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| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsCome on, it's means getting used. Being with someone and paying for food and say the rent. While they don't like to spend money on you, or like to at least do chores in the house. It's an unbalanced exchange, profiting of the kindness of the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsIf they have a child, I kinda agree. But if they don't NO fucking way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsDepends in my opinion what is the reason for divorce (she got bored? she cheated? the child is not his?). If a divorce occurs and you can 100% says it not his fault, he shouldn't pay. If they don't have a child he shouldn't pay. If they have a child, and he was the problem. And she needs to take care of her and the child (or even just her, if she spent some years with the kid and didn't work, yes she should be compensated for that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsOf course they are better, but if you have a kid, either when you come home you take care of it, or you do some chores. (the kid is extra responsibility that you both agreed on before having it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:54 AM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsWTF are you on about of course it's relevant. It's like me having a woman treating her like shit, and when she leaves I go: She left me, "it's not relevant why". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:49 AM |
| -2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsWho provides most of the time for the family? When a women plans to have a baby with a man, of course those should be shifted. She doesn't need to work jobs for couple of years. Just do some housework and take care of the baby, though I admit taking care of a baby is hard work, and women are better at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsYou're talking like women, do all the chores nowadays if both partners work. If she doesn't work, she should do everything related to house work etc. If the both work, the chores should be split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:43 AM |
| -1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics"If you're so desperate you'll date anyone who wants to date you" Why do you think this happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsMost women want to be treated better that they treat you. (especially if they settle, or you two are at the same level, she needs to think she is a little bit better, she will only treat you better that you treat her if you are out of her league) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsI don't get this, most of the men will make most of their money after having >10 experience in a field. That basically means when he is above 30. So the time where he makes the most money is the time where he is married... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics"position of unpaid housekeepers, maids, nannies, babymakers etc." Was probably in the past, not now, soo try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:21 AM |
| -1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsDon't be naive it's not true. One earns more usually that is the men, when a divorce happens it's like ok, you the man earned more, but you still split 50% 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 11:18 AM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.Come on bro it is, it makes them a little "insecure" and they need to "prove" themselves to you that they are "what" you are looking for. It's a manipulation game, to gage their emotions and see how interested they are in the conversation and in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:54 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.gerund or present participle: negging insult or undermine (someone) in the belief that diminished self-confidence will make them more receptive to sexual advances. So it's putting them down, which is "mean" just to let you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:46 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it."You should always be nice. Nobody likes a bitter, resentful dickhead." Come on it matters in the long run, but the initial couple of dates it doesn't matter at all, it's also indicated to be a bit "cocky" and "meanie" is part of the game. Being too nice too fast leads to a bad impression for women (aka he's weak, why does he care that much that fast it's weird etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:37 PM |
| 0 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyWhat's the difference between a guy best friend vs a boyfriend for a woman? Simple: SEX. You can do the same thing with both except SEX. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 6 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately3 times a day. I don't get it how? If you for example work 8 hours and sleep 8 hours, you only have sex and eat that's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelySoo not that different. The only difference that is big, is the quantity. Men are attracted to more women at least physically in the beginning and women are attracted to less men. So it's just numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?You called him because he gave you good head, you know something that toys can't do. You needed that! Now imagine desperate fucking men, that don't get the time of the day of YEARS almost a decade, some go there because they will fucking loose it if they agreed to the fact that no girl will touch them ever in their life, soo they worked hard and buy that "relief". I am sorry that men are not as privileged in dating as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?You had your toys, but still called an ex soo...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?"I’ve called up an ex" cool that's a woman privilege, average/below average men can't just call a woman to hook up cause they are "horny". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?Yeah, but it's not as powerful as you think. Clearly she was surprised and wanted to take the "trophy" is more of a niche fetish, but this would've been the same result if you asked her to catch a movie at your place (meaning she was already REALLY into you, and later you in HER :)) ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenSure, we can also cut out the same number of women to not reproduce right? Since the child gets the genes from both persons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?"COOL VIRGIN" lmaooo it doesn't even matter for most women. They probably will think "you looking that good, you're lying". It matters for women who are virgins and want a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:09 AM |
| -6 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?Standards I don't expect too, attitude towards it I expect it, it's like passing near a homeless (pussyless in this case) person and thinking "damn what a looser sucks to be him" instead of ohh poor guy hope he can rebound from this situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:55 PM |
