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DATING ADVICESubstantial_Wasabi/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 07:37 PM
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Single moms get plenty of help by their families and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:39 AM
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So how do women with low body counts not still have that same leverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:20 PM
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Women don’t build careers because they think it makes them eligible partners. When men say this they are being solipsistic because men chase money to get women. Women do it because it is basically necessary these days to have a high paying career to survive or out of passion for their field.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:22 AM
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Like as if they’re gonna be bottle feeding and changing diapers all by themselves 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:50 PM
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As usual all the women who dont apply to the questions are chiming in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:27 PM
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I go on so many dates and 90% of men dont even try to have sex on the first date. Its foolish that this is framed as something that id be preventing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:56 AM
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Im just not convinced that men will ask a women they really like to split on a the date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:00 AM
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Why does he have to be having an issue? Is it not a possibility that he just wasn’t the one for them? These weren’t women that he got to know and had chemistry or similar interests with, he just approached them because they’re women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:10 PM
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I guess you can make an assumption based on that, but never actually know like i said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:23 PM
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Its pretty crazy to do that, especially with someone you’re not in a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:22 PM
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Says the man that goes through phones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:22 PM
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It doesn’t make sense to keep messages of people you previously had dated or had sex with to me, i dont do that or understand why you would unless you’re a teen. Like what specifically would you find in their messages or dms that confirms their body count? Them actually talking about the casual sex they had?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:03 PM
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Because this is something that can easily lied about because you have no way of verifying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:53 PM
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Just the women you date i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:52 PM
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I guess if she’s a stupid teenager this would be accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:50 PM
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That doesn’t answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:45 PM
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How do you truly know a woman’s body count if shes not obvious with it and doesn’t sleep with men who know each other or are in the same circles? Inb4 “we can just tell” explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:38 PM
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Because how does he know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:11 AM
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Okay thats fair. I have no problem with letting men pay if they insist, i will offer to pay my half. If they expect sex just because they paid then i would have no problem rejecting them and cutting them off after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:29 PM
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If they have an expectation of sex after paying cant you just filter them out easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:04 PM
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Because these are the women in these men’s leagues, the only ones they get matched with on OLDs and this makes the men feel slighted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:45 PM
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Google? Its a widely known fact
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:51 PM
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I dont see why that matters when men are more dangerous and more likely to repeat said crime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:15 PM
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But why is that an issue when men are statistically more dangerous and more likely to repeat said crime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:15 PM
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Men commit 90% of violent crimes, as well as the majority of other crimes. Why should they not receive longer sentences than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:08 PM
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Why are you telling ME this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:53 PM
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He referred to it as that i think because foundation and concealer work to even the skin tone, men aren’t knowledgeable about makeup so hes describing the action its doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:34 PM
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No hes talking about what foundation/concealer does basically. It makes you look blemish-less and like you have good skin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:05 PM
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He meant even-ing like to even the skin tone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:02 PM
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“Skin tone evening creams” he likely meant foundation/color correctors or concealer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:56 PM
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Red flags are 100% subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:00 PM
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He was a suggested contact for her on Snapchats “quick add” feature
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:55 PM
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Its more of a small ick, makes the guy look like a coomer/thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:15 PM
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Hmm okay I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:38 PM
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But its so easy for him, he shouldn’t be praised for what is the equivalent to taking candy from a baby, which is what the op comment i replied to inferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:30 PM
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Then why does chad get praise for fucking so many women when all it takes for him is to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:51 PM
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Most men have to really go out of their way to find and seduce someone to sleep with and escalate each step just to cheat,the average woman just has to slip up and say yes to sex. You could argue that this makes it worse when men cheat because of how premeditated the process is for them(I personally dont think either is worse).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:10 PM
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Is getting a bf supposed to be hard or some type of achievement?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:56 PM
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Plenty of men hate on them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:39 PM
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I actually agree with you that people should leave when they’re not getting what they want. But what i described is still an example of manipulation because they know the woman wants more and they’re being PURPOSEFULLY vague to lead her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:35 PM
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Ive seen them advocate for being purposefully vague about the type of arrangement/commitment they’re seeking in order to string women along that demonstrate wanting more commitment. Id call this manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:34 PM
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Probably like less than 10%. I go on alot of first and second dates and do not feel enough of a connection to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:30 PM
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And the prince’s were all handsome and rich. The male protagonist is 90% of the time handsome if we wanna try blaming movies and TV which is rich
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:26 PM
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You’re probably being downvoted because late term abortions are so rare that its considered a very biased and tired talking point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:32 PM
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Yes it does!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:50 PM
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Who cares? Go build a house or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:50 PM
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Ejaculation may be a need for men but not sex. Sex is just a strong want for men’s ego satisfaction lets be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:44 PM
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When i was in the group for my state i was genuinely appalled by how unattractive and unappealing the men being discussed were. They were not chads by any stretch of the imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:44 AM
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I am not arguing that life as a man was a perfect easy utopia (which is what you seem to keep arguing against). The advantage was that he had a maid, cook, sexual partner and family for the rest of his life if he married. Maybe YOU personally dont see that as an advantage but many men did and would today prefer to return to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:06 PM
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I dont agree with your response to that user. People have definitely gotten cheated on/left from doing nothing wrong on their part. But i do agree with your original comment about women losing attraction alot of the time because the man gets complacent. But things aren’t always black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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In the past men with a wife were guaranteed children and a very slim chance of the wife being able to leave him. If im incorrect feel free to show sources proving me wrong. The advantage of it was a woman who would cook, clean, have and look after your children until one of you died.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:42 PM
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See my response to the person I originally replied to. You are reading my comment out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:52 PM
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You asked what the advantage of funding someones entire existence was, my comment was a response to the assumption that you already have this woman you are funding. And yes it was basically guaranteed you had children with this woman and that she most likely wouldn’t afford to be able to leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:51 PM
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His response was pure mansplaining
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:46 PM
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You were basically guaranteed children and a wife that most likely couldn’t leave you. Everything has pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:56 PM
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Why is it always 0/1 vs 100 though. What about an actual realistic number?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:33 PM
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Them playing games is them nexting you not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:53 PM
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Yes. And you all will deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:47 PM
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This is so disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:24 PM
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But if she didn’t want a relationship it doesn’t matter what he thinks..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:41 AM
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This is assuming that the woman wanted a ltr with every guy she’s had sex with which is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:42 PM
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If you wanna be manipulative and fake a persona to test someone you cannot complain about them lying or being manipulative right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:05 PM
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People put in effort when they want to. If a woman or man isn’t putting in any effort it’s because they’re not interested enough or they don’t want to which is essentially the same thing. Claiming that the person is interested but they’re just choosing to not put in any effort is just an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:39 PM
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Saying the women who put in no effort are interested just seems like a cop out. How interested can they be if the effort is minimum? People put in effort for who they’re truly interested in men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:13 PM
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Men and women still put in effort for the people they want to pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:00 PM
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That post was such a boring and long winded rant. I don't think asking someone what they're looking for is that bad. Or maybe you can ask them what brought them to the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:28 AM
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As a woman it definitely wouldn’t be a meltdown inducing event but thats a really socially awkward and cringe thing to say to someone you just met at a party. Id lose interest in the guy for telling me that. Its funny in the sense that id laugh about it hearing the story because its such a socially unacceptable awkward thing to do, but id be laughing at the guy not with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:16 PM
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In today’s society everyone has to support themselves but some men here see women having a career as masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:00 PM
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I 100% disagree and don’t understand how that is legal. It’s similar to how rape victims in states where abortion is illegal are forced to have the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:20 PM
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According to the law it is his responsibility. Why argue nonsense? He had a say in impregnating someone and sometimes that has consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:51 PM
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I agree that women should just not get impregnated if they’re not ready to deal with having a child or dont want to have an abortion. Nobody forces a man to cum inside of a woman and impregnate her. He made a decision and because of the way the law works he may be on the hook to take care of his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:49 PM
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You mean why should a man have to take responsibility for his own living child? Really? The alternative would be men being able to impregnate tons of women with no consequences. Why would society allow that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:43 PM
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I mean it’d be pretty terrifying if men were allowed to decide whether someone else should undergo and abortion or have a child. Child support and all of that can be avoided by just not impregnating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:26 PM
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Dont respond, he should be engaging in conversation and ask you out to get off the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:04 PM
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Lol yeah watching how insecure men become all clingy and unsure when you give that energy back to them sure is something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:57 PM
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im sure if women knew you went overseas to pay for pussy they'd be put off aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:57 PM
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Sure but theres way more men like that than women who prefer overweight men. Substantially more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:29 AM
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i think perhaps "fake" looking women tend to dress more revealing/slutty and act in a certain way that makes men think they're sexually available. Easy targets basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:18 AM
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Then why are there men that specifically prefer bigger/thick/ even OBESE women and not the other way around? Even "dad bods" are muscular fit men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:06 AM
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The point is women with extra weight on them can still be considered femininely attractive by some men where overweight men lose points for looking less masculine therefore less attractive to women. Most people of both genders prefer thin in shape people but men are more forgiving of extra weight on women when it comes to sexual attraction than vice versa. If you look on the internet theres men who specifically prefer overweight women but not so much of women preferring overweight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:33 PM
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There’s more feminine looking women than masculine looking men. Most Americans are fat and being overweight isn’t as unattractive on women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:50 PM
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Not wanting a virgin doesn’t make you a bad human being or bimbo try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:10 PM
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No its just gonna be 50 comments from women saying they’ve never dated those men but still felt the need to participate for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:14 PM
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Nope. I knew one Chad in HS and he was so ugly that literally the name “chad” became a school wide meme started by his friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:30 PM
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First one but get dicked down on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:42 PM
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Yes it’s obvious men commit way more crime so I didn’t bother to go back and forth with someone arguing that the sky is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:37 PM
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Yeah you’re right men do not commit the vast majority of crimes they just get caught more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:15 PM
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Men constantly complain about a lack of male educators when they’re committing up to 80% of child sex crimes in a career thats 74% female. https://www.fox32chicago.com/news/at-least-269-k-12-educators-arrested-on-child-sex-crimes-in-first-9-months-of-this-year
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:39 PM
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Ive been in a group like this out if curiosity and let me tell you some of the men posted were the ugliest/disheveled men possible! I hope this gives you and other men hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:02 PM
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That’s fair because nobody has any sympathy for men or their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:40 PM
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It’s relevant because the majority of the sub are male so of course theres more questions for women. The demographics of the sub are mostly male because its an offshoot of TRP. Reddit is also majority male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:32 PM
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Im sure it has nothing to do with the demographics of the sub and Reddit as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:15 PM
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A man in his mid 20s living at home isn’t attractive to women it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:01 PM
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You kiss your wife and she probably kissed her dad before so you’re gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:50 PM
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Ppd is for discussing western dating so idk why people keep pointing this out its pretty much implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:28 PM
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The passive aggressive comments from men who most likely still live at home in this thread are funny. Its an interesting fact that more young men than women still live at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:23 PM
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block him you idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:56 PM
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Angry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:34 AM
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Too bad nobody cares and financial abortion will never be a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:53 PM
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Yeah and men have 100% of the decision making power to have sex they know can result in making a child
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:50 PM
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You think all the kids in college are just not fucking and hooking up? Its just gay people having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:08 AM
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There has never been a more liberated sex positive time in the west than now. Hook ups and fwbs are rampant and completely normalized in society amongst young people. Approaching women in bars and clubs and other events is 100% acceptable and is happening all day everyday without anyone batting an eye. If you cant get a significant other or casual sex there is something extremely abnormal about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:44 PM
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I honestly confused you for the op I originally replied to lool. Not sure why you replied to me when I asked them to give an example of the mocking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:33 PM
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Yeah someone who isnt okay with a date mocking someone and saying they’re not relationship material as a way to test them is definitely not relationship material you’re so right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:16 PM
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Im not sure this can be executed without coming across as rude or douchey which is why I asked for a specific example of how they do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:52 PM
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Give an example of how you would “mock a promiscuous women’s behavior”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:54 PM
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theres plenty of average couples in real life when you go out. I also see tons of average people i went to HS with dating each other on facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:04 PM
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Men not working in dirty jobs should be obligated to sexually satisfy those men aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:59 PM
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Not into you enough to give head…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:38 PM
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they assume everyone else is a bad person like them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:19 PM
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People overestimate their own attractiveness often. You come across as someone whose antisocial and complains alot from your posts honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:33 PM
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Attractive men with decent social skills do not struggle i think people here desperately need to believe that instead of realizing they’re not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:20 PM
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I don’t understand the problem or complaining about people having different standards for different people/relationships as if interpersonal relationships “should” be fair. Men do the same thing with women they’re not serious about. People treat their best friends better than casual friends, that’s life. Id feel like such a loser complaining that men only saw me as fuck buddy material and insisting they’re the ones at fault instead of improving myself or choosing better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:55 PM
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These questions about how to get marriage rates back up again are so stupid to me because it ignores the fact that historically women HAD TO marry or they wouldn’t be able to survive. That’s literally the main historical incentive of marriage. These days women do not need marriage but want it if they love someone or are afraid of FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:55 PM
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This is kind of pathetic. Imagine a woman made a post talking about how she does everything for men just to only get fuck zoned while the airhead mean bitches get all the men for relationships. Its the same post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:01 AM
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I don't think their comment of you needing therapy was based on your opinion of needing a virgin alone but when you read your whole post theres red flags and other concerning things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:46 PM
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I mean he has literally been admitted if you check his post history so they weren’t wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:25 PM
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Is this what men who spitefully don’t support abortions want? Unfortunate if he did get her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:21 PM
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Post history as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:58 AM
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thats what you got out of the story?......
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:40 PM
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The differences dont matter in this argument. If he has a liberal view of sex for himself nobody is trying to impose liberal views on him like the commenter i was replying to implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:44 PM
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So no statistics backing up that the decline in marriage has anything to do with female promiscuity as I suspected. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:32 PM
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Now prove the declining rate is strictly caused by men not wanting to be married to promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:26 PM
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And which do people usually end up using in real life to choose partners? If people in real life cared about those n count studies most women wouldn’t be married or in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:18 PM
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Promiscuous women get wifed up every single day. Most people get married and a good amount of people would be considered promiscuous in today’s world. OP gives reasons why these men may make bad partners the same as why men give reasons why promiscuous women would make bad parters. Both are valid views to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:07 PM
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It's not about "why can men do it but we cant", its discussing WHY this specific type of man can be a bad partner. Nothing in your response challenges OPs view, try again maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:37 PM
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You are trying to impose your liberal views on sex to men who don't view sex that liberally I guess you missed the part where she specified these men are promiscuous themselves. And on your last "note to men part" Their point is not to try and convince men that are promiscuous themselves to ltr high n women but discuss why these men might make poor partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:30 PM
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I don’t care about anyone but my own’s intentions if they’re not acting on it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:38 PM
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I don’t understand what stops one from learning to socialize all throughout the 12 years you’re required to go to school. Or university?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:00 PM
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Went to a state school and all of mine will be forgiven without me having to pay a cent. Teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:16 PM
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She said he focuses on her pleasure and gets her off 9/10 and is well endowed. That’s about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:11 PM
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Yes you grab his dick while making out to make sure it’s enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:50 AM
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Its an issue for BW who are sensible for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:27 PM
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I dont have any major issues dating as a BW. Most of my likes on dating apps are from WM but i only like black and other ethnic men. I do think theres a disadvantage compared to other races of women because of the large percentage of BM are in jail/poor/uneducated etc. So considering that most people date within their race, white and other races of women have waay more suitable options, so i guess that is a deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:22 PM
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It would help a little but most men just aren’t attractive to women naturally anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:02 PM
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Women’s ability to be selective makes sense considering how thirsty and desperate most men are, coupled by the fact that most men aren’t attractive to women. Women only settled with unattractive men in the past because they had to in order to survive financially. Today women do not need a man so men will have to offer more to compete or just not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:56 PM
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Chad treatment when they’re not chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:00 AM
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Fair, but that’s because they falsely believe they deserve more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:49 AM
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As a woman I wouldn’t expect any of that outside of a committed relationship anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:48 AM
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Why do they think they deserve chad treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:47 AM
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Lift, eat good, have a basic skincare routine, find a good somewhat trendy style that works for you, dont be a simp (that doesn’t mean be a complete jerk/narc instead ),get started in a good paying trade/degree, be social and try to maintain decent friendships/ friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:06 PM
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Average in America is overweight,unfortunately so men wanting a non fat woman is an above average requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:16 PM
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I know you spend all of your time and energy talking to and about incels but im not one of them. Acknowledging that looks matter to people is not envy, the halo effect is an observable phenomenon. People definitely treated me better after my glow up in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:00 PM
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The halo effect is a real observable fact, maybe not on the 8th dimension you live on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 AM
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Im not putting myself beneath anyone... I never said i was unattractive, im just pointing out reality. My original comment was in reference to all the men here who say they felt like people lied to them their whole lives about the importance of looks when you can observe that looks matter very early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:34 PM
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Noticing that looks matter to humans and that attractive people get more attention and romantic suitors is obsession/envy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:13 PM
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Feel free to provide some statistics backing up that a 52 year old man will produce better quality offspring than a young man, until then you are wrong and rejecting science over what you feel is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:10 PM
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Noticing objective reality around you has nothing to do with envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:59 PM
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It says it can take up to more than 2 years for a man older than 40, (Yikes) and the sperm quality is way decreased, therefore the 52 year old would not have a better bet at producing a quality offspring. ETA: The risk of mental health problems and autism spectrum disorder is marginally higher in children of fathers older than 40 than in those with younger fathers. SO yeah your point is literally false that an older man would produce higher quality children statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:44 PM
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Uh definetly not the 52 year old. Idk any woman who would chose a 52 year old sperm donor over a 26 year old. https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age#:\~:text=Age%20and%20sperm,healthy%20sperm%20than%20younger%20men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:35 PM
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Theres also a major difference between the looks and sperm quality of a 26 year old man and a 52 year old man. The wall exists for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wpdeaq/would_things_really_be_better_off_if_women_were/ikhmoht/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Here is a comment claiming society and women deceived them into thinking women do not care about looks, this is not MY argument. You seem to lack reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:57 PM
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Even on disney channel they had the popular boy and girl characters that everyone envied
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:40 PM
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Im sorry you dont have the capacity to follow my OC.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:33 PM
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Its the main point of your argument. That most men will just not work or care about supporting themselves or anything else if they learn that women are attracted to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:57 PM
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They’re claiming they were told women dont care about shallow things like looks their whole life and as long as you’re nice they will want you. I don’t understand what you’re not understanding here or why you keep replying to me and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wpdeaq/would_things_really_be_better_off_if_women_were/ikh489w/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Check this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:32 PM
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Oh look its the most men would be homeless jobless bums if they knew women cared about looks argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:20 PM
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People here claim they are now just realizing how much looks matter as an adult and that they were fooled for the entire first half of their life by society. My point is that the signs were all around and they chose to ignore them and be delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:15 PM
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How is it that some of the people here were able to go through their entire adolescence (school dances, valentines day, parties, prom) without realizing that looks matter and attractive people got the most attention and potential suitors?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:43 AM
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And i would say the same thing about people with poor money management. But the men here are so obsessed with looks and sex it makes 0 sense that they never noticed looks were important during the 12 years of school we all live through when everyone is at their most superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:26 AM
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Maybe the most outgoing kids had the most friends but we all knew who everyone wanted to date and had crushes on. Your head had to be in the sand if you didn’t notice the most attractive getting the most attention overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:31 PM
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I just dont understand this line of thinking at all. As a woman, in elementary school i had already noticed who the popular kids were who got alot of attention from the opposite sex and how they were similar. Do men not start to notice in middleschool at least who is attractive or not? I can’t imagine being so blind to whats going on around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:59 PM
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But a loving husband wouldn’t have allowed them to be in a strained financial situation in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:31 PM
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Yeah and you can’t enjoy the finer things of life when you’re poor and constantly worrying about money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:05 PM
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A loving man would never allow his family to be “just scraping by” Honestly i was being sarcastic at first but it actually makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:00 PM
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Loving husband. If he doesn’t give me 2k a month he’s not loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:52 PM
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Men get hurt/go through one breakup and turn to extreme trp/manosphere parrots. ​ Like could you imagine “sorry my ex hurt me too bad no more dinner dates, no movie dates, nothing. Just come over to my place because I’ve been used for money too much,” Men literally do this lmao. They usually end up scaring off every decent woman and only attract damaged women, the "thots" TRP claim every woman is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:42 PM
2

