and women want men to see that. Sex is good for everyone. Why are women punished for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 119 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?I feel like men will say yes to any half-decent woman who takes initiative. I don’t want you to say yes to me just because I asked. Then you will be stuck in a relationship with someone who isn’t fulfilling to you cause you took the first person to come your way. I want someone to want to date ME, not want to date anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Should men be obligated to give oral sex?In my experience as a girl (probably shouldn’t be on this sub but I like to browse), I give head every time and have only received head once. My girl friends have no problem giving head. They usually don’t get head. It’s probably different for older guys but young guys (late teens, early 20s) are more often selfish than giving. Even those who claim to be a giver during the dirty talk stage will push your head down and not go down himself. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?i don’t have an onlyfans so this doesn’t apply to me lmao, i just answered the question asked. No need to get angry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?they’re jealous frankly. It’s harder to get into a social position to be successful as a stripper, phone sex op, porn star, or cam girl. But literally anyone can make an OnlyFans, and no matter how small/unpopular you are, there will always be creepy guys sitting on the sidelines desperate for you, willing to pay to see your nude body since they never will IRL. And men cause the demand: women aren’t dumb enough to pay for nudes when stuff like that is free online. Guys are. Literally can’t under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test and how did I docalling you mentally stable = shit test? Come on | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)yes exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)can’t speak for all situations but sometimes a man will treat her bad and because of her lack of experience she doesn’t know better. If she stands up for herself (big IF) the guy is older and has more experience so he can gaslight her and say “that’s not an actual issue, you’re just crazy” and since he’s older, wiser, more experienced (supposedly), the girl feels dumb and embarrassed and lets herself get abused/taken advantage of. ONCE AGAIN this isn’t all cases, but if you’re asking how “groomi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Tinder convo adviceeh, sounds creepy to me. go ahead, downvote me. Offering perspective | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that in real life I see blue pill methods working for guys? Do some women just respond to blue pilled methods?you asked a question and i answered. Not sure how stating that fact instead of my opinion would be relevant in this thread silly | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Looks don’t matter as much as guys here think. Trust me.i mean, it is really entirely different for each person’s perspective. Idk. I live somewhere where everyone is kinda low maintenance and if you do wear a ton of makeup you’re kind of an outcast. Not saying it’s right or wrong, but the girls here are genuinely attractive and the men are genuinely not. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?well I have, and i’m speaking on behalf of myself. Cuddling with someone with giant arms gives you a kink in your neck from the angle. just facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?i’m a girl. just offering perspective lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 09:19 AM |
| -1 | Why is it that in real life I see blue pill methods working for guys? Do some women just respond to blue pilled methods?blue-pilling, you mean respecting? yeah, can’t imagine why girls would respond to that... | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?muscles aren’t nice to cuddle. i don’t wanna hug a rock. honestly when i see guys working out i think it’s to impress his buddies anyway lol cause girls dgaf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Looks don’t matter as much as guys here think. Trust me.depends who you are, where you live. The average attractiveness where i live for men is low but for women extremely high so i almost never see a more attractive man with a less attractive woman unless he is a serial cheater | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you still love your wives now that they’re no longer young?are you actually married to the mod? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?all i have to say is myself and many of my friends are turned off by the jacked, steroid look. Just putting that out there, it’s not an instant yes-maker. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.i knew this scrawny but nice dude at work, i was pretty comfortable around him. Turns out he raped another coworker while she was passed out drunk. Guys who are willing to do bad things are usually sociopaths who are good at hiding their intentions. To the average girl, the genuinely good guy and the bad guy act the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with disillusionment with where Western Society is heading?We don’t live in a meritocracy, you can’t just get the job because you’re the best. Like it or not, the white people have had infinitely more opportunities up until like a decade ago, and now equality is happening. boo hoo lmao. Born in the wrong time I guess. I’d be careful with these opinions, you’re about 5 steps away from white supremacy territory. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.have yet to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 08:23 AM |
