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You should get a job and get out and live your life and get therapy, not just stay inside, that’s badly effecting your mental health… I’ve known people with bpd and they are very unfair… they cut people out for one perceived misunderstanding. I had a friend with bpd who got angry over a personal experience of mine that didn’t align with hers and she cut me off forever which was really hurtful. She also used to complain against every one and try to mess up their life by making complaints against …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 12:31 AM
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Girl I actually know these men and my ancestors were next level rich, I know the culture because I know people in it and their personal lives which middle class people will never be a privy to… bc they’re private af, give across a classy appearance don’t dress trash or behave trashy in public but being a virgin has nothing to do with anything Their subs are middle class men and poor kids, I know a guy who believes in this. He’s cute but makes 40-50k a year, has a bachelors and keeps complaining …
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 08:14 PM
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Not really… that’s a small subsection of men who have been badly jilted. Most rich men I know want their wives to be half naked at parties and sleep with their friends, and I’m not kidding and yes they respect their wives and have children with them. It’s just the culture outside of religious groups. This is actually a middle class attitude….. wanting a virgin wife, concepts of purity, religion etc
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 07:58 PM
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Tbh only 1 or 2 guys ever asked me my body count so I don’t think that many guys care. A lot of people on Reddit are lonely and have been hurt so they’re looking for an online community. They’ve probably been cheated on so only trust virgins. Don’t stress about it, rich men share their wives, it’s not what you think…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 07:55 PM
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Don’t blame you I’m not into threesomes either and won’t do it and you were pregnant and he was asking to sleep with another person. I’d be really stressed. Just start initiating sex with him, dress in sexy clothing, flirt be like a girlfriend. Girls go after men and get them by being a romance actress… be happy, be in a good mood, dress and do your makeup and hair nice, keep yourself in shape. Be a magnet for men’s attraction and he’ll be really into you. And always be sexually available to you…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 09:10 PM
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Reddit is full of a lot of mentally traumatized men who think virgin girls won’t cheat on them and they’re pure so they’ll treat them well which is a big lie. What happens when she isn’t a virgin anymore? I’ve dated a few very wealthy men, when I was a bit young, who were too young to settle down. They didn’t care that I wasn’t a virgin and didn’t date virgin girls at all. They dated girls before and after me that weren’t virgins and still tried to talk to me after cheating on me, they weren’t t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 06:09 PM
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I think he’s saying he wants sexual favors while you’re on your period and doesn’t know how to approach it with you, or he’s scared of being shot down so he makes silly jokes about it
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 12:34 AM
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I wish you treatment for your craziness, like damn…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:14 AM
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I appreciate this a lot, I know men who have the traditional mindset of providing prefer virgin girls they can mold and I am not that. I’m not willing to settle though and I’m such an interesting person so I’m gonna really transform myself into an open out there version of myself so I can attract what I want! Thanks for the real advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:00 AM
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I need to find a new community but I don’t know where to look or find this from scratch.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:39 PM
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I have severe childhood trauma and used to have zero boundaries but the main reason I don’t have friends is because every-time I try to establish a boundary, they freak out and will yell at me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:38 PM
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I’ve never tried this, I’ve always been happy to connect and open and it’s been a turn off, that’s why I want to try the opposite way.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:37 PM
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I’m really genuine though and literally the kindest, that’s the thing, and it doesn’t work for me…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:37 PM
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I rarely approach boys but when I do, it never goes well. Ever. Even if I think they like me, they totally switch up if I say something. That’s why I need to attract men to approach me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:20 PM
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I’m really attractive apart from one thing too which is why it’s all so frustrating tbh
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:17 PM
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Thank you for this suggestion, I actually think being a little bit of a bitch is attractive to men. I let people walk all over me my entire life and guys preferred the women who were mean to me, funny enough. I will never be mean or rude to anyone but I will never do anything for any man who hasn’t done a lot for me first.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:12 PM
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I really appreciate the advice, thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:10 PM
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I go above and beyond for them but they’re definitely not my only source of anything, I have a family that’s more important to me. I’m just very loving and caring, it’s my personality but those guys then think there’s a catch or something?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:05 PM
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I’m speaking on what I see, girls who play hard to get and let a man obsess and pursue them get that guy to do everything for them and only them. Everytime I’ve shown love or been open and accepting, it’s deflated my value. They think it’s easy behavior when you’re just trying to connect.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:04 PM
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This is an awesome story, thanks so much for sharing it with us!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 08:15 PM
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I feel like everytime I go to therapy, my therapist doesn’t really let me speak or derails the conversation when I just want to talk it out… so I’m using Reddit as my therapy… it’s been helpful tbh and I appreciate the advice! I spoke to a psychiatrist and he recommended medication which is also something I’m going for, but I don’t have the best time with therapists…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:06 PM
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I’m mentally really healthy, just frustrated at bad dating experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:04 PM
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The thing is, I don’t want to play games but this is what women do and it works… but I would rather be real so I will read this!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:03 PM
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I appreciate that, I’ll reach out for sure and I’m so happy for you, that’s what you deserve and I hope your relationship stays awesome!!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 08:04 AM
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Will do this, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:42 AM
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I love this list, I really needed it too, you’re very smart and helpful! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:40 AM
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I want my marriage to last and I want it to be really loving so I’m going to be this way but I don’t know how to attract a guy by being my giving self. Guys go for girls that are stand off ish or at least respect the women who don’t give them time or energy… I feel like I have to create this whole persona and image to get the guy I want.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:35 AM
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I’m a water sign and I’ve apologized to guys when they’ve hurt me so we could move past it and still be together, I think I’m just stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:25 AM
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I’ve learned not to approach men or give any indication of interest to kind of create an air of unavailability and desire, if I seem unattainable, my value goes up in the guys eyes because he has to work for me and convince me to be with him. I’ve always been the opposite so I’m going to implement this now… I don’t know where to go to meet good quality men. I don’t have many friends, I don’t have any friends in the circles I’m looking to find a man in. I’m kind of lost…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 07:24 AM
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I’m close to 30, I have certain things that are out of proportion that when I fix I’ll be significantly more attractive. It’s something I’ve wanted to fix since I was very young but my parents couldn’t afford it and now I’m in a position to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 06:59 AM
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I’m a really loving person and I’m practically a slave to the person I love for their acceptance and I keep attracting narcissists. I’ve had situations when I only had a little extra fun money and used it to buy my bf something rather than for myself when I wanted it for myself, I’ve done this in like 3 relationships, in 2, the guy never even gave me anything back, this all started when I was 16. I don’t know why this happens to me. Thats why I desperately need advice, I don’t know what’s wrong …
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 06:57 AM
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