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:47 AM
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Because you initially attract people but cant make them stay to want to date you long. What else would be causing this? Be real for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:17 AM
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just unfollow and remove them luv
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:10 AM
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If nobody wants to date you/stay around for long you might be dude :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:10 AM
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im not calling you an asshole im just trying to get you to think about this from another perspective. So i gave the example of asking if you'd actively desire to be around someone whose an asshole (unpleasant) just because they were pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:50 AM
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I mean in your post history you claim to have severe mental health issues and have been in the psych ward? Would you want to be around someone whose a total asshole to you and did nothing for you just because they're pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:44 AM
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It takes alot to be an attractive person and constantly scare people off into not wanting to date you. If you can constantly initially attract people but not keep them around it must be something wrong with your behavior/personality. Also in your OP what did you mean by this? the second they get any sorta vibe that im not totally into them they generally run and play hard to get Why wouldn't people run off if they sense you're not "totally into them"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:38 AM
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not if they're unpleasant to be around/talk to. The way someone acts is important in wanting to be around them for periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:13 AM
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I think you're on to something with people doing stupid stuff for really attractive people's attention while sometimes not even really wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:22 PM
1

Comments prove the right cant meme
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:48 PM
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red flags: posts on dating advice subs about why nobody likes them and they cant get a date 18+ accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:01 PM
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If dating is 90% failure for men its illogical to pump and dump your only option out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:08 AM
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What game? Id hope most men weren’t desperate enough to be with someone that only detracts from their life. Its a perfectly reasonable thing to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:46 AM
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Cock blocking is an excuse, if the friend really wanted to sleep with you she would’ve chose to do so over the outing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:31 PM
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that women are only hard to obtain if you're below average in some metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:26 PM
1

Statistically most people marry or enter a relationship atleast once
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:14 PM
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I see plenty of average looking couples that i went to HS and college with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:28 PM
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For below average men yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:00 PM
1

Men just avoid self improvement/introspection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:23 PM
1

Solid advice. If yourself is bad then improve that until you can be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:04 PM
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No i am going to give them the most womanest advice ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:29 PM
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I doubt some man you made wait months has the power to suck you in. Usually girls will make you wait that long because their interest is low but keep you around for validation and dates. Me personally i don’t have sex with those men at all ill just fuck someone more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:56 PM
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I guess its good most men will not wait months around. Spending all that time taking her out and talking to her for months just for one time sex is time consuming and most men do not spend time doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:48 PM
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So which is it? Do men here refuse to wait more than 3 dates or are you all butthurt sociopaths who will take a girl out on dates for months just because of the alluring whiff of pussy? Answer quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:21 AM
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Men can only marry whoever agrees to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:00 PM
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being on/watching tiktoks is your main problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:10 PM
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If you pulled her with the tactics you brag about using then she’s most likely an insecure broken thot. Ghetto doesn’t just mean black but it’s interesting you had to point out she was white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:51 PM
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I understand that these tactics work on the ghetto thots you pull yes, but as a narcissist try to be less solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:40 PM
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Attractive men who compliment you and treat you well do make women want them. He just cant be a doormat, boring, or ugly in the process of being kind. Men’s definition of “asshole” here tend to be any behavior that’s not being an absolute simp so i take it with a grain of salt. There’s nuance, but most men here argue in blacks and whites so it’s pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:30 PM
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Agreed as long as shes not in HS i dont see any weirdness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:03 PM
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Yeah he has no chin/jaw, you'd think he'd just buy one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:20 PM
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Generally the threshold for someone to be smashable is based soley on attraction yes, especially for men. I don’t understand why this shocks you. Its not like people were comparing their accomplishments, they were making a joke about the woman and him hooking up because thats what men usually want with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:25 PM
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Im not reading all this god bless 🙏🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:09 PM
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I consider one of the two actions to be morally worse than the other. You do not agree, but not only do you not agree but you are convinced that your opinion is the right moral one over mine because you said so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:35 PM
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what app shows you how many times someone watches your story?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:41 AM
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I know what it means and going out of your way to lie to someone’s face and pretending to care about someone just to get something you want from them is a good example of sociopathic behavior. Lying by itself isn’t sociopathic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:37 AM
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But if men can fuck women they barely find attractive just for the sake of sex that means they value it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:58 AM
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We can agree to disagree. One of these actions is worse and sociopathic in my opinion and you’re not changing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:57 AM
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If women liked sex as much as men thered be no incels. Men like sex way more thats why they’re so much more indiscriminating with who they’ll have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:20 AM
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Even worse when simps don’t acknowledge their place as emotional tampons and try to get more😒
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:31 PM
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Lol at you thinking you need to flirt or even acknowledge men to get free drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:49 PM
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Yes. Having a preference for something you have 0 way of confirming to be true or not is stupid and illogical. Lying to someones face several times over a period of time to pretend you like them as a person just to use and discard them is sociopathic. Its not on the same level of not openly talking about your sex life like a high schooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:31 PM
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Lol you would think we’re discussing someone being a murderer or cheater. No i do not regret advocating for “blatant deception” for an invisible number that nobody can verify that doesn’t hurt anybody. Call me whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:03 PM
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Did you lean in to kiss her? Or did you expect her to make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:39 PM
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Sure. This is why its foolish to think you can accurate assume someone’s n count by how they act. Men will assume you’re a virgin/low n because you’re shy or not as extroverted and vice versa. Its foolish. You should pay more attention to how people treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:31 PM
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Going out of your way to lie about your intentions to use someone is way worse than toning down behavior that is considered offensive or unattractive. I regret making it a gendered thing. Men or women who talk openly and crassly about sex especially early on when you’re getting to know them is unattractive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:37 PM
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So not being tacky and talking openly about sex is deceptive if you’re not low n? My n isn’t “low” but that doesn’t mean it affects my whole personality and the way i talk to people and what i talk about with them. Thats why trying to guess someone’s body count by how they act is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:49 PM
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i dont recommend lying to people's face or leading them on to get something you want. Men like women who don't openly talk about sex or other crass things so why not give them what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:37 AM
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Yes i've sugar dated, the money is really good it made no sense to me to not do it. I'm way too pussy for onlyfans though, but maybe would do one if my face wasn't in it but i doubt it would be popular enough to make money. Girls who do onlyfans are super brave/crazy to me, i cant imagine not caring about all that being online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:52 PM
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Most men aren’t swimming in options and have no choice but to wait for whatever they can get anyways. But yeah like i said its clear when a guy is genuinely invested, and most men aren’t sociopathic enough to fake all that/ lie to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:32 PM
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To avoid this you can just not have sex until commitment. But...if he's not bringing you around his friends, introducing you to family/asking you to meet family, and you both don't have genuine interests in the same things you can tell he's not serious about you. Faking all of that is not easy/doable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:28 PM
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Its easy to act innocent and blush whenever sex or raunchy stuff comes up when youre talking to a guy you like. Men are easy and will believe what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:35 PM
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And who do men approach in night clubs, follow on instagram, masturbate too, swipe right on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:52 PM
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Then how do you explain the millions of average and ugly couples you see everywhere? Once again average men can get average women, its below average men that think they’re average and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:18 PM
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That doesn’t really matter because there’s millions of other average women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:13 PM
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There’s average couples everywhere you look when you go out. If you cannot snag an average woman you are below average in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:21 AM
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Lol its not fair, you’re entitled to reject whoever you want for whatever reason. This happens to women too when they don’t wanna give the ugly but nice guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:54 PM
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God dammit i was agreeing with your response to that user. I was referring to the mental gymnastics men like the original comment do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:46 PM
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Me too 😞 the hamstering was too strong with your explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:31 PM
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This line of thinking reminds me of the red pill term known as “hamstering” which is supposedly something only women do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:30 PM
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You literally said in the original comment: (in this case her brain) “feel she owes you something”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:40 PM
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I only give things because I genuinely want to so I never feel bad or that i must return some favor for receiving gift from others. Ive never felt that i owed a man anything after he bought me dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:01 PM
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Well shit… you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:38 PM
2

Okay understandable. IME men usually insist on paying on the first few dates though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 PM
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If he's the "you owe me type" you're not gonna see him again anyways, i dont get that vetting strategy. I'll let a man pay because they want to and if thats his attitude peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:12 AM
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So women aren’t vending machines you put date coins in to get sex and have free will? Is this your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:39 PM
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Damn you're an emotional wreck. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:51 AM
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He married her in the end so eh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:38 PM
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Maybe try facetime or calling them instead. Meeting someone in a public place for dinner or lunch shouldn’t be that scary idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:40 PM
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Honestly i find texting to be awkward and boring when I haven’t met the person yet. I prefer to talk a bit on the app and be asked out asap so we can just meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:14 PM
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I lost weight and i get attention from higher quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:41 PM
1

Hot men aren’t on twitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:43 PM
2

Some people like sharing and looking at good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:36 PM
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Sure, ime they always want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:33 PM
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I get to expect and complain about whatever i want. And men are still gonna pay for dates regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:03 PM
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Yeah they do 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:02 PM
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Yes, because we aren’t absolute baboons who only factor physical appearance into our attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:04 PM
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Maybe, depending on how much it turned me off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:25 PM
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Shes just not that interested bro it’s perfectly sensible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:53 PM
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You’d be an overweight woman, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:49 PM
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I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:32 PM
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5’9, 135 you fat asses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:30 PM
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Assuming he was trying to flex is weird, seems like he was just describing his date and situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:40 PM
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I think because the men here know these are the women in their league and that they’d rather be alone than settle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:10 PM
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My point is that prostitution being legal wont change the western SMP that much. Even if some men indulge in it, it doesn't mean they wont still chase women aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:13 AM
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Other men here have admitted that seeing a prostitute doesn't scratch the same itch. It's not a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:36 PM
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I am a woman but yes i know for many men this is part of why they seek out casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:58 PM
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Prostitution being illegal in the US doesn’t change much. You’re ignoring the ego component of men being able to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:29 PM
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Baldie cope 👨‍🦲
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:03 PM
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his penis stank I cant ever leave this place 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:17 AM
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Post history checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:40 PM
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So women are at fault for not wanting to be used for sex by some man who sees her as beneath him is basically what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:58 PM
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I dont like his face/baldness but his body is perfect. His girl is in terrible shape though its a shame. 6.5 because face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:29 PM
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You’ve been single for 12 years so yeah you should probably lower your standards. Right now you could probably attract an attractive woman but she probably wont be attracted to you if you’re overweight. Using your money and success will attract women who want just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:55 PM
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Young women do not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:06 PM
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dont worry we hate you niggas too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:12 PM
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rockys good looking but no rihanna mogs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:23 PM
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its men's problem they view sex as the ultimate prize. Just because men feel that way doesnt mean women have to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:01 PM
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Prove it. If this pic is photoshopped then your fav female celebs pic that you think is more attractive is photoshopped too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:45 PM
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She is pretty https://www.instagram.com/p/CZHtkwVprwE/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:21 PM
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Exactly my thoughts. Its such a petty immature thing to get upset about. A man like the commenter you replied describes is a man with a fragile ego that nobody wants to deal with. They need to grow up and realize you don’t always get what you want in life. I dont care what the guy im dating did with other women and when if my needs are being met. How does that information even come up in conversation?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:35 PM
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Id feel like an idiot for allowing myself to be strung on for a year without getting what I wanted. Everyone has autonomy theres no reason to put yourself in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:24 PM
1

If you pay them maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:37 PM
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6, her nose and chin are large
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:58 PM
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No, my point is that most women will not end up with their ideal, and will have to settle regardless of n count. You made it seem like women who are slutty will have to settle just because they're slutty. But the reality is most women settle anyways because theres not enough hvm to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:08 AM
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most women cant get whoever they want despite n count so yeah you've made no points
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:08 AM
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Most people end up getting married. And people hide their pasts with a bunch of things besides being formerly promiscuous, doesn't mean sluts never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:09 PM
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Most women have to settle whats your point? You tried to say they will never be respected as non sex objects and now you're backing down to say "urmm well they can get married, but will have to settle" As if most women dont settle and end up with what they consider a HVM anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:07 PM
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Most women wont get a quality dude anyways since most men arent considered HVM anyways nothing to do with being a slut or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:05 PM
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Sluts get wifed everyday whether you like it or would do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:07 PM
2

