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| 5 | Sad Example of BP BETAs - Asian Exchange StudentsI've heard a lot of Chinese girls complain that Chinese guys are too effeminate (don't know about Koreans, we mainly have Chinese in my city and lots of them). Usually they are referring to their physiques because most of them are really skinny. But I've also noticed that the hottest Chinese girls only go for Chinese guys who are a little bit RP in that they are rich assholes as opposed to weird guys who play DOTA every second they aren't studying. I guess my point is that they haven't really ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread December 04Your first one is real close to a theory that I've had for a while: Narcissists and psychopaths aren't really charming or charismatic. They are needy and unlikable. What people on TRP think of as "narcissism" is really just being low in agreeableness. Merely growing a pair of balls and not losing sleep obsessing over what others think of you somehow becomes "sociopathic" and "narcissistic." | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with Elon Musk?He is just a different breed. We will never know his deal. I remember there was an interview where he was giving general business advice and one thing he considered a really clever professional tip was something like "work 100 hours a week." As if people had never thought of that before. Anyone who has that view of work probably can't have real relationships. Girls fuck him for a while because he's a famous billionaire but he probably sucks to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 03:12 PM |
| 2 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?I think a lot of red pillers are motivated by revenge. They want to seduce hot girls who, in the minds of red pillers, represent the hot girls who ignored them and slept with cooler guys in high school and college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Oppressing female sexuality and being lenient with male sexuality was a bad idea and sexually shaming men would've put the genders on equal groundPeople don't have a natural distaste for killing. That's idiotic. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Oppressing female sexuality and being lenient with male sexuality was a bad idea and sexually shaming men would've put the genders on equal groundJust because people can be conditioned to change their preferences on some things, it doesn't mean that they can be conditioned to change their preferences on everything. You can't be conditioned to think that human shit tastes like ice cream and women can't be conditioned to see cool, masculine, alpha males who have bedded lots of women as unattractive. You are seriously under the spell of postmodern leftism if you think that we have the power to mold human being into whatever we want them to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Women: how would your life be different if 60% of men decided to have no contact with women?If you're referring to some sort of MGTOW thing, that has nothing to do with men deciding to have no contact with women. It's just an after-the-fact rationalization. Women already decided not to have contact with those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Conflating unwanted advances with harassmentThe Anita Hill/Clarence Thomas thing was pretty high-profile and it was just him being guilty of making a pg-13 joke at the office (something about "long dong silver"). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Playing Video Games Whilst RP?The problem with video games is they're both fun as shit and totally worthless at the same time. Think about the opportunity cost of playing video games. Think about the things you're not doing when you're staring at a screen. At least other hobbies help you meet people or help you get in shape or help you develop valuable skills. Video games are just fun without any of the enriching stuff that usually comes with hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Oppressing female sexuality and being lenient with male sexuality was a bad idea and sexually shaming men would've put the genders on equal groundEggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Oppressing female sexuality and being lenient with male sexuality was a bad idea and sexually shaming men would've put the genders on equal groundI don't know what planet you're living on where women are shamed and men are not. No one shames anyone. It's just an interplay of the different preferences of men and women- don't confuse that for "society shaming people." Men like virgins and women don't. That is your double standard right there. Suppose that society did start shaming Chads. What would happen? Nothing, because the shaming would not change women's preferences. Chads would still get laid. Flip that around. What would it look like… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Texas Theater's Women-Only 'Wonder Woman' Screening Is Infuriating Fragile MenI'm only talking about video games, comic books, superhero movies, etc. I just don't think we should fight very hard for nerd-dom. When it comes to higher education, yes we should oppose the Left and not ignore them. But oppose them how? By "exposing hypocrisy?" Or by actually opposing them with force? Exposing hypocrisy doesn't work very well. Pointing out that non-white immigrants are being hypocritical by simultaneously preferring to live in Western societies and embracing anti-American lefti… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Texas Theater's Women-Only 'Wonder Woman' Screening Is Infuriating Fragile MenBasic bitch conservative guys fall into the trap of wanting to constantly expose the hypocrisy of feminists and leftists. It's just not worth the effort. When it comes to horseshit like the new superhero movie or gaming or comic books, it's better to just say "that stuff is gay anyway- you girls can have it." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Even Zac Efron gets blown outZac Efron is 5'8" and Daddario is at least that tall... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Consider a Plant-based Diet in Your Red Pill ToolkitDonate blood. Dump your iron. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 12:31 AM |
| 11 | AWALT Reminder for LTR'sYup. I remember how this girl I dated would always talk about how she didn't like this one extremely good-looking guy in our circle of friends. I correctly ignored the "didn't like the guy" part of what she was saying and paid attention to the more more salient part- that she talked about the guy all the time. That was the second-to-last straw. I never called her out on it, but next time she was being a bitch or giving me shit (can't remember what it was exactly), I dumped her. The opposite of l… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you feel political correctness has ruined dating and sex for you?I always hear women say that "not all women want to be dominated and manhandled" but I've never heard a woman say "I don't want to be dominated and manhandled." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you Hate single mothers?Brutally hated? No, but there is a small chance that you can do everything right, still end up as a single mom, and have people who don't know your situation dismiss you as yet another irresponsible single mom. People are allowed to generalize. They might not be right 100% of the time, but their right to their opinion about single moms > your right to be perceived how you want to be perceived. Why would you bother doing what? Having sex? Or trying not to be a single mom? If you are saying that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you Hate single mothers?Then you are one of the few unlucky ones. That is a risk, deal with it. Sex is inherently risky. Most single moms weren't unlucky, they were just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you Hate single mothers?Stop saying "off-chance" like you have no role in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you Hate single mothers?Guys usually don't go from responsible to deadbeat as soon as their women get pregnant. Every single mom that I know knew her man was no good before they got pregnant. If you are just having protected sex, you can do whatever you want and not be judged. But if you are having unprotected sex, then it isn't just about your sexual preferences- you must also take into account whether the guy is likely to stick around if you get pregnant. Because you're not just choosing a sexual partner, you are cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you Hate single mothers?Yes, "society" made them have unprotected sex outside of marriage to the type of guy who doesn't stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/17 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girl gets defensive about weight after height questionhe's short, but no midget. 5'7". She just towers over him because she's 6'2" and she's also wearing heels. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Are US girls predominantly fat? And for BPers: do you think it's pretentious if a guy wants to date only non fat girls if fat is the new normal?1/3 obese, 1/3 overweight. So 2/3 fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/17 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Are US girls predominantly fat? And for BPers: do you think it's pretentious if a guy wants to date only non fat girls if fat is the new normal?2/3 of American adults are overweight or obese. Not 2/3 of college students in the US. Check back on those college girls in ten years, then you'll see that 2/3. Look up the definition of "pretentious." I don't think it means what you think it means. And no, there's nothing wrong with men preferring thin women when fat is the new normal. Attraction is not determined by what's normal. My penis is not a statistician. It doesn't go "okay, that woman is chubby, but according to these numbers from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/17 07:13 AM |
| 9 | Q4RP: Why is "women like rough dominant sex" seen as so noteworthy by you guys?We've all heard that "sex is more about emotion for women." And "it's not at all like in porn." And that woman don't like to fuck, they like to make love with roses and soft music. The Ned Flanders lies are common. And it's usually because women who don't like to have dirty, vigorous sex aren't very attracted to whoever they're having sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dread Game is more likely to be effective than communicationWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 04:43 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Dread Game is more likely to be effective than communicationMost communication is non-verbal. That is just how humans behave. You'd best get used to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dread Game is more likely to be effective than communicationInsecurity is not always bad. You should feel insecure about, say, walking on a tightrope 50 feet in the air. Because it's dangerous and you could die. Likewise, you should not feel secure about taking your spouse for granted and just taking from them what you want from the relationship without offering love in return. Because the fact is that they are not your slave- if you offer them absolutely no reason to stick around, they just might not. Even if it's morally wrong for a spouse who has made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: who's your highest n count female friend? What is she like?LOL sure if you say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/17 07:26 PM |
| 9 | Is it possible that women are overstating the amount of power men have over women due to the fact that women tend to surround themselves with men more powerful than them?Interesting idea. I've noticed that most women I know wouldn't date a man who didn't make more money than them. They want a guy who would be the breadwinner if they ever got married. I just think that a lot of people don't get that men make more money than women because they have to, not because society keeps women down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: who's your highest n count female friend? What is she like?Because the bar for "not a ho" is a little higher than "not getting paid to suck strangers' cocks right now." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: who's your highest n count female friend? What is she like?a woman who was a stripper is a ho for life? Yes, because of the perception that most strippers are actually literal prostitutes on the DL (giving head in the champagne room for tips). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Are women really justified to feel much more unsafe than men when they walk alone at night?I don't know where people on this thread get the idea that women are overly cautious about rape. I see plenty of women jogging alone, at night, in a park in an area of my city where violent, random rapes are common. It's insane. An undergrad's naked corpse was just found a couple months ago. She was abducted from an area near where I see these clueless women jogging at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Are women really justified to feel much more unsafe than men when they walk alone at night?It's misandry only if men and women are equal. Which they aren't. Would it be adultophobic if I were more comfortable with adults being assaulted than children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Are women really justified to feel much more unsafe than men when they walk alone at night?Yes, because women are weaker and are inherently more vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The reason why women hate being judged by their sexual history more than anything elseRight, and not only does your current partner not get the diamonds, she also gets the debt that you racked up by spending money on diamonds for other girls. Some lessons just should not be learned the hard way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 04:15 AM |
| 16 | Tinder girl gets defensive about weight after height questionAre you fucking kidding me? 6'5" female? Karlie Kloss is 6'2" and look at her (she's wearing heels). A 6'5" girl is as much of an outlier as a guy who's like 6'11". | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/03/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Hollywood is meant to be about wish fulfillment. So why do some people, mostly men, get angry when they realize that real life is not like that?That's not how propaganda works. It's more insidious than that. Here is an excellent example of how it works. The tl;dr is this: Everyone knows that Baywatch was an unrealistic show. They took the sexiest actresses and models and made them lifeguards in that fictional universe. They portrayed that level of beauty as normal. But people weren't fooled by it. They knew it was a just a show. But then impressionable viewers who are smart enough to see through that part of it, they are passively accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What makes someone believe in TRP?It's really common for people on TRP to talk about how bummed they are that TRP seems to be true after