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It's a bad mistake to put people on pedestals, especially women. I was once guilty of doing this myself. As I've got older I see this was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:53 AM
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The majority of women are pretty invisible to me. Being lifelong single and having been treated badly by the opposite sex throughout my life, has left me mistrusting of women and killed a lot of the attraction. Another face among hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:15 AM
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Some men have those qualities that attract women and some don't. It's as simple as that I'm definately in the latter. The question is what does society do with such men in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:39 AM
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Having never been desirable to women at any age and being lifelong single it hardly matters tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:22 AM
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41M and zero
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:49 AM
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No, why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:59 PM
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Why not invest in a sex doll now if you have the available finances?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:23 AM
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I gave up aged 29 back in 2014 and decided to go the escort route. Still doing that at 41 but not as much as I used to as I much prefer to spend my wages on days out and holidays nowadays. Also learnt to embrace the single lifestyle with age and find peace and happiness with my own company. It's been a lifelong journey of realisation. Considering pursuing alternative lifestyles in the future i.e. AI companions and sex dolls. We're see....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:39 PM
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Absolutely love your thinking. I would love more than anything for men to reclaim their self respect and autonomy. Seeing men simp is totally cringe!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:09 PM
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Well, I've got to 41 without them. So doing fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:48 AM
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None of this really matters because as soon as AI synthetic companions are invented a large number of men will leave the dating scene for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:21 AM
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I did when I was younger but at 41 it's a def no!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:18 PM
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I work full time and still have time for hobbies and interests. I work to pay bills and lead my lifestyle. Relationships, marriage and kids aren't for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:50 AM
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I'm largely indifferent nowadays tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:53 PM
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I have neither the patience or tolerance to play the game nowadays. I would rather invest my time in something with more positive outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:35 AM
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My achievements. Nothing to do with validation from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:33 AM
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So glad I'm an introvert and outsider who doesn't give a f..k about social expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:39 AM
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Hmm, don't agree. Some men are just simply invisible to women and lack the qualities needed to attract a partner. Those men need to find alternate paths in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:05 AM
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Being 41, lifelong single and enduring endless ghosting, rejection, being dumped and treated with indifference I choose to walk the single path.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:53 PM
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Luckily not for me. So burnt out by all my experiences over the years that I've become pretty numb to all this. To be honest I literally even have no interest in talking to women online (messaging becomes tiresome after a minute) or responding to their social media content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:01 AM
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As a futurist/transhumanist 100% support it. I would love to see a future where men who struggle with finding love find happiness in AI companions/synthetic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:35 PM
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Women are ok as friends and aquantances. As long as we understand that we're all good! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:39 PM
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Been doing that all my life. My self worth comes within, not from validation from the opposite sex. I'm strongly of the belief that the sexes don't really need each other anymore and that we're better off walking our own paths in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:34 PM
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Being a futurist and transhumanist 100% agree! It's time we left centuries old lifestyles and traditions behind and embrace the future!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:57 PM
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To be honest men really only need women for sex and having children and in the future even those needs will be answered with synthetic companions and artificial wombs. Everything else men can find with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:15 AM
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Luckily for me I have a moderate/low libido which I'm able to turn on/off easily, so sex doesn't control me. I don't masturbate either as I have no desire to do it. I'm probably on the asexual spectrum myself but still enjoy sex when I occasionally engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:59 AM
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Luckily I can easily switch on/off my libido, so it doesn't effect my everyday life. One of the negatives effects of having low testerone is I've little desire pursuing relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:48 PM
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Maybe it's time we open that box and see what lies within! 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:38 AM
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They were never on women's radar anyway, so I doubt they will even notice their absense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:37 AM
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Maybe it's time we did. Let nature reclaim! ☘️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:36 AM
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As a futurist and transhumanist I greatly look forward to developments in A.I. and robotics. If such robots can bring companionship to the elderly, disabled and those datingly challenged then I fully support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:37 PM
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Enjoying my hobbies and interests. Going to the gym, day's out and solo holidays. Lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:19 PM
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Probably helps too having a low libido. Not quite asexual but on that spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:13 PM
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I must be in the minority as I don't seek female validation at all. Everything I do in life is for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:09 PM
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That's the route I choose. Works for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:18 AM
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This is why I would much prefer women to be honest rather then leading men on with lies. Be transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:35 PM
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100% agree. People should do what makes them happy. That's how I pursue my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:08 PM
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I don't and won't accept that. I have standards thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:42 AM
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We're just drifting apart. I strongly believe we no longer really need each other anymore as we once did. Those centuries old traditions such as having to be in a relationship, get married and have kids ae crumbling to dust nowadays. The question is where do the sexes go from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:35 AM
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That's all about money, status and power! A lot if women are social climbers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 AM
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I focus on myself and that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:30 AM
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The worst of humanity for sure. Look at Trump!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:30 AM
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Being an introvert and outsider I no longer feel the need to fit in. Sadly it does seem that those who lack morals seem to be more successful in life than genuinenly good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:04 PM
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Your either invited to the party or your not. It's as simple as that. You got to have good looks, status and wealth to be chosen. If you have none of them it's game over!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:26 PM
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I'll definately be dying alone no doubt about that. I'm the last of my family and have been lifelong single. I've leant to make peace with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:12 AM
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100% agree! I find men more interesting to talk too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:43 AM
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Hmm, I have many hobbies and interests and go on lots of day's out and solo holidays but have never been succesful with woman. I think it's more a case of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:42 AM
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100% agree! Men should find self worth and validation from within not from the opposite sex. Build up your oen character and individuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:26 AM
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As a futurist/tranahumanist with a great interest in tech I'm greatly looking forward to such developmements in the fields of AI, VR and robotics. I see sex dolls as a positive for society rather than a negative. If such synthetic robots can provide companionship to the elderly, disabled and those datingly challenged then I fully support such tech. Realistically however we're very far off from such tech, maybe another 20-30 years (if we all survive that long!). What we have now is immobile sex d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:57 PM
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Neither do women in all honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:39 AM
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I think men on a whole should decenter women and find confidence, self worth and validation from within. Many women are doing the same with men which isn't a bad thing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:42 PM
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Escorts, AI girlfriends and sex dolls can fill that void. The rest of the time go about your life and focus on work, hobbies and interests. Go on lots of adventures and have fun! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:52 PM
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41M and never been in love. Not sure now if I ever could be to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:07 AM
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It's a definate no for me. I see no insentive to do it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:59 AM
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As a lifelong singleton in my 40's I find love in other things i.e. hobbies, interests, travelling and exploring new places. I strongly believe some people are meant to be single, so I learnt to make peace with that and started focusing on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:41 AM
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Maybe this is the way things should be. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:55 AM
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I would go the prostitute route if I was your age again. I waited till I was 29 which in retrospect was too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:54 AM
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I rarely if ever see it and I'm out and about in the city everyday. Most couples are looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:49 PM
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I think your right. I never really passed that level which is why I've always been single. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:45 PM
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Done clubs, pubs, meetup groups and dating apps. All without much sucess and that was all in my twenties. Just before turning 30 I came to the realisation that it wasn't for me and embraced the single life. Now 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:38 PM
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I've been known to have my whiny moments about dating but have pretty much learnt to make peace with being lifelong single now. It's all about alternate avenues now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:46 PM
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100% agree. There really isn't. Some people are meant to be single and not compatable to date or be in a relationship due to many issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:52 PM
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From experience most gay guys are nicer company
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:43 PM
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Women are better as friends or aquantances than as partners. It would be better if the sexes went their own ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:39 PM
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The best thing any self respecting guy can do now is to walk away. Focus your energies on more worthwhile pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:19 PM
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Personally I wouldn't date a woman with kids or someone who wants them. It doesn't appeal to me whatsoever but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:34 AM
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I feel the same. It's incredibly dumb. If they want to go off with another just let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:38 AM
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Who knows? Whatever happens happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:40 PM
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More men are now leaving the dating game then ever before and those that are left behind are raising their standards not the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:19 PM
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It's a difficult time for everyone right now. The sexes aren't really getting on with each other that much anymore and are increasingly both going our own ways. I forsee single people will outnumber those in relationships in the future which will force society to adapt to a new single living lifestyle. The development of AI will further widen the divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:16 AM
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As someone who left the dating scene a decade ago I'm here for the debates and discussions. Some are really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:55 AM
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Combine AI with a sex doll and your have something interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:51 PM
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Hence the importance of men decentering women. The problem is few men are strong, resilitant enough to walk their own paths. Men lack value and self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:18 AM
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It wouldn't bother me all that much as I've been rather promiscuous myself in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:51 AM
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I've no issue being friends with women at all. I have quite a few female friendships and aquantances. That's all they are to me however as I don't date or do relationships. Strictly platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:50 AM
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100% agree! I honestly believe your right. It's difficult to explain but a lot of men just don't have that something that attracts women. It's sad but the truth. My advice to such men would be to focus those energies on more worthwhile pursuits in life than pursuing the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:20 PM
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We might see this in another 10-20 years perhaps but such technology is still in its infancy. Early beginnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:42 AM
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I think not. The thing is you see I'm never been particulary motivated to pursue women throughout my life. Never really connected with people on emotional level. I'm more than likely an avoidant autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:01 AM
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Find that validation from within and not from others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:08 PM
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I have radical opinions on a number of subjects. Always been an individualist and outsider right from a young age so never felt the need to fit in to societies expectations. One of the benefits of living on the outside is you get to watch, observe and take notes on many of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:06 PM
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I don't masturbate as I have no desire to do it. Luckily I'm blessed with a very low libido/sex drive which gives me greater clarity of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:03 PM
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As an introvert and avoidant I get my female connection from friends and aquantances. I keep things strictly platonic. I have boxes for all my needs in life. No crossovers!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:09 AM
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Some come to this realisation later than others but we get there in the end. It's a long journey. At least it was for me. It's very peaceful now! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:03 AM
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From experience the apps are full of single mums which I avoid like the plague. Different lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:33 AM
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Same. We no longer need each other as we once did, so it's time we walked away from each other and forged new identities and lifestyles away from cultural norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:33 AM
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To be honest who honestly wants to put themselves through all this? Just embrace the single lifestyle and whenever you need a sexual fix just see an escort or buy a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:31 AM
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Dating apps are full of single mums. I would say they easily outnumber those without. What is all this saying to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:26 PM
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I would say the reverse is equally true. Men have been walking away from women for some time now. Hence the rise of MGTOW which grows in bigger numbers with every passing year. The brutal truth is both sexes no longer need each as they once did. The nucleur family is all but dead, as are most of the centuries old traditions such as having to be in a relationship, have kids and get married. Birth rates are in decline worldwide. The next great change will be in the development of synthetic compani…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:06 PM
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41 and lifelong single although I have on a few dates wity a girl who I met online 3-4 years ago. Although a nice person she was totally unsuitable for me so I choose to end things with her. The experience was a good learning curve for me as it showed me that dating isn't for me. Turning 40 was the big milestone as I let go of all of those anxieties and started embracing the single lifestyle. More than happy to have women as platonic friends. If I need my sexual needs met I'll just book an escor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:04 PM
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Which would be a positive thing for their mental health and wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:24 AM
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The best thing for men to do is to decenter women. Take them off the pedestal and focus those wasted energies pursuing them on more worthwhile and productive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:42 PM
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I've never given it a moments thought tbh Not sure how I would feel if my partner was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:30 AM
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Never do it. Saying that I have a very low libido/sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:31 AM
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Being a futurist I greatly look forward to developments in AI, VR and robotics and would definately be interested in a synthetic companion in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:51 AM
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I think more men should definately do this. We need to focus our energies on more worthwhile pursuits in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:23 AM
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I look forward to seeing more men do this! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:43 AM
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AI will only interfere with online dating if your using the apps. Both sexes are walking away from the apps nowadays. If your not using the apps it wouldn't effect you much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:42 AM
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Look no further than all the 'Terrifier' fan girls. They love 'Art the Clown' mutilating men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:22 PM
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Sometimes being single isn't such a bad thing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:53 PM
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Sure they are. If only they were more honest about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:53 PM
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Oh, absolutely! 41 years and counting! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:20 PM
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Oh, absolutely. Some of the best conversations are with myself! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:44 PM
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The future for men is A.I. synthetic companions and fully immersive VR but that's by no means grim in any way. For the moment we have sex dolls and escorts. Both of which are good subsitutes for the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:27 AM
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Sure! I've lived without romantic love for 41 years so could easily live another 30+ years without it. Being somewhat of a loner I only socialize every now and then, most of the time doing pretty much everything by myself. That's a way of life for me and not one I have too much of a problem with tbh If I ever want my desires met I'll just book an escort. I've been doing that since I was 29, so it's an arrangement that works for me. Less so as I've got older mind as I don't feel the need to do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:14 PM
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There's much more to life than girls and relationships. Go out and start exploring the world around you! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:39 AM
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I think it's great that women have achieved equality and independance and are no longer tied to centuries old traditions such as having to be in a relationship, have kids and get married. Many women are choosing the single lifestyle. More men need to start doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:28 PM
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No interest in doing it tbh. Completely indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:21 AM
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MGTOW is the only logical path for men nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:33 PM
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Honestly no. I think we no longer need each other tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:17 AM
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The cats out the bag now. Social media has exposed all our thoughts and feelings about each other. The mask has been lifted. The question is where do we go from here? The most likely outcome in the future will be in the development of synthetic companions. When everyone has a partner tailor made to their choices it's unlikely people will bother to have human relationships anymore. The future will be interesting for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:51 AM
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As an introvert I tend to be attracted to more quiter people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:44 AM
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100% agree. As a lifelong autistic aromantic loner/outsider I honestly don't give a f..k about what society thinks of me. Pretty indifferent tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:16 PM
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Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:57 AM
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Just go with an escort, that's what I did. A fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:32 AM
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Well, as the old age saying goes 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus'. We may share traits but male/female brains are very different. Women tend to be more emotional, empathic and sensitive and men tend to be more logical and analytical. Your right when you say women have better support systems of friends then men but a lot of men have that too. The comarade of brotherhood in both world wars shows that. Are men jealous of women? Some might be but probably not all. As for sex. Is that all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:08 PM
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I wouldn't bother to be honest unless I wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:30 AM
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Beyond sex and procreation probably not so much. Most men can get their social needs meet by socialising with their male friends. In all honesty men and women are completely different and not much alike. It's taken until now to release that we no longer need each other anymore. The development of A.I. i.e. synthetic companions will fill the companionship/relationship needs in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:23 AM
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The truth is we no longer need as other as we once did. The social expectations of the past have disintigrated into dust so both sexes are now walking different paths. What we're experiencing now has been a long time coming. The next major game changer in human relationships will be with the development of A.I and synthetic companions in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:00 PM
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More men should see escorts for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:08 AM
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In regards to human relationships with A.I two films point towards the future; Her and Ex Machina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:07 AM
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As a lifelong singleton at 40 I've learnt to embrace the single lifestyle. That's not saying I wouldn't have an FWB but as for a commited relationship probably not. My focus nowadays is on my family, myself and work. Going on lots of adventures and having fun! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:44 AM
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I have the uppermost respect for escorts and prostitutes but not so much for OF and sugarbabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:32 PM
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Sure and I believe they will be the answer to the loneliness pandemic in the future. Many people are locked out the dating game for a variety of reasons i.e. being unattractive (to modern standards), having low social status and being on the autism spectrum/other disabilities. If we can provide a synthetic companion for those people it will greatly help with depression and may see a reduction in suicide rates, so I fully support such developing technologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:23 AM
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Well, serial killer Ted Bundy received hundreds of love letters and marriage proposals while in prison. From a pyschological standpoint this is all about power play. If that serial killer was released the women would run for the hills. Visited a serial killer exhibition in London last year and saw many of these love letters. The things women wrote in them would surprise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:17 AM
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Depends on your defination of loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:09 AM
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Not really. 40 and lifelong single. It's a way of life. If I'm not used to my own company at this age then I never will be. When it's time to go let it be so! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:01 AM
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A person who experiences little or no romantic/sexual attraction to anyone. Not having romantic/sexual feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:06 AM
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Indeed! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:37 PM
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Never been in a relationship or even want one, so not seeking validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:46 PM
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I don't rely on anyone for validition. My confidence and self worth comes from myself. I learnt to no longer care what others think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:40 PM
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Being a lifelong singleton, introvert/loner outsider I guess I must be a Sigma male. Also an autistic aromantic. A rare breed indeed! 😎 100% agree that men need to find confidence and self worth from within, not from the validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:33 PM
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I've never really had envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships because I've always been somewhat of a misfit and outsider who was never like most people. I don't feel the need to fit into society in all honesty, so care little about all that stuff. Being like I am makes me different and with that strong sense of character and individuality comes confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:11 AM
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Luckily mine is almost non-existant which gives me great clarity of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:05 AM
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The development of synthetic/robotic companions in the future will fix the 'Male Loneliness Epidemic'. Until then the best options for men are either pay to see escorts or invest in a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:53 AM
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I would much prefer to keep my confidence, respect and self worth intact to be honest than have it shattered by dating apps. Since embracing being single I have no desire to go back on the apps for as long as I live tbh Dating apps are a business designed to exploit the lonely and lonely for profits which is kinda sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:33 AM
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Men need to decenter women and focus more on themselves. Build confidence, respect and self worth without the need for validation from the oppisite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:28 AM
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To a degree we all have to wear a mask and fake it in social situations but behind the facade we stay true to our individualist selfs. It's all about putting on an act tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:08 PM
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The first obviously but I've little interest in doing either nowadays, preferring my own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:36 PM
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Sure although paying for sex gets boring after a while. If you just want sex it's fine. If you want a deeper emotional connection not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:34 PM
2

