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Red Pill TheorySubmissively_yours/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:35 PM
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Submissively_yours/r/askTRP18/09/16 04:57 AM
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The guys who text me the least are the ones that I think about the most. If I feel worried about bothering them/being annoying, I’m like 100x more likely to answer on the occasion they do text. But they usually seem busy, have other friends, and the “ask” isn’t “hey I want to see you” it’s usually more like a short little something like “what time you off work?” And I’ll say “just now ;)” and then he might respond “good, get some rest, unless you wanna swing by first” — it makes me feel more lik…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:38 AM
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Most chicks at the gym dread being hit on there. You should be able to tell if the smile they flash you is a real IOI or just a polite smile.. a good rule of thumb is if she is wearing designer gym clothes (think Lululemon, PINK or Fabletics) she’s probably open, versus girls in shitty clothes almost certainly don’t want to be approached, especially if not fit. And very fit women in real athleticwear (Nike, Adidas, etc) are probably taking their time there seriously. Look for the colorful strapp…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:05 AM
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So like, this super Alpha I know has two Ltr girlfriends that live with him and wear slave collars and do what He wants and He fucks other girls on the side especially after they find out about his other girls, and he’s only 5’7” but no girl seems to care because he just with-holds affection so good that it drives the ladies mad and his arms are like fuckin tree trunks because he goes to the gym twice a day and makes mad money too because he makes his boss suck his dick.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:56 AM
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Uhh I play video games and watch anime while I swipe on Tinder, or sometimes cook food or like .. basically whatever pops into my head. Do what you want. Not everything has to be exciting all the time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:51 AM
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Go to Vegas and have fun, in whatever way that means to you.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:32 PM
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If you’re worried about “unfair,” then charge her less than half the payment as rent. In example, if it was $1500 per month, charge her $600 for “rent” while you pay $900. Still saves you from paying the whole but gives leeway for “fairness.” But in transactions like this it isn’t your responsibility to make sure she is treated fairly, it is hers
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:51 PM
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If she finds herself believing that she is your equal (50/50 owners) and she can find a way to take advantage of you in any way, chances are she will lose interest, branch swing to someone who she perceives as “above” her level, and subsequently fuck you over.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:49 PM
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Don’t put her name on the mortgage. Don’t let her be 50% owner. Have her pay you “rent” that you put towards the mortgage payment, but do not under any circumstances give her any actual ownership.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:27 PM
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Thank you for the suggestion. I like that look, though the back of my hair is unfortunately a bit uneven still from the breakage so it ends up looking more messy than elegant, I think..
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:39 PM
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Thank you for the reference! Her hair is really cute.. I need to watch that movie, I guess. :) I love that kind of look, and barrettes are basically my favorite thing on the planet hehe! I’ve been letting my natural color come in, going to trim the ends a half inch at a time or so until all the heavily bleached bits are cut out. I got this rose oil deep conditioning mask and it makes me smell like an evening in a summer garden 😍 Definitely taking biotin as well- pre-natal vitamins, actually, the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:37 PM
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It sounds like you have a good amount of dread game going on. As long as she hasn't lied/cheated towards you, I don't think the past stuff matters - or has helped you to secure her desire towards you. Also, this should be on askTRP not the main sub.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 06:54 PM
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Many people feel the desire to have children, want to make families. A red pill family was once the standard, in Ye Olden Days. Gender role conformity being dismantled by modern feminism ruined many marriages of those raised at its teat, but happy red-pill marriages can and do exist.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 03:22 AM
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"Helga" is usually an attractive name to guys who want to be tied up, just sayin'.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 09:40 PM
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Wear it like armor, man. Every joke cracked at you is a chance to show your own sense of humor and self-security. Crack jokes back at them, or at yourself- it doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 05:06 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly with the sentiment- though many times, I force myself to think of something as easy. I tell myself, "All the assholes out there who say that quitting smoking is hard are just pussies, I don't even feel any withdrawal symptoms, they probably don't exist," or something along those lines. And then sometimes, it works, and it really is just that easy to change the mindset and 'get over' how 'hard' something is.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:59 AM
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Yeah of course that's not the goal-- self improvement for the man's sake, which just creates sexual attraction from women as a byproduct.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:16 AM
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Therefore, a man who continues to self-improve and increases his value would then keep a female's sexual interest, no?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:02 PM
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She's post wall and desperate for your attention, do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:02 AM
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Set higher goals, perhaps? Seek women that are more of a challenge.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 01:56 AM
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I never said that I don't feel good. ;P if your victories don't make you feel satisfied, change your goals.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:56 PM
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It seems to me that coming up with an effective copy/paste would be a small time investment that would yield better results. I'm just not sure what would be the most effective kind of approach to copy/paste.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:54 PM
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I'm not saying you are wrong, I'm saying that online game is very different. There's plenty of attractive people on there, or people who can look attractive enough in pictures, that just "hi" from a decently good-looking guy is never going to be looked at
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:03 PM
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Objectively, life is meaningless and suicide is amoral- you either create a meaning for yourself and choose to experience the world while you have the chance, or you opt out. No one can decide for you.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:15 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral, and feeling guilty for applying it successfully is unnecessary.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:08 PM
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Life has always been a game. It was a survival RPG back in the day and now it's basically the Sims - little happiness bars that get filled up by making up goals/dreams and then satisfying those.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:03 PM
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Exactly this. 89 are losers, what makes #90 not seem like a loser too?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:01 PM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1vfm8g/practical_applications_of_red_pill_theory_in_an/?utm_source=mweb_redirect&compact=false