| -5 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?You don't get it sometimes in their adult lives sex is a need for men (especially for virgins), they will search for someone, but if they don't get a women, they will probably go to prostitutes. Now I am ok with your preferences and all that, just keep in mind it's exactly like this: You want to go to an university you're smart you get a scholarship you don't pay a thing life is good. You want to go to an university you're fucking dumb ass hell, but love to learn things you just aren't good at e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentmentTrue, there is a problem though, women nowadays aren't that empathetic towards the man, so that means (happy marriage) is not really used here what they use is (Am happy in this marriage?) and if the answer is yes all is good and dandy, but they don't really think about their partners marriage (I am happy, wonder how he is?). And the answer is quite simple honestly it's because they can leave the marriage with no problems (especially if no kids are involved) and find a different partner, where m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentmentOf course they change, but you need to be supportive, you're their partner after all, if you don't care (he should leave) or if he changes completely (abusive, violent) you should leave. But if you go into the marriage and things are ok, and you keep vetting (they can be better though) you will find yourself disappointed. And don't forget if the man marries you without a prenup and all that "protection" and you leave for a stupid reason "I just woke up and don't love you anymore / I am bored / T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment"Women are not supposed to stop vetting men even after they are married" dumbest shit I ever read. vetting: the action of examining someone or something carefully to make certain that they are or it is acceptable or suitable for something. The vetting should be before dates, during the dates, and in the relationship before marriage (to be sure you're ok with the guy). If you are vetting in the marriage it means, you are doubting your partner (could've chosen better). And of course now you get th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 07:15 PM |
| -1 | Hookup vs RelationshipLink me a picture with what guy that is "mildly toned" means for you please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Hookup vs RelationshipThey are lying, they prefer what is the best for their point of view of course. (average if big ones hurt her, or big if that what she likes more). This also reminded me of a interview with some women to choose between little chubby man (a little belly not big) and a guy with shredded abs for ONS and marriage. They all went ONS with the shredded abs guy but marriage they "choose" the little chubby guy. Soo in my opinion here they lied about the marriage guy too look "good" or they know that litt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:41 PM |
| – | People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathyWhat if they have taxable services and is legalized like in Netherlands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.I mean it's kinda true but women do the same thing come on, they treat attractive men better also their girl friends (better than a guy friend). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.Yeah it's a lot of work to put that "mask". Learn good jokes, flirty lines, etc. But most importantly analyse their reaction when you first meet them (first minute, her face when she sees you) and also during the date(her character does she laugh at your jokes, do you think she wants to leave, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsYeah their interest is I like the guy, but if I leave him, I want to be better financially, that I was before I was married (cause he earns more, and the split will take more from his side). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Women and their Disgust for Prenups"And some women go their whole lives without ever ever having an orgasm!!!" And why do you thing is that? It's because they don't open their mouth, they are "embarrassed" to tell her partner, "Yo lil bro, you came, I didn't, soo help out here!" OR they have men that they don't care about them OR the man is soo high value that she "wouldn't risk" getting him mad, cause it's hard to find another one just like that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:15 PM |
| – | People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathyNothing wrong with that, but then don't complain if they buy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement leads to resentmentAgreed, but at the beginning at least women are the "leaders" in dating the attract, we the men are the followers cause we chase them. When a relationship starts usually the men take the "lead" and do the plans for houses/future etc. BUT some women don't like to be led, like imagine I have all the men I can date and "control with my beauty" why would I be with someone that makes me to do stuff that I don't want to, even if is best for both of us? Nowadays they don't want to give that power unles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 11:02 PM |
| – | What do women get out of posting their crabby husbands online?I tried nicely, hey can you please not post soo much it's just spamming, it's really an obsession. Her reply: "I know, but I don't hurt anyone" soo she didn't want to stop. I mean what more can I say. Can't argue with that. I insisted more some times later, her reply "I am controlling, that I don't want to post her that many pictures". She admitted she is stubborn, I told she need to work on that cause is not pleasant, we argued many times, after a while I mimic her and pretended to be stubborn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Self improvement leads to resentmentI mean it's the truth and biology, like look at most animals, male chase the females and compete with other males. We evolved somewhat but women won't risk most of the time to be rejected because it sucks and can't really handle it (like most men at the beginning, until they are ok with it) and they like some social roles, like men talking the lead and responsibility (they like to say that they "give" themselves to you somehow, and you must protect them and be a leader, but the catch is nowadays… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:51 PM |
| – | What do women get out of posting their crabby husbands online?In gallery she had some quick share for insta, so it would take like 5 seconds, + she filmed, and took photos all the time. It adds up pretty fast if you're this obsessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Self improvement leads to resentmentI'm sorry but this is absolutely the case: "The man is the pursuer, the man has to prove himself, the man has to show he can be a provider, the man has to take all the initiative, the woman is the chooser, the man has to initiate sex." Probably only top 10-5% of men are approached in real life for romantic interests. And if you're not one of those you need to compensate somehow (money, funny character, etc). Men choose at the end if they marry, but women choose if they start a relationship most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 07:26 PM |
| – | What do women get out of posting their crabby husbands online?No shit, tell that to one of my ex-es. She once put 100 stories in a DAY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circles"The first knows to flirt first to gauge interest before pursuing". Yeahhhh sure. But most of the time is just physical attraction. Soo after let's say 2-3 "friendly conversations, jokes" you need some "lines" to not make it "awkward" if she is not into you just to be sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesProbably the "fake interest strategy" I made this term up now. You ask a girl out or something and she goes let's be friends, you say ok, "you are a friend of her [now you know with this girl it won't ever work]", soo what are you doing now, you "convince her" to introduce you to her other friends and "put a good word for you", maybe some will take the bait and if you land a friend of this girl, you can dip on the "friendship". Same with groups, you don't join directly for "girls" cause it's "ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsI mean yes, but let's say I as a man am average so I don't get many "offers" from women, I get with an "average" woman, but after some years of hard work, I become above average and "get better offers". Going by your point if I was opportunistic, I should seize every chance I can get for MY happiness. (leave when a girl is mad at me, talk with another an soo on). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:49 PM |
| – | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?Whining? Should be equal rights, equal responsibilities. Women gained most if not all of the rights (which is cool and good) but when it comes to responsibilities some aren't really on board with that because "women privileges". Whining? Bruuuhh some women really choose a random bear vs a random man in a forest like come on :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.Careful lil bro, confident, direct, decisive can also be viewed as arrogant, heartless, controlling by women when they are mad at you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:06 PM |
| – | Women, why do you believe might makes right, but only when it comes to dating?Let's be honest here, it's their fault for being not desirable or average. But if women (I don't really think this happens) go out of their way only for top % men, and if they don't hit want to remain single for life or those guys have each ~5 partners and all that, probably in a couple of decades or centuries. Non desirable + average will want a sex revolution or something (right now this happens somewhat with taking women for poor countries etc), that is my assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?"Women go to war too" where? how many? "You can wear make up if you want" -> because of implication (not manly), also you just admit here that is ok to portray yourself as fake. Should I also be as fake as possible with intentions? Ya know only letting the woman hear what she wants to hear not the truth. Make up is just image manipulation, majority of men can't compete with that. If I sleep with a woman and in the next morning after she washes her face she is totally different should I ghost her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:02 PM |
| -1 | Why do women seem to struggle to honestly admit to preferences which might be considered shallow?I agree also with this liberty, should also come responsibility, so women like men should be drafted in the army and not be allowed to leave the country if a war happens, make up should be banned (ya know so women and men somewhat can compete visually). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:31 PM |
| -3 | It is very hard for women to take accountability."And there are billion dollar industries dedicated to telling women to look better. What does that have to do with anything?" This such horseshit, I fucking hate the make up industry, you know why, because it gives the women unfair advantages, during initial screening of looks. I am pretty sure if it were more acceptable for men, it would be such a funny thing. Girl with make up meets guy with make up they hook up and after the shower they are either disgusted by another or they accept that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It"Someone can be extroverted and still be lonely. Someone can be the gregarious life of the party and still be lonely." These are small exceptions, like really small. Usually for most of the time loneliness = lack of companionship/loving relationship. It's like rich people telling you, "yoo I have all this money but you I still poor" You ask the: "What do you mean?" And they go: "Even with all this money I still feel poor, cause my cousin makes 4 times more than me" And your conclusion is: "Damn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItLmaooo, of course you do, like everyone else, BUT only for the guys that YOU LIKE which is OK. But then you ask? "How do we know who’s lonely and who’s not?" Why do you even ask this question, clearly "your shoes are too full" to think of an answer. The answer is clearly what I've told you. But you took it like "ohh hihi I don't dive into profiles, I don't care". Then stop asking dumb questions if you don't care about the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 11 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItI see that you try to play ignorant. Let's see: social media (comments, number of especially likes/hearts from other girls, lifestyle, picture, this is if he is a total stranger, if you work with him / know him a little, you will see the signs if he is extroverted, how he talks, etc) The problem is that for most of you women, you take these from granted (they are already yours the attention), and you can't even begin to put yourselves in the shoes of man. (or you don't want to) except if he is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:19 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate malesWould you date an overweight ugly guy, that asks you out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Be real, no one has the capability and time to have let's say over 10 real friends close, those that you see 1/2 a year, those are not real friends. Also then I have over 200 friends, I have with at least 200 people my whole life at least 2 times, and had a friendly discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 03:58 PM |
| 5 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Really, can you have 100 friends, and keep up with them (hang out, talk about life etc), define friend? There are limits come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.6 packs is overkill, decently lean (not being fat) is good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Is going on a first date on a coffee date, and talkin about likes/interests, boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Good personality it's not enough, it's "BORING" you need to be "EXCITING" soo you can create the "SPARK" sigh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue."I guarantee you most guys with looks" most guys with looks will have a lot of options. After going let's say 10 dates even if his personality sucks, it will improve if he does some self reflection, or asks the girls what's wrong, to be better for the next one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.6 pack is useless, it's the face that matters come on, you don't go on a first date with your shirt off to show your abs. Probably 6 packs works if you meet/pick up girls at the beach or a pool resort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Using sex to get a (good) man or keep a man hardly ever works.What is a player then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:14 PM |
| – | Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and age"Looks are highly subjective" Then why do women match with the same top% of men in dating apps lmaooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegalIt's protection, that's how the world works nowadays. Why do women love getting married officially (with papers from the townhall) but don't like if the man proposes a prenuptial agreement (you know also a paper). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?"Clean, tidy, pleasant, head and shoulders, taken for this purpose" true, but guess what because of the volume in dating apps, an average face for a man is still average even if clean and all that, it's not the top% that most women want. But let's say she is "giving" you a chance online, you manage to text with her ok, and she sees your average face ("NOT filtered or improved like in the photos") in real life at the first date, she's OUT after 10 seconds, because you kinda looked better in the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:18 AM |
| 2 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Alreadyyeah fucking means putting more effort (motions, physical effort), fucked basically means (low physical effort, staying still). Now in general, people when they have sex, who do you think puts more physical effort? (And if you think positions, think which are the most popular, and if the man or the woman puts more effort in those popular positions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:10 AM |
| 6 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyOk, let me rephrase it, what is harder fucking or being fucked? And who is fucked more in general during sex? (No it depends, I said in general) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:26 PM |
| 4 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyTell me who is putting in general more physical effort when fucking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?"The fact that yall don’t think attractive men can be creeps" of course they can be, but it is a much BIGGER threshold. "Ohh he grabbed my ass on the first date, damn he is really bold" vs "Ohh he grabbed my ass on the first date, you creep I am calling the police" it all depends on the level of attraction and how she conducts herself in respect to you during the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 02:04 PM |
