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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey? Hit the nail on the head, experienced the same. You just have to look at how they've handled their whole life in general. Baffled how some correlate this to insecurity XD. How is it insecure to not want to be with someone who is mentally and emotionally unstable, won't look at their inner issues/traumas and therefore tries to numb themself with casual meaningless sex for that quick dopamine high to make themself feel better. For most it's basically a form of self medication but since society is …	/r/seduction	13/07/22 01:42 AM
2	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys I'm glad you got something out of my comment, we are here to lift eachother up, not to break eachother down. Aah, well her age explains everything and makes it a little bit more understandable. I had the feeling she must have been quite young because if that remark was coming from a 25+ year old women that would be a huge with period blood smeared red flag that would be unfixable to infinity. This is mostly a maturity matter, even though she is physically an adult, her mind still has a lot of ma…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 10:12 PM
2	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys I respect that, and like I said I'm just sharing my perspective and not telling you what to do. It's something I personally would have done because from my knowledge and experience if she's capable of this, it's highly likely that she exhibits other not so healthy behaviors. Because to me this just screams insecurity, being inconsiderate of others feelings, lack of self worth and as a result of that trying to control and manipulate the flow of the relationship because she feels she naturally is …	/r/seduction	28/06/22 11:05 PM
3	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys So you're directly saying things to her like: "hey bb, you would be more attractive to me if you had a nicer ass like hers over there". Because that's basically what OP's partner said to them, only about another physical feature. Just a genuine question for an open respectful discussion, not to stirr things up. I'm trying to see where you're coming from.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 09:13 PM
–	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys Lol, the tan line is where she fucked up. That is just straight disrespectful, basically implying you're not good enough for her. The underlying reason could be to make you jealous because you trigger her own insecurities (you said people compliment you on your body). With this she's trying to have the upper hand and keep you on your toes in a very unhealthy immature way. If you don't check her and if she doesn't fix her insecurities this behaviour is going continue, that is a guarantee. What I …	/r/seduction	28/06/22 07:57 PM

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