This doesn’t address OPs post whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:47 PM
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Probably because men just speed run right swiping on every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:13 PM
2

Ideally she would text you since you texted last and told her to let you know. But if you really want to see her you don’t really lose anything by double texting someone you haven’t met yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:58 PM
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I agree. Thats why i think men who read and need things like TRP are poor dating options. They clearly didn’t have a good father/male role model to teach them basic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:52 PM
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I read it. Why not debate your point on a debate sub? We obviously came to 2 different conclusions reading the same thing and i want to hear your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:41 PM
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You made a claim that this person has nothing to offer. I asked you to explain why you think that. You then refuse to explain your point on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:35 PM
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They didn’t say that. Sounds like they’re a bit disillusioned because they just got out of a bad relationship and have been out of the dating game for awhile. I guess you’re not gonna answer the question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:30 PM
3

How does that person you linked have nothing to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:24 PM
2

Damn thats a blow to the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:14 PM
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Yes its a red flag if you are seeking a relationship most of the time. I wouldn’t do it if this was only our 2nd time meeting ever. Alot of men take you accepting their offer to come over as an invitation for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:37 PM
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I lost 40lbs in the last year, started working out, and completely changed my diet so I’ll answer. Im 5’9, 135 my measurements are 35-25-37. I do yoga and ab workouts a few times a week. Had to stop lifting atleast for now because it was making me breakout heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:35 AM
1

so they can atleast brag to their friends about her being low n
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:32 PM
1

Men would choose the equivalent of 3 aswell because nobody in their right mind would tolerate a cheating partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:00 PM
2

The equivalent would be waiting a few more days for jewelry and gifts until he was sure you actually liked him which would only be a problem for selfish whiney people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:21 PM
3

If looks are the most important part of dating for you then why did you make this post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:34 PM
2

I doubt a man insecure about his penis size would want you to bring up using toys with him though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:39 PM
2

Bring her flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:15 PM
-1

I love how men often compare a high n past to cheating or murdering someone Lmaoo its so telling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:34 PM
1

I have in the past yes. Didn’t with my ex, It depends on how much i like him and why the sex is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:15 PM
3

Its not hard alot of men want relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:27 PM
2

Why would you assume that? He was the one who never texted back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:37 AM
1

This was more of a rhetorical question i dont want “explanations” The reason doesn’t matter because it all boils down to the person just not being that interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:37 AM
6

She said hook up with A girl. It only takes one time. Nowhere in her statement did she imply multiple hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:13 PM
26

I had a really good first date with a guy recently. We didn’t run out of things to talk about for the entire 3 hours. He was already planning the next date before the first one ended. Then the conversation fizzled out through text afterwards and he never texted me back. What else am I supposed to assume other than he wasn’t that interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:55 PM
17

Im glad he wont be making videos anymore honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:31 PM
1

I don’t think its cute i think its hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:20 PM
4

Who will fatherless men look up to now that Kevin Samuels is dead? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:44 PM
3

i find it easier to let them pay for your stuff and weed out the ones who expect sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:25 PM
1

Wide hips doesn’t mean easier birth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:37 PM
1

Its obviously camo cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:43 PM
1

He farts on women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:32 PM
1

Yeah Toms not a male model while Zendaya literally models for prestigious brands like Este Lauder, Valentino, and Balmain. What does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:50 PM
4

She said men under 5’8 are below average wheres the bait/lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:10 PM
0

No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:38 PM
3

I checked one of the google applications and it explicitly states people without previous tech degrees/experience are what they’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:51 PM
0

i still dont see how its as important as social contact and a sense of belonging, which i agree are secondary needs to food, shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:09 AM
1

Yeah i agree and completely get that, very well said. I don't like the way they just jumped to that conclusion like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:07 AM
1

Im a woman but yes both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:19 PM
1

not having sex/ a romantic partner should not take a massive toll on your mental health that seems extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:11 PM
5

lol you sound like lilith, that wasn't relevant to my comment what so ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:06 PM
2

Well the men here always try to frame it as just sex being a need so thats why i said what i said. I see what you're saying but i do not think having a romantic partner besides just the sex part is a need either but just a strong want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:04 PM
2

right so its just a luxury form of ejaculation not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:52 PM
-2

I think this is whats happening. As long as you have a good friend or 2 and you can masturbate i think you can be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:52 PM
4

i can see how ejaculation is a need for men but i dont understand how sex could be considered a need. It seems like a very strong want/luxury. I think alot of men just crave the intimacy and validation they receive from casual sex and try to hamster that into a necessity. Because if its just about the physical need/release i dont see how masturbating cannot solve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:40 PM
13

He also works in retail and makes under 60k and hates everything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:39 PM
7

Men express actual hatred of women in this sub, mgtow, and TRP very often. You must only be seeing what you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:58 PM
8

Not gonna lie i dont see or hear of attractive women paying for dates if im being completely honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:18 PM
10

When i was 18 i dated an older guy and i was definitely stupid, impressionable and easy to manipulate and im sure he knew that. He used the same reasoning as you. Im still in my early 20s and disagree with older men specifically seeking out younger women and its not because of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:04 PM
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the crazy thing is he's criticizing these women not even because they don't want to date them but because they don't want to be pumped and dumped by men who see them as beneath them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:22 PM
10

It's so weird how these "5/6 women" are basically criticized because they dont want to be used by men who literally look down on them. How is this logical? Also if these "5/6 women" are constantly brushing off "7-9" men, then who are the "attractive men" they are being pumped and dumped by?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:17 PM
3

Men here all the time express their disdain for simps and how they’re ruining the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:56 PM
3

You just said he would totally take advantage of a drunk person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:36 PM
4

Why are you friends with this person…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:10 PM
2

So you’re 30 years old yet: cant cook, cant drive, and a virgin? Thats alot of red flags at your age. What are you looking for in a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:33 PM
0

But yall always expect her to ONLY want you despite putting up with the other things that come with it yes or no? That’s always a non negotiable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:33 PM
1

Do men not want a woman with as many good qualities as possible to only want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:02 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:52 PM
1

Are men any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:48 PM
1

What ever makes you feel better about being slut-less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:14 PM
0

You’re the male equivalent of women who are bitter and cry about all men being assholes all day and talk about there being no good men left lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:18 PM
2

And men lust after braindead sluts on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:18 PM
7

Its the men here that whine about “good girls” fucking drug dealers. They think these women are “good girls” only because they’re physically attractive too btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:58 PM
1

I would suggest offering to pay them generously for their time aswell. Just paying for the date itself isn’t enough because women already get that from guys they actually wanna be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:58 PM
22

Now having casual sex is equally important as having income coming in. Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:34 PM
8

I said men who are “extremely insistent” specifically. Like ones who would double triple message when I didn’t reply to ask me on dates. And i mean yeah if someone i had a crush on gave me a clear “no” to asking them out i would 100% back off. Why would i try to convince someone to like me? That seems like forcing things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:25 PM
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i have gone on dates with men i knew I wasn’t attracted to because they were extremely insistent (asking me out multiple times and basically begging for a chance) because i was bored and wanted to see if they could change my mind. I dont do this anymore because I realized men who are extremely insistent are huge red flags and to not be flattered by this behavior. So you tell me if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:52 PM
5

Sometimes he looks so dusty depending on how his braids look
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:04 AM
28

Literally nobody but you thinks Asap rocky is better looking than rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:26 AM
4

There was a thread asking women about this like a week ago and there were many women who admitted this happened to them. Women have no problem saying men used them for sex i think you're just projecting how men deal with blows to their ego. Also a fwb relationship isnt a pump and dump not all women want commitment just because they had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:46 PM
1

Women dont want sex as much as men do on average so it makes sense to only fuck the best of the best when it comes to men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:35 PM
0

Say whatever you want but after reading the TRP and this sub for years you get a good idea of the type of man TRP attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:06 PM
-3

If you think about the type of men who are initially attracted to TRP its not happy well adjusted men who are good with women. Its men who likely didn’t have a strong masculine role model in their life to teach them how to be a man and date women. Therefore they’re low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:31 PM
-4

any man that knows about TRP is automatically a LVM because it usually means he was searching for why he doesn't get any pussy on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:26 AM
2

her waist looks smaller in that first picture because her arms are covering the sides of it thats all. in the last side you can see she has normal perfectly achievable proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:39 PM
1

her waist doesnt even look that small in the second picture and her boobs arent big. looks totally believable. Edit: theres even a video of her on the last slide lol those are normal proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:30 PM
1

Haha April fools!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:16 PM
3

I said the way men deal with blows to their ego not necessarily being pumped and dumped. But I also disagree unless its some guy who has alot of options. If you ghost a guy after sex they dont feel like their performance was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:15 PM
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Very true. He’s projecting the way that men deal with blows to their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:06 PM
1

No i've never had a guy lead me on making me think he wanted a relationship then ghosting after sex. I do agree that i think that actual thing happening is rare and most people don't have the balls to do that to someone else. I've had sex with men or done sexual things with them and then ghosted them after because i didn't like it though but i never told them i wanted to be their gf. I think alot of times when people switch up after sex it hurts the other person's ego because they feel they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:54 AM
4

cheating is shit period. But exactly. Men have to go out of their way to pursue sex and be the initiators of everything 80% of the time. The men on the sub scream all day about how hard it is to get sex as men but watch now they're gonna be all "oh its easy for some men". All the average woman would have to do in this case is say yes and lay down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:05 AM
3

But do you feel ashamed about your past or think what you did was bad? I don’t understand holding your partner to a different moral standard than yourself. At the end of the day you both slept around i dont see how the rate makes anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:18 PM
3

Do you feel bad about your n count? It’s more than double hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:00 PM
5

You don’t seem secure enough in yourself and the relationship so I think you should end it soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:35 PM
2

Calling men who have sex chad just really shows your ass 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:35 AM
2

i usually cringe at the n count discussions but yeah 50 is insane by itself not even considering her age. i feel like i dont even know 50 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:20 AM
1

Average female height in the US is 5’4. Im in the 95th+ percentile for height for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:21 PM
2

You said tall not very tall women. Im 5 inches above average height for a woman that’s probably very tall anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:17 PM
3

I don’t struggle finding attractive men who are atleast 6’1. I go on alot more dates than the average man probably. A 6’ woman is very tall though and I agree she’d probably struggle if shes only looking for a 6’4 man because of how rare men at that height are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:12 PM
3

As a 5’9 woman I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:05 PM
1

Never forget that this is the only type of woman YOU can attract
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:30 AM
1

We dont care. Just because men will fuck anything doesn’t mean women have to aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:56 PM
0

Fuck bbc on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:17 PM
5

The most handsome imo. Definitely my type
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:35 AM
1

Hinge is marketed to be for relationships. I thought bumble was the same but apparently its more like tinder so i guess i understand now. Im asking because everyone knows tinder is the hook-up app so i dont know why a man wouldnt be on there if he just wants a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:35 AM
3

Why are men who are looking for something casual on apps like Bumble and Hinge instead of Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:10 AM
2

I feel as though former incels have some of the most baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:02 PM
1

I cant even believe mods let this post stay up but anyways "Why did my (28F) tinder match (29M) ghost me after we hooked up?" When the fuck do women here even post shit like this on this sub? This isn't one of the normie r/dating subs or whatever. This entire post is just a huge strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:23 AM
2

Do you not realize im just mirroring your speech? You started with suggesting men dump women for gaining weight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:37 PM
2

and where did i say money was all i valued?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:26 PM
1

I agree with the cult like mentality, but i think some more positive aspects of it are spreading like more women demanding men actually take them out on dates and stuff, ive heard men i went to undergrad with complaining about it lool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:22 PM
1

if looks is all you value i don't want to hear any complaints about feeling unfulfilled later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:43 PM
0

You're right, thank god FDS is becoming mainstream!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:29 PM
2

You're right, and women especially young women need to dump men and withhold sex if they're not spending enough money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:24 PM
3

I don’t get it either,it seems really embarrassing to me. I literally have this guy i hooked up with 2 years ago still hit me up even when i told him it wasn’t good sex. Men truly have no shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:13 AM
3

Chad doesn’t wait a month to have sex with a girl while taking her out on dates and wooing her. Idk any woman in this situation who wouldn’t be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:59 AM
8

Theres no reason not to lie as long as you’re clean and dont fuck men from the same social circles. However i don’t date men who ask me mine so it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:36 PM
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No it implies that pussy is valuable, because the men who don’t get it are “losers”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:35 PM
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Because the “you get no pussy” insults hit everytime. If men didn’t get offended by them we’d use something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:09 PM
1

Has to be a troll account.. im praying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:55 PM
8

Oh so now you’re drowning in women? What changed in the last 18 days? https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sgpzyi/what_should_a_guy_do_when_hes_tried_everything_he/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:52 PM
3

OPs of posts like this always have very predictable post histories lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:48 PM
0

I see most people posting stuff like that on social media at least once in awhile i dont think its even generally recognized as cringe in their defense tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:09 PM
0

Knowing what you’re doing is cringe but still doing it is worse imo. Atleast in their minds they think its cool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:03 PM
0

Those posts are cringe but analyzing it is cringier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:58 PM
4

And men dont put up with hot but stupid women just for sex? Men spend thousands of dollars on women online who they will never meet just because they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:39 PM
1

Never see men talking about a woman’s personality just how hot or not hot she is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:32 PM
3

He just referred to the girl as average lol are we gonna act like men dont assess womens value by their looks too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:27 PM
5

But you’re obese therefore below average of course you should be elated you landed an average chick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:14 PM
1

but thats the only reason i have sex :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:20 AM
4

The last 3 men ive met on OLD have openly have discussed trp topics/dating coach stuff. Its a big turn off. They all act like its some hidden knowledge only they know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:22 PM
2

I agree with you. Men have confided some things to me and I would just be sitting there like “why would you tell me that?” I feel as though everyone should keep certain things to themselves in general though. I definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:07 AM
1

Why do i care if he wants to fuck me or not? If i see him as a friend he’s a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:00 PM
1

theres men on here begging for any woman to give them the time of day why would a basic bitch not have men obsessed with her just for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:02 AM
8

Theres even more men who want a woman to be absolutely impassioned with lust with him when they’re not even sexy. How can you expect “chad treatment” when you’re just some average man who people wouldn’t glance twice at?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:39 AM
3

How is rage not an emotion? Lmaoo men never think anger is an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:15 PM
6

You can tell who’s not used to getting attention from the opposite sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:14 PM
1

Nope. Dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:06 PM
3

Once again, Who is making anybody do anything here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:35 PM
1

Nobody is forcing them to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:22 PM
0

Yes yes you're just a poor blind helpless man with no agency we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:03 PM
1

Men complaining about this just sound like women who are mad that a man is "withholding" commitment after having sex. Just sounds childish and entitled. Nobody is entitled to sex or commitment no matter what someone did once with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:57 PM
0

you lost me at "withhold sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:31 PM
-1

Lol are you being unironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:47 PM
-6

The issue is thinking she's "making" you do anything. All of this is just cringey male ego shit. I don't care what the guy im dating did with other women or how "long" it took for them to give her commitment as long as im happy and getting what i want/need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:59 PM
-8

I dont think waiting a few more days for sex is equivalent to making a girl split an under $10 drink instead of taking her out on a nice date. Men really are dramatic when it comes to these analogies. You're still getting the same good (hopefully) sex its just not as soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:17 PM
3

People who are into designer stuff and fashion do it for fun yes. When i watch makeup tutorials on how to do full glam with an ombre eyeshadow its because its fun and i love the visuals, men are always saying how they dont even like makeup and prefer bare faced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:38 PM
3

the men aren't choosing to be single, most of them know they dont have the abundance or choice but to not be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:37 PM
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Makeup and clothing is genuinely fun for us. I know it’s shocking as a man to comprehend doing things that isn’t just to attract the opposite sex. Sex tutorials are for when you’re already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:30 AM
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Well obviously us women dont care that much about about commitment that we’d rather be ourselves and stay single. If women wanted commitment that bad we’d all be pickmes. Men cant seem to grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:26 AM
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Women dont need tips on how to attract men like men do for women they need to learn how vet the men they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:42 PM
2