| 4 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToThen you're a "special" woman, most don't have your mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:50 PM |
| 4 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToWhat are you talking about, below/average men are complaining. You tell me that women are not crying in "situationships" and prefer to share a man in public? That they are not crying that they want a monogamous relationship that leads to marriage and not to be used only for their bodies? Are you serious right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToIt's not, it's a joke. Depends how comfortable you are with the person. Of course in the first date this jokes won't land probably. "Intelligent hot army guys do exist" yeah sure, most are not thought, but you only love the idea of them. You won't love them when they are deployed for months/years in a different country and you only talk to them on the phone, you can lie yourself all you want, but your body will miss the physical affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:54 PM |
| 9 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToAnd that is sad woman, not laughable it's clearly about loneliness and desperation. You can make the same jokes about hot guys and "situationships". Damn "she" is doing everything for him, but he doesn't want to settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:45 PM |
| 4 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToThe words say one thing, the picture another: "Hot dude in the army" lmaooo Intelligent -> This goes out of the window if he is in the army most of the time. Sorry feminine smooth hands -> He is handling guns, and does ground training. Sorry Rest can happen. Also wtf is this "meany to other people" this just being cocky and/or a jackass "See that waitress over there look how she is shaking, guess she is really excited that I walked in the building" there cocky attitude / meanie. I guess it doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:42 PM |
| 0 | why won't women engage with men?"If I go outside as an average guy and try to pick women" Yeah, clearly I am trying to sell myself, and ask them for a date. And don't come talk to me about different activities and all others b.s to meet people. If you are attractive enough it doesn't matter you will get dates, if you are not you will be seen as a "creep" for even trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?I wrote "engage nowadays for dating" and just engaging are different. I can go now outside ask a girl what time it is? and she will respond "this is not an engage that leads to dating". If I go outside as an average guy and try to pick women guess what, most won't engage of course cause I am average, and will just rejected and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:48 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?Maybe in the past. NOT NOWADAYS! Nowadays they want *HOT*, which means basically average women have a list of average guys / below average guys at their disposal, but if a hot guy comes in the picture, he is first in LINE ALWAYS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:01 AM |
| 0 | why won't women engage with men?Well sorry for that. You see that the personality is B.S like the bluepill IN THE BEGINNING STAGES. The bluepill is only AFTER you are already in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?Yes, I assume you are in a big city. (>1, 2 million) Make now a profile with you and tell me how many hundreds of matches is the difference between what you get and what your males relatives got! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?What I said applies, you know this. What are you saying are exception: "do I know you?" if you meet with the girl nowadays and she is really attracted to you in those 2 hours she will "know you enough". "How does your breath and body smell." small disqualifier, as in second 11 I smell him, and he stinks. (This RARELY happens). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?If they are really attracted to you, for most women same thing it will work most of the time. (meaning the man can be low effort under medium effort) If not, you can try and compensate by learning a lot about her and impress her with what she likes. (This can work, but can also be a BIG waste of time for a man, you are basically following breadcrumbs from her with lowish chances that you can make her change her mind). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:38 AM |
| 3 | why won't women engage with men?Yes of course yes, *women won't engage with me Why would a woman engage nowadays for dating with a guy she is not physically attracted to WTF is with this. I gave you the reason. And you with "No." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:32 AM |
| 6 | why won't women engage with men?A fairly ugly man as long as he is clean and does basic (not necessarily stylish) grooming will be dateable and marriageable to the majority of women as long as his personality is not horrendous. STOP with the LIES make a dating profile with an average guy that you describe and you will see the TRUTH is not at all how you describe it, majority of women will not match with you to get to know you! WTF is this delusion... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | why won't women engage with men?In the first 10 seconds you only say "Hello, nice to finally meet you, you look amazing!" u/TheRedPillRipper is saying that with this short dialogue he is already 1-2 hours away of making out with you or sleeping with you (if his personality is decent at least, doesn't need to be very amazing cause looks overcompensate) if you consider him "hot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?Why most stories came from women with "I wasn't into you at first but after getting to know you ..." (of course this happens if the man insists a LOT but there is a fine line here between given a chance and begin seen as a creep) ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?I see that you are honest. Soo let's me ask you this, if you find a man "mehh" would you still give it a try if he impresses you with other things. Or in the first 10 seconds is "can fuck me if he not a creep" or can it also be "mehhh can fuck if he compensates with something a lot (lifestyle, character, attitude, etc) ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:19 AM |
| 7 | why won't women engage with men?*women won't engage with you cause you are not physically attractive I'm happy to engage with men that are interested in getting to know me that I am physically attracted to and they can blatantly trying to fuck me really depends on how attracted to them am and if I am in the mood of fucking. Fixed it for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWhy is it a bad idea? It will find the correct parents for the child. Tell me 3 reasons why is a bad idea please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childBeing factually correct is bullshit nowadays? lmaooo Do tell me your arguments why is bullshit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWhat agenda? In a perfect world I would push for a biological signature for every person on Earth, either male/female. And after each birth will check the parents, if is not the partner, should check the whole database and find who the father/mother is. This will eliminate fake fathers and find the correct fathers, also if a baby is somehow not given to the correct parents by mistake. (mistaking new children between them and parents). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWho is "us" lil bro, look at the comments, some people care. Most of the time this won't happen of course, but if you have somehow doubts you should totally do a test. Like if a girl doesn't trust a man, she should totally check his phone if she is suspecting him of cheating. Do you agree with this or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childOf course people care if they wouldn't they will just say: "As long as you pay for the test, who cares". Not the "you don't trust her" etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:26 PM |
