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You have to earn the right to turn down shitty sex. You earn that right by knowing in your soul that you are a man who women want to fuck, your life is in order, you have abundance mentality. If you are a man like that, the turning down bad sex comes pretty naturally and isn't a big deal. Simple as sending back a steak you don't like. OP has a ways to go, as many of us do, to reach a mentality where he truly isn't resenting his wife, because he won't have time to.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 09:29 PM
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If you can't think of a single thing you might be passionate about and want to do, then you aren't ready to get a life. You could still box if you really wanted to. What is the badass version of you 5 years from now good at? Flipping property? Sailing? Dodge ball? Start doing that.
/r/askMRP14/12/20 08:20 PM
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Another FR completely centered around sex and "pulling" on tinder as validation. "The other areas of my life are improving at a similar pace, but they aren't why most guys come to this sub" Very true. Sounds like you are still one of those. I get it, it feels good right now to see forward progress... Keep going until you realize women have very little to do with your success.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 09:56 PM
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Keep learning how to be a better you and act like you don't know or care how many times you have sex because it's always there when you want it... until you don't have to pretend anymore. How excited are you to do something that she keeps nagging you about? The only numbers you should track are gains and goals you have control over.
/r/askMRP07/04/20 01:28 PM
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I see. Generally best course of action is to continue to STFU if you're early on in making yourself better. Playing into her frame and acting like everything is a comfort test will just kick the event down the road a bit. You need to decide whether or not you are comfortable with the "worst case scenario" of her actually going through with divorce proceedings. Blow ups like this are often high energy tests to see if you really are enforcing a frame, super evident by the language she chooses. She…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:27 PM
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"You're not being a rock" What did you say to her that prompted her to throw this little jab?
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:17 PM
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Its delaying you. You're quantifying your results with something you can't and don't control. So, stop. Re-read this, it's a lesson that took me too long to learn. I think this is a common pitfall of early progress.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 04:30 PM
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An attractive female hooking up with attractive males is just human nature. If she hasn't disrespected you, and isn't hiding money issues or something that would directly affect your marriage... worry about keeping yourself as attractive as possible, you'll never be able to fully predict what a woman will / won't do, only that your best chance at a happy life and marriage is becoming who you want to be.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:43 PM
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Yes. According to the post, OP judges himself by how much women reward him.
/r/askMRP23/10/19 08:34 PM
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Sure. For the first 12 - 18 months of me making changes, I caught myself too often looking at sex as the indicator of success... I'd successfully day game, make some goals and start to work towards them and if I had sex a few times that week, I'd chalk it up as a win. Likewise, when I didn't have sex for a week or two, I'd start getting frustrated and then kick it in, make more lifting progress etc. until I got the sex number up. This led to me plateauing and not seeing gains in my life, hobbies…
/r/askMRP13/04/19 05:35 PM
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It sounds like your day game has gotten an upgrade, the "push - pull" I can relate with and am still learning, "Way of the Superior Man" references that tension and balance a lot. Don't make sex the goal, this reads a bit like a fishing story. Tough lesson for me to take to heart was / is that good sex is a side effect of something much better.
/r/askMRP13/04/19 02:19 PM
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I caught some interesting parallels in No Country for Old Men -- Both Josh Brolin and Tommy Lee Jones played men who seemed to know what they were doing, had a plan and didn't let people sway them. Brolin even reacted to his wife by telling her to stop nagging him or he'd take her in the back and screw her or something which made me laugh. I'm not sure it was a main theme of the movie, but it was good to watch a film with stoic men doing shit.
/r/askMRP04/04/19 02:21 PM
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You write like an intelligent guy with a nagging case of oneitis. I read the reasons why you don't want to move to this new part of the country and now I've read what you think you want out of life. Have you? Don't try and convince yourself that what you want can still happen in this new place. The only reason you're considering moving is because your favorite girl is moving there. You've convinced me that you shouldn't follow a woman to a place with less prospects for you and your goals. She's …
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:09 PM
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No
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:53 PM
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This was put very well, and your comment I agree with. I'm willingly bias as film and TV are a passion and involved in my work, but I think a visual "made-up" scenario or example can hammer a point home, even in MRP. Much of the required reading often uses examples, real or fictional to illustrate a point.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 08:15 AM
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Draper is a good depiction of several qualities that are displayed when you take these strategies to heart, specifically his approach to work and women. The character is also unhappy at a deeper level, using a fake name to disguise his insecurities and not taking care of his home life. Work Don seems to get it, while home Don is questioning everything, so all in all he is something like a guy swallowing the pill but not getting the point yet to me. I don't strive to be a guy too afraid to confro…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 03:20 PM
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Seconded. https://youtu.be/LlOSdRMSG_k
/r/askMRP19/03/18 03:10 PM
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Reporting on such inconsequential statements like this is ruining media credibility and taking up the time that should be spent reporting actual consequential events. His statement has 0 effect until the media creates it. Any negative results of some random hypothesis an ex tennis pro said are on them.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/17 01:51 PM
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What you've described are side effects because you are doing things differently / better. It will get harder to reach the next level. Don't slack now that you are getting a few good sex events, it will only stall progress, I have been at it for 2 years now and it took 6 months for me to learn that lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 06:17 PM
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