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Subject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:44 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:09 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:03 AM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:36 PM
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DISCUSSIONSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:36 AM
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Subject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:59 AM
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DISCUSSIONSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:46 AM
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FDS HUMORSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:13 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:52 PM
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FDS HUMORSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:35 AM
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STAY WOKESubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:53 PM
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DISCUSSIONSubject_Ticket/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:18 PM
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I’m so glad this thread exists because I had no idea what strip clubs were like until now. I bought into the libfem idea of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah but I imagine they also villainize children and mothers in those groups which is why I stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:30 PM
7

Soooo true omg 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:53 PM
42

Also we don’t suppress our emotions like men do. We handle them in a healthy way. When men bottle up their emotions, they will eventually come out later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:51 PM
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Omg a measuring tape?! Love how ruthless you are 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:36 AM
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Ok so I’m very short and have a hard time distinguishing between a guy whose 6’1 and 5’10, but I want to know if they’re lying because I get suspicious. Any tips on how to figure it out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:50 AM
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Queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:43 AM
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I hate it. They have such potential to actually be interesting. I’m really interested in human behavior but they always pander to libfem propaganda and always include kink and sex work in their videos, most of their content is unwatchable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:50 AM
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This is amazing!! Thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:04 AM
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I knowww and his way of comforting her when she’s sad is help her clean her room??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:58 PM
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Haha I see what you did there! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:19 PM
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I’ve seen 18 year olds on fds and tiktok also being passionate about educating on the dangers of age gap relationships, and thanking the women on here for sharing their experiences so they can learn from it. It’s definitely not jealousy but he can keep trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:42 PM
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Wait… long necks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:21 AM
9

Traitor is very fds too tho! Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:13 AM
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This is definitely a green flag, but also has to be followed by him getting therapy and taking action to heal after the abuse. Do you know if he did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:06 AM
6

In your opinion for non celeb women, how long do you think they should date before getting engaged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:43 AM
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I was just on that subreddit and everyone is justifying is predatory behavior, it's gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:42 PM
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STOPPPP I love this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:30 AM
13

I'm moving to Tumblr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:08 AM
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If it was a pattern like Leo then yes, but I do think it's different for men and women because of statistics like NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) which is associated with predatory behavior is much more prevalent in males. Also, over 90% of pedophiles are males. When I see an older man with a younger woman I immediately know he's a predator, but if it's the other way around (Olivia Wild and Harry Styles type thing) I give her the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 08:33 PM
85

Just a reminder that Graham is 31 and his girlfriend is 22 years old. All men are disappointing aren't they? Couldn't keep watching him after finding that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:11 PM
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Hypothetically, if you ever made a move on him do you think he would let it happen? or would he stop you and say "what are you doing? we're just friends." I used to have a guy friend I was really close with and realized he would definitely let things happen if I initiated something, but if he were to initiate I would stop him immediately. I also dated a guy that had a female best friend, and they would both say "oh they're just like a brother/ sister to me" but they would always flirt with each …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:53 AM
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Thank you so much for educating us. This is such an insane, horrible life to live, this community is here for you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:03 AM
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I need women to come up with something like this for men as well, it has to be a common name for middle aged white men. There are just so many problematic behaviors to choose from, so I don't even know where to start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:19 AM
6

I'm from the US but I watched season 6 with Shaughna and it was so good, are you watching the new one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:25 AM
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The way these p*dos on Reddit already opened multiple NSFW for her with thousands of subscribers make me sick. Men are the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:18 PM
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He's known her since she was 13!! Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:13 PM
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Nooo this is so painful to read I hate pickmes so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:34 AM
18

Can I suggest something? I recently discovered that the ladies on Tumblr have such great discussions about this, you should google "male gaze tumblr" or "choice feminism tumblr". I always feel really enlightened after reading their insights :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:37 AM
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Yeah it's actually fun to fantasize about embarrassing men, and making it look all easy for you while he's about faint! But in reality he's going to be super annoying and make up excuses for why he didn't win and accuse you of cheating... they're the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:55 AM
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Yeah but like why waste her energy and time on a psychopath like him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:32 AM
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100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:10 AM
10