| -2 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.Cause' they chose partners that don't care about them, or they are to shy to tell them to make them orgasm. There this is the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 02:06 AM |
| -1 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.They give options, or is it to much now to filter 20-30 guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 02:00 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?It's biology, men search for a mate, women wait for a mate (they choose from the options that they have). I see that you gave this "Who is spamming women’s accounts with hundreds of dick offers?" cause they are desperate. A question for you then. "Why are women selling sex services?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:40 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?I just stated facts about the options about men and women, this is the reality of todays time like it or not, men need to work harder (improve themselves more) to be "datable" in the eyes of women nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:08 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?Huh??? The reason is that on dating apps at least, women filter harder for looks than men! And they choose in this way, because they are attracted to smaller % of men, when men are attracted to a larger % of women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:00 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?Those MANY options, should be enough for a life time let's be real, if you are on a dating app and especially in a big city >100k, you will have hundreds of options. Basically todays social media/dating apps gave women such a power on dating market that for me it's too funny. The delusion comes, after they get lots of dates and begin to "create" the perfect men by taking qualities for all the previous "dates". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 04:40 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?No one has endless options, most women have MANY more options that most men, they just need to deal with the hassle of filtering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 04:18 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?I would like to know your opinion then, after how many dates should this happen in general. I don't want the "it depends and all that b.s.". Give a time-estimate. Max dates and Max time of knowing each other starting from two complete strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 04:15 AM |
| – | In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome.Hope you know that if he was bluepilled from the start he would have had 0 wives lmaooo. (Of course I admit that being bluepill is ok when you are in relationship after some time). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:39 AM |
| – | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsWhat is this bs, "men pay with their time and attention," <- false women do that. "men pay with their time, attention and resources" <- true. Here fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:50 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Stop with the B.S. there will be somewhere a compromise either looks or for example those politics, and guess where the majority of people (yes both men women) will let things slip, of course the standards. This will happen more for women (at least at the beginning when dating) because they are attracted to fewer men, of course they will RARELY compromise on attractions, to accommodate standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:00 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Lmao. Most people will know as I am in EU, the mayor of the village, mayor of the sector, and president of the country. If you think than an average man not deep into politics, will know more (elected from parliament, what is the senate, what parts of parliament have what power etc) you are delusional. Also I think half of the people don't vote, so you basically already cut half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 07:50 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?Depends on topics of course, if you try to talk about things that you learned in college, of course most men that won't frequent that college won't have any idea what are you talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 07:29 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?"I want someone who keeps up with current events and has a basic understanding of practically every topic you can think of." What does this even mean? Current events in what ways news, fashion, celebrities, politics, what event will be in the city/near? Don't you think this is to general, no person can know basics for everything, and if you talk with a person only about basics you become BORED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)blue eyes it's a decently plus, but the acne really sucks, go to a dermatologist, try everything to get rid of the acne. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)6 pack is worthless, face is more important. Need to be decently fit (not overweight) and have a good face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Average women have an easier time sleeping even with men they want, it's just that they can't keep them, average men can't do that. OF COURSE IT'S A PRIVILEGE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleDefine comparable, minus how much % are you talking here? a guess is good enough Also, I hope you do know that women rate men, on certain aspects, so clearly if you do not earn at least at she does, you better f*ing overcompensate like hell in personality or looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 0 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleReality check, do you agree that most women want a man earning more than them? (the more the better) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health struggles"There was a woman from Europe who had autism and BPD and chose to euthanize herself. She had a boyfriend who was an engineer or something. I can't help but thinking that if she left that boring guy and got with someone passionate she could have become better. I am actually autistic too so I could relate to her." I don't have words. If you want a relationship the excitement that you get comes with the novelty, after a couple of months it will be gone because now you know your partner. If you wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Definition when I googled it: solipsism/ˈsɒlɪpsɪz(ə)m/noun the quality of being very self-centred or selfish."she herself elicits scant sympathy, such is her solipsism and lack of self-awareness" Quit ironic. Imagine not recognizing your privilege as being a "chooser" lmaooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.You have 10 sisters clearly that helped you a lot knowing about women etc. I want to know if the majority of women you picked up were from your sisters circle, or your friend circle. Basically were most of these women that you "picked up" were complete strangers that you met, or were form your sister or yours circle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 12:11 AM |
| 18 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.<image> True men and women rate each other the same... WAIT??? What are you on about??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.Say it with me lil GIRL, things won't change because biology. Women are attracted to top% of men! Average men can't even DREAM of CASUAL SEX! If they want sex, they either buy it or "settle" for a relationship (even if they wanted only casual sex) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:48 PM |