The risk of those 2 failing is low though. If it was a high failure risk maybe but its rare
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:22 PM
6

This would almost make sense if condoms and birth control didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:14 PM
7

low enough to have abs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:46 PM
6

jokes on you bc im the gym thot with abs and perfect butt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:21 PM
-1

the content was controversial to outsiders. Within the subreddit it was all circle jerking, especially in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:32 AM
3

you've been dealing with amateurs, its so easy to keep to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:22 AM
2

not the ones on this sub i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:20 AM
3

because red pillers sub got removed (rightfully so) and they just cant help but create echo chambers wherever they go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
5

because nobody cares about men or their feelings, shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:33 PM
3

too bad men want intimacy and validation not just sex but yall wont admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:19 PM
3

as if men have enough abundance to not have to commit lol. cute fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:16 PM
6

I doubt you have even an OUNCE of this much compassion for women who continue to fuck with men and get their feelings hurt when the guy clearly doesn't want a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:56 PM
-2

if women truly wanted commitment they'd not be fat but obviously we dont give a fuck retard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:37 PM
8

if they can fuck chad why change retard. go get some bitches instead of worrying what bitches do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:16 PM
4

The only one complaining here is you dumb ass thats why mods gave you that tag lmaoo, im simply laughing at the idea of women outperforming men when men have been in charge for thousands of years, how do you fuck that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:45 PM
-1

Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:40 PM
1

I am
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:40 PM
13

He doesn't have to hurt himself by orbiting a woman who clearly isn't interested in him either. Maybe she's doing that as a way for him to get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:37 PM
0

because we're not violent animals
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:35 PM
9

Yeah you're right, men are just poor innoncent angels with 0 agency to walk away and women should just fuck every guy just because he wants to date her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:33 PM
-2

men have had like a hundred thousand year head start and are still failing lmao losers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:29 PM
13

So she's wrong for treating someone she views as a friend... like a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:24 PM
9

a number between 0 and infinity. I'm not saying its common, doesn't mean it doesnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:05 PM
5

but if she just wanted dick too theyre both happy lol yall act like you're one upping the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:01 PM
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So both men and women are bad at riding the wave then, just when it comes to different things that aren't being met for them in the relationship. Idk what your last reply has to do with anything we were discussing previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:52 PM
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So its okay to not provide attention and effort in your partner daily and you should just ride it out but sex must be constant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:32 PM
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no no no attention and effort is very important let's not downplay it. Anyone, man or woman, should leave if it comes to a sudden stop....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:52 PM
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you can delete the post now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:48 PM
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Neither exist i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:46 PM
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Lol yeah men are good at "riding the wave" till it comes to getting no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:01 PM
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Men are the pursuers, women are the pursued Doesn't this prove why men cheating would be worse? Because it means he took all that effort and time to pursue a woman with the intention to cheat where a woman just has to mess up and say yes one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:20 PM
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No. The man is making her think he wants a relationship with her by his actions and telling her he likes her, why would she not just normally have sex with him? He's the one being manipulative by not just saying he wants sex, but leading her on instead. What you're talking about is a completely different situation. I've seen men here literally admit if they didn't lead women on by making them think they want a relationship with them, that they would never get laid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:06 AM
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No. In the first situation it's the guy who is being manipulative and pretending to want a relationship with the women but he only wants to have sex and won't come right out and say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:55 AM
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"fuck whoever YOU WANT, as quickly as YOU WANT That's not what men here say at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:44 PM
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to fuck every guy just because they took you out on a date asap lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:25 PM
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Lol at a 23 inch waist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:12 PM
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Im 23 and I think my max age gap is about 5 years now. I went on a few dates with a 30 y.o and it was surprisingly hard to connect and find things in common to talk about. He was like fully established in life, had a great job and house. It was intimidating as someone who just graduated from college, i felt like everything that came out of my mouth sounded stupid and childish. I cant imagine what men here that are 30+ and say they only date women around like 18-24 have in common with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:18 PM
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This. As a woman in today’s society you have to have mostly masculine qualities to get by and not be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:26 PM
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Oh i see you’re one of those people who complain and disagree with fds but keep consuming and thinking about their content
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:49 PM
2

LMAOO fuck I needed this laugh thank you, on another note why are you creating a strawman out of nowhere? No women in that thread were disagreeing with the way the man reacted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:31 PM
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Maybe half the amount of time? I love when they do it because it saves me the work of vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:03 PM
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That's really bizarre but i guess ill give you the benefit of the doubt. However, how do you reconcile your third point of "You don't have to pay for the date" but then in another one of your dating advice posts you advise paying for dinner? https://www.reddit.com/r/dating\_advice/comments/r9mtf3/27m\_i\_have\_been\_single\_and\_actively\_dating\_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:49 PM
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I recently went on a date and offered to walk her to her car, and she said “eww being a gentleman is so chauvinistic” lol sure this happened
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:32 PM
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Didn't say it was. You asked for an explanation and i gave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:44 AM
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because minimum wage jobs are shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:29 AM
3

This response was hardly legible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:54 AM
3

so i can use their "game" against them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:02 AM
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Ive watched a few of them just for entertainment purposes 🤷🏾‍♀️ the thumbnails always get me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:12 PM
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Because everyone likes hot people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:26 PM
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Yes because ive been told it before, when youre tall and have rbf its not unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:48 PM
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How when its lead to a relationship for me? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:48 PM
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Men have literally told me they were too intimidated to approach me the first time they saw me but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:32 PM
1

Theres something deeper than that going on, young men seem really socially maladjusted these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:43 PM
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What part of what ive said in this thread leads you to believe i hate them? Because i accurately describe them as socially awkward and antisocial? I can tell you with 100% certainty if its anyone i hate its the fucking old people i complain about them atleast once a day at work, they're slow, stinky, and never shut up. The men are just awkward but they atleast allow me to get my job done faster, i am genuinely curious about their behavior though. If anything they're the ones that hate me, half o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:36 PM
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These men are awkward in general not just around me. I do not hate them at all, in fact i prefer them to the older people who cant stfu with the incessant small talk and make their exam like 15 minutes longer because of that. Why do you act like awkward men just dont exist unless a woman is in front of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:26 PM
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No, when theyre done with me they go and talk to the optician to pick out the glasses while im working with another patient in the exam room. Im not always with them. You're not listening to anything im saying im starting to think you're one of these retarded guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:12 PM
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I'll meet you half way tho, i mean finally, this whole time youve been acting like im the problem even when i pointed out that i dont even get a simple hello back from these people, jesus. If they assume im going to be judging them just because of my gender thats their problem lol, i treat and talk to all of the patients the same. The awkwardness literally starts from the moment i greet them it has nothing to do with my "vibe".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:08 PM
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my coworkers have similar experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:08 PM
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You just cant admit young men are mostly retarded these days it has nothing to do with me, my coworkers have similar experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:05 PM
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Some of them dont even greet me back when i first approach them but yeah its 100% me and my “judgemental vibes” im wearing a n95 you can barely see my facial expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah okay dude it’s totally just me im such a 10/10 smoking stacy in my loose scrubs, messy hair, no makeup masked face. You sound ridiculous. The girl in that photo has her hair done and eyelashes and eyebrows done. I come bare faced with messy hair. And yeah actually I’ve asked my coworkers a couple times if the dude seemed a bit off or they tell me themselves its a small office.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:01 PM
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Only reasonable possible answer ive been given in this thread lol. They’re all trying to say it has something to do with the way i look or because im a woman when i see them act the same to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:56 PM
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Lol yeah sure and ONLY young men are able to pick up those judgmental vibes right? I literally greet every patient the same and half of the time its a young men they dont even say hi back. Every other demographic of people i interact with doesn’t come across as awkward as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:52 PM
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I know they’re acting like that because i ask my coworkers if that person seemed a bit off and they’re like “yeah I wasn’t gonna say anything” it literally has nothing to do with the way i look i wish you would just look at what im saying instead of assuming. I wear a n95 mask and loose scrubs aswell. Again its NOT ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:49 PM
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That’s not their issue at all. Its not just a bit of shyness like when you mess up a word or something its to the point where I think they’re on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:43 PM
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Most of the visits are just routine annual eye exams it’s literally nothing to feel less comfortable with depending on my gender lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:41 PM
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Yes, some even wear the autism sneakers too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:39 PM
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I worked at an allergy center and now an eye center, so none of their issues are embarrassing like that. Most of the visits are routine eye exams. Also older men dont act this way at all its specific to young men. Nobody wants to be at the doctors office but only young men i see come across in this awkward/autistic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:38 PM
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Its not even small talk tho, its just asking them basic health/patient information
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:35 PM
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Im not a receptionist and it has nothing to do with the way i look, they act the same to all the staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:28 PM
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I see, interesting. Ime it doesn’t come across as rage just pure awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:26 PM
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Its not a me thing, i see them interact with other staff the same way, hell even the way they walk just shows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:21 PM
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Men here always ask why theres so many mentally ill/medication taking women these days. Well I’d like to know why are there so many cripplingly socially awkward (possibly autistic) young men? I work in a doctors office so i see all kinds of people, and whenever i have a male patient under 25 most of the time they can’t even hold a conversation or make eye contact with you for 5 minutes to get basic information from them. They look extremely uncomfortable and come across as antisocial. I don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:43 PM
2

Can you show me where it says that in the text book out of curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:47 PM
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Lol show me where trp says to help and support women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:03 PM
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yeah because trp doesn’t refer to women as children or the oldest teenager in the house. Both fds and trp have contempt for the opposite gender dont try to sugar coat trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:24 PM
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You right 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:22 PM
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Men never directly reject women either if it makes you feel any better lmao. they just use them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:32 PM
1

I have the same issue with the guy im seeing now except his texts aren’t that detailed. He did just start a new job and when we’re together hes never on his phone but it’s getting old lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:34 PM
6

While both genders need a positive masculine influence in their life i think men suffer more without one in their life for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:15 PM
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I feel as though most men who need TRP for dating and life advice lacked a proper masculine rolemodel while growing up and because of that aren't fit for a relationship/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:11 PM
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aww you think im a desperate man thats adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:23 PM
1

