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| – | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.I married a French girl and I live in Italy working online for my Dutch business. It doesn't get any more passport than this. Highly recommended. Man the fuck up and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?I don't know for most guys. I can speak for myself and for many of my friends. My 30's have been fucking awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:45 PM |
| – | If you want women to give up on hypergamous attitude you need to give up on your polygamous attitudeYou're trying to say humans need to go against their own biological nature shaped by millions of years of evolution? Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be forever alone or sugar coat (lie about some aspects) of yourself in order to get into a relationship (no matter how stable it is)?Lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Men and women will both choose thrill over stabilityOnce you eat caviar daily, you get tired of caviar. I had thrill for years. I'm fine with it once in a while. I prefer a slower life now. It's the hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:33 PM |
| -2 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?Mom bod. Hair has lost volume and shine. Hairline is receding. Skin ain't smooth anymore. Wrinkles here and there. They are far more cautious and analytical, less aloof. Less smiles, more resting bitch faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:31 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?No. My wife is a biologist who leads research projects. I couldn't be more proud of her. She gets paid enough (I earn almost twice as much, tho). Science keeps her objective and grounded, and being a researcher is as much as being scientifically rigorous as it is being creative when you're looking to solve problems. She's happy. I love scientists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Are many pill men looking for monogamy/marriage?The reason I want and obtain monogamy is not having to deal with (other) women for as long as possible. If they weren't such a pain in the ass, I probably wouldn't be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:02 PM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.That means they haven't hit it by the time they met their partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:04 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.I never specified ages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:49 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.They are delusional because they think they can choose. But they can't. All they can do is to choose to remain alone until the perfect guy comes in. And that's fine, until they hit the wall and that power is gone and they cannot crawl back from their singlehood without compromising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Jordan Peterson’s dating advice?He is bang on. I didn't know his advice until this post, but I'm almost 40 and have plenty of experience with women. Like it or not, he's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 17 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeCounterpoint: men think with their dicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Your success (or the lack of) dating is not a valid measure of your entire self worth, therefore shouldn’t be treated as such.Hooking up, getting attention, or getting in a relationship, on the final analysis, is not under control, it depends on the other party. Nothing is guaranteed. We are only responsible for what we can control. We should derive our worth from doing them completely, and earnestly, and leave the outcome to the presentation of necessary and sufficient cause-effect conditions There is A LOT you can control but you decide that's not the case. And this is what reeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?You hit the nail in the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?Damn right. And many men just didn't adapt, they weren't taught how to adapt, and no policies were even considered for a scenario where the pendulum would shift too much towards the other side, which is what is happening now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Your success (or the lack of) dating is not a valid measure of your entire self worth, therefore shouldn’t be treated as such.This post reeks of body positivity leftist bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?What actually happened is that women got careers and independence. They were given a vision to follow. Men didn't get any vision, no one told them they needed to adapt and how to adapt, and now they are lost. Women aren't going to work full time and keep a home running. Women aren't going to mate with someone of lower status and education level as them. It's mostly women walking out of the deal. Divorcing in droves and not getting into relationships as much as they would like to. Men are fucking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Jonah hill controversyWho's Jonah hill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Because the ones struggling aren't doing so, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Are average guys really “struggling”?See the obesity epidemic, lost men growing from single mom households, how dudes are spending their days numbing themselves down with porn video games and weed, suicide rates increasing, deaths of despair increasing...yeah it seems men aren't doing well. Women aren't doing much better either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:35 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenYou're there,man. The dudes here may not like it, but this is how it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think are tenets of the girl code?Girls aren't loyal to each other unless they are best friends. There's no girl code. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)In the future? We already shape simps left and right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Status and potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?I don't support anything that doesn't feel natural and feels pushed by ideology. Do whatever makes you happy, but if you're acting in some way just because a bunch of people are telling you to, nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.Sure we do. But we have more time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?Makes me feel superior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Yes. Yes I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Gimme the 3 any time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthWe don't want to date fat girls because fat girls are at the bottom of the hierarchy. Dating a fat girl signals to others that you couldn't do better. And frankly is also annoying having to deal with their self esteem issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How much is too much self traveling / socializing in a committed relationship ?Each couple is unique. There's not too much or too little as long as the couple is ok. Your friends aren't ok, which means there's too much traveling involved. For me, traveling every other week is too much. I can't stand being away from my wife for too long and sometimes I have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?I have 4/10 friends racking up >40 body counts like it's nothing. If they wanna do it, they can. All they need to do is show their assets on Tinder. They don't need to put time or effort. Then can swipe, get fucked and go about their day in an evening. They can't establish long term relationships or keep their tinder guys for long, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Ok. I'll stop in this sub if you want. That won't change my opinion in real life. Men who can't attract women while having a decent physique are utterly inept, socially and personality-wise. Hell, even fat guys with good personalities can pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 06:16 PM |
| 6 | If men know how other men think then why is it seen as controlling rather than protective to have a say in what clothes ur girls wearsAs a man, I'm not going to control what my girl wears. But I can voice an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?No... But mid 30's is where most of the time the shine is utterly lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing better than being an average manNah. People at the top of the hierarchy do better. Or at least, they have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:00 PM |
| 3 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)You can always get fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:47 AM |
| 2 | What is one thing you would change about male acculturation?Stop being fat fucks and be more assertive, greedy and determined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?Two options If there's no double standard, then that means girls don't care about body count as much as men do. I believe this is the case. If there's a double standard, then there's a double standard and that's that: I'll find me a girl that doesn't care about my body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:08 PM |
| 3 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsWhat makes her a great mom? Her absolute dedication to the task. She really wanted to be a mom, loves being a mom, and sees her kids as the most valuable thing in the world. Do you feel that your mother has shaped your expectations of what a woman should do as a partner, wife and mother? Not entirely, because times change and generations are different. But I do know what a good mom is like, what a wife is like. Are you in a Relationship? Yes Is/Was it difficult for you to find a woman who meets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:13 PM |