Do you have an example for a post that reflected ideologies you disagreed with? I upvoted your comment, I'm just curious to know what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:07 AM
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Yeah I'm one of the women on here who always points out that makeup, hair removal, and plastic surgery are oppressive strategies that the patriarchy uses to control women. And if it was truly "self care" men would do it too. I think it's important to point out because it blew my mind when I learned about it. That said, I would never shame women for doing those things because I obviously understand the immense pressure that women face to look perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:36 AM
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100%. Rejecting what libfems find empowering and doing the opposite of what they promote is what's truly empowering to me, after being brainwashed by them for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:27 AM
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I actually really can't relate to their whole "I want to live alone in a forest and never talk to anyone again!" Because love and connection with family and friends are SO important to me. Friendships are what makes my life worth living! and sharing happiness and experiences with others! I think that subreddit just doesn't value those things or the women on there might be avoidant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:24 AM
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Make sure to check who he follows on instagram! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:12 AM
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I just checked it out and followed her, it's so beautiful and I hope she can heal from this. She's obviously way better than him, especially now that I know she had to deal with his drug addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:09 AM
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So true. I had no idea about it until today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:52 AM
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Lol he's a famous comedian and he's known for being wholesome and sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:05 AM
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WTFFF!!!! I didn't hear anything about this but the media sure cared to vilify Taylor Swift when she was dating like a normal 20 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:54 AM
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There goes the last male comedian I enjoyed watching...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:45 AM
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A quote by her: "I always look after my appearance, I don't understand women who don't - It's no wonder their husbands are signing up to OF and paying to look at me! They've only go themselves to blame." And yes, I feel really bad for her kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:38 PM
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She already has 3 young children and she makes her 15 year old daughter take pics of her (the mom) naked. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:35 PM
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A quote by her: "I always look after my appearance, I don't understand women who don't - It's no wonder their husbands are signing up to OF and paying to look at me! They've only go themselves to blame."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:33 PM
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I used to enjoy this channel and Jubilee, but I had to unsubscribe from both a few months ago when I realized that almost all of their videos are spreading libfem propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:57 AM
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When I think about HVW in my life that I want to be like, they would 100% walk away silently if someone didn't meet their standards, no explanations. I still have a little pick-me in me where I want to tell them they don't meet my standards in the hopes that they will try to change, but no more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:57 AM
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From another comment: "This more applies to the "natural look" which solely exists to conform to patriarchal beauty standards as opposed to the more outlandish, artistic and high fashiony looks." The women on this thread are not stupid. We know what type of make up we're pressured to wear compared to a more artistic avant garde look that would turn off LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:04 AM
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I find this triggering. How about we just teach women and girls their worth comes from non beauty related qualities like kindness, intelligence, creativity, hard work? Just like we teach boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:49 PM
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oh yeah I'm a swiftie! Taylor is the only artist I listen to. You're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:41 PM
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In regards to plastic surgery, 90% of people who get plastic surgery are women. I think that tells us everything; it's an oppressive strategy the patriarchy uses to control women and keep us in mental prisons. If it's just a choice why don't men choose to do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:23 AM
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Ugh I find the photoshoot super disappointing as well. It was so refreshing to see Billie not sexualize herself, she is literally the only mainstream female pop star that didn't do that. It's so sad because I found that seeing her NOT wear revealing outfits empowering and revolutionary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:20 AM
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Does anyone else feel like this is a blessing in disguise? Such an easy way to weed out LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:11 AM
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God I could never tolerate seeing posts like these, it literally feels so triggering. FDS is pretty much the only subreddit I go on and I never check the popular page, I have my inner peace back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:02 AM
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Yes. Literally every single female pop artist does shit like this because they've been brainwashed so hard. Billie was such a gem but did you see her recent photoshoot? I'm so sad about it. :( I only listen to Taylor now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:58 AM
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Yup 100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:01 AM
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Happened to me multiple times, super disappointing. I always message the women privately now about FDS, highly recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:59 AM
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Yeah, it's internalized misogyny/ internalized racism. https://youtu.be/l-VWQlkzHr4 This video was a really great introduction to internalized misogyny and pickmes if you're interested. I always recommend it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:21 AM
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This comment is so perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:07 PM
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I truly felt so empowered when I went from wearing revealing, tight cloths to the second style you described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:28 AM
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Of course you like how smooth your legs feel, you've been brainwashed by the patriarchy that you need to have smooth legs and we've never been presented with examples of women NOT having smooth legs, ever. And to rebel against it is extremely hard. It's dangerous to say "I just like how it feels" because it's so much deeper than that and it's very libfem choice feminism. Why don't men shave their legs if it feels so nice? I think it's totally okay to shave your legs as long you realize it's an o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:25 AM
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Men are so emotional and violent. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:00 AM
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I think the problem is that they gaslight women in their 20's to think that older men are attractive. Or even girls who are teenagers, that's why it's important to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:03 PM
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The emoji thing is so funny because I bet most of these males are on the doge coin subreddit being cringy af with their emojis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:41 PM
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This is so good!! It's been such a relief to find out I'm demisexual and if a guy told me he was too I would probably fall for it. Not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:02 AM
24