time = money stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:18 PM
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Why would i lose sleep over any of this as a woman? this is mens problem im just going off what the men here say dating is like for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:23 PM
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Why cant you do it without money? Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:20 PM
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They’re only slaying because they’re the only 4 men on campus. And tell the men here that about OLD lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:45 PM
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LOL as if men have enough abundance to not wait around. You’d be a great fiction writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:20 PM
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I doubt it, these men are only “slaying” on campus because theres so little men so theres tons of competition for the women. Outside the college bubble they’re gonna have to compete against actual chads on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:12 PM
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Sorry you’ve never been in a happy relationship that provides value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:19 PM
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Okay and from womens perspective being called wife material = being pegged as a weak bangmaid its the same thing with the genders reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:11 PM
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Its like how men react here to being called “boyfriend material”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:05 PM
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i think some of these men will find dating very challenging once they graduate and leave that environment of skewed gender ratios. This happened to guys i went to school with who girls were fighting over on campus, they enter the real world and find that dating is not as easy and abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:42 AM
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True but im worried this will be taken down because the title isn’t neutral or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:12 PM
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They deny that women can just have sex with a guy and not want a relationship with him. Ive seen many rpers here argue it. Theres one guy here whose especially adamant about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:55 PM
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We can be friends. I have a conventionally attractive male friend whose hilarious but id never consider dating him because he’s a mess in every other aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:43 PM
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Because men will fuck anything and its not okay I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:56 PM
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Lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:53 AM
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Most women do not sleep with chads that’s an overblown fantasy. Theres not even enough chads for that to happen. And yes i agree without a doubt women are better off waiting for more than a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:45 AM
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I see what you mean, all women will not be able to get a man that out earns them. And of course they’re not gonna flat out say it irl. I simply observe what men say here on the internet when they have the safety of anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:43 AM
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Men are on their best behavior during the first few dates and say and do things to try and make you think they’re genuinely into you I don’t think its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:19 AM
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Also keep in mind that men are on their best behavior for the first few dates. They will say and do anything to impress women they like. Ive had a guy fake interest in hobbies and things i liked just to try and get me to like him more. If you keep these things in mind it seems really stupid to feel pressured to have sex with a guy you’ve only met 3 times. You barely know who someone is at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:10 AM
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Its not similar to “hypergamy math” of women because men still out earn women by quite a bit. Most men a woman dates will already be making more than her on average. Its not as much of a delusional want as men wanting a chaste woman who immediately puts out for them only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:53 AM
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Lol but its a sub for literally roasting people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:07 PM
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I don’t understand how you read that person’s post and your main takeaway was pointing out how many people have mental illness these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:38 PM
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If those were the only types of women i could get I wouldn’t want to date either i don’t blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:20 PM
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Lolol so sluts = bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:06 AM
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I’ve called many men sweet. Men definitely get called sweet stop acting stupid. Women are telling you its a weird and uncomfortable thing to say all over the thread and you’re sitting there with your fingers in your ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:49 PM
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You know damn well if a man said that to you or even something similar that you would feel weird/uncomfortable lol cut the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:31 PM
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This made me lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:29 PM
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Nah we just grab his dick while making out to see what he has. No need to full on give head to find out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:12 PM
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Eh i think it matters alot as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:08 PM
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None of my guy friends think eating a woman out is as big of a deal as PIV either. They also don’t count oral in their “n count” ive only seen men on PPD do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:13 PM
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i mean... her logic seems sound to me. She got ghosted from having sex quickly and now wants to wait because she doesn't want to be ghosted. What would you suggest she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:34 PM
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I don't understand even hanging out or texting someone who you yourself described as toying around with you, but whatever works i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:27 PM
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What parts are wrong though? you were texting this girl even though she would be short/boring and continued to go on dates and hangout with her even though you perceived her as "toying around" with you and not making you feel like a priority. That's pretty much how people here describe men who are acting like simps or dancing monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:13 PM
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Okay so let me get this straight. You were going out on dates and dancing like a monkey for this WOMAN for weeks who was barely showing you any interest just for the slight chance she would give you sex, but you claim to be MGTOW? I think this is enough PPD for me for the day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:01 PM
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why do you assume its playing games? What if now shes more into you? ETA: also why were you putting up with someone who was playing games and taking forever to text back lol? just for the slight chance of pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:46 PM
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why does this annoy men? shouldnt you be happy the sex was so good shes super into you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:09 PM
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I don’t understand why they don’t just say “ejaculation is a need” instead of sex. The former seems realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:58 PM
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I've had casual sex that was ALMOST as good as relationship sex only with one guy so i see what you mean, but when you're getting sex like that you dont wanna share it with anyone else 😂 so i'd rather just never have casual sex again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:54 PM
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how many casual sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:52 PM
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Me and my boyfriend just broke up recently, he was my first real relationship. Now that I’ve experienced relationship sex the idea of casual sex seems so pointless and unappealing. Now i know what other women here are talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:31 PM
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Lol there's like an 8:2 male to female ratio on tinder. Maybe men should stop going on it and then no women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:17 PM
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I only get attached when the sex is good and he has a big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:19 AM
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Men dont have empathy and compassion for other men so why should women get involved or care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:25 PM
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Women give less of a shit about men's problems, but men dont care about each other or themselves so why should women care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:38 PM
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this question only works to enrage men because they dont have enough abundance to immediately next someone for not doing something they want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:10 PM
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I enjoyed this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:51 AM
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Sometimes you realize you didn’t genuinely like the person, just the idea of them and you actually have nothing in common only a shallow connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:47 PM
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But men will be pigs even when you’re dressed conservatively so i don’t understand why the dad would tell her she’s the issue. Especially when its your teenage daughter of course you’re gonna warn them about strange men….?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:21 PM
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Kylie wasn’t even a teenager when she had her child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:58 PM
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Because men know how some men treat women who have sex/are whores. And some men see direct family members as extensions of their ego, therefore if their sister or daughter has a bad reputation it makes them look bad by proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:06 PM
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The buffalo chicken dip
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:31 AM
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Women who don’t have children don’t like men with children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:16 PM
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Im hotter than those most of those girls so idc. Plus my pussys not on the internet for all to see so i get points for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:02 PM
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People are always gonna shame other people for whatever reason. Just because people talk shit on the internet to you doesn’t mean you’re being denied a right lol. Toughen up snowflake. And most of the time women shame men on here it’s because of blatant misogyny or hate being spewed by those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:52 PM
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it’s still pure psychopathy to deny them the basic human right to be liked as sexual being. This makes no sense. Nobody’s denying you this right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:45 PM
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post history checks out with view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:54 PM
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manlet detected 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:48 PM
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Nobody cares how men feel dude, can it. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:30 PM
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no they're worthless trash
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:18 PM
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Gross. Looks like a post-op trans "vagina"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:12 PM
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As he should. When will manlets ever learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:50 PM
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Why do men assume its because of the sexual revolution and not because the economies shit and everyone is fat and has student loans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:48 PM
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5'10.5 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:43 PM
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you lost me at higher rates of suicide. Absolutely not true, men mog in the suicide rates department. Women are still doing better than men when it comes to social circles and support too so thats how i know you're just talking out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:37 PM
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not reading all that garbage besides the first paragraph. But i have absolutely seen bigger women in relationships with fit/thin dudes. While most men prefer thin women they do like women of all shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:21 PM
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Yall are just mad women can get their preference despite not looking their best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:49 PM
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Most women are doing fine. You’re projecting male unhappiness onto them, nobody wants to go back to pre revolution besides some extremely desperate incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:07 AM
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Retarded if you think women are choosing pre
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:50 AM
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I passed out immediately after 😵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:28 PM
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My boyfriend fucked the shit out of me last night. I had multiple orgasms for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:23 PM
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They’d have to be in person around each other buddy not online 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:36 PM
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Isn’t it early 20s/late teens? Is it really mid 20s??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:08 PM
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I personally do like this but only in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:00 PM
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And her point was that guys are guaranteed an orgasm so for HER bad sex is him not putting in that extra effort to get her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:43 PM
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No, The speed and rhythm he fucks her with, the position, and clit stimulation are all apart of trying to get her off. A guy trying to get her off focuses on what she appears to like and focuses on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:22 PM
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How is she going to get off during piv if he doesn’t try to get her off and just nuts quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:18 PM
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She said before he busts not before he puts it in. Meaning he can try to get her off during the sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:15 PM
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Literally only one woman in this thread so far specified that she was sensitive and wanted someone especially gentle 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:13 PM
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They said before he busts not before actual piv sex happens. Again, reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:08 PM
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You seem to have reading comprehension issues. The original comment said the guy should try to get her off before he nuts. They didn’t explicitly say this could only be accomplished with oral sex. This can be done with fingers or PIV aswell. You’re the only one here mentioning oral sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:04 PM
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Where did I mention oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:53 PM
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Nah we’ll just stick with the guys that are good at sex and ghost the ones that aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah but most men aren’t not getting fat or staying in shape. Also most men are already balding in their 30s. Id say mid 20s is a more realistic peak for most men!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:34 PM
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Now you’re changing your stance. At first it was unless a hotter or equal dude was gonna ltr her shes gonna stay, now its just if “a better option“ shows up lol. I would have dumped the first guy anyways he had some other issues. Your experience isn’t what always happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:03 PM
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I wasn’t even dating my current bf at the time i broke things off with the other guy though so it wasn’t as if i 100% knew he’d be “trying to lock it down” before I dumped the first one. I just thought he was hot and wanted to pursue things with him instead of the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:26 PM
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Yes it better be good and he ought to be hot for it to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:51 PM
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Ive ghosted a guy after casual sex because the sex was bad. Ive also dumped a guy i was having good casual sex with because a better option came along who is now actually my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:03 PM
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Men are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:58 PM
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Me and the women i know irl dont approach because we don’t have to, not because we’re afraid of getting used. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:28 PM
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Its not the nice treatment/reciprocation that turns them off it’s because they were never truly into the guy in the first place just the idea of him. A similar thing happens when guys hype a girl up and then they have sex and he realizes he doesn’t really like her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:47 PM
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Most of the Q4W follow a similar theme as well. “Q4W: why do you only have sex with sexually attractive men”, “Q4W: why dont you have sex with me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:52 AM
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Very high school-like behavior 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:30 AM
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Commenting “lol” on someone’s engagement pictures because you had sex with them.... how old are you and your friends dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:21 AM
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If women who read FDS’s opinions don’t matter is it the same for men like you on the sub who read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:51 PM
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I think the first date doesn’t HAVE to be fancy/ a dinner date if its the first time we’re meeting. It can be something chill, if he’s really into you he’s gonna be pulling out all the stops after the first date anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:15 PM
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Just say you cant read and go 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:11 PM
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Oh, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:09 PM
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Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:01 PM
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He really didn’t think this rant through huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:57 PM
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You don’t suck. Leading them on when you’re genuinely not interested would suck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:31 PM
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But i thought chads just pump and dump fat and ugly women? 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:07 PM
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He doesn’t want the real actual answer he just wants to whinge and strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:59 PM
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Most of us in healthy relationships can detect abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:51 PM
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Christina hendricks probably has a small fupa under all those layers of shapewear holding her together tbh but i see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:49 PM
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I don't think it's necessary to change women's libido, it's the way it is for a reason and isn't something that needs to be "fixed" to be more like men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:18 AM
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As long as men can still get sex in relationships i dont see how its an issue. Casual sex isnt a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:23 AM
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its literally going to filter the kind of women they're looking for out, lol idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah completely adopt a false persona to test someone, that’ll totally lead to a long healthy and compatible relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:25 PM
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Do you ask all the MGTOW men why they’re here too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:00 AM
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Has children Having sexist/misogynistic attitude towards other women Being cheap/not generous Having no goals/ambition in life Not liking animals/pets Needing stuff like TRP to be able to date im sure theres more but this is all i could think of atm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:13 PM
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Men who risk their lives going to war aren't making a sacrifice. Men are stronger and bigger so they're meant to fight and risk death. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:11 AM
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Not most women no. Of course there will always be a small amount of some who dont mind or want anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:51 PM
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I do not believe that the normalization of casual sex has made it harder for me to get a partner. I don’t fully understand the second question. I slept with men without commitment because i was horny and somewhat comfortable with them. Not for any other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:23 PM
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If they were really interested they’d initiate. Seems like shes just along for the ride or has lukewarm interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:19 PM
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Yes, any time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:51 PM
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Of course. But most of the people who post here live in the US iirc according to the survery demographic. And TRP was based on western dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:03 PM
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okay, yeah i see, it's cheaper than actually raising a family
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:58 PM
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in my country Ppd is based on dating in western countries more commonly the US. A man with multiple baby mamas has less resources to give compared to a man with no kids yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:25 PM
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How is the man not wasting his resources if hes paying child support for multiple children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:13 PM
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Cope. By age 30, 1/4th of men are already balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:08 PM
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Because they’re delusional or entitled. There’s no such thing as the “friendzone” its either two people have mutual interest and want to be more than just friends or the interest is unreciprocated but one person orbits anyways for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:33 PM
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Men have been getting very desperate and needy during the pandemic in my experience with regards to dating. Both OLD and irl. Old guys i started to date/talk to have been coming out of the woodworks to attempt to reconnect a couple months after the pandemic started.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:11 PM
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The stigma stems from it obviously being harder for women to get off. Most men are guaranteed an orgasm from sex and masturbating. I thought this was obvious. Also men are known to have worse hygiene and be less neat so maybe people assume men with pussy pockets just nut in them and never clean them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:58 PM
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The OP themselves already had their own doubts and concerns about the situation, its not like other women attempted to sway the OP into feeling that way. The commenters gave their own opinion, some even encouraging her to date him. I feel like your twisting the situation to fit your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:48 PM
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The women YOU have access to cannot be both at the same time*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:28 PM
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Every guy ive fucked has given me several compliments before so id say it does matter. I don’t understand why id fuck every guy that i went on a date with just because they complimented me. After a first date or a few you find out if you actually wanna proceed with someone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:45 PM
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i honestly didnt see where you said "FWB" just the girlfriend part which is why it seemed extreme. You gotta compliment a woman on some level to be on a date with her i feel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:19 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:18 PM
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if a guy i was getting to know/casually dating never complimented me he wouldnt move up to bf status or even get physical with me tbh. It would be odd behavior and id assume he wasnt as into me because other men are complimenting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:47 PM
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Not at all nothing wrong with either parties they’re just in each other’s dating pools.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:37 PM
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Because those are the women in most of the men’s here league 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:48 PM
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No its not an option.. for men like you. You’re doing exactly what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:35 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:08 AM
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Some of them are as dogmatic as radical feminists. Like they hate feminists but don’t realize they’re the male version. So delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:52 AM
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He only spent 3 months in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:32 PM
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Why did he say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:07 AM
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So onlyfans will be continuing to allow sexual content again instead of banning it. Interesting how nobody here’s mentioned it like when it was being banned... guess it ruins the revenge fantasy huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:06 AM
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Who cares what you want? Not everything women do is to attract men, did you ever think she modifies her car because she enjoys it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:52 PM
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At 5’3 your man is nowhere near the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:32 PM
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Sex has inherent risk involved in it. Even though you only consented to sex doesn’t mean you’re off the hook if a baby is born. In a perfect world sex would be 100% consequence free but its not. What you’re implying is equivalent to letting someone drive your car then they accidentally total it and you REEEing because you “consented for them to DRIVE your car not CRASH it” Driving has risks and consequences if that risk happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:25 PM
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Im not arguing against paper abortions. It seems that you’re shifting the goal post. My confusion was when you flat out said: A woman should need my express consent to make a human life with my DNA no matter where I happened to have left it! This implies that men would be able to force a woman to get an abortion after he consensually impregnated her. I want to discuss THAT one statement, not change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:04 PM
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All the women i know irl acknowledge that size matters. Even most of the women ive seen here say it matters to an extent, ive rarely seen a woman here say it doesn’t matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:57 PM
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Just like hypothetically forcing someone else to give birth or have an abortion isn’t okay because its not your body right? You previously alluded to this when you said women should need consent to create a life using your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:39 PM
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We’ve been debating back and forth for awhile and it doesn’t seem to be going anywhere so im bored of it now. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:37 PM
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Why are you asking me why the law is the way it is? Take it up with the government if you really want change. Ive said my piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:25 PM
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Like i said a man goes into unprotected sex knowing very well that it can result in a baby. Sex is isnt risk free and everyone knows this. When you engage in risky behavior you know theres a chance that you will have to pay for the consequences. I don’t see how you’re not getting that and trying to make other irrelevant analogies. I bring up how the law functions because it’s relevant in this discussion because child support is a thing and abortions are legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:22 PM
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Men are allowed to use their strength as long as its not infringing on anyone else’s bodily autonomy negatively. Theres no law that prevents men from lifting or doing physical labor and you know this so I have no idea where you were trying to go with this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:13 PM
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Nothing... why did you feel the need to jump in then? Ive literally just been reminding people here of the law and they’re all up in arms about it. This all started because one user said men should literally be able to decide if a woman is allowed to create a life even if the man consensually ejaculates inside her and I disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:04 PM
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Its the government that makes the man responsible for his own child. Men consensually take the risk of sex, usually unprotected sex knowing the consequences of it. Its their issue unless the laws change. If abortion was illegal I wouldn’t risk having casual sex, men just take more risks so yes it’s their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:56 PM
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Like I said they still risk having sex, especially unprotected sex knowing the law and bodily autonomy women have then get mad when they have an unwanted child. Its just silly. If the woman wants a child and you fertilize her eggs of course she’s gonna keep it. Edited some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:43 PM
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Men are the decider of where their sperm ends up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:28 PM
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Abortion is only available for women because they’re the only ones that can get pregnant. If men had an equivalent biological capability im sure that’d be legal for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:23 PM
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I 100% agree I wouldn’t risk casual sex at all if it was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:17 PM
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Men will never abandon casual sex though. I dont see anyone successfully convincing them its bad for them on a grand scale even if it is. Men usually don’t rally together because they’re competitive and have their own best interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:19 PM
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The thing is i dont think men actually want to outlaw abortion or make paper abortion legal because of the consequences that would ensue. I think women would become even more hypergamous and picky because of the increased risk. The “80/20” rule would turn more into the 90/10 rule. Casual sex probably wouldn’t happen at all which greatly benefits men. Men should try to make it more fair if thats how they feel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:11 PM
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Im just pointing out how ridiculous he sounds I didn’t make him mad nor was that my intent, he already seemed pretty mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:07 PM
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At 5’9 ive been “rejected” for my height a couple times but only in highschool and middle school. For example, one guy told me he wanted to take me to prom but he legit said i was “too tall” and was worried about how it would look if i wore heels 😂. He is 5’6 so I didn’t really blame him and didn’t feel bad because I wasn’t into him in the first place. Theres been a couple more instances in high school and middle school where guys teased me for being tall and brought it up like it was a flaw or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:39 PM
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Women can prevent the pregnancy from happening yeah because of bodily autonomy, yes I already said its not perfectly fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:07 PM
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Its not completely fair i agree. But the burden of pregnancy is inherently unequal aswell so its not just one person being fucked over. Yes men pay for what is ultimately the women’s choice but that’s after the man consensually agreed to take a risk he knew he would have no final say over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:04 PM
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From the sources ive seen online vasectomies are 99% effective at preventing pregnancy after waiting about 3 months after you get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:32 PM
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Id be so honored if they used my argument to put a law into effect lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:30 PM
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Like i said its not completely fair because of biology. Men have complete autonomy over where their sperm ends up though and chose to make the risk despite knowing the laws. Women have an extra option due to bodily autonomy.I do love the current status quo and its not changing anytime soon anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:22 PM
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If a guy uses a condom and pulls out or has a vasectomy thats like close to a 99% success rate. So pregnancy can be 99% avoided by men, some just chose not to for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:10 PM
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Yeah just like its not fair men can’t force a woman to have an abortion, or financially abandon their child its not fair its the woman’s body that has to be the one that gets pregnant. Theres many things that aren’t fair on both sides. But its not like men can’t prevent conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:07 PM
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Aw im sorry if you’re triggered by reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:58 AM
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You’re acting like men dont 100% control where their sperm ends up. Thats why this argument is ridiculous. If i was a man that worried about having an unwanted baby id: get a vasectomy, use a condom and pull out, or not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:52 AM
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Its not perfectly fair because of biology. The pregnancy only happens inside of one person and people have bodily autonomy, unfortunately i guess. Good thing men have the option to completely prevent pregnancy, some of them still choose to take the risk though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:48 AM
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Yes. If i can 100% prevent the cloning from ever happening by just not giving my hair over i think its fair to be on the hook for it if i chose to take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:25 AM
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Men have unprotected sex knowing about the law and the reproductive power women have over their body so i dont feel bad for them it’s just carelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:21 AM
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If i consensually gave you my hair knowing you could possibly use it to make a clone and that was the law sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:01 AM
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The more “logical” gender has never sounded so hysterical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:04 AM
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You’re pathetically wrong and completely illogical either way. Thats why you’re only responding to one part of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:52 AM
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Show me the law that explicitly expresses an individual's right to their own DNA, because i cant find one, it seems to be a grey area. When you have consensual unprotected sex with a woman you are consensually giving her your DNA, what her body does with it after you give her your DNA is a product of nature. Regardless, you dont have authority over another person's bodily autonomy. Your argument isn't nearly as logical as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:43 AM
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Of course its your DNA. But what you’re suggesting would make it so one person has final say over what happens to another person’s body just because person one wasn’t careful with where they left their DNA. How is that acceptable? Also question for you: when do you believe “life” begins?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:11 PM
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A woman should need my express consent to make a human life with my DNA no matter where I happened to have left it! So many things wrong with this im not sure where to begin!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:22 PM
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He looks just fine in his recent IG posts https://www.instagram.com/p/CRaVLUALYPi/?utm_medium=copy_link I dont think his face always looks like that after post you used. Looks like he was having some allergic reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:22 PM
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Ive seen this site linked here before and its funny but if you think about it the men here have unrealistic standards as well. They dont want a fat woman but half of americans are fat, they want low n count but if “all women these days are whores who ride the cc” how many women does this leave them with? All the skinny low n women aren’t gonna want average neurotic men. They’re gonna want the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:56 PM
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Its men saying they go months without receiving a compliment/support from anyone else. Women saying that men should uplift each other is just in response to men who complain about having 0 social support. The support and uplifting women receive is mostly from other women which is why they suggest men uplift each other like we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:17 PM
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Can you give some examples? I want to laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:23 PM
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Someones been watching too much AMS 😂😂 okay Mr. Alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:31 PM
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None of y’all understand what a “CMV” post means huh? Bye bye post!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:25 PM
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The message is this: men, be perfect Nobodies expecting perfection... theres a huge line in between perfection and being 100% socially incompetent like the guy in the video. She was giving him one worded answers and not being engaging in the conversation at all, and he still couldn't take a hint! IS it really that hard to understand that a woman being short and completely unengaging with you isn't interested? After the first couple awkward questions/attempts at flirting he should have just accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:43 PM
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Its mostly other women having empathy for women who get mistreated and harassed. Maybe men should rally together and start caring about each other like women do. What will empathy actually solve though for loneliness? And exactly what does the type of empathy you want actually look like? What I’m imagining is similar to those empty “thoughts and prayers” comments people give to each other on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:34 AM
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Whats funny about preferring attractive company?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:48 PM
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The issue is most men on ppd and trp only have access to low value/trashy low hanging fruit women such as the ones on F&F podcast so they think that’s all that exist. A decent woman has never given these men the time of day so they dont think they exist, its really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:34 AM
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Didnt the “have sex” meme come from 4chan? Lmaoo not feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:02 PM
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According to your posts you have “severe social anxiety”, do you even talk to women? Explain how you’re “far from inexperienced” please, because right now you just look like a fool whose trying to dunk on random people on the internet because of your own shit life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:20 PM
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What are you the camera commander?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:05 AM
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I agree if they’re not enjoying sex that they should speak up and explain to their partner how they can work on it. But the other partner would still have to work to help fix the issue. If one partner speaks up about why they’re not enjoying and why that makes them not want sex and the other partner doesn’t work to make it better theyre not obligated to still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:46 PM
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So its still not a right. Yes or no? You still need to work to make sure your partner wants/enjoys sex as much as you do. If the sex is good and fulfilling why would the other partner not want it? (Barring health issues,etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:30 PM
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Ironic that you say this because sex (whether in a relationship or not) is a privilege not a right either. So if one partner wants sex more often they need to make sure their partner will want it as much as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:18 PM
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I knew different camera lenses did this but not the ones on phones, wow. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:01 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:24 PM
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I don’t understand how taking a selfie would make your nose look different than it does in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:10 PM
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If he’s tall and fit with a perfect face i don’t really see how girls being super keen with him is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:45 PM
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Despite the drama queens on ppd trying to convince you otherwise, dating these days really isn’t that hard or the end of the world. Seriously the incels here talk like the apocalypse is coming or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:44 PM
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Because they can get into relationships without having those 2 qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:41 PM
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Did you miss the part where he said “no other options atm”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:47 PM
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Yeah bro science 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:14 PM
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Whats the lie that women tell here exactly? Do you genuinely believe there aren’t men who misinterpret simple acts of politeness/kindness for signs of interest from women who don’t have an agenda to get stuff from them? Even if some women (not a majority) string men on, do you not realize theres some men who are genuinely too creepy/weird for women to want nothing to do with them? Just sounds like you’re one of those guys that get strung along and you’re just ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:12 PM
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I almost dont blame her, raw dog is risky and bc has really shitty side effects. I guess if he got a vasectomy perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:43 PM
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I have seen some women say that when they do this it is a test. To see if they are really interested. I USED to think this way in like highschool honestly. But over time i realized why this is stupid and probably wont lead to a healthy relationship. It makes the man seem desperate or like something else is wrong with him when he keeps trying with no interest or effort on your part. I honestly don't understand the psychology behind these men. Even if i did eventually respond i feel like it'd be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:53 PM
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Not my experience at all. When I ignore men on social media they tend to keep trying even harder to get my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:47 PM
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Lol at you thinking a woman losing their virginity is "the most important event of her life"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:03 AM
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Giving mgtow vibes damn. Sad situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:41 PM
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Well i have met women who are happy single and im not just saying that for the sake of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:26 PM
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For women, being single as opposed to being in a bad relationship is success. For men its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:20 PM
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Feminine women "dont exist" to the ugly or low quality men that don't have access to them so they project their options onto everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:42 AM
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Women win, because financial abortion isnt a thing and wont be in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:06 PM
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Well if a woman always slept around immediately and it didn’t get her what she wanted why would she not change her strategy? Insanity is doing the same thing every time and expecting different results. A man who acts extremely clingy or spends hundreds of dollars when they first meet a woman should change their strategy as well if that wasn’t getting him the results he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:04 PM
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Of course you “dont agree” with waiting as a man. But it works to weed out most fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:43 PM
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Of course its okay to change your mind at any point in dating. Nobody is owed commitment or sex. If you’re a woman who really wants commitment that bad you should wait for that before sex. Or atleast dont stick around for more than a couple of months for a relationship, if a man actually wants to be with you he would do whatever it takes to lock you down. And dating feels amazing as a woman thanks for asking!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:30 PM
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I guess not to men here lol. They can’t comprehend that notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:03 PM
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She just wouldn’t have slept with them? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:20 PM
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Very thorough and detailed post. But i still feel like all these debates about women making men “wait” for sex are redundant/irrelevant because I don’t understand in what instance the topic of how long she took to fuck other guys even comes up. How do you know how long she’s “made other guys wait” in the real adult world outside of HS and college where people typically hang out in similar social circles more frequently?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:19 PM
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That analogy isn’t accurate. Even if a woman did spend more time getting to know the ltr guy before sex, he’s still getting the same “prize” which is SEX. Both casual and relationship material guys get the sex, one just waits a few more days. Its not the same difference as a 5 star restaurant and apple bees. The analogy would be more accurate if you said you take both random hoes and the girl you want to date to a 5 star restaurant but the wait time for the food is longer with the ltr girl while…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:22 PM
1

