| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 29 | Wife had 2 affairs | Subject_Ad3847 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 06:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Wife had 2 affairsYup got a lawyer. I’m in Canada so I’m pretty sure I have to be separated a year before filling. We’re renting a house. My wonderful landlord working on a new lease that just states me and my boys live there. Also in Canada if they are able bodied and capable of working. Spousal support goes way way down. So just making sure my ducks are all in a row. Counselor is the next step | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Wife had 2 affairsYup. I’m not as shell shocked now. Also I learned because she’s a horrible spouse doesn’t make her a horrible mother. I should specify that my son found texts for who his mother was meeting. Nothing more but still it has to be dis jarring for him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Ex-Wife never posted pictures of us or our son when we were together. She has been posting regularly with her new boyfriend who she cheated on me and left me for. Any ideas why?Agree in my grandparents day grandma couldn’t divorce grandpa. If they could have the no fault divorce that we have now. Lots of grandmas and grandpas would have been divorced. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 01:49 PM |
| 4 | How did you find out about the affair partner?At that point you were already separated on the road to divorce. So yeah of course she’s going to do a hoe phase. They all do. The secret is to not to a fuck. Just focus on you and make sure if you have kids. Make sure they are well adjusted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 11:23 AM |
| 8 | Just an update since last year…So let me get this straight she cheated on you. With this guy and she’s complaining to you about him cheating on her. How did you not smile at the irony? Learn the phrase not my circus not my monkeys. My reaction would be have been so what do you want me to do? Keep the kids longer? if that’s not flexible because of what’s in the agreement. Then have the kids back on time and pull out and keep saying to yourself not my circus not my monkeys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | ReboundsHit the right on the proverbial nose. Work on ourselves be single and if you have kids be the best dad you can be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 01:46 AM |
| 1 | It is FINALIsn’t funny how many of them say their exe was a narcissist. Like jeez if all your exes are narcissists maybe they are not the problem? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | It is FINALWay to go man. Forgiveness is for yourself. You can’t live in happiness without forgiveness. Not forgiving is bitterness and it’s like drinking poison. You’ll miss new opportunities to be happy if you are bitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The New GfI like that chilling with whiskey. I can’t do cigars I’m allergic to the smoke. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/24 11:16 PM |
| 10 | BwaaahahahaIm still on your ex wife’s husband has a mistress. That is in contact with you. That now I have the song I’m my own grandpa in my head. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Men’s ringI got 180 for it so I'm like sold. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Men’s ringI did that | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Emotional advice for someone who was still investedThat's awesome advice where I am in Canada you have to be separated for a year before you file for divorce. That's going to come in handy for the next two years. I've only been separated a month and a half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Personality ChangeO my goodness mine said the exact same thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 10:09 PM |
| 10 | Would you date a woman who initiated her divorce?This all of this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Personality ChangeFather's Day in my case | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Lol I love it lol. My exe also has severe autism. So I'm like good luck buddy he might have a heart attack | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Yeah the guy she's hooking up with is saying all he wants is FWB and she's like I can change him once he gets to know me | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Why didn’t I get the talk?I did I'm like that's not how it works Then she promptly announced she wants to see other guys and left me and our 3 boys and hooked up with a 60 year man and told no one where she was going. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Yes except her idea was I stay loyal and her fuck other men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Yup we were married 16 years that's the only difference | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Yup mine too I'm in that exact same boat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Why didn’t I get the talk?She just didn't want to be married anymore. That's my STBXW | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone filed for divorce when they still loved their spouse, and there wasn't one main reason? Did you regret it?I'm separated from my wife so going through a divorce. Thanks for sharing your story.it gives me hope that I'll get through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/23 09:47 PM |
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