StubbornSob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
406	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner.	Social Issues	StubbornSob	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 11:14 PM
204	What event in your childhood/youth made you aware of anti-male discrimination?	Social Issues	StubbornSob	/r/MensRights	13/01/25 10:04 PM
4	Separating fundamental truths about men's role in society from perceptions and toxic individualism	Social Issues	StubbornSob	/r/MensRights	12/06/25 05:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
58	Women have way too much power in today's society. Gen Z is already getting it, you've got plenty of men who are single and some of those are involuntarily single, but also many of them are because they refuse to date woke women, feminists, or women with a high body count. And modern women are predictably up in arms about this, because they don't want to end up alone.	/r/MensRights	19/06/26 01:18 AM
5	Questioning an old trope. Hmmm, I wonder what reason that might be? /s	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 03:03 AM
13	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. Speaking of church, even Christian subs on Reddit tend to lean left. I was temporarily sanctioned by one of these subs (won't say the name), just for arguing with a female member of the sub and she reported me to the mods. Idk if it's the mods themselves being feminist or feeling pressured to enact pro-feminist policies by the site as a whole, probably a combination of both.	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 02:55 AM
48	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. Apparently, the women that hook up with those guys are hooking up with predators lol No they're not! Don't you know, a woman gets to decide what a "predator" even is in this world! If she says he's a predator, clearly her flawless threat detection system must have detected something, but as a man you don't have that so you wouldn't even know! But since she slept with him, it clearly didn't go off, that clearly wasn't the case, therefore he isn't a predator! /s In all seriousness, though, all of …	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 02:34 AM
17	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. The problem is, men aren't a monolith and we actively bring each other down rather than build each other up precisely because we're competing for money, resources, and yes, women and we let that get in the way rather than join ranks for a common cause when it comes to supporting initiatives that would benefit our gender as a whole. As an aside, women are much more organized in supporting causes that at least seem to benefit their gender, but they're not a hive-mind either, and viewing them as su…	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 02:18 AM
21	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. You can even be banned for merely posting a comment in certain subs that simply supports treating men with a modicum of dignity, like human beings, even when that sub putatively exists to support men but is really a Trojan horse for misandric views. And not only that, but they'll even try to threaten to have you sanctioned on other subs if you talk about being banned on the original sub. Are we in the movie Fight Club? It's basically trying to turn Reddit into some totalitarian dictatorship wher…	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 12:17 AM
29	A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. He's actually a good-looking guy no homo, despite the hair loss as he's got a round, symmetrical head shape. One of the comments by another commenter (not OP) there mentioned he lives in a conservative society where waiting for marriage is common, so that might be part of the reason why his efforts have come up empty. But above all the vibe that is promoted by these comments is that men should just accept their lot in life and aren't allowed to complain if they don't get any attention, especiall…	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 12:08 AM
10	Remember that Inside Edition woman who felt "unsafe" from catcalling? She murdered her husband by firing five bullets into his chest. Only if the guy is unattractive or visibly poorer than she is...and it's a defence mechanism. Women instinctively know they're vulnerable to being seduced by men and manipulated into sleeping with them, so they flee any interaction with men the reptilian portions of their brains categorize as "undesirable" to pre-empt any possibility of that happening. All because if she has a baby with the "wrong man" she isn't passing on her genes in the most optimal way, and if she makes a particularly bad ch…	/r/MensRights	05/12/25 02:10 AM
9	Guy who coughed and moved seats on a bus labelled as a creep Makes you wonder if that's how patriarchy started, to the extent it was a thing. Anthropologists will tell you that hunter-gatherer societies were generally quite egalitarian (women and men reproduced in a 2:1 ratio, but this is also attributable to far fewer men surviving to adulthood). But at some point after the agricultural revolution, most societies became male-dominated in public roles. If women tended to side with each other in nearly all situations, regardless of who was correct, it's no…	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 06:19 AM
