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Come on, it's means getting used. Being with someone and paying for food and say the rent. While they don't like to spend money on you, or like to at least do chores in the house. It's an unbalanced exchange, profiting of the kindness of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:16 PM
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If they have a child, I kinda agree. But if they don't NO fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:40 PM
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Depends in my opinion what is the reason for divorce (she got bored? she cheated? the child is not his?). If a divorce occurs and you can 100% says it not his fault, he shouldn't pay. If they don't have a child he shouldn't pay. If they have a child, and he was the problem. And she needs to take care of her and the child (or even just her, if she spent some years with the kid and didn't work, yes she should be compensated for that)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:37 PM
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Ya' know you need to have a thing before you have standards, do you know what that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:01 PM
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You're just out of touch with reality if you don't know why men are desperate nowadays, and why this actually matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:58 AM
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Of course they are better, but if you have a kid, either when you come home you take care of it, or you do some chores. (the kid is extra responsibility that you both agreed on before having it).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:54 AM
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WTF are you on about of course it's relevant. It's like me having a woman treating her like shit, and when she leaves I go: She left me, "it's not relevant why".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:49 AM
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Who provides most of the time for the family? When a women plans to have a baby with a man, of course those should be shifted. She doesn't need to work jobs for couple of years. Just do some housework and take care of the baby, though I admit taking care of a baby is hard work, and women are better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:47 AM
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You're talking like women, do all the chores nowadays if both partners work. If she doesn't work, she should do everything related to house work etc. If the both work, the chores should be split.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:43 AM
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"If you're so desperate you'll date anyone who wants to date you" Why do you think this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:28 AM
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Most women want to be treated better that they treat you. (especially if they settle, or you two are at the same level, she needs to think she is a little bit better, she will only treat you better that you treat her if you are out of her league)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:26 AM
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I don't get this, most of the men will make most of their money after having >10 experience in a field. That basically means when he is above 30. So the time where he makes the most money is the time where he is married...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:22 AM
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"position of unpaid housekeepers, maids, nannies, babymakers etc." Was probably in the past, not now, soo try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:21 AM
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Don't be naive it's not true. One earns more usually that is the men, when a divorce happens it's like ok, you the man earned more, but you still split 50% 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:18 AM
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Most of things you said are true except: "It's the difference between feeling like you are getting to know an actual, genuine person and someone doing a performance." Both of them are doing a performance, but one is stressed out cause he doesn't wanna screw up and another doesn't really care and doesn't have stress. And don't lie to yourself both men an women are performing in the first dates, after you're in a relationship and wait some months "the masks begin to crack".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:06 PM
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"Something was missing" WHAT WHAT WHAT. You can't say "I don't know" this a fake response don't fucking lie it's embarrassing. You know what was missing, stop with the lies OMFG. It's just it will make you feel "awkward" to tell him the truth. Like "Sorry bro, I would like someone taller, someone smarter, someone that has common interests, someone that is funnier, someone that is serious about a relationship and you've talked like a player, etc".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:12 PM
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connections = attractiveness + personality. This is the combo, I want to know what was missing to make the "spark". "it doesn't mean there is a clear easy to spot reason why." Why are you lying, they know. No women goes out after a date, and says in her mind "something is missing", they either say "he is not attractive enough" or they don't have game and "were bored during the date".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:44 PM
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It's not weird. Men want to know what they did wrong so they can improve. You came here to tell me: It's weird to expect an "honest" feedback, maybe it's an objective thing, like "your clothes look awful, the look weird" you go home look deep in the mirror and go, "damn that girl was right, this outfit kinda looks too casual for a first date" and you improve from here. How can you improve if you don't get an honest feedback?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:08 PM
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To know what you did wrong during the date (if anything) and learn from it? To be 100% clear? It's a nice gesture to be honest with a good feedback in my opinion. Of course, to be sure in case someone doesn't take it well. You do this via text. And if they keep trying to change your mind. You tell them no, and then block them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:55 PM
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Like the only thing that is boring that a girl can do in dates, is "short answer" and "not questioning back". The reset of boring doesn't exist in my opinion, like if I am curios about them I will ask them soo on to elaborate about their life, and they will ask be back in return about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:19 PM
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It's the physical part, like I know now from how they look at me in 2 minutes, if they want more dates and maybe too even hook up, is really HARD to be BORING when they are into you physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:14 PM
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You don't get it, let me clarify quickly: Me: "Huh you study for masters, didn't know you're that smart" Now 2 cases: She is attracted: "Yeah, I really like learning bla bla etc". She is not attacted: "Why cause I am a woman?" (this is the worst case, rarely will tell you this) "I guess... rolling eyes" (clearly she doesn't care about the conversation, kinda wants to be over with) Soo one case took it ok, another case took can take it in the worse possible way (an insult)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:12 PM
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GOT YA, you see I need to "Tell her to be honest". Which should be the default man. Also don't fucking dare talk about men being boring. More women are boring than men, and the reason is they don't need much effort do develop their personality for "dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:07 PM
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Hope you're not serious, there is a line between "flirting" and "harassment" and that is how much is she attracted to you. If you try to neg her, and she sees you "not at least decently attractive" she will take the "neg" in the worse possible way and even feel insulted. Which is why is a good tool to gage interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:03 PM
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"Individual women can turn you down for any reason. You’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea." What a generic response, it's true. But if you're interested in them, and they rejected you would be cool to know the "real reason". Like you are not my type physically, I am ok nothing that I do can change that, nice knowing you vs You talked a lot about your work which gave me the ick I would've like the conversation to be more "not serious etc". This is a stupid reason to reject in my option, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:00 PM
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Come on bro it is, it makes them a little "insecure" and they need to "prove" themselves to you that they are "what" you are looking for. It's a manipulation game, to gage their emotions and see how interested they are in the conversation and in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:54 PM
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Read again, tell me how many time they told you in your face, that the physical part was the problem, and not some ambiguous shit, that made you overthink what went wrong during the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:49 PM
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gerund or present participle: negging insult or undermine (someone) in the belief that diminished self-confidence will make them more receptive to sexual advances. So it's putting them down, which is "mean" just to let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:46 PM
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Where you rejected ever in your life? Why do you think most women, won't tell you in your face "I wasn't physically attracted to you soo this won't work out"? Cause they fell bad by making you fell bad. Soo they go with ambiguous route ("no spark", "slowly fading", "ghosting"). Or go talk with some other women outside, family etc in your life, THEY WILL NEVER EVER TELL YOU "Lil bro you're kinda ugly, soo yeah that's why you don't get women" they will always try to put "you don't treat them how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:44 PM
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"You should always be nice. Nobody likes a bitter, resentful dickhead." Come on it matters in the long run, but the initial couple of dates it doesn't matter at all, it's also indicated to be a bit "cocky" and "meanie" is part of the game. Being too nice too fast leads to a bad impression for women (aka he's weak, why does he care that much that fast it's weird etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:37 PM
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What's the difference between a guy best friend vs a boyfriend for a woman? Simple: SEX. You can do the same thing with both except SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:42 PM
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3 times a day. I don't get it how? If you for example work 8 hours and sleep 8 hours, you only have sex and eat that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:38 PM
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Soo not that different. The only difference that is big, is the quantity. Men are attracted to more women at least physically in the beginning and women are attracted to less men. So it's just numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:32 PM
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You called him because he gave you good head, you know something that toys can't do. You needed that! Now imagine desperate fucking men, that don't get the time of the day of YEARS almost a decade, some go there because they will fucking loose it if they agreed to the fact that no girl will touch them ever in their life, soo they worked hard and buy that "relief". I am sorry that men are not as privileged in dating as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:11 AM
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"paying bills if living together" is moneeeyyy. How do you not get this? It's like deflecting soo fucking hard, "He didn't gave me cash in hand, but he bought me a nice dress, still HE DIDN'T GIVE ME MONEY"... what on earth is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:06 AM
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You had your toys, but still called an ex soo...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:51 AM
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"I’ve called up an ex" cool that's a woman privilege, average/below average men can't just call a woman to hook up cause they are "horny".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:36 AM
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Yeah, but it's not as powerful as you think. Clearly she was surprised and wanted to take the "trophy" is more of a niche fetish, but this would've been the same result if you asked her to catch a movie at your place (meaning she was already REALLY into you, and later you in HER :)) )
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:41 AM
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Sure, we can also cut out the same number of women to not reproduce right? Since the child gets the genes from both persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:16 AM
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"COOL VIRGIN" lmaooo it doesn't even matter for most women. They probably will think "you looking that good, you're lying". It matters for women who are virgins and want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:09 AM
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Standards I don't expect too, attitude towards it I expect it, it's like passing near a homeless (pussyless in this case) person and thinking "damn what a looser sucks to be him" instead of ohh poor guy hope he can rebound from this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:55 PM