An honest business transaction. The escort gets the money and you get the pleasure. Also you get to close the door on the way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:27 PM
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I think when we have fully automated synthetic companions the 'Male Loneliness Epidemic' will be a thing of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:48 AM
3

This is my advice for virgin guys. No shame in it. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:36 AM
2

Tesla was an amazing man. A visionairy far ahead of his time. A rare human being indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:03 AM
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Who gives a f..k what society thinks about you! The world is an absolute stinking pile of shit, absolutely corrupt and vile. People full of ego, narcissists, shallow and judgemental attention seekers. Saying that there are still some authentic genuine people out there, just there a rare breed. My advice would be to focus on yourself, build confidence, respect and self worth from within, not from seeking validation from others. Become passionate about your hobbies and interests and not care what …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:54 AM
1

I would much prefer to go to places with as little people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:10 PM
3

For fully automated synthetic/robotic companions to be invented for lonely men all the world. I strongly believe this would see a huge decrease in male suicide and depression and women suffering domestic abuse, rape, sex trafficking and prositution. There's more positive benefits to sex robots for both sexes than negative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:11 AM
1

I don't mind people but like animals you want to hand them back at the end of the day and have alone time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:00 PM
1

A much better idea would be to scrap them altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:19 AM
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Luckily have a very low sex drive, asexual and autistic I consider myself incredibly blessed. Never been a slave to these emotions and my life is all the better because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:20 PM
2

Being aromantic it wouldn't bother me all that much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:37 AM
1

Not particulary. How one views hiring escorts is very much up to the individual. Personally to me it's just a business transaction. The escort gets the money and I get the pleasure. Also the opportunity to furfill my sexual fantasies. Throughout the years I saw escorts I had mostly awesome experiences and very few negative ones. I don't do it so much now as my sex drive is pretty low and I've more worthwhile things to spend my wages on but it was great fun at the time. I don't regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:26 PM
1

From personal experience I find I have stronger relationships (non sexual being asexual) with men then women. Now don't get me wrong some women are fine but I don't emotionally connect with 99% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:19 AM
1

I don't have one. I much prefer my peace and quiet! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:53 AM
5

Most are grifters. The real ones probably have YouTube channels with a smaller audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:52 AM
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There's been plenty of asexual men throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:50 AM
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Aside from those who are asexual that is!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:07 AM
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I don't worry. Very chilled out nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:17 PM
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40M, lifelong single, autistic and asexual. I don't expect anyone to change their life for me, neither would I change my life for them. We all have different paths in life and need to make the best of the cards we're given. There's no point in being miserable about things that are beyond your control. Make the most of each day and try to be positive and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 PM
1

Well, being asexual it would be suit me fine although I don't date and do relationships. A flat/roommate might work as long as we respected each others boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:55 AM
1

I wish my late brother had done that rather than seting with anything he could get. Doing that among others things led him to suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:08 PM
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Not particulary. Saying that with age I no longer care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:08 AM
4

Stoicism is indeed a healthy path for men and one more need to follow. It does against the mainstream however.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:55 PM
13

I think men decentering women is a great idea. Far too many men put women on pedestals and base their self worth on validation from them. I used to be like this myself back in my teens/twenties but as I got older I found my confidence, respect and self worth from within. This lead to me truly embracing the single lifestyle i.e. going on lots of adventures, solo holidays etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:53 AM
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Date whoever you want. Just don't be crying about it later when things turn bad. Learn to develop a better judge of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:38 AM
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I would never use the apps again. I value my mental health and wellbeing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:21 AM
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All men need to do is to decenter women in their lifes and focus more on themselves. Build confidence and self worth without the need for validation from the opposite sex. Put those energies into more worthwhile things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:17 AM
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Well, being aromantic all my relationships with women are strictly platonic. I would say if you enjoy each others company and share some similar interests then your a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:58 AM
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Many times but I'm not that way inclined. In fact being aromantic I'm not attracted to anyone so would reject both if approached again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:43 PM
1

I don't approach so am not intimidated by any woman. Just another painted face in the crowds. Pretty indifferent nowadays tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:15 PM
1

I enjoy the conversations on a variety of topics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:47 AM
2

Me neither. Not fussed tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:08 AM
1

I don't feel pressured as I don't pursue women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:04 AM
1

Titanic is a movie of two halfs; the first is romantic slop and the second is about the disaster. Latter is more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:17 AM
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The truth is there are many men who are just not desirable to women. My advise to those men is to move on and find other pursuits in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:59 PM
1

As an outsider looking in I don't particulary pay the 'manosphere' much interest. Having left the dating scene a long time ago, found that I'm on the autism spectrum and came out as aromantic all this gender war stuff isn't really important anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:44 AM
1

A person who experiences little or no romantic attraction to anyone. Not having romantic feelings really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:22 PM
3

I gave up looking a long time ago when I was 29. I'm now 40 and have no intention of dating or looking for a relationship anymore. Truly embraced the single lifestyle. Coming out as both autistic and aromantic has played a big part in that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:44 AM
1

Although I'm not officially diagnosed as autistic I strongly believe I am. I don't find it a negative thing however as it makes me different and unique. As for dating and relationships I've never had much success/interest in them. This is most likely due to autism (struggling to make emotional connections, displaying those emotions and showing much empathy) and being on the asexual spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:14 AM
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Left wokeism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:35 PM
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Well, who would not prefer the child of a god to some acne scarred artisan? Love that quote!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:32 PM
1

More like sexual selection. Saying that how much importance you place on these issues is up to the individual. On a wider prospective none of it really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:10 PM
1

The positive about a guy seeing prostitutes is he can close the door on the way out without all the drama that dating and relationships entail. That's why some men prefer that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:29 AM
5

Being someone who no longer wants kids or even a relationship I'm pretty indifferent about the issue. Saying that I do embrace new technologies, especially A.I.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:09 PM
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I think I had my bitter moments when I was younger but since turning 40 I've found an incredible inner peace and am quite happy being single for the rest of my days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:43 AM
1

Sure. As someone whose not really interested in romance or sex but still likes human touch a synthetic companion would suit me fine. Might be a good chat buddy too! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:36 AM
3

The declining birth rate is due to a large number of issues from economic to changes in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:30 AM
1

Hmm, not in the sense that water, food and sleep is a need. You can easily live without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:28 AM
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Coming out as autistic to me has been a blessing as it's given me the opportunity to truly understand myself. When I look back at my life now a lot of the struggles I faced can now be explained. It's like putting the pieces of a puzzle together and that's incredibly liberating! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:05 AM
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I much prefer my own company in all honesty nowadays. One finds a level of peace and happiness in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:10 AM
1

I've no idea as I don't ask them. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:30 PM
1

Being aromantic and autistic I'm kinda indifferent tbh I pretty much keep myself to myself and only socialize every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:27 PM
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Maybe we should blame Isambard Kingdom Brunel! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:10 AM
1

We all walk different paths in life. Some will brave countless rejections in the hope of meeting someone while others will respectfully walk away with their self respect intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:37 AM
1

Never really been into the whole romance (in regards to people) thing. I honestly find romantic fiction and films incredibly dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:30 AM
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If men value their mental health and wellbeing avoid dating apps. Work on building confidence and self worth from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:13 PM
1

Definately an outsider but I'm pretty cool with that! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:25 PM
1

My favourite genre is horror. Don't give a f..k about romance I want to see lots of bloody deaths and gore! 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:03 PM
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My concern is more for other men, especially the younger generation than myself as I left the dating scene a decade ago. It matters nothing to me nowadays as I'm completely indifferent about it but I do care greatly for the mental health and wellbeing of this generation of men. The decline in male mental health is a huge issue for society and the causes are apently and it's time we looked into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:28 AM
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100% agree! Dating apps should be shut down ASAP. They exploit the lonely and the vulnerable for profits which is sickening honestly. There incredibly damaging to mental health and wellbeing too, so the sooner there gone the better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:03 AM
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If I was your age again I would focus more on myself and less on all that love/romance stuff. Build confidence, independance and self worth from within, not based on validation from the opposite sex. Go on lots of adventures and have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:54 AM
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I highly doubt the majority of women even care or know what MGTOW even is. There all so busy living their own lifes it's unlikely it's noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:19 AM
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Always the observer taking mental notes in my mind! ✒️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:52 PM
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I enjoy watching the unfolding car crash that is modern dating. I sit by the sidelines watching as an observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:36 PM
1

Not something I have to worry about anymore. Yay! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:33 AM
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I find transactional relationships work for me. I tend to compartmentalize my needs in life into boxes. This gives me great clarity of mind, independance and freedom without the need to conform to social constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:36 PM
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Stay single. I much prefer to keep my self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:21 AM
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If I hadn't taken the escort route when I was younger I would still be a virgin today at 40. Believe it or not seeing escorts has greatly improved my mental and physical confidence so it's done wonders for me over the years. Saying that I am kinda bored of it nowadays and much prefer to spend my wages on my hobbies and interests. That's not to say I wouldn't see one again but it's not that important to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:19 AM
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100% agree and don't think men should be ashamed for choosing that lifestyle. I lost my virginity to an escort aged 29 and have seen escorts ever since. Got to furfill all my sexual fantasies and had some awesome experience. I don't regret a moment of it. 100% recommend! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:35 AM
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Hmm, kinda agree but not fully. I do think men need to start living more independant lifes and find confidence and self worth from within (without the need for validation from the oppoisite sex) but I wouldn't be too extreme about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:32 AM
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Having always been an introvert and outsider I've always kinda known. As I've got older however I've learnt to embrace the single lifestyle and rather than it being a negative I've turned it into a positive. It's been a journey. Also been investigating into the strong possibility I might be on the autism spectrum. With this knowledge I'm beginning to put all the pieces of the puzzle together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:30 AM
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As an aromantic and autustic man I feel incredibly blessed to not have to deal with such things. Gives one great clarity of mind. Saying that it's been a lifelong journey to get to where I am today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:15 AM
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Sounds a bit like me. Kinda indifferent about this stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:42 AM
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Being aromantic myself I would neither date or marry them. I could easily be lifelong platonic/room mates with such a person maybe as long as we lead our own independant lifes and just paid the bills/rents together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:32 PM
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Never been in love and I'm 40! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:29 PM
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Stop monkeying around! 🦧😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:27 PM
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We're very like them. Our brains still ingrained with those primal urges. Some can move beyond them however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:34 PM
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100% agree but unlikely to happen unfortunately as a male's self worth is based around validation from women. A lot of men are afraid to break away from the circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:48 PM
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Totally but it was a long journey to get here! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:41 PM
4

Not strictly true. Being totally indifferent I barely notice anyone! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:33 PM
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To be honest it's not worth the effort for most men. Ot would be a better use of time to focus on careers, investing money, keeping fit and healthy and pursuing hobbies and interests. All things that build self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:36 PM
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Neither a nice or bad I'm just me. Accept what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:52 PM
1

Many men have lovely personalities but are still always single?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:30 AM
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100% agree! Men need to start socialising more with each other and focusing less on the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:38 AM
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No interest in marriage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:23 PM
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I strongly believe a large majority of people who struggle in forming emotional connections are on the autistic spectrum just not diagnosed. We see more and more people coming out as ND nowadays which answers a lot of these questions. Speaking as someone who strongly believes they are on the spectrum learning more about it has been like putting the pieces of a puzzle together. It's been hugely liberating. Throughout my life I've always struggle forming emotional connections with people and have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:21 PM
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I must admit in all honesty as a lifelong singleton (40M) no one outside my family has taken issue with it. Most people are far too busy leading their own lifes to care about others, the same goes for me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:51 PM
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As a lifelong singleton (40M) I just focus on myself, work, hobbies and interests. Pretty indifferent to how society sees me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:20 AM
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If I were you I would start focusing on myself more and less on what others think. Learn to live for yourself, one based on furfilling dreams and goals. If you don't ever met anyone so be it. There's more to life than all that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:17 AM
1

Escorts can feel that need
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:14 AM
2

Men need fo start focusing more on themselves and learn to throw away the society rulebook. Independance!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:10 AM
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I would say worse as a guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/25 08:33 AM
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100% agree! Men to start decentering women in their lifes and learn to focus more on achieving individual goals and dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:21 AM
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I compete with no one as I actively walked away from the game over a decade ago and feel all the better for me. Embracing the single lifestyle has done wonders for my mental and physical health. Interesting I'm often told I look very young for my age (I'm 40) and I put a lot of that down to not having to deal with the drama and stresses of relationships, marriage and kids. I wouldn't trade this lifestyle for anyone. Being an anti-social autistic asexual introvert helps! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:28 AM
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Neither are a lot of men nowadays. We're wising up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:56 AM
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I think by this time men get to that age they start to wise up and see through all the bullshit, games and double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:50 AM
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I would say aromantics get that emotional closeness to family (parents and siblings) and from friends (platonically).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:17 AM
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Aromantic means a person who experiences little or no romantic attraction to anyone, not having romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:09 AM
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Marriage as an insituation from a bygone age. The sooner it's gone the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:32 AM
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The problem with male loneliness is there's little anyone can do about it. Saying that there are things that could be done in society to make life more bearable for men i.e. legalising prostitution worldwide and reducing the social stigmas around the men who pay for sex, more safety nets for men to prevent homelessness and suicide, kids being taught in schools that being a male isn't a bad thing and to have positive role models to look up too both in present and the past, teach kids that not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:18 PM
1