all. They don't like it. They would much rather live in a world that operated according to the conventional wisdom about women and sex. TRP is primarly for people with low emotional intelligence and it serves as a defense mechanism for narcissists. Bloopers think with their emotions. That's not how you arrive at truth. I think it's revealing that you seem to think it's a problem that red piller… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the media doesn't say that being nice will get men casual sexHe was George Zimmerman before George Zimmerman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 08:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Cheating is always a woman's faultOP's ideas aren't even red pill. They're just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Cheating is always a woman's faultWho is responsible for being faithful? The man, who made a promise to be faithful, or is it the responsibility of some random whore to make sure that the man is faithful to his wife? The other woman never made a vow to make sure you honor your vows. You did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, It's Never the Man's FaultAccording to some users, the man should never be blamed when involved in an affair I've rarely heard this argument. You're probably beating up a straw man here. The argument that I have heard is that male and female infidelity are both wrong but there are important differences. Sexual fidelity and loyalty is not as high of a priority for women as it is for men. It's not uncommon to rich men to openly have mistresses in some countries and their wives tolerate it as long as it just sex. But when a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Feminists: what do you think about pornography?We have all heard this a billion times. The militant lesbians in feminist academia do not agree with the rest of the feminist movement. When people say "feminism," they are talking about Sheryl Sandberg/Gloria Steinem/Jezebel feminism, not Andrea Dworkin feminism. Feminism was never about protecting women from men. It was about liberating women from societal constraints that were put there to protect women from themselves. It's about the freedom to be a whore, not about protecting them from men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't Christian men masculine?Because they think it's wrong. They've internalized some weird ideas about sexuality, gender, etc. They seem to think that if you're not an effete, overly-soft cream puff, then you're "abusive" or "controlling." Christians are conservative. Which means they conserve the dumb ideas from 50 years ago about how men should be and what women want. There's tons of passages that go against their faggoty conception of masculinity and sex but when you point those passages out to them they just explain th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Something ELSE not to do; everybody knows this, yet so many still keep doing itWith business, the risks are going broke. The potential reward is wealth. With marriage, the risks are getting divorce raped. The reward = ? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 02:31 AM |
| 3 | CMV: the media doesn't say that being nice will get men casual sexWho said that it comes from the media? It comes from men's mothers. It's what they grow up hearing. And it comes from frustrated women complaining, "ugh- all the men I date are such assholes, why can't I get a nice guy?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP: What do you guys think about Jordan Peterson's comments on aggressiveness and female sexual fantasies?This is inane. You thought you were being clever linking to "Prisoner of My Desire" because you thought it refuted Peterson's point about female fantasy and Harlequin novels. But it turns out that the book is about a knight who is so turned on by his female captor that he can't control himself and then he turns the tables on her, makes her his captive, and he rapes her and she likes it. After I pointed out that the book is just a typical rape fantasy and that it supports what Peterson said, you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP: What do you guys think about Jordan Peterson's comments on aggressiveness and female sexual fantasies?Are you arguing that if he rapes her back, her raping him doesn't count? I'm learning all kinds of new things here. What the fuck? Did I say that? You clearly just don't get it. The book you linked to is nothing but a stereotypical romance novel. It does nothing to refute Peterson's point. In fact, it supports his point: The guy is masculine (a knight). He is "intoxicated" by her "voluptuous beauty" and "betrayed by his own virility." Meaning, he is so turned on by her that he can't control hims… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: What do you guys think about Jordan Peterson's comments on aggressiveness and female sexual fantasies?Vowing to resist but betrayed by his own virility, noble Warrick is intoxicated by Rowena's sapphire eyes and voluptuous beauty. Yet all the while he plans a fitting revenge--eagerly awaiting the time when his sensuous captor becomes his helpless captive ... and is made to suffer the same rapturous torment and exquisite ecstasy that he himself has endured. If you think that this example disproves Peterson's point then you were too lazy to read past the second sentence in the synopsis that you li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What do you guys think about Jordan Peterson's comments on aggressiveness and female sexual fantasies?That's accurate. Hip Hop is Black people music. They invented it. And when other groups make hip hop, they are aping urban African American styles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Are there any parts of TRP that your "bluepill" acquaintances endorse, not realizing that it's a TRP idea?Everything is RP except for treating people with respect. RP says to treat people with respect if they deserve your respect. And that you should treat women like they are slightly-more-mature than most teenage men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What are some everyday common examples that disprove TRP?I see former sluts who are considered high value by lots of men, in happy healthy relationships. Agreed. Many men don't realize that they place so much value on beauty that there is no room left to also value chastity. If I saw men actually going for chaste 6's and 7's over slutty 8's and 9's, then I would take them more seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL What would happen if women wanted multiple husbands?The question doesn't make much sense. It totally negates most of the other things that women look for in a mate. Women want Alpha but no Alpha shares his woman with other men. If, in some strange Bizarro world, women preferred to be married to three chumps who offer commitment but don't get any commitment in return, men were somehow willing to support a wife who only fucked them on occasion (because she's buys fucking her other two husbands), and the most desirable Alpha men somehow preferred to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Blue and Red pillers argue because they both are after the wrong enemy: women. The real enemy is other men.It's evil but it's not a betrayal because they never agreed to not try to fuck your girl in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Blue and Red pillers argue because they both are after the wrong enemy: women. The real enemy is other men.It's simple. If you can't be monogamous, then don't be in a monogamous relationship. And don't act like temptation to cheat just comes out of nowhere. You decide to put yourself in situations where you will be tempted. Girls who dress really sexy so that they can go to a bar for "girl's night out" and then act like the sexual attention they get from men at the bar is just totally out of their control are full of shit. There are so many subtle relationship violations that happen before actual che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Blue and Red pillers argue because they both are after the wrong enemy: women. The real enemy is other men.When your girl cheats on you, you lost a competition to another man. Why are you getting upset at all women? When you are in a relationship, is it your partner that owes you fidelity, or is it the responsibility of every other person on the planet who they would like to sleep with who is responsible for the integrity of your relationship? When my Stacy cheats on me with Chad, I'm not mad at Chad because I had no agreement with Chad. I did have an agreement with Stacy and she violated it. If wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 09:26 PM |
