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Stuckatsevendee/r/seduction18/12/19 07:26 PM
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7

Yeah seems like you're trying to buy her affection. What is a "vacation with a resort she can never go to"?
/r/seduction21/07/26 07:01 PM
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Not gonna lie the responses here are a bit jagged, but honestly this sub generally assumes that someone is single (or at least in an Open Relationship) when participating here. I'm married too but I only advise at this point. I think the best advice would be to sit down with your wife and explain how you feel. If you think a mediator is important that might need to happen as well. I think cheating on your wife is a mistake as well, I hope you guys can work out a functional agreement
/r/seduction19/07/26 02:24 AM
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What can I say? Women be shoppin
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:26 PM
2

Pick up artists hate this 1 trick!!!
/r/seduction15/07/26 09:01 PM
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Or to fuckin flex on his haters for random internet homies I respect the hustle g
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:16 PM
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For clarification, girls who would normally make an effort to have fun were now waiting on "a greek god to pay for my shoes"
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:22 PM
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Yeah unfortunately the symptom of the 2020s has been desperation from men, otherwise these whales wouldn't be walking around like theyre 8s As a torta enjoyer they got real narcissistic and choosy after 2020
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:21 PM
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The kicker is that a lot of them cant or won't differentiate between the two. If a girl is getting a million hit ups on socials she assumes that she is "prime" without the need to date. I'm seeing a lot of people learning the hard way these days that flirting and dating aint the same thang
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:14 PM
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Yeah so I'll break it down in terms of basketball for ya. When someone first picks up the ball and shoots their first shot, they usually miss. Most people try, try again and eventually one goes in. After that a few more go in. Eventually shots start going in more than they're missing. This is a thrilling feeling, they've figured out tiny micro adaptations, feeling how much the ball weighs, how far they are from the rim, whether shooting higher or lower works better. Now imagine if that kid was e…
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:31 AM
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Note: this only works if you are tall and attractive See: rules 1 & 2
/r/seduction01/07/26 06:46 PM
2

Nah she clearly is into him enough to enjoy intimacy. The guy that said to take the foot off the gas was right on the money
/r/seduction30/06/26 07:47 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction30/06/26 07:46 PM
1

Honestly the first girl I fucked told me the same thing in a softer way. She was more experienced and obviously I was not. This gave me a chip on my shoulder to start bagging lays to improve my form. Safe to say it worked, over time i learned that they like to be disrespected a bit which makes it easier to be more aggressive or controlling. I even learned how to make a girl cum without moving (by flexing your dick) Just go out there and practice, man. After some time you won't even remember her,…
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:11 PM
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That's how it goes man, theres a fine line between showing interest and being too available and it seems like you found it. On to the next. God speed, soldier.
/r/seduction23/05/26 06:13 PM
2

Very based and straightforward tip; this man fucks after being disrespectful
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:31 PM
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Lmao what are your credentials for this statement my friend? Pray tell
/r/seduction19/05/26 09:18 PM
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Yeah tbh a lot of girls actually wanna be the pretty one in the relationship. I've heard horror stories about guys who "take more time to get ready than (them)". Taking care of your appearance is good until it's the only thing you care about
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:03 PM
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Exactly this, idk how that response even escaped that other guys keyboard
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:02 PM
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No I'm talking about real human people who i am friends with in real life. I call them "friends" and they seem to be OK with it. Haven't corrected me once
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:01 PM
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Funny enough I've heard anecdotal evidence from my girl friends that they like a slightly heavier set guy with teddy bear energy but who made them feel safe, so not all Adonis'
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:40 PM
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Well this was years after starting, before that I used to fumble every word, ask interview questions and try to be who I THOUGHT they wanted me to be. Just keep at it and you'll understand what the other chatters in this thread mean, it's way less complicated when you're actually in field vs how game theory can feel sometimes. I believe in you, you got this.
/r/seduction09/05/26 04:03 AM
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Dude if you still think they're some alien race or something that decides everything and that if you're not 6-7-8 you're doomed is completely black pilled. I chatted w a girl i thought I had no chance with after coming out of the train once upon a time. That time was more than enough to convince her to pass me her digits and we ended up seeing each other for a few months based off that. If you're stating its impossible while there are clearly people who know it isnt in the chat, you come off as …
/r/seduction09/05/26 03:26 AM
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Seem a bit blackpilled there chap Try try again
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:54 PM
1

