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| 1 | How do you approach girls who are in a rush at Target or PublixA trick is to have a business card. Much, much nicer. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 10:37 PM |
| 25 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Hey wanna go out with me? No, sorry. Minimal blowback . | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 09:43 AM |
| 6 | Isn’t nightlife 95% women sticking to their groups?They're about reputation. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:17 AM |
| 2 | fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?In short, don't be a jackass. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?The answer to this question is just "Yes". More than one comment, explanation or otherwise is absolutely unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 02:42 AM |
| 10 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?This is just not true. Clearly, this is spoken by someone who has never met influencer women in person. Yes, a lot of them are shallow and/or completely terrible in looks. However, a great percentage of them are absolutely stunning. They've not only spent years but hundreds of thousands sculpting a perfect body, oftentimes incredibly natural-looking. They're flawless without makeup; and with makeup they're twice stunning, including perfect outfits, and care. Everything is cared for. They also te… | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 06:36 AM |
| 6 | Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game?I find it funny because these posts and comments are always extremely vague. What's poor? If I'm poor in the UK or Luxembourg or Switzerland, I still live better than most people in the world which might mean I'd rather that and have a chance at true love. If I'm poor in Sub Saharan Africa that's a different ballgame entirely. What does rich even mean? Does £1m make you rich? Or £10m? Can I only afford a nice Mercedes E Class and a 4 bedroom house, or can I afford a 24 bedroom mega mansion and 1… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Make sure she is walking on the inside of the sidewalk, not close to the road.Which many guys don't have. Having it will make her fall for you further. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 08:30 PM |
| 11 | How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It)Yes. And then they tend to blame women "Women expect too much". I got family members who've grown completely anti-women from videos and guides and everything else. The reality is, women are great, just as men are; or at least, can be. You can find good girls, you just need to play the game a little! | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 08:22 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?If you're a single man trying to get into a nightclub in the UK, you're not allowed in | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 09:33 AM |
| -2 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Well, loads are based off real life, so they'll have some truth to them, no? | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 07:32 AM |
| 117 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Have an excuse. My friends and I go together, we have an apartment ready and we do the after party at our place. Free drinks and music is excuse enough for them to wanna come back if they've been vibing. Girls don't go back for explicit fucking, ie, you wanna come back to mine? But they will for implicit, eg, we're doing an after party, wanna join us? Success rate is higher because it's a valid excuse that doesn't make them seem as slutty, they can bring their friends, it's more welcoming and in… | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:54 AM |
| 11 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I've not been to NYC but all TV shows make it seem it's possible. Maybe the world has changed? | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:51 AM |
| 16 | London bars and clubs full of men?The only way to get girls in the club is you have status. | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 11:58 AM |
| 3 | How to go about seeing a fancy rich girl?For casual sex, it doesn't really matter. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 3 | How to go about seeing a fancy rich girl?Eh, decent advice but also, putting on an act the right way is the only way to get some of these girls who are incredibly superficial. It highly depends what the overall goal is here. It's either a play from the play book to get laid, or it's a move to get into a relationship. Whichever it is, maybe putting on an act can work. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:33 PM |
| 4 | How to spike emotions in womenYou only cause it when you don't want to cause it. Not caring about it is how you get it. The only reason this girl was obsessing was cause these men were mega confident and assured, with their own busy lives and schedules. It wasn't a game they were playing, it was a life they were leading. Completely different. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 12:48 AM |
| 4 | First night together - what do I do?They're teens. Maybe not ready to jump each other's bones yet. It'll come, maybe, but who knows the full context, life experience, etc. Who are you to say she's going to lose interest? | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 11:33 AM |
| 19 | M 30. When you dance with your ass on a guy at the club, what should he do?Precisely. Guys just need to relax. This type of overthinking is lack of confidence. What does she want? Is she into me? What should I do with my hands? All of this is WHY he gets nothing more than a couple of grinds on his lap. Throwing it all away due to overthinking. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:31 PM |
| -21 | M 30. When you dance with your ass on a guy at the club, what should he do?Please for the love of God do not do this. This is so cringe, if you did this, most girls will find this super predatory. The reason some men are able to get with girls and others can't is because of men like this... You seriously need to just relax, lay back, enjoy. Light touching, just keep it light, and let the girl do what she wants to do. No whispering, nothing, just relax man... | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Part of the unique criteria, I guess. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 09:37 PM |