I highly doubt your find that nowadays. More likely with animals but not with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:50 AM
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All dating apps should be shut down as they contribute towards poor mental health and exploit the vulnerable for profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:21 AM
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I don' think it was doomed at all and still isn't it. Like a lot of things a few bad people spoil it for the rest. As a philosophy it's pretty sound and still holds good lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:13 AM
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Why get upset at things you have no control over. Focus on the things you can make positive changes in your life with. In regards to women if you reach a certain age and they've never shown much interest in you that's pretty much telling you all you need to know. Instead of getting down about it learn to focus those energies on other more worthwhile things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:11 AM
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What men need to start doing is decentering women in their lifes and start focusing more on themselves, achieving personal goals and ambitions without needing validation from the opposite sex. Men need to find confidence and self worth again. We are capable of much more!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:27 AM
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Of course it's not possible for everybody. Instead of dreaming we should focus on things that we can make a positive improvement on. Things with more certain results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:42 PM
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No but it has confirmed long had beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:52 AM
1

I must say I don't particulary care all that much. With age comes indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:37 PM
2

100% agree! Both genders need to decenter each other and forge their own individual paths. It took me nearly 40 years to come to this realisation. Coming out as aromantic and autistic did help a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:42 AM
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I used to be upset about not having one when I was younger but now that I'm older (40M) I've pretty much embraced the single lifestyle. I love the freedom, independance, peace and quiet and wouldn't trade that for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:50 PM
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It's fine in small doses but not for any longer. Being an introvert I need a lot of alone time otherwise I burn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:53 PM
1

What about homosexual, asexual and aromantic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:13 AM
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Great to hear. More power to you! 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:53 PM
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Family, animal and love for friends. Everything else strictly plantonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:17 PM
3

100% agree. Just focus on other things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:30 PM
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100% agree. Men need to start decentering women in their lifes. Starting building confidence, character, independance and self worth without validation from the opposite sex. Pursue goals and dreams and explore new places. Men need to look to the past when men were pioneers, inventors and explorers. Let's get back that fire! 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:23 PM
1

While I am not offically diagnosed with autism, leaning more about it has really opened my eyes when I reflect on my past. That's been incredibly liberating and not negative at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:21 PM
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In the current dating climate 100% agree. Average/ugly men have nothing to lose regulary seeing escorts. They really are the angels of mercy to societies invisible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:23 PM
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The rise of A.I. bots and VR porn. Everyone will then be able to have their sexual fantasies met by technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:12 PM
1

I think it's something which has always been part of me just I didn't begin to put the pieces of the puzzle together until I got older. I strongly believe I am also on the autism spectrum the more I look back at my past. I'm finally beginning to understand myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:26 PM
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That was before I came out as aromantic and before my autism diagnosis. Between the ages of 17 and 38. I went through a lot of experimenting (sexually, although I never got much out of those experiences) and self realisation before all the pieces of the puzzle came together. I spent most of my twenties and thirties trying to fit in to and mask but nowadays I no longer need to do such things. I feel I know myself better now then at other time in my life. This new confidence has also helped me loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:56 PM
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Most of the time it's a waste of time. I've more worthwhile things to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:18 PM
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I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. According to recent data worldwide sales of sex dolls are rocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:37 AM
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Marriage, having kids and being in a relationship will all be obsolete in the future. We're heading into an age of A.I. where all niches and kinks will be catered for with synthetic sex dolls and fully immersive VR porn. The loneliness epidemic will cease to exist in the far future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:30 AM
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I don't particulary wish for any but wouldn't say no to a close platonic friendship as long as we respected our boundaries. I've become more aromantic the older I've got although I've identified as asexual since I was 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:22 AM
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Posts like this always make me happy I'm aromantic. It's incredibly liberating and refreshing not to be part of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:57 PM
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And that's the problem. Men need to start unchaining themselves from female validation and find self worth from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:17 AM
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I think.dating apps should be shut down as they contribute towards poor mental health and exploit the vulnerable for cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:23 AM
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I had given up dating a decade ago before coming out as aromantic. Since then I've been looking into getting an autism diagnosis which would explain my difficulty in forming emotional relationships with people. It's been a long journey of realisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:47 AM
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Being aromantic I have no desire for a relationship what so ever however I could live with an asexual room mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:18 AM
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I consider it a waste of time. Time that could be better spent pursuing hobbies and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:41 AM
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There is no end goal/solution. Call it Darwian but the strong survive and the weak die. The confident model looking guys will be successful with women while the average/ugly guys will have to make peace with being single and walk a different path in life. The development of synthetic companions in the future will give happeness to the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:21 AM
1

Being an aromantic autistic introvert I've no revenge fantasies. Too busy getting on with work, hobbies and interests. Completely indifferent most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:33 PM
1

Being both aromantic and autistic I naturally decenter relationships. As long as things stay strictly platonic we're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:23 PM
2

I feel no desire to be in a relationship whatsoever nowadays. Learnt to embrace being single 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:27 AM
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Whenever I get requests from these spambots I block and report them. Had quite a few removed from Insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:23 AM
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The only thing I want to see is the apps shut down! There incredibly damaging to mental health and pray on the vulnerable to make profits. It's sickening tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:21 AM
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When I was young I used to follow women around like a lovesick puppy dog seeking validation because I had no self esteem or much personality of my own. As I've got older I've found that confidence, independance, respect and self worth from within. Also learnt to find happiness and peace with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:59 AM
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Achieving enlightenment! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:41 AM
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Aromantic and autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:30 PM
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I totally support people who want to have AI relationships and buy sex dolls. If they can provide comfort and companionship to many people on the margins of society i.e. the elderly, disabled, lonely and those datingly challenged then I can only see that as a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:36 PM
2

I choose to embrace the single lifestyle and have no intention of changing it anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:06 PM
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I'm all for this but it's unlikely to happen due to the male sex drive. If you could have a pill that killed it stone dead then I think men would leave women alone. Kinda lucky myself being aromantic that I've no interest in dating or being in a relationship. Found my inner peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:04 PM
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I barely give it much thought to be honest. Too focused on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:14 PM
1

I've had much luck with them. They did however help me to come out as aromantic, so they were part of my journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:38 AM
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100% agree! Most men are too focused on women, putting them on pedestals for validation and self worth when that should come from within. In my youth I used to be the same acting like a puppy dog around women. As I've got older I positively cringe at my past behavoir. I wish I had found my confidence and self worth back then that I have now. I've positively embraced the single lifestyle and focus only on myself nowadays. Interestingly since coming out as aromantic last year after a lifelong real…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 PM
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Simps maybe but not the stiocs. Many men are learning to live full lifes without the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:12 PM
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Online dating is incredibly bad for mental health. If you want to bring down your confidence (like throwing a stone in a pond) then give them a go but if you value your dignity and self respect don't use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:13 PM
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Ah, I see. Being aromantic I tend not to pay anything sexual much attention. Kinda indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:57 PM
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I've no idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:01 PM
3

Beaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:38 AM
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If I choose to work on myself it's for my own confidence and self worth, not for validation from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:08 AM
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Does it really matter? Far too commercial!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:34 PM
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Shelter, clothing and warmth most definatetly. Friendship provides a social need but intimacy, hmm not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:08 PM
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Hmm, not really. Water, food are needs not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:59 AM
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100% agree. Too many put women on pedestals and base their self worth on validation from them. It's sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:00 PM
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It's really not worth complaining about! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:52 AM
1

Well, being aromantic my relationships with women are strictly platonic. I can easily make conversation with people. How long that conversation lasts however depends on how interesting they are to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:37 AM
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I prefer women to be more feminine to be honest and less like men. Saying that I do find women with short hair attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:05 AM
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If such technology can give companionship and love to those on the margins of society such as the elderly, disabled, lonely and those who are datingly challenged then who are we to criticize them? As an outsider myself I wouldn't say say no to getting one. As a photographer it would be fun to have a creative muse too!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:03 AM
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I would self improve for myself not for validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:38 AM
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Being on the autism spectrum I struggle a lot with empathy. I find myself masking in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:37 AM
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100% agree. Too many men base their self worth around women when their self worth should come from within. Putting women on pedestals isn't a healthy thing to do. I'm 40 and have been lifelong single. It's been quite a journey but I got there in the end. Interestingly I recently came out as aroace! 💜💚
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:05 PM
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I have a lot of platonic friends and aquantances. Being on the asexual spectrum however that's all they are to me. As long as we respect each others boundaries we should get on just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:13 AM
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I fully support the development of sex robots and VR. If I can bring happiness to many people on the margins of society i.e. the elderly, disabled, lonely and datingly challenged then it can only be a positive thing. Why deprive anyone of happiness? As a photographer a sex doll/robot would be great fun to do cosplay shoots with. A creative muse if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:04 PM
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Men should embrace the single lifestyle! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:08 PM
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As an aromantic asexual I would prefer not to be chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:51 PM
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Too many men put women on pedestals and seek validation from them when their self worth should come from within. Focus more on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:21 AM
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Hmm, this is a difficult question. Being sex obsessed as many men are there more likely to fall for a lot of sex scams. Women on the other hand are more likely to fall for the romance scams sometimes out of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:06 AM
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Since coming out as aromantic it hardly matters tbh I never intend to engage in sexual activities again so kinda indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:32 AM
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I didn't lose my virginity till I was nearly 30 and it didn't drive me crazy. Saying that I've always had a low libido/testerone and wasn't all that interested in love and relationships. Honestly it wouldn't bother me if I never had sex ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:55 AM
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I used to complain a lot when I was younger but recentkt turning 40 has been enlightening. Many of those anxieties and worries have faded away and I feel more at peace within myself than I have ever been in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:50 PM
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Outside sex and reproduction do men need women? Interesting question! 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:19 AM
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No, I would have much better things to be doing i.e. travelling, making a difference helping charities across the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:16 AM
1

I make an effort with my appearance for my own confidence and self worth, not for the validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:25 PM
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I would honestly much prefer to invest that time in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:57 AM
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One of the most intelligent and well written articles I've read for a long time. As much as I think celibacy is an admirable choice I don't see many men choosing that path.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:02 PM
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As much as I adore animals I wouldn't want to be killed and eaten by a bear so I would much prefer to avoid them. Leave the bears alone in the forest to do their own thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:33 AM
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I would rather eat dog 💩 that use another dating app! I much prefer to keep my dignity and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:23 AM
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That's what they called her in Liverpool! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:45 AM
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You know your history. I'm very impressed! Nice to see someone with good knowledge!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:35 PM
1

Opening the floodgates for thousands of refugees to flood into Europe. Not a great decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:52 PM
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Very true! You can't judge the events of today on those on the past!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:30 PM
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I always thought she was quite masculine. More like a man than a woman. Well, she was called the Iron Lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:38 PM
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I wouldn't say Queen Victoria was an example of an effective monarch despite her long reign on the throne. It was during her empire building days that many people suffered unbearable cruelty in the colonies and in the UK. I would imagine Elizabeth I and Catherine the Great weren't good people either. I don't know enough about Condoleeza Rice and Madeleine Albright to comment much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:34 PM
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Oh, there's been a hell of a lot of evil male world leaders! The list is endless!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:55 PM
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Well, the UK has had three female PM's and all were shockingly awful; Thatcher privatised all the industries and caused mass unemployment, Liz Trust only lasted 42 days but in that time caused the country to go into economic meltdown, Theresa May was absolutely useless and as for the new Conservative leader she has as much charisma as a recycle bin. Generally men make better leaders in government than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:48 PM
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As an asexual male can't say I give such movements much thought! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:42 PM
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Can't say I've experienced this but saying that as an aromantic male I neither date or do relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:40 PM
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A chemical reaction in the brain, abeit a fleeting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:00 AM
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As an anti-social aromantic introvert I couldn't give a f..k!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:03 AM
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Not at all. It's all about embracing a new way of life. What maybe niche now will become mainstream in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:43 PM
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The future lies in the development of A.I. i.e. sex bots and VR porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:51 PM
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I put effort into myself for my own confidence and self worth, not for the validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:00 PM
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Not like food, water and sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:59 PM
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Aa a futurist/transhumanist I'm really looking forward to the developing technologies of A.I. There's so many positive possibilities. If A.I. girlfriends and VR porn can provide comfort for the disabled, elderly, lonely and datingly challenged men then I'm all for it. As an aromantic male I might consider buying a sex doll myself as it would be useful for the rare pangs of passion or cosplay costume photoshoots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:03 PM
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M39. My hobbies and interests are what I most focus on when I'm not working. As an asexual who doesn't date or do relationships I have all the time in the world to pursue my passions which is awesome! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:49 AM
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No wife, happy life! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:51 AM
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Marriage us an outdated insitution that has no place in the modern world. A relic from a bygone era.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:50 AM
1

Then have higher standards. Some self respect too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:03 PM
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Every guy should have standards and self respect regardless of looks/lack-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:34 AM
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Luckily I'm blessed with a low libido/testerone so have little interest in dating, relationships and sex. Liberating!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:32 AM
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I couldn't think of anything worse than attending a singles event.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:22 AM
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When I rarely have sex (not much desire for it) it's always casual. Not the relationship type in all honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:17 AM
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My life, confidence and self worth improved dramatically when I gave up looking for dates and relationships and started focusing on myself. It lead me to discover my asexuality too which has been liberating and life changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:47 PM
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I don't think all this will really matter in the future. With the advancing technologies of A.I. i.e. sex bots and VR porn, everyone will be able to live their fantasies. The old world will die and a new one will be born. Here's to a new world of man and machines! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:23 AM
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For me it's got better as I've got older. Saying that I've always been an introvert so a bit of a misfit! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:38 PM
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100% agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:59 AM
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Not putting women on a pedestal and just seeing them the same as guys. Immerse yourself in your passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:34 AM
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Growing up throughout my late teens and twenties I acted like a puppy dog around women seeking validation and self worth. Basically I was a thirsty simp. As I got older I started to look back at my life in retrospect and started to focus more on myself and find that validation and self worth from within. All that came from giving up looking for dates and relationships shortly before my 30th birthday. Having fully redifined my character and personality I have fully embraced the single lifestyle. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:03 AM
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What men need to start doing is throwing away the rulebook, centuries old traditions like relationships, marriage and kids and start living for themselves. Find confidence and self worth from within not from validation from others, especially women. Men are worth much more than this!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:14 PM
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Then should vibrators! You have to play fair and be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:29 PM
2