Wait are we glossing over that "social skills can be taught in a matter of minutes" like it isnt its own muscle that waxes and wanes? Also just finding the right attitude about life that leads to social success is like 100x harder than "I pick things up and put them down"
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:54 AM
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"Hi guys my name is Dependent_Jump and I am normal and not weird at all, lets chat!!"
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:38 AM
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Lmao someone's excited
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:38 AM
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Yeah this one is really imperative to learn It took me half a decade myself But also why a lot of guys say to pursue many targets early on, it splits your attention and makes you less "golden retriever" energy excited all the time
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:39 PM
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This is true. There are definitely exceptions to how you feel initially, ive definitely met people that I wasn't crazy about that I got more attracted to when we had a real conversation. Thing is, this is usually an outlier, at least in my experience. You hear people talk about falling "in love at first sight" with their SO sometimes, but its more rare for the "i didnt think much of him/her when we first met". Granted it can be way more fulfilling, but it usually starts with little to no intenti…
/r/seduction05/04/26 08:21 PM
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I subscribe to the "fuck yes" or "fuck no" ideology If you're not crazy about it, its for a reason. You might be a guy who likes chicken and all you're meeting is fish and beef. Be patient, when it's right I think you will know. Good luck out there soldier 🪖
/r/seduction04/04/26 01:48 AM
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OP posted and hasn't replied yet Go talk to some ladies champ
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:10 PM
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Seems like you had a layup and you dribbled it out to the 3 point line to make it harder for yourself Are you interested in dating this girl? What made you unhappy with the sexual tone of the conversation that made you decide to switch to interview questions?
/r/seduction23/02/26 10:20 AM
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Life is not only meaningful with relationships This is why you are single Manufacture a life that you enjoy living Others will naturally want to join Or do what I told me autistic friend to do with good success, do 100 approaches in 100 days
/r/seduction10/02/26 01:30 AM
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I think she might have reported you, guy
/r/seduction26/01/26 10:26 PM
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Bro dont call her what are you saying Just try to make some connections w other girls so that she doesnt occupy a bunch of space in your mind If she's being sometimes dry sometimes warm she might be bored and using you Don't be super available to her and it'll show how she really feels
/r/seduction23/01/26 05:52 AM
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It's mostly ironic a lot of the time, hope you're not taking every instance seriously. In this case, I'm saying, it's hard to pin point what to aspire to in order to attract someone. General, field-tested wisdom that works is figure out how to be comfortable (or "give no fucks") in as many situations as possible thereby exposing potential mates to your best "most chill/authentic self" which ends up getting the job done. Also unfortunately that's how it works in today's dating game; a charming ps…
/r/seduction22/01/26 09:31 PM
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Step 1. Be attractive Step 2. Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:10 PM
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This is such a weak sauce 2020 coded response
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:54 AM
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What I'm getting from this is that a lot of the dudes on here are jumping to step 2 or 3 when step 1 is make friends of your own gender or within your own range of interests. Seduction is at its core the ability to communicate with people, and when you can handle the easier (?) side of it where there's less pressure, the training wheels come off and learning to ride freely becomes much easier. Solid advice
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:34 PM
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Nah, 5 inches is more powerful than you probably realize. I think she means closer to the 2 or 3 inch mark and it's STILL better than a 12 inch shmeat Don't let media influence your perception of yourself, get out there and make some ladies happy and understand the truth.
/r/seduction10/04/25 03:34 PM
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Dude, I get the sentiment, but i have a friend who has an equal and opposite complaint. His dick (according to him) is 8.5" and he talks about how he "can't even get it in all the way" or that girls have told him it's "too big and hurts". I know it's hard to imagine, but "perfect dick" being not too big or too small IS a thing. Trust her until she gives you a reason not to, worrying just affects you negatively for no reason while everything else seems perfect.
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:50 AM
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If you want to come up with reasons to cope, by all means feel free to do so. But call things by their names. The guy gave you a pretty straightforward breakdown here, she's not interested.
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:08 PM
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I feel like it's a bit different for them. We are hunters so we are easily excited by visual simulation. A woman can spend time with a man she isn't really attracted to physically and the feeling of being cared for (whether with money or physical protection, status, etc) will create a feeling of infatuation, but I don't think their reaction is the same. Like if she wanted to she could dislike that same man in an instant, but it's hard for you to not be attracted to the ratio girl. I've noticed i…
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:42 PM
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Models by Mark Manson is considered pretty good Also "the subtle art of not giving a fuck", same author Good starting point
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:09 PM
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I understand your struggle, you want to ask her without risking it...but the truth is it's the only way. Godspeed soldier
/r/seduction30/11/24 11:51 PM
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Don't get offended, if you have an interesting life: take pictures, post on Instagram, build a profile, direct them to it. That was the point, seems you missed it
/r/seduction27/11/24 03:09 PM
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No need to second guess, attraction is usually obvious in some way. If your gut says she likes you, accept it. If not, accept it. We can do little to change others opinions of ourselves and more to change our own. Also, you wouldn't wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with you, right? Thank me later ;)
/r/seduction27/11/24 11:44 AM
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12/10 reply Close the thread we got the answer
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:33 AM
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Sure, but it's the same as the stuff you tell your friends. Like there's an emotional line w friends, we tell them a lot of stuff, but being honest, we don't tell them absolutely everything. It's a matter of picking and choosing. With friends or with (girl) friends.
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:53 AM
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This is like the only healthy answer in this sub. Yeah if you just want sex and a woman to worship you then follow the rest of the brain-dead emotionally detached advice in this sub, but as someone who is always emotionally vulnerable with women and still gets laid regularly I say just practice. Even if the other guys are right on the surface; try; fail; learn. There is a certain type of vulnerability that is always a hit with the ladies, you will have your soft tender relationship that you're l…
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:42 AM
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Meeting to bathroom sex in 17 minutes flat i believe. In contrast, my usual is 3rd or 4th date so that was an outlier for sho
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:51 PM
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Yes bro, don't be lazy. Your competition isn't worried about their approach. They're approaching. Catch up
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:21 AM
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Dropping truth bombs brotha; preach
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/g8OULjNlRRs?si=nsKtqGG14lCnUp0U That video is one of a few, this is from a series that isnt around anymore but there are a bunch of similar vids on YouTube
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:25 PM
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Watch stand up or in field game, should help.
/r/seduction01/10/24 02:15 PM
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Fire advice 🔥
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:47 PM
1