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:36 PM
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You know, they say that's the loneliest number.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:31 PM
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There's at least 90 "Hi"s in every girl's inbox on that site no exceptions
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:28 PM
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They adapting by going more internet content than paper ...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:59 PM
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Some would argue that pregnancy is similar to a short-term disability
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:18 PM
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Billionaires almost certainly get prenups.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:12 PM
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Newspaper failing is nothing to do with the "population know[ing] news is bs by now," it's the fact that the Internet is free, faster, and available on a device that almost everyone carries around in their pocket.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:08 PM
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"Error is preferable to indecision." - Burr
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 02:59 PM
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Women are just as likely to be well-meaning in their first relationships. Men are sexually driven and women are security driven. Exposure to new influences will shape a person's own goals and desires, be those influences hotter girls, more money, feminism/other cultural "movements," etc. No one starts off evil, or good. We are all bundles of nerves and blood, animals just trying to carve out an existence. Morality developed with communication, because then people could say "I wouldn't want X to …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 07:09 PM
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She lets you do anything you want, yeah? You want to see other girls? Sounds like you have a pretty good house-slave situation. Get that girl on a plate. Also this should be in AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:23 PM
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I'll have my perfectly-seasoned medium-rare elk loin, juicy and tender with crispy fat marbling, drizzled with a sweetly-tart blackberry and shallot port reduction, topped with a peppery poached quail egg. You can have your rice and beans. Avoiding "getting fat" is about portion control and exercise. Telling other people not to do the things they enjoy is stupid.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:13 PM
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Can one love someone they do not respect? I suppose that is the way one loves a pet. Love without truth is stagnation in ignorance. This is the blue pill. The simple, fragile lie that allows contentment without thought. Truth without love is pain. This is the first stage of the Red Pill. Many are stuck here, though, and let the pain infect the truth. It becomes bitterness and hate. An SJW believes a false "truth," and so can be content in "righteous anger," in a similar way. The love of truth is…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:42 PM
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Are you twelve? Good grief.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:57 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. shrug
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:34 PM
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Just buy a few pieces at a time that you can incorporate with thing you already have. Some tank tops, t-shirts, skirts and shorts can be picked up at Ross/Marshall's/TJ Maxx/forever 21 for a couple of dollars in one afternoon. It can be a slow process to update your wardrobe, take baby steps.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:32 PM
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Women do have their own Red Pill. RedPillWomen is a subreddit that exists.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:53 PM
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Part of me says "that sounds like a weak-person excuse" and part of me is like "it's good to mention working hard at work/implying a difficult job" Maybe not "rough" day at work, but a work project on your mind or something.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:52 PM
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Ahhh ok that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 12:20 PM
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I may get hate for this, but I think that Trans people are a fad. Yeah, there are some genuine trans persons out there who really applied themselves to making the switch, but they are a small percentage when compared to all the people out there who are claiming to be "trans" or "agender" or "twospirit" - it's a bunch of nonsense that women lacking clarity/espousing feminism started to hamster into existence.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:57 AM
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But when people use food stamps on organic food, people start accusing them of taking too much money from the government and resent them for eating better than those on minimum wage. It's all lose/lose.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:52 AM
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How would you say you apply Red Pill philosophy in your relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:49 AM
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I don't want the government telling anyone that they are required to do just about anything, or that more than is already illegal should be illegal. The more "morality" is imposed by the rule of law, the more the government can make up its own morality to enforce. But beyond legal issues brought up, I agree mostly. Although I still giggle at dog shaming pics. Why is posting pictures of your kids on social media bad?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:46 AM
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My mother was a fairly high-power businesswoman when I was born. Pros to being raised by a nanny: I can speak Spanish and am a way better cook and seamstress than my mom. Cons: I didn't really have a good relationship with my mom until I was in college. I resented her for not being there, and managed to simultaneously resent any time she tried to "meddle" in my life. We did fix things, but I often wonder how it could have been.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:41 AM
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I'm permanently sterilized, so resolved am I in avoiding even the possibility of pregnancy. I feel a little bit sick when I am around babies and pregnant women - it's a bit of a phobia. That could be my "extreme opinion," I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:36 AM
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I think we are on the same page now.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:38 AM
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No, it would be implying that they prefer roles that involve interpersonal relationships, have low risk of mortality, and/or allow for them to have more free time (read: family/community time) Most common occupations for women: Secretaries/receptionists, elementary school teachers, nurses, retail sales managers and customer service. Industries that are male-dominated: Utilities, construction, mining, fishing/hunting/trapping, forestry, heavy equipment mechanics, electrical work, automotive. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:07 PM
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The good news is that your main competition is guys that are similar, so just be slightly better than the other 20 year old college guys. Better humor or better smell or better whatever, 1 point better and you're winning
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:45 PM
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That sounds kind of win/win to me then. He doesn't act, you gain rapport with him.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:01 PM
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Yeah. If she isn't dismissing it or asking you to stop, she is still sizing you up. Or afraid of you. But if she is afraid of you she will be looking for ways out, like going to the bathroom, taking a call, etc. (this shouldn't come up unless you do like a "dark triad" approach or are quick-tempered.) If she's sizing you up, you just need to make a display of value. How you do that is a lot to do with knowing your strengths. For example, if you have a nice/ish car, especially one with a recogniz…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:59 PM