Jeannie from The Real, I always cringed when she said that. Such a pick me show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:01 AM
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I don't think this is a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:58 PM
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This is the answer. Also, if you need love and connection then invest in female friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:57 PM
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Oh just checked it out and it's great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:33 PM
29

Ohmygod I miss pinkpill so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:32 PM
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FDS is the only community I've seen that truly and genuinely cares about sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:46 PM
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This is perfect. She's perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:45 PM
5

This is amazing I hope you make more in the future!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:16 AM
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YES I'M SO EARLY CAN'T WAIT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:11 AM
68

It's literally safer to be a male rapist/ pedophile/ murderer than an innocent woman or child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:48 AM
13

#5 is so important so she doesn't feel like her worth comes from her beauty but from the other things you mentioned! Other compliments I like: Funny, expressive, fun to be around, confident, intelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:29 PM
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You can never verify consent. Even if you could, any type of porn (including OF) still changes expectations around sex, causes ED, fuels sex trafficking, promotes misogyny, and will get people to want to watch crazier and crazier porn (incest, pedophilia) because that's the way porn affects the brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:18 PM
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That's obviously not true, it would be nice if it was tho. Those subreddits have been around for years and there hasn't been one case where users were tracked down by the FBI, men would stop using them by now if it were to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:02 PM
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I need an interview with Reddit's CEO where the interviewer shows him all the evidence of how misogynystic subreddits influence men to murder and assault. And to ask him "are you proud of this?" He always gives the stupid "free speech" justification, for their pedo subreddits as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:23 PM
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Would love to hear your thoughts as an ex stripper!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:31 AM
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I feel like she tries to justify cheating/ encourage women to stay with men who cheated. But I haven't listened to her in a while so I might be wrong. She just gives me pick me vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:27 AM
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Thank you, I'll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:47 AM
3

Thank you! That sounds really interesting!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:34 AM
2

I'll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:32 AM
3

The like to dislike ratio and the comments are so upsetting. I couldn't find one positive comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:04 AM
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You ladies are amazing!! Can't wait for the next episode!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:51 AM
63

Exactly. He's still gonna cheat on her lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:24 AM
22

Can we please make them famous? <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:33 AM
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The statistics for women who get blood clots while on the pill are shocking. Last time I checked it was 1 in 1,000 women, and I heard so many stories where the blood clots were in their heart or lungs. So scary. Sorry if she talked about this in the podcast, I just started listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:18 AM
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Just shows how much they don't care about us. Asking us would be better because the advice online is horrible and every woman is different. Most men are pornsick anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:59 AM
280