| 7 | If you Profit off sex work there is no room to complain about a lack of masculinity in menLfmao you can't fake this shit, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:09 PM |
| 15 | If you Profit off sex work there is no room to complain about a lack of masculinity in menYeah okay but who cares about what sex workers think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously.Hookup apps are for hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?You can slut around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant?Yes I would move in, but under proper commercial terms. I want to pay what is a fair share and I want to then have fair equity in return. Otherwise, I'm just paying rent, which is fine if I have no other choice, but once I look to start investing in a house, I'm just going to go and buy one myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are more into the "finer things in life"?My wife is super low maintenance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Female access to education, and their social and financial independence, are the primary cause of male loneliness, falling birthrates, and hypergamy.It is. All you need is higher education, a career, a semi interesting life with something to do, staying fit, knowing how to keep a clean house and being kind. I understand not everyone is like that, but most can aim there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Female access to education, and their social and financial independence, are the primary cause of male loneliness, falling birthrates, and hypergamy.Yes of course, but also because men aren't keeping up. The problem is societal. Not men, not women. But, men want women, women pick men. The easiest solution is to be market-driven and give women what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toIn America Maybe. In Europe? No one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries?Absolutely. There are some other fucked up places in my experience. Germany: tons of weirdos that can't get girls. Spain: some weirdos but an overload or angry, unfuckable women that make you think why even bother. Italy: huge macho culture that women are finding simply unbearable and outdated. Greece: women paranoid they're getting cheated on Norway: if you're an alpha, you will get women all the time, have kids by 25, divorce, marry, divorce again, fuck the secretary and her mom. If you're a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:34 PM |
| 5 | How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"?I married one. Worst mistake of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as hypergamous as women.We have always known that, we have always accepted it. We will bang the hot girl given a low risk opportunity. We will cheat on you with hot young piece. If we have the means and resources, we will divorce you for someone younger given the chance. Men are semi monogamous in long term relationships. If possible, they will keep the main piece, and have side pieces. You know that, we all do. None if this is new. None if this comes as a surprise. As a girl growing up, the most important warnings you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is being a virgin an indication that there is something wrong with guy?Yeah whatever I'm just answering your question. You still fall short if the circumstances didn't benefit you. It's no one's fault, but a virgin is a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | People can really be meanAmerica is like that. Shitty braggy on your face attitude with no decorum, no discretion, no consideration for others'personal space and feelings. It's all euphemisms and fake smiles or on your face mean behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is being a virgin an indication that there is something wrong with guy?You're supposed to be socialized, to be healthy, to know how to talk to others, to talk to girls, to find interest in girls and to find a girlfriend eventually. If all of that is true, you will eventually lose your virginity. If you haven't lost it, something got lost during your formation as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships?Nah they are just jelly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Why hate on women who do OF?I don't hate them at all I think they are entertaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 09:33 PM |
| 12 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.You can have true equality by pairing up with a woman that believes in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Question for Red Pill Men and Men who follow the Red Pill: How damaging do you think OnlyFans has been to the credibility of women in society and for relationships?I don't think it's been damaging on a societal level. Prostitution has always existed. There are women who decided to become prostitutes and women that don't. That's it. The prostitutes don't paint all women in bad light. The thots asking people for money online is just a lack of proper site moderation. And the lack of credibility modern women enjoy has little to do with onlyfans and more about their general attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Marrying in your 20s is not that badI married in my late 20's and again in my late 30's. Late 30's is VASTLY superior. Everything has been ten times better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How do would you like appreciation shown to you from a woman?Physical contact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 06:14 AM |
| 10 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesWhy appeal to women on the internet? Veto promiscuous women irl and you're good, king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?I look at her family history, her upbringing, did she have an absent or abusive father, did she have a narcissistic mother, how does she treat her parents and siblings. That's key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Has the “body positivity” movement lost its way? It is, now, simply a beautiful lie?It's been the same it has always been and you can continue to ignore the angry fatties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyShort unattractive I like my brain in order, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?I love equality, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Caring about someone’s job is not superficial and doesn’t mean they don’t like you for youNo Doctor is complaining about this :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:34 AM |
| 29 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?Net positive: economic development. Societies with increased female participation in the economy do better. Less domestic violence, there are more systems in place to support female victims. More awareness, etc. That's all I can think of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?Depends on the country and cultural group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?I could be good at it. I'm not even gonna try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?You're young and you haven't seen it play enough because everyone's partying. But, the dual mating hypothesis has been disproven academically anyway. THAT said, if a woman is in a boring relationship with a guy that is boring or has simply stopped trying, she's going to open up to other men. And of course she's not gonna pick another boring guy. She's gonna get attracted to someone that makes her feel beautiful and desired again, to the hot piece she can claim to make herself feel she has still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Is he a misogynist?He loves women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:34 AM |
| 0 | Men don't like "blank"You don't cover yourself in tattooes unless you're a little unstable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:48 AM |
| 4 | The future for men is going abroad to a country they will be respected and worshipped by womenNo one's going to worship a dumb American, that I guarantee you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How are incels made/raised?Absent fathers, poor socialization in small social groups, obesity, stressful upbringing with neglect, abuse, poverty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:20 AM |
| -1 | Men don't like "blank"My crazy tattooed friends who are DESPERATE for a relationship suggest me they do care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Would you personally be happy and content with never experiencing romance for your entire life?I have experienced romance all my life so I can't say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:17 AM |
| – | I'm back baby/u/savevideo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 3 | What do men truly desire from women?Tits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:15 PM |
| – | Unpopular opinion, but i don't think it's necessarily harder for ugly people to find a mateFor the most part. But also quite culture and location dependent. In South America, everyone gets a chance. In Norway, it's been studied how a small proportion of men have most of the kids. They marry, have kids, divorce, marry again and so on. In the US, the situation seems that a big fraction of people are largely undesired and lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:52 AM |