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Ahh so now you bring legality into this ok. Suppose prostitution is legal NOW in the US and they are taxed everything is regulated. Would you have any problems with prostitution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:52 PM
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It's not an opinion, when it's a fact, they do it because it's more profitable. They could be a cashier or some market employee, but they choose this because say it with me "IT MAKES MORE $$$". Now can a guy ever have "this" privilege of "selling" their body. Short answer "NO" cause there is not a demand!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:47 PM
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"No, consent to access someone’s body can not be bought." Of course it can, what the fuck are you on? You go to a prostitute, she tells you put the money on the table. Good, go take a shower and let me provide the "sex service" that you paid for. For your information this is LEGAL in NETHERLANDS and the women are paying taxes for this! Now if you, put the money on the table, and she changed her mind for whatever reason she gives you the money and you go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:37 PM
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You don't get it sometimes in their adult lives sex is a need for men (especially for virgins), they will search for someone, but if they don't get a women, they will probably go to prostitutes. Now I am ok with your preferences and all that, just keep in mind it's exactly like this: You want to go to an university you're smart you get a scholarship you don't pay a thing life is good. You want to go to an university you're fucking dumb ass hell, but love to learn things you just aren't good at e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:26 PM
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True, there is a problem though, women nowadays aren't that empathetic towards the man, so that means (happy marriage) is not really used here what they use is (Am happy in this marriage?) and if the answer is yes all is good and dandy, but they don't really think about their partners marriage (I am happy, wonder how he is?). And the answer is quite simple honestly it's because they can leave the marriage with no problems (especially if no kids are involved) and find a different partner, where m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:50 PM
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Of course they change, but you need to be supportive, you're their partner after all, if you don't care (he should leave) or if he changes completely (abusive, violent) you should leave. But if you go into the marriage and things are ok, and you keep vetting (they can be better though) you will find yourself disappointed. And don't forget if the man marries you without a prenup and all that "protection" and you leave for a stupid reason "I just woke up and don't love you anymore / I am bored / T…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:38 PM
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"Women are not supposed to stop vetting men even after they are married" dumbest shit I ever read. vetting: the action of examining someone or something carefully to make certain that they are or it is acceptable or suitable for something. The vetting should be before dates, during the dates, and in the relationship before marriage (to be sure you're ok with the guy). If you are vetting in the marriage it means, you are doubting your partner (could've chosen better). And of course now you get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:15 PM
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"women are shamed for seeking sexual pleasure" they are shamed if they are sluts/whores not if they seek sexual pleasure with their partner (notice the BIG difference). "Also "sex" typically ends with male ejaculation and orgasm, but not female orgasm. Hence many women don't have orgasms." My reply same as above: "Yo lil bro, you came, I didn't, soo help out here!" he can use his fingers come on, just talk to him, if he doesn't want to, he doesn't care about you and you should move on from him!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:35 AM
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Link me a picture with what guy that is "mildly toned" means for you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:52 PM
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They are lying, they prefer what is the best for their point of view of course. (average if big ones hurt her, or big if that what she likes more). This also reminded me of a interview with some women to choose between little chubby man (a little belly not big) and a guy with shredded abs for ONS and marriage. They all went ONS with the shredded abs guy but marriage they "choose" the little chubby guy. Soo in my opinion here they lied about the marriage guy too look "good" or they know that litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:41 PM
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What if they have taxable services and is legalized like in Netherlands?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:40 PM
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I mean it's kinda true but women do the same thing come on, they treat attractive men better also their girl friends (better than a guy friend).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:28 PM
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Yeah it's a lot of work to put that "mask". Learn good jokes, flirty lines, etc. But most importantly analyse their reaction when you first meet them (first minute, her face when she sees you) and also during the date(her character does she laugh at your jokes, do you think she wants to leave, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:26 PM
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Yeah their interest is I like the guy, but if I leave him, I want to be better financially, that I was before I was married (cause he earns more, and the split will take more from his side).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:19 PM
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"And some women go their whole lives without ever ever having an orgasm!!!" And why do you thing is that? It's because they don't open their mouth, they are "embarrassed" to tell her partner, "Yo lil bro, you came, I didn't, soo help out here!" OR they have men that they don't care about them OR the man is soo high value that she "wouldn't risk" getting him mad, cause it's hard to find another one just like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:15 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, but then don't complain if they buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:09 PM
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Nahhh lil bro I got some women, it's not that deep. But it's pretty stupid to assume that not being fat is enough. I can gage her physical attractiveness in the first minute. And during the first date I kinda now how the vibes are, if there will be a second date, from her part. Soo what's with this bashing of me though, and stupid assumptions? I just tell how it is, should I call you a simp or dumb chad, that things getting being an just not fat guy is "easy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:02 PM
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Of course it is not deep muppet. Just being not obese it's not enough, not being ugly doesn't necessarily mean you're attractive. You can be fit of course but if your face sucks you're done lil bro, you don't go on dates with a shirt hiding your face, you go with a shirt hiding your fit body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:55 PM
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Cool 2 things of the 3 that you listed can't be changed. Only the obesity soo, what's your point here, that only being not obese is enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:44 PM
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You talk that being a little more attractive than an obese person is enough at the gym lmaooo. There are pretty girls at gym of course, and handsome men, you as a man need to compare yourself with the other to know were you stand. If you are not in the top% is a waste of time to try to cold approach at the gym (and of course you risk getting kicked out), the best play is to wait for her signals or if you are truly desperate to approach her when she leaves. (But as a man you shouldn't RISK IT!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:43 PM
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What nonsense? Why would I be butthurt? You don't make any points. Tackle each statement from my previous comment, with your rebuttals please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:45 PM
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How? Nowdays women want to be led, by their standards (rules), which by definition is not leading. You need to be exceptional (like soo good it will be very hard for her to replace you), if not guess what, she will leave when your leading is not what she "desires".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:17 PM
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Agreed, but at the beginning at least women are the "leaders" in dating the attract, we the men are the followers cause we chase them. When a relationship starts usually the men take the "lead" and do the plans for houses/future etc. BUT some women don't like to be led, like imagine I have all the men I can date and "control with my beauty" why would I be with someone that makes me to do stuff that I don't want to, even if is best for both of us? Nowadays they don't want to give that power unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:02 PM
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I tried nicely, hey can you please not post soo much it's just spamming, it's really an obsession. Her reply: "I know, but I don't hurt anyone" soo she didn't want to stop. I mean what more can I say. Can't argue with that. I insisted more some times later, her reply "I am controlling, that I don't want to post her that many pictures". She admitted she is stubborn, I told she need to work on that cause is not pleasant, we argued many times, after a while I mimic her and pretended to be stubborn …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:55 PM
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I mean it's the truth and biology, like look at most animals, male chase the females and compete with other males. We evolved somewhat but women won't risk most of the time to be rejected because it sucks and can't really handle it (like most men at the beginning, until they are ok with it) and they like some social roles, like men talking the lead and responsibility (they like to say that they "give" themselves to you somehow, and you must protect them and be a leader, but the catch is nowadays…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:51 PM
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In gallery she had some quick share for insta, so it would take like 5 seconds, + she filmed, and took photos all the time. It adds up pretty fast if you're this obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:45 PM
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I'm sorry but this is absolutely the case: "The man is the pursuer, the man has to prove himself, the man has to show he can be a provider, the man has to take all the initiative, the woman is the chooser, the man has to initiate sex." Probably only top 10-5% of men are approached in real life for romantic interests. And if you're not one of those you need to compensate somehow (money, funny character, etc). Men choose at the end if they marry, but women choose if they start a relationship most …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:26 PM
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No shit, tell that to one of my ex-es. She once put 100 stories in a DAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:21 PM
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"The first knows to flirt first to gauge interest before pursuing". Yeahhhh sure. But most of the time is just physical attraction. Soo after let's say 2-3 "friendly conversations, jokes" you need some "lines" to not make it "awkward" if she is not into you just to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:25 PM
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Probably the "fake interest strategy" I made this term up now. You ask a girl out or something and she goes let's be friends, you say ok, "you are a friend of her [now you know with this girl it won't ever work]", soo what are you doing now, you "convince her" to introduce you to her other friends and "put a good word for you", maybe some will take the bait and if you land a friend of this girl, you can dip on the "friendship". Same with groups, you don't join directly for "girls" cause it's "ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:13 PM
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I mean yes, but let's say I as a man am average so I don't get many "offers" from women, I get with an "average" woman, but after some years of hard work, I become above average and "get better offers". Going by your point if I was opportunistic, I should seize every chance I can get for MY happiness. (leave when a girl is mad at me, talk with another an soo on).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:49 PM
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Was something that I said wrong? Any arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:12 PM
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Whining? Should be equal rights, equal responsibilities. Women gained most if not all of the rights (which is cool and good) but when it comes to responsibilities some aren't really on board with that because "women privileges". Whining? Bruuuhh some women really choose a random bear vs a random man in a forest like come on :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:09 PM
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Careful lil bro, confident, direct, decisive can also be viewed as arrogant, heartless, controlling by women when they are mad at you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:06 PM