| 2 | The real reason I'm afraid to do cold-approaches.No, you don't always feel better after getting rejected. Some people don't take rejection very well, and that's okay. Being socially adept and charismatic is something more innate in some and less in others. Reading books is good, practising in front of a mirror too, and watching approach videos is helpful. I'd also say, maybe try AI a little, as you can probably get some feedback there. But, the best practice overall is going out and doing it, knowing full well you'll get rejected. Just keep ta… | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 08:01 AM |
| 3 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)The only exception is if you're filthy rich and or well off and go to a different escort every day. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 07:56 AM |
| 53 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)3 new women per month on average x 12 x 15 = 540. Still, not a reasonable number as it implied you've had 3 new women per month every month. I've had many months where I've managed 3 or even 4 or 5 new girls, but no way is that the average. Usually around 1 every 2 months. Plus, I've had times of relationship, where I've not been with anyone else for 3 months or 4 months, etc. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 02:04 PM |
| 192 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Anyone who says they've been with over 700 girls is either lying or a porn star. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 01:44 PM |
| -22 | How Subtle "Lifestyle" Clues in Your Dating Profile Can Do the Heavy Lifting for YouThe only trick in dating apps is to be attractive, tall, and muscular. I mean, if you're going for sheer numbers. It's almost impossible to just get a date off the one match. So, yeah, i don't recommend dating apps for the average looking bloke. What you've said makes sense but also, dating apps are incredibly shallow. Abs matters. Biceps matter. Looking rich matters. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:57 PM |
| -18 | How Subtle "Lifestyle" Clues in Your Dating Profile Can Do the Heavy Lifting for YouThis isn't how it works in dating apps. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:29 PM |
| 53 | [FR] Fingered a girl in the club"I don't like the fact we don't know each other. What's your name?" | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 17 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Precisely, her answer will tell you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:36 PM |
| 60 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Depends on your age. Ask her to go on a late night drive, or to the cinema just the 2 of you, or ask her if she wants to come over to your place to watch a movie. If you play your cards right, you can get it on. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:53 PM |
| 11 | Men in their late 30s - how has physical fitness helped your game?This is the thing, that mentality hurts you. It's not being 6ft that makes you succeed, just look at Tom Cruise. The only thing that makes you succeed is status. Have a good status/rep, and you'll win. You just got to climb up the social ladder. Status can be achieved through height. But also, through money, good looks, reputation, fame, etc. Without status you can't get through the door, and you need to get through the door before proving yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | you can have ANY woman of the world..Yep. He's saying, you can have anyone you want so long as you don't want to have them. It's the sort of shitty mentality that's gets you no one. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:49 PM |
| 7 | I don't understand what flirting isYou think a girl being friendly to you is flirting and I'm the school boy? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Where would you fly to for 4 days: Morocco, Romania, Albania, Turkey, Georgia?Greece has more tourists than Greeks, you'll be OK | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 03:08 PM |
| 26 | I don't understand what flirting isFriendliness is not flirting. Teasing is flirting. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Flake looking likely. Do a takeaway?Just ignore her man. Next time she messages you, treat her the same way. Let her double text. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 12:14 AM |
| 10 | [VIDEO] What If You Treated Seducing Women Like Playing A Video Game?No, this sub is 99% incels | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?I agree but most women will find you bothersome. At least in the UK... Americans seem easier going. They will mostly reject you and that's something you need to be prepared for. In the UK, where you might be living in a city with 60-100k people, you might want to avoid ruining your chances with 100 girls. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:36 AM |
| 16 | Girl grinded on me for the first timeTake home | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 03:17 PM |
| 37 | Girl grinded on me for the first timeGood advice and yep, you won't get further than the dance. Move on to the next. In clubbing, if you don't close on the night, you can pretty much forget it. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 01:15 PM |
| 17 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?Do you take self defense classes? Or carry around a gun? Even if people are afraid, they sometimes don't take precautions. It's just careless behaviour. However, look at the media, and look at the indoctrination. We're all taught about the endless cases of men who rape, murder, and hurt women. It's mostly men hurting women, too, not so much the opposite. Imagine as well, you're walking around, and the other half of the population is around 4 to 5 inches taller than you, heavier, and just all aro… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 2 | How do I primed my space for sex?That sound bar system was for you not for them. But I like it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 11:34 AM |