| 0 | A "nice guy's" desire is often mistaken for entitlement.It's more about them making the mistake of taking seriously the women who say "I'm tired of being used and discarded by selfish assholes- why can't I just find a nice guy?" They're entitlement is not totally misplaced. They are not entitled to sex, but they are entitled to not being lied to by women. And they are entitled to their anger at specific women who said "I'm tired of being used and discarded by selfish assholes- I need a nice guy" but actually meant "I'm tired of being used and discard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you really believe we feminists hate men?Yes, because they hate masculinity. Masculine men offend them and they tolerate effeminate men. It's like how I'm not a misogynist because even though I despise women as a group, I make exceptions for Ann Coulter and Marine Le Pen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | "Would you still date me if I was fat?" -- Squashing one of the biggest shit testsInteresting. That's not how I would interpret the question because it's so axiomatically false. If I could get the thin version of her, then of course I could do better than the fat version of her. I think if her attitude was "I can get away with being fat because I can do better than you" then that would manifest in far worse shit tests than this question- such as her actually getting fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | "Would you still date me if I was fat?" -- Squashing one of the biggest shit testsThat's a direct, logical response that would be good if it were actually a question she was asking and not a shit test. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 12:01 AM |
| 4 | "Would you still date me if I was fat?" -- Squashing one of the biggest shit testsThat's not the ideal answer because that's exactly the trap she has set for you. By posing it as a yes/no question she is trying to put you in the frame of "are you a beta boy who 'loves me for who I am on the inside' or are you a shallow prick who only dates me for my tight body?" Answering the question directly is not the best move because it's a lose/lose question. Following up with "so you only date me because of my body?" is part of the shit test. Better to agree and amplify: "Sure, sounds … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4 Blue and Purple Pills: What is one RP concept you reject?A few problems: Gay men can be masculine. Stop conflating "gay" with "feminine." I think that if you look at cases where girls want to get with their GBF, it's because the GBF is conventionally attractive and physically masculine, even if his personality isn't manly. Look at Matt Bomer, for instance. The girls who wanna bone their GBF are usually lonely. Overweight theater chicks come to mind. Of course girls wanna fuck their gay best friends. That's just the "friendzone" scenario with the gende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Blue and Purple Pills: What is one RP concept you reject?It has everything to do with real life...lol Yeah, this is my biggest beef with BP and feminism. BP ppl keep insisting that women's sexual preferences are trivial, that most of them are turned on sexually by dominant men, that doesn't count because it's "just" sex. LOL. Kinda reminds me of how feminists want the state to intervene to compensate for the so-called wage gap but then when you ask women if they'd date a guy who makes less than them, the answer is usually "no." "Oh, but never mind my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Men should direct their discontent to AlphasRight. So a woman's sexual choices are not her responsibility but are the responsibility of all the men she willingly had sex with. Kinda like how if I take all my money out of my checking account and just start handing it out to people on the street, the fact that I am now broke is not my fault, it's the fault of all the greedy bastards who were willing to take free money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Can someone help me understand what this guy means when he says that feminism's price for women has been that it shuts many poor women out of marriage and limits marriage to the rich? I don't follow his logic at all.The reasoning goes like this: A lot of the cultural changes associated with the feminist movement and 1960's, such as removing the stigma of single motherhood (think about how their children were once called bastards, now single mothers are heroes), social acceptance of promiscuity, etc. have hurt the lower classes harder because they don't have a lot of self-control and those social pressures helped keep them in line and prevented them from making decisions that would ruin their lives. Those cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | For everyone: do you consider red pill, MRAs, PUAs, incels, MGTOW, and the alt right to all be part of the same movement?Nope. MRA's fight against feminism because they think feminism is about inequality in favor of women ad MRA's want what they think is equality. The Alt Right doesn't believe in equality at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the men who have a problem with high n-counts, the issue isn't about the number, but rather what that number represents.You're right. I wouldn't commit to a girl who has had ten sexual partners. And it's not the number itself, in the sense that I don't have a personal beef with the number ten. It's what the number represents, namely, how many guys she's fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: Why do so many women have a hard time wrapping their minds around the simple concept that many men simply find high n count women unattractive?Because they are in denial. You can't un-dick yourself, and most women have done things sexually that they wish they didn't (even if they don't admit it), so accepting that fact means swallowing a pretty painful pill about your own worth as marriage or LTR-material. But also because men are really shitty at explaining why they have that preference. The truth is that men are emotional about sex too. It's such a visceral, emotional, intimate thing to men that the idea of committing to a slut is de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 06:43 PM |
| 6 | A Little Rant About DicksYou're right. Only an incel neckbeard loser would feel threatened by a strong womyn's healthy sexuality. I'm not neckbeard loser, I'm an Alpha who's not afraid to man-up and marry a slut! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 05:56 PM |