| – | People who would generally be considered more desirable/attractive than average (height, money, personality, skills, looks etc.): would you prefer a committed relationship with one attractive person, or having casual sex with multiple attractive people?I married the right person. I don't really like casual sex. But, I get the feeling that women who have proposed to me in the past didn't want casual sex only, they definitely seem to want something that leads to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Your girlfriend(or wife) is in an argument with her dadCursing, insulting, going ape. Honestly I have almost never seen anyone behave like this in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Your girlfriend(or wife) is in an argument with her dadShe's an adult and that's her Dad. If someone knows how to handle that situation, it's her I'll jump in if she needs me to or if the whole thing turns abusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:58 AM |
| – | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousNah that's bullshit. Everyone states their preferences but this one is mysoginy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:05 AM |
| – | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousGo on dating over thirty or dating over forty and casually comment how much you prefer younger women. You get downvoted to hell in an instant. Doesn't happen when a cougar snatches a toy boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 4 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerI will be empathetic. I won't go out of my way to piss on a single mom for being a single mom. But that's it. What else am I supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenMen will sleep with 🐋 s. In secret. Women won't sleep with fat dudes no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Okay am I really high rn or do women do shit that would be really cringey if men did it?Men do a lot of cringey shit too. Like growing neck beards and being fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:36 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolNot really no, they know what they are getting into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolI'm very much against predatory relationships. Breaks my heart seeing old men getting swindled by young gold diggers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:15 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolLock them down AND keep them happy. Otherwise they leave for the hot piece later on. But for those that have grown fat and bitter, the game is over. For those who can keep a joyful demenanor, a healthy weight and an interesting life, they will always have suitors well into their old age. I have seen it myself and I see it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:45 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolAnd I have mostly seen older women criticising this topic so to me, young people criticising age gaps doesn't seem too accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:26 AM |
| 31 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolThe age gap discourse is about women jealous over something they can't control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?I would end up cheating ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:42 AM |
| 8 | CMV: The best way to set yourself apart is to be from a different cultureI got married last Sunday. Most couples there were international couples who met traveling, studying and working abroad. The few same-country couples were people who didn't venture abroad much. Living internationally does give plenty of opportunity for love because these people have a lot in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:21 PM |
| – | finding someone better than ex easy?The quality of my partners increased with time. My second wife is absolutely the best partner I could have ever dreamed of. Finding someone better that the exes wasn't just easy, it was also natural. If you're stuck in the past with your exes, you simply haven't evolved as a person in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:16 PM |
| – | male and female attraction are fundamentally different and that’s why things like dating apps flat out don’t workWe know that. That's how night clubs have always made money. Let the hot girls in to lure the guys in. Eventually you get a sausage fest where men drink alcohol to ease themselves and buy women drinks trying to bed them. At the end of the night a few lucky top of the pile guys go home with some women, many women go home alone completely uninterested, and most men go home alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Fashion and Models with morbid obesityAbsolutely. That's why we need to be >15% bodyfat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 6 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.It doesn't matter. These women are cherry picked from a crowd for entertainment value. They don't represent women as a whole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Ah, so, are you saying that the standards are higher because of the degrees? Yes. I said previously, girls want people their equal status or higher. A degree (no matter how shitty) gives them, in their eyes, certain status that a blue collar worker might not be able to reach. Again, in their eyes. But their opinion matters because men want women. And women want men, too, but many prefer to remain single that to end up with someone perceived as low status. An ugly chick with a degree is still ugl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.When studying relationship dynamics among this wave of societal change, those details don't matter. This is not a competition of who is benefiting society more. This is a snapshot trying to explain why suddenly women seem to have standards that are unattainable to so many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Fashion and Models with morbid obesityYeah I know but I chuckled writing it🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.It doesn't matter if we consider them useless or not. To them their title grants them certain status and frankly, many are establishing careers that put them ahead of many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Fashion and Models with morbid obesityI think, deep down, most of them know that this is all a big fat lie and that they are lying to themselves. It must be so because you see almost no fat people in high circles, you don't see male celebrities chubbychasing around (Pierce Brosnan, you animal), men aren't openly expressing their attraction to fat women. You just need to go out to notice. I don't think it will happen. The counterweight to this is the VASTLY larger attention hot, fit girls get from men in media and online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:55 PM |
| 18 | Fashion and Models with morbid obesityBut more importantly, what does this mean for society ? Nothing. It's vapid noise. It's screaming into the void. Fat people will keep fatting. The rest doesn't even care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Either wait a decade or two until women realise they need to date down if they don't want to stay alone, or level up to their level or higher, meaning: Getting higher education, all the way up to Master's or above. Start a business, climb up the career ladder, build up your professional life in some interesting way. Be independent, learn how to drive, travel. Be fit and dress well. Build an interesting online presence. I hate Instagram but I use LinkedIn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.I find them pathetic, because they know what the solution is, but they decide to ignore it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:49 PM |
| 4 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?There's no market for that. Unless you are an athlete, a model, or a star, no one cares. Thirst trapping is definitely a possibility for that 0.1% of men that have the looks AND the status. The thirst trap that works for men is status, success and an exciting lifestyle. THAT will bring women to your DMs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.It's a very complicated problem and different specialists will give different answers. This is a salad of what you hear from them, depending who you ask: In a nutshell, we forgot about men when we made policies to empower women. We ignored the bomb that fatherlessness is. We failed giving men role models and visions of what men could be like in a more equal society. This includes the fact that most teachers are female and male teachers are looked at with suspicion. The US moved away from an indu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:37 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.There's no moving goalposts. The goalpost is to be equally or better educated than women, earn as much or more than women, be a couple of inches taller than your woman, and not be fat. That's it. It's not hard. On average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.No. Google it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:27 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.That's your opinion. The data is clear: women are getting ahead, no matter how much you want to spin it around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:23 AM |
| 17 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Most of university graduates these days are women. The gap is wider today than it was in the opposite direction in the 70's. Salaries are reaching parity in many fields and they will continue to move towards the gap forming with women earning more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:19 AM |