4	Do you agree? Is men isolation a cause or an effect? The part about the never-ending treadmill of productivity hit hard with me and echoes my own thinking. Why are we always supposed to be like hamsters on a wheel, constantly spinning not to go anywhere but at least avoid falling off? Feminists want gender equality, well why aren't women expected to do the same? Their value is found in their beauty and femininity and while this can be cruel in its own way, and gives men more social mobility, the majority of women are attractive enough, at least in…	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 04:41 AM
25	Guy who coughed and moved seats on a bus labelled as a creep Not even unaware. Unaware of what? He wanted to move closer to the exit, there may have been some vomit near his seat left by a previous passenger, maybe the lighting in that part of the train was exacerbating his headache. It could have been any of a million different things, and he didn't even talk to the girls. If he did so respectfully, that wouldn't have been the end of the world either. The world doesn't revolve around women and their preconceived neuroses and why should we have to be comp…	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 03:21 AM
64	Guy who coughed and moved seats on a bus labelled as a creep Women simply have no empathy for men they consider unattractive and of low social status, because since women can only get pregnant once a year, social attitudes evolved to view them as important for the purposes of maintaining the prehistoric tribe's population. One man on the other hand can impregnate several women, so by that same measure, "low value" men are seen as unnecessary and even a potential obstacle to ensuring the healthiest genes get passed down by the alpha male. And this effect i…	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 03:03 AM
35	Guy who coughed and moved seats on a bus labelled as a creep What shocks me most about these kinds of comments, is not they exist, because some people just naturally have strange or unusual opinions, but the ratio of upvotes to downvotes. Comments affirming the woman's attitude receive hundreds of upvotes, while those empathizing with the man usually receive more downvotes than upvotes. To some extent it might not be representative, as most subreddits as a whole skew markedly to the left compared to the general population; but you also can't help but get …	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 02:57 AM
2	Gen Z Men ‘scared’ to date, fear of being filmed creating ‘Cold War’ of the sexes Which countries have you been dating in and do you consider to be the best for you?	/r/MensRights	11/11/25 12:08 AM
1	Feminism is not an ideology, it’s a hodgepodge of grievances, mostly fabricated that’s created a generation of dark triad personalities. You see her activism for women's suffrage and rights in a time when that wasn't en vogue as a sign of strong critical thinking and intelligence (which it is, the average person likely wouldn't have been able to come up with that or perhaps only have a vague feeling something wasn't right). But while you praise her for her positive features when it comes to her achievements you fail to critique her failure to use them when doing so would be detrimental to your worldview.	/r/MensRights	11/10/25 05:30 PM
2	Feminism is not an ideology, it’s a hodgepodge of grievances, mostly fabricated that’s created a generation of dark triad personalities. So when it came to women being granted the right to vote and other rights, they were visionaries and independent thinkers, but when it came to shaming men who didn't want to die in a war, then suddenly it's okay because "they're a product of their time." Ok got it, no hypocrisy here at all.	/r/MensRights	11/10/25 05:08 PM
3	Male boss did not sexually harass HR worker because he put hand on her shoulder in a 'fatherly' way, tribunal rules OP: Why did she ever think that this was a sexual assault! Why did she ever think this was a sexual assault? --Because she was disgusted by him for being older and/or less attractive --Because she didn't like him personally or felt disrespected over something else and wanted revenge --Because she wanted him fired so she could move up the ladder at work with a new boss, possibly even become that boss Even without reading, I'm pretty sure it's one of those three.	/r/MensRights	04/09/25 05:47 PM
4	Single Women Over 35 Are REALIZING That They Have Hit The Wall I mean, it depends on how well a woman ages and how attractive she was to begin with. For some women it might happen at 28 and for others at 42, but tge vast majority women hit a point in their early 40s at the very latest where at least their physical attractiveness significantly declines	/r/MensRights	01/09/25 03:20 PM
39	Single Women Over 35 Are REALIZING That They Have Hit The Wall And that 35 year old in the thumbnail is still reasonably attractive and fit. Imagine how it must be for less attractive and "larger" women.	/r/MensRights	01/09/25 03:12 PM
7	17 year old girl murdered in The Netherlands I'm not even Dutch but I heard about it when this happened, and I was appalled but not too surprised about how they mentioned safety of women but nothing about the guy being a refugee. It's almost like they were trying their best not to mention that because under political correctness that isn't allowed. And then it's no wonder you have women who are automatically afraid when an average guy approaches them or memes like "Man vs Bear" when they've been conditioned to fear all men, because better …	/r/MensRights	28/08/25 02:34 PM