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Why wait? If you can get access to a gym or home weights then jump on it. Or just do body weight exercises if there's no other way.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:49 PM
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I'd tell a 16 year old me: "Take responsibility for things in your life, but don't be weighed down by that responsibility. It isn't about blaming other people, or the circumstances of your birth/family/community. It isn't about blaming yourself, either. It's about acknowledging your shortcomings and deciding to overcome them. Decide to have control over yourself and your feelings and your life. You aren't a sailboat, you have willpower, and what you need is to do something with that willpower th…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:47 PM
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If someone tells me "don't go out tonight or I will kill you," a) the contrarian in me wants to go out now just because it's "forbidden" when previously I wasn't really thinking about it and b) when I do go out, I really don't want that person to kill me. I will be serial-killer clean in having an alibi, covering tracks, and making sure that there are no repercussions.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:35 PM
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The clearest green light is if she tries to touch you, of her own volition and un-prompted. Asking to touch your muscles, holding your arm while she laughs, hugging you (not being hugged by you) -- women are biologically programmed to have a fight-or-flight response to an unknown man, so when she initiates touching you on-purpose, you are out of the "creepy/desperate" woods.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:29 PM
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Ultimatums just make people into better liars.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:25 PM
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The fact that she talked to you about it is a good sign, though. It's a shit test in disguise - how you handle this could be great for your alpha-cred or end in a horrible mess. She will probably try to test and see if she could ever possibly get commitment from him, though. If you are providing for her and giving her adequate tingles (AF/BB in balance) she will stay with you until he shows not just the ability, but a willingness to do the same but better. Honestly? I'd talk to your roommate. If…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:24 PM
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Drawbacks depend on who doesn't like you. Some bitch at a bar? Who cares. Your boss, your co-workers, people you hang out with, people that you want to like you -- are some possibilities of where issue may lie.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:08 PM
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It's so strange to me that women are told, when having sexual dysfunctions, to masturbate more - but men are told to masturbate less. I know it's something to do with self-discipline, but at some point it's kind of like "not running because you need to discipline your legs." Nofap is no good for you, unless you have a jerking addiction. You might even try edging - getting close and then backing off. Practice the control. Anchor it to an idea- a word you can say in your head or a mental image.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:06 PM
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Sometimes getting a tutor (or finding the topic online) can help with comprehension. Having it presented differently can make a world of difference.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:57 PM
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"Epiphany" would be "Acceptance," cause yeah that's what it's based on.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:50 PM
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Check out Red Pill Women. They talk a lot about what kind of woman to become to attract a good husband, and what a good husband looks like. Also, get a prenup.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:41 PM
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Seems like a false equivalency that you are talking about. It is very well-documented that women are biologically programmed to increase their own longevity, as their reproductive cycle is slow and the rearing stage is very long. She has to survive to make more babies, and make sure those babies are safe. She does not inherently value strength/aggression as her stress response in the same way as a man does. Women use more caution, so it makes sense to me that in a military setting, it would be m…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:24 PM
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But real talk don't put sugar in a vagina you intend to hook up with any time soon. Bacteria like sugar. Bacteria get smelly, and itchy.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:03 PM
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It's simple enough to cover your bases. Don't worry about it but don't let it happen, either.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:59 PM
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Doesn't everyone want happiness? Who acts against their own self-interest and "happiness," really? I do not believe the "gatherer of knowledge is the gatherer of sorrows" approach. The more ideas, thoughts, "dots" that are presented to a person and connections that they make, the more well-adjusted they become, no? If a dot appears that breaks a connection or changes another dot, there is some discomfort in adjusting, but ultimately most humans return to a baseline happiness each time, and often…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:14 PM
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This happens to be a shared value of RPW and TRP - the idea that calling out your partner's lie just makes them resent you, and/or get better at lying. It is a pretty universal truth of all people. Obviously the way a RPW vs. a TRP Man utilizes this truth is different, since the goals are (usually) different.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:59 PM
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I just wanted to take a moment and appreciate how well-structured this response is. Bravo.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 01:47 PM
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Fighting over small things is simple to overcome.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 12:38 PM
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That's odd to share but alright. Sounds pretty legit.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:41 AM
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Everything any person (or animal really) does is selfish. The problem with Blue Pill thinking is that "if I make someone else happy then I will be happy" is putting the outcome into the hands of someone else, and expecting it to work. It's still selfish, it's just inefficiently selfish.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:37 AM
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Like I said, this is my limited perspective. Take it as you will. I just have never seen a high guy do well beyond chicks gravitating to them because they wanna get high. Edit: What I am trying to say/ask is more details on how this usually goes for you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 05:22 AM
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I'm talking about how every time someone is obviously high around me, I feel completely turned off unless they are rich or powerful. TRP is all about the anecdotes and personal experiences, right?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 05:16 AM
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In my experience, it's pretty obvious when a person is stoned. It's never been found to be attractive unless drug use is a part of status: i.e. A high power businessman that does coke or a drug dealer that has an extensive social network/takes in cash.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 04:42 AM
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The idea of Red Pill is to become a better person - at least, to consciously build a foundation of who you want to be. The concept, in its simplest form, does not include degrading women - merely separating female nature from male. Red Pill is "be the 'yourself' that you choose to be, free of influence from the media or the government or whatever else," and yes, the sexual strategy may seem like it is most of the subreddit, but it comes in "waves," really, as men come to this subreddit and becom…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 04:39 AM
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"I was giving him a blowjob and he came on me!! How disgusting!!" What a joke.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 07:39 PM