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Let's be honest here, it's their fault for being not desirable or average. But if women (I don't really think this happens) go out of their way only for top % men, and if they don't hit want to remain single for life or those guys have each ~5 partners and all that, probably in a couple of decades or centuries. Non desirable + average will want a sex revolution or something (right now this happens somewhat with taking women for poor countries etc), that is my assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:52 PM
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"Women go to war too" where? how many? "You can wear make up if you want" -> because of implication (not manly), also you just admit here that is ok to portray yourself as fake. Should I also be as fake as possible with intentions? Ya know only letting the woman hear what she wants to hear not the truth. Make up is just image manipulation, majority of men can't compete with that. If I sleep with a woman and in the next morning after she washes her face she is totally different should I ghost her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:02 PM
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I agree also with this liberty, should also come responsibility, so women like men should be drafted in the army and not be allowed to leave the country if a war happens, make up should be banned (ya know so women and men somewhat can compete visually).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:31 PM
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While that is true, I am talking about preferences. Are you denying women prefer (some even mandatory require) that their partner be taller than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:37 AM
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"And there are billion dollar industries dedicated to telling women to look better. What does that have to do with anything?" This such horseshit, I fucking hate the make up industry, you know why, because it gives the women unfair advantages, during initial screening of looks. I am pretty sure if it were more acceptable for men, it would be such a funny thing. Girl with make up meets guy with make up they hook up and after the shower they are either disgusted by another or they accept that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:28 AM
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Height no? Really? Go outside look around and count couples (let's say women and men holding hands) and you will absolutely see A BIG FING difference who is taller. Of course for most women matter in the sense he has to be taller than me at least by a bit, and some other women taller than me, even when I am wearing heels. That's it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:07 AM
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"Someone can be extroverted and still be lonely. Someone can be the gregarious life of the party and still be lonely." These are small exceptions, like really small. Usually for most of the time loneliness = lack of companionship/loving relationship. It's like rich people telling you, "yoo I have all this money but you I still poor" You ask the: "What do you mean?" And they go: "Even with all this money I still feel poor, cause my cousin makes 4 times more than me" And your conclusion is: "Damn …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:54 PM
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Lmaooo, of course you do, like everyone else, BUT only for the guys that YOU LIKE which is OK. But then you ask? "How do we know who’s lonely and who’s not?" Why do you even ask this question, clearly "your shoes are too full" to think of an answer. The answer is clearly what I've told you. But you took it like "ohh hihi I don't dive into profiles, I don't care". Then stop asking dumb questions if you don't care about the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:48 PM
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I see that you try to play ignorant. Let's see: social media (comments, number of especially likes/hearts from other girls, lifestyle, picture, this is if he is a total stranger, if you work with him / know him a little, you will see the signs if he is extroverted, how he talks, etc) The problem is that for most of you women, you take these from granted (they are already yours the attention), and you can't even begin to put yourselves in the shoes of man. (or you don't want to) except if he is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:19 PM
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I want to clarify this, how would you feel, if you talked to a guy, he said he was single (but he actually had a fwb and kept fucking around). You two date, and let's say after 2-3 months of dating you ask for exclusivity. And he goes, actually I have a friend with benefits, we can also be the same. Would you feel that you're lied to in the beginning? (You thought he was single, but clearly he wasn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:58 PM
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No religion -> OK, start the cut No kids, doesn't want kids -> (Doesn't want kids big deal breaker for most men, I think this is the biggest cut, most men want a kid who do you think they will let their legacy whatever that may be is very important) Physically attractive -> OK, here are level (really hot, ~10% vs decent might give him a change ~30-40%) College degree ->OK, you cut even more No conservatives -> OK, but you just cut half of the population Must be willing to live in an actual city …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:42 AM
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Would you date an overweight ugly guy, that asks you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:04 PM
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"It's not a requirement, at all." True, but THEY WANT THAT THEY WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE PRINCESSES/QUEENS. But for the right guy, this can be ignored at the beginning. But after a while if she earns more money than you "she will see you less of a man". You can try to be as soft as you want, this is what MOST WOMEN WANT. Now if you're an UGLY guy she doesn't need/want this from you, but for her partner that she is in a relationship, you bet your ass that she will want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:24 AM
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How much you wanna bet that they want that, YOU AS A MAN DON'T want that, most women want that. No women will say NO to his lover that provides vacations, adventures, romantic dinners at nice restaurants, nice jewelry, majority of women want these things. And of course they want this from her handsome partner not some random average guy. If she makes money and can afford trips and likes to give gifts to her partner, and he can't do that what do you think she will think "he is handsome, but I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:06 AM
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Ohh yeah this depends on age: "they find a handsome, well adjusted funny guy with goals similar to hers and the ambtion to meet them, they date him enthusiastically." I guess if you are <27, <30. Can be true, but if you don't fullfil your ambition and she meets her goal and he doesn't what do you think happens? Don't be naive most girls want to be treated as "princesses/queens" and for that you need some money, but an absolute truth is, they RARELY go for a guy that makes less than her ("visibly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:53 PM
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It's not just rich, it's handsome, funny etc. "Every beuatiful woman with a good personality would be dating a rich guy" they try but they can't, because: either such a guy doesn't exist in her area, she is not willing to put effort in chasing him (doesn't like to admit that he has a higher value than her) and finally if they see his dating/social media profile, they know that the guy is a player and won't bother, unless they want just a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:25 PM
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Be real, no one has the capability and time to have let's say over 10 real friends close, those that you see 1/2 a year, those are not real friends. Also then I have over 200 friends, I have with at least 200 people my whole life at least 2 times, and had a friendly discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:58 PM
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Really, can you have 100 friends, and keep up with them (hang out, talk about life etc), define friend? There are limits come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:45 PM
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6 packs is overkill, decently lean (not being fat) is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:05 AM
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Is going on a first date on a coffee date, and talkin about likes/interests, boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:36 AM
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Good personality it's not enough, it's "BORING" you need to be "EXCITING" soo you can create the "SPARK" sigh...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:35 AM
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"I guarantee you most guys with looks" most guys with looks will have a lot of options. After going let's say 10 dates even if his personality sucks, it will improve if he does some self reflection, or asks the girls what's wrong, to be better for the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:34 AM
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6 pack is useless, it's the face that matters come on, you don't go on a first date with your shirt off to show your abs. Probably 6 packs works if you meet/pick up girls at the beach or a pool resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:32 AM
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What is a player then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:14 PM
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"Looks are highly subjective" Then why do women match with the same top% of men in dating apps lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:29 PM
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It's protection, that's how the world works nowadays. Why do women love getting married officially (with papers from the townhall) but don't like if the man proposes a prenuptial agreement (you know also a paper).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:29 PM
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You're pure bad faith and can't fucking admit a simple truth. Men in general put more effort they do the fucking part more ok? They push the "staff" back and forth most of the time. If there is a time that a woman takes control and she does the fucking/jumping moving back and forth (it's rare, most of the time and they get tired quickly). "While I highly doubt you’ve had sex yet" personal attacks that's when you know you have no arguments. By the way, a girl said that wants me to do more moving …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:36 AM
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"Clean, tidy, pleasant, head and shoulders, taken for this purpose" true, but guess what because of the volume in dating apps, an average face for a man is still average even if clean and all that, it's not the top% that most women want. But let's say she is "giving" you a chance online, you manage to text with her ok, and she sees your average face ("NOT filtered or improved like in the photos") in real life at the first date, she's OUT after 10 seconds, because you kinda looked better in the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:18 AM
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yeah fucking means putting more effort (motions, physical effort), fucked basically means (low physical effort, staying still). Now in general, people when they have sex, who do you think puts more physical effort? (And if you think positions, think which are the most popular, and if the man or the woman puts more effort in those popular positions).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:10 AM
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Ok, let me rephrase it, what is harder fucking or being fucked? And who is fucked more in general during sex? (No it depends, I said in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:26 PM
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Tell me who is putting in general more physical effort when fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:03 PM
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"The fact that yall don’t think attractive men can be creeps" of course they can be, but it is a much BIGGER threshold. "Ohh he grabbed my ass on the first date, damn he is really bold" vs "Ohh he grabbed my ass on the first date, you creep I am calling the police" it all depends on the level of attraction and how she conducts herself in respect to you during the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:04 PM
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"You're just bitter because you're very obviously not one of them." made false assuption willing check your ego "Moreover, there are plenty of guys who meet that criteria and also take great care of their bodies and minds" Then why are they on the backburner? Do tell me! Ohhh right simply cause they aren't as HOT or EXCITING. Did you ever head of the phrase "Nice guys finish last" this is a stereotype and like most stereotypes it comes from some place of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:06 PM
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Then you're a "special" woman, most don't have your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:50 PM
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Who said I talked about all the women, where I said women are a monolith or that they are all the same. I talked about most the ones that settle. Definition of settling: "Settling in a relationship is when your wants, needs, expectations and deepest desires aren't being met in the relationship, but you choose to stay".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:40 PM
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Get out, no woman that "settles" goes in front of the guy and says: "I am settling with you right now, I fucked crazy hot dudes, and tried to be with them, but it didn't work out, but I see that you're nice guy, have some resources, can have a family with you. But just so you know I will never EVER have the same SEXUAL attraction that I had for other GUYS and you should be THANKING me that you got a catch as myself". They will hide this, just like top% men hiding the hook-up/relationship dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:23 PM