| 31 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Women are outcompeting men and the trend is not slowing down. Men are checking out of society in droves. Women want a man that is at their level or higher. Men want a woman that is at their level or lower. There. Riddle solved. I'm done with guys here claiming how important the sexual marketplace is yet they want somehow the market to magically change in their favour. These guys are no less pathetic than fatties rooting for body positivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Is it true young men can handle an older woman better than vice versa, from societies' views?Young men can handle older women and older men can handle younger women....seems that men have the upper hand except during those painful teenage years.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Fertility among women who became richThat's pretty much it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:21 PM |
| 34 | Fertility among women who became richBeing rich allows you to have more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:08 PM |
| – | Would you take a pill that make you stop interest for romantic relationships and love?No. I'm successful in love, so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 10:33 AM |
| 33 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richIf marriage is not worth it to women then why is it always women requesting commitment from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 10:32 AM |
| – | Men, are you sick of being asked to be violent in bed? What is going on in hookup culture and why are women constantly asking us to do this?I don't get asked to be violent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:23 PM |
| 5 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?I think reddit brings a special kind of loser. Those guys on their nights out weren't shit posting about tradwives on Reddit were they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Trust your gut! I mean if you have a room temperature IQ I guess bacteria down here have to do most of the computing power, ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:30 PM |
| – | CMV: Men have no issue committing to the vast majority of relationships if given the option.The 363874727 weekly threads on the dating subs from women megacoping about how they get pumped and dumped tells me that at the very least, commitment is on women's minds way before men's. But I just discovered the recipe for warm water by telling you this. We all know that's exactly how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:51 PM |
| – | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsfor all the office jobs and really relatively useless positions and drop out of society in mass the faster the power goes out and the water stops flowing That's already an ongoing process. And people are already raising the alarms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:53 PM |
| 11 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?The one's with daddy issues are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:05 PM |
| 27 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsBeing a tradwife is just some larping to get YouTube views and some people off. The cat is out of the box. Most people can't be tradwives and honestly most men won't want a tradwife going forward into a future where more and more women outcompete men in school and eventually outcompete them in the workforce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I personally never used online dating. Without any effort means you either get to know someone through your social circle or some old friend / flame shows up with "heeeeeey!!!!!!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessI saw girls cheat/fall for another guy while married and go on a weight loss rampage after getting dicked down by someone who told them they needed to take more care of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessI heard one joke with some truth to it that when your wife all of a sudden starts working out and losing weight, a divorce is on the way. It's got all the truth to it. I have seen it myself several times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?He doesn't need more wealth he needs a hot piece of ass that looks nice on the bow of his yatch anchored in Mallorca | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:48 PM |
| 3 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?I'm fit, I'm attractive, I have my own business able to support us. I'm debt free. I cook better than her, we plan trips and adventures all the time, I do housework as much as she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:44 PM |
| 3 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Europe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:28 PM |
| 5 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Once every month or so.... without putting any effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?I care about both. I can have both. I can have someone who works and earns well, who is willing to split living costs and chores,and that is beautiful, young and willing to start a family. It's not a zero sum game. What Leo wants a a Hollywood start is may differ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:21 PM |
| 10 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?In what sense are these women "beneath" him? They got exactly what he wants: looks, youth, probably a personality that doesn't bring too much bullshit up. He is getting away with exactly what he wants to get away with? How is an A list celebrity going to replace that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:28 AM |
| 9 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?My wife wouldn't let me, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:02 AM |
| 6 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Yet.....he keeps winning I just thought. If I where to call a woman here a whore, I would get a moderator nagging me in no time. Anyway, carry on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:01 AM |
| 6 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Yet he keeps dating those 20-somethings over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 07:38 AM |
| 13 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Leo di Caprio on the other hand Edit: the salt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore?Of course you are yourself. Six pack me dressed sharply is as much me as groggy dad bod me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:25 PM |
| 14 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?I have built a 1m euro company from scratch and have placed myself to be able to work remotely for the next six months at least. I split housework with my fiancé 50/50 most of the time. Now it's a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Should men be friends or even partners with women who claim to hate men?To an extent. Women who hate men are misguided. One can show them their own bias and teach them that men are not to hate. The limit to this is our own personal boundaries. I have no problem making friends with man haters, to entertain discussions with them, to help them. But, if their hate is personally directed at me, they can go back to their purple haired girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Frequent Fights with girlfriend on not listening to me, it's been over a year...the more she doesn't feel like doing it. Absolutely stop nagging her. Leave her be. If this is not the kind of person you want, change person but stop trying to change her. Either be ok with her being a slob or go. ...i want to be adored by her and she doesn't show any language of love over text or call..it's like we are friends...i have to ask her for kisses... My ex was the same. That's why she's my ex and I found someone who is far more affectionate. Again, you're with the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want women to think you are easy?I personally don't care. If a woman wants to take me home that night, she's going to have to seduce me and I'm going to need a few drinks that I'm going to regret the day after. And instant proposition for sex is a massive turnoff. I have female friends that test my boundaries. I can banter and play mind games around them, in the end they realise I won't sleep with them. I don't give a fuck if they I think I'm easy or not. I'm sure some think I'm a bit of a playboy. It's more about where my boun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 12:01 PM |
| – | Men dont actually care about a women being healthyHow fat are you, OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyI use to call my older sister on this shit more than 20 years ago. Nothing has changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How important do you think teen love is?Just people that haven't been properly socialised trying to defend themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:28 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+It's not sad. It is what it is. Before you just needed to show up to get a good paying job. Now you need 4-8 years of training. Often much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:44 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementYou will turn red or at least purple. Girls will make sure you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:13 AM |
| 3 | How important do you think teen love is?Did you have teenage relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:11 AM |
| 23 | How important do you think teen love is?Teen love is extremely important because it trains you, as in everything else in life. People who don't experience it end up being absolutely clueless later on. A well trained guy during his teens will likely keep getting into relationships later on in life. I fucking loved my teenage romances. They were absolute fire and it was great to focus on love without worrying about other aspects of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Absolutely. I didn't spend the last 18 years playing videogames and getting fat. I have worked my ass off and sacrificed a lot to get where I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Sexy-Havers Only Discussion ThreadNobody's forcing you, my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?The only reason I can imagine is that she's a 10/10 smokeshow and he really thinks he can bed her so he pretends and spends some money in the process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:13 PM |