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Heh, well of course there's nothing wrong with slaying pussy. I remember being a child, telling my parents "you don't know what it's like!!" Now my parents aren't around, and I wish I could rewind and re-hear whatever it was they were trying to teach me. I'm just old enough to really understand that "adults" really do have insights that make the world less complicated, and just young enough to feel like the world is still a puzzle unsolved. So, in short, I just really appreciate you providing th…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 06:30 PM
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Your comments are always a trip to read, but they always seem to be on the "deep end" of the pool, in response to the shallower, "slay pussy"-style posts.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 06:01 PM
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... Have you read RedPillWomen? Because an RPW definitely doesn't want to chew your balls off (unless you post ignorant shit). LTR is considered "under the Red Pill umbrella," and that is their main focus- masculine men and feminine women creating harmonious and satisfying LTRs. RPW takes into account female nature and ideal sexual strategy for a long-term relationship built on her submission to a worthy Captain and a return to traditional nuclear family values. Love, trusting the Man of the hou…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 05:48 PM
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Thank you for contributing. :) I wasn't totally off-base, then, though my verbiage was not technically correct. They are still fairly similar, and potential for female "genius" still exists. They are less common, but not unheard of.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 05:36 PM
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All women's intellectualism is either mimicry and/or memorization... There was never a female genius! I would argue that gender doesn't really have a strong correlation to IQ. There have been some women geniuses in history- Dr. Grace Murray Hopper invented the compiler. Emmy Noether's theorem confirmed relativity, Marie Curie - theory of radioactivity. Most "intellectual" women focus on language/writing/the arts and not STEM fields, so there are slews of women poets and writers and painters that…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 05:20 PM
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That's a good point about preselection. I do think that women are susceptible to "brainwashing," be it by society/feminism, or an Alpha with strong enough SMV. But I'm not sure if it's more or less so than the modern male, as they are being prepped for programming in the same way since birth.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 09:13 PM
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Essentially, a nuMale has a female mindset, and was probably raised by women/feminists, so that makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 08:55 PM
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Yeah, that's kind of part of what I was trying to get at.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 08:23 PM
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As opposed to scouring TRP for something to disparage..?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 03:04 PM
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You know what you want, so go after it until you get it, or realize it's not as important to you as not being alone, and settle.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 06:52 PM
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Yeah, like not using fake pick-up lines. Johnny Bravo is a good example of what to not try to be like.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 02:33 PM
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My interpretation is that "trying" to be smooth usually just makes you look like an ingenuine dork.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:39 PM
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This guy is clearly a troll.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:14 PM
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She didn't like you that much. Hookup culture can be confusing for newbies, but "sexually liberated" women don't want to talk to you, they want to get drunk and bang. Everyone is interesting and sexy to a drunk college girl. It can be a dangerous game though, college girls are more and more being told that having drunk sex is getting raped.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 09:55 PM
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Which goes back to "don't fuck crazy." Gj.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:49 PM
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It's not for you to decide if it is worth a headache. It's for the individual to decide - and the idea is that if done properly, there won't be any headache or heartache because the man in question doesn't give a fuck, and maintains his life without letting any crazy bitch affect it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:46 PM
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Pretty sure that overtly stating that you are female is against the rules of the sub, but whatever. Low quality women exist to be used. You shouldn't "fall for" your hammer or screwdriver, either - though they are lower-risk to love than a sociopath. One of the RP tenets is "Don't fuck crazy" and I think your post is basically the long version of this. As an aside, "feminist-minded person" sounds like a terrible affliction. New-wave feminism is poison. But you are on TRP literally right now, so …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:35 PM
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Do not get caught, do not get accused of rape, do not get yourself into any hole you cannot get out of.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:57 PM
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Most people can look at another person and judge if that person is attractive, gender aside. You are saying you have no idea if you are more or less attractive to women than any of your male friends?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:38 PM
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Modern women have been scared away from motherhood by feminism making it seem scary. Having to carry and deliver the baby is basically made to seem like a horror movie, and then they claim it will ruin your life and devour your free time and claim huge amounts of money from you and your partner. Versus being a father is portrayed as less responsibility - plus, many blue pill beta boys have taken the once-female idea of "locking down" their partner by getting them pregnant.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 01:11 PM
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Non-Violent Communication has helped me really find ways of making sure that what I say is rational and articulate, definitely a great resource.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 04:17 AM
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Auto. I can still see it as though it isn't deleted.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 02:07 AM
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There are absolutely men that can be tricked this way. I know of some women who will profess that they have lost X pounds on a diet, and their partner will believe it and say "wow you can tell you look great" in earnest.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 04:28 PM
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I can still see my post and comment on it and edit it, but upon logging out it appears deleted.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:59 PM
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I'm replying to my own deleted comment to see what happens..
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:53 PM
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This isn't a safe space to talk about a safespace, then, or it isn't a safespace to talk about a safe space?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:49 PM
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Yes, but if she somehow suddenly lost her ability to feel anything during sex, would she still present the same behaviors? I think yes. Some 54% of women report faking orgasms with about half of those respondents faking every time.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:45 PM
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It's more of a singular anecdote that I found interesting- the fact that sex drive can exist without any possibility of orgasm. Of course women exist that are motivated by orgasm, but that's not something that begs dissection.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 06:50 AM
3