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What are you talking about, below/average men are complaining. You tell me that women are not crying in "situationships" and prefer to share a man in public? That they are not crying that they want a monogamous relationship that leads to marriage and not to be used only for their bodies? Are you serious right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:49 PM
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It's not, it's a joke. Depends how comfortable you are with the person. Of course in the first date this jokes won't land probably. "Intelligent hot army guys do exist" yeah sure, most are not thought, but you only love the idea of them. You won't love them when they are deployed for months/years in a different country and you only talk to them on the phone, you can lie yourself all you want, but your body will miss the physical affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:54 PM
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And that is sad woman, not laughable it's clearly about loneliness and desperation. You can make the same jokes about hot guys and "situationships". Damn "she" is doing everything for him, but he doesn't want to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:45 PM
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The words say one thing, the picture another: "Hot dude in the army" lmaooo Intelligent -> This goes out of the window if he is in the army most of the time. Sorry feminine smooth hands -> He is handling guns, and does ground training. Sorry Rest can happen. Also wtf is this "meany to other people" this just being cocky and/or a jackass "See that waitress over there look how she is shaking, guess she is really excited that I walked in the building" there cocky attitude / meanie. I guess it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:42 PM
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"If I go outside as an average guy and try to pick women" Yeah, clearly I am trying to sell myself, and ask them for a date. And don't come talk to me about different activities and all others b.s to meet people. If you are attractive enough it doesn't matter you will get dates, if you are not you will be seen as a "creep" for even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:32 PM
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I wrote "engage nowadays for dating" and just engaging are different. I can go now outside ask a girl what time it is? and she will respond "this is not an engage that leads to dating". If I go outside as an average guy and try to pick women guess what, most won't engage of course cause I am average, and will just rejected and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:48 AM
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It's because of overexposure, it became too tiring being approached by random guys, and you became bored of the same things, and being hit on all the time. For most guys it's the complete opposite. Just imagine (I know it's because you as an at least average women were approached probably when your were <15 from guys) you weren't approached all your life, or when you tried to approach you were always shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:42 AM
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"Whether they have access to sexual validation or not does not change the fact that men can willingly be single" Don't be bad faith. Most men can't have no strings attach sex only top% can. That's like me saying to you: Delete all your social media (over with confidence boosts from strangers) and don't talk to any man, except if they are approaching you in real life and are complete strangers, this will somehow get you a feeling how will most men feel if they go with your proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:27 AM
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Maybe in the past. NOT NOWADAYS! Nowadays they want *HOT*, which means basically average women have a list of average guys / below average guys at their disposal, but if a hot guy comes in the picture, he is first in LINE ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:01 AM
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Well sorry for that. You see that the personality is B.S like the bluepill IN THE BEGINNING STAGES. The bluepill is only AFTER you are already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:54 AM
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Yes, I assume you are in a big city. (>1, 2 million) Make now a profile with you and tell me how many hundreds of matches is the difference between what you get and what your males relatives got!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:45 AM
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What I said applies, you know this. What are you saying are exception: "do I know you?" if you meet with the girl nowadays and she is really attracted to you in those 2 hours she will "know you enough". "How does your breath and body smell." small disqualifier, as in second 11 I smell him, and he stinks. (This RARELY happens).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:42 AM
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If they are really attracted to you, for most women same thing it will work most of the time. (meaning the man can be low effort under medium effort) If not, you can try and compensate by learning a lot about her and impress her with what she likes. (This can work, but can also be a BIG waste of time for a man, you are basically following breadcrumbs from her with lowish chances that you can make her change her mind).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:38 AM
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Yes of course yes, *women won't engage with me Why would a woman engage nowadays for dating with a guy she is not physically attracted to WTF is with this. I gave you the reason. And you with "No."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:32 AM
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A fairly ugly man as long as he is clean and does basic (not necessarily stylish) grooming will be dateable and marriageable to the majority of women as long as his personality is not horrendous. STOP with the LIES make a dating profile with an average guy that you describe and you will see the TRUTH is not at all how you describe it, majority of women will not match with you to get to know you! WTF is this delusion...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:30 AM
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In the first 10 seconds you only say "Hello, nice to finally meet you, you look amazing!" u/TheRedPillRipper is saying that with this short dialogue he is already 1-2 hours away of making out with you or sleeping with you (if his personality is decent at least, doesn't need to be very amazing cause looks overcompensate) if you consider him "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:26 AM
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Why most stories came from women with "I wasn't into you at first but after getting to know you ..." (of course this happens if the man insists a LOT but there is a fine line here between given a chance and begin seen as a creep) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:23 AM
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I see that you are honest. Soo let's me ask you this, if you find a man "mehh" would you still give it a try if he impresses you with other things. Or in the first 10 seconds is "can fuck me if he not a creep" or can it also be "mehhh can fuck if he compensates with something a lot (lifestyle, character, attitude, etc) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:19 AM
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*women won't engage with you cause you are not physically attractive I'm happy to engage with men that are interested in getting to know me that I am physically attracted to and they can blatantly trying to fuck me really depends on how attracted to them am and if I am in the mood of fucking. Fixed it for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:15 AM
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What do you mean restriction for DNA, why would that happen? If it's about your sensibility to some diseases the government should sponsor for the treatment if is needed. If it's not that big of a deal they can let you to decide if you want to pursue a treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:15 PM
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Related to forcing medicine, for a example a friend of mine from France, needs to vaccinate their kids, if not they will not accept it for school. Do you think forcing vaccines for kids is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:00 PM
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I don't get what's this fuss about, the government already has info about you. Of course healthcare is the most important and should be universal. It's a bad taste even inhumane to make profit of this "how much does your life cost". People choose the government, it's unfortunate most people are not that bright and are easily manipulated by what they want to hear but not the reality. People are attracted to a charismatic leader, not a factual boring correct leader. Even with this, you trust the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:28 PM
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Ohhh attacks on attraction, nice deflection. When people have no arguments left, personal attacks are what's left, but people like it no wonder Trump won in America lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:16 PM
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How can we make progress when we have people like this on the planet. "Bro why the fuck we need wheelbarrows, you can just use a bucket trust me". "Bro why the fuck we need medicine, just hope it will pass trust me" "Bro why the fuck we need databases to know the parents of a born child. Just trust me" I said planet, not just a country. Of course this will not happen, to many "smart people" are left, dictatorship is still a thing etc, but you come here and say it's just insecurity. Could be, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:05 PM
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Why is it a bad idea? It will find the correct parents for the child. Tell me 3 reasons why is a bad idea please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:52 PM
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Being factually correct is bullshit nowadays? lmaooo Do tell me your arguments why is bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:47 PM
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What agenda? In a perfect world I would push for a biological signature for every person on Earth, either male/female. And after each birth will check the parents, if is not the partner, should check the whole database and find who the father/mother is. This will eliminate fake fathers and find the correct fathers, also if a baby is somehow not given to the correct parents by mistake. (mistaking new children between them and parents).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:44 PM
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Who is "us" lil bro, look at the comments, some people care. Most of the time this won't happen of course, but if you have somehow doubts you should totally do a test. Like if a girl doesn't trust a man, she should totally check his phone if she is suspecting him of cheating. Do you agree with this or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:32 PM
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Of course people care if they wouldn't they will just say: "As long as you pay for the test, who cares". Not the "you don't trust her" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:26 PM
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Cause' they chose partners that don't care about them, or they are to shy to tell them to make them orgasm. There this is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:06 AM
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They give options, or is it to much now to filter 20-30 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:00 AM
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True, the answer was still the same. Men provide women with options, because they don't have options themselves and are desperate. Desperation means giving up on certain "standards" just to be with someone. Most women don't know what does desperation even mean, and can't put themselves in that place. Create an OLD account with an average male friend of yours, or an average male photos from online. Swipe a week, start some conversations with some women, see how (if) they respond, how they carry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:18 AM
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Ok, why do they seek them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:00 AM
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And why do men provide them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:50 AM
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Thank you, likewise!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:42 AM
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It's biology, men search for a mate, women wait for a mate (they choose from the options that they have). I see that you gave this "Who is spamming women’s accounts with hundreds of dick offers?" cause they are desperate. A question for you then. "Why are women selling sex services?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:40 AM
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"If men can do it, why can't women." Don't be bad faith. Most men don't have that power, most women do. "You didn't answer my question, on where you're meeting these women who are demanding that you provide." OLD "OLD is trash. It was trash 15 years ago. It's even worse now." True, but it's the standard now, here is where most couples are formed nowadays. But OLD is kinda the truth. You and a man are on OLD to date or to hook up. If you as a man go out, socialize, go to events, etc. Guess what, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:35 AM