Based asf
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:22 AM
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The true question is: does it even matter? Even handsome guys have to do what we all are attempting to in this sub: Whether you're attractive or not, go for it. Knowing you are good looking leads to narcissism and ego, you need to practice communicating.
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:00 PM
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That is true, it definitely happens a lot. In turn it's like when we tell a girl we want a relationship but really just have sex with her and then leave. Kinda different, but to me it's very similar. The other thing is we can't tell the difference between someone who actually gives a chance to a guy she isn't sure about, vs someone who had no intentions other than deceit from the beginning. Hating the player does not success beget.
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:31 AM
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Yes, if you don't project any value to them. The dating economy is going to be tougher to some, but the way forward is in self-development, not external blame. Picture a girl that doesn't take care of herself, over eats, stays inside, and then complains that guys don't like her. Get off reddit, go get in game experience.
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:16 AM
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Just act excited about whatever they are doing or give them a very simple compliment. Most men don't get compliments even once a year (some get less than 10 in their lifetimes) so it works like a charm. Conversely, if you come on too strong, you risk making them suspicious or pull back. I myself get more compliments than the average dude (I think) But still get off put by a hot girl hitting on me, because of my own self esteem issues. Take it slow, it's probably easier than you think.
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:37 PM
3

Bro lmao this man wants to head straight for the boss room at BL 1
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:34 PM
3

So it started when a girl showed up late to a date. She said she was running 30 minutes late and I had to find something to do. I simply asked myself: "how can I make these 30 minutes fun?" So I got myself a donut, went to the river nearby and just kind of watched the sunset. If you can figure out how to make those little "in-between" moments enjoyable for you, it can ultimately blossom into that feeling of "enjoying time with yourself".
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:40 PM
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I was in your shoes as well. Try to find pleasure in spending time alone. If you are relying on another person to "complete you" you will never find someone. You must have a life that is enjoyable enough that others want to join it. Good luck, stay strong.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:57 PM
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Take it as you will, but I'm weirdly reading this as a spinster taking out here inadequacies on an old friend. Leaving was a good choice, but trying to navigate that situation might have given you some experience in working through tense moments. Either way, take whatever lesson this interaction teaches homie. Much love.
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:20 AM
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Really solid advice bruv. Point 3 in particular is extremely effective.
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:37 PM
2

Yes but they expect something about their appearance specifically how "hot" or "pretty" they are to get rid of you quickly. There was one PUA about a decade ago who would purposefully confuse a girl and call her by a different name ("Oh my god you look just like my high school friend Jennifer"). That confusion seemed genuine enough to drop their guard, and then it was easy to build rapport after. Less committed early is the name of the game
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:10 PM
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If you're attractive and know you're attractive, A can work. Otherwise raising their guard is not good. B comes across much better for that.
/r/seduction16/08/24 12:15 PM
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Same brother Tried to hit the bro fist halfway through but almost got discovered. Solid experience between mates
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:23 AM
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This is quality f*ckin advice No bs
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:19 AM
1

What's your method for this situation bro?
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:39 PM
1

He's talking about people that get overly encroached in being "cool" or "impressing their date" instead of relaxing and acting natural. The "best behavior" in this case is actually referring to fakeness, so to me it seems like you're just disagreeing to appear edgy and steal the spotlight from OP (unless the meaning behind this post went over your head). He's advocating for a more relaxed approach to the first date; being your authentic self is more attractive. Perfection is the enemy of progres…
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:09 PM
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You're arguing semantics dude
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:35 AM
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Yeah it's also a bit tough to post "Field Reports" when the field is potentially covered in COVID. Read some of the older posts, filter by "top posts of this year" or "all time", there's definitely good advice here the going has just been stifled.
/r/seduction23/02/21 05:34 AM
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Seeking comfort is paramount. Whether it be with yourself or with other people, when your mind is clear and empty of others possible expectations of you, you can be the most authentically funny, interesting, "cool" version of yourself. Loving someone else starts with loving yourself, and it'll be some little tiny situation that you wont expect that just flips the switch in your mind and shows you what that means. Until that point, don't. Stop. Approaching.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:29 PM
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Is that a hemsworth?
/r/seduction03/05/15 10:34 PM
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