| 13 | A Little Rant About DicksIt's one of the reasons why chastity is valued. It's not just evolutionary. Girls who have been dicked-out are of less value. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between a woman that has sex of the first date and one that has sex on the third date?There isn't a meaningful difference. I find it hilarious that there are so-called social conservatives who decry the "hookup culture" because women give it up on the first date or without a date at all when they should do the "traditional" thing and give it up after three dates. It's so arbitrary. They're conservative in that they are trying to conserve the liberalism and libertine sexuality of their post-60's adolescence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [discussion] Men are not entitled to sex....But the thing is, if it's your spouse, they are legally entitled to a relationship with you. Marriage is a legally binding relationship. So are men not entitled to sex even from their wives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Some People's Experiences and Views of Women's Behaviour on this Sub are Downright Weird and Bear Absolutely no Resemblance to MineI've heard many women say that they "felt used" by guys who banged them but didn't want a relationship with them. What often goes unsaid when women vent about that sort of thing is that there was no actual agreement that there was gonna be a relationship. Saying that they were used, or mislead, or that in some way the guy is a jerk because he slept with them but didn't want to be their boyfriend is something I've heard a lot. This is the phenomenon that the OP in the other thread was talking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Let's Try This Again.. CMV: Christian Grey is Red PillNope. Harry Potter is fantasy. 50 Shades is pornography. It's different. Women keep telling us to pay not attention to this book and movie that made a zillion dollars by getting women wet, even though it's the shittiest thing ever written/filmed, because "it's just fantasy." It's ridiculous that we are supposed to pretend that something that aroused so many women can't tell us anything about what women find arousing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Are you a believer of the "Men shouldn't hit women" mentality?Having this as a rule gives some women cover to hit their men, because they "aren't allowed" to hit back. It also allows women to control their men. A common one is when there is a disagreement and the woman will block the doorway, preventing the man from the leaving the room. He has to push through her to leave, at which point she will feign injury, thus automatically making him the bad guy. This is bad for everyone and it gives women a false sense of security. Some women take that rule for gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you think Rowling's doctor husband would have married her, despite her being 6 years older and a single mother, had she not been rich? So does money/status sometimes help a woman's SMV?When you're talking about famous people with hundreds of millions or billions, you're talking about extreme outliers. I wouldn't take anything from it. A more interesting question would be "would he have married her if she made six figures as a VP or some other high-power business career?" I don't think he would have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Only weak men dislike high partner count women and slutsBut TRP guys don't have a problem fucking them, they have a problem committing to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What are the dating or casual sex benefits for a guy who doesn't act "alpha"?I didn't say they fuck the TA's. I personally know a married college professor in his mid-30's who has undergrads coming to his office hours and hitting on him. He has students ask him out over e-mail. I know undergrads who have fucked male professors (who they were not in a relationship with) in their offices during office hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What type of woman is this?Jesus, it's called hyperbole. If I need to be 100% literal, then let me rephrase: From my personal experience, it's very common for women to say they want a sensitive, vulnerable guy but not really mean it. In some cases, I found that out the hard way. In other cases, I've simply observed that they date strong, insensitive guys and then bitch about how insensitive they are. I've never seen one of those women date a sensitive guy and then bitch about how he isn't quite strong enough. Many other g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 08:30 PM |
| 2 | What type of woman is this?Because all women say they want their man to be more open and emotionally vulnerable. And any guy who's ever taken that seriously has realized how BS that is. A lot of us have learned that from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What type of woman is this?According to RP, that's all women. They all want a hot guy who's strong yet sensitive enough to cry once in a while. But if their guy actually cries, it's a turn-off. This is one of the strongest ideas that RP has, IMO- that what women think they want and what they actually want aren't the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What are the dating or casual sex benefits for a guy who doesn't act "alpha"?RP tends to have a narrow definition of alpha. As if it's only giant, muscular assholes who get laid. Right... tall, skinny, fashionable artistic-types never get laid, those beta pussies. Relatively ordinary-looking college professors never have hot undergrads constantly going to their office hours just to be around them, hoping for something to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 07:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Only weak men dislike high partner count women and slutsChad doesn't care about the sexual past of the girl he's banging but he's not marrying her, is he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Gendered differences in "crazy"Don't know if this is true but the consensus seems to be that women are more likely to have cluster B personality disorders than men, especially borderline p.d. Men are more likely to have dark triad traits, which doesn't really seem "crazy" as much as just evil. Not having a conscience doesn't make you insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.I agree. Calling it a double standard is just as dumb as calling the fact that tits are hot on a woman and ugly on a guy a double standard. But since everyone calls is it "the double standard," that's how I refer to it so people know what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?It's complicated. Yes, it would reduce unwanted pregnancies but the birth control itself increased the overall amount of out-of-wedlock births by separating sex from reproduction, perhaps by giving people the illusion of consequence-free sex, thus enabling more promiscuity. Illegitimacy rates were way lower in the US about 50+ years ago. I'm not saying that removing birth control would help. The cat is out of the bag, it's too late. We are not merely talking about unwanted pregnancies. We're tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?No, I haven't heard anyone say it's awarded all the time. I'm admitting that it isn't. What I said is that I heard it is generally not awarded in cases where people have not been married for at least several years. Alimony is decided independent of who initiated the divorce, at least in my state. You can initiate a no-fault divorce on the grounds of incompatibility and get alimony not because you need it but just because you're used to a certain lifestyle, even if your spouse did nothing wrong a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 12:55 AM |