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I just stated facts about the options about men and women, this is the reality of todays time like it or not, men need to work harder (improve themselves more) to be "datable" in the eyes of women nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:08 AM
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You said you waited 3 months with your boyfriend, at 10 dates, that's like 1 date a week, either you are both very busy people, or someone didn't care that much about knowing each other fast. I am sorry but in todays dating world moving too slow, can leave you behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:06 AM
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Huh??? The reason is that on dating apps at least, women filter harder for looks than men! And they choose in this way, because they are attracted to smaller % of men, when men are attracted to a larger % of women!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:00 AM
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This is the delusion I am talking about dating is a "game", women love the "game" and not the "players", because the "players" can play the "game" better than them. "Promiscuous Woman" this is your title, are you going to tell me if you create a dating profile, you are not talking to 2-3 guys at once at least, and prepare to rotate some dates, to see who is the best? (Of course it can happen that you make a connection in the first date with the first guy and cancel the rest. But the plan is ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:54 AM
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Those MANY options, should be enough for a life time let's be real, if you are on a dating app and especially in a big city >100k, you will have hundreds of options. Basically todays social media/dating apps gave women such a power on dating market that for me it's too funny. The delusion comes, after they get lots of dates and begin to "create" the perfect men by taking qualities for all the previous "dates".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:40 AM
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In todays society, 10 is too much. I am sorry but men if they like the woman especially need to have sex with her as fast as possible. After the sex "both" are more connected let's say, you can sense the different vibes from the woman. NOT sleeping fast with the woman, can be make you look weak, not taking initiative, not showing interest, she can get the "ICK". If I pull her phone, during the dates I will see her taking with other guys (options), if you as a man won't move quickly someone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:33 AM
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No one has endless options, most women have MANY more options that most men, they just need to deal with the hassle of filtering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:18 AM
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I would like to know your opinion then, after how many dates should this happen in general. I don't want the "it depends and all that b.s.". Give a time-estimate. Max dates and Max time of knowing each other starting from two complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:15 AM
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No the answer is, better improve yourself soo you have more options which of course implies that some of those are quality. I am sure that if you had an ugly girl friend, you tell her "Yoo better give up, than your on yourself to attract more". I can't believe you can give such dumb advice *better give up, when things are hard*.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:05 PM
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If you even think that average men, have the same number of options as average women, you live in a different universe. You know that most people meet online now right, did you see the videos of the women dating profile options vs men options? You talk like there are 20-30 women there and I have the *privilege* of doing a lot of filtering with them, and I still have some left lmaoooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:13 PM
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Hope you know that men do more in the beginning right? Men chase women, it's a bigger investment for men to chase than for women to be chased. After they are in a relationship, I thought that either we both do as much as we can for each other or we are both getting laid back in the relationship. Women want men to put the same effort as at the beginning but guess what after they are in a relationship MEN want WOMEN to also put effort, because let's be honest the effort that they put at the beginn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:07 PM
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I thought being in a relationship had the goal of being comfortable and stable with the other person. Asking for "more" and "more" and having the expectation that you will have the feelings like at the beginning is pure delusion sorry, also regarding expectations women expect more from the man, but if the man puts his expectations, she can usually go "I should be enough" like her being with you should be enough. Who do you think puts more effort at the beginning of the relationships? (spoiler al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:48 PM
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At the beginning not really, because there is this feeling of "new" and discovering someone, doing stuff with them. But after a while you did a lot of stuff, but you want "more" and "more", you will remember how you felt at the beginning stages of dating and you do not have that anymore, soo you want to relive those feelings, and keep asking for "more", and when it doesn't happen you can always be on "if he wanted to, he would". This is how the drama starts, or because of incompatibility after a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:03 PM
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Cool you do, most women don't. They see "peace" boring, because it's not stimulating their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:40 PM
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Hope you know that if he was bluepilled from the start he would have had 0 wives lmaooo. (Of course I admit that being bluepill is ok when you are in relationship after some time).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:39 AM
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What is this bs, "men pay with their time and attention," <- false women do that. "men pay with their time, attention and resources" <- true. Here fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:50 PM
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"my female friends who are all single want to be". People are single when they want to work on themselves and be better to find someone. I am willing to bet your friends are single either because they were hard disappointed in previous relationships, or they can't find a guy that they are attracted to, and are not willing to compromise in their standard. Most of them will settle for something, or they will die single (most people don't want that).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:44 PM
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Of course they aren't, UNTIL they are (time passes for everyone). Most women have a lot of options, but few options that they are attracted to. And for those options they will drop their standards, are you denying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:23 PM
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Stop with the B.S. there will be somewhere a compromise either looks or for example those politics, and guess where the majority of people (yes both men women) will let things slip, of course the standards. This will happen more for women (at least at the beginning when dating) because they are attracted to fewer men, of course they will RARELY compromise on attractions, to accommodate standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:00 PM
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Lmao. Most people will know as I am in EU, the mayor of the village, mayor of the sector, and president of the country. If you think than an average man not deep into politics, will know more (elected from parliament, what is the senate, what parts of parliament have what power etc) you are delusional. Also I think half of the people don't vote, so you basically already cut half.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:50 PM
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Depends on topics of course, if you try to talk about things that you learned in college, of course most men that won't frequent that college won't have any idea what are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:29 PM
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"I want someone who keeps up with current events and has a basic understanding of practically every topic you can think of." What does this even mean? Current events in what ways news, fashion, celebrities, politics, what event will be in the city/near? Don't you think this is to general, no person can know basics for everything, and if you talk with a person only about basics you become BORED.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:48 PM
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If they want to date have a long relationship with you, they will look/care for those things 100%. If only for hookups of course they won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:32 PM
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blue eyes it's a decently plus, but the acne really sucks, go to a dermatologist, try everything to get rid of the acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:06 PM
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6 pack is worthless, face is more important. Need to be decently fit (not overweight) and have a good face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:03 PM
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Average women have an easier time sleeping even with men they want, it's just that they can't keep them, average men can't do that. OF COURSE IT'S A PRIVILEGE!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:43 PM
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Nahh it's pretty good. After a couple of dates she will see your spending habits for the dates, what are you wearing, and your place. Clearly you can't maintain the facade if there are big differences in value for them. Of course you can keep lying her and soo on, but what do you think will happen when she finds out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:13 AM
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Key point: "to settle down" "Settling in a relationship is when your wants, needs, expectations and deepest desires aren't being met in the relationship, but you choose to stay" Most women don't really want that at least at the beginning, they are "forced" to settle down at least on "looks" for men then they are ok with it. Take an example, suppose if you have a brother he is average looking he is 23, you are 22 you know he is a good guy, will treat his future girlfriend/wife well, you introduce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:09 AM
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True, but AGAIN MOST don't remain attractive that was the whole point, because if you go with this specific argument I can just say, it's "easier" for men, because when they are 45 and remain in shape they will be richer an find easy a "gold digger".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:50 AM
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If your salaries let's say are above 100, 150k in the US, this doesn't matter as much, life style is comparable. You know that she can get a guess for your money, by seeing your place, how you dress, where you eat etc. Don't think that they are completely in the dark regarding your material value. Of course, there are exceptions, growing up together, and of course settling. Either your looks and/or personality are of the charts for her and money doesn't matter that much. Or she settled for you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:47 AM
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Again most women DO NOT stay attractive in their 40s, especially if they have kids. Are you going to tell me that 45 yr women olds divorcees with kids get men to commit or are you talking about just hook-ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:40 AM
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Clearly you didn't read what I wrote about generalities. What you say now is true for some. NOT FOR MOST PEOPLE. Most men/women DON'T have rosters into their 40s, 50s. Do please look around that doesn't happen for most PEOPLE!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:22 AM
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Define comparable, minus how much % are you talking here? a guess is good enough Also, I hope you do know that women rate men, on certain aspects, so clearly if you do not earn at least at she does, you better f*ing overcompensate like hell in personality or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:59 AM
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Reality check, do you agree that most women want a man earning more than them? (the more the better)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:52 AM
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"There was a woman from Europe who had autism and BPD and chose to euthanize herself. She had a boyfriend who was an engineer or something. I can't help but thinking that if she left that boring guy and got with someone passionate she could have become better. I am actually autistic too so I could relate to her." I don't have words. If you want a relationship the excitement that you get comes with the novelty, after a couple of months it will be gone because now you know your partner. If you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:45 AM
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My bad then, they weren't questions they were statements in which you gave responses like "Salma Hayek is pretty hot imo. I doubt she’d struggle to get a bf if she was looking". Clearly if a person will say a statement with no qualifier it will be taken as general by default. You can't say particular/exceptional cases to contradict general statements, it's bad faith. Clearly you had a problem with that guy stupid bitterness/snarky remarks. You can and made snarky remarks back, who cares, but don…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:58 AM