11	I was banned 14 days from the biggest subreddit to ask questions to men because of the following post: "Woman tells you: "I'm glad I met you at this point of my life, in my middle 30s. Given the kind of men I was into back when i was younger, we would have been only friends". How do you see it?" A bigger question why are all the main social media sites like Reddit, so woke, feminist, and politically left-wing? You have some other sites that are more conservative, libertarian, or simply defend free speech but they never seem to gain the amount of popularity the main players do. Why is that?	/r/MensRights	19/08/25 06:39 AM
21	UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys. What's happening in those countries that you have in mind?	/r/MensRights	13/08/25 01:41 AM
8	UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys. Not all of Europe, not yet.	/r/MensRights	13/08/25 01:40 AM
3	Woman awarded €10k for unwanted attempted kiss? Hey, look on the bright side at least he doesn't have to register as an SO. Bloke still seems to have his job as well, don't complain iT cOuLd HaVe BeEn sO mUcH wOrSe /s	/r/MensRights	25/07/25 09:13 PM
11	As of today, in Italy, the killing of a woman is considered more serious than the killing of a man Remember, boyos, it's only discrimination if it's against women	/r/MensRights	24/07/25 09:21 PM
10	Don't you find it weird that an anti-men app goes to the number 1 most downloaded in a matter of days? This is a coordinated attack More and more, I think the answer is "we don't". Instead, get your passport and move to a non-Western country where it hasn't spread to the same degree...yet.	/r/MensRights	24/07/25 12:46 AM
28	Women can caterwaul about how much scrutiny women face with their appearance, then turn the cheek and call men incels. If a woman cares about income or height, it's an expression of female empowerment. If a guy cares about age, weight or virginity, they consider it a cosmic outrage.	/r/MensRights	08/07/25 10:18 PM
17	Girlfriend cheated, everyone takes her side Well they are her parents, not surprising they'd support their daughter, especially in public place. What they say in private when nobody's around is potentially different. But either way, most in-laws will take their own child's side against the partner, it's just basic human biology/psychology 🤷🏻	/r/MensRights	05/07/25 09:37 PM
5	Why men are not united? I think there's this deep belief that men are more competitive and less likely to form social groups in our own interest than women on average because of our evolutionary history. All of which is true to an extent, but it doesn't preclude us from bonding together to support our own cause. One of the main characteristics of human beings that arises from our intellect is the ability to engage in evolutionarily novel behaviors that run counter to what would normally be expected. In the 19th and ear…	/r/MensRights	29/06/25 09:31 AM
8	Men Are Dying From 'Broken Heart Syndrome' at Twice The Rate of Women Mainstream media: "One-third of cases of 'Broken Heart Syndrome' are women"	/r/MensRights	17/05/25 08:52 PM
4	Deathly afraid of ever asking a woman out There was once a time not that long ago, when the worst she could say was "no," so why do you think that changed? It's because too many men were trying too hard and succeeding in getting a partner "outside their league" simply by making enough approaches, so they changed the rules of the game to put an end to that and make sure everyone stayed in their lane. Because that's exactly what they did. This is oppression, it's insidious, and it's structural, and it's geared directly at men to prevent u…	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 12:20 AM
7	"I always see average men dating..." It depends on the demographic you look at. But a number of middle-class women have this mindset, yes. Think the Starbucks latte, TikTok, social media influencer types. An above-average guy is average to them, while average and below are invisible to them, in that most of the time they won't remember they even exist.	/r/MensRights	05/04/25 11:35 PM
13	Younger coworker won't take no for an answer Something that hasn't been mentioned yet--you might want to talk to a lawyer, especially who specialises in employment matters. I don't want to sound paranoid, but at some point if she feels rejected, she might turn the tables on you and accuse you of harassing her. So you should probably talk to a lawyer to find the best way forward to minimize the chances this happens, and how to defend yourself in front of HR in case it does. I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advice.	/r/MensRights	25/03/25 01:58 AM
78	Young women in France have more sexual partners than they did 20 years ago - and nearly one in five do not identify as heterosexual. OP: Blames men; heterosexuality was a 'system for favouring relationships of domination and violence by men Notice how they blame men? It's so they can blame the increasing sexlessness among males resulting among other things from this trend on men and then justify it. "Too many men aren't getting girlfriends? Well they're scummy people, so they deserve it! Because women said so." /s Also, note how they say there was a misunderstanding that young people were less interested in sex. That's because some young people are less interested in sex, mostly young men that is, because they can't get it. Your ch…	/r/MensRights	23/03/25 01:24 AM
51	Young women in France have more sexual partners than they did 20 years ago - and nearly one in five do not identify as heterosexual. OP: Blames men; heterosexuality was a 'system for favouring relationships of domination and violence by men It's because some women's standards have risen so high they'd rather be with each other than a man they consider outside the top 20%.	/r/MensRights	23/03/25 12:47 AM
