Substantial-Bid-2096 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How often do you spend time with your spouse? Google ‘anxious attachment style’ you’re giving a lot of signs of this attachment style. Making excuses for him for essentially neglecting you and yiur relationship. Yes stand by and support him but be aware of what is normal and what is not. This is not normal or healthy! Even when people are busy, run businesses/companies etc	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/25 12:39 PM
2	How often do you spend time with your spouse? Good to hear he’s reaching his goals but you’re also important. Ask yourself if you both continue the way you are, where will your marriage be in 6 months, a year etc. Marriages need constant tiny adjustments or you end up with irreconcilable differences.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/25 05:38 AM
2	How often do you spend time with your spouse? I think your giving him a bit too much credit. He might be working hard but he’s neglecting you. You deserve to be heard and have your needs met. My husband works like crazy but we still spend every evening together.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/25 09:38 PM
1	How often do you spend time with your spouse? Yeah gaming is not the one. Personally I’d never date a gamer. There’s no reason to work after a certain time but I understand some people jobs do require late shifts sometimes. My husband is the same but he will luckily work from the lounge so we are together physically. But you need to both have some boundaries. For example Friday, Saturday, Sunday you spend together. Or he must turn off his computer at 8pm or something. Just be open and kind, tell him you’re lonely and let him come up with th…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/25 05:14 PM
2	How long do you ‘vet’ a guy for? I think you mean you don’t mind your political views being questioned. The topics you won’t change are what are your core values. Your core values and often beliefs that are so deep that they make you feel uncomfortable when they’re questioned. This is why things like religion is often a core value, family styles etc. If it’s a core value that being questioned then you will unlikely be able to agree on this. You may also find that further down the line more of these core values hit a head. Ie wh…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/25 09:46 PM
3	How often do you spend time with your spouse? So I’m not sure what you mean when you say you don’t spend the evening together? Sounds like you spend every evening together? I think you mean you only have 3 ‘date nights’ a month. If it bothers you then fix 1 day a week and stick to it.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/25 09:37 PM
2	How often do you spend time with your spouse? This isn’t healthy, do you live together? 3x a week minimum if you live apart. Every night apart from once a week if you don’t. He’s obviously got another family somewhere, it’s possible you are a side gf.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/25 03:35 PM
4	How long do you ‘vet’ a guy for? Political differences can be a ‘value’ which will ultimately causes serious complications in your relationship. You should always date someone whose values align with yours otherwise your values will be questioned.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/25 03:16 PM
3	Getting my man to use sex toys on me when it went horrible the first and last time. Don’t ask strangers on the internet for advice on how to convince someone to do a sexual act they’re not comfortable with.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/25 02:21 PM