I looked it up and thats the starting wage for managers not regular workers. I dont think 15$ is minimum wage anywhere in America
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:42 PM
1

Mcdonalds is minimum wage what are you talking about? Minimum wage is anywhere between $8-12 per hour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:42 PM
2

Minimum wage isnt even 15 an hour. But yes I agree with your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:22 PM
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Nobody “wants” men to do anything, the point of OP wasn’t to give short men dating advice. It was asking what women would hypothetically do in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:40 PM
0

In Op they said “imagine you’re an entirely average male..... being born average” maybe read the whole post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:37 PM
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she should have expected it sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:09 AM
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Just like the woman knows its a possibility she will one day be discarded by someone younger men know its a possibility they will be divorce raped
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:39 AM
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He should have dated a woman with similar income or other things going for her than just focusing on looks. Why would a woman not divorce rape in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:51 AM
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Well considering he wasted up her youth just to trade her for someone else no. But this is what happens to men who marry young hot women with nothing else to offer, he should have thought about that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:30 AM
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Neither of them are in the wrong but the woman ought to divorce rape in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:36 PM
4

Oh okay great. I’ll assume you never eat out at restaurants since the utensils have been in someone else’s mouth at one point. You definitely dont kiss your mother or other women either then since there’s the chance that semen has been on their lips either of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:30 PM
4

Ive noticed this too. Men seem to be obsessed with whatever women are doing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:32 PM
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Yeah I totally get it. If those are the only types of women who’d date you id stay single too Tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:19 AM
10

At the end of the day the fact that theres more male than female simps proves women are the prize, like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:36 PM
9

so basically women are still the catch since they "don't cook or clean" yet men still have an overwhelming desire to be in a relationship/be around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:08 PM
1

Someone you know has stumbled into her profile I already explained to you that profiles can be deleted and that you cannot search for specific accounts on google. These sites are specifically made to be discreet so high status men feel comfortable using them. Say one did amazingly happen to find their profile, they'd have to explain why they even had an account on a sugar dating site anyways. ​ or you meet the dude who rented her. Again i already explained that the men who have sugar babies typi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:15 PM
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​ Meeting someone who has seen you working. How exactly would you "see" a sugar baby working? These SD/SB relationships are typically private, it's not like they're hanging out in shady neighborhoods walking the streets half naked. Theres no risk of being found out if you're discreet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:06 PM
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I'm pretty sure you can google the profiles for example or just check on the site. 1) No you cant google the profiles, and people use random usernames and not their real names obviously. 2) Why would you not delete the profile afterwards? You meet your SD/SB then delete your account. Again, as long as you're not a complete imbecile its extremely simple to hide the fact you did/do sugar dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:58 PM
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What happens online stays online Sure, but it's not like we're talking about OnlyFans here. On sugar dating sites you make a profile, exchange contact info and then go from there off the site. It'd be really easy to have an arrangement with a guy for 1-3 years then go your separate ways. Usually these men are high status or have a family and greatly value discreetness, and will do anything to keep it DL. ​ Anyway, she will then have to live her life worrying her partner will find out and dump he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:27 PM
2

I see what you're saying about the view of prostitution, however it is very easy to hide being a sugar baby. You're assuming anyone but her and the guy will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:14 PM
3

They receive thousands of dollars just for being hot and dating a rich man. How do you figure theyre losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:01 PM
22

If men were the catch simping wouldnt be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:04 PM
2

ive gone a whole year without any kind of sexual contact with the opposite sex 2 different times. Average time i would say 3/5 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:32 AM
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wouldn't it be safe to assume he does because men complain that most of them struggle with getting casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:13 PM
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Uh wouldn't repeat partners be a big one? A women would be more eager to become a fwb which means regular sex for the man if the sex is good for her. And the men here complain about regular casual sex being so rare and coveted you'd think they'd bring the extra effort needed to please their partner. I've seen men over on asktrp complain about a woman ghosting them after their first hookup (probably because the sex was terrible).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:53 AM
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I thought men used only fans to fap to niche content or a girl they specifically find very attractive on social media, because porn stars are usually very meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:10 PM
2

Only if she was never truly into you in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:24 PM
4

i never understood why men who aren't "chad" expect/demand chad treatment. Alot of these same men refuse to treat a woman or give her special treatment aswell. They're basically the male equivalent of fat ugly radical feminists imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:15 PM
1

I just left college i only know 1 couple in a relationship for around that long ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:08 PM
2

I expect it because 90% of the time they pay on the first date. The guy im in a relationship with now refused to let me pay for the first few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:07 PM
4

Why not when 90% of men will insist on it when theyre into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:33 PM
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Yet somehow myself and everyone i know irl is perfectly happy dating around or in a relationship. Why do you guys have to make it sound like the world is ending because unattractive men cant get laid easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:17 PM
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Of course women can be predators, they can sexually assault people and prey on children. But do i think women making money on twitch and OF are predatory? Hell no. Theyre not seeking out these losers men to buy their content, the men have a want/need for the content and seek the women out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:04 AM
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I don't blame these women for what they're doing, but it's insanely predatory. They find these ugly, antisocial guys that just wanted someone to love them and act like a surrogate girlfriend. Lol please these women are the ones who seek out these men in a predatory manner? More like the men voluntarily chose to watch/subscribe to these women and they're just doing their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:19 PM
0

what does this have to do with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:17 PM
6

what exactly is the point of this post? for losers to mentally masturbate to so they feel better about their nonexistent dating lives?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 11:34 AM
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Not gonna happen don't hold your breath
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:17 PM
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Very unlikely, say it does become a reality in the southern states those women can always travel to get it legally done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:11 PM
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Overturn of roe v Wade, then federal ban I'd rather focus on what reality is now than unsubstantiated predictions of the future. The chances of roe v wade being overtuned is unlikely. The reality is abortion is legal now so... even in texas its not an all right ban, keep dreaming though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:01 PM
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Never gonna happen besides maybe a few ass backwards states like texas where teen pregnancies etc are huge because they lack sexual education, anyways that would make things worse for men who are into casual sex which would be funny to watch anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:53 PM
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It's really funny scrolling through /asktrp and seeing men rage out about getting their plates or some girl pregnant and blaming the girl for not being keen on getting an abortion. Men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies and should be responsible for where they ejaculate since they know they dont have the same options women have since its not their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:46 PM
1

Prostitutes never have casual sex too huh? They’re just a completely different breed of human i guess according to your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:52 PM
1

Yes because women dont ever enjoy sex and do it for the sake of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:14 PM
2

I got more male attention as a size 10 then size 2 honestly. People in HS would ask me if i had an eating disorder and boys were looking at my thicker friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:49 AM
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I 100% agree with you here. For the men who complain about not wanting a “career women” what do they expect the woman to be doing in the meantime to support herself?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:58 PM
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Theres plenty of feminine relationship worthy women here in the US, the men of PPD who complain that there aren’t just don’t have access to them because they’re mostly undesirable and not who these women are looking for. The only women who give them a shot might be masculine, fat, bitchy, etc so they believe those are the only ones who exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:45 PM
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If a woman had a couple of Fwbs and decided they didn’t work for her and thats not what she wanted and chooses to wait to get to know someone before having sex with them in the future, I dont see why the men here have such a problem with that. It doesn’t necessarily mean shes not attracted to you, just that she doesn’t want to make the same mistake. I think its 100% an ego issue where they feel slighted because they dont get “chad” treatment. Or they don’t believe women can grow and change becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:18 PM
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It’s basically determined 90% by how good she looks and 10% her being into him/nice to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:27 AM
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Yes, because i was bored and he was extremely persistent and i felt like getting cute and going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:22 PM
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You’re missing the point. Im saying people don’t decide what they find attractive men dont chose to be attracted to long hair or big eyes just like women don’t chose to be attracted to tall strong men. Attraction isnt decided by either gender it just is because of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:08 PM
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Nobody consciously decides what they’re attracted to they just are. Men as a group didn’t decide to find breasts attractive each individual man just does because of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:24 PM
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Nobody consciously decides what they’re attracted to they just ARE. Its bullshit to say men get to decide what they find attractive in women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:59 PM
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Nope i dont even consider men over 27 on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:04 PM
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Because men here who complain the most only have access to the bottom barrel undesirable women and they project their options onto everyone else. The type of woman described in the OP are the only women who give these men the time of day. I really feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:44 PM
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makeup doesnt destroy your skin idk why men think this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:19 PM
2

Yeah he conveniently edited it to “20s” when it just said “20M” after i asked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:15 AM
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what do you consider a "longterm" relationship? i just find it hard to believe you've been in 2 long term relationships and 8 relationships overall at only 20. Unless you consider anything over like a month "longterm"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:44 PM
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Me (20M) i’ve been in over 8 relationships with 2 longterm ones. im sorry but this is just laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:35 PM
1

Yes. Ive had men offer money to eat me out or be my sugar daddy on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:39 PM
1

he's talking about non prostituting women who seem to fuck everyone but him :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:25 PM
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Because men only care about sex isnt it obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:40 PM
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he said "tend" not meaning 100% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:43 PM
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Its true and I actually love that about us. Its saved me from fucking a few guys im pretty sure I would’ve regretted afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:00 PM
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Women here dont complain about men out of their league not wanting anything but sex from them. I don't know who your post is actually addressing because the women who do complain about men out of their league not wanting anything but sex aren't even going to have the self awareness to even realize a post like this is about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:30 PM
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Whats submissive about goth women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:17 PM
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Do you keep certain guys around in case of a breakup? No i wish i was this smart /s. Whenever i start really liking a guy i start either ignoring the other ones or become way less responsive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:20 PM
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I'd argue that ugly/average women are way more likely to engage in hypergamy by chasing men who are way out of their league, chad isn't necessarily out of a hot woman's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:00 AM
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You do not even understand red pill terminologies. The idea of hypergamy is based on women wanting men way better than them in all aspects, e.g the average 5 "beckies" wanting/chasing "chad". So why would TRP only apply to hot women if average women are the ones more likely to aim for and chase men out of their league? edited to be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 12:46 AM
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i highlighted women in abusive relationships because they actually lose their lives, yes men can be in abusive relationships which is terrible and should never happen but they dont die from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:38 PM
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how many men have died last year at the hands of women compared to women by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:28 PM
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No because i know women whove lost their life from leaving an abusive relationship it can’t really be compared
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:20 PM
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If a guy makes the choice to stay in a sexless relationship instead of trying to find another nobody’s really gonna have sympathy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:57 PM
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Lol yeah the threat of being stalked and murdered by a physically abusive ex if you leave the relationship is totally comparable to leaving a sexless one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:54 PM
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There’s no threat to losing your life from leaving a sexless relationship like there is in leaving a physically abusive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:38 PM
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Okay i will agree that it is not ALWAYS the guys fault but most of the time it is. There can be occasions when the woman is feeling lazy/doesn’t feel like it. But in that case why is the guy continuing to try to have sex instead of waiting until they’re both in the mood to fuck? If a woman is starfishing during sex it’s usually because the sex isnt good/worth it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:22 PM
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Is it not his fault for staying in a starfish/no sex relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:00 PM
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Lol it really isn’t. It CAN be but not always So it can or can not? Also i didnt say always. If a man keeps himself in good shape, is making a woman feel sexy, and pleases her during sex what reason does she have to starfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:20 AM
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unironically yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:48 PM
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A woman starfishing is the mans fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:03 PM
1