| 6 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?I think everyone thinks of them as separate groups entirely, as they are not called "men and women" but "trans men and trans women" or "FTM" and "MTF." Can trans women get pregnant? Can trans men get a woman pregnant? Are MTF's carrying XX chromosomes? Should we let MTF's compete in women's UFC? Or is it more important to respect biological sex rather than "who they are on the inside" so that we don't have men beating up women for money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?I know. Read the post you referred to and there was nothing about how many divorcees get alimony. After some googling, all I could find on it is that alimony is generally not granted when it was a short marriage. The post was about how women work more today than previously, therefore they deserve more alimony than they used to get. That assumes that alimony was not excessive to begin with. There were also a lot of problems with that post that I could point out if you want, but it's not totally r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?Given the fact that most divorces are initiated by women and women are 97% of alimony recipients, I think that is insane but I'll check it out. Of course, the 97% figure is from 2010. It has increased since then but we don't know by how much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?You don't think there would be less divorce if women weren't as likely to get alimony? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?Illegitimacy rates have gone way up over the last 50 years, as access to birth control and abortion have increased. Also, if people don't want to be married, fair enough. I'm not talking about forcing people to get married when they don't want to. But if you chose to get married and you don't feel like being married anymore, you shouldn't automatically be entitled to alimony. And if marriage is a contract between two people that can be unilaterally undone whenever one person feels like it, then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?The biggest change would be to reform the family courts. Make is so that women are not automatically entitled to alimony and custody. It's fucked up that you can frivolously divorce and then get alimony because "you're used to a certain lifestyle." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?Single motherhood costs us all money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [Q4BP]If deregulating the sexual market place leads to more sex for everyone, would the same thing apply to the financial market?Then where does the slut/stud double standard come from if no one outside of internet outcasts cares about a woman's sexual past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.Not assuming. Saying it's a risk. But also likely because When women are young and are not taking marriage seriously yet, and are dating bad boys, they are picking them based on a different criteria than the one they use to find a husband. In other words, they go after the sexiest guy they can get. That's very different from looking for the best husband they can get. When they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't have to worry about what the guy does for a living or how smart he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.That must be why women are always inflating the number when talking about how many guys they've slept with. Like they say, if a woman says she's been with 30 guys, chances are that prude has only been with ten but is exaggerating to make you want her more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.Now you're just being disingenuous. Everyone knows that calling a woman a slut is a way to shame them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.A guy who has sex with many women is a stud, a positive thing. A girl who has sex with many men is a slut, a negative thing. That double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.If most guys don't care, then where does the double standard come from? If there is indeed a double standard, then clearly most guys care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 12:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.I don't think it is that different. When women are young and are not taking marriage seriously yet, and are dating bad boys, they are picking them based on a different criteria than the one they use to find a husband. In other words, they go after the sexiest guy they can get. That's very different from looking for the best husband they can get. What I hear girls say all the time is something like "yeah, maybe she enjoyed sex with the bad boy more- but what's the big deal?" It may not be a big d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 12:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: When a man really likes a woman, he commits straight away.They discriminate about different things. But you are basically saying the "he's just not that into you" idea, which I agree with. If a guy really thinks you're a catch, they don't fuck around when it comes to trying to get into a relationship with you. Of course, you need to be able to distinguish between the guy who's really trying to lock you down vs the guy who is acting like that just to sleep with you. The best way to do that is to not sleep with anyone who isn't your BF. The part about gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 12:38 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women rarely, if ever, have a ONS so outstanding that years with a SO are overshadowed by one night with Chad.It doesn't have to be a ONS. It could just be an ex. You really don't think that getting with the sexy, exciting yet unstable bad boy when they're young and then finding a stable guy later on is something that happens a lot? There are guys that women want to marry, and there are guys women want to fuck. A big part of Sheryl Sandberg's Lean In bullshit was advice on how young women should focus on careers, date the "bad boy," but not marry the bad boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 12:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: People can't relate or connect to feminism's mascots, because it revolves around female privilege, as TRP says.Yeah, their mascots are obnoxious and just downright unlikable. But I think most people just don't like feminism's ideas. Even children understand sexual dimorphism. But feminism would have you believe that girls are conditioned to play with dolls rather than army men. Think of how many resources it probably takes to make the armed forces, including combat roles, coed-friendly. We are at the point where we are doing really stupid things in order to placate feminists. Think of how many meetings t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Liberals of PPD, why are you a liberal?Were people really happier when they were "forced" to keep their families together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 11:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sexless/lack of relationships are as much of a problem to men, as abusive/bad relationships are to women.I don't think men can be psychologically damaged from not getting laid like women can from being abused. I think that being a male incel corresponds to being a female incel and being an abused female corresponds to being an abused male. Although the types of abuse are probably different. Female abuse tends to be more covert- more gaslighting, more manipulating, more knowing how to press his buttons. A guy being abused by a woman will probably find out that their relationship isn't even real beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP]If deregulating the sexual market place leads to more sex for everyone, would the same thing apply to the financial market?I don't see anyone walking around, pointing their fingers at women and yelling "slut!" I don't see any women walking around, forced to wear a scarlet "S." All I see is men preferring less experienced women for relationships. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Would a sense of entitlement explain why so many people struggle in the dating world?I think it's more the fact that parenting has changed. Parents are too soft. Do people's parents yell at them to sit up straight anymore? Do parents tell their kids they are getting fat? There is an over emphasis on self-discipline and an under emphasis on parental discipline. Parents just let their kids play video games all the time and grow up with shitty personalities. Parents used to discipline. Now when kids are fuck ups who get bad grades, parents just tell them to develop self-discipline … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Are there any measures to better deal with paternity fraud that you'd support?It doesn't matter if you assumed responsibility. You still aren't the father. If you're not the father, you're not the father. Even if you did things that a father would normally do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Are there any measures to better deal with paternity fraud that you'd support?Yeah you can get them from Wal-Mart for about that much. The kind of test that is actually admissible as evidence in court is much more expensive. The $100 ones are for your own peace of mind. If it comes up negative, then you gotta order one of the more expensive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Do men project their emotional connection to sex onto women?I just don't think your theory fits with the idea that men are more likely to be down for casual, commitment-free sex than women. If men were more emotional about sex than women and were simply projecting this onto women, then we would see more women getting gigolos than men seeing prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.No, I just mean whoever they are most attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.I agree, that's what I've seen as well. I still stand by the idea that the best sex partner they can get is better than the best partner they can get. That doesn't mean that it's common for women to just throw themselves at the hottest guys they see. The groupie/star fucker phenomenon shows that women (as long as they are attractive) can fuck "up" in a way that guys cannot. When it actually happens in practice, it's usually women who aren't very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Which one of these women is the hottest/has the highest SMV/gets the most male attention?3 is the hottest. Yes, two is gorgeous but people way overestimate how much men like skinny Victoria's Secret model body-types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.Yes. Personal accountability. The quality of mate you can get is the quality of mate you can get. No point in bitching so that the rules be changed in your favor. Women don't have to date you if they don't want to. But that goes both ways. You don't like it that men prefer low n-count's? Them's the rules. Men don't have to date you if they don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't care about the numerical N count they care about the perception.Re posting this comment of mine from another thread on this topic: If you are a woman, then it doesn't matter what you think on that issue. You don't get to decide what guys want. Unfortunately, the nature of intimacy is that it is exclusive. Having a special connection that only you two have. The response to guys who care about partner count is usually, "what does it matter, you're the one who's with her now." But some guys see sex as more than just leasing a vagina. Also, the odds that it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't care about the numerical N count they care about the perception.A girl that wears leopard print pants and acts like she can suck the chrome off a bumper will get vigorously fucked but passed over for commitment because she is a "slut" even if her n count is 1. Because men would think that her n-count is higher. If there were some way to know for sure that she was a virgin, she would not get passed over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.Uhh... because on this sub we debate these sorts of ideas about how the dating market works? I mean, you clearly care enough to post multiple comments here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Having a low SMV does not make you an oppressed minorityI am referring to the lazy, soft, overweight, video game slug who is suddenly mid-20's watching his friends progress successfully through life and wondering why he can't get a GF. Now you had to narrow it down to a very specific guy. Or more like you had to invent that guy in order for your contempt to not seem mean-spirited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Having a low SMV does not make you an oppressed minorityIt is not the black person's fault that they are called the n-word or passed over for a promotion at work because of the color of their skin. It is not the woman's fault that she is harassed on-line simply because she is a woman. But it's the incel's fault that he was born ugly, or with a low IQ, or that he's 5'2"? Stop pretending like people choose their SMV. A whole lot of it is just the cards you were dealt. Some people really are just ugly and unappealing, and it's not necessarily their faul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Having a low SMV does not make you an oppressed minorityI don't see anyone claiming that it's a disability. Saying it's a disability and saying they shouldn't be shamed for it are two different things. You're attacking a straw man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Having a low SMV does not make you an oppressed minorityWell, the definition of sexual harassment was broadened in about 1992 to include "unwanted advances." Barring anything lewd or any kind of shady "sleep with me to keep your job" quid pro quo, an "unwanted advance" is just a guy asking out a girl who doesn't want to go out with him. "Oh but it made her uncomfortable." So? He couldn't have known that ahead of time. The only way to ensure that women are never under assault by guys they deem unattractive asking them out is to never allow guys to ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.The generalization I was referring to is not hypergamy itself but the tendency of some women to sleep with guys who are out of their league rather than date/marry guys who are in their league. Women wanting the best mate they can get is not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about women sleeping with the best sex partner they can get instead of getting the best mate they can get, because the best sex partner they can get is better than the best BF/husband they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.It seems like that message didn't work too well. Or maybe the women I know are just gullible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.men would absolutely fuck women out of their league if