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The point is you kept in this thread dancing around a question. Kept making dumb scenarios and soo on. Some things are purely truthful (in general there will always be exceptions) that can't be denied no matter if you are a man or woman. Women will have a lot more options when they are younger, and this will decrease with time. Men will have less options at the beginning, they will start appearing in their late 20' early 30' IF THEY ACCOMPLISHED something in their 20' (job, status etc, OF course…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:42 AM
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I don't care about bitterness, revenge, what women did in the past, in their teens, average men being losers when it comes to dating etc. I am simply asking "The average 40+year old is ugly, wrinkling, infertile and lower dating market value. That’s just cold hard reality." Is this true or false, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:32 AM
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I just read this reply chain, and I can't believe you can say with a straight face that women value don't go lower as they age. Also that guy said: "The average 40+year old is ugly, wrinkling, infertile and lower dating market value. That’s just cold hard reality." Do you really deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:24 AM
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Definition when I googled it: solipsism/ˈsɒlɪpsɪz(ə)m/noun the quality of being very self-centred or selfish."she herself elicits scant sympathy, such is her solipsism and lack of self-awareness" Quit ironic. Imagine not recognizing your privilege as being a "chooser" lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:03 AM
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You have 10 sisters clearly that helped you a lot knowing about women etc. I want to know if the majority of women you picked up were from your sisters circle, or your friend circle. Basically were most of these women that you "picked up" were complete strangers that you met, or were form your sister or yours circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:11 AM
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<image> True men and women rate each other the same... WAIT??? What are you on about???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:56 PM
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Say it with me lil GIRL, things won't change because biology. Women are attracted to top% of men! Average men can't even DREAM of CASUAL SEX! If they want sex, they either buy it or "settle" for a relationship (even if they wanted only casual sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:48 PM
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"Did they ask for a hookup?" Why are you like this? Guess what the answer will be from women if they ask this? Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:45 PM
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chad. Slang: Sometimes Disparaging. a confident, successful, athletic man who is attractive to women, sometimes one who is perceived as hypermasculine, arrogant, or shallow. Just think it's not hard, if other women wanted to know your husband, he can attract easily other women HE IS A CHAD. It's up to him if he wanted to have hook-ups or not. But if you need to know his personality, get your time with him to truly discover him and then you became attracted HE IS NOT A CHAD then, he needed to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:38 PM
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"No, it’s not only the men who have options who view women this way." Are you kidding me ? Suppose you are the first date this guy has in WEEKS/MONTHS and you come here and say that this average dude, can say with a straight FACE "let's just hook up". CLEARLY this is an indication that he doesn't GIVE a damn about you and thinks that HE is above you ok. They can try being CHAD all they want IF the don't have OPTIONS NO ONE GIVES A FUCK, OPTIONS dictate HOW WANTED ARE YOU OK? Who says I don't val…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:34 PM
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"If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them" do you really think most men can have hook-ups just by snapping their finger?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 PM
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Suppose you the man just took care of the child with the wife, but from time to time she goes out at night sometimes 1-2 times a week to a "friend" you don't care/suspect anything, and by mistake you call this friend and she says "she is not with me", you become suspicious, put a friend to follow her and find out she is cheating. Not really an impossible scenario. LIKE READ PLEASE! You find out after 2-3 years of already having the KID.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:53 PM
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"If your partner was hanging out with a friend 1-2 a week and that was an issue for you, why are you procreating with what person?" Did you seriously ignore the part where I said she was CHEATING???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:47 PM
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"What changed in the 2 years that gave you some doubts?" Suppose you the man just took care of the child with the wife, but from time to time she goes out at night sometimes 1-2 times a week to a "friend" you don't care/suspect anything, and by mistake you call this friend and she says "she is not with me", you become suspicious, put a friend to follow her and find out she is cheating. Not really an impossible scenario. "So discuss your need for paternity testing BEFORE you get a woman pregnant"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:38 PM
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I know what are you trying to say but if they find out it's over. You can say the exact same thing about cheating. If they won't find that you didn't cheat they won't be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:34 PM
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Mhm, and you think the woman response would be. "Honey of course we could do the test if this assures you, I understand you have some doubts I am willing to clear them up." OR "I can't BELIEVE you don't trust me, this RELATIONSHIP IS OVER. Why did you even marry me then?".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:30 PM
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Not sure what "average" is to you but no average GUY proposes a just hook-up because it's risky and he doesn't have option and he can't afford to do that. So either you think he is average but he is NOT, or he thinks you are not on his level (you are below average). --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "We are good enough for a hole to stick it in but we aren’t someone you’d value getting to know or spending time with if the hole isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:25 PM
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What if you were kept in the dark for 2 years didn't suspect a thing, and after that you have some doubts and you do the test, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:40 PM
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Women: -> 1) Easy hook-ups -> 2) Easy to enter a relationship (good, bad relationship doesn't matter here) Men: -> 1) You are not getting an easy hook up if you are not top% attractive -> 2) Need to jump through hoops (putting hard work to impress the woman) to be in a relationship (good, bad relationship doesn't matter here) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- " Did you know that for women, it’s actually the opposite? Do you know how…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:25 PM
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"But did he make it clear he wanted a hookup?" for this most girls will reject 99% of guys because of the implication "he has her in his mind as a slut", he needs to be more "indirect". ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "That rarely successfully happens. If that was effective, women would have hookups more and fuckboy wouldnt be an insult." Of course I am not talking about those hook-ups where both agreed before they meet "this is a hook-u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:09 PM
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Because it's an insult. "Bro you aren't that hot to get a hook-up, but you have a good personality and are decent, with time you will get into a relationship" We all know it's easier to turn a hook-up into a relationship, than slowly building the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:29 PM
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"Do you also understand that not announcing what you’re going to do doesn’t make you a liar.. a lot of shit is implied and it works both ways." Sure I know that not being straight forward is an advantage, not if you're looking for something serious thought. "A woman is attractive she has no shortage of attractive guys to choose from" for hook-ups yes, for relationship NOPE. Why do you think there is the trend where they cry "where all the good men?" Attraction absolutely gets pussy, a stronger c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:47 PM
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"dudes who want to fuck but aren’t honest about it." here you are probably talking about average/below average guys. It will not work 100% for them to go on a first date and try to quickly hook-up. They are playing the long game hoping to sleep with the women after she gets to know him better, deep down they know she is not interested in them, which is a bad approach most of the time and a waste of time. The attractive dudes also can't go on a first date and tell the woman straight up, "I only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:46 PM
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You're lying to yourself if you think that. Women are more emotional than men. If you want to just get laid you need to tell them what they want to hear not the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:36 PM
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What a liar you are, of course they are, that's why approaching a woman when she is in a group most of the time fails, because of the other girls. > Dick is easy to get. True > To maintain top% guy is easy. COMPLETLEY FALSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:07 PM
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Ok, he has the job, you work at home, it's no problem here the problem is: "with some of the average earners who I liked a lot but stopped seeing" vs "It would be inaccurate to say that I chose him “first and foremost” for his income" You choose him first and foremost for the income OK? (so it's accurate what I said) Because if not you would have chosen one of the average earning guys! Now this in the past who cares. But what if somehow not by his fault, you remain on the streets, you loose it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:37 PM
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It's your choice, I see the reasons and it's transactional (your looks vs his money), if you think there aren't any problems with this I challenge you to tell your husband: "Yo babe, just so you know I love you and I think that we are made for each other. I just wanted to let you know I choose you first and foremost because you're a lawyer and you could provide the lifestyle that I wanted, and only after this I took feelings into consideration." How do you think he will react?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:18 PM
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"I am a gold digger" I will stop you right there. With this you admit, you put money in the first place when you look for a partner rather than compatibility. By definition this is a transactional relationship ok, you give him the looks, he gives you the money/lifestyle. "but that doesn’t mean you can’t have normal relationships with partners you genuinely care about" it does, because you first see them in the lens of how much they provide! "but why would I do that when I could just have feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:00 PM
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Gold digger vibes. You know what you are doing, it's absolutely a transaction. If he wants to see you again he needs to pay for the dates what are you on about. So for you the guy needs to be more invested than you in the dating stage: Him: money + time invested vs You: just time invested. This means you consider them beneath you. Sorry this is the truth. If you would see them as an equal potential partner you will go: "Ohh you paid for the last date, let me take this one cause I am not comforta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:14 PM
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As always, depends on options if you have a lot options as a guy you don't give a shit, most average guys don't have a lot of options hope you know that. "I impress my dates by using my humor, my charm, my worldly experience, my grit and confidence" every guy does this don't try to think you are that special. Now after the date ends, let's say you have a connection with this girl. Would you risk giving her the "ick" by saying "let's split the bill", or are you going to say like a "man" it's okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:39 PM
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It's trying to impress you know, LIKE how it's dating, they guy needs to impress the girl. Do you think women go on dates and in their mind are like, "Damn I need to impress this dude" this DOESN'T HAPPEN except if you really are a top% guy. Do tell me how many women pay for the man when dating, ohhh right THAT doesn't happen. This is privilege my guy. Hope you understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:07 PM
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Cause you need to play the GAME if you don't have a lot of value as a man (that means attraction). If you are a really hot guy you can be as cheap as possible and she wouldn't care come on it's basic knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:29 PM
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What about the ones, that paid and you went to 7 dates with him, and after that you didn't feel it anymore. Do they get a refund for the investment in those 7 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:19 PM