I enjoy the discussions which can be interesting sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:43 AM
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Not worth the time or investment in all honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:43 PM
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The sooner men get back their confidence and self worth the better. Men are capable of so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:17 PM
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The reality is men need to throw away the rulebook i.e. relationships, marriage and kids and start focusing more on themselves. Find your confidence and self worth from within not from the validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:03 PM
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In all honesty I much prefer male company to female. Much better geeky conversations! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:31 AM
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Before I came out as asexual I rarely approached anyone. Never had much interest in doing so tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:30 AM
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Before I came out as asexual I tried forcing myself into a relationship but it didn't work. Looking back now I can see I was trying to be something I'm not. I'm not sure if it was fate but a lot of things happened that lead me on the journey to coming out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:44 PM
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Being aroace kinda helps too! 💚💜
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:36 PM
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I gave up looking for dates and relationships shortly before my 30th birthday. I've since found my confidence and self worth from within without the validation from others. Learnt to love and embrace the single lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:33 PM
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39M and lifelong single. It took me a long time to fully embrace the single lifestyle but now that I have life is much easier. Being an aromantic introvert helps too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:21 PM
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I consider myself blessed to be aromantic. I've indentified as asexual since 2001. I find it incredibly liberating and refreshing. It's given me great clarity of mind. My only regret is I didn't come out sooner and fully embrace my aceness but now that I have life is pretty good! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:19 PM
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Finally someone talking sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:45 AM
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Maybe not but I've more productive things to be doing with my precious time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:29 AM
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I rarely watch it as I find it gets incredibly tiresome after a few mins. Saying that I have a very low libido/testerone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:13 AM
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Happily single so not interested in approaching anyone. As long as people leave me alone I'm a happy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:19 PM
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The only thing that needs to happen to dating apps is for them to be shut down for good. There terrible for society as a whole and cause a lot of mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:16 PM
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That some people are meant to be alone by default
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:13 PM
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Sure, if it was family or friends but not a stranger. Self preservation is more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:33 PM
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Being asexual we're in the minority so will see the world with different eyes. Let's say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:28 AM
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Nikola Tesla was asexual and he invented AC which is one of mankinds greatest achievements. Earlier back you have Issac Newton who discovered gravity. He was neither interested in sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:12 AM
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As asexuals we're a small minority so our lifestyles and views largely don't effect the world. Most men are still testerone driven and will seek out sex no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:25 PM
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Yeah, I disagree. Many of mankinds greatest achievements have been made by men who were'nt that interested in romance, relationships and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:40 PM
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Desperation is cringe!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:29 AM
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As an aromantic asexual I couldn't possibly comment! 😅 Having a low libido/testerone for me is a blessing. It gives me great clarity of mind and I'm more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:06 AM
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Not at all. It's fear of not knowing anything about the backgrounds of these immigrants/refugees. Many could be potential terrorists, murderers, rapists, peodophiles, drug dealers in their own countries. It's incredibly foolish having an open door policy to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:23 AM
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I've never believed this. It's just pop positivity bullshit to keep men functioning in a society that cares little about them. I genuienly believe women no longer need men as they did in the previous generations. Women now have achieved total independance and equality and are outdoing men in education and careers which is great. Men on the other hand are lagging behind and are still tied to centuries old expectations and social constructs such as having to be in relationships, get married and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:20 AM
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So said George Washington or was it another US president?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:52 AM
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Go rogue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:04 AM
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I went on five dates with a woman I met online back in 2021/2022 before my brain came back online. It was a learning experience for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:31 PM
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Almost certainly I should think!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:22 PM
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Sex robots and VR porn will be the future for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:13 PM
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Being an aromantic asexual I already have no desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:57 AM
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You make great points. The future for men is embracing being single and learning to throw away the rulebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:26 PM
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You make great points. The future for men is embracing being single and learning to throw away the rulebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:26 PM
1

So are homosexual, asexual men losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:10 PM
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I would prefer none at all. Flying the aroace flag proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:05 AM
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Since coming out as aroace this is something I no longer need worry about. It's incredibly liberating and refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:55 AM
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100% agree! A man should be his own island! 🏖
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:34 AM
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Being aroace I'm naturally asexual around women! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:34 PM
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Just be yourself and not fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:27 AM
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No one should have to settle for anyone less. Have standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:20 AM
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I've always liked being able to disappear into the background. It's rather comforting to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:04 PM
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I like observing and taking mental notes! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:29 PM
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As an aroace guy being invisible is a blessing. As long as I'm left alone to do my own thing I'm a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:29 PM
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To be honest I find most people nowadays have nothing to offer which is why I much prefer my own company. You get to a certain age and you can see through all the bullshit and just want some peace and quiet! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:45 AM
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As a lifelong introvert and outsider whose never really fitted into society I don't pay these things much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:44 PM
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I couldn't give a f..k about what people think of me. I have no problem with myself in all honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:28 PM
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Being aroace I don't date or do relationships and my life is all the better for it. Love peace and quiet! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:37 AM
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The answer lies within ourselves. We have to accept who we are, build confidence and find self worth from within, not from the validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:26 AM
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Being aroace I don't have to deal with any of it. Being undesirable matters little if your not looking for love. Regarding penis size back in the days of ancient antiquity a small penis was the height of fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:39 PM
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More men being asexual/aromantic would help I think but you can't change a person's sexuality, so unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:35 PM
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I rarely watch porn at all as I have little interest in it. I have an Instagram profile but I use it to share my photography. I often get requests to join porn groups from female webcammers but I just report and block them!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:52 AM
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Not being an attractive guy myself I'm rarely noticed by women so my interactions with them are strictly platonic, friends and aquantances at best. I have friends on the LGBT spectrum which I'm pretty cool with. Being asexual I'm on that spectrum myself. Possibly autistic too! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:17 AM
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Luckily my libido is very low which I consider a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:32 AM
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What's wrong with being aromantic/asexual? Since coming out I've found it incredibly liberating and life changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:07 AM
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As a lifelong singleton (nearly 40) I made my peace with it long ago. Being an anti-social asexual introvert helps too! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:05 AM
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Can you not get aroused or is it just repulsion? I very rarely get aroused at all. Not repulsed indifferent. I've had sex in the past but didn't get much out of it. It was ok I guess but there's much more exciting things I would rather be doing. When I'm out and about in the city I will of course notice an attractive women (in an aesthetic sense) but I've no interest in wanting to get to know them. Just a face among hundreds of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:03 AM
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Having always been an outsider and loner I tolerate society but don't have much to do with it. I socialize with friends every now but much prefer my own company to be honest. Recently came out as aromantic but have indentified as asexual for a long time. I have given dating a go but I never got much out of it, so gave up looking a while back. Personally for me as long as I can enjoy my hobbies and interests I'm a happy man! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:00 AM
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I don't have a hatred for them I just don't think there a good match for a single guy. I speak from experience. Luckily my brain came back online before anything got too serious! Nowadays I feel indifferent about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:49 PM
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I've always thought I might be on the autism spectrum but have never been officially diagnosed. It might help to explain my anti-social loner-esque personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:57 AM
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Life is lot easier and more peaceful without dating and relationships. Since embracing the single lifestyle life is a lot better. In retrospect I wish I had learnt this long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:54 AM
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I gave up dating and relationships a long time ago and embraced the single lifestyle. Since then I've become more confident, have more self worth and independance. Been on a journey of realisation this past year and have now come out as aroace! 💚💜
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:30 AM
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A chemical reaction, abeit a fleeting one most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:24 AM
1

Luckily being on the asexual spectrum it's something I rarely need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:23 AM
1

Not at all engraged just passively indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:39 AM
4

We do indeed exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:41 AM
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And asexual men like myself!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:41 AM
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I meant more in terms of marriage, kids and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:35 AM
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I have many times in the past and don't regret a moment of it. Had some awesome times. Don't care what others think to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:06 AM
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This will be the future no doubt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 AM
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100% agree! In all honesty apart from sex and having kids you can get all your other needs meet with your friends. Women have now achieved equality and freedom and feel no longer tied to centuries old constructs. Men need to start doing the same. Learn to throw away the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:58 AM
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True. Personally for me it's taken me to nearly 40 to find inner peace with being single and start living for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:37 PM
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100% agree! Men need to stop basing their self worth on validation from women. Men need to start living for themselves and learn to let go of centuries old social constructs such as marriage, kids and relationships. Men need to redefine their characters and develop confidence. Learn to live independantly and live a full and happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:19 PM
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Men need to focus more on themselves and less about seeking approval and validation from women. Build character, confidence and find self worth from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:30 AM
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Same goes for romantic films. It's because there boring!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:24 AM
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I'm aromantic asexual 💚💜
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:13 AM
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Not really. Everything ends!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:12 AM
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I made my one last ditch attempt a few momths ago thinking things might have changed but it was still the same cesspit it always has been. Nothing had changed. One good thing that came out of it however was to not live a lie anymore and come out as aromantic asexual, so dating apps served a positive purpose for me in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:27 AM
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100% agree. Men should find validation and self worth from within and not from women. Focus on yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:18 AM
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Like a sweetshop. Pick the best sweets and throw away the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:20 AM
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In all honesty I've much better things to be doing i.e. hobbies and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:19 AM
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Very few men go to singles events. I've read many stories where women turn up but there's no men in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:17 AM
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100% agree. Woman should avoid dating late bloomer men. I was a late bloomer myself. I didn't lose my virginity until shortly before my 30th birthday and then it was to an escort. Having to pay for it didn't really matter by that time as I had already given up dating and relationships. As I approach my 40th birthday I've been looking back over my life and have come to the realisation that a lot of the struggles I had with trying to get dates and relationships were due to myself being on the asex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:50 PM
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Money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:49 AM
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As an aromantic asexual anti-social introvert I tend to be rather indifferent. I mainly focus on myself, work, hobbies and interests. Not really interested in romance tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:23 AM
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If it can bring a sense of happiness to thousands of lonely men worldwide then that can only be a good thing! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:12 PM
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Dating apps pray on the vulnerable and the lonely and should be shut down. There one of the many ills of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:32 PM
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I would go for the bear! 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:37 AM
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A.I. sexbots and VR porn will be the future for a large percentage of men. I think a lot of men would have opted out of dating and relationships by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:34 AM
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As a man I would prefer my chances with a bear! 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:01 PM
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Being an aromantic ace I don't settle for anyone! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:40 AM
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I recently gave dating apps another go recently but was quickly reminded of why I chose to quit them a few years ago. Nothing much had changed since last time. If anything it proved my confirmation bias about them. What it did do however was to help clarify my mind that walking away from dating and relationships was the best decision. Now fully embracing the single lifestyle! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:28 PM
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This is a great healthy attitude to have! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:18 AM
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I know a woman with the same Michael Myers fantasy. She's a bit crazy! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:06 AM
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Being an introvert I tend to socialize every now and then. Too much is suffocating. I'm perfectly happy with my own company most of the time. Not a needy person tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:57 AM
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I recently went on a solo holiday to Paris. Dating and relationships were the furthest thing on my mind while there. I barely noticed the women in all honesty. Saying that being an aromantic asexual I'm kinda indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:24 PM
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Same here! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:36 AM
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Aromantic asexual and lifelong single (nearly 40). I'm perfectly happy alone and doing 99% of activities by myself. It's a way of life for me. As normal as putting toothpaste on my toothbrush! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:14 AM
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I don't talk to most young people as I have nothing in common with them. There a different generation to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:57 PM
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He certainly could have been. There are plenty of others i.e. J.M. Barrie (author of Peter Pan), Lewis Carroll (author of Alice in Wonderland), Edward Goorey (illustrator) and Frederick Chopin (composer). Quite a big list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:23 PM
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It's a way of life for me! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:29 PM
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I'm rather like the cat who walks by himself. Quoting writer Rudyard Kipling there. All life is an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:19 PM
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I think it's a great misconception that women are better being alone than men. Many men spend their whole life single and some of them cope fine. Many of the great minds of the past were celibate (sometimes asexual) men i.e. Issac Newton, Nikola Tesla to name but a few. It's all down to the individual in person. I'm nearly 40 and have spent my whole life single. I do 99% of activities alone from day's out, holidays, cinema, theatre and restaurants. I'm perfectly fine with my own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:05 PM
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To be honest I couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:45 PM
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In some aspects but it's also been a great one as it's given men the opportunity to meet likeminded others, share ideas and discussions. Knowledge is power! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:29 PM
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I can chat to women easily enough but find conversation with men more engaging and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:01 AM
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Some people are meant to be alone. For those people they need to find alternative paths in life and focus their energies on more worthwhile pursuits and passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:53 AM
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Since coming out as aroace all this no longer matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:37 AM
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Just focus on yourself and f..k everyone else! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:55 AM
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I neither hate or have any disdain for women. Being an aromantic asexual I'm pretty much indifferent tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:59 AM
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Neither in all honesty. I much prefer the single lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:17 PM
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If it doesn't work for you maintain your self respect and dignity and walk away. There's no shame in doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:54 AM
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Let's be honest here the only real solutions for men nowadays are either become a passport bro, get a regular escort or invest in a sex doll. That's pretty much it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:39 PM
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As an unattractive male I don't make the effort to approach as 99% I know what the answer will be. Being asexual too I have practically zero interest in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:32 PM
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The reality is the majority of women don't care so neither should you! It's about time men started walking away from centuries old expectations and social norms and focus their energies on more worthwhile pursuits! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:23 PM
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As someone who has been lifelong single (nearly 40) I've no interest in dating or relationships what so ever. Happily single and embracing the lifestyle! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:55 PM
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I don't watch them. I much prefer horror, fantasy and sci-f films.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:58 AM
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No, the only real options for most average men nowadays is being a passport bro, getting a regular escort or investing in buying a high quality sex doll. Since giving up pursuing dating and relationships ten years ago I've since embraced the single lifestyle and now focus all my energies on myself, work, hobbies and interests. A life free of social norms and expectations is a liberating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:46 AM
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You don't know what your missing! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:21 PM
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Not in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:20 PM
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I think prostitution works for many men. It makes them happy and walk away with big smiles on their faces. After that they can get on with more important things. It furfills a void for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:50 AM
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I would want either. I much prefer my own company tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:47 AM
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You can get that from a prostitute if you have the available finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:27 AM
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Me too. Both sexes can now achieve full autonomy! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:25 AM
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I've come out in recent years as asexual so have been rediscovering myself for many years. Also learning to make peace with being alone and find acceptance. One of the most life changing things I've done was breaking free from social norms and expectations. This has been liberating and refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:11 AM
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I don't date or do relationships so have nothing to feel guilty about. As a care worker however I support a lot of people with autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:39 AM
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Helps being on the asexual spectrum too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:49 PM
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It's been a lifelong journey to get to this realisation but I'm getting there. Learning life lessons with each passing day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:48 PM
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You sound a lot like me. Respect! 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:06 AM
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Yes and probably too much! Men need to be stioc and throw away the rulebook, along with all the centuries old social norms and expectations. Only then can men achieve full autonomy and self worth. My self worth comes from aquired knowledge, wisdom and life experience not from the validation from others. I've always taken a lot of pride in being a highly individualistict person who walks their own path in life. I'm a rare exception however and most men are not like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:48 AM
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Absolutely. 39 and lifelong happily single. Saying that having a low libido/testerone and asexual helps! 😎
/r/MensRights17/03/24 11:47 AM
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From experience I find men far more interesting than women. There better conversationalists and better company.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:40 AM
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I think A.I. sexbots and immersive VR porn will be the longterm solution however such tech is in it's infancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:53 AM
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It's a just a chemical reaction in the brain, abeit a fleeting one at that for a lot of people. It's largely a social construct too!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:56 AM
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I'll get a hair system when I go bald in the future. Already planning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:50 AM
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I walked away from dating and relationships ten years ago and adopted the MGTOW lifestyle. Life is better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:56 AM
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No, dating apps should be banned as they exploit vulnerable men for profit. There also responsible for the decline in men's mental health. It's disgusting in all honesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:46 AM
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Well, I'm in full time work earning a reasonably decent wage and am in reasonably good health, so I consider that a positive. I still live at home with parents (I'm nearly 40) and assist them around the home whenever I'm not working. Although I would like to have a flat of my mine the housing situation in the UK is awful right now, maybe in the future if the economy improves (dountful!). Lifelong single and never been in a relationship although I have gone on a few dates over the years. Not some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:29 AM
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I couldn't give a f..k about what gives women the 'Ick'. I honestly couldn't give a damn to quote Clark Gable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:58 PM
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Not really. Neuro divergent men are undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:36 PM
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Not easy when your born autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:10 AM
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Autistic men are an ick to most women I would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:40 PM
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Strangely enough in my ten years of seeing escorts I've yet to contract an STD. I think though that's because I only see them every few months so I'm not having sex regulary enough. Kinda losing interest in sex with age tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:38 AM
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I've always thought I'm on the asexual spectrum, so that probably explains the lack of interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:16 PM
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I have a very low libido/testerone. I seriously pity men with high sex drives who aren't getting sex. Must be hell! As for me it's a hidden blessing and one I'm thankful for. Believe it or not I don't masturbate either. Have no desire whatsoever to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:41 PM
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No longer looking, haven't been for ten years. Happily single. If someone approached me now I would politely reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:23 PM
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I look forward to developments in A.I. and VR. Such technology could be beneficial to people on the margins of society such as the elderly, disabled, lonely and those datingly challenged. I only see positives and not negatives here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:58 AM
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I've never been in a relationship but have been on dates. Those very dates made me want to stop dating. It was quite a realisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:49 PM
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Never been in one so I can't really comment but I will say I don't see much interest in being in one. Different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:07 AM
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I don't do anything. I'm just focused on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:19 PM
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As an MGTOW myself it's greatly changed my life in a positive way. Since adopting this lifestyle it's helped me get back my confidence, self respect and self worth. MGTOW gets a lot of bad, most of it unjustified.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:42 AM
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No, settling with just anyone out of lonelyness is not a good idea. I nearly fell into that trap a few years ago but luckily my brain came back online. Never again!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:30 AM
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Society sucks. Just focus on yourself! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:11 AM
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The bravery and courage of the many thousand soldiers in the trenches in WW1. A sense of brotherhood working together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:00 PM
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Hope is a cruel mistress. Much better to be realistic about your prospects and adapt your life to them. Not everyone is dealt a good pack of cards but you can make a decent a life as you can with what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:08 PM
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I've no doubt they do but clinging onto false hope isn't healthy and leads to depression hence the high male suicide rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:03 PM
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Friendships, travel, work, hobbies and interests. There's so much more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:38 PM
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Because it causes such misery and unhappiness in men. I think without all those expectations and social norms men could move on from it and find furfillment in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:21 PM
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Not a good idea then. Men will have to look for alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:15 PM
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High rates of depression I would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:24 PM
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Maybe scientists need to invent a pill to kill male sex drive/libido. Not sure if such a thing is scientifically possible however!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:17 PM
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Surely three?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:38 AM
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I would think most incel, red pill, MGTOW men don't mention these things in normal everyday life as they would be cancelled if they did, so they learn to keep quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:07 PM
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More indifferent than unsympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:20 AM
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My older brother has which us not something I would ever do. I have too much self respect and self worth just to settle with anyone. I don't think it's a good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:13 AM
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Not for me but I'm not most people! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:10 PM
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My thoughts exactly! I've learnt to move on. Saying that it's taken me nearly 40 years to reach that realisation. Now that I have life has greatly improved! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:06 AM
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That's pretty much what I do nowadays. I find it works well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:00 AM
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If you reach 30+ without much success the signs aren't good. If you reach 40+ then it's pretty much over. Time to move on and find other things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:58 AM
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Pussy is pussy to me. I don't differentiate between one and the another. Saying that I rarely have sex so I'm not greatly experienced in such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:37 PM
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100% yeah! Happily single. Life is pretty good! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:22 AM
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It's perfectly ok to walk away from dating and relationships. I would say for many it's the more sensible and healthier option too. Many men seem to be too focused on women, putting their own needs to the side. Men need to start walking away from expectations and social norms and start focusing more on themselves. Work on your personalities, build confidence without validation from women and find other things in life to get passionate about i.e. hobbies and interests, travelling and experiencing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:03 PM
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An outdated instituation no longer fit for purpose in the modern world.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:10 AM
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Happily single and MGTOW. Despite what people say about MGTOW we don't spend all our lifes complaining about women. I've made peace with being single and have found an inner happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:59 AM
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I'm average/ugly and have managed to find peace and happiness despite being lifelong single. Saying that it's taken me nearly 40 years to get to this realisation. What changed my life was adopting the MGTOW lifestyle. It'a helped me to get back my confidence, self respect and self worth. It's incredibly liberating to be free of expectations and social norms. Life is pretty awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:50 PM
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I was looking for such a thing for over ten years on the dating apps but had no success despite having a well written profile and good photos. Two years ago I made the decision to ditch the apps and focus on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:23 AM
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She's all kinds of crazy. Probably why she's always struggled to find a man who wants to stay with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:31 AM
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I have a female friend who has a crush on Michael Myers from the 'Halloween' film franchise. She's obssessed with the character. She openly admits to liking dangerous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:15 PM
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I'm perfectly happy being single. Saying that it's taken me nearly 40 years to get this realisation. Now that I've let go of expectations and social norms life is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:45 PM
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I entirely understand but don't wish to be involved with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:44 PM
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My only plan is enjoy myself, go on lots of holidays and day's out and pursue my hobbies and interests. It's all about me nowadays. Self love! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:41 PM
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It makes me very happy so I would disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:34 AM
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Without a doubt. As a futurist I would definately be interested in purchasing one, the same goes for a sex doll but the only problem is finding storage space for one and that I live with flatmates which makes it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:33 AM
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Used dating apps since they first began without much success. I did however go on dates with one woman I meet on them but looking back that was a mistake. I was feeling lonely and needy at the time and just wanted to settle with anyone. Luckily on the last date my brain came back online and I chose to end things. Aside from that my dating app experiences have been pretty poor. You spend a long time creating a good profile with decent photos and making the effort to send good messages to which yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:30 AM
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I got a lot of bullying and having the piss taken out of me at high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:12 PM
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I remember when my science teacher jokingly said pointing to me "What does this boy have that DiCaprio doesn't have?" The girls in the class all laughed. I just shrugged my shoulders and got back to my textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:53 PM
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I was at high school at the time 'Titanic' came out in 1997 and the girls were drooling over DiCaprio. I remember it well!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:50 PM
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Why anyone would pay that kinda money just to fit into a shallow and superficial cesspit of a world astounds me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:48 PM
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Since I no longer date or do relationships women's preferences matter not to me. Do whatever makes you happy! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:34 PM
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After going on 3-4 dates during the pandemic I made the decision to end things between us as we shared little in common or personalities. Going on those dates made me come to the realization that dating and relationships are not for me. Looking back it was a useful experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:32 PM
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We all want different things. At nearly 40 I want a bit of peace and quiet. As less stress and drama as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:21 AM
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I think at heart feminism is a good idea but unfortunately it's message has been rather diluted in recent years and seems more about man hating nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:24 PM
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Most things are. Not that society cares much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:10 PM
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That's called simping! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:53 PM
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From experience I've always found better conversation with men than women but there has been exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:09 PM
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Focusing on myself, hobbies and interests! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:45 PM
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A lot of them are and it's a sad sight to behold. Never lower your standards and accept anything rather than nothing. I nearly made that mistake until I got my common sense and self worth back. We're worth more! Nowadays I've no problem being single. A have a lifetime of experience of it. All I want now is a little peace & quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:35 AM
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100% agree! These men need to find alternate paths to walk in life. It's not shameful to walk away from expectations and social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:49 AM
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I wouldn't date someone who uses drugs tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:47 AM
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100% agree! More men need to start adopting the MGTOW lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:08 PM
2

