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SubconsciousLady/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 04:53 PM
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This makes sense for sure. I do not know how to get over the post baby breast situation though. I guess in my mind, if I think they are grotesque, how could he not? Either way, it is complaining, and that just never works for a sexy mood! So I totally agree with you and will apply. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:19 AM
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Thank you for your response.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:18 AM
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I will try harder. I will investigate some tried and true seduction tactics!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:17 AM
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Understood :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:16 AM
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Great advice. We do quite a lot of tender touch. That we excel in and I will now bring it to the bedroom in a soft fem way :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:15 AM
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I have considered ordering TSW a few times now. Think I'll get that done ;) Thank you for your well thought out response!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:13 AM
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Yeah, I am treading so very lightly with this one...I just do not think it would go over well at all. It would just make him super down on himself. If in a few months our workout/diet routine does not show effect...I might try, but dang, almost not worth the hurt it could cause.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:12 AM
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How do you get over the flavor?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:10 AM
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This is true. As of tonight we have reworked our schedules to include morning gym time aside from our 3-4 nights of Muay Thai, as well as, no more munching after dinner. Maybe fresh fruit at the most.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:10 AM
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I actually feel confident that permanent damage has not been done. I will activate most of the advice given for my post, very much so including yours. I just need to chill out and grow with him sexually. I think I will not approach. I will instead, better myself even more. Make our home even better to come back to, and just be tender to him all around. I will cultivate an environment to allow him to also trust me and open up sexually with me. I will not bring this up as conversation again.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:09 AM
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This made me smile. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:04 AM
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I do need to trust that more, I see that my insecurities over post baby flat cakes is definitely more upsetting to me then him. This is all wonderful advice, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:04 AM
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I will try waiting. My compliments are very genuine, I do not fake anything period. I am truly attracted to my man in every way. Being subtle makes sense, thank you for your time and response!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 07:02 AM
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Just read it, thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:40 PM
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So this is great! Very well thought out, thank you for responding/ sharing. I will start NOW!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:39 PM
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I understand, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:36 PM
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He has told me a few times now, that he does not want to make me feel used...he wants to be respectful of me in every way. I have explained while I appreciate that so very much, I am his. He is mine. We are the only sexual option for one another, so please drop the considerations and get down!! It just makes him feel bad. I tell him during, and show him what I like. He does it then, just not again, unless I prompt it. Thank you for your response!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 05:31 AM
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Thank you. I have definitely considered this. He has no problem rising to the occasion once the bedroom door is closed and it's go time. Since our son came about, he put on about 20 lbs and feels like shit about it. We do pretty intense training three times a week (muay thai) but he is an late night snacker....I still tell him all the things I love about his body/member, and I MEAN it!! I have apologized verbally and through action about being so upset about this. I am in a constant state of con…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 05:28 AM
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just to add: r/DIYBeauty :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 05:40 AM
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Thank you, very nice break down. This will make the process easier to execute.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 06:07 AM
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This is very insightful, definitely appreciated. I do have a very hard time with trust in this context. This is incredibly hard to modify, sometimes I do not know where to start. Submitting here was a form of my start. I feel that every time I become angry or disrespectful, stopping immediately, and condition myself to respond in a calm respectful way. Stay actively accountable.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:29 AM
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Every single bit of this response resonated with me. This also gives me hope, because these outbreaks are more often then either of us can handle. It is too emotionally exhausting. So heavy. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:24 AM
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P.s.----NOT lame at all.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 11:02 PM
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You and topsul are totally correct. I often am running on water and coffee. (I know...!) I get a good breakfast in the morning, but am just too busy during the day. I make my SO a sandwich for lunch everyday, but stupidly, don't make two because my LO is usually in his play area crying for me, and I just can not eat or concentrate that way. I get anxious and unfocused. I've been getting Vega meal bars recently to supplement this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 11:01 PM
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Thank you so much. I completely agree with winning not being the goal or point. I guess I just can not handle being misunderstood, or feeling as though he has not considered that I have indeed thought of all angles to whatever topic we are arguing about. When I try to find a solution, I get too wrapped up in the details, breaking down how exactly we got to the point of arguing. Then I sound like a broken record. He always asks what my contribution to the solution is, and I just ....well, get ang…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:57 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:54 PM
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Thank you, will do for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:54 PM
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Thank you for your response. More recently it has been mostly with my SO, largely due to the fact that I am a SAHM and kinda secluded in my world over the past year. He and I started training at our gym again which is great, but it is just we three 85% of the time. The arguments usually come about, being honest....me being insecure or too sensitive about things and blowing it out of proportion. I have absolutely owned this with him, but I have not figured out how- in THAT moment- to stop acting …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:53 PM
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Thank you very much. May I ask what your thoughts are on the aftermath? How do I, in an authentic way, let him know I am sorry, often ashamed of my temper, and just really do not want to be the cause of hurt and stress in his life? There is a gap between the fight being over, and being able, through my actions, to show him I am trying to better myself in this area.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 05:17 PM
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