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I think, honestly, your confidence is what'll do it. I've seen people with a huge body being very successful because they oozed charisma and confidence. I don't mean to suggest you should stay big, because you should strive for the body that makes you happy and successful in your goals! But look no further than boosting your confidence. Also, it may be old, but wear a smile. Specifically *at* men. Find attires that suit you, the right color palette for your skin will work its magic, too!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/25 02:11 PM
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Red Pill Life these days is a choice, and must be so, and not a requirement based on sexist wealth distribution.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/24 11:25 AM
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Red Pill life does not mean toxicity. While I could go on about this at length, it really does sound like you have plenty of stuff to work through and it might be enough to muster the courage and talk to him about what you wrote here, but you may also need some outside assistance in the form of therapy. You speak predominantly negatively about him and you should ask yourself why.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/24 07:40 PM
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the second might be a lot more to your taste, then!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 09:42 PM
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it's a sub rule, but most aren't actually 18+ in that they are lewd hahah
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 09:24 PM
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r/1950sTraditionalRoles or r/Trad_ideals might suit you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 08:30 PM
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IMHO they already have gone left. I mean, you thought you were in a relationship with him and now he has a fiancée and it's not you. That's not how any woman deserves to be treated, Red Pill or not.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:19 PM
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If you follow through, be careful that he doesn't make you dependent on his wealth.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:07 PM
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Is "Staying in the country, but moving away from him" also an option? His money and status and wealth may buy you comfort, but it most likely won't outweight your emotional suffering you will feel. If you have this much free time on your hand, concentrate on your studies, but find a job and student accomodation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:02 PM
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Honestly, there is quite a difference between him giving you money on his own accord, and you asking for it point blank. How did you handle the $300? How did you thank him?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 08:00 PM
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Yup, it sounds like a lot of facets to talk over. He may have trouble acknowleding your emotions and when you hurt. That is definitely part of a bigger conversation. If you do, bring it up that you give him ample space, but that you don't feel seen enough and in which areas. Since you're also together for but a year, I guess you may also need to emphasise your feelings - not everyone reads them well after such a short time, and I wouldn't necessarily agree it's a red flag that he did not provide…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 11:10 PM
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Your words here are perfectly reasonable, considerate and to the point. For lots of men, however, communication is an acquired skill. Be polite and mindful, but firm in how you speak in order not to overwhelm him - he may be shy or careful. Reassure him that you want to work it out with him, not change him. Tell him that you would like him to lead more on his own accord, and you feel that it's a little uneven between you two just now. Men often discussion solution-oriented, so offer ideas for so…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 10:04 PM
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In addition to what has already been said: Dating has become absolutely abhorrent and hypercharged, for all genders. The next, presumably better, person can just be one swipe away. Or one drunk discussion out dancing. Whatever. That haunts people. Things used to be the different: the choices were much more limited. I'm not saying like it's necessarily a good thing, because it isn't, but we as a society have hit the other end way too hard. Also, your nick is spectacular!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 09:27 PM
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In my opinion, even a red pill relationship starts with people who see respectfully eye to eye on the woman being naturally submissive. How much of his actions make you think he sees you as a worthy person?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 08:52 PM
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Mixed signals like this are a mid-grade red flag imho. He tells you how he wants different things than you yet keeps you around. I think he MAY be keeping you, in fact, as a booty call. Alcohol and quiet and chill settings? He wants sex. Nothing wrong with only sex of course, but if you don't want it, I would not pursue.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 01:57 PM
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