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StupidWes/r/seduction03/01/14 05:50 AM
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In a public place with strangers is not a wise place to experiment too aggressively with alcohol. Be conservative as you figure it out.
/r/seduction24/11/17 05:43 AM
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You cannot view success with women as any sort of indicator of personal quality. Women are just as human, with their own hang ups and baggage.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:35 PM
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I've been known to tell unfriendly girls to fuck off. However, I usually follow that by not thinking about them again.
/r/seduction18/03/17 02:39 PM
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I only text girls conversationally once I know them and stuff is a lot less up in the air. Otherwise I just use it to make plans.
/r/seduction07/02/17 04:40 PM
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Shoot them a nod, don't approach, and go back to whatever you were doing.
/r/seduction24/09/16 04:35 AM
1

It's not oneitis if you already have the girl.
/r/seduction21/03/16 03:55 PM
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You need to find better friends. The first time you have a friend who will ride and die for you it will change the game forever.
/r/seduction25/12/15 04:18 AM
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Por que no los dos? Tinder is for when you're otherwise occupied but have a second.
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:44 PM
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Progress is progress man. No need to apologize to us. No need to apologize to her either. You are not inherently wronging her with your presence or your attention.
/r/seduction03/06/15 03:02 PM
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Realize that guilt by association regarding something you were born with has no basis in logic at all. Now keep self improving. Don't be an awful human being. Go with God.
/r/seduction22/04/15 04:13 PM
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She may have actually been busy. That is a thing that occurs.
/r/seduction05/04/15 06:03 AM
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Why us specifically? What is your motivation in giving it to us?
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:09 AM
1