So much gaslighting. "If you really love the person..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:24 PM
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Fertility is unique in every woman I think this is a perfect way to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:53 PM
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Danny follows a bunch of half naked "ig models". He always rubbed me the wrong way tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:05 PM
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This doesn't happen too often tho... I don't think HVM want to be with pick mes tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:56 PM
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Such a stupid myth. My mom had twins naturally when she was 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:39 PM
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Disgusting, he's a classic narcissistic abuser. It needs to be talked about more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:12 AM
5

Very unpopular opinion but I get this vibe from Harry Styles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:57 AM
4

YES YES YES love that song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:51 AM
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Wait are you sure? So if I'm logged out I should be fine? cuz now I'm scared after reading this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:48 AM
4

I just did the same!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:45 AM
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The scrotes want to shame and embarrass women because women can't truly be interested in "nerdy" interests!!! Also they have a superiority complex and they're insecure because this woman is much more beautiful and creative than they will ever be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:30 AM
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They're so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:20 AM
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Ugh I didn't about witchesvspatriarchy... it makes so much sense now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:57 AM
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It's quarantined (which we all know doesn't do much) if you just google it it will come up, instead of searching on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:15 AM
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It's fucking disgusting. It's called rapeconfessions. "A place for former and would-be rapists and sexual abusers to discuss their urges and misdeeds."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:57 AM
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Right?? They've already banned subreddit like pinkpillfeminism and blackpillfeminism which were very FDS like. And yet they keep degenerate subreddits around that promote abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:09 AM
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So proud and grateful for this community!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:33 PM
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Just wanted to express my hatred for couples who say: "we're pregnant" and people who defend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:28 PM
10

Oh no... that's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:56 PM
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OP can you send her a message to come here? It doesn't hurt to try. It's just so upsetting to me that she's being gaslighted like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:42 PM
1

FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:54 PM
5

Oh you're right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:33 PM
7

OP this is such a great discussion post and I love how you challenge comments telling you to "just do whatever makes you feel good", I agree with you that it goes deeper than that. What I learned from the women in this thread is that there might be some benefit, but it also comes with a lot of negative consequences and a waste of our resources, so overall it's not a good investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:21 AM
5

If I want to post a screenshot from Tumblr/ Twitter that aligns with FDS and I'm praising what the person is saying. Do I still needs to black out the username?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:43 AM
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Yeah so that goes for what we find attractive in men too tho. And men (hopefully) care about things like hygiene. We're talking about beauty standards that only women have to face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:07 AM
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How come straight men don't like glamour then? Capitalism (makeup companies) prey on women so they can spend their money, time , and energy on doing these makeup looks and control women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:02 AM
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I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:50 AM
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Why should our worth come from beauty tho? We feel this way becuase we've been brainwashed by the patriarchy and capitalism. Men don't spend money, energy, time on doing most things that women do, so why should we? I struggle with this too but I think women should let go of the idea that their worth come from beauty and find it in other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:49 AM
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The things you find attractive in women can still be formed by the male gaze. Queer women are not free of internalized misogyny, the male gaze, and beauty standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:20 AM
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The codependency subreddit is great if you struggle with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:29 PM
2

I have never seen a comment on here saying that "sex is bad" or anything similar. There are literally threads encouraging women to discuss what they enjoy during sex, the women on here always talk about how they want romantic, passionate sex, and to be cherished. They are very open about liking sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:56 PM
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These pick mes really want to lower other women's standards. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:13 AM
2