Sure, I'm just trying to isolate the "because tingles" out of the situation. Orgasm is much less important to a woman than other factors in the makeup of her sex drive; but obviously, orgasm can be a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 05:07 AM
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Let's say that perhaps I know a woman that does not experience orgasm or physical sexual pleasure at all. She has uhh... Informed me that she enjoys sex mostly because of the validation that she gains from being seen as "sexy" by men that she respects (basically, securing his interest), her sex drive is still high even without getting off. Do with that info what you will, but "getting off" I think is less important than the "security" aspect.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 04:08 AM
3

If you never debate anyone or never experience the "other side" and their arguments, you just create a woman-hating echo chamber, instead of actually gaining information and furthering the advancement of your perspective. But obviously, do it anonymously.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 04:02 AM
2

Or she ends up at RPW and taking the pill. You never know. And a woman telling another woman to stay away can sometimes make you more appealing.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:56 AM
6

In my experience, modern women are often shamed by their female peers for not being hypersexual. Women tend towards being similar to each other/agreeing with each other, that much is pretty well-documented psychology. You put a chaste girl into a hookup culture college, and it's very unlikely she makes it through without assimilating (assuming she isn't fat/ugly).
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:54 AM
1

I dunno. My ex used to get a decent amount of tail on OKcupid just playing the numbers game- eventually if you send enough messages to enough girls, you can build a "pipeline." (I'd rate him at probably a 6.5/10 .. So maybe that's exactly where my 65%/35% came from ahaha) It almost evens the playing field for guys who might be a little less charismatic in-person, because they get to hide behind their keyboard for the "first impression" stage.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 09:40 PM
1

I'm not really sure if it's 80% to 20%, but there is absolutely a trend towards hotter men getting laid more. That's kind of obvious. But also most hot men won't sleep with fat/ugly women, which is why I feel like it's probably closer to 65/35 - just because I don't think that 80% of women are hot enough to attract top 20% men. But that's all just my opinion, with no real math or evidence to back it up beyond anecdotal experience.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 08:08 PM
-1

I don't want there to be precedent of the government being able to punish anyone for having multiple partners/cheating
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:33 PM
2

The dude still did the actual murder and from what I can tell there's no evidence that his story is true anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:31 PM
5

This is a fantastic analysis. Taking responsibility for one's actions (and then doing something about it!) is the foundation of respect, for oneself and from others- no matter what gender. Thank you for this post. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 01:04 PM
1

I'm not sure why this is downvoted, it's a genuine question.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 01:00 PM
3

But you could totally put on a nurse costume for some kinkidinks... ;o
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 12:59 PM
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Could someone explain to me how women can't be loyal, but marriages can last fairly happily for 30-60 years?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:22 PM
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Your narcissism is detracting from this conversation. I am trying to understand your point despite the inanity of most of your statements, but you are simply dismissing my attempts to decipher your largely incoherent argument as "not ready," which is not conducive to anything at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:30 PM
10

TRP theory is equally valid for those seeking an LTR as it is for those seeking plates.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:27 PM
1

I never denied the fact that we are all pleasure-driven. I'm not sure that "exploit" is a good word for what you are using it for. Pleasure motivates everything we do, yes. Every action of anyone has some sort of pleasure behind it. That's not "exploitation," at least not as you have portrayed it. In your earlier example of lifting weights, for example, you claimed I was "exploiting my cells," but my cells are me. What am I if I have no cells? It's win/win, then, for me to destroy my cells to ma…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:05 PM
1

Ok, well I can kind of guess at it now. You are saying self-improvement is redundant because no one purposefully does anything to lessen themselves. But some people still really struggle with the most efficient way to do so with the specific goal in mind of being viewed more favorably by the majority of other-people.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:55 PM
1

Because self-improvement tips are helpful and relevant to TRP, I can love reality and still be a red piller, pleasure can be attained without exploitation, none of that still has anything to do with self-improvement posts.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:45 PM
1

Well obviously no one would actively seek bad unless bad brought more good. That's not new knowledge to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:39 PM
2