Ive never seen women on fds actually complain about that. Maybe you can link me some posts :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:29 AM
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when i browsed fds it seems like most women were in shitty relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:31 AM
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Its not nearly as common as the butthurt men here like to imply. Disagree with a black piller/red pilled man here and they tell you to “enjoy being pumped and dumped by chad” lol as if.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:00 PM
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keep in mind this man's wife has cheated on him with a chad lol its just all projection from his shit marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:14 PM
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Nope, Men dont even care about themselves or other men. Im very happy being a woman and having social and emotional support from everyone in my life. Also dating is fun and i have many options and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:09 PM
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why dont men ltr women right away after the first date? thats what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:39 PM
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its just hilarious to me that you consider yourself a top man whose a gentleman but then in the next response say this In other words - I assume any girl is a slut, I try to bang them all, the delusion lmaoo, anyways i hope things work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:17 PM
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idk why you think i care about your little dating novella, tldr. basically you just guess/assume their count got it dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:02 PM
5

so basically you just guess lool thats adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:55 AM
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yup men want women to immediately have sex with them but also want a woman who has a low body count, thats realistic lmao. goodluck finding a woman with an n of 2 who sleeps with you on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:49 AM
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thats his fault, not like most men have any other options other than "jumping through hoops" for sex anyways. who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:46 AM
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because alot of men dont consider women who have sex with them relationship material. if men didn't have these feelings women would move differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:45 AM
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how would you know if she's low n or not on the first few dates? are you seriously asking your date their count and whether they've had casual sex before? if not this situation is just stupid and hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:44 AM
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you dont "have" to, but since you feel you do its probably because you have no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:42 AM
4

thanks for confirming my suspicions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:11 AM
3

is that what happens to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:04 AM
2

ugly men need to have decent personalities and other shit going for them to date, hot men just need to show up. Whats confusing about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:01 AM
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im familiar with what goes on in these situations. But i mean i understand their intentions. What are you supposed to do/say in those situations? That the dude is just an ugly stinky manlet who should end it all? Especially if theres other people around i dont see how else you should react in the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:57 AM
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yet they still keep doing it again and again and again. Do they? i thought the narrative was that they have casual sex for a short time span in their youth then only have relationship sex with their beta bf that they secretly despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:02 AM
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Men need to stop being stronger and thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:43 PM
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Shits happens. Theres so many risks we have to navigate in dating. I actually agree with you here but i also understand the perspective most women have when it comes to not wanting to have sex immediately with someone you want to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:39 PM
1

While personality definitely plays a part in dating, i've NEVER been the type to tell an obviously ugly man that his personality is the reason why he's single. NAWALT lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:37 PM
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Yeah its "worse" treatment when you ONLY value cheap sex and nothing else. It's not like the LTR guy NEVER gets sex, it just happens a bit later while theyre going on fun dates and spending quality time with each other. What a travesty amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:55 PM
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Yeah i could see how that sounds about right when you dont value companionship, affection, shared interests, and partnership but only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:53 PM
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We didnt care about the first guy enough to want anything other than sex, there was no thought that having sex too soon would mess anything up because there was nothing else to be gained but sex. With the second guy, we REALLY like him and want something more than just sex so we use self-control to not have sex asap. Any other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:40 PM
7

Women actually possess this amazing ability called self-control, i know its CRAZY!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:23 PM
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At least three bc a portion of men are invisible. Duh. they dont exist, so why would they get a category?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:21 PM
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Theres a huge issue with this sub. Calling all men that don't align with your viewpoint "simps".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:17 PM
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Some men don't view the courting and dating process as a chore because they actually like the woman theyre dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:12 PM
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because these posts are usually made by sexually unsuccessful frustrated men wanting to desperately believe that all women are evil and calculating instead of just owning the fact that theyre undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:09 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:05 PM
6

Not always true. Some men are super hot but do not have good personalities or anything else to offer, which is why they only get sex instead of sex, affection, attention, and quality time that bf's get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:58 PM
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This is your opinon,i don't know any women who spend random money on chads or give them anything but pussy. And the women i know have better and kinkier more explorative sex with their boyfriends not when fucking ONS/FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:21 PM
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Men don't treat random Stacie better than their gf. Debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:15 PM
1

Men treat stacies better than average women aswell. Men "do the opposite" because men and women's imperatives are opposite and at odd, this is no brilliant observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:10 PM
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Congratulations, you've met men who consider sex inherently demeaning towards women. I don't need to abstain from sleeping with a woman to take her seriously. This is most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:04 PM
6

no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:52 PM
12

I've heard of and dated men who weren't hell bent on trying to have sex right away because they take the woman more "seriously".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:48 PM
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I don't understand why this is so hard for people (men here) to understand. Men definitely do a similar thing when the roles are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:31 PM
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Because women put men in two categories just like men do to women. With some men you can tell they will never be anything more than a fling so why wait and try to get to know them? With other men you feel like you want to get to know them more and see if you connect without sex. The guy im dating right now actually was the one who wanted to wait to have sex because he "didn't want to mess things up and wants to be serious with me".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:19 PM
1

unexperienced men are the worst in bed i don't have the patience frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:04 PM
1

Quick google search would have told you. He was trending all last week on google and Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:18 PM
1

I do think the concept of virginity is weird and gross for men and women. However, i would not date a male virgin because i like to have good sex and i dont want to teach a man what to do, as i am very submissive in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:40 PM
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No. Attractive women attract every type of man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:10 PM
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Yes. this is not how women outside of HS or even freshmen year of college act. Im tired of this trope that all female friend groups are made up of petty immature highschool girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:57 PM
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This isn't what's being argued. It's whether a guy would choose a rich, successful, intelligent, popular 5/10 or a poor, loser, dumb, unpopular supermodel. No shit. did this even need to be said? Btw most women would say yes to a date/ONS with a broke chad (brad pitt) lookalike aswell. you must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:11 PM
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A lot of guys are desperate because it's not easy for average to low SMV guy to get a woman's attention. It is a lot easier for a 5/10 woman to get a man's attention. I think you're projecting. Also i dont really understand how your analogy of a "stunningly beautiful woman" is supposed to apply to women in general of course super model tier women can have nothing else going on for them and still get married. Do you honestly think the average 5/10 overweight woman can get away with having: no int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:01 PM
7

Desperate men don't care about women's personality/status/wealth*** FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:50 PM
1

Men dont have the abundance that women have to develop the same kind of mindset. It's apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:12 PM
0

oooooh so this is what OPs deal is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:25 PM
2

thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 08:11 PM
2

can you show me some posts where they're against coffee dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 08:00 PM
1

i dont know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:56 AM
2

Lolol a little nervousness is OKAY. But a few months ago i went on a first date with this dude that was visibly shaking the entire time it was awkward!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:00 AM
2

I actually never rejected a guy for just being nervous but that is a bit of a turn off ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:09 AM
4

being confident is good, being too and overly sexual right off the bat is a turn off, as well as cockiness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:48 PM
7

Reasons i've rejected the advances/ didn't continue with some men: They don't put enough effort into their appearance/effort into dates. Why would i want to go to your house for a first meet? This might have been acceptable in college but not in the real world. Are too invested/fake in the beginning: Overly uncomfortably complimentary, only asks questions about me and my interests/views and then seemingly try to mirror my likes/interests to get me to like them more. Sometimes a date/conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:39 PM
1

kinda hot i'd be into it but im an actress
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:59 PM
1

Haha i think its interesting how theres no reds in here because they know their entire strategy rests upon game playing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:51 PM
1

cool diary entry brah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:47 PM
3

I assumed you were Western like most of the people on this sub. But even then... im pretty sure you'll eventually get charged child support lol. But then again you could have been more responsible with where you ejaculated and avoid all that but alas...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:28 PM
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try telling that to the government i guess lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:14 PM
1

all of your posts are obsessing about women. take a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:40 PM
5

Condoms and pulling out are only 96-98% effective About the same as birth contraceptives for women. Men aren't forced to have sex, especially unprotected sex. It just doesn't make sense that just because someone wasn't ready to be a parent that they should be able to financially abandon the child thats there and alive. Biology and life is not fair but child support will be a thing for the near foreseeable future, so you should act responsibly and accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:08 PM
1

Okay. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:03 PM
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Condoms exist, pulling out also exists. If men were more responsible with their ejaculate they wouldn't have to worry about unwanted pregnancies or babies. But again, despite whatever happened, if a baby is there the people who created it ought to take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:00 PM
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it takes two to make a baby. Women aren't asexually reproducing. When a child is born, both parties who made it should be financially responsible for it. It's not like men are forced to have unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:17 PM
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No one should be responsible for a child they don’t want Lol, let's apply your logic to everything else in this world. No one should be responsible for anything they don't want, including bills, jobs, why not? Anything people don't want they should just be able to abandon and make someone else's problem amirite???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:40 PM
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Why should there be no child support? Should people not be financially responsible for children they bare?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:29 PM
1

Let's not pretend that men aren't obviously more ego driven. If this is your point im done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:05 PM
1

It's obvious men are more ego driven. Hell, most people diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:57 PM
1

okay so you agree its men's egos my work here is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:48 PM
1

my point is low n count women aren't having more satisfying sex just because they're low n. Alot of them don't know better therefore they think its good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:47 PM
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and naturally good looking chads can have all the sex they want easily so why do people look up to them/admire them when they don't have to work hard either?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:45 PM
1

okay. never disagreed with any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:42 PM
2

Plenty of low n women putting up with crappy dick because they don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:41 PM
0

an instinctive reaction that helps avoid one of the worst possible things that can ever happen to a man: having to invest in some other man's child Right. So you agree it helps pad their ego because they dont want to look like a fool who raises someone else's child. Also paternity tests exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:39 PM
0

Well let's first define "high N". For the purpose of this debate ill say 20 is High. A woman can absolutely have slept with 20 people and her next lay is her best. Most men aren't good at sex so 1/20 of them could absolutely be phenomenal. Just because someone has alot of dicks doesn't mean one of them cant be their favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:36 PM
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no it doesn't. we just know men are primarily ruled by their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:33 PM
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Wheres the proof that low n women have more satisfying partners? How would a low n woman know what good sex actually is if she's only had it with 1-2 people? Not saying its impossible for her to have good sex but its very likely she just thinks the sex she's getting is "good" or "acceptable" because she has nothing else to compare it too. I've heard of women who think her boyfriend pounding away at her in one position for 5 minutes then nutting is "normal" because she hasn't had any other experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:32 PM
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Most men aren't good at sex, a woman can be high N and you still be her best dick just because you have good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:28 PM
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i never said it wasnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:26 PM
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Lol no, high n women are just gross for anything other than hookups, there doesn't even need to be any logic to justify, it just is. Right but why do men consider them "gross"? Its a subconscious defense mechanism to protect their own egos because they know they probably cannot compete. If High n women were actually viscerally disgusting men wouldn't want anything to do with them, they wouldn't be able to get it up for something that actually disgusts them. They know they wont be able to please …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:23 PM
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Yeah it "skeeves" them out because they're worried they cant compare with men that are actually good at sex. Alot of things that bother men are subconsciously tied with their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:00 PM
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They're easier to manipulate and put up with subpar dick game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:47 PM
1

So you've left women who didn't let you fuck them in the ass or whatever else depraved shit because they've done it before with someone else knowing you would become suicidal? I'm not talking about rejecting potential women, im talking about a partner that you've already established, and then you found out they did something in the past that they do not wish to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:54 PM
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If my partner is not ok with those standards then she will leave or I will. Either way she shouldn't try again with me. But if she is not willing to do it, then I am out. Oh give it a rest. You've also told us that you get suicidal when you don't have a partner to have sex with. I doubt you have enough balls/abundance to walk away from a girl that actually agreed to put up with you for something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:34 PM
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my fault i thought jokes were supposed to be funny ima head out now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 09:05 PM
4

oh yeah i forgot you have nothing better to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 09:01 PM
8

and they still ended up getting divorced in 2016 so whats really your point here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:52 PM
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I've been saying this here for awhile but i get flagged as "trolling". Of course autists are attracted to TRP. TRP makes broad sweeping generalizations such as "AWALT" which makes everything easy and black and white with little room for nuance, which autistic people struggle at understanding. People on the spectrum are also very likely to be socially awkward and have trouble processing their and other's feelings, so when TRP just lays everything out for them they're thrilled because then they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:57 PM
10

High n men are just as likely to cheat as high n women are. The other stuff like "ability to pair bond" cannot really be proven without anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:16 PM
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All but the most hideous men can. Lmao try telling that to the men here who are convinced if you're not a 6 ft+ 8/10 chad you'll be a lonely virgin forever. But again, i really don't think what you're suggesting is even plausible for the average man. How many women are actually willing to fuck an average guy whose name they dont even know without even a date? ....just pay for it Doesn't this contradict what you were originally trying to say? That theres a plethora of women readily available for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:18 PM
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​ Perfect just dump her ass and go fuck one of the plethora of women willing to do so without so much as knowing a real first name, much less paying for a date.... Who are you even addressing with this comment? Lmao, as if men here or even the average man has a plethora of options for easy free casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 05:59 PM
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You’re a strong 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:25 PM
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im sure the guys would go down on her before/after lol. Alot of them give bj after getting aten out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:56 PM
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But it's surprising to me that FDS doesn't considers blowjob as just as bad as sex, if not worst. PIV is a huge deal for us women, oral sex is just oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:11 PM
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Do you also think eating pussy increases your count? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:01 PM
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You're the one nitpicking. I was just trying to prove that it is infact possible to know how a guys dick is without having full on PIV sex first. They're not mutually exclusive things like the parent comment was trying to argue. I don't think most people actual consider oral sex to add to their count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:51 PM
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So if a guy that's never had sex before eats a girl out he's not a virgin anymore? Or is it only different when the girl is engaging in oral sex? Oral sex is just that, oral sex. I would actually personally consider anal sex regular sex but for it to count as losing your virginity is kind of a gray area for alot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:43 PM
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Okay you're taking it to such an extreme and out of context like i'd expect an incel to. I was specifically talking about the case where an FDS woman is dating a guy, she could be able to know how big his dick is because they can engage in other sexual activities that don't compromise the 3 month PIV sex rule. Do i think you should just go about having oral sex with everyone but still brag about being a virgin? NO. But it's interesting how when i say oral sex doesn't count as actual sex you guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:31 PM
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but that doesn't negate the idea that oral sex doesn't count as a body therefore it doesn't increase your n-count. What you're saying doesn't have anything to do with the point i was trying to make about how you can still have fun with someone your dating without going all the way (sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:12 PM
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​ I dont see what's so funny. Do you think a guy who eats pussy but hasn't had actual PIV isn't a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:57 PM
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Huge difference between PIV sex and blowjobs. Also blowjobs don't increase your n-count which men on this sub are so desperately obsessed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:59 PM
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You can engage in heavy petting or oral sex with someone you're dating and not PIV sex which is what FDS recommends to wait for. But I guess you wouldn't know that. Copying my line? bro you're totally in my frame rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:52 PM
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Things you'd not know unless you did a nude inspection And again, its possible to engage in nude activities with the opposite sex without having actual fullstop PIV sex, but i guess you wouldn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:24 PM
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It's possible to determine dick size without having sex. But i wouldn't expect a terper to have nuance like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:15 PM
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Still not common enough for anyone to care. Hence its rarely addressed. You have no proof it's more common than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:32 PM
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Besides the UK i dont see any other studies saying it is anywhere near 10%. Maybe its just a common issue in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:28 PM
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Because paternity fraud is neither common or a large enough issue to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:19 PM
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exactly, you cant really compare it to circumcision unless its botched
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:28 PM
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I don't agree with circumcision but probably because FGM is way more brutal and often involves cutting off the actual clitoris which would be equivalent to cutting the head off the penis. Circumcision should not be so normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:08 PM
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The excessive memery
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:56 PM
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great and very accurate answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:22 PM
2

