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| 1 | How do women know what about personality turns them on?The formula you’re looking for can’t fully be explained. Sorry. Most of what people (both men and women) say they like in a partner doesn’t automatically translate in a relationship with a person with those attributes. That’s because attraction is not logical; it’s a subconscious process. It’s just compatibility. Your brain decides what you find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 09:14 AM |
| 2 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”A major factor that is often overlooked when it comes to relationships in my opinion is luck. Being in the right place at the right time. Pure anedoctal: I dated my ex girlfriend during the Covid Pandemic. A period notoriously known to be very difficult for couples. We were both working in a small restaurant at the time. What were the odds? I mean 95%of people were closed in homes. That has been the case for the vast majority of people that I know. They all met their now partner or their previou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:51 PM |
| – | Men need to stop trying to get women to like them.I agree. Whenever I liked a girl, although i never tried to impress them, I’ve been pretty much “rejected” all the times. Things were not the same obviously when the girls were into me from the start and attraction was reciprocated. And the few times when this has been the case, I always behaved like a normal person; just naturally. If she’s into you, she’s into you. If she’s not, she’s not. Trying to convince herself otherwise is a waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Baffled with women who go on dates with men that aren't their typeSorry man, but the whole rp and blackpill is full of men telling that women should give ‘em the same treatment they reserve to chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 05:59 PM |
| 6 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemI’m sorry, but that doesn’t guarantee you a relationship. Treating women as people is just standard procedure. The thing is that if a woman is not attracted to me, there is very little I can do to change her mind. And by the way, why should I? She already made that decision; it’s up to her to eventually give me a chance. The thing lot of people seem to forget (or at this point I would say voluntarily ignore) is that attraction is a huge deal-breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:44 PM |
| 10 | What's your Blue Pill success story?Finally someone said it. Luck is a major factor that comes into play: some are more lucky than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:06 AM |
| 4 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.How can they be celebrated when most guys on social media praise women who don’t have OF? I swear you don’t even have to look in redpill spaces to see comments like “OF detected, opinion rejected” Also, your last sentence is badly wrong, otherwise lot of men wouldn’t complain about bodycount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 08:27 AM |
| 2 | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.Well, Guys Who hires hookers do this cause they can’t get women’s attention in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.While I do agree that some women are attracted to bad men, I don’t believe they represent the majority of them. Most women I know have dated and are dating regular dudes. Only one of my girl-friends dated a true bad man (depressed, angry, disrespectul, drug addicted and very few long term prospects). I do also know two or three dudes that had lot of partners in their 20s. They are attractive for sure, confident, cocky, and most importantly they don’t seem to care (one of them is short btw, 5.6,5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers can't fall in loveThe problem lies in your sentence: I didn’t choose to live on this level. Reality hit me like a truck; and I wish it didn’t, because at this point I wouldn’t be here commenting on this sub. And I can’t come back unfortunately, because at the end of the day I’m not able to see love as something good anymore . For me love has lost its magic, it’s not as appealing as it was before. By the way, My redpill journey has been very short: I discovered it when my last relationship ended, and I was looking… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How likely/unlikely is it to find love as a man?Your question has no definitive answer. Most relationship (romantic one as well as friendships) are a result of timing and luck. Unfortunately, Some are more lucky than others. As for the blackpill part, I think it can be easily disproved looking at the couples you see outside. Average people tend to go with average people, good looking guys tend to go with good looking girls. It’s not only looks (although it matters of course), but attraction is much more than that. It’s a combination of looks,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 09:37 AM |
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