By all means, drop some freedom truth on me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:32 PM
2

I'm still replying to this thread, so clearly I must be absolutely masochistic.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:29 PM
2

... Are you completely autistic?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:27 PM
1

You are incapable of explaining yourself properly. It stands to reason that you are then also unfit to make assumptions about my "reality" when you can't relate your own in real words. ;P. The world must be such a dark and sinister place to someone who seems to believe that "maximum pleasure" is a dirty phrase, who is afraid of being eaten - or maybe wants to be eaten, because that would be completely "unplugging," so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:23 PM
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You aren't delivering a message. You are completely incoherent. I can't be mad at what you are saying because you are saying literally nothing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:12 PM
1

... So you shouldn't lift weights because everything wants to eat you?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:57 PM
3

Our habits are our most basic foundation- what we do automatically is our core. Self-discipline gained from taking control of habits is invaluable. This is a great post.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:55 PM
1

Haha! What the fuck do you mean "in love with it"? In love with what? You haven't taken any red pill if you are still "in love with it". that sounds pretty bitter, bro. I'm not here to fight you. I just think it might be easier to communicate your point if you'd drop the pretense and the semantics, as right now it's unclear what you are trying to convey, but you are presenting as a sneering know-it-all. I'm not trying to call you names, I am merely trying to show you my perspective. It seems to …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:41 PM
2

I'm offering an answer to someone who said that they want to fall in love and commit. Men fall for feminism as much as women fall for it. An ideal match for LTR would be two people who have been freed from it, working together to be the best they can be for each other. I am not saying that one strategy is better or worse, that is for the individual to decide. The LTR strategy of TRP is so often and so vehemently dismissed as weakness or beta behavior but who is anyone to tell me or anyone else w…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:24 PM
1

Exploitation is certainly not the most basic answer. It is a possible answer, but you have inserted in a place that makes no sense (How is meditation exploitation? Lifting weights? Enjoying a walk in the park?) I would imagine out of bitterness. You are in the anger stage of TRP. This is normal and everyone has to go through it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:09 PM
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Girls want long-term relationships. A girl is typically raised on stories of the prince that will come to save her and they will be in love. A girl in a religious household is taught of the virtue of faithfulness and submissiveness to God and her husband. But when she is faced with disappointment, when her first boyfriend doesn't excite her, or he cheats on her, she doesn't understand. She becomes frustrated and confused. And Feminism is there to console her and tell her that men are scum, to be…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:03 PM
2

Fucking this. If you had played it better, it would have ended better. What happens to you is so much less important than what you do about it. Women aren't the real enemy, your own vulnerability is.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:18 PM
2

"Soul mates" is a concept that every girl, I think, secretly hopes for and she may expect her first love to be her "one" - which can become incredibly toxic. Many girls I knew growing up would bend over backwards to try to make things work with their first boyfriends, even if things were borderline abusive. Many also settled, hard, in this same regard for lesser men, and even more fallout of the concept were the girls that sought "revenge" (on what, I do not know) when their first relationship e…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 01:07 PM
2

Open and honest, non-aggressive communication solves most things, in my opinion. "I've noticed that you do xyz when you drink and that you mostly drink with your friends (observation) and I feel concerned about it (emotion - the word "feel" should never followed by "that," "you," "as if" etc.) I need to feel secure (need), will you help me (request)?" Obviously my paragraph was an example and should be filled with your own words - but remember that the method only works if no blame is placed on …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 12:40 PM
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How well do you pass? If well enough, stop identifying as "trans" and just be "woman." And then read the sidebar info in this subreddit. I'm not sure exactly what you were looking for in a reply to this, it's kind of all over the place.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 08:58 PM
1

Good or bad, it will happen. It is our nature to seek it- but we should try to seek it from appropriate sources.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 08:54 PM
1

Kohls and Target both usually carry at least basic colors (white grey black tan) and Kohls usually has some cute patterned ones too.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 06:51 PM
2

Communication in a relationship is good, but it is your role as the man to set the intention and make it clear what behavior you expect from her. She may voice concerns/opinions but decisions are ultimately yours to make, and her being pissy about it is unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:52 PM
5

A good woman is essentially synonymous with a good dog.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:06 PM
3

Trim nose hairs if you have longuns. Skincare. Cleanser, toner, lotion every night. Too much cologne is almost as bad as none at all. Keep your shoulders back/back straight. Always and forever. Shave or wax your back.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:59 PM
2

It's not sticky. If anything it's kind of slippery. Doesn't get on my clothes though.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 12:17 PM
1

There are aloe-based deodorants on the market. I've been trying the unscented Tom's one, and it seems to work to prevent smell. I still get intense sweat stains at the gym though..
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 04:34 AM
3

All studies point towards any health or color benefits gained from oil pulling actually being attributed to holding the saliva itself in the mouth, the oil was irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 04:24 AM
0