You sound a lot like me. It's great to have found that inner peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:04 PM
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I think we all reach a certain point in our lifes that if things haven't happened then it's probably unlikely that they will. What's important is learning to move on from social norms and expectations and find happiness in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:58 AM
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As an MGTOW 100% agree! Men need to start focusing on themselves more and less on seeking validation from women to give themselves self worth. Redefine your personalities, gain confidence and self respect. We're all worth much more than this! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:30 PM
1

Same here! I haven't the slightest interest whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:17 PM
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I believe so. Relationships, marriage and having kids are all social constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:13 AM
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There's good and bad in both sexes however at my age all I want is a little bit of peace and quiet with no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:02 PM
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I think in the outside world you would never really notice it. Much of the gender war is being fought online. These things are difficult to spot in person. The same goes for incels, red pillars and MGTOW. You would never know the person your sat next too on the bus on the bus or the train was one. A lot of this stuff is all very internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:51 PM
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Who gives a f..k about ramifications. I use prostitutes and have a great time. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:24 AM
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Of course a man who is sexually inexperienced is a red flag! Do you seriously expect them to be anything else? The older they are too even more so. It's a harsh reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:01 PM
1

Do what makes you happy whatever that maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:47 PM
2

Personally I wouldn't want to waste that kinda money on a gamble. It's expensive flying abroad and there's no guarantee if things would work out, so I think I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:48 PM
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When I was younger I was somewhat of a hopeless romantic but now after being single for nearly 40 years, it doesn't mean so much to me anymore. I'll admit I'm more interested in sex nowadays. Not all the time mind just every now and then whenever I get the sexual urge which isn't much as I luckily have a low libido/testerone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:16 PM
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My only regret is wish I could get the money back I wasted on them over the years but what's done is done!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:55 PM
1

I've used all the dating apps over the years (free and paid) without much success. You really struggle to get much conversation out of them. I shut down my last accounts two years ago and won't be trying again. Seriously I would rather eat dog 💩! than use them again! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:26 PM
1

That I won't disagree with!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:06 PM
3

I'll only engage in conversation nowadays with people worth talking too who have interesting things to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:28 PM
7

Men are much better conversationalists by far!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:27 PM
3

So true! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:25 PM
3

I've a good mix of male and female friends but things are strictly platonic. As long as we know our boundaries all is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:20 PM
1

To organize and sort though over 1,000 photos taken over the past four or more years. It's a huge task somewhat hindered by having to work long hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:54 AM
1

I don't see a problem at all. We've never had more freedom and independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:14 AM
6

Who knows? and more importanly who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:02 PM
1

I would much prefer to think of myself as a realist rather than a nihilist. One of the benefits of getting older is you can see through all the bullshit. Age equals wisdom! As for religion even though I'm an atheist if religion brings people hope, faith and happiness then I don't condemn it. I've found my own path but it's taken me nearly 40 years to get there. Without all those expectations and social constructs life has become much more refreshing and liberating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:00 PM
1

In all honesty I feel little to no desire for it anymore. As a loner and outsider I've never really needed people that much. In small doses perhaps but not too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:44 PM
2

I rarely do it. More focused on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:41 PM
1

Let's say I was a romantic once but not so much anymore. I'm more interested in sex nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:40 PM
0

For me it's about getting sexual pleasure. Also being able to close the door on the way out too! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:10 PM
1

As an MGTOW my life has improved greatly since I walked away from dating and relationships. Being on dating apps for more than ten years absolutely destroyed my confidence, self respect and self worth. They honestly made me feel a worthless piece of shit. Since ditching the apps and focusing my energies on myself, hobbies and interests I've got back my confidence, self respect and self worth. My relationships with women are pretty much platonic nowadays. If I ever get the sexual urge I'll see an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:56 PM
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I've had my fun and that's all that matters! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:00 PM
3

Walk away from dating and relationships with your dignity and self worth intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:55 PM
1

With the cost of living and property market as it is in the UK I would think that a lot of people can no longer afford to move home. It's unrealistic for a large percentage of the population unless your earning mega wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:54 PM
1

I don't approach dating at all nowadays. I feel I'm entitled to a little peace and quiet at my age. A stressfree life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:51 PM
4

At nearly 39 I think they have pretty much accepted it by now I would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:49 PM
2

Hopefully it's shed some light on people who are open to buying sex dolls/robots in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:22 PM
2

Wow! That's a lot of questions but I'll attempt to answer them; 1) Growing up I was always the quiet and shy child with not many friends. I suffered low self esteem/confidence throughout my teenage years, somewhat due to my BDD. I've always felt like I never really fitted in as I was different to most people. I was bullied awfully due to this in high school. As I've got older however I'm now more confident and feel happy in myself although it's taken nearly 40 years. I'm still a loner at heart a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:11 PM
2

Sure. Go for it! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:46 PM
0

Having always been an introvert and outsider I have no issues with buying a sex doll/robot in the near future. In fact I'm rather looking forward to it. As a futurist I look forward to developments in robotics and VR with much enthusiasm. Here's to a new world of humans and robots! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:43 PM
1

If you were unable to attract anyone in your teens and twenties then the probability of it happening in your thirties and fourties is unlikely (although not impossible) at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:54 AM
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I'm not complaining. If anything since walking away from dating and relationships I've found an inner peace. It's incredibly refreshing! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:11 AM
4

If I had my way I would have them all shut down as they contribute towards poor mental health. They exploit the vulnerable and needy which is absolutely sickening!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:07 PM
1

Well, it took me a while to get used to it. To get all the romantic stuff out of my head and just enjoy the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:54 PM
1

Been doing that for ten years and have had awesome times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:21 PM
2

I would definately be up for buying a sexbot. It would be awesome! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:21 PM
2

Thankfully I'm blessed with a low libido/testerone. Of course I can be sexual if the situation arises (regular visits to escorts) but 99% of the time I have a useful off/on switch. Believe it ir not I don't masturbate as I feel little desire too. Saying that I did used to indentify as asexual for much of my twenties and thirties. I probably still am!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:11 PM
2

As a lifelong singleton I'm pretty happy with my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:56 PM
3

Sounds awesome. Love songs bore me! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:38 PM
2

Well, I'm blessed with a low lidido and testerone so these things don't effect me much. I certainly get more done. I used to indentify as asexual throughout my teens, twenties and early thirties. I guess I still am to a degree but can get sexual with the right person. All depends what mood I'm in to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:26 PM
2

I'm friends with men and woman. Saying that as I no longer date or do relationships I have no expectations, so friendships are strictly platonic. As long as we respect each others boundaries we're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:22 PM
3

It's the best advice. Save yourself the time, money and headache that is modern dating! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:38 PM
8

I would say it's made my life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:37 PM
3

100% agree! Focus your energies on more worthwhile things, not wasting time chasing unicorns! 🦄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:36 PM
1

Personally for me I'm able to accomplish a great deal as I don't waste time chasing women. Despite what mainstream society says having a low libido/testerone is a blessing! If I ever feel the urge I'll just book an escort. An easy fix!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:13 PM
1

I world has changed. Women now have more equality, freedom and independance then any other time in history. Women can now be anything they want and more. No longer are they tied to centuries old expectations i.e. relationships, marriage and kids. To a large degree women no longer need men as they once did and if they do they can afford to be as picky and choosy as want. Men on the other are feeling somewhat lost in this world and need to work on and redefine their characters and roles in society…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:53 PM
1

I would feel depressed if I was dating. Having walked away from dating and relationships I'm much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:52 AM
1

I'm fine around women in a platonic sense, sometimes sexual if the mood arises. I don't need women to feel complete as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:20 PM
2

What I want is peace and quiet. In general people leave me alone which I'm perfectly happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:34 PM
2

I gave up ten years ago and have them all. It's been a lifelong journey to make peace with being alone and find acceptance. I now feel an inner sense of peace and harmony, free from expectations and social constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:30 PM
1

Personally for me my confidence, self respect, worth and resilience comes from avoiding dating and relationships altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:35 PM
3

I see escorts fairly regulary and am perfectly fine with it. Never been that fussed about what people think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:33 PM
3

No longer struggling with women as I no longer date or do relationships. I now focus all my energies on me! 😎 Going MGTOW has been life changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:21 PM
2

What do women bring to the table nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:53 PM
1

I think it would be more beneficial for more men to practice stoicism and adopt the MGTOW lifestyle than take antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:02 AM
1

It definately does! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:34 PM
4

Already have and my life has greatly improved due to it. Got my confidence, self worth and dignity back! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:33 PM
4

Survival of the fittest! To quote the classic British horror film The Wicker Man - "Who would not prefer the child of a god to some acne scarred artisan?".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:31 AM
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As a futurist I think we're still some way off yet from having the perfect robotic companion. We currently have pretty realistic looking sex dolls but their capabilities are somewhat limited. In the far future I hope we're able to design sophisticated sex robots and truly immersive VR porn. I think such technology will undoubtably affect the dating game in future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:32 PM
3

Oh, it's definately fiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:13 AM
2

As an MGTOW I don't pay women much attention, I'm far more focused on myself and hobbies and interests. Time is a precious thing the older you get so I wouldn't waste it chasing unicorns! 🦄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:22 PM
2