| 4 | How often do you get rejected when practicing game?Some women genuinely have boyfriends... | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Being straight up ignoredWhat type of women do you think you'll be meeting at nightclubs lol | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Being straight up ignoredI don't think this is true. I think the reality is, you either got money and status, or in a club, your chances are greatly diminished. It's not solely about outfit and looks. It's about a plethora of things, as it's a completely different game. Someone like Chris Brown doesn't have to approach because he's got status. Not about his looks, but about his reputation. You can build a reputation at your local club by just going often, being nice to bouncers, bar people, etc. Tip generously, show the… | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Being straight up ignoredAnd Latinas. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | When did women gain so much leverage?No, you can't. You got to improve yourself first | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 10:59 PM |
| 5 | When did women gain so much leverage?Nah its been like this since forever. Men like Genghis Khan were typical in ancient societies - as in, the top bedded tons of women. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | When did women gain so much leverage?More like 99%. I don't think people understand but women can be delusional because even at the top 1% men will want them (wouldn't you?). Not to mention, 1% of men in the US alone is like 1.5 million men, all (or mostly) willing and able to get with 20 or 30 women each. That means 30 to 45 million women are basically always okay to find new partners. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 03:54 PM |
| 14 | When did women gain so much leverage?They have endless choice. No matter the age. It's unbelievable. 50 men willing to be around the one woman means she can gatekeep and pick the best out of 50. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty with Indian women??Good insight. I commented above from similar experience. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:29 PM |
| 11 | Difficulty with Indian women??The true reality is the culture of India promotes male and female friendship with a slight worshipping of the woman. I really don't know why. At university, I had a huge amount of friends from India, all used to befriend guys. They never want to date anyone as they already have a guy back home who they're supposedly head over heels in love with. It's some Bollywood type stuff... Weird but honestly what I've seen happen 99% of the time. Completely different for Pakistani and Bengali, for example.… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:28 PM |
| 40 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Don't shoot your shot at the cashier bro, especially when there's a long line, what the hell. It's not even about rejection but why subject everyone around you to such behaviour. Time and place man, be cool. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 02:17 PM |
| 65 | What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room?Precisely. Play the game, be funny, just joke. She doesn't want you to say we're going to have sex. That breaks the tension and the mystery. What she wants is either a joke to lighten the mood, or flipping the script on her. After that you could say "why, what else did you have in mind?" And let her lead the way. Just be comfortable and confident. And to be honest, if you're comfortable and confident you could say "I'm gonna bend you over and fuck you" and still fuck. They don't care that much 🤣… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 71 | Girls who say they “don’t kiss” on first datesYes. Play their game. "I don't kiss on the first date". I always say "Why are you assuming that I would?" Puts them in their place, a bit, and plays the game. If they say "I don't have sex on the first date", I also say "Neither do I, don't even know why you're thinking about fucking me already". Of course, say it playfully, put some emojis. It's assertive flirting. It's always a front. If the vibe goes well, normally, they'll kiss/fuck/whatever. They just want to get guys who are only intereste… | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 6 | I (24M) had a girl (22F) over but all we did was talk from 8 PM to 3 AMLean closer. Place your hand on her thigh, if she's into you, she'll allow it and won't say anything, and even lean into your hand. She may adjust her leg to allow for better touching. From there just go in for the kiss at 90%. Let her do the 10%. So your lips are not placed on hers, just close enough that she can kiss or not kiss, giving her a choice. It's all ways of doing it. You can be talking about whatever, just move in SLOWLY. Trust me, the conversation will stop, and the kissing will beg… | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:14 PM |
| 14 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsWorks fine for me mate, if it doesn't work for you maybe your delivery isn't working. It's about being playful, making jokes. Perhaps a different target audience but I'm in my early 20s, every single woman I've done this joke with has laughed tons. Obviously read your audience, some jokes stick, others don't. You got to know which ones to use with each girl you're talking to. If you think it's a one size fits all strategy you've already lost. Tonality, body language and how you come across is fa… | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsIn the UK it works absolutely fine | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 06:46 PM |
| 21 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsBest answer, agreed. Or... "Are you paying?" (Big Smile) It comes across as playful, you can then make jokes about feminism "well I'm a feminist, 21st century..." Makes it playful and fun. Lightens the mood, alleviates the tension. Usually works for me anyway | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 06:03 PM |