First and foremost, smart is sexy. You'll lose no points with smart ladies (aka the best kind of lady). Additionally, lady intellectuals will be all over that shit. You can talk string theory with a female physicst? You're golden.
/r/seduction01/01/15 11:23 PM
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I always cut and bail at this point. I don't put effort into such things.
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:41 PM
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If you're quantifying your success by looking at the results, you may be doing it wrong. It's about the journey, not the destination.
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:44 PM
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You can't just extrapolate patterns out of one data point. The guy sounded like a tryhard jackass. There's an old saying "Confidence is quiet, insecurity is loud". You sound like you had a guy to eager to assert himself.
/r/seduction26/10/14 09:51 PM
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Inner game. Study it. When you think you've got the hang of it, you haven't. Practice some more. It won't just change your game, it will change your life.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:15 PM
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Inner game is always relevant.
/r/seduction08/10/14 03:50 AM
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Inner game for days
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:09 PM
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I don't know what you're talking about. I'll kick the shit out of a bear... That totally isn't true, but it would be a fun attitude to go out on.
/r/seduction25/09/14 01:06 AM
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Be honest.
/r/seduction14/09/14 01:53 PM
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I have to admit, I disagree strongly with your stance on what college is meant to be. But the actual pickup advice is pretty killer.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:50 PM
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Inner game. Im going to say it again because of it's importance. Inner game. That is where you need to start studying next, it's the self improvement part of this sub, and is the most important.
/r/seduction31/07/14 02:38 PM
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Just do you man. All this theory is well and good, but if it stops you from being yourself then you'll be less happy in the long run.
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:27 PM
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But what works for you won't necessarily work for other people. Don't throw out blanket statements like they're true for everyone.
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:45 PM
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Remember this feeling, and the experience. Use it to fuel yourself, to get yourself to do all sorts of things. We learn via mistakes, take this experience and become stronger because of it.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:43 PM
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It sounds like your inner game is pretty weak. I would start there.
/r/seduction20/07/14 07:41 PM
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First and foremost, Im proud of you brother. It sounds to me like your inner game is super strong. Secondly, really solid work here. You raised several really solid points, and introdced a couple things I'd never thought of before. I sincerely hope we hear more from you on the sub. Keep it up Edit: I accidentally word. Points I'd never thought of before
/r/seduction20/07/14 04:33 AM
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Be yourself. If you have to do anything beyond that to keep her interested, then the relationship won't be successful in the long run anyway.
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:26 PM
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Dont just dissappear. That leaves a whole lot more negative energy in the universe than you need to. You can tell them you dont feel the chemistry or something to that effect. It makes it nobodies fault
/r/seduction06/07/14 03:38 PM
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My go to response for "where are your friends?" is something to the effect of "everywhere I go" and then you want to call the asker something like friend, buddy, pal, whatever.
/r/seduction05/07/14 10:56 PM
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Haha this was definitely a break from the norm when it comes to field reports. Nice job OP. I enjoyed it a great deal
/r/seduction28/06/14 05:46 PM
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If you search around on this sub, there are a number of pieces addressing this exact issue, no worries man, this is a really common problem. You are certainly not the first.
/r/seduction26/06/14 04:54 AM
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So I am unable to determine what the four words are...
/r/seduction26/06/14 04:44 AM
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Kudos to you for remaining reasonable in the face of that level of judgmental ignorance. I have much respect.
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:47 PM
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I feel as if a number of these problems dissappear if you go on weeknights
/r/seduction06/06/14 11:25 PM
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Your inner game sounds pretty lacking my friend. Do some reading on that
/r/seduction05/05/14 07:33 PM
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I'm totally on board. Perhaps with user submissions for the opener and such. If it gets big enough you may need to make a tag just for field reports of the challenge
/r/seduction22/04/14 05:28 PM
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What do you do differently? That's the question you should be asking yourself
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:07 PM
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A buddy of mine uses the line "I have a goldfish". Then when they look at you kinda funny you say "I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about things that don't matter." It's always a hilarious time
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:38 PM
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Inner game. Read all of the things on inner game
/r/seduction07/04/14 05:02 PM
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Search for stuff on inner game. Read all it, then apply all of it in the real world. Sooner or later, you have to go from a spectator to participant. That's a good place to start.
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:24 PM
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If you've found this subreddit, that's a huge start. Start reading about "Inner game" here. That's a huge first step. Read everything you can on the subject
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:08 PM
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You're doing the wrong part of pickup if this is the case. Switch your focus entirely to inner game. Hit that, and hit it until it belongs to you. It helps with a lot more than pickup, it just plain makes life better.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:53 PM
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Results independence man, you're giving a girl control over your state because you're relying on them for something, happiness, confidence, whatever. Whatever void they're serving to fill, you need to work on filling yourself.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:47 PM
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Isn't there a dating site for that?
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:43 PM
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Make other plans. Don't be an ass or anything about it, if she calls, just explain what was up. Just a simple "hey, you rescheduled and I couldn't do that time, was hanging with the guys then, sorry".
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:23 PM
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You can't hit people, no matter how large of an ass they are. This guy is totally wrong on this one. If you confront them about it, they've just made you break state and you look like an ass. I generally try to be nice but treat them like they're not really worth my attention.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:19 PM
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Bro, inner game is an absolutely necessary fundamental. I think everything else is derived from that, and it sounds to me like yours is sorely lacking. But if you think it's going to take years, you're probably not approaching it as efficiently as you can. Feel free to hit me up if you want to talk inner game mate.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:15 PM
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It's all about frame. You're framing the fetish negatively, but there is no such thing as a negative so long as it's done safely and whatnot. And it may actually help you to have authority when looked at properly. Logically, submission is the voluntary giving up of power, so you first have to have the power to begin with. The more assertive you are in life, the more submissive you get to be. Ya dig?
/r/seduction17/03/14 03:49 AM
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It's true, neither are downvotes.
/r/seduction16/03/14 09:55 PM
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The balance of probability says he's right. His problem is he's being a self righteous ass about it
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:52 AM
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The only way you can improve your ability to be comfortable places is to step outside that whenever you can. I'd say the opposite is this is true. Force yourself to game in places you're not comfortable frequently.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:43 AM
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Games are probably not the thing to do in public settings, but if you think it's an appropriate time, then I'm a fan of improv games myself. Gives you a shot to show off how witty you are and such, you can also walk into them semi prepared to give you a leg up. I've also seen two truths and a lie used to great effect, but that one was never to my taste personally, could be yours though.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:38 AM
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Give yourself permission to be you. Do whatever you feel like doing, social perception be damned
/r/seduction15/03/14 11:55 PM
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You need to figure out the source of this desire to better be able to address it. It sounds to me like there's a standard you're trying to conform to. I can tell you're worried about PUA standards, or else you wouldn't be worried on a basis of pickup wouldn't approve. You get me?
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:55 AM
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Get to know yourself a little bit. Pay attention to how you act/behave when you don't censor yourself for others. Figure out what you do and don't like about yourself. Embrace what you like, and look at what you don't like. If you don't like it simply because society says you shouldn't, screw society and embrace it anyway. But if there's anything you want to change about you, you can change it. One of the awesome things about being human is we're capable of defining ourselves. Figure out yoursel…
/r/seduction07/03/14 03:33 AM
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Do a little soul searching, figure out what about yourself that you're not happy with. The key to confidence is loving yourself independently of the externals.
/r/seduction07/03/14 02:10 AM
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Well then, one brother to another, I'd make the suggestion that you sit down and look at what your conditions of satisfaction. What is it you want in your life that you don't have? And then from there look at what's stopping you and start removing it.
/r/seduction07/03/14 02:07 AM
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Independently of how others see you, how do you see yourself? Are you happy with your life?
/r/seduction07/03/14 01:54 AM
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It looks to me like you're attempting to use external metrics to determine how you should be able to feel self-confidence. You're looking at it only through what can be quantified. How do you feel about yourself? What everyone else thinks doesn't matter. What do you think about yourself?
/r/seduction07/03/14 01:52 AM
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Delivery is everything. When accompanied with a nice strut away and not looking back, the intended effect is there.
/r/seduction03/03/14 02:14 AM
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My go to is "Your loss". Nice DHV, probably won't accomplish anything, but it can help cement that mentality in your psyche a little bit.
/r/seduction03/03/14 12:46 AM
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If you worry less about winning and more about having fun playing, it comes naturally
/r/seduction27/02/14 09:50 PM
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Presently on chapter 2
/r/seduction17/02/14 07:48 PM
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That is such a trap. Don't do it
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:57 PM
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We're not gonna help you get laid friend. That's not what this sub is about, we will help you to have an awesome time with life. Success with women is a side effect of that as much as anything. A 3 month get laid goal is setting yourself up for failure. We'd be happy to help, but not like this friend. You're putting gauze on the wound. We want to suture it up brother
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:54 PM
3

I just beat Baldurs Gate today and I regret absolutely nothing
/r/seduction15/02/14 12:27 PM
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Post results
/r/seduction02/02/14 07:44 PM
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Only read? You can't be an observer all your life friend :)
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:13 PM
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We'll see. I know several, but I'm getting PMd a lot of excuses right now so... it's up in the air.
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:12 PM
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How so?
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:11 PM
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It sounds like you're filling an emotional hole of some sort with one night stands to me, so when they're over, you're back to square one. I'd personally do a little soul searching. Are you happy with your life otherwise?
/r/seduction02/01/14 07:37 AM
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As a high schooler, myself and some mates all chip in towards rent on a 2 bedroom apartment (surprisingly affordable with a decent sized group) and we just made sure we had a decent system in place for being aware if someone else was using it. Also has the fringe benefit of a really awesome place to bro out, crash, ect.
/r/seduction02/01/14 07:32 AM
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