Yes 100% to everything you said. You should make a post about this if you have the energy lol, I feel like FDS members should know this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:05 AM
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Thank you, why are there women in this thread blaming the workers and not the men? Just read a comment that said that men cheating with sex workers is the number 1 reason sex work should not exist. No. Let's criticize sex work, not sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:32 AM
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Yes I agree, but I think we should definitely extend empathy towards them. They are so brainwashed by liberal feminism and the patriarchy. The woman on the news might be fired if she refused to wear lipstick. I didn't know any of this until I found FDS. Women should know their worth does not come from beauty, but how do we get them to understand this in a patriarchal and capitalist society that preys on women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:48 PM
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I upvoted your comment and agree with everything you said except for the "waitressing is close to sex work." I think that's dangerous to say because it doesn't take into account how sex work encourages men to think of us as objects and are bodies as purchasable, and basically what all the other comments are pointing out about sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:39 PM
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Make sure he video chats you and tries to get to know you before you meet again over there so you can vet properly! Trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:46 AM
2

I remember feeling like this with my ex when he told me had snapchat but I didn't say anything to him. Are there any red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:43 AM
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I don't get the last picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:03 AM
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If you want to be a good male ally to women you should call out your friends for being creeps, bring attention to the harassment women face on a daily basis, educate yourself on the patriarchy, and acknowledge you male privilege. Not compliment us on our looks so YOU can feel special. Seriously do you want us to applaud you and give you a medal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:54 AM
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Did anyone watch Jenn Im's pregnancy announcement and felt like something was off? I know it's normal to be scared but it didn't even look like she wanted children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:15 AM
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Oh I heard they are the biggest pick mes in the world lol FDS hates them because they promote bullshit hook up culture, BDSM, and libfem ideas that harm women. You can search up "call her daddy" on here and a bunch of posts will pop up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:08 PM
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Yeah I just don't think any HVM are busy criticizing women's bodies and whether they got plastic surgery or not. The thing is that only women face these crazy beauty standards, men don't. It's definitely not innate, it's from porn and the patriarchy and capitalism preying on women's insecurities and trying to oppress them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:02 PM
1

What's CHD? I agree with your suggestions btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:56 PM
2

They should always pay! I was struggling with this too in the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:55 PM
1

HI does anyone have access to the Vindicta subreddit? I was browsing it a long time ago and it's definitely not for me, but some of the posts really stuck me and one post in particular! It was one of the top posts of all time about how society only values effortless beauty and men shame both women who don't get plastic surgery, and the ones who do get surgery so women can't win. That post and comments totally changed my life, the women on that subreddit have a great understanding of how the patr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:52 PM
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I don't think men actually care when women get plastic surgery. These are LVM who say that to make women insecure. But also who the fuck cares what they think? Living in this world as a woman is so hard. Also, would it really be for YOU? spending $10,000, risking getting breast implant illness, gruesome recovery. 90% of people who get plastic surgery are women. I think the solution is for women to let go of the idea that their worth comes from their beauty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah I don't get it lol. But her tiktok is glorious! She always makes fun of incels and pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:07 PM
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Thank you for admitting that you only do these things because of the immense societal pressure that's put on women and that you would stop if it wasn't there. I hate when women say it's just stuff that make them happy or it's their "self care". No. These are strategies the patriarchy uses to oppress women. They take so much time, energy, money, and pain. If it was self care men would do it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:42 AM
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I only got one award on an FDS post I made, I went to check their profile and it was from a man. They're so mentally ill, spending money on us just so we notice them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:33 PM
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The only time I got an award on an FDS post it was from a man... very strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:28 PM
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It just doesn't seem very high value to me to masturbate to pictures of celebrities, and yeah.. to sexualize them. I hate when LVM sexualize female celebs to no end. My goal is to be a HVW, not to mirror men's shitty behavior. I don't think this has anything to do with the structural power imbalance, this whole post is about how women shouldn't watch porn even though it's mostly men who do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:08 PM
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Your self awareness is great, I believe in you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:14 PM
13

I mean isn't the point to not be dependent on anything like that to reach an orgasm? Of course it's better than video porn but I think it's a slippery slope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:35 PM
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People can also get addicted to aural porn and then not be able to orgasm without it so I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:31 PM
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Genuine question, isn't looking at pictures of hot guys the same as men looking at instagram models? Also, I would definitely have a problem with a guy watching a sexualized film with a female celebrity. This feels hypocritical. Edit: Why am I getting downvoted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:28 PM
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I also lost respect for myself and saw myself as a sex object. Haven't watched it in over two years and my self esteem sky rocketed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:23 PM
3