| 9 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women."Did they ask for a hookup?" Why are you like this? Guess what the answer will be from women if they ask this? Lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:45 PM |
| 0 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”"No, it’s not only the men who have options who view women this way." Are you kidding me ? Suppose you are the first date this guy has in WEEKS/MONTHS and you come here and say that this average dude, can say with a straight FACE "let's just hook up". CLEARLY this is an indication that he doesn't GIVE a damn about you and thinks that HE is above you ok. They can try being CHAD all they want IF the don't have OPTIONS NO ONE GIVES A FUCK, OPTIONS dictate HOW WANTED ARE YOU OK? Who says I don't val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:34 PM |
| 66 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women."If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them" do you really think most men can have hook-ups just by snapping their finger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”Not sure what "average" is to you but no average GUY proposes a just hook-up because it's risky and he doesn't have option and he can't afford to do that. So either you think he is average but he is NOT, or he thinks you are not on his level (you are below average). --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "We are good enough for a hole to stick it in but we aren’t someone you’d value getting to know or spending time with if the hole isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.What if you were kept in the dark for 2 years didn't suspect a thing, and after that you have some doubts and you do the test, what then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 01:40 PM |
| 2 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”Women: -> 1) Easy hook-ups -> 2) Easy to enter a relationship (good, bad relationship doesn't matter here) Men: -> 1) You are not getting an easy hook up if you are not top% attractive -> 2) Need to jump through hoops (putting hard work to impress the woman) to be in a relationship (good, bad relationship doesn't matter here) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- " Did you know that for women, it’s actually the opposite? Do you know how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”"But did he make it clear he wanted a hookup?" for this most girls will reject 99% of guys because of the implication "he has her in his mind as a slut", he needs to be more "indirect". ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "That rarely successfully happens. If that was effective, women would have hookups more and fuckboy wouldnt be an insult." Of course I am not talking about those hook-ups where both agreed before they meet "this is a hook-u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 10:09 PM |
| 2 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”Because it's an insult. "Bro you aren't that hot to get a hook-up, but you have a good personality and are decent, with time you will get into a relationship" We all know it's easier to turn a hook-up into a relationship, than slowly building the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:29 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?"Do you also understand that not announcing what you’re going to do doesn’t make you a liar.. a lot of shit is implied and it works both ways." Sure I know that not being straight forward is an advantage, not if you're looking for something serious thought. "A woman is attractive she has no shortage of attractive guys to choose from" for hook-ups yes, for relationship NOPE. Why do you think there is the trend where they cry "where all the good men?" Attraction absolutely gets pussy, a stronger c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:47 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?"dudes who want to fuck but aren’t honest about it." here you are probably talking about average/below average guys. It will not work 100% for them to go on a first date and try to quickly hook-up. They are playing the long game hoping to sleep with the women after she gets to know him better, deep down they know she is not interested in them, which is a bad approach most of the time and a waste of time. The attractive dudes also can't go on a first date and tell the woman straight up, "I only w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:46 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?You're lying to yourself if you think that. Women are more emotional than men. If you want to just get laid you need to tell them what they want to hear not the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women?What a liar you are, of course they are, that's why approaching a woman when she is in a group most of the time fails, because of the other girls. > Dick is easy to get. True > To maintain top% guy is easy. COMPLETLEY FALSE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipIt's your choice, I see the reasons and it's transactional (your looks vs his money), if you think there aren't any problems with this I challenge you to tell your husband: "Yo babe, just so you know I love you and I think that we are made for each other. I just wanted to let you know I choose you first and foremost because you're a lawyer and you could provide the lifestyle that I wanted, and only after this I took feelings into consideration." How do you think he will react? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:18 PM |
| – | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationship"I am a gold digger" I will stop you right there. With this you admit, you put money in the first place when you look for a partner rather than compatibility. By definition this is a transactional relationship ok, you give him the looks, he gives you the money/lifestyle. "but that doesn’t mean you can’t have normal relationships with partners you genuinely care about" it does, because you first see them in the lens of how much they provide! "but why would I do that when I could just have feeling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipGold digger vibes. You know what you are doing, it's absolutely a transaction. If he wants to see you again he needs to pay for the dates what are you on about. So for you the guy needs to be more invested than you in the dating stage: Him: money + time invested vs You: just time invested. This means you consider them beneath you. Sorry this is the truth. If you would see them as an equal potential partner you will go: "Ohh you paid for the last date, let me take this one cause I am not comforta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipIt's trying to impress you know, LIKE how it's dating, they guy needs to impress the girl. Do you think women go on dates and in their mind are like, "Damn I need to impress this dude" this DOESN'T HAPPEN except if you really are a top% guy. Do tell me how many women pay for the man when dating, ohhh right THAT doesn't happen. This is privilege my guy. Hope you understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipCause you need to play the GAME if you don't have a lot of value as a man (that means attraction). If you are a really hot guy you can be as cheap as possible and she wouldn't care come on it's basic knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipWhat about the ones, that paid and you went to 7 dates with him, and after that you didn't feel it anymore. Do they get a refund for the investment in those 7 dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipOf course it is, you don't get further dates if you don't do it, what are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?Simple then, you are not boring, or her attractiveness to you was soo powerful that it didn't matter. Hope you know that most men and women are boring by default. You need to create a connection / talk in a flirty way / be funny to get emotions from her and this is called having GAME. Guess what women don't need this, but most men DO! If you didn't you either had it naturally or you spend time with this girl a lot before eventually dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?Of course course you can't. But