| 18 | Sexy-Havers Only Discussion ThreadMan here: Learn to eat pussy, touch her and hold to her like you never want to let go, look at them deeply in the eyes and tell them how much you like them and how beautiful they are to you. Don't ever stop foreplay/oral until they either orgasm or they literally grab you by the dick to start fucking. Don't Jackhammer unless asked. Keep the momentum over the full range of motion, deep and sensual. Accelerate at times and be ready to keep the pace if they respond positively. Continue to touch, ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.I'm getting married next month and options have been plentiful in my 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Yep. Part of my family age very well. But good diet, exercise, skin care go a long way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Sure, but I was scrawny as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 24 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Lmao dude if you see how I looked when I was 20 versus how I look now at almost 40... I look objectively much better. You build more muscle mass and sort of grow into a man's body, you dress better, you gain experience, status, some wealth, you got stuff going on for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingBeen to NY, NJ and FL.... Will probably keep coming back to places around the Eastern seaboard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 12:46 PM |
| 3 | American capitalism has destroyed datingI had some honest conversations last night with some new people I met. They approached transparency with both admiration and fear. It felt that being candid is something they long, but can't truly get to be. There's a breaking point in the conversation where they prefer to stop and leave before saying something stupid. BUT, they approach a lot more to talk. Eye contact is almost and immediate invitation. Among men. Women and men don't approach each other at all in my experience. Women never appr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 08:34 AM |
| 12 | American capitalism has destroyed datingI have been in Greece, France, Spain, Belgium and the Netherlands recently. Add to that Italy, Turkey, Germany, Norway, Panama, Mexico and Costa Rica over the last 12 months. Each country feels different but I can definitely cluster my feelings. Mediterranean and Caribbean countries feel similar. People are warm and welcoming and definitely people have no trouble expressing who they are. Latinos fake it a little extra: they don't want to appear angry or disappointed and definitely complaining is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 08:28 AM |
| 52 | American capitalism has destroyed datingI have been to the US twice this year. The country feels sterile and sanitized to the point no one is actually sincere as they conduct themselves through daily life. Everything feels fake. Edit: I'm loving the replies and the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Are Woman in America are different?Do you think woman in America hate men, more than woman in other countries? They just have their view of the world warped by fucking Instagram, TikTok and tv. On average. I'm in the US for business this week. There is absolutely no way I approach women here. But I did meet a girl from Paris and we had really nice conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?Forever girlfriends are not a category of women. You're looking at patterns rising up from common situations that couples experience while every couple is pretty much unique | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Differences between man-woman, woman-woman or man-man friendships?I don't know where the fuck you guys live but I talk with my female friends about the same stuff I talk about with my male friends. If I can't treat the girls equally as the boys, we can't be close friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?an interesting discussion. Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayThere are practical benefits to it. At some point, under the right circumstances, being married solves more issues than staying cohabitating long term with someone. Marriage as a tool to make life easier when needed is ok. Marriage as legal blackmail or because Susan wants to brag she got picked or because she wants to ease her own insecurities and anxieties? Fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:50 AM |
| 5 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayNarrator: they aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:17 AM |
| 4 | CMV: A New Site Replacing Are We Dating The Same Guy Should Have These ChangesJust saying. Start s group about are we dating the same woman and see the social outcry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 08:13 AM |
| – | Controversial opinion: Men have it better than womenI agree as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:48 AM |
| 4 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?Have we, as a society, asked these men is this is a problem that needs solving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:31 AM |
| 14 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayAlso, your husband will face more challenges when leaving you with the kids than your boyfriend would ever. Getting married is way more than just a piece of paper, it’s a security thing for us women Guys. Take note. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?Nope. I'd appear in her videos, for a fee, and as long as my face doesn't show up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:37 AM |
| 5 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?For the sake of my fellow men, I hope not. Now, I'm not sure how is this going to play out demographically. Maybe look at Korea or Japan for extreme examples: women do end up single, and men too. The media doesn't really cover how women fair in these cultures, but we know how men are perceived and how apparently they are struggling. In China, seems to be opposite, we don't to see how men fair, but the whole leftover women thing is super raw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Your probably focusing on the wrong stuff in dating?cartoon caricature They literally try to emulate cartoons as much as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Your probably focusing on the wrong stuff in dating?We just look at their pictures on Instagram and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDLmao yes YOU DARE YOU NOT TRUST ME ILL DIVORCE YOU AND CHASE YOU FOR CHILD SUPPORT yikes, bitch if you were searching for a reason for me not to trust you, you just served me one on a silver platter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in general having high social status allows men to get the highest quantity/quality of woman?Owning the place is the winner. If you're the heart of the party, the center of attention and you are there enjoying the moment, you have gone a long stretch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:35 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Dumping awkward or unattractive guys into the Alaskan wilderness in late winter might make them more attractive.Image 2 hours away from your playstation and your anime tiddies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:33 AM |
| 16 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDIf you don't trust your woman, leave. Refuse to sign papers that you are that child's father. If you are, don't worry, she'll track you down and prove it. You're missing the point. It is clarity and transparency what builds trust, not "trust me bro". A woman who is transparent and open to paternity testing gives ME more reasons to trust than one blackmailing me with divorce papers then child support just to avoid transparency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:30 AM |
| 6 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDWhy are governments spending so much money going great lengths to appease things tiny minorities want anyway? I know the answer: social movements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:26 AM |
| 12 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDALL MEN ARE TRASH.... meanwhile women ☕ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDHahaha yes! This topic just doesn't have ANY counterargument. Baby is born, take the sample. The paternity test is made and presented before signing the birth certificate. Done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:22 AM |
| – | What would the female version of Red Pill be?Free Dinner Strategies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Standards are unbelievableThey are just trying with what they've got, man. But the double standard here is blatant. You can see all over reddit how men doing the same are named creepy, old, dusty, balding, whatever. Apply the same treatment to women and you get a ban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Do you honestly think that out of all the men approaching or expressing interest in a woman the number seeking genuine relationships are non-existent or minusculeDo you honestly believe that if 100 men were to express interest in a woman that 99 of them only want sex and nothing else? In this day and age? Yes. We're living in a fuck first, ask questions later society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:31 AM |