| 17 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.damn men and their inability to give even one orgasm in 50% or more of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 14 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.quick question: do you have a vagina ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Most men don’t really become marriageable until after 25.women only have “leverage” when young because men stop valuing us when we stop being able to pop out kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 09:46 AM |
| 8 | If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking.being made to do all the chores VS having to buy flowers or read a book. boo hoo. one is clearly more likely to be a punishment lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:13 AM |
| 5 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusivehonestly as a woman i agree, it’s the new MeToo society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?offering perspective luv | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?okay well i was tryna provide some perspective and sympathy but okay keep projecting. a comma or period might make you comment remotely readable btw. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 3 | girls saying they're into "toxic boys with issues". wtf does that even mean?they want to change him. They want to be the one person on the planet who the guy isn’t toxic towards. Dumb goals but that’s the truth | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 04:09 PM |
| -2 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?sometimes I give a guy my snapchat only to immediately realize i hate his interests (via his story) or they will completely blow up my phone with no regard for my life outside of them. that being said i’m sorry you guys go through this | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie?anyone remember on Schitt’s Creek when Alexis took the virginity of (i think) the vet, and he didn’t tell her beforehand, but when he did tell her, she was freaked out because she didn’t realize it would mean such a big deal to him? She just wanted casual sex and he put all this pressure on it. Just be careful of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 08:06 AM |
| -1 | Are tattoos (especially large, visible ones) a sign of promiscuity?lots of tattoos are symbolic or cultural: if someone got a memorial of a dead family member they’re a slut automatically? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | What are *your* current dating/sex problems?I feel like i’m too young to resort to online dating but all the guys my age have also been raised with technology and therefore don’t approach women irl. If you were dating before the internet then you have a chance but those of us just now getting into the dating world have little other options than online dating. And online dating brings hook up guys, rarely relationship guys. so basically this new generation of adult women my age are all gonna be considered sluts by red pill guys even though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 05:34 PM |
| -1 | How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ?Just be honest. One time a guy I had a crush on snapchatted me out of nowhere and asked to come over for sex. I had no idea he thought i was attractive or anything. And I said yes, and we banged twice, and never talked about it again. Some girls are okay with casual sex if you are honest about your intentions | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What do you bring to the table?I didn’t feel like reading past point 1 so I’ll only speak on point 1: as a woman who tries to get into LTRs in today’s modern dating climate, I can tell you men will lie out of their teeth, promising you a relationship, swearing on anything, but as soon as you have sex with them, they got what they want, and they leave. I have no choice but to classify this as a “fling” even though I’m the relationship type. How do I stand any chance when i’m trying to get LTRs but guys refuse to commit, and cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | “Women ghost before sex. Men ghost after sex.” How true is this comment? Have you seen the opposite happen?I’m a girl, i have been ghosted by guys twice before sex/because i didn’t put out. I’ve been ghosted by 2 of them afterwards. I ghosted one afterwards. Had 2 stay. Don’t have much to say about these statistics but here they are for your research purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character?No I wouldn’t. But that’s cause of self esteem issues. If i were more confident in myself then sure. But i think my body > personality and overall both suck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 02:22 PM |
| -7 | Pronouns in instagram bio . Red flag?It shows some respect for the LGBTQ community and make them feel like they aren’t different. If you don’t like someone cause they’re inclusive, that’s your MO | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themIt sounds like you view your relationships as transactional, which is not universal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themAnd that shouldn’t be a problem because if you actually cared about being nice you wouldn’t care about the rewards. A “thanks” is more than enough for a person who is ACTUALLY nice and not just putting on an act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:52 AM |
| 2 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themgood rebuttal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:46 AM |
| 5 | "would you hate me if we met up tomorrow instead?"take off the tin foil hat... she’s a human, she has a life | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Plate of 7 months says she felt “used”he would probably know after having his dick in her don’t you think ? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Plate of 7 months says she felt “used”maybe she just genuinely feels that way. You’re calling her a plate but you care about her feelings? Those things don’t add up | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?of the men I meet, 10% ugly, 15% attractive, 75% average/indifferent. of the women I meet, 8% are ugly, 20% are attractive, and 72% are average/indifferent. I’m a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a femininity testThanks for sharing the quiz. I don’t fit any of the categories cause my lover score was low, oops | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/21 09:12 AM |