No, there just average and not attractive to the majority of women. They might as well be invisible to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:10 PM
1

I've accepted things the way they are. Happily MGTOW
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:13 PM
7

As an MGTOW I have accepted and made peace with my situation. Rather than seeking validation and self worth from others I now get that from myself. I focus on me! 😎 I want to have as much fun as I can and fill my days with adventure and excitement when I'm not working that is.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:36 PM
2

Been doing it for ten years. Good times! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:23 AM
2

What men really need to do is start embracing stoicism. Becoming more independent, self sufficiant and not seeking validation from women for self worth. Work on redefining your character and individualism. Become the best man you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:15 AM
1

Well, I've been lifelong single for nearly 39 years, so the next 20 shouldn't be too much of a problem. I'm kinda used to it by now. It's almost become a way of life! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:49 PM
5

100% agree! Embrace your individualism. In a sheep world we need more people like you! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:38 PM
1

I think men are already questioning the narrative, hence the rise of pill ideology and MGTOW (I've adopted that lifestyle myself). Your already seeing a decline in relationships, marriages and having children worldwide. This is just the start!
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:36 PM
2

There's always more to learn. A good positive outlook.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:20 PM
2

Well, it's taken me nearly 40 years to get to this point! I wouldn't waste money on surgeries unless you really want too. Even then do it for yourself and to give you confidence, not for the validation from others. Good skincare is always important. I'm 5ft 8 and have considered joining the gym. It's just finding the time to set aside to do it as I'm very busy. I focus mostly on my many hobbies and interests.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
3

Making peace with it and finding acceptance has been life changing for me. Letting go of expectations etc.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:26 PM
4

If anything my observations of dating dynamics have made me want to walk away from dating and relationships altogether. Since I have my life has improved considerably and I've now got back my self respect and dignity.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:50 PM
1

I'm not really looking for help tbh but I find the topics discussed here interesting reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:29 PM
1

The Menu: Life Without the Opposite Sex by Aeron Clancy
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:17 AM
3

Although I think women are maybe better at being single than men I think we're slowly seeing a reverse of this as more men are adapting to the single lifestyle.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 09:45 AM
2

I highly doubt we're see the long lasting relationships and marriages our grandparents knew. We live in a different world nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:15 PM
1

Good luck to them but it's not something I would do.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:39 AM
1

I'm 5ft 8, so I must be f....d then! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:38 AM
2

Well, I've always had a low libido/testerone that has been decreasing as I've got older. I find this a blessing tbh. I view women in a strictly platonic sense most of the time.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:59 AM
1

No, not pretending not to be interested in women. I'm generally not anymore. Personally the journey to making peace with being single has been a lifelong one. Now, that I've found that inner peace all of those expectations and social constructs mean nothing to me. Let's call it the wisdom of age.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:27 PM
1

I'm MGTOW so not interested in dating or relationships. Saying that I don't tell anyone about it. They probably consider me asexual which is fine by me.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:17 PM
1

I'm an ugly guy but still friends with women. We want nothing from each other and keep things strictly platonic.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:12 PM
1

I don't approach or pursue them. I've much better things to be doing with my time. Time is precious, don't waste it chasing Unicorns! 🦄
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:06 PM
4

Not much. So much for loyalty and trust.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:40 AM
1

No, not at all. Too focused on myself to think about others too much!
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:00 PM
0

Just legalize it and be done with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:37 AM
2

I don't want a relationship with a woman. I wouldn't say no to an FWB however. Otherwise happily MGTOW! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:11 AM
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I occasionally did in my twenties and early thirties but now in my late thirties I'm pretty much invisible which as an introvert I find a hidden blessing. I no longer need it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:19 AM
1

As an MGTOW 100% agree! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 10:14 AM
1

No, I've become indifferent the older I've got
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 10:10 AM
2

Aside from female friends and aquantances who are strictly platonic I'm still interested in woman sexually but I much prefer to pay for that nowadays. Much more easier!
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 10:06 AM
3

I would never off myself for a woman. Seriously there not worth that. Learn to focus on yourself, building your character and invidualism. Maintain self respect and dignity.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:27 PM
1

I don't pay much attention to people in relationships. Far too focused on myself. Always the outsider/lone wolf! 🐺
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:23 PM
1

Been doing it for ten years and have had some great experiences. Seen 24 escorts, besides my regular. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:20 PM
1

38M, lifelong single and MGTOW! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:19 PM
1

As an MGTOW quite easily. With age comes wisdom!
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:17 PM
1

I gave up aged 29 and have since made peace with being alone and found acceptance. An inner sense of peace! 😇
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:16 PM
2

Self love for sure but not the other.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:51 PM
5

Never get involved in other people's affairs!
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:51 PM
2

I've nothing to do with 'OnlyFans'. I find it pretty sad tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:49 PM
4

I agree. The juice isn't worth the squeeze! Besides there's much more to life than love and relationships. I've been lifelong single (38M) but still have an enjoyable life and go on lots of adventures. Life isn't too bad! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:34 AM
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Not at all. There's much more to life than love and relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:03 PM
1

I don't pay them to come over. I pay them to go away. I get what I want and close the door afterwards.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:02 PM
1

I would absolutely love to live in a futuristic utopia with all the advanced tech and people in relationships with robots. It would be beautiful! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:19 PM
1

As a futurist I look forward to such a future. I just hope I live long enough to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:10 PM
3

I strongly believe many more men should adopt this approach. No point being frustated about things that are beyond your control.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 11:54 AM
1

It doesn't need to be depressing. Depends on how you view it! Robots could be hugely beneficial to many people on the margins of society i.e. the elderly, disabled and those datingly challenged. I can only see positives for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:53 AM
1

I'm a man and 100% agree! Men need to start changing! Men need to start focusing on themselves more and leave centuries old expectations and constructs behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:36 AM
3

I think in the longterm the rise of A.I. sexbots and VR porn will provide a solution but we're some way off from it yet. The legalisation of prositution could be beneficial too. Although it's a controversial thing to say more men could benefit from adopting the MGTOW lifestyle and start focusing more on themselves rather than trying to fit societies expectations and constructs. Too many men are unhappy about things that are out of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:21 AM
1

Do many men get married nowadays?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:10 AM
2

I've already reached my endgame and that is MGTOW! Since adopting the lifestyle my life has changed for the better. I'm now more confident, independant and focused than I've ever been before. Happily single! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:07 AM
1

You have to be attracted to someone otherwise it just doesn't work. Looks are incredibly important in dating and relationships. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar!
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:00 AM
1

Not wasted money on dating apps
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 08:57 AM
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It's sexual selection. Makes perfect sense to me.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 08:54 AM
1

I would have thought dating in Australia would be difficult anyway since a large percent on the population is LGBT. Maybe I'm wrong?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 08:51 AM
3

Not to me. It means I can concentrate on more wothwhile things than pursuing the opposite sex! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:05 PM
1

No, although I'm luckily blessed with a low sex drive!
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 11:44 AM
2

Believe it or not I've never masturbated in my life. I genuinely feel no desire to do it. Low libido/testerone.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:08 AM
2

Well, I have a great time so that's all that matters! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 12:34 PM
2

As long as I have good health and finances! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:09 AM
2

Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 08:18 PM
1

38
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 07:51 PM
1

I'll admit as an MGTOW I find incels a pretty pathetic bunch. They need to learn to move on and start focusing on themselves rather than seeking validation from women.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:32 PM
1

I gave up shortly before my 29/30th birthday. That was the point I started seeing escorts. I've since seen 24 escorts, besides my regular and have had great times!
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:27 PM
2

Been escort maxing for ten years. Good times! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:22 PM
1

In all honesty I no longer care. Indifferent nowadays.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:18 PM
1

As an MGTOW who has made peace with being alone and found acceptance I rarely get any negative thoughts. Since adopting this lifestyle my life has greatly changed for the better.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:17 PM
1

I never put women on a pedestial. That's a big mistake!
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:08 PM
2

Have been for ten years. Good times! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:07 PM
1

99% of the time I don't bother women as they don't have nothing much to offer besides sex. Even then if I want that I'll just see an escort. I can get much better conversation from my male friends. I'll occasionally chat with women online but it's not something I make much effort to do in all honesty.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:03 PM
5

I learn to get by. One of the benefits of getting older (38M lifelong single) is you learn not to give a f..k after a while. Aside from family the only person I care about is myself, so that's what I focus on i.e. work, hobbies and interests.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 08:40 AM
3

What an attitude! What a turnoff! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 08:55 AM
2

My regular who I've been seeing for ten years. Good times 😎
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:32 PM
3

Since I don't date or do relationships it doesn't. I do however regulary see escorts. I've been to 24 so far! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:06 PM
2

Learn to walk away with self respect and dignity. We're all worth much more than this! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:02 PM
1

Self love is my drug. Aside from family and a few close friends that's all I need. My self worth comes from within.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 08:36 AM
1

I've never had much success with dating and relationships throughout my life and I'm nearly 40. Personally for me I did get some opportunities in my twenties and early thirties but I wasn't the confident man I am now back then. Those were different times for me. As I've got older I've become invisible which is a hidden blessing as a lifelong introvert and outsider. I think some are successful with dating while others are not. You make the most of the cards your dealt with!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:32 AM
3

I travel mostly in the UK where I live although I will be making my first solo holiday to Europe next year.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:39 AM
3

You sound a lot like me. Exploring new places!
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:05 AM
4

I'm fascinated by engineering marvels so would love to visit the Hoover Dam and Panama Canal!
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:04 AM
0

Very true. When I'm on holiday sex is the last thing on my mind.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:02 AM
5

As a male I love to solo travel. I really enjoy my adventures! 😎 As a natural introvert and loner I do 99% of activities alone which I'm perfectly happy with.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:00 AM
1

A.I. sexbots and VR porn for a large majority of men. Men will be in relationships/married to their robotic companions. The perfect mix of man & machine!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:11 PM
1

I get on with women fine in real life but wouldn't want to date/be in a relationship with them. Strictly friends only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:59 PM
5

Marriage is an outdated institution that serves no real purpose in the modern world anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:58 PM
2

Personally for me the journey to adopting the MGTOW lifestyle has been one of realisation. Since going MGTOW I now feel more confident, independant and free of expectations and social constructs. My only regret is I wish I had discovered MGTOW earlier in my life.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 01:42 PM
1

I just enjoy reading the posts. Not looking for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:42 AM
4

I've known dating has been a pointless endeavour for years. It did however take me a long time to accept it and find other things in life to live for.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 06:13 AM
0

Why should I bother? Not that I do. Happily single!
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 07:19 PM
0

I sometimes ask myself the same thing! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:40 PM
1

No, I would much prefer to be a conscientious objector as I have no interest in laying down my life for the establishment.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:39 PM
3

I'm not expecting anything. Just a little peace and quiet.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:47 AM
1

Family, work, hobbies and interests, day's out and holidays.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:43 AM
1

Society as a whole is hypocritical, especially the establishment.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 07:53 AM
2

It'll probably be normal in the near future the way things are going.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:31 PM
2

It comes with age! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:30 PM
2

I long ago learnt not to give a f..k about what society thinks. I live for myself!
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:28 PM
2

Have fun! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:25 PM
2

Every couple of months. Having a low libido/testerone I only see them every now and then as a treat.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:18 PM
3

Absolutely! I've been seeing escorts for ten years. I even lost my virginity to one. A smoking hot blonde from Michagan! 😛 Since then I've seen 24 escorts besides my regular and have had some awesone experiences and got to furfill most of my sexual fantasies. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:14 PM
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I've always been undesirtable. I used to care about it growing up but now that I'm older I don't give a f..k! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:48 AM
2

It never began however that's something I've made peace with. It's all good! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:42 AM
1

Just no!
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 04:46 PM
1

Just no!
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 04:44 PM
1

Learn to have self worth in yourself without seeking validation from others. Don't give a f..k what others think about you!
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:07 PM
1

I'll admit I'm pretty indifferent towards women. I find them reasonably pleasant company every now and then but like animals and children you want to hand them back at the end of the day. I much prefer my own company tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:16 PM
3

It'll happen. We're cerrainly heading in that direction!
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:47 AM
1

You sound a lot like me. Live for yourself and f..k the rest!
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:46 AM
1

Keep Calm and Carry On as the WW2 poster says! 🇬🇧
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:42 AM
2

By learning not to give a f..k and becoming distant and indifferent to society as a whole. To be honest I'm really only interested in myself now.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:48 AM
1

The next great change will be A.I. That will change the world in unbelievable ways.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:46 AM
1

Changing dynamics in society as a whole. Relationships between the sexes have changed.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 10:06 AM
2

It depends on the person. Having a low libido/testerone it's not too important to me but it will be to many others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:56 AM
2

I don't hate women just the way dating has become.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:51 AM
1

Indulge your hobbies and interests. Also go on as many day's out and holidays as possible. Go on adventures!
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:12 AM
2

Indifferent. I don't spare it much thought!
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 06:11 PM
2

I find a lot of them entitled, shallow and superficial. They don't bring much to the table and seem incapable of intelligent conversation. I've met very few women in my life who I would say I got a real buzz getting to know.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:56 AM
2

I've been doing that for ten years and have had some awesome experiences and furfilled many of my sexual fantasies. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:57 AM
2

Who are these people?
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 06:44 PM
1

None but then again I'm not looking too!
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:09 AM
1

I would say in many ways it's been beneficial. If I hadn't discovered the pill ideologies and MGTOW I would have continued being a simp, seeking validation from women, be rejected and lose my self confidemce and self worth. Adopting the MGTOW lifestyle has saved me. It's made me more confident, independant and have self worth. It's made me see the world in a whole new light! ☀️
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:00 AM
4

I'm still physically attracted to woman in a sexual way, just not romantically.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:38 PM
2

I've been working since I left high school back in 2001, so I've plenty of work experience. Worked in many industries over the years.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:01 PM
8

As a carer for people with disabilities I noticed she had downs straight away.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 05:42 PM
2

When I was younger I think so but not explictly, more giving me hints. It doesn't happen anymore however. One of the hidden blessings of getting older is the ability to quietly dissapeaer into the background and be left alone!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 05:35 PM
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Of course, without a doubt! The longterm solution will be be found in the advancement of A.I. and VR. These will fill the voids.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:33 PM
1

Work, hobbies and interests. Go on lots of day's out and holidays. Continue to live as active a life as I can! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:55 PM
1

I've been seeing escorts for ten years and have had some awesome experiences. I don't regret a moment of it!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:43 PM
1

It never started however I'm good with that. Happily single and MGTOW.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:50 AM
1

You're right. What is the point of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:13 AM
1

Always! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:23 AM
6

I'm pretty good. Just booked a solo holiday in two weeks time which I'm really looking forward too. Good times! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:06 AM
1

Are they? I'll admit I never see such behavoir when out and about in the city.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:43 AM
2

Great to hear. I've been doing the same for ten years. Much older than you however at 38.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:42 PM
1

I've walked away from expectations and social constructs as I've got older and my life is all the better for it! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:40 PM
2

It's an outdated institution that has no place in the modern world, a lot like religion really.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:37 PM
2

Your right when you say dating and marriage is a waste of time. Most marriages don't even last, neither do relationships. Most people are so fickle nowadays it's not even worth the effort.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:35 PM
3

As a lifelong introvert and outsider I couldn't give a f..k about the social blueprint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:24 PM
3

Never been in love and I'm nearly 40. Not much of a romantic to be honest. I think with brain (pure logic) rather than my heart!
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:22 PM
1

Good grief no!
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:59 AM
2

You're pulling my leg! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:56 AM
1

I cope just fine without it. One of the benefits of having a low libido/testerone. More or less asexual nowadays.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:21 PM
1