| 32 | CMV: pushing RP theories like the wall encourages immature women with very little life experience to make rushed decisions about who’s genes to pass onThen I see my 30 something year old female friends absolutely freaking the fuck out and making horrible dating choices out of desperation and I don't know what to tell them. It's got nothing to do with virginity, or purity or even fertility: finding the right partner in this day and age takes years. A full decade even. If you don't start early, you just can't rush life once you feel you're running out of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:14 PM |
| 5 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessSo the PUA thing didn't work, did it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:36 PM |
| 15 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessnotice any signals or body language to suggest that she was open to this guy coming over. But you said the whole thing worked. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for?But that seems like too short of a list. Why? We hate the laundry lists girls make up about men. When everything is priority, then nothing is. That's why we focus on the fee most important aspects only. She has different political views We don't mind. She's emotionally immature If she's cooperative, she's not immature. Drowning in debt and terrible with money Not important in the short term. And goes with being cooperative. If she's cooperative she's probably mindful which means she's not impuls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Are most men here looking for short term relationships?We just don't plan a priori to meet women to marry them. That is too much of a risk. We meet, we date, we enter in a relationship for months or even years, THEN, we MAY start thinking about marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:21 AM |
| 34 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessI still don't get something: The girl also wanted to flirt, pick someone up that night, I guess? So if the deal is to get laid, who cares if the guy is a pick up artist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 2 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessNice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:10 AM |
| – | CMV : Beeing a progressive man is the dumbest thing that u can do if u want to have a happy relationshipSo I can be progressive but I can't be strong minded or have clear boundaries? Lmao fuck off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women How have you changed or improved yourself to improve your chances of getting the kind of relationship you want with the kind of man you want?Fanatic thread. Everyone here is mentioning exact shit that actually works. Losers should take note. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 10:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot every woman has dem squishy goth milkers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:45 AM |
| 0 | What do you dislike about female behavior with regards to sex and dating? What changes from women would you like to see?I don't mind what they do. But a lot of dating struggles and drama they report have a very easy explanation: they are uglier than what they would like to admit, but somehow we cannot be honest about it. Being honest would save everyone a lot of time and align people to find solutions. But no, hypocritical sugarcoating comes first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:43 AM |
| 13 | What do you dislike about female behavior with regards to sex and dating? What changes from women would you like to see?Irrelevant if they accept it or not. Keep your stabdards, king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut dem tiddies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 05:19 AM |
| 16 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Lord have mercy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:38 AM |
| 12 | Q4M, have you ever rejected a girl because she was too nice?No. That's something women do. If you're too nice and you're still rejected, he didn't find you pretty enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)I touch grass lmao. Nah seriously, much of what happens on Reddit/TikTok/YouTube doesn't show much in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV : The Club shows that Looks alone dont bring result, and that a worse looking dude with better social skills has a better experience.Have you been to Switzerland? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game?If most men are unattractive that would mean most women aren't getting anything out of sex. Read just about any dating sub for a confirmation of this. Plus we add the fact that men are far hornier than women. On average. Yes on average. You, high libido girl, shut up. Hetero sex is a zero sum game if people are trying to use it to get into relationships these days indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 5 | CMV : The Club shows that Looks alone dont bring result, and that a worse looking dude with better social skills has a better experience.My experience aligns with yours: it is VERY dependent on cultural context and even the type of club you're going. In places like America or South America where looks and status are more important in poshy clubs, the hot guys have the edge. This is further exacerbated by the extremes in beauty. There some people are HOT and many others are downright disgusting. So you pick the hot guy. Not only the guy is hot, you WANT to be seen with the hot guy. You want to show everyone he picked you instead o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?You're spot on. There's also the sense of self worth being skewed by social media, simps, guys hitting on girls online when they wouldn't actually be willing to meet these women in real life, let alone enter in a relationship with them, plus the vast amounts of girls with some self esteem issue that makes them swing hard to the other side to compensate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:11 AM |
| 4 | whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks?No problem about her. Problem is the loser who thinks he won the lottery and ends ups destroyed/cheated on/ not understanding where did all go wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:05 PM |
| 4 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Look at relationships with people in their 40-60s. That is what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | It is commonly stated in the ‘manosphere’ that men’s SMV peaks later in life. PPD men over 30, have you actually found your overall value to increase as you’ve gotten older?Absolutely yes. It's gotten better and better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Are men genuinely worse potential partners these days? If every man was successful, would these problems still persist due to hypergamy?No. Every man being successful would actually help solve the problem because women are trying to date equals but they are not finding them as men aren't catching up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman?Love. It's the only way I can describe it. Logically, it makes no sense. I could save my ass and find another woman later. But I'm in love, so the though of losing her makes me want to die instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewI'm flattered you think we Latinos are good at sex 🫶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewLive and let live, it's not a competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?That's so entertaining 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.There's a lot of pathetic guys ngl. But you can call them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?Not only that, but (probably due to porn) lesbians are portrayed as sexy, feminine and adventurous. To a man, bi women mean potential threesomes, fun sex, you name it. You are spot on on the masculinity part. As much as the whole toxic masculitity bullshit is overused around, women do love and crave a masculine man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Have you seen women's subs giving advice? It's 70% glitter, 20% siding with the girl 10% providing something practical and objective that may be even going against what the OP was expecting to get as validation. Many women just work on vent mode. They want to vent, they want someone to listen to them vent, but they do not like to skip right to the todo list. Women, by at large, are not prepared to give clear, straight, actionable advise because they are continuously hiding behing their own polit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:58 PM |
| – | Should i stop seeing her?I would wait it out and learn more. Trying to establish a friendship and seeing where values align. All without getting too entangled just yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:07 AM |
| – | Should i stop seeing her?To little information and too early to decide. Sure, she's having a ho phase and she's figuring herself out. I personally wouldn't involve myself too much and just ending up being part of her rotation and "discovery journey". She can use my peepee as a microphone for her internal monologue but that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Anyone who says anything remotely critical about women must hate women.Not only that. Say some direct and blunt without sugar coating and bam! You're an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:02 AM |