This is just senseless woman-hating, not based in Red Pill theory. It is established that a woman's ideal is to have a mate that exhibits the correct blend of Alpha and Beta traits. Feminism has fucked up a lot of the balance, glorifying sluttiness among women and beta traits among men. It was not-too-long-ago that a woman would be shamed for having meaningless sex. Now anyone trying to shame her is the immoral one. The female imperative is commitment because the Wall comes for every woman event…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 06:10 PM
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Red Pill Women is a better place for females to start their Red Pill trip. The main subreddit/red pill males can be pretty off-putting to a feminine perspective, and honestly used to make me swallow the blue pill even harder. I recommend you check it out.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 05:46 PM
3

A nitpick here, but both genders lie to improve or maintain appearances/status. Men naturally tend towards appearing "better" than whomever they are speaking/lying to (establishing dominance/value), while women tend towards appearing "the same" as who they are speaking/lying to - or, "snowflaking," due to not being able to sufficiently appear the same/similar, or as an attempt to establish value (or dominance, when directed at other entities perceived as feminine or beta). The psychology of lyin…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:04 PM
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Last week I did fairly well- I did slip up once and made a somewhat mean joke at my SO's expense, and felt absolutely terrible. But I did zero nagging! I was on top of things like an actually organized person, my SO actually surprised me with really cute puppy-face sticky notes, so that I could put them on the door to remind him to take his lunch to work in the mornings (and I have been writing short love letters to go with it). It's a really nice replacement for nagging. This week's challenge i…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 05:34 PM
3

I met my last boyfriend through OKCupid. He could present as alpha, especially over text/messaging, but then in person would often show his true colors. Be wary: most people are better at presenting themselves well over the Internet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 12:18 PM
5

It was His dream, and he has a high enough SMV to pull it off. My SMV is lower than my Captain's substantially (He is one of the highest SMV individuals I have ever met in-person) but feel secure in the relationship anyway, due to my willingness to facilitate his dream in any way that I can and his appreciation of my ability to conform to his wishes and, moreover, be proactive about handling a lot of the "girl drama" situations that might arise from "sister wife" living conditions. It's not for …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 06:27 PM
4

Girlfriend, not best friend. Well, kind of both. All you have to do is find two submissive bisexual women who are also cuckqueans, convince them to be polyamorous but observe a one-penis policy, make them both fall in love with you and each other, and maintain the balance between all three relationships actively every single day.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:47 PM
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I don't want to be in the army. I want to be a housewife. Please bring gender roles back :(
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:20 PM
2

Sometimes it's a sex night. And sometimes, it's our girlfriend's turn for either. Or a threesome night. But my Captain likes it when makeup runs, so heavy makeup is indicative of blowjob night.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:05 PM
5

Comfort tests are important in long-term mate selection. While I wholeheartedly agree that jealousy is a wasted emotion, it still stands that a man who gives his girlfriend good reason to feel jealous and cannot help her to overcome it is not a good match. Jealousy with no good reason is obviously a sign of instability and lack of self-awareness/emotional control.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:12 PM
2

The hamster spins and spins.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:52 PM
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But, if a Man states clearly that He does like a particular look, especially once already in an LTR, it is reasonable to go for it. For example, my Captain loves the BRIGHTLY-pigmented duo-tone cat eye looks, and I know when He asks me to do my makeup in that way, it's a guaranteed blowjob night (my favorite!)
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 01:04 PM
3

I think one of the greatest self-confidence boosts is waking up early, putting on at least bb cream, some matte nude eyeshadow, mascara, and tinted lipgloss, before even doing any morning chores. It makes me feel so put-together. And then if I want to do more, it's easy to go add to my face.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 12:45 PM
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A woman texts back if she is made excited by a man. A woman can just go on OKcupid if she wants to chat with a male who is sexually interested in her. Women are dogs, of course they are stupid and want attention. It's your job to make a dog follow you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 08:43 PM
2

The best way that I have found to cope with feelings of apprehension is to just ignore them and do what it is you are wanting to do, and be the way that you want to be. You will restructure your life as necessary to continue it, and eventually nothing will be left to be apprehensive about - either obstacles are removed or attitudes are adjusted.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 08:32 PM
2

Did we just become best friends?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:54 PM
2

If you decide to become a progressive dictator, I'll happily join your regime. Everyone will be happy and enjoy freedom WHETHER THEY LIKE IT OR NOT.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:49 PM
3

Yes, I guess my reply got a little distracted. I agree that deviation is often ignored by TRP - I am in a polyamorous LTR, for example, which many might consider to be going "against biology." There seems to be more emphasis on the PUA (or just plain woman-hating) side of things than the philosophical in the sub. The discussion is closed with dismissive remarks about fedoras and neck-beards, and that's that.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 02:22 PM
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I love this post. I think that it is important to understand/reflect upon the root of the confusions that have led many of us to take the Red Pill. Modern feminism has led to much of what TRP either takes advantage of, or works against, depending on what "phase" one is at (or what gender). It is feminism that teaches young women that they must take on masculine characteristics to be liked by other women (such as promiscuity). If left uncured, these beliefs that are passed on create more loud hai…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 01:52 PM
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Women are vexingly complex, and yet rewarding once figured out. I think that dating a woman is a good exercise in seeing what us women are really like.. Sort of a lesson on what to strive for, or what to avoid being like in any relationship. Women can hamster themselves into being upset about nearly anything, and sometimes it feels like really, everything all at once - but we can be warm and helpful in an endearing way that would be too-beta in a man. I think that surrendering to one's own femin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 09:45 PM
3