You seem like a solid and honest person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:07 PM
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works for plenty of women just because you don't like it doesn't mean its unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 01:56 PM
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I cant believe you really wrote all this out. I didn't say i was upset also, just that it takes me by surprise and i've had friends where guys lied about having a child/crazy baby mama. Having a child is a big deal, i don't see how you could compare it to a woman waiting for sex if they're going to have sex eventually lol. It's not like the child will disappear. It's not common to ask someone how long they wait to have sex, whereas asking someone about their life and family (having a child) is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:45 PM
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22 year old woman, yes i disqualify them. The crazy thing is alot of guys wont even tell you about their child unless you flat out ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:54 PM
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4chan arrows on reddit dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:33 PM
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yeah that's all im trying to say, a traditional woman would just be a fool if she didn't have a backup plan in today's modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:39 PM
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bro selling pie really? My point is, in today's modern world there should be no shame in even a traditional women trying to get a career or education, she's simply adapting to the world around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:28 PM
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Yeah but working's mAsCuLiNe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:25 PM
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Why? If i let a guy take me out to dinner im gonna be polite, nice, and make an effort to get to know him. Dishing out $20-30 to take someone that YOU asked out doesn't mean they don't respect themselves. Just say you're broke and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:14 PM
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Okay but in the meantime while she's waiting for her prince charming the fuck is she supposed to do if chasing a career or education is masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:46 PM
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Parents these days are raising their daughters to be independent and telling them they can do/pursue anything they desire in today's world. How would a traditional minded women go about this if her parents were more progressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:37 PM
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Oh really? Explain to me how this "natural" traditional women locks down a trad alpha just out of highschool in today's modern world. And you didn't even answer my question, what should she be doing to support herself if its masculine for her to go to school or pursure a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:34 PM
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No. Theres no shortage of men wanting to take me out and pay for dinner why would i stop them? Also what do you all expect traditional women to actual do in today's modern world? Hypothetically after HS what should they do for a job/to support themselves? Just sit there twiddling their thumbs and making fucking charcuterie boards waiting for alpha trad chad to come along and sweep them off their feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:16 PM
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Why do incels hate women but not the chads that are supposedly fucking their looksmatches?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:15 AM
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KWEEN SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:55 AM
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It's a huge red flag i've realized. I'm hoping its just immaturity because the first time i watched the show in high school i was rooting for walt and disliked skyler
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:24 PM
2

Did you watch the show? Her divorce lawyer told her she would have to go to the police and tell them all about walt's drug empire, since he didn't want to sign off on the papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:47 PM
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I don't think yours is gross as a 22 year old woman. If she was 18 i would think it was creepy because she'd be just out of high school. I personally i have no interest in men older than 26 at the moment because of my personality and life circumstances but everyone's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:37 PM
4

OPs obsessed with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:10 PM
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Doesn’t matter she had sex all women bad whores !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:23 PM
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I'm not defending whore behavior because I don't define this specific situation as whore behavior. I don't believe Skyler was in the wrong. Having sex with someone else because your estranged drug dealer husband won't grant you a divorce doesn't make you a whore. You're clearly not capable of understanding situations outside of a black and white thinking pattern that involves nuance so I'm through here. I'll just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:22 AM
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Theres nuance to this situation, if this was a show about a normal beta husband and the wife just woke up one day and cheated on him yes that would be whorish behavior.Her and walt were separated (not living together), and he wouldn't sign the divorce papers. Walt was straight up lying to her face about where he was spending all of his time, what was skyler supposed to think? She has a husband who was out all day doing god knows what and wouldn't let her get a divorce. I call your take childish …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:05 AM
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What's whorish about a woman fucking someone when her estranged husbands a fucking murderer and drug manufactuerer? Was she supposed to never fuck anyone ever again? Maybe if walt wasn't out 7 days a week cooking methamphetamine and lying to everyone about it she would fuck him. If this was a TV show about a good attentive family man and a wife that cheats on him i wouldn't be defending her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:48 AM
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They weren't together, their marriage was clearly dead. Was she supposed to just fuck walt her murderous drug manufacturing husband? He wouldn't let her get a divorce. You have such a childish surface level take from the show god help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:41 AM
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Dude walt refused to get a fucking divorce for the longest time. Even if she did divorce him you'd probably be here screaming about her divorce raping him and leaving a sick man with cancer (even though cancer never stopped him from doing stupid dangerous shit). I believe the reason that she stayed was because thats when she became aware of all his crimes and realized that the law can't make married couples testify each other. They were clearly separated and just together to cover walt's ass and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:35 AM
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while your husband might get killed by the local drug lord The way you're trying to make Walter the victim is so pathetic have you even watched breaking bad? We're talking about a man who started making fucking meth 7 days a week while lying to his wife about it, killed multiple people (including his wife's fucking brother in law), manipulated and used one of his former highschool chemistry students to sell drugs and assist in his schemes, encouraged his disabled teenage son to binge drink, pois…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:28 AM
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Yeah that scene was uncomfortable but she was pregnant.... they did have hot sex in the car after his cancer group meeting though 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:53 PM
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Dude he got a tall attractive young blonde woman. Skyler was hot af when she was young. The show also hinted at him and Gretchen having a thing... Dude definitely got pussy. His biggest problem was playing it too safe when he was younger. Maybe your best course would be to tread..... lighly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:49 PM
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Oh fuck off with the skyler hate. Walt put his entire family at risk and became a fucking murderer and drug lord. His former partners offered him money and a full time job to pay for his treatment and he refused because muhh ego. How else was skyler supposed to act? Walt put all of their lives at risk!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:40 PM
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The only time guys have blocked me is because their girlfriend at the time saw me as a threat lol. I feel like blocking is a pretty feminine thing to do unless its because someone was literally spamming/harassing you. I don't really understand the question though, are you asking if we see the individual who blocks us as more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:37 PM
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when i like a guy i want to fuck him 24/7 he doesn't have to act any type of way lol. It's sad nobody wants them without manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:02 PM
1

thats really interesting i've never thought about that, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:40 PM
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i've seen guys here say anything more than 5 or 10 is unacceptable so thats not universally considered high. I agree though i think 20+ is when it starts to get up there as a high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:30 PM
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I think it's fine to have a preference for a low n partner and i agree that doesn't mean you want a virgin. But on the flip side when guys here say they don't care about their partners n count you get a bunch of terpers calling him a cuck and saying his girls probably a whore or town bike. Alot of people here just cant grasp the concept that most people in real life don't care as much about n-count as they do. Not having a low n doesn't mean you're necessarily fucking everything moving. But with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:45 PM
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When that happens, you just chill on it, and completely turn shit non sexual, like 'hey, what's on Netflix?' or whatever. Show that you aren't going anywhere and that you are content just chilling with her. Nah i thought the technique was to do some solo activity like checking your email or go on your phone and withdraw all attention from her in order to manipulate her to want to get close to you again. Basically like, we're fucking or im not giving you any more attention or acknowledgement. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:21 PM
2

if it was used ironically maybe but he was just casually using it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:55 AM
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Yeah this guy who i had a mutual crush on for months. When the logistics were finally right i was able to come over his apartment and we were spooning and I realized he had a very small dick. There were alot of things that hinted at this but he was perfect otherwise so I didn’t give it much thought. Another one was this guy i meet on tinder and was talking to but then i saw him use this very feminine snapchat filter on his story like with hearts and shit and it just instantly turned me off for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:30 PM
2

And men's don't when a cute/hot girl shows interest? Theres tons on comments on asktrp asking how to "fix" a situation because he accidentally lost frame or simped out. Tons of oneitis questions aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:42 AM
2

my point is your comment made no sense and you're just butthurt, go take a walk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:59 PM
2

do you not understand what "agree and amplify" means? its a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:46 PM
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Got it brah, that wont be a problem with my little meat after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:09 PM
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Tell the bitches and bros about fight club!!! Err wait bro im....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:01 PM
2

He was the one who misread bro lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:59 PM
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Heart brother 😳? Stahp it bruh now you’re just making me blush. Stop doing that bro the sluts are coming you know i gotta look stoic and sheit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:51 PM
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Thanks bro, you always come through for me, However bro i wanted to see the specific stat for the other 60% having a rotation of atleast 4 o right u just pulled that outta your tight ass bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:40 PM
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For some men they would not get laid at all otherwise. Which can have a massive impact on their mental health. In reference to my comment yeah i get it, having a mentality that makes you twice as likely for suicide is fine as long as its getting your dick wet more often ammirite ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:39 PM
2

your the one who presumed men who weren't toxic wouldn't get laid otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:32 PM
2

which one gives the 60% stat of toxic men having a rotation of atleast 4 you know im lazy and cant math bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:24 PM
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how do i know this 2002 study is trustworthy breh, im gonna need some more reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:15 PM
2

only 17% of men that didn't fit into the "man box" (the incels) considered suicide in the past 2 weeks tho breh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:11 PM
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40% of men who fit into the "man box" considered suicide, compared to the 17% that didn't fit into it (cough, the incels) so what were you actually saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:08 PM
3

Yeah attempt, we don't even have to guess which gender actual ends up dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:06 PM
3

Wheres your stats to back up the other 60% having a rotation? I thought you loved statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:04 PM
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You're goddamn right, if i was a member of TRP i'd be apart of the minority group that has!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:02 PM
3

ah yes the only 2 options for men according to PPD: toxic masculinity or inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:57 PM
3

Im not crying, the 40% of toxic males that considered suicide in the last 2 weeks are probably the ones crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:53 PM
2

Just seeing the words "brad" and "pitt" gets me going
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:50 PM
4

are you agreeing and amplifying me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:48 PM
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yeah i get it, having a mentality that makes you twice as likely for suicide is fine as long as its getting your dick wet more often ammirite
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:47 PM
2

No, you'd be the one engaging in the sexual harassment, bong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:41 PM
2

Bullies less likely to experience depression? Link that pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:38 PM
5

Of course you found a way to make it about mUh DiCk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:38 PM
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And it begins, Men that have toxic masculinity qualities that fit inside the man box are reported to be twice as likely to experience depression or suicidal ideation. Also 5 times more likely to engage in verbal, online or physical bullying, as well as sexual harassment. Which would you rather be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:55 PM
3

looool not the "important call" and has to leave bit, thats gold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:29 PM
1

Even if she shows more she's not fucking other men like you implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:40 PM
2

oh LMAO. Just because she's a stripper doesn't mean she fucks other men. I actually had a conversation with her about being in the sex industry while being in a LTR and she said her boyfriend doesn't mind it because she's coming home to him at the end of the night while the guys just have the memory of her dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:30 PM
6

Not reading all this. Not an FDS member, good luck with all your projections and assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:02 PM
2

How is you not being a cuck and thinking most men are like that not an anecdotal evidence aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:55 AM
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She's ignorant and sleeping around Nice strawman bro. So because my experience doesn't reflect yours i'm sleeping around don't know anything? Cute. after that men definitely will see her as a fuck buddy and the marriage will never be mentioned by a man. What you're a future teller now? Do you have anything to add to this conversation besides wild and biased assumptions? Just checked your history though and you're bitter and clearly going through an anger phase. Who hurt you bro? Its okay you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:43 AM
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Most likely not, but its not impossible. I follow this girl i knew from HS and she's a stripper and has been in a LTR since HS it seems, i'd be surprised if they broke up any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:36 AM
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Its so hard for them to understand lol. Male solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:34 AM
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Honestly the women who complain about men only looking for hookups are probably ugly. I don’t have advice i just go to a large state school of 30k and have been lucky enough to encounter a variety of people. Most women i know aren’t sluts who just chase chad either. The stuff people complain about on this sub is exaggerated and their contrived reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:33 AM
5

check his first few posts for more gems <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:36 PM
5

Yeah they told me, and most of them were or ended up in consecutive long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:59 PM
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I’m giggling at you thinking there’s a plethora of non loser men who are looking to settle down with a modern woman. I don't think i know, hence why i said i've encountered them. Your experience doesn't negate mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:13 PM
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Nope. I've encountered plenty of relationship oriented men, if i wanted to be married with kids by now at 22 i could've had that. On the flip side if i wanted to be a promiscuous stripper i could do so all thanks to the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:16 PM
3

so if a woman looks through your history and sees that you get off on women embarrassing you you have no issue with her just immediately writing you off if everything else is great and clicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:37 PM
2

if he's getting rejected by these women how is this his sexual past?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:30 PM
2

Yes. Kinda hard for me to imagine as a 22 year old woman but i mean i've settled for guys before. Isn't life about compromise? How would i even know about him getting rejected by these younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:21 PM
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You think we give a fuck about who guys got rejected by? He got rejected by the younger hot women good now he knows his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:12 PM
1

I don't think avoiding an entire gender is hating them thats just you doing your own thing and being indifferent. For me hating a gender is constantly going out of your way to bash them, trying to convince others that they're not worth it, being especially rude to them. If you're just opting out of the dating arena and still treating women with respect thats just you being a decent person and doing whats best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:49 PM
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Nope, theres no need to go into such detail about it. You like alot of the other people here read too much into shit. Women are typically socialized to be overly friendly and accommodating to people especially strangers in public places during the daytime. Being nice is only perceived as flirty to incels or other romantically starved men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:48 AM
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Im actually kinda an ice queen irl and dont ever smile at people i dont know but people tell me all the time its just common decency and most people i know do all these things natural. Flirting and just general kindness is different. If you think women like you just because they’re nice you must be really romance starved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:51 PM
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The part where men assume women are attracted to them just because they're attracted to the women is the projection part einstein. Smiling, laughing, and being nice is all just common decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:09 PM
1

Stupid comparison. An orbiter should be assumed to have the same potential for violence as a high crime area? Just loool dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:07 PM
1

Likewise I'd never ever date a guy with a female friend he might find hot but "wouldnt act on". Fuck acting. Fantasy is so so so much more powerful Men are gonna fantasize about hot women regardless. His boss, coworker, porn stars, etc. If he doesn't act on it i don't see the problem but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:21 PM
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If by "nuts" you mean somehow he retaliates and lashes out at her in a physical or violent way than thats just straight up victim blaming. All she did was allow him to give her attention and buy her an occasional meal. Hope you keep that same energy towards a scorned woman keying a man's car or punching him because he wont wife her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:17 PM
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if by going crazy you just mean lashing out with some hyper emotional angry message than sure but if you mean physical violence or damage then hell no she didn't instigate that. I feel the same way about a scorned woman keying some guys car or stabbing him because he doesn't want to be her boyfriend. She's way out of line and he didn't instigate that unless he was literally telling her we're gonna be together but still she needs to be dealt with by the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:47 PM
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If you're hot there will always be an element of attraction but that doesn't mean you both have to act on it. I have a good looking male friend: 6 feet+, attractive facial features etc, but he's a leach and just lives with whoever his gf is at the time and uses their car etc. That completely turns me off and because of that even though we've been friend for 5+ years and haven't gone any farther than a hug. He has a very chaotic and dark sense of humor and so do i so we bond in that sense, and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:41 PM
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I don't even see why i would have to flat out tell him i have no interest even though thats what i usually do. Hypothetically he's doing all this shit for me and im being extremely passive and just receiving it how is that wrong? He's not an infant, if he can't tell that im not interested in him by my extreme lack of effort and reciprocation he's a fool and a fool and his money are soon parted. If that makes me a parasite then i guess i'll accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:36 PM
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more gold diggers = less poor single mothers I mean... you're not technically wrong but looool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:31 PM
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