| 14 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Does the average guy wants penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 03:35 AM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitI'm sorry man, it's longer than a flight to the Philippines with blue balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitI think you wrote too much for a bunch of strangers that have no impact on your life. Keep travelling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 09:04 PM |
| 14 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?I'm not upset in the slightest. Hypergamy is only natural even though that word sounds absolutely horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:11 AM |
| 24 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?>relationship/family a byproduct of you seeking sex. This is biologically what men are primarily wired to do. Sex is IMPORTANT in men. A life with no sex is meaningless and even damaging to men. That does not mean we are dumb sex robots looking for ass all the time. But definitely sex ranks high up with the rest of our basic needs. This thing that some women do, deciding just to not have sex and that's it? the 99.999% of men will never do. A man not banging his wife has not given up on sex. He i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 08:54 AM |
| 82 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Who cares what these type of women think, really. We know being BF material to someone like that is suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men.Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 02:09 AM |
| 25 | It's perfectly sensible for a woman to be rapidly promiscuous with some men, and have tougher criteria for relationship-material menI'm not to piss on women's parade. They can be as slutty as they want. But I won't pick a slut for a wife and that's final. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If women desire to "date up", but are simultaneously "high value women", how does this affect relationship dynamics?It's lonely at the top for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men.You can actually make decent money playing MTG for a living. Sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Do you think paternity testing should be made mandatory at the point of birth?In many places it's actually illegal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:45 PM |
| 3 | For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men.You're under the assumption that succes in this area is linear, it isn't Is not linear, it's logarithmic. That's what diminishing returns looks like. Women have an atractiveness floor that needs to be met before they even consider you, this is scientifically backed Get fit, dress well, and be decent. Be educated at their level or better. You have to be ugly as fuck to fuck that one up. If you're truly ugly or socially incompetent, you're out. The optimal strategy is to tackle all the low effort … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:11 PM |
| 12 | Do you think paternity testing should be made mandatory at the point of birth?With this in mind do you think paternity testing should be mandatory before any legal obligations come into affect? Yes. If so what are the implications? Women seething | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 85 | Are men seen as expendable?Look at the war in Ukraine. Women stay behind on both sides. Ukrainian women and children are being received as refugees all over Europe. Russian women are in the cities. Russian men are rounded up and sent to the meat grinder. Ukrainian men aren't allowed to leave the country. What more evidence do you want? And you don't see feminists rallying up for their right to join the Ukrainian foreign legion and join the fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:03 PM |
| 5 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjective💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:52 PM |
| 9 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectiveIt is indeed entirely subjective because people have different ideas of what danger is. A paranoid American girl that goes screaming on TikTok because a dude called her from 30 feet away is different from a northern European woman which lives in a more tranquil environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 2 | For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men.1) NEET is an acronym. Google it. 2) In the US two thirds of the population are overweight. Overweight people have a much harder time dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 5 | how much do men really care about body?Love goggles are a HUGE thing in men. We don't think of settling as women discuss settling these days because we don't have those idiotic laundry lists of requirements women post online. And the ones with options are picking their girls because they liked them. The exes had better bodies and they are still exes, which means a hot body was not in your guy's deciding criteria for picking someone. It's easy to see a hot girl on Instagram receiving likes and comments: those women are out of the men'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Depends on who you are, your status and what's the proportion of males to females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:27 AM |
| 22 | For most men, self-improvement has diminishing returns on their SMV because they’re still competing with the top percentile of men.Diminishing returns applies to almost everything in life. If you are A NEET fat neck beard basement dweller, you have hit rock bottom. ANYTHING you do in the right direction will bring MASSIVE improvements. For example: Grooming and changing clothes and cleaning yourself up: takes 2 hours max. You're suddenly more approachable. Losing weight: takes 2-5 years: you're already at the top 30% of the population. Getting a good paying job, starting a successful business/ climbing up the status ladder,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sOf course. That boils down to the first part of my post. If you're 40-50 and those 20 year somethings are not giving you hints and you're still trying, you're making a fool of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Successful men of Reddit, do you struggle with retaining high value women?I'm marrying next month. We have been together for almost 8 years. Guess I did manage to retain her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:23 AM |
| 52 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sYou forgot the most important part: women decide who they like, and make themselves available to the person they decide to have a shot with. Men with experience know how to pick the clues and make s move....on average. Men "wanting" means little if women don't want them in the first place. No woman my age ever wanted me until I was in my mid to late 20's. They started wanting me when I my career started talking momentum in my late 20's. From that point and into my 30's, both women my age and dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD.This whole agency thing is an online meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?Direct answer to your question: no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Women and Boss Babes>How would you describe the personality traits of a woman who calls herself a boss baby? Insecure deep inside. They really don't know how to navigate the society and generally end up like an elephant running around a glass shop. Neurotic and on the defensive. >Have any guys come across this type of woman and did you find her attitude attractive? I have a couple of friends like that. Their attitude is simply tolerable, but not attractive. >If you did not find her attractive, what's up because you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:21 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themAnd yet, Reddit tries to perpetuate the false notion that it's only jealous older women or jealous younger men that dislike older men attempting to hunt down younger women. That's pure fantasy. Go to the dating subs for people over 30 and beyond. Dare to suggest you prefer younger women. Come back and post results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themAnd here I am about to marry my girlfriend who is 9 years younger than me. My brother's girlfriend is 12 years younger than him, my dad is 10 years older than my mom.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.I have been telling men on Reddit to emigrate long before passport bros became a meme. Happiness will not be guaranteed, but getting out the cultural bubble is something we all need to experience, both men and women. As for men, go out there, see for yourself, make your decisions. I'm getting married to a French girl next month. I'm latino. The couples coming to my wedding: A Londoner with a girl from inland Spain A Venzuelan man and a Polish woman A Venezuelan man and a Colombian woman A Dutch … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it?Doesn't look that fun to me. But you don't need anyone's validation. Go have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themWomen that complain about age gap are just jealous. You never see younger women doing it. It's the wrinkly ones that look like that they have been out all night drinking for last ten years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?Shapiro's sister with the big mommy milkers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:37 PM |