I'm so fascinated by your username and profile picture LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:25 AM
10

This series is so good!! Please do Shan Boodram!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:00 AM
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Yeah I think you're right! I think it's important for new members to really know how depraved LVM are so they can get on board with why we're so ruthless, so maybe a different sub like the other commenter mentioned would be the way to go. It definitely feels like it's just more triggering and it's just full of negativity. I would love to hear tips on how to stop feeling triggered from the women on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:44 AM
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I think they just want a safe place to also vent about LVM, sometimes seeing something like that triggers us and we want to share with other women. I personally just ignore these type of posts, there's plenty of other ones to engage with. You can check out FemaleLevelUpStrategy (our sister subreddit) there's no posts like that over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:05 AM
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A part of this is that women feel depressed BECAUSE OF their husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:58 AM
3

He probably has a bad relationship with his own dad because that comment really hit a nerve for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:15 AM
49

Being single is heaven compared to being with a porn addicted LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:40 PM
139

Going through a breakup and this really helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:34 PM
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You'll feel so free once you leave him. You deserve a man who doesn't watch porn. They exist. Also, go on PornFreeRelationships subreddit so you can understand why it's not worth it to date a porn addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:30 PM
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You edited yours too and you're extremely hostile towards another woman for nothing. Yes, most of h3 fans are probably incels, but she wasn't even "triggered" she was probably just confused on why you would comment that under her comment saying she's a fan, you are the one who is attacking another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:03 PM
2

Yeah her reaction was really weird considering this is a thread with women who have watched the podcast before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:03 PM
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I don't think so. I think he has a lot of new viewers so I'm really glad she called him out because I've been noticing all the things OP was saying when I tried watching them recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:58 PM
2

What are you talking about? She's been an FDS member for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:42 PM
1

Even if it was an "incel hate" sub, is it really that wrong to criticize men who hate women and believe all women should be r*ped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:08 AM
5

Was he called out on this disgusting statement by his fanbase? I mean also in nature males are the ones who try to impress women with their looks and beauty (peacocks, birds, fish, butterflies). Which is definitely not the case in humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:01 AM
19

Omg what were the comments saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:20 PM
3

None of them. But I think with certain cultures they raise men to be extremely misogynistic, more so than others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:58 PM
77

Everyday I feel more certain about never having kids with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:42 PM
186

Agreed. I watched his pornfree series with his wife on his youtube channel. He's been pornfree for over 10 years now. Here's the video if anyone is interested: https://youtu.be/lxE0N_08iFw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:28 PM
15

I think even most pick mes will understand the true purpose of FDS after scrolling through posts for like 30 seconds. I know I did. Ok but how can you sit through Ethan talking about porn and disrespecting Hila?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:27 PM
36

NONONO stop that proposal cannot be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:22 PM
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I actually thought Hila was secure and confident, just introverted. That's why I was shocked about the porn thing. I think she's just brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:03 PM
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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POST!!! I watched his David Dobrick videos with Trisha and then I was like ok let me check out one of his videos with his wife. I really liked Hila, she actually seems secure to me so this situation was so disappointing. I was so shocked when he started to talk about porn and how "Tomb Raider is so fucking hot" right in front of her and on camera!!! That is so fucking disrespectful ughh! It made me sick and I obviously stopped watching. He is such a LVM, and all the me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:01 PM
14

Ugh idk I feel like most of the lyrics are super male gazey and porn like and full of BDSM. "I wanna gag, I wanna choke I want you to touch that lil' dangly thing That swing in the back of my throat." "I'm a freak bitch, handcuffs, leashes Switch my wig, make him feel like he cheating Put him on his knees, give him something to believe in Never lost a fight, but I'm looking for a beating." But I definitely agree about Beyonce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:05 PM
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It was one of the first subreddit I ever went on cuz people wouldn't shut up about it, truly horrifying. It was 2 years ago and they had like 250,000 subs at the time. Makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:42 AM
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One time I met one of them in real life at a party! It's so obvious. All he could talk about was their philosophy without saying the words red pill. "Do you think if a guy is a 6 he should be with a chick who's a 9??" And just made up vocabulary that I didn't understand. And of course, he had super rapey vibes to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:28 AM
9