It would depend on the incel. I would say probably no!
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 03:26 PM
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In the longterm I think most definately. As modern woman's standards increase and the pool there fishing in becomes more selective, so does the men there accept. A lot of women now are dating a select 10/20% of men which means the rest will be invisible to them. A.I. girlfriends, sex dolls and VR maybe the solution!
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 12:50 PM
1

Oh, yeah but it doesn't bother me so much anymore. I've learnt to accept how I look as I've got older. It's no issue.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 09:28 AM
2

A well written article. As an MGTOW I've passed the acceptance stage and am now happily single! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:06 PM
3

I don't. I have myself and that's all I need! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:38 AM
1

I'm entirely grateful for what I have, as many others have nothing.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:22 AM
1

As an MGTOW I'm not sure if I indentify with any of the pill ideologies but blackpill seems to have truths to it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:19 AM
1

I don't think one needs online spaces to vent about how bad things are now. The evidence the world is fucked is all around you. We're all heading down a very slippery slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:04 PM
1

If you want the honest answer it's sex and having children. Everything else you can get from your male friends and aquantances.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 03:12 PM
1

I can't say I particulary hate them, I just don't care too much about them. Kinda indifferent nowadays.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 03:09 PM
1

Not being a competitive person I choose to walk away from it. Not worth the stress and hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:14 AM
1

A.I. girlfriends - no, sex dolls - yes! 😋
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 10:13 AM
1

Mine have never changed. Saying that I've never been an attractive guy (however gay men find me so! 😅) so that's probably the reason why. It's something I've made peace with as I've got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:27 AM
1

Never been a particulary competitive person so that probably explains my lack of interest in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:17 AM
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There's a great dignity in walking away with your head held high. Admitting to giving up isn't a bad thing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:15 AM
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Not that my opinion will count for much being lifelong single but since walking away from dating and relationships and adopting the MGTOW lifestyle my life has been much better. I'm now more confident, focused and independant than I ever was when I was younger. Men who struggle with finding a girlfriend should adopt a similar approach and start focusing on themselves more and less on chasing women which lets be honest is pretty much a waste of time. It pains me to see men talking about ending th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:13 AM
1

My heart! 🫀
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 08:32 AM
3

I go out and spend time with people almost 365 days of the year. Aside from my family who I see nearly every day, in my job as a carer for people with disabilities I spend time with a large number of them and am out and about in the city most days. I spend time with people everyday, so not a recluse.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:25 AM
2

24 escorts besides my regular! 😋
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:09 AM
1

No, having a low libido/testerone is a blessing! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 12:59 PM
1

Not an incel but an MGTOW and trust me there's a difference. Even from a young age I was never competitive. I simply didn't care all that much about being a winner. I've always been a strongly introverted individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:57 PM
1

I'm not a competitive person by nature so have largely walked away from societies expectations and constructs. My life has been all the better for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:50 PM
1

We were never in it to start with! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:41 PM
2

I used to indentify as asexual throughout my late teens and twenties. As I got older I started to explore my sexuality for and now longer consider myself asexual. Saying that I still have a low libido/testerone, so I'm not that fussed about sex. I can live with/without it.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:45 AM
1

Ah, I see. I rarely watch porn so aren't famillar with any names.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:43 AM
1

Who?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:41 AM
2

Here's to a new world of men and machines! 🥂 Thanks for the link. Will definately check that out! 👍
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 10:22 AM
2

I'll have to check this out. As a futurist I'm very excited about developments in the fields of A.I. and VR! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 10:15 AM
2

Me too. Surprisingly it's rather liberating and refreshing.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 10:10 AM
2

Although I've been lifelong single (38M) I rarely experience touch starvation. That maybe due to seeing escorts fairly regulary. Saying that it may also be due to having a low libido/testerome. As an MGTOW I don't have much interest in women, dating and relationships. I do hope however that A.I. sex dolls/robots become technologically advanced enough in the future to furfill these needs.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 09:54 AM
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While I'm not disgusted by them I don't particulary care about them all that much. I've a casual indifference nowadays. I'm far more focused on myself tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 10:55 AM
1

Having never been the type of guy women are attracted I would have still been a virgin now at nearly 40 had I not made the decision to start seeing escorts ten years ago. I've had some awesome experiences and got to furfull most of my sexual fantasies which would never have happened had I not chosen this route. It's been great for my self esteem too and has given me a lot of confidence.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 10:30 AM
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I'm not a particulary attractive looking guy (although I seem to be popular with gay men! 😅) but I've accepted the way I look. Although it might be nice have a few things tweaked I don't think it matters that much tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
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No, but I don't think it matters too much. Saying that it depends on how much it affects your self esteem. I'm not out to impress anyone but I do believe in good hygeine and looking smart.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:28 PM
1

A few but not too many. Since I don't date I'm indifferent.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:27 PM
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It's a positive thing to improve yourself but do it for you, not for the acceptance and validation from others.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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It's bad that one had to spend thousands on surgery just to fit the ridicolous beauty standards of today. You're right society isn't going to change and will only get worse. I think the most sensible thing men can do is to walk away with whatever respect and dignity you have left.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 12:32 PM
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Oh, absolutely but then they can afford to be. In regards to personality, from experience I've always found men far more interesting to talk to than women.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:21 AM
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Just to please a judgemental, shallow and superficial society? No, thanks! I would much prefer to remain true to myself. Saying that I've no issue if you did these things for yourself and to improve your own confidence but not for the purpose of attracting the opposite sex.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:20 AM
3

For me it was a case of not being attracted to them, two of them were single mothers which I don't find appealing and the others didn't share much in common with me. Going MGTOW has given me confidence and independance. It's been very beneficial to me.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:46 PM
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I did lose my virginity to an escort ten years ago shortly before my 30th birthday. Surprisingly when it came to it I wasn't as nervous as I thought I would be and found the experience a good one. Since then I've seen 24 escorts, besides my regular and had some truly awesome experiences and got to furfill most of my sexual fantasies. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:43 PM
3

Not entirely. I've had opportunities to date and be in relationships in the past but I didn't feel the connection. As I get older I've learnt to make peace with being single. As an introvert and outsider it's easier for me.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:38 PM
1

My life improved considerably when I closed down my last dating app accounts a few years ago. I got back my self respect and dignity.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 04:47 PM
1

Why do men seek corn? Personally I love a bowl of corn flakes and Weetabix! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:41 PM
1

It would be fine. I didn't lose my virginity until I was nearly 30 so I could quite happily live without sex for a year. Luckily I'm blessed with a low libido/testerone so it doesn't matter much to me if I get sex or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:55 AM
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I'm not. I stopped looking for love and relationships ten years ago and my life has been all the better for it. I now get to focus those energies on myself, work, hobbies and interests. Happily single! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 08:52 AM
1

I think for me it came with age. I've become more confident in myself the older I've got. Suffering from BDD all my life has been the greatest challenge to conquer but I'm even getting over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:47 AM
4

Discovering the black pill has been beneficial to me. Going MGTOW has changed my life in many ways.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 04:53 PM
5

I think it's great that awareness of the black pill is spreading throughout the world. More men need to be aware of it, especially the younger one's. Life lessons!
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:41 PM
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I spent most of my late teens, twenties and early thirties looking to meet new people without much success. Went to clubs, pubs, meetup groups, adult education and tried online dating (both free and paid). None of it worked tbh. After having done all that I made the decision to throw in the towel and walk away from dating and relationships. As I'm getting older I've made peace with being alone and found acceptance. I've learnt to become more confident and find self worth from within, not from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:05 AM
1

Well, obviously women want the best type of men. The most attractive, high earning with status. Who could blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:42 AM
4

100% agree! Learn to move on from women!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:26 PM
2

One where I can close the door at the end and walk away!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:39 PM
1

I can't abide Andrew Tate! He's an absolute twat! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:58 AM
1

I'm happy with myself so I don't see I need to make much improvements. Even if I did it wouldn't be in the hope of attracting someone, it would be for my personal wellbeing. I'm not interested in being anyone's partner. I have myself and that's all I need. I've found acceptance. Some people place a lot of importance on being in a relationship, seeking validation from others to give them self worth. My confidence and self worth comes from within. Oh, and I love Buckaroo! Great fun! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:56 AM
1

Well, if you want to continue repeating the same things again and again and expecting different results the choice is yours. It's madness however!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:46 AM
4

And I'm perfectly happy with being single. It's not a problem for me in all honesty.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:45 AM
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There's a great dignity to be had in walking away and making peace with it. You can lead a full and furfilling life without a partner. I'm nearly 40 and have always been single and life isn't too bad. Life is what you make it!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:38 AM
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Nor me. Not that I'm looking tbh. Happily MGTOW! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:34 AM
2

Personally for me making peace with being single has been a lifelong journey, one of gradual realisation. Saying that it's only over the past few years that I have learnt to embrace the single lifestyle.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:33 AM
6

When reality bites more black pills will be taken! 🖤
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:30 AM
1

Tinder! Good grief no! 😴
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:57 AM
1

10 Billion Dollars or Pounds to us Brits! 🇬🇧
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:09 PM
5

Absolutely! Luckily since going MGTOW I no longer have to deal with it. I now focus all my energies on myself, hobbies and intetests. It's refreshingly libetating! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:44 AM
1

Now wouldn't telling the truth be much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:59 AM
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I'm not angry with women at all. I just don't put them on a pedestal. Pretty much indifferent nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:00 AM
1

Well, I've always been an outsider so never felt the need to fit in. Independant and self sufficient! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:58 AM
1

Very rarely. Never had much interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:55 AM
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As an MGTOW I would say the chances are zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:08 AM
2

Well, many of the famous inventors, scientists, philosophers thoughout the centuries were single celibate men/bachelors. Some of them were probably austistic, asexual or homosexual, so that may account for that! 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:06 AM
1

I'm happier without women. Don't really need them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:58 AM
2

100% agree! Self worth comes from within, not from validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:57 AM
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M38 and always been single. It doesn't have to suck. Accepting it and moving on is the answer. Stop chasing women and focus those energies on more worthwhile pursuits i.e. career, hobbies and interests. With the way the world is now being single has never been better! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:53 AM
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Never really given them much thought tbh
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:19 PM
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I shower every day and keep it all clean, no problems there but it won't make women anymore attracted to you.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:28 AM
0

And we're lose many more generations to come however that itself is not a bad thing. This is natural selection at work with the aid of technology i.e. social media. It's the law of the jungle. The weak die and the strong survive! You either adapt to the changing world or you opt out. There's a great dignity to be had in walking away.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:12 AM
1

You may not but many others do.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:00 AM
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I couldn't be arsed to be honest. Much better things to be doing with my time.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 07:01 PM
1

My advice for virgins 30+ would be to start seeing escorts, become a passport bro or go MGTOW. Dating and relationships are a shitshow nowadays. Much better to keep your dignity and self respect.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:58 PM
1

I once saw a reality TV show about this once and the men faired much better than the women. The men worked together as a team in the spirit of brotherhood while the women team descended into full blown confrontations and rivalary.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:50 PM
2

I genuinely wouldn't come to the aid of a woman in public, aside from family and friends.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:49 PM
0

I'm rateless. As an indifferent introvert I couldn't give a f..k! 😅
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:46 PM
3

It's rather unlikely. Best to accept it and move on!
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:41 PM
6

Poverty is affecting everyone regardless of gender/sex. Never have the ruling elite been so greedy and uncaring.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:40 PM
2

Women like a sense of danger and unpredictability. In regards to women writing love letters to serial killers that's a power dynamic. With the man in prison they feel they have the upper hand in the relationship. If they were released however the dynamic would undoubtably shift.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 08:54 AM
2

Going MGTOW was the best decision I've ever made in life. Since walking away from dating and relationships life has been incredibly refreshing and liberating. My only regret is I didn't adopt this lifestyle sooner.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:14 PM
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I've been seeing escorts for ten years. Seen 24 escorts so far, besides my regular and have had some awesome experiences. Got to furfull many of my sexual fantasies. Here's to many more! 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:13 PM
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Never understood this obssesion for virgin women. Personally I've never met a guy who wants one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:56 AM
1

To quote Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind; "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn".
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:38 PM
1

He's definately f....d! (not literally of course) 😅
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:36 PM
1

I'm definately interested in buying one. The only issues for me are storage space and living with family which would make owning one rather awkward. In the future maybe. We're see....
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:34 PM
1

No, why fuck up your body just to please a shallow and superficial society? Just say f..k it and walk away!
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:32 PM
1

Of course it's worth it. With all that knowledge your free!
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:28 PM
1

A.K.A I'm not sexually attracted to you but don't want to hurt your feelings.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:27 PM
1

No, thanks! I've much better things to be doing with my time. Besides I wouldn't want to waste their time or mine.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:25 PM
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I would say for me making peace with being alone has been a lifelong journey. I always knew I was different from most people right back to my first days at school. Always been an introvert and outsider who does 99% alone but I'm ok with that. I do socialize every now and then but companionship isn't something I really need. I think some people are born individualists of whom the single lifestyle fits. Not everyone needs someone. I've found an inner peace the older I've got. Being free of social …
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:22 PM
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The solution is more men go MGTOW. Start focusing on self development, their careers and hobbies and interesting and less on pursuing and seeking validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:45 PM
1

100% agree. A waste of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:34 PM
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No, I wouldn't intervene as I care about self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:20 PM
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I've never tried to recruit anyone. I just keep a low profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:01 PM
1

She knows only too well how bad dating is for most men nowadays. She's pretty much more to accept that I'll never have a girlfriend, get married or have kids. She knows my feelings on the matter. My family know I occasionally see escorts. My mother isn't that bothered as she knows how things are now. Not sure how my father feels about it. Saying that he's from a different generation with different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:00 PM
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I don't think you really understand either tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:42 PM
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MGTOW and incel are very different things, often confused by people who don't understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:32 PM
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I don't really have a best friend and if I did I wouldn't date them. As an MGTOW I don't date or do relationships. Happily single! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:47 PM
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I've always believed you should never settle for anyone less than your worth. I would never settle for just anyone rather than be single. I much prefer to maintain my standards, dignity and self respect and I'm not ashamed to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:51 PM
4

Not an incel but MGTOW. I cope just fine. I have myself, that's more than I'll ever need. Found an inner peace! 😎
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:06 PM
1

No. I have to be physically attracted to them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:54 PM
1

Great to hear you've adapted to a new way of living, somewhat like myself. More guys need to do this!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:33 PM
2

I'll do it on the rare occasion but most of the time I can't be arsed. I've much better things to be doing with my time. It's an entertaining distraction but I don't approach it with much expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:22 PM
1

When I'm out and about working I talk to everyone. From experience however I have better conversations with men than I do with women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 08:18 PM
4

I used to feel the same at first until I learnt to seperate intimacy and sex. As I've never really experienced the former I focus more on the latter. When I see escorts I leave all that romantic stuff behind, focus on the sex and having a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:52 PM
2

I couldn't give a f..k about masculinity to be honest. I'm probably the least masculine guy you could meet. As for rejection I'm pretty much indifferent to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:50 PM
3

Anyone can work towards it. Learn to stoic and mentally strong. Redefine your character and personality. Focus on your strengths and individuality. All the wonderful qualities that make you who you are. Lastly learn not to give a f..k what others think about you! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:45 PM
3

I'm sure it'll happen in the future. Never say never!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:42 PM
3

Some meet at expensive hotels. Some offer a wider range of services i.e. girlfriend, pornstar experience etc. Like most people how good the sex is depends on the chemistry between escort and client.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:21 PM
3

I generally find most people who adopt that lifestyle don't really talk about it. The only way you would know is if you asked them. Saying that on social media I think guys like that are pretty easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:19 PM
2