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Of course it is, you don't get further dates if you don't do it, what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:17 PM
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I am glad it worked for you, clearly your relationship will last, because you basically knew each other as friends for years, and liked each other company. But DO understand MOST men would not be in your position EVER, having a woman friend that is attracted to them and them be attracted to the woman. Nowadays especially, online dating is how most couple meet each other. And here let's say you both look for a relationship. First when you meet you need to pass each other attractiveness threshold,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:20 AM
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Ok, so you unlike most guys you had the advantage of a woman basically throwing herself at you, please understand most guys NEVER experience this in their LIFE. Second, I am sorry to say but if you were the woman and she was the man. You as a woman would say that you "settled". Why? Because you weren't that interested in them at the beginning. What you experienced is what most girls will experience nowadays, going after a lot of attractive guys but that have poor character, and finally "settling…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:06 AM
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Time for a quick quiz. Did you settled for her, or did she settled for you? In that friendship from the beginning were there some (hidden intentions) most of the time are from the guys side. Did you wanted to be in a relationship with her at the beginning or did she? Someone should've been flirting a little, initiating some kinda of "dates" and you two alone talking. Very rare it happens out of nowhere that a friend asks you on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:53 AM
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Simple then, you are not boring, or her attractiveness to you was soo powerful that it didn't matter. Hope you know that most men and women are boring by default. You need to create a connection / talk in a flirty way / be funny to get emotions from her and this is called having GAME. Guess what women don't need this, but most men DO! If you didn't you either had it naturally or you spend time with this girl a lot before eventually dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:43 AM
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Of course course you can't. But time to admit some things: Black Pill -> If you are really ugly like really ugly and can't do nothing to fix it GGs Red Pill -> Improve looks and game this will land you dates Blue Pill -> Character be nice genuine this SHOULD be applied only after you're with someone in a relationship. So each pill has some benefits clearly. The reality is you need to lead with some of the RED Pill traits to get the dates, YOU will not get dates just by being nice, genuine, yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:35 AM
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Both women and men have different challenges in life. Some facts remain true though: Most women have more options in dating that most men. Most women usually want a guy better than them if possible. (Really attractive, money, status etc). Attractiveness gets you in the door, but without character most women would not stay with you if they can easy replace you, but if you are a really attractive guy you are hard to replace in the looks department, so they will go down on looks and go up in charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:25 AM
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Why would that be an incel thing? Its the truth. If you are a guy and have some dating experience you know how many options average women have vs average men. If she has any socials insta/facebook/snap and she has guy "friends (i mean digital friends)" on these apps and has decent photos, she has guys in her DMs 100%. Do you agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:30 PM
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Do tell me what does blue pill preaches, isn't it: be yourself, nice, genuine, have a good personality, and you will find your match?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:13 PM
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"Men are so gullible they actually believe their pseudo-girlfriends available" True, the blue pill men also are soo gullible that think that personality can compensate for looks lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:30 PM
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Do tell me about men football vs women football, and men world cup vs women world cup. Are they doing the same thing (yes playing football), are men playing with more intensity and are more physical (absolutely). Are they paid paid the same. NO!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:21 AM
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The guy above clearly talked about generalities. In general a man is physical stronger than a women. And here you come with the bad faith response that some women are stronger than some men (you vs scrawny guy). Totally useless response. To also address your question for physical labor clearly men are more qualified than women in general and can do more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:23 PM
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Of course they are, if in my description I tell you that "I was in jail for rape". It's up to you how go from here. If they are entertaining the guy after reading this from the bio it's clear that the looks are A LOT more important. Doesn't matter if he lies or not if he stated a thing about himself it's up to you how you proceed with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:23 PM
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By that definition every date is interesting. With women going on multiple dates to choose their partner of course they will compare if the attraction is close for different guys, she will compare where did the guys take her (investement of resources).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:10 PM
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First date should always be the lowest effort and generic date ever, a coffee date. Then you gage the interest and go from there. But the stuff with be creative is so weird, to be creative again requires money, to make it special / unique etc. It doesn't really matter because with the right person you can watch the paint DRY and it would be ok, because their company should be what you need/want not how can he impress me. But this isn't reality unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:17 PM
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The point is going on a lot of dates is expensive, and you will go on a lot of dates as a man $50 here, $50 there, those $50 add up real quick. Imagine you go on a 100 dates in 2 years, so 4 dates a month. That is $5000 !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:06 PM
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I am sure your friend would react the same way if he found out you are really a promiscuous woman. Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:01 PM
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Cool let's gage a little, how much is your average man in your area making per hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:57 PM
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I am sure most girl would like to go on a quarry as a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:55 PM
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How much is a lot of money to spend when going on a date? Give me your range please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:49 PM
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I will ask again then: tell me why most comedians are *average looking* guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:47 PM
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Also my bad most good looking guys are also booring as hell. No answer ohh well, tell me why most comedians are average looking guys then? Wondering if you are going to guess it...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:23 PM
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Why are you soo dense? Clearly you have some girls in Alabama, and when you go in a vacation in Alaska you quickly get some new girls through the dating apps. Then when you go back you still have the girls from Alabama. Think a little please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:21 PM
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Then why are most hot girls boring as hell? No joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:15 PM
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Do tell me about these interesting dates that don't require money. Taking walks in the park, cheap coffee dates are not "interesting"!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:12 PM
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True, it reminds me of those girls that think when they get a one night stand with a top% dude, they will have a serious relationship with him /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:07 PM
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They put more effort because they take more pictures of themselves over time than men. Come on... . It's like you do maths in your free time and goly gee I wonder what happens when you take the exam if you had that much practice...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:05 PM
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Ok, now put a man in her place, it's the exact same thing, same desperation, he can't fucking open an OF or be a stripper to add to his earnings whatever desperate he may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:25 AM
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And what is your statement trying to say? Is something that I said incorrect, elaborate please. I'm curious who is it, please provide the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:06 AM
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Yeah, I see where you are coming from. Unfortunately the thought process for those guys with "But why?" some want genuine answers and some are begging leading to "Let's tryyy a see how it goes...". The answer is pretty simple but they don't want to face it because they were taught that looks are not that important for women and personality can compensate. If it's they just met and he is asking and is rejected and he is normal -> clearly looks is the reason. If he goes to 1-2 dates and then is re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:38 PM
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The need to search jobs for their skills set quickly if not they will need to take a "no skill job" mcdonalds, cashier etc. Why you keep insisting they are forced, they choose to do so because they like it and it's easier than mccdonlds. They choose the client, they can reject him etc. It's a service they sell sex and choose to do so. This question "then why not just not pay them so that they can be enlightened and go to school?" can apply also to men, and why they don't prostitution then, ahh r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:40 PM
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Then why they are selling sex instead of working a blue collar job? The truth please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:24 PM
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You said "Making under $100k a year means you need to live with roommates." Clearly women there prefer to be prostitutes instead of working a job that is not paid very well, than to live with roommates. This is the delusion that you are living into. "It’s significantly easier to not have sex than it is to MOOOVE" tell that to passports bros lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:20 PM
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If they live in a high cost of living area. Guess what the solution is. MOOOVE from there, I know it's hard but this is the solution, it means that your skills in the workforce are not for that place. "The unattractive men are not victims" wow just wow. "Sex is not a need. I didn’t have sex until I was almost 30, and I managed just fine. If I can do it, so can men." Because almost all human beings have a sex drive, and need to satisfy it. And also let's say a guy went temporary blind from 15 unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:47 PM
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It is CONSENTING because they are accepting it. If it's not harmful and she is not forced. What are you talking about? Guess why women are doing it??? Because it's easy to SELL SEX for women. Some prefer that than a blue collar job or whatever because IT PAYS MORE and it's easier. You know why prostitution exists? Because some GUYS are not attractive enough to make a woman ENTHUSIASTICALLY for sex, so they are PAYING the price for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:31 PM
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"Also you cannot be a nice guy and use prostitutes." Why not? I could also say you can't be a nice girl and do hook-ups
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:21 PM
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The go above and beyond being nice happens because this is how men are taught just soo you know. This happens especially when a guy doesn't have dating experience. He is thinking damn I want her to think I am good and all that. The problem here is that the guy should have looked really early for signs of attractions (this is physical let's be honest here), being flirty and check the response, and of course gave up here if he doesn't receive any good signs. But guys lie to themselves and keep try…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:18 PM
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Why do you assume that I have trouble with women? Should I also start with dumb jabs? Ignoring dat, women of course have a larger social circle than men. But this obviously means that they have quantity > quality. So I think that it's like the IQ distribution. There are more stupid guys than stupid women, there are more average "normal" women than guys. And there are more really smart guys than really smart women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:51 PM