Her make up artist that got into the car accident is a man not a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:04 AM
38

I don't think they want to be role models. That's so much pressure to put on women that we never put on men. No one ever says "Tyga should set a better example for the youth and be a better role model like Bill Gates."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:37 AM
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That's so true, I don't even like these women but I always find myself defending Kylie because of everything you said. Also, when you are bullied every day of your life when you're a teenager being called "the ugly sister" by everyone of course she's going to get plastic surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:11 AM
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Definitely going through this. And it makes me feel so upset and hopeless whenever I watch something like that. It was so hard to get through the Grammys with that WAP performance (of course the hypocrisy regarding it is disgusting as well), I hope more women wake up and realize it's degrading, not empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:44 AM
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I wish someone made a post but with the genders flipped. Where the husband talks about his wife having sex with his brother, the reaction would be completely different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:03 AM
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I seriously can't believe this is the world we live in! He'll definitely start buying her gifts using her money next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:51 AM
8

I'm not Russian either but this is a video of her live performance and the English lyrics are in the description. https://youtu.be/l01wa2ChX64
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:40 AM
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This makes me so sad, I hope she's ok. I'm not Russian but her song is definitely my number one pick right now!! And whenever I listen to it I feel so powerful and confident! Her stage presence is everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:36 AM
14

Aww <3 It was interesting to learn about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:00 AM
42

LOL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:56 AM
21

Haha I just googled what eftpos is because I'm not from Australia and yeah that's the one! not coupons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:46 AM
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Omg! that's a perfect comparison for a gold digging LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:43 AM
16

Ooo this is really fun and the lyrics are great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:01 AM
6

Oh I will make sure to download it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:05 PM
2

I just can't get over "Break up with your girlfriend, I'm bored." And 34+35 "You know I keep it squeaky!" and on the remix Doja saying: "Forget your girl, pretend that I'm her." Like how did she allow that? I think some of her old music was fine but it's getting worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:09 PM
1

It's kind of different because at least Khole doesn't have the whole "I'm better than other girls, my pussy is magical and I'm a sex goddess" attitude that Jhene has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:40 PM
2

She is definitely a pick me, and unlike you I can't listen to pick me music. I ditched Ariana Grande and Doja Cat too after being on FDS. Such pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:27 PM
36

"Let's shame women for protecting children from p*dophiles instead of shaming the p*dophiles!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:40 AM
14

Finally a man that has actual EMPATHY towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:57 PM
7

Ugh I HATE the monotone voice, it's so annoying how much people respect him in the comments even when his misogyny is so obvious. Really glad Ana made that video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:33 PM
4

Yeah! Which is completely different than being a psychologist, getting a counselor PhD takes 3 years as opposed to 6 years of a PhD psychology program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:24 PM
12

This is an amazing video from Ana Psychology breaking down the red flags she noticed in Dr. Grande's videos. Apparently he's not even a psychologist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc49BXf9Lpw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:07 PM
8

It's so sad. If you go on the sex subreddit and sort by new, every other post is "my bf watches porn during or before we have sex, and he tells me it's normal. I feel insecure about it, am I overreacting?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:56 PM
3

Hi can you tell me what her account is? I need to follow her and send to my friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:18 AM
9

Send her over here! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:06 PM
60

I know a woman's worth does not come from her beauty or age, but it's just so funny how incels thinks FDSers are old and ugly because all the girls that get posted on here that preach FDS principles are SO gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:25 PM
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Omg I have CHILLS!! You ladies are so precious and amazing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:57 PM
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