time to admit some things: Black Pill -> If you are really ugly like really ugly and can't do nothing to fix it GGs Red Pill -> Improve looks and game this will land you dates Blue Pill -> Character be nice genuine this SHOULD be applied only after you're with someone in a relationship. So each pill has some benefits clearly. The reality is you need to lead with some of the RED Pill traits to get the dates, YOU will not get dates just by being nice, genuine, yours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?Both women and men have different challenges in life. Some facts remain true though: Most women have more options in dating that most men. Most women usually want a guy better than them if possible. (Really attractive, money, status etc). Attractiveness gets you in the door, but without character most women would not stay with you if they can easy replace you, but if you are a really attractive guy you are hard to replace in the looks department, so they will go down on looks and go up in charac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?Why would that be an incel thing? Its the truth. If you are a guy and have some dating experience you know how many options average women have vs average men. If she has any socials insta/facebook/snap and she has guy "friends (i mean digital friends)" on these apps and has decent photos, she has guys in her DMs 100%. Do you agree with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?Do tell me what does blue pill preaches, isn't it: be yourself, nice, genuine, have a good personality, and you will find your match? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships?"Men are so gullible they actually believe their pseudo-girlfriends available" True, the blue pill men also are soo gullible that think that personality can compensate for looks lmaooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?By that definition every date is interesting. With women going on multiple dates to choose their partner of course they will compare if the attraction is close for different guys, she will compare where did the guys take her (investement of resources). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:10 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?The point is going on a lot of dates is expensive, and you will go on a lot of dates as a man $50 here, $50 there, those $50 add up real quick. Imagine you go on a 100 dates in 2 years, so 4 dates a month. That is $5000 !!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:06 PM |
| – | Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirsI am sure your friend would react the same way if he found out you are really a promiscuous woman. Ick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:01 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?Cool let's gage a little, how much is your average man in your area making per hour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?I am sure most girl would like to go on a quarry as a first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:55 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?How much is a lot of money to spend when going on a date? Give me your range please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Attraction May Lead People to Appear Funnier, Research ShowsI will ask again then: tell me why most comedians are *average looking* guys then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Attraction May Lead People to Appear Funnier, Research ShowsAlso my bad most good looking guys are also booring as hell. No answer ohh well, tell me why most comedians are average looking guys then? Wondering if you are going to guess it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:23 PM |
| – | Going through a hoe phase (or just having the ability to go through it) would fix most modern men's brainrot about women.Why are you soo dense? Clearly you have some girls in Alabama, and when you go in a vacation in Alaska you quickly get some new girls through the dating apps. Then when you go back you still have the girls from Alabama. Think a little please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Attraction May Lead People to Appear Funnier, Research ShowsThen why are most hot girls boring as hell? No joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:15 PM |
| -5 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?Do tell me about these interesting dates that don't require money. Taking walks in the park, cheap coffee dates are not "interesting"! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:12 PM |
| -2 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersTrue, it reminds me of those girls that think when they get a one night stand with a top% dude, they will have a serious relationship with him /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersThey put more effort because they take more pictures of themselves over time than men. Come on... . It's like you do maths in your free time and goly gee I wonder what happens when you take the exam if you had that much practice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.Yeah, I see where you are coming from. Unfortunately the thought process for those guys with "But why?" some want genuine answers and some are begging leading to "Let's tryyy a see how it goes...". The answer is pretty simple but they don't want to face it because they were taught that looks are not that important for women and personality can compensate. If it's they just met and he is asking and is rejected and he is normal -> clearly looks is the reason. If he goes to 1-2 dates and then is re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.Then why they are selling sex instead of working a blue collar job? The truth please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.You said "Making under $100k a year means you need to live with roommates." Clearly women there prefer to be prostitutes instead of working a job that is not paid very well, than to live with roommates. This is the delusion that you are living into. "It’s significantly easier to not have sex than it is to MOOOVE" tell that to passports bros lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.If they live in a high cost of living area. Guess what the solution is. MOOOVE from there, I know it's hard but this is the solution, it means that your skills in the workforce are not for that place. "The unattractive men are not victims" wow just wow. "Sex is not a need. I didn’t have sex until I was almost 30, and I managed just fine. If I can do it, so can men." Because almost all human beings have a sex drive, and need to satisfy it. And also let's say a guy went temporary blind from 15 unt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.It is CONSENTING because they are accepting it. If it's not harmful and she is not forced. What are you talking about? Guess why women are doing it??? Because it's easy to SELL SEX for women. Some prefer that than a blue collar job or whatever because IT PAYS MORE and it's easier. You know why prostitution exists? Because some GUYS are not attractive enough to make a woman ENTHUSIASTICALLY for sex, so they are PAYING the price for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys."Also you cannot be a nice guy and use prostitutes." Why not? I could also say you can't be a nice girl and do hook-ups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.The go above and beyond being nice happens because this is how men are taught just soo you know. This happens especially when a guy doesn't have dating experience. He is thinking damn I want her to think I am good and all that. The problem here is that the guy should have looked really early for signs of attractions (this is physical let's be honest here), being flirty and check the response, and of course gave up here if he doesn't receive any good signs. But guys lie to themselves and keep try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?TRUE that's why women are always honest with each other. Wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting.I don't get what does boring mean. Everything can be boring. Is going on a date asking about each other interests on a coffee date boring? (depends on the attraction in my opinion) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:05 AM |