57	Michigan Democratic Gov. Whitmer makes direct appeal to young men after sharp shift in election I'm going to have to disagree on your last point. As much as in a perfect world, everyone would have a white-collar job and college education, it's not for everyone. Some can't afford it (and the cost of tuition is in no way helping that), some just aren't academically inclined, others have conditions like dyslexia or ADHD that make the kind of learning style taught at school difficult. Sadly, a lot of blue collar jobs are in danger due to automation, AI, and cheaper labor abroad but the key is …	/r/MensRights	03/03/25 07:42 PM
3	What about "Im sorry"? We don't know what age of students they're teaching, sometimes young children in elementary school can be brainy and good with words but emotionally immature. If "sorry" is too dramatic, a simple "my bad, you're right," would have sufficed. Just to acknowledge the kid had a point.	/r/MensRights	15/02/25 10:34 PM
14	What about "Im sorry"? Probably a narcissist. Those types never apologize, ever.	/r/MensRights	15/02/25 07:20 PM
2	Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong person I take it you're either in your late late 30s or your 40s then? Because 1.6% at 35-39, assuming a symmetrical distribution would mean that number of guys are virgins at the midpoint of the range, with more before and fewer after. And of course, midpoint is 37.5. So I'm guessing you're pushing 38 at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 01:29 AM
7	Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong person Hooray, me! I'm in the 3.3%!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 07:00 PM
2	Single men I think people do this because at some point society begins to function as a macroorganism, and individuals tend to feed into that macroorganism especially when their own individual needs aren't directly compromised. And in a situation like this, there's clearly something wrong with the system but the alternatives are blaming the vulnerable group and blaming the system which would demand a complete overhaul. Since it's much easier and less complicated to dismiss the problem by blaming the vulner…	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 09:11 PM
2	Single men You have a point, but the truth is it's easier said than done. Changing oneself so radically, assuming OP isn't even already doing the things you suggest, is difficult and there are probably limits enforced by your genetics and environment early in life to how much you can consistently improve. Much like your looks. People accept that looks are mostly fixed (barring radical interventions like plastic surgery), but fail to realize personality is somewhat fixed as well. Then there's the fact that …	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 09:03 PM
21	Major FIFO mining warning after 'diversity hire' blow up: 'Men overlooked' That's what a narcissist does..."You can't want to do the work I'm unable to do, so it's your fault." Just typical gaslighting.	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 07:40 PM
4	Boys have been taught to abandon themselves... Because positions of power are often held by authoritarian narcissists who view society as a zero-sum game because they can't themselves experience a feeling of pleasure or satisfaction without a corresponding humiliation or abasement of the "other." These kinds of people get off, figuratively and maybe even literally on hating others and putting others down for their own pleasure.	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 07:18 PM
10	Anyone else disturbed by the brazen indifference toward soaring male suicide rates in female dominated mental healthcare fields? I'm beginning to think that not only men are considered disposable, but in a high-population environment, fewer men is an evolutionarily desired outcome and society naturally gravitates toward it. In small societies and tribes, which were the norm for the first 290,000 of our 300,000 year history, there are only a few men of fertile age to go around, as there are women, and while some men may not be "ideal," they are needed prevent inbreeding and prevent population collapse. But in a society num…	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 05:15 AM
6	Women will always be dependent on the patriarchy. All arguments are just because they hate that dependence They feel a great deal of ressentiment towards men simply because we aren't lumbered with menstruation, gestation, and weaning. It's even more rudimentary than that. It goes all the way back to Freud's penis envy in some cases. Many feminists, especially the loud ones that are easily outraged and often featured in the media are incredibly infantile in their thinking to the point of regressing to the earliest behavioral stages. If Freud were alive he'd be having a field day just by observing them…	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 05:19 PM
8	I'm so sick of 20-somethings using the meme, "Society prevented your mother from attending university." Not that the real education system is any better, at least in blue states. Many curricula are saturated to the core with leftist ideology, most teachers lean left to begin with (surprise, surprise, most also happen to be college-educated women), and the worst part is they use the experience of past dictatorships as a reason this kind of brainwashing and manipulation could never happen again. "But this isn't Nazi Germany. Such propaganda could never happen in a democratic nation like America " /s	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 05:08 PM