| -4 | I need warm and I mean WARM loungewearcan’t just leave a college dorm. they can transfer you to another room/building but even then who can say if it would help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menpeople who get past the shy exterior love me. So, yeah, i think it’s my shyness. Guys don’t approach girls who are quiet and closed off cause they assume we aren’t interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menThe problem is they don’t even bother to get to know the girls who are shy. It’s not like someone gives us a chance and then breaks it off because we’re quiet. They literally don’t speak to us in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menas a shy woman... it very much is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | An Heir and a Spare: how many men does the average woman have waiting in the wings?it’s hard enough having one person interested in me looool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Does having tattoos (as a man) repel good quality women?I find tattoos hot, but that might be because of the danger look. You’re alright though, best of both worlds, bad boy tattoos bring in the ladies, and they stay because they are impressed with your personality | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Which would you choose and why?Guy B, because guy A sounds boring. A “simple comfortable” life usually means marriage and kids which I don’t want. Guy B, while not really loving me, has everything else I would want from my own life. Nice house, life of the party, travelling, being respected amongst colleagues. What does the other guy offer at all ?? (not sure if love is even real so that’s not worth it) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Please decode these texts of what he’s looking for. Do I run?I just have to ask as an impartial reader: I’ve been told nonstop by men and women alike that if I want a man to stay with me I shouldn’t have sex with him until we are exclusive. And it is mostly true in my experience, i am usually broken down into having sex earlier than I wish and and later left alone. i understand why you “can’t make a wife out of a hoe”, but otherwise it makes no sense to me: I want to make sure i’m sexually compatible with someone before dating them. What are your thoughts… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Independent Men/ Independent WonenA week ago I would not have have an opinion on this, but my friend is going through a tough time in her marriage. About a year ago she found out he was a cocaine addict and using their shared money for that. She supported him trying to get clean, and then a few weeks ago they began a reno project. Right in the middle, while everything was torn out, he goes on another rampage, cleans out all the accounts, crashes their car. They’re getting a divorce. She had nothing. This was a huge lesson for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Ladies build your perfect guy-Well I would definitely say the maintenance is the bad part of having a pet, who doesn’t love the affection of a cute animal? I’ll keep your comment about rats in my mind. -It does not matter the ratio of male to girl friends, but I would prefer both because being friends with ONLY girls will make me a bit insecure/wonder if they are all hooking up with him. But also, not a lack of girl friends, because that shows that women don’t like being around them for whatever reason (sexism, shooting the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Ladies build your perfect guyOh yeah I didn’t think you were trying to invalidate me or anything, just when i say i dont want kids people look at me like i’m a monster lol. I looked at some other comments to build some steam. I’m ready. -no pets preferably, but more of a cat person. -organized -wants to travel, knows where and what he wants to do. (i wanna travel but don’t wanna research locations) -doesn’t judge me for being a picky eater but still lightly encourages me to step outside of my comfort zone -has guy and girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Ladies build your perfect guyI am totally willing to continue, but which parts would you like me to speak on? Concerning kids, I have a desire to pass on my family name (not totally normal for women) and yet no desire to ever have my own children. I guess you could say i’m an antinatalist, but if you are gonna look at info on that I would suggest r/childfree over r/antinatalism because I find the latter is mostly memes. So generally I don’t want to bring a child into this world, another reason why I think adopting could be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Ladies build your perfect guyLOOKS: -Age: 1-4 years older than me -Height: I’m 5’4.5, so my ideal guy would be anyone over 5’7. preferably under 6’1 or 6’2. -Body type: i want my guy to have a similar body type to me, which I would describe as “skinny-fat”. I would date someone very skinny except I would feel insecure next time them/worried I might break them. DEFINITELY not a body builder (hate muscles), not fat or obese, but probably just a few pounds overweight, not super noticeable with clothes on type deal. Sort of lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 0 | The Ultimate Female Fantasythere a difference between fantasies and goals. fantasies are things that will 99% chance never happen. goals are something you plan for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:59 AM |
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