| 1 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themWomen are better than men at building friendships of course. Now if those friendships are really genuine "ehhh so and so" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:43 PM |
| 5 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themMake two dating profiles on an app of two guys, one hot, one average. Check the results. Spoiler you will see the difference as (average at BEST 1 match/week), the hot one will get 100 matches/week. Let's not talk about how do women treat you when, you're hot. THEY WILL START THE CONVERSATION: "Hey :)". Also the hot guy can start the convesation with "Hey..." and receive a response most of the time, imagine just imagine if an average guys started with "Hey..." -> no shot a girl will ever respond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceNormal human interaction my ass. It's being forced to be in a group/social space. For example school. You notice a guy first day at school no big deal he is mehh if he would ask you then you will reject him which is fine. After you get to know him for being forced in the same space, you can have a different vision of him. Sad but true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidence"Character counts more with women" not in the beginning stages of dating/first time seeing him come on. "but immediate physical attraction isn't necessary for a woman to like a man after getting to know him" Geee I wonder how you decide if you want to invest the time to know him or not... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Most of what you said is true, except of this "slow-burning" that's not a thing, it's just "settling". Guess the difference between fast and slow. It's attractiveness to the guy and the desire to "keep" him. If it's very attractive and is not giving red flags most women will be over him in no time, because they will want to "lock" him down, if not, too bad guy need to wait more and jump some hoops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Why would I be upset about reality, and things that I can't change. The problem is that if she slept with other men faster means she had a better physical attraction to them. If you have/will have a boyfriend I dare you to tell in his face, especially if you made him wait. "I dated an ex and we had sex after 2 dates, but for you I cared more so I made you wait 7 dates." That simply means I "settled" for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women"Average" aka "ugly" in her view because most average women aren't attracted to average guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 02:50 PM |
| – | People work harder to impress you when you have more optionsPsssss this might be true for majority of women "assume everyone is dating multiple people and that's expected" but it's not for majority of men, just a reality check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidencePlease know what are you talking about, here is a definition https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bad_boy_archetype They can be non-conventional because they are very attractive, that shit will not fly with an average man, and if you think soo you are lying to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Of course it depends on the level of your physical and personality attraction to her if she decides that she wants more "effort" or put barriers, especially if she had hook-ups before. If she perceives you as very attractive she will be in your bed in no time I guarantee it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says.True same if the same women is in the same situations with different guys right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | One thing that makes suspicious of some people’s experiences here is the fact that everyone in their stories always neatly fits into every stereotype.I mean it's not cope, CHAD has options, if you have options and you don't care => mean assholes, which is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 11:36 PM |
| 11 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.My opinion: Single mother should date only single dads. The reason and this is true, YOU WILL NEVER BE THE 1ST PRIORITY, IT WILL ALWAYS BE THE CHILD. And if you don't have kids already. Should be the biggest deal breaker ever in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How the internet destroyed datingMaybe you are correct with this "All men assume they are in the 20%." "but do men know this?" They are hit in the face with the facts (getting not matches/options) then they face reality and wake up after a while. And look again with your percentages 80%-20%. You are saying "Bro little guy, you are average, but you can't go for an average women (she is exactly like you) because she has higher standards than you (this means she thinks she deserves better), see those really below average women the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How the internet destroyed datingEspecially with dating apps, that questions is answered with the number of matches/options that you have. Have options means you are desirable! Average men don't have many options. I guarantee that if an average woman will make a dating account they will have the same number of matches in 1 week, that the average man has in 1 year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How the internet destroyed datingOk, let's cut the bullshit especially on the dating apps, looks is king. Do you know that there, for guys that are average it means ugly? That is not true for average women 100% and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:30 PM |
| 10 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.True, but it's not realistic. This is exactly like you would have a ugly friend who is looking for a serious relationship and you will go: what about Chad he cheated on all his exes but I'm sure for you will make an exception. This soo bad faith... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:26 PM |
| 0 | How the internet destroyed datingI keep seeing this crap, give me some guesses of percentages please, for both men and women, how much% from each are "desirable"? Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 10:15 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?*it's hard to find an attractive man so like an 8/10, that is out of my league or is a player to commit. There I fixed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Why don't you approach men?Useless observation it happens also when men are asking the woman first. If it happens it happens. "Men have to like the woman more than she likes him or he has high odds of attempting to cheat on her." Same thing can be said about men, especially if it has more money than her. So men can go she needs to ask me out so I know she likes me more so she doesn't take advantage of me. It goes both ways so useless again. Again useless observation, can be said also about men, why would I risk marrying s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?Depends on the size of the city but you're probably right for big cities > 1 milion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?"There is never a time n existence that any woman, regardless of age, looks, weight, hygiene, etc is unable to "hookup" with hot guys of any physical or financial status." Regardless of these "looks, weight, hygiene" come on now. Hot guys have options even for hook-ups. They will not go for bad looks, big weight. Except a big fetish like you said! which is really small let's be honest here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:54 PM |
| 3 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?"Angry women just want to avoid men." just for a short time like men with women btw. Then they are complaining: "Where did all the food men go" or extremely "All men should die". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:50 PM |
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