High class means a finer experience than a cheaper one. Attractiveness is subjective. We're all attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:05 PM
4

I see my regular every few months. As she is a high class escort her prices are expensive but she's worth every bit. Working in healthcare I earn pretty good wages but I don't use escorts all that much. Luckily I have a low libido/testerone so don't feel the desire to have sex much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:53 PM
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I've never been the type of guy to attract women so have had very little romantic interest from women throughout my life. Growing up it used to depress me but as I've got older I've made peace with being alone and found acceptance. Finding that inner peace has given me confidence and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:46 PM
5

As an introvert I don't socialise much so I'm not out there meeting women (not that I've any interest in doing so). My confidence or self worth comes from within without the need for validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:25 PM
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Yeah, life is pretty good. I wish more men would follow my lead rather than being endlessly depressed about things that are beyond their control. Learn to be independant and self sufficient without the need for validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:16 PM
4

Everyone dies. It's how we live our life's inbetween that matters!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:12 PM
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I've adopted the MGTOW lifestyle and it's changed my life for the better. Since walking away from dating and relationships I've now become more confident than ever. I now focus all my energies on myself, work, hobbies and interests. It's refreshing to be free of expectations and social constructs. If I ever feel the sexual urge I'll just book an escort. Veen doing that for ten years now and have had some awesome experiences. Here's to many more! 🥂 I would definately consider buying a sex doll/ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:07 PM
2

Who?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 09:31 AM
1

False. I've since walked away from the circus a.k.a dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:24 PM
1

A.I and the rise of sex dolls/robots and immersive VR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:22 PM
1

I was a late bloomer myself and would still be a virgin now at nearly 40 had I not made the decision to start seeing escorts on a regular basis. Had some awesome experiences over the years. I don't regret a moment of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:18 PM
1

Well, it's perfectly understandable if they do. Women want the best and who could blame them? Men need to find purposes in life away from centuries old constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:05 PM
1

Awareness of the current dating market has been incredibly helpful to me. Without it I would have fallen into the same traps men do. Going MGTOW has changed my life in a very positive way. It's given me much confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:23 PM
1

Hmm, would being MGTOW be blackpilled?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 08:54 PM
2

I've been seeing escorts for ten years. I lost my virginity to one shortly before my 30th birthday. Seen 24 escorts, besides my regular and have had some truly awesome times. I would 100% recommend it! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:26 PM
1

I'm ugly/average but confident. It comes with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:19 PM
1

I've no issue with women wearing lots of makeup or having plastic surgery. At the end of the day it's their decision how they want to look. Who am I to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:32 PM
1

I'm a passionate photographer (landscape and industrial), historian (absolutely love history, so like visiting castles and museums), collecting antiques and fossils (passionate about palentogy) and cosplay (I like designing costumes and attending comic cons). That's just a few of my interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:49 AM
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Embracing the MGTOW lifestyle has changed my life for sure. It's helped me to become more confident, mentally strong and comfortable with myself. Some pill content has helped over the years too. Let's say I'm a very different man nowadays to the man I used to be a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:23 AM
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Learning to make peace with it and find acceptance. With age comes wisdom and with wisdom comes confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:48 AM
2

That old one! Well, I'm nearly 40 and it hasn't happened yet so not expecting much! 😅 I've kinda got to the point now where I've made peace with being alone. As an introvert it's my default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:05 AM
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Not really. Although it might be flattering on occasion, it could annoying after a while. I would much prefer to be left alone in all honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:55 PM
1

Going MGTOW changed my life in a very positive way I now live for myself without expectations or constructs i.e. relationships, marriage, kids etc I now get to focus all my energies on work, hobbies and interests.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 12:33 PM
1

Simps are cringeworthy and embrassing!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:06 PM
2

Women in general are not attracted to autistic guys. No more than they are intelligent men. Hence why a lot of intellectuals throughout history where lifelong single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:05 PM
1

Self worth comes from within, not from the validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:03 PM
2

I can easily understand why they don't approach. To be honest most don't bring much to the table nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:53 PM
2

Always be true to yourself and be a good/kind person regardless if you have/haven't validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:52 PM
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I used to be a simp back in my twenties and early thirties seeking validation from women but as I no longer need/want it. More focused on myself nowadays. Self love! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:45 PM
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100% agree! I lost my virginity to a hot American escort from Michigan who was living in the UK at the time. For a first experience it wasn't bad at all. That was the start of my escort journey. Seen 24 escorts over ten years, besides my regular. Had some truly awesome experiences. I've found it's helped my confidence both physically and sexually. The only downsides are it leaves you with an empty wallet! 😅 and makes you view woman more sexually than as people. It's definately changed my ideas o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:01 PM
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As a male I would find it annoying and harrasement. When I'm out and about I just want to be left alone to do my own thing. I don't want people disturbing my peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:41 PM
1

With knowledge comes wisdom and with wisdom comes power! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:56 PM
1

No, ideally I want someone with a similar build to myself. I'm a skinny guy so someone whose slim and atheletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:42 AM
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Oh, yeah. Of course they do! I've had this confirmed by a female friend recently. She said bad guys do something for women i.e. the danger, uncertainty etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:37 AM
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Neither to be honest. I'm quite happy as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:34 AM
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I can't abide Tate. I find him absolutely nauseating. Self opinionated and full of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:34 AM
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I would prefer not to be approached at all which in life I never am, so we're all good! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:31 AM
1

I'm an ugly minger but I've learnt to be cool with that! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:30 AM
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Men need to be less emotional and more stoic. Sadly it's an quality missing in men nowdays. Most are too femme.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:29 AM
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Luckily I'm blessed with a low libido/testerone. Saying that I can be sexual in the right mood. Off/on switch! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:21 AM
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Oh, yeah! I've had this recently confirmed to me by a female friend with a large social circle. A lot of women she knows are dating/sharing the same men. Most of the time the end results are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:18 AM
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Well, that's not something for us to tell you but for you to find out. At 21 your life has hardly started!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:52 AM
1

I think there's less expectations for men nowadays so we can relax, chill and do our own thing without having to conform to social constructs. This a very good thing! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:12 PM
1

I think it's more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:29 AM
1

Pretty much so I'm told
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:11 PM
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The best thing is I get to close the door afterwards!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:40 AM
4

Don't we know it! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:20 PM
17

I've been seeing escorts for ten years. Best decision I ever made even if it does leave me with an empty wallet! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:57 AM
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Thats 100% what I now do. I focus all my energies on myself, work, hobbies and interests. Embracing the single lifestyle! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:54 AM
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As an MGTOW I know exactly where it's coming from however I don't practice red pill theory. Since walking away from dating and relationships and now focusing on myself life is much better! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:36 AM
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As the late Queen Elizabeth used to say "Don't complain and don't explain". Sometimes it's best to say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:33 AM
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I think many are already embracing that lifestlye! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:10 AM
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I've been gradually adopting the MGTOW lifestyle over the last ten years. It's refreshing to be free of expectations and social constructs i.e. relationships, marriage, kids etc. I now focus all my energies on work, hobbies and interests.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 11:01 AM
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I've always been an introvert and outsider who does 99% of activities alone and I'm fine with that. Came to the lifelong realisation earlier this year that some people are just meant to be this way, so made peace with being alone and finding acceptance. Embraced the MGTOW lifestyle and now focus on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:45 AM
1

Seems a lot of money to waste on something that has no degree of certainty. Much better ways to spend money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:40 AM
2

I made peace with it long ago. It is what it is! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:37 AM
1

I think it's a great thing. Women deserve the best. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:35 AM
1

It doesn't matter to me at all. Saying that I wouldn't mind de-flowering a virgin! 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:33 AM
2

That is until you have a heart attack! 🫀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:20 AM
3

The juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:04 AM
2

I'll occasionally notice them but don't pay them much attention. More focused on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:18 AM
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Mildly austistic and unattractive which I already am. Not ashamed of either to be honest. It's who I am! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:08 PM
2

100% agree. An entertaining distraction for a hour or so but no longer. Too many other things to be getting on with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:00 AM
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Not as much as you think. Men are great survivalists and can go without such things for years. It does take a strong individual however to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:44 AM
1

I would say some of the blame lies with the corporations who run the dating apps. There exploiting vulnerable people to make money. I really think they should all be shut down, along with the likes of Only Fans etc. They responsible for a lot of the mental health problems in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:10 PM
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I think social media culture has most certainly affected the dating landscape. It has given the sexes (especially women) the abundance of choice. For them it's like going in a sweetshop and choosing the tastiest treats and throwing away the rest. Sadly we've all become rather disposable nowadays. It's a controversial opinion but I think embracing the MGTOW lifestyle would benefit a lot more men nowadays. Not the bitching about women kind however but finding your independance and self worth in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:31 PM
1

Does China and Japan still have a no immigration policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:21 AM
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Not marrying and having children. I think in the future your see the rise of 'herbivore men' in the US and Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:41 AM
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What happens in China and Japan will eventually happen throughout the rest of the world. Marriage and birth rates are falling worldwide as more people adopt solitary lifestyles. To quote Bob Dylan 'These times are changin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:00 PM
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I've been gradually going MGTOW the older I've got. It's been a lifelong realisation. Made peace with being alone and found acceptance. It's liberating to be free of expectations and social constructs i.e. relationships, marriage, kids etc
/r/MensRights19/08/23 10:57 AM
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A large number of men would do better walking away altogether and doing something more productive and worthwhile than chasing women. Little good comes of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:56 AM
3

I make the most of my appearance but that's to improve my personal confidence not to please others. I couldn't give a f..k what other peopld think of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:53 AM
2

I'm the most interesting person I know. I'm probably considered boring to most 'normies' 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:50 AM
1

Alas, changing times....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:23 AM
7

I do things for myself and not for the validation from others. Self worth comes from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:52 AM
2

Surely they must know in all honesty it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:40 PM
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I no longer date or pursue relationships, instead I focus on myself. Life has become much better after walking away from the circus that is modern dating! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:26 AM
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100% agree. It's a waste of time and money for men. Quite why men still pursue this option is a mystery? It's incredibly damaging to mental health too. Personally I would ban online dating apps altogether as the owners of them are leaching money off vulnerable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:23 AM
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I've used online dating apps on and off since they first started and haven't had much success. Saying that I did go on a number of dates with a woman I met on one but we were totally mismatched so I choose to end things. Aside from that I've started a few conversations that I thought showed promise but ultimately went nowhere. Closed all my accounts down last year for the final time and won't be using online dating again. In that time I have shifted the focus away from dating and relationships t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:06 AM
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I think I'll be fine. As a lifelong introvert it's my default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:04 PM
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Because it's easier to generalize and paint a whole lot of people with the sane brush. Rather than be honest about this stuff people prefer to sweep it under the carpet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:36 AM
1

38M and always been single. It's a way of life for me. Being an introvert and outsider makes it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:39 AM
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M38 and always been single. I've made peace with it and found acceptance. Embraced the MGTOW lifestyle! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:12 AM
1

Your probably right. Saying that you sometimes get the opportunity to turn things around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:28 PM
2

Well, being a lifelong outsider and introvert helps. I may also be on the autism spectrum so I tend to focus more on my hobbies and interests. Whenever I do feel the sexual urge I book an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:51 PM
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Luckily I walked away from it many years ago. It's a game I no longer play! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:48 AM
6

And the solution for men. Get the hell off online dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:52 AM
1

As I very rarely have sex there wouldn't be much point. On the rare occasions when I do I'll just use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:43 AM
1

It's been a gradual realisation over nearly 40 years. It's taken me a long time to make peace with being alone and find acceptance but I'm getting there. Been redifining my character and personality a lot more in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:22 AM
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I wouldn't say men are afraid of women, just they don't want to waste their time on them, preferring to pursue more worthwhile things.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 11:17 AM
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As a MGTOW I would encourage my son to adopt that lifestyle. Despite the negative things people say about it MGTOW is a positive movement. It's only a handful of woman hating incels that sour it's reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:14 AM
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Fit 50 year old. The first woman (escort) I ever had sex with was in her mid 40's while I was 29 at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:14 AM
2

As someone who doesn't date or do relationships I would politely reject her in the nicest possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:09 AM
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💰💰💰💰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:56 PM
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The thing is it's no better in your 30's than it is in your 20's nowadays. Modern dating is just awful. That's the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:19 AM
3

If I had the available finances to buy such tech I would definately do that. I'm not a relationship/marriage type anyway, too much of an outsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:44 AM
1

Hence the soft harem theory
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:42 AM
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Go Passport Bro! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:17 PM
5

Marriage in the western world is a dying insituation. In the last few years many jewelry companies selling engagement rings have folded as have companies making wedding dresses. This is due to many issues i.e. cost of living etc, not just men not wanting to get married anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:51 PM
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What's happening in Japan will undoubtedly happen in the rest of the world in the near future. Once tech has advanced many people will choose that as an alternative to human relationships. Birthrates around the world are already falling and have been for some time. This is why governments around the world are encouraging more immigration to fill the gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:46 PM
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What will be interesting in the future will be how advancements on sex tech i.e. sex robots and VR affect the dating demographics. I can forsee a section of society walking away from institutions like marriage, relationships and having kids. The future will be interesting for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:33 PM
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I've gradually been indentifying more with the MGTOW as I've got older. Somewhat of a lifelong realisation. Since giving up looking for love and relationships ten years ago I'm no longer a slave to expectations and social constructs. Life has become more liberating and refreshing. I may well be one of the rare MGTOW's whose not always bitching about women. I much prefer to focus my energies on work, hobbies and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:54 PM
6

Online dating to be banned An end to simping The same laws for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:02 PM
1

I was guilty of this in the past. Closed down all my accounts a year or more ago. Seriously I would rather eat dog 💩 than use use them again! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:14 AM
1

I've no idea. Not really looking anymore tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:41 PM
3

Aside from myself I only know one other on social media. He has attempted to ask girls out but was rejected which hurt him bad so now has choosen to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:17 PM
1

I've learnt to be happily single nowadays so not interested in dating or pursuing relationships. I'm happy to chat to new people however on a strictly platonic basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:12 AM
2

As a naturally non-competitive person it doesn't particulary bother me all that much to be honest I'm really only interested in myself so am pretty indifferent to what's going on in the wider society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:22 AM
1

It's an outdated construct from another era.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:24 AM
1

I live in the UK and it's pretty much the same tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:23 AM
1

Dating and marriage are both off the cards for me. After a lifelong realisation I've made peace with being alone, free of the burden of expectations. Liberating!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:21 AM
1

Some men don't need sex at all. There calles asexuals. Luckily others are blessed with a low libido/tesrerone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:17 AM
1

The Wright Brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:41 PM
1

I thinks it's pointless at any age. Saying that I'm a natural born cynic and pessimist! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:25 PM
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He really shouldn't have bothered. Saying that being autistic he probably wasn't aware of social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:41 AM
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I seriously couldn't give a f..k about what people think of me. As far as concerned most of the world is full of idiots that are best ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:26 AM
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Confidence comes from within. Also from age and life experience. I strongly believe you make your own self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:04 AM
1

Money helps with lots of things. It certainly makes life more easy and enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:29 AM
3

It doesn't benefit a man at all. An outdated insituation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:39 AM
1

I talk to women but only in a platonic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:47 PM
2

I don't approach as most of the time I know what the answer will be. I don't waste their time or mine. I find the concept of dating incredibly shakey and unreliable. I would prefer to put effort into something with a higher success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:54 PM
2

I'll admit to being selfish but I can be very generous too. As I've got older I like things a certain way and am not willing to change to suit others. I'm set in my ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:34 AM
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Ideally you want a happy medium. Someone whose curvy but not obsese. Not that it matters to me as I don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:31 AM
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