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Because many don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:59 AM
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Most straight men won’t care if it’s mostly been with other women because your typical bisexual woman will treat men as more serious and long-term partners than they will women. Your average straight man is not threatened by bi or lesbian women as a result. If anything, he’s likely to be turned on the by possibility of a threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:08 PM
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Nah, they don’t. Bi women are extremely common in liberal cities. In my area and age group, i meet them more often than women who id as totally straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:07 PM
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Most childless people, men or women, see dating someone with kids as a con. It’s even more of a con if you’re young (say 20s). You’re free to date as many men with kids as you want but you can’t berate others into finding that appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:04 PM
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Take a friend. You can’t pressure her into going and your need to do that makes you seem insecure, controlling and manipulative
/r/askMRP28/07/23 02:13 AM
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Remember that a lot of redditors are chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:27 PM
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This is abnormal outside of chronically online circles (such as those of people who spend a lot of time on discord or tumblr talking to strangers). You do you, for real, but you can’t generalize this to your average person’s dating life - man or woman. For most people, physical attraction matters in a sexual or romantic relationship. Most people either meet their partners in person or off an app like Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:04 PM
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Once again, that is not what I said. Practice reading something without jumping to extremes and getting heated. The fact of the matter is that what people are willing to accept in a partner partially depends on their dating prospects otherwise. That doesn’t mean that they’re seething in rage and only staying because they’re lonely - it is one of many factors. Read carefully again: this is not the ONLY reason and I never said it was. I also never said they “hated” their relationship. lol life isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:59 PM
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Is that even remotely what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:48 PM
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Because for the average guy, it’s more difficult to find a new girlfriend than it would be for the average woman to find a new boyfriend. Dating is work for men unless you’re incredibly attractive, rich, or powerful (and even then you have to take the dominant role with most women)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:32 PM
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One exception to that you’ll see is when it’s a bisexual woman with a straight man, in a relationship where they have threesomes and/or one or both partners sleep with women on the side. The woman in a successful one of these relationships does not think of women as serious romantic partners, and considers her straight relationship to be more real than a gay one could be. She is the woman who’d sleep with a girl on a night out but wouldn’t date one even when single, and feels like she needs dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:22 PM
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Both men and women typically want someone who theoretically could have whoever they wanted, and is with the person in question because said person is so awesome. Almost no one is fantasizing about dating someone who’s obese, unemployed, clingy and chronically single, lol and most people don’t want a polyamorous relationship (especially a one-sides one). That said, things do get complicated somewhat because women are primarily valued for their youth, appearance and charm, while men are valued for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:45 AM
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It’s not that people shouldn’t try. I don’t think picking up girls is hard, it’s just the double standard behind it that gets annoying. The majority of women who preach about equality will still expect men to ask them out, plan dates, lead/wow her during sex, propose, plan surprises, etc. Basically, women have kept the part of inequality that benefits them while pretending that everything is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:07 AM
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She’s a broke teacher who spends her time ranting about misogyny online but ultimately wants to be wined, dined and provided for. Yes, she’s hypocritical. No, she probably won’t change. People in general will do whatever they can get away with as long as it benefits them, and women like this are a shining example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:28 PM
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It’s not the douchey behavior that’s the actual draw. It’s that the popular assholes are also often some combination of rich, attractive, popular, confident, famous, or something else along those lines. It’s not like a neckbeard can just start acting like a jerk and gain acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:30 AM
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I’m in a relationship already and did not struggle to get laid when I was single lol. Done preaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:32 PM
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My real issue with it is that so many women will scream all day about being feminists, equality, and being just as strong as any man etc. while having these kinds of double standards. You want to be wined and dined by a big strong leader? Cool. But stop preaching what you don’t practice. The women that actually live by what they’re saying have my respect in both directions: traditional women who are honest about it, women who want some leadership but not all who are honest about it, and women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:23 PM
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This crap isn’t real lol. Chronically online crap. People get with friends and strangers a lot. Now what I do get is people being upset about finding out that their friend went years before their big confession and then ditched the friendship. Nobody likes to be lied to or abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:54 AM
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People can absolutely be happy single to an extent, especially in the 6 months - year following a long term relationship. There are benefits to being single, like having more free time and more agency. You can transform a lot as a person. Long-term, though, I agree. Single women tend to downplay that because they don’t want to seem desperate to be chosen. They’re the ones who get approached, so they try to play it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:53 AM
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Then that’s different. Social awkwardness is a negative character trait
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:39 AM
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They want to feel valuable, which society often associates with getting laid for men. Hence why they lash out when they don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:58 AM
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I totally get it. I wish I had whatever he has, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:56 PM