| 6 | How many of you genuinely love your partner?I would die for my partner without a seconds hesitation. I would not care if sex goes out of the window. That's how much I love her. She is the best woman in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to WeekIf you're in America, yeah, I totally get you. As people say here: enjoy the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVThe pink haired fatties from twox are going to hate this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone here ever read Mark Greene and Man Box Culture?I didn't mean that. I fixed my punctuation, hopefully it's clearer now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 05:16 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone here ever read Mark Greene and Man Box Culture?I condone violent behavior, and intelligence and rationality will always trump feelings and impulsiveness. But, outright hiding some of our basic behavioral traits and hierarchical social structures behind culture is a sure way to turn men into losers, especially in adversity. It's productive to be smart, but when it's time to kick ass and make difficult decisions, there's an element of instinct that needs to come up front. Then men can't be cowards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of the notion that Men get friend zoned and Woman get sex zoned?It's a meme. A trope. That exists for a good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:13 PM |
| 4 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.Whatever, dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.And most can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Childlessness Here's the ugly side of the coin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to WeekI think everything you're saying has a lot to do with the age range in which you're at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Is there a net positive or negative to these discussions that we're having?Net positive for mere entertainment value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?Thanks you owe me a new cup of coffee and a new keyboard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 08:57 AM |
| 2 | In general, traditional, conservative and virgin women don't interact much on redditI do question why I spend my free time here though summer is coming so you probably won’t see me much soon. Same here... Same here.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 07:03 AM |
| 7 | If you value women based on appearance, women have every right to value you based on wealth.That's fine. But then I'd ask the virtue signalers to not bullshit me with I'm a financially strong woman I don't care about my partner's status Gtfo out of here of course you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 8 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.It's very clear you're not willing to have your view changed, op. Which is fine. I have 10 female friends in their 30's. 7 of them are single and they all want to pair up and start families. Most likely they won't be able to do it on time and the idea of missing theirs window fills them with despair. 2 of them are in long term relationships and ready to have kids. They know the financial situation is difficult, but they have in control what matters most should they decide to pull the trigger: a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Women aren't as touchy as men during sexI don't observe the same. Putting muscle on has made my sexual experiences a lot more grabby grabby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 07:44 PM |
| 3 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?which makes them predators. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 07:42 PM |
| 0 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadSup 304s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Men like sex, women like attentionNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Men like sex, women like attentionMen love attention. Women love good sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:54 PM |
| 116 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?If I lied about my interest to get into her pants, then yes, I'm taking advantage. If I was honest about my intentions and she still decides to get hurt, that's on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorEveryone's fat, but men are willing to fuck fat chicks. Step it up, guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Men need women more than women need men.I think men and women need each other like it has always been. I'm done with the zero sum game angle on the internet and the stupid competition over which gender is stronger and more indypyndynt. Men fall into depression when alone. Women fill themselves up with grief if they don't partner up and start families. Loneliness, involuntary celibacy and involuntary childlessness are affecting a lot of people. Armstrong men and women like you are just pretending and coping. At the end of the day, when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:21 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about the Disney trope of the heroine who "waits to be saved by Prince Charming" instead of overcoming adversity in traditionally more masculine ways?I think it's an outdated trope we can already forget. Prince charmings have not been part of Disney since Aladdin or something.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain lonely women?🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Exactly. And that's when the convo locks up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 14 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Same as men: undesirable, no social skills, no social circle. Same. Sure they could just yell FREE PUSSY AND TITS out of the window and someone would respond, but let's be honest, that's not very appealing. Moreover, people want to feel loved and appreciated. It must feel super bad to be ditched after a night of sex, knowing that your lover would never entertain being seen in public with you. Probably men without options can't relate. They would at least would love to have an option, no matter h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?My hot take: Losers with idealistic expectations of the world try to bend reality down to their level so they finally get a fighting chance. That's why poor people lean left and want more equality. That's why fat women campaign for fat acceptance That's why trans people call everyone that doesn't want to date them transphobic That's why Reddit losers want women to lower their standards That's why older women call men that go for younger women groomers That's why racists claim white genocide when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What (do you think) causes some people to want role reversal in a relationship?I think it's just people challenging the status quo because why the fuck not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Question for guys, if a girl makes you wait...Does her wanting to wait change the fact that you view her as "recreational use only"? No. Then again, I don't think men on average will reach such a drastic conclusion after only one date unless the date was a bit of a mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:15 AM |
| 21 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?We're being told constantly to leave women alone in public spaces. Women constantly tell us how nervous/scared/intimidated they feel when men approach them on the street. Perfectly understandable. Of course, they want to be approached. Not by everyone, not by the creepy dude, but by that guy over there that looks kinda cute. But for us, that line between cute and creepy is a moving goalpost. The rules of the game are not 100% clear. So we don't play the game. Attractive, confident, sociable peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | My daughter’s dating/marriage prospects ?With those problems? Hard pass. The BPD untreated has led her to her addictoons and criminal activity. She will destroy whoever accepts to take her in as a partner. The 10/10 looks? Massive red flag. The either isn't 10/10 and you are biased, or she is indeed 10/10 and she was used her looks in life to get into trouble as you described. I would run as fast and far as I could. BPD is no joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Hornyness clouds judgment and there's social stigma associated with partnering up with someone perceived as lower value. Fat people are lower value. Guys get horny and lonely to the point they entertain the fat chick. After sex they come to their senses and bail, or keep her on the (XXL) closet away from society. Story as old as humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyNever had instragram. Deleted Facebook 12 years ago. Haven't been single in decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children?On paper, fantastic. How kind is this person? How is her sense of humor, what values does she have? How is her relationship with her parents? Did she grow up with a present and loving father? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you date these "overweight" women?BMI is not a good indicator of obesity. It's ok for the general population, but each individual has other tools at their disposal to find out if they are overweight or not. Do you know what's a good indicator? Pictures and looks!. Doctors use it, fitness people use it. I don't need to know someone's BMI to decide if they are fat or not. I just need to look at them. And you know that too. Everyone knows who's fat and who isn't. Some of the girls in your pictures look more overweight than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:18 AM |
| 19 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?No it's not a zoomer thing. It's a post meetoo thing. So millennials are into it, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | All other things the same would you choose an 8 in intelligence and a 6 in looks, or an 8 in looks and a 6 in intelligence for a wife.8 intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:08 AM |
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