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TRUE that's why women are always honest with each other. Wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:49 PM
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I don't get what does boring mean. Everything can be boring. Is going on a date asking about each other interests on a coffee date boring? (depends on the attraction in my opinion)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:05 AM
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Women are better than men at building friendships of course. Now if those friendships are really genuine "ehhh so and so"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:43 PM
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Make two dating profiles on an app of two guys, one hot, one average. Check the results. Spoiler you will see the difference as (average at BEST 1 match/week), the hot one will get 100 matches/week. Let's not talk about how do women treat you when, you're hot. THEY WILL START THE CONVERSATION: "Hey :)". Also the hot guy can start the convesation with "Hey..." and receive a response most of the time, imagine just imagine if an average guys started with "Hey..." -> no shot a girl will ever respond…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:26 PM
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Normal human interaction my ass. It's being forced to be in a group/social space. For example school. You notice a guy first day at school no big deal he is mehh if he would ask you then you will reject him which is fine. After you get to know him for being forced in the same space, you can have a different vision of him. Sad but true!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:30 PM
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"Character counts more with women" not in the beginning stages of dating/first time seeing him come on. "but immediate physical attraction isn't necessary for a woman to like a man after getting to know him" Geee I wonder how you decide if you want to invest the time to know him or not...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:18 PM
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key point here "over time" means more effort. And nowadays with internet dating profiles and meeting in person first time, instant attraction is more important than ever. Why would a woman try with a guy that she finds him okishhh, if there are "better" options out there. The trick here is that if he is only okishhh he will be put on the "slow burner" this just basically means he is not that important or a priority, he will be there as a "backup", and when/if she doesn't get with a guy that is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:01 PM
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Most of what you said is true, except of this "slow-burning" that's not a thing, it's just "settling". Guess the difference between fast and slow. It's attractiveness to the guy and the desire to "keep" him. If it's very attractive and is not giving red flags most women will be over him in no time, because they will want to "lock" him down, if not, too bad guy need to wait more and jump some hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:09 PM
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Why would I be upset about reality, and things that I can't change. The problem is that if she slept with other men faster means she had a better physical attraction to them. If you have/will have a boyfriend I dare you to tell in his face, especially if you made him wait. "I dated an ex and we had sex after 2 dates, but for you I cared more so I made you wait 7 dates." That simply means I "settled" for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:47 PM
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"Average" aka "ugly" in her view because most average women aren't attracted to average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:50 PM
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Psssss this might be true for majority of women "assume everyone is dating multiple people and that's expected" but it's not for majority of men, just a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:11 AM
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Please know what are you talking about, here is a definition https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bad_boy_archetype They can be non-conventional because they are very attractive, that shit will not fly with an average man, and if you think soo you are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:06 AM
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Of course it depends on the level of your physical and personality attraction to her if she decides that she wants more "effort" or put barriers, especially if she had hook-ups before. If she perceives you as very attractive she will be in your bed in no time I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:52 AM
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Majority of women consider majority of men unattractive! This is a generalization that is true. You ask some women out see how they react if they reject you -> you work on yourself (especially physically) and try again -> now you get some dates -> you get dates but it doesn't go further you wonder why -> you start to change/develop you personality, tell jokes etc -> finally you go again on a date and this leads to sex -> from here on it will lead to a relationship with the majority of women (exe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:21 PM
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True same if the same women is in the same situations with different guys right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:47 AM
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Or get THIS if they do it, they think you are "above average". As always this depends from person to person. Probably some women will give some "pity dates" let's see how it goes with this guy, and you manage to game her (show you character etc) will balance more the lacking of looks, if you manage to hook up with this you can be sure she kinda wants a relationship with you because you really seduced her. I will admit this is kinda rare for average men but it does happen. Tho I will admit if thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:24 AM
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For men, especially average "most women that are hooking up with you after the date they think you are good for them" this is TRUE, if a women hooks up with you, she most of the time wants a relationship. This is kinda your level-desirability as a man! You can't confront reality, if women want to play like that, some men will also, here are two choices. Either accept and be alone, or workout as much as you can and improve your look and check you desirability again. If you can then get some dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:06 AM
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You talk about men, but women have that problem dude, they think the guys that they are hooking up with and the guys they want for relationship(future) overlap! (lmaoo) And for average men hooking up with and dating should overlap can you guess why? Because most women that are hooking up with you after the date they think you are good for them that they can start a relationship from there. (I am not talking about gold diggers here).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:50 PM
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I mean it's not cope, CHAD has options, if you have options and you don't care => mean assholes, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:36 PM
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The problem here is that if she got a hook-up/s with guys that are really beyond her and only wanted them for sex/fun they will think that they are at this guys level "I hooked up with this guy, went on dates, he ghosted me... but I know now that is my level" this is pure delusion! The delusion that they think they are not AVERAGE because they got sex/attention from a guy above AVERAGE. This doesn't happen to men!!! The can't have that delusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:30 PM
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Nope, probably they try at the beginning right start with the top of their choices, and go down from there, but after a while they keep going down and they say to themselves "bro I'm really that ugly that no one wants me??"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:02 PM
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"The women in his league are the same ones who find him desirable." Nahh Nahh Nahh it's they find him desirable BEACAUSE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:57 PM
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My opinion: Single mother should date only single dads. The reason and this is true, YOU WILL NEVER BE THE 1ST PRIORITY, IT WILL ALWAYS BE THE CHILD. And if you don't have kids already. Should be the biggest deal breaker ever in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:51 PM
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Maybe you are correct with this "All men assume they are in the 20%." "but do men know this?" They are hit in the face with the facts (getting not matches/options) then they face reality and wake up after a while. And look again with your percentages 80%-20%. You are saying "Bro little guy, you are average, but you can't go for an average women (she is exactly like you) because she has higher standards than you (this means she thinks she deserves better), see those really below average women the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:46 PM
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Especially with dating apps, that questions is answered with the number of matches/options that you have. Have options means you are desirable! Average men don't have many options. I guarantee that if an average woman will make a dating account they will have the same number of matches in 1 week, that the average man has in 1 year!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:34 PM
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Ok, let's cut the bullshit especially on the dating apps, looks is king. Do you know that there, for guys that are average it means ugly? That is not true for average women 100% and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:30 PM
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True, but it's not realistic. This is exactly like you would have a ugly friend who is looking for a serious relationship and you will go: what about Chad he cheated on all his exes but I'm sure for you will make an exception. This soo bad faith...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:26 PM
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I keep seeing this crap, give me some guesses of percentages please, for both men and women, how much% from each are "desirable"? Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:15 PM
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*it's hard to find an attractive man so like an 8/10, that is out of my league or is a player to commit. There I fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:25 PM
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Average men are being approached first by women romantically probably maximum 2-3 times in their life! And even in these moments most men would not even know they were approached like that because they didn't had that experience prior. They would most of the time think "What does she want from me"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:48 PM
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I like how nice you addressed the obvious lmaoo. Of course I am talking about the foundation make up than changes appearance A LOT, like different persons LOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:14 PM
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Bruh what's so hard to understand that average men, can't get either of those on demand. Imagine complaining about options. The truth is women need to make a choice, when a guy (not average) is a lot better than her and she is average. Power dynamics are real, and the one that cares less is the winner. Women do it all the time filtering options via chatting etc. Men are filtering for physical attraction, but when on a date the women character is entitled etc, men are saying "Good for a hook up m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:44 PM
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Make-up is exactly misrepresenting who you are (physical appearance) vs when men are doing it (character appearance), is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:17 PM
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By that logic aren't women wearing lies on their face on dates (make up) ? Should men reject women, immediately when they see that she is wearing make up? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:10 PM
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Useless observation it happens also when men are asking the woman first. If it happens it happens. "Men have to like the woman more than she likes him or he has high odds of attempting to cheat on her." Same thing can be said about men, especially if it has more money than her. So men can go she needs to ask me out so I know she likes me more so she doesn't take advantage of me. It goes both ways so useless again. Again useless observation, can be said also about men, why would I risk marrying s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:44 AM
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Depends on the size of the city but you're probably right for big cities > 1 milion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:21 PM
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"There is never a time n existence that any woman, regardless of age, looks, weight, hygiene, etc is unable to "hookup" with hot guys of any physical or financial status." Regardless of these "looks, weight, hygiene" come on now. Hot guys have options even for hook-ups. They will not go for bad looks, big weight. Except a big fetish like you said! which is really small let's be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:54 PM
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"Angry women just want to avoid men." just for a short time like men with women btw. Then they are complaining: "Where did all the food men go" or extremely "All men should die".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:50 PM
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