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What an insightful comment, thank you. I'm fascinated by people who can analyze other individuals to such a minute degree. Haha, I can definitely analyze him specifically because his life is so crazy that I’ve wondered about this a lot. He’s a good dude but it’s hard to not be jealous of him because the attention is so extreme. So you've never seen or heard him mention becoming nervous when talking to anyone? Like, a woman he found himself really attracted to or a man he held a lot of respect fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:31 PM
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Good question. I’ve thought about it a lot and it’s hard to explain. His entire life has been like this so I don’t think he’d be able to tell you. A few things I’ve noticed… He’s confident while not being arrogant. I’ve seen him get shit tested by men and women and he takes it very well. He comes across as down to earth and self-assured. He dresses well and has a unique/interesting fashion sense. He has some feminine and some masculine elements to his look and is edgy and straight edge at the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:01 AM
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It’s hard, but you’ve got to practice not people pleasing. I struggled with this too after a few years of being together. It’s easy to get caught up in making other people happy, but a) most people who care about you are capable of respecting boundaries even if they initially get upset and b) people who genuinely don’t care how you’re doing are idiots and need to get the boot. Tell her that she’s got to leave you alone when you’re in a meeting and that you can talk to her about it afterwards. If…
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:41 AM
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I meant most attractive overall, as in I’ve never seen anyone get as much attention as this dude, including guys who are taller, richer or more facially attractive. Even the hot girls I know don’t get as much attention as him. Basically, he has “it” - that extreme charisma and intriguing vibe. Both men and women are drawn to him without even speaking to him. Everybody wants to be his friend, sleep with or date him to the point that he gets annoyed by all the attention. If he could sing or someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:30 AM
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I disagree. You’re forgetting “vibe”. The most attractive guy I know is around 5’8 and poor, but attractive and fit. His life is absurd. Women throw themselves at him everywhere he goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:14 PM
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It’s basically just a part of insecurity. I’ve been confident and insecure at different points in my relationship, and can explain how I viewed it. When I was confident, if my girlfriend was wearing something that made her look sexy, I saw it as a compliment to me. When other people checked her out, I felt proud instead of being threatened whatsoever. I enjoyed showing her off. She used to say that I was “immune to jealousy”, which made her insecure because she worried that I’d leave her. But I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:11 PM
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How emotionally intelligent lol
/r/askMRP12/07/23 02:13 AM
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I agree with you. Nobody likes to do something that they always lose at. That said, later last night she came up to me and made me promise to never let her win. I think she got worried that I might try that to make it more fun for her. So now I feel conflicted about it because I’d be breaking that promise, silly as it is
/r/askMRP08/07/23 05:15 PM
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Well if she feels like crap she might not ever want to play, which would suck
/r/askMRP08/07/23 05:13 PM
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This is along the lines of what I was thinking. Thanks!
/r/askMRP08/07/23 05:13 PM
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The time before this I fucked her as my prize for winning, but I think she’s starting to actually feel stupid. She got so upset after this game that she took an iq test
/r/askMRP08/07/23 05:10 PM
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Great idea! Thanks.
/r/askMRP08/07/23 05:09 PM
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No concrete timeline. It depends on a ton of factors. Your dedication is a big one. I think 6 months is a good timeline for a lot of significant changes
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:55 PM
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Well, do you always do this?
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:49 PM
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You’re half right. She was too clingy and unreasonable at points. At the same time, I did neglect her and deprioritize her at points, too.
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:38 PM
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The question makes more sense to me now! Thanks for explaining. I‘ve gotten a lot better at not gauging how I feel or who I am by how she sees me. My confidence has genuinely been rebuilding and I’m happy with where my life is headed (lots of growth and goals that I’m working towards). Not denying that I still have work to do but I have made progress, and she notices it too. I also love her and still want to be with her after evaluating during my growth. I was looking for advice because I was wo…
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:36 PM
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I didn’t have a sex drive at the time and neither did she, so I wouldn’t have wanted it if she had. We got pretty depressed
/r/askMRP25/06/23 08:27 PM
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No, no main event yet, but things have improved a lot in our relationship in general. When we talked, I did apologize for making her feel alone and told her I’d always be there for her, and she started crying saying she needs that. I think she is genuinely having a hard time. She said today though that she will let the past go and that she isn’t leaving.
/r/askMRP25/06/23 06:43 PM
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Because I’m making a post asking for advice about this situation. Obviously I’m going to explain what she talked about. I have my own life goals etc and love her.
/r/askMRP25/06/23 06:38 PM
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Shit tests aren’t just things that women do. Idk why red pill teaches that. I feel like “respect test” is a better name for it. Basically, people will push and take as much as they can. There is always a social hierarchy in every situation. By testing you, a person is trying to figure out where you are in this hierarchy and seeing what they can get away with. If you’re established as low-ranking, you’ll get a lot of disrespect. If someone is losing interest in you romantically, they’ll see you a…
/r/askMRP15/06/23 05:19 PM
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OYS 1, but I’ve been lurking and reading MRP books for about a month. Not married but in a 5 yr long relationship. I wasn’t doing it on purpose at the time, but I realized that I was a strong alpha for the first ~2 years of my relationship. It wasn’t an act or intentional at all. It it was just who I was, and she loved that. I was fun, outgoing, positive, and charismatic. I was kind of known for being cool and confident. We’ve had some talks and she says that at that time, she was so into me tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 06:41 PM
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