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| 1 | Any luck modifying alimony?Every state and country has varying laws - I suggest you start googling it based on where you will divorce to understand what your levers are. Either way - the higher earners gets the short end of the stick in many cases. The laws are usually designed around protecting spouses who take time off work to support the family. That makes sense to me. How the law is applied in reality is very different. Why should one person who makes more be subject to pay a lower earner when both worked for the dura… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Men who filed, what pushed you over the edge to finally do it?The longer you wait the more painful divorce will be as the higher earner. I am in a very similar income difference as you and I almost had the courage to leave just before COVID but my parents convinced me to try and fix it and then COVID hit which made it much harder to work through. I would have saved me so much money if I had managed to separate back in 2019. If you wait a couple of years - try imagining telling your 4-6 year old why you are separating vs you 1.5 year old. I can ensure you, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Wow. She's willing to give me more custody time to be with her boyfriendWow - take that and run. I would totally go for more support if I could. She may regret it some day but it's very hard to change after the fact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with pettiness, so this is how its gonna be..I am sorry you are going through this. That level of pettiness is ridiculous. The only thing that would get me through it is knowing that your child will see this and realize wheat type of person their other parent is as they get older. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/22 06:30 PM |
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