I was just making an example- I can't put myself into your shoes, as someone who has never had any intention of having children and who has never been in a relationship where it was a possibility. I truly believe that talking these concerns through is the best way to solve the situation, however. It is something that he must address for you to be able to feel comfortable remaining in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:51 PM
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Practice the non-violent communication method: Observations, feelings, needs, requests. For example: "You have said that you want to have partial custody of the child if it is yours. I feel worried that you will not have time for me, and that this will be a financial and emotional burden. I need to feel secure in this relationship, and would like to find a way for us both to be happy if it does turn out that the child is yours." Stay objective and realistic. I would probably think less of this m…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:12 PM
1

This one asks potential dates about job/car/living arrangements because it is important for any long-term commitment to not be a complete loser. It can stem more from desire for "status" than from desire to use someone as betabux - and it can be for practicality. I don't want to have to pick them up to go out, and I don't want to try to have sex in their mom's basement because that's where they live. It's also a safety question- if the person lives someplace shady and had no job but a nice car, …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:37 AM
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It is, and also hymens aren't necessarily "broken" even after sex. It can kind of stretch, and re-form. Most of the time the bleeding experienced by women during sex is tiny tears in the vaginal wall itself, not the hymen breaking.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:08 AM
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I would not under any circumstances bend to the will of my partner's parents. I make enough to be rather content with my life, and while more is nice, it's absolutely not worth it to me to be tied down by the children, especially if I'm being coerced.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:58 AM
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As someone who chose to permanently sterilize myself to avoid children, I second this post. I thought very carefully about what I want my life to be like, and children are not in that picture. Traveling, money, and freedom are.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:34 AM
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I've (23) been in an LTR for about 1.5 years with a very Alpha Male(30). I tell Him everything constantly, as that was agreed upon when we first started dating. (He will only comment on things of interest, but enjoys having all of the information available.) So, I told Him that I had been .. Ah, 'enjoying' reading TRP, and then from there I ended up navigating through most of its content, and finding RPW. I was initially uninterested- I cannot biologically have children, and He does not want the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 03:56 AM
1

I go to the Hall Office Park gym mostly, or my apartment gym (only really good for cardio though.)
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 07:36 AM
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Dallas! Specifically, Frisco/Plano.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 02:59 AM
1

Some RP men have come to a point where they desire a relationship. Not all do, but it is a valid RP perspective, and RPW is largely about what committed Red Pill relationships look like.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:21 PM
1

Like this one said, familiarizing oneself with women's sexual strategy is not a bad thing. Knowledge is power and Men should have all power.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:20 PM
1

this one believes that TRP Men would often benefit from venturing over to RPW. There is a lot to be said for at least understanding both sides of the coin.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 05:07 AM
2

Try to be patient and understanding, but not a wet noodle. If this issue piles up like you think it will, next. Using emotions to attempt manipulation = next. The fact that you think it will pile up is .. Also a sign to next.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 09:30 PM
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Don't tell him not to do it again. Don't be pushy or naggy- practice nonviolent communication by bringing it up gently. "Hey, I need to talk to you about something. I've been feeling really paranoid because of the events that transpired a few days ago, and I was hoping you could help to put me at ease." Watch his reaction, his eye contact, his attitude towards his response. The ideal resolution would be a calm explanation with eye contact, and an apology. If he gets upset, or stutters, won't mak…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 09:17 PM
5

Nothing gets a girl more excited than knowing exactly which side of the line one must stand on for a Man to be pleased, and feeling pulled to the correct place. Being pushed by yelling or crying is unpleasant, unnatractive, and makes the male attempting the manipulation seem bad at manipulation - not Mate material. A girl knows that decision-making is best left in the hands of a stable, rational Man. He sets the tone, and she follows.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 07:47 PM
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Women want to commit to the right mate. Women don't understand their own minds, generally speaking, and do not logically decide who the right mate is. You must show them what the right mate looks like, or they will continue to be aimless (or striving for the wrong ideals, believing themselves to be a Strong Independent Snowflake) They're like dogs- puppies are ideal for training, adoption with knowledge of their past and understanding of how to correct a few wrong behaviors is acceptable, some m…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:50 PM
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Committing to the right mate is part of the female imperative. The fear of making the wrong choice and losing time before hitting the wall is present in all women, knowingly or not. The fully-realized Red Pill Man knows the strategy to be the ideal mate for any woman He so chooses. He is the Gatekeeper of commitment, not vice-versa. Though any woman that will give sex without asking for commitment in return is asking to be a plate and not a mate. Edit for clarification: In my experience, the bes…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:33 PM
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Women have the notion of entitlement to commitment, whether nature or nurture, and refuse their own biology telling them the rules of engagement, instead leaning on feminist values that tell them that they need to be progressive, and to be progressive, they have to be like men and sleep around, all the while devaluing themselves with each ride. In the shadow of the wall, the easiest choice is to blame men for her own loneliness and perpetuate the toxicity of feminism. TRP is important medicine f…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:41 PM
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