| -4 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsThis gives simp energy. | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 4 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?With this mentality, no. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 6 | is cheating really that common? how are so many other guys able to find women who are willing to cheat with them?Easier to find girls when you're already in a relationship is not really true in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 5 | If you flirt with enough sexy girls eventually one is going to like youHe lost me at the title "sexy girls" is a term no one would use in this scenario | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 8 | What is wrong with meHe already is an incel. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 4 | what does it mean when a girl's friends pull her away from talking to you?This is correct. The best way to get a girl is to game the all group by being flirty with the one you want but a lot more attentive and friendly towards the other friends. This makes the girl you're flirting with crave you a million times before. This is usually why coming with a wingman is good, the wingman serves as a distraction to the group whilst you talk to the one you're interested in... | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?Just asking how many partners they've had or bringing up sex as in they've done it. Virgins will usually say they've never been with anyone, especially girls. No stigma, at least not in the UK | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 22 | [deleted by user]The real answer is it depends. Depends how you take it yourself. And depends how it goes for you the first time. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 08:58 AM |
| 21 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?Say "My sex game is fantastic for the simple reason I listen to what you want and I learn what you like. You'll cum, whether it takes us 1 minute or 1 day, I will not stop until your pussy is destroyed". Done. Said with confidence anything can be said lol. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) is the real way to attract women.Eh, there is but not with that attitude. The fact you accept that as a fact is why you're unsuccessful | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How to Get A Girl INVESTED Through TextDepends on the social circle you're in | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to Get A Girl INVESTED Through TextThis is about status. Get status and reputation and a girl will text you | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Weird breakthrough on rejectionLol, yeah. And also, so many people in this sub talk of rejection I don't know what OP is going on about | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Second date kiss, make less awkward when picking/dropping date off at her placeYes, do it. Or get out of the car to give her a kiss and wait by the car. Just say "let me say goodbye to you properly" | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Second date kiss, make less awkward when picking/dropping date off at her placeYes, also it's common manners | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 08:41 PM |
| 24 | Greatest tip you will ever hear.But I disagree with OP. Because everything is relative right? Responsibilities, time, ambition... A person struggling to get potable water in Africa versus a person struggling to eat healthy in the US. There are different struggles and everyone suffers. And yes, compared to the Universe we are nothing but taking that principle means that all life is worthless and to me that's far from the case. We are all worthy. We are all something to someone | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 9 | Online Game: Instagram Pod for Guys w/ Quality ContentIt still has social value, just in different social circles | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Online Game: Instagram Pod for Guys w/ Quality ContentActually, the follower count does matter. For instance, if a woman follows you back, you go straight into her primary inbox, rather than "requests". The thousands of requests people get, hard to even care to open. The more followers you have, the more likely you are to get into the primary inbox and get in touch. Also, the more likely they are to respond. Social status does help you here. The problem is if you message too many girls. Truth is, when you have those many followers you don't even ne… | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Women age like spoiled milk and men age like fine wine.It's more complex than just "money". | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Women age like spoiled milk and men age like fine wine.Because men become more successful, they achieve peak in many ways. Women peak physically sooner. Men care more about looks than personality, and vice versa for women. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | 3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3The only way to properly compliment a girl that you don't know or barely know is if you're using push/pull techniques. It's been documented for decades now, insults disguised as compliments, or a compliment followed by a joke to release tension. That's factual. I do it nowadays without even thinking about it, but it actually does work | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 09:56 AM |
| 3 | 3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3The stupid thing he did was commenting on how cute she is. That's stupidity. The more you compliment a girl the less she's interested. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 18 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?That's not what he is saying. He has no problem at first, but as the relationship progresses he begins getting in his head and ruining it. Frankly it has happened to me too before. Where I start worrying and overthinking. My best advice is to just write down your worries in your notepad and then when you start overthinking your worry or something just look at your notes and say "I've already worried about this, so let's focus on something else" and go about your life. It helps a lot with my over… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 96 | yesterday’s Heartbeat Rate spike when I approached a cute girl at the libraryMost people who practice high intensity sports can have a low resting heartbeat rate | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Why can't I enjoy conversations with women?I would say it also depends on your mood. Many times I get this terrible gut feeling when talking to new people, others I feel extremely good. It's up to us being happy or sad or angry that creates that sort of emotional connection from the get-go. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 10:35 PM |
| 65 | Saved myself from an awkward attempt at conversation by being straightforward.Sometimes ... | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 12:52 AM |
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