29	I'm so sick of 20-somethings using the meme, "Society prevented your mother from attending university." At least two-thirds of men (some estimates run as high as 80%) born in the USSR in 1923 were dead by the end of 1945, due to a combination of wars, famines, epidemics, and political persecutions. So if you were a man born in one of these countries in 1923 you had at best a 1 in 3 and maybe 1 in 5 chance of seeing your 23rd birthday	/r/MensRights	06/02/25 05:04 PM
1	Police Got Called On 3 Men For Flirting With Women \| MEN FLIRTING Is Now ILLEGAL In 2025? Kissinger was a real psychopath. I'm sure he'd have creeped a lot of women out today with his ugly face, but this might be one of the rare cases where it'd be a good thing. Even when he's gone, turns out his fingerprints are all over the leftist discourse decades after the peak of his influence.	/r/MensRights	31/01/25 07:16 PM
2	Police Got Called On 3 Men For Flirting With Women \| MEN FLIRTING Is Now ILLEGAL In 2025? There was a guy who posted not too long ago on another sub that he tried to approach 30-40 women in the past year and barely got a couple of dates, certainly no long-term girlfriend. What's more, he said he got into a lot of trouble with HR (I think that's what the wording was) over asking out a co-worker, and it looked like he was lucky to save his job. He also got banned from a bar for making too many approaches (he said 6, I don't know if he approached any woman more than once though). What r…	/r/MensRights	31/01/25 05:03 PM
75	If sexual harassment includes unwelcome or inappropriate sexual behavior that makes other people feel uncomfortable, as feminists have defined it, then wearing sexually provocative clothing in public should be considered sexual harassment Feminism really is just one giant power grab. That's all it ever really was for the most hard-core feminists but since the 90s the more reasonable proponents have fallen away leaving only the crazy activists left.	/r/MensRights	21/01/25 07:02 AM
143	If sexual harassment includes unwelcome or inappropriate sexual behavior that makes other people feel uncomfortable, as feminists have defined it, then wearing sexually provocative clothing in public should be considered sexual harassment It's only sexual harassment if it inconveniences the woman.	/r/MensRights	21/01/25 07:00 AM
8	Male victimhood ideology driven by perceived status loss, not economic hardship, among Korean men \| PsyPost Imagine if a man wrote anything remotely disparaging about a woman. He'd likely lose his job before he could even apologize, and be accused of "mansplaining."	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:32 PM
2	They Have Announced Who Doesn’t Matter In Society People be blaming feminism for this, but while feminism has compounded the situation, it predates feminism as a movement and has been occurring since the Agricultural Revolution. Young men were always seen as a threat to use their strength and physical power to overthrow existing social orders, which were founded on wealth accumulation and thus disproportionately represented by older men. Before the Agricultural Revolution, wealth accumulation wasn't really possible and societies were a lot smal…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:30 PM
3	They Have Announced Who Doesn’t Matter In Society "There is almost nothing less valuable than a young man. There is almost nothing more valuable than a young woman." --Jordan B. Peterson	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:21 PM
3	They Have Announced Who Doesn’t Matter In Society "There is almost nothing less valuable than a young man. There is almost nothing more valuable than a young woman." --Jordan B. Peterson	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:19 PM
6	What event in your childhood/youth made you aware of anti-male discrimination? Ah yes, the good ol' collective punishment trope. I won't say it's anti-male in itself, but you see it more often applied in situations involving men than women, because in the latter case it's "She didn't do it, why's she being punished?" while in men's case, people have less empathy so they simply don't care. Something similar happened when I was in 8th grade. Gym class took place at the same time but was split up by gender, boys and girls. Well this one time we went swimming in the middle of …	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 06:24 PM
4	What event in your childhood/youth made you aware of anti-male discrimination? It happens in adult life too. I had my ass grabbed at a concert by a drunk chick about a year ago. I didn't care, either way. I didn't find her particularly attractive, but I wasn't really upset either, it was just whatever. But if a guy did that to a girl, at best he'd be immediately kicked out of the venue, and at worst he'd have to register as a sex offender.	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 05:56 PM
17	What event in your childhood/youth made you aware of anti-male discrimination? It's shocking the level of adultification that boys go through at a young age, and how they're instantly labelled as bullies, creeps, and sexual harassers when really they just don't understand. When I was in kindergarten (yes, kindergarten), I had a friend in the class let's call him Ethan who apparently had a crush on one of the girls in the class, let's call her Jennifer. Ethan had already been a troublemaker at this point and been labeled the class scapegoat by the teacher. Apparently, at so…	/r/MensRights	14/01/25 04:37 AM