they had the chance I'm not denying this. if your standards are so high that you're unable to find a mate that's your problem, nobody else's. I think you're misconstruing what I'm saying as some kind of bitter attack on women. It's not. I'm not saying that women are morally inferior to men because women hold the cards in the casual sex game. All I'm saying is that since women can fuck "up" and men cannot (since eggs are expensive, sperm is c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | If Chad is the archetype of the natural alpha, who could be the archetype of the social alpha?Even among celebrities he's notorious for sleeping with tons of hot 20-something's. And he's late 40's or early 50's. That's why I'm saying it's not status alone. Other famous celebrities who are in movies with him have talked in interviews about how dumbfounded they are by how David Spade slays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.Well, those graphs were the ones I was referring to. Men rating women's attractiveness is a nice, even bell. Women rating men's attractiveness is not. They see most men as very unattractive, fewer as average, and fewer as attractive. How can so many men be below average? Doesn't that go against the definition of average? I personally know women who have had sex with famous musicians. These women are not the hottest women ever. They're cute, but they wouldn't have been prom queen and they wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | If Chad is the archetype of the natural alpha, who could be the archetype of the social alpha?Yeah, I meant he's a C-lister. But I realized that didn't really answer your question. I think the archetype of the social alpha is the musician. Doesn't even have to be that good or famous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.No, I think you got it backwards. Men are much more realistic about judging leagues than women. Okcupid data bears that out. And you are assuming that women don't chase men who are out of their league. It happens all the time. It's often the reason why some women are stuck being FWB's and can't get boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.Because certain guys can't attract even the women in their league because they're too busy chasing (and sleeping with) guys who are out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For every man who thinks a woman is unattractive, there are 10 who think she is beautiful.Well, maybe there are six who think they're beautiful. Every parent and grandparent thinks their child/grandchild is beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How many unattractive women (your same age) are you surrounded by in your environment?I'm 28, so the attractive women I surround myself with aren't really my same age. All the women I encounter who are 28 and single are single for a reason. Usually, it's that they are fat. Or they have a kid. I don't even consider dating a girl who isn't at least two years younger. 23-24 is ideal because a girl who is still in college isn't about to date a 28 year old. They'd fuck their 28 year old grad student instructor, but they wouldn't date a 28 year old. For the most part, quality girls who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do RP or BP smoke more cigarettes and / or weedI bet RPers tend to do neither. Potheads tend to be losers and cigarette smoking is such a low class thing to do. Both things that RPers are trying very hard to avoid being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | There's no downsides to being picky for the majority of womenNothing wrong with pickiness. A lot of the problems that RPers bitch about are how women aren't picky enough. It's the whole bad boy thing. A lot of women are turned on by bad men. Violent men, even. I think we would all prefer it if women were just into good looking, charming, successful guys. Also, the whole CC phenomenon that RPers bitch about is largely about how women aren't picky- they sleep with tons of guys when they are young. Or they just aren't picky about things that they should be p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Are men comfortable with ambitious women who pursue careers?No, and they shouldn't be. Women don't want their men to be their wives. If they have a great career, they still want their men to be the main breadwinner, to be able to be relied on. Men instinctively know this which is why they are viscerally bothered by high-powered career women. I think career is even worse than a mere irrelevance when it comes to a woman's SMV. I think it can be points off. I think that women who put too much into their careers are doing it for their own self-actualization.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Dick size matters and most women lie about itYep, and this explains the double standard about n-count. Girls can be ruined by big dicks. Not that it actually stretches them out, but that their future husband could have a smaller/ less pleasurable one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Penis Size Doesn't Matter and Most Women Wouldn't Even Recognise a Big Cock if they Saw OneWhen you're talking about penis size, you're talking about length and girth, so it's really about volume. And the variation in terms of volume within the average range that we are told about (between 5 and 7 inches is what I always hear) is pretty big. A girl who has been around has probably had a few 7+ inchers with 5.5+ girth and would definitely notice a substantial difference between that and a 5inch by 4.5 inch one. When you note the volume instead of merely the length, you see that the siz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.It's not an anecdote if it's something I've personally seen over and over for years. You may disagree, and I don't expect my own observations to prove anything to you. But it would be irrational for me to ignore my observations just because I haven't quantified them or conducted a massive study to verify that they are representative. They are not arbitrary. Let me ask you this: Do you disagree that in general, women are able to sleep with guys who are out of their league in terms of the dating m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:30 PM |
| 2 | If Chad is the archetype of the natural alpha, who could be the archetype of the social alpha?David Spade. Short, not built, not even that successful. I mean, he's famous, but he's not exactly a movie star or sex symbol. But he kills it with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:14 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men caring about a woman's partner count and sexual past is a red flag.If you are a woman, then it doesn't matter what you think on that issue. You don't get to decide what guys want. Unfortunately, the nature of intimacy is that it is exclusive. Having a special connection that only you two have. The response to guys who care about partner count is usually, "what does it matter, you're the one who's with her now." But some guys see sex as more than just leasing a vagina. Also, the odds that it doesn't negatively affect the sexual aspect of the relationship are sli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.The problem he's talking about is women conflating the "marriage league" and the "sex league." There are women out there who let guys who are out of their league have sex with them and then they'll scratch their heads wondering why they can only get FWB's and never BF's. I actually don't think that women are that confused about sex league vs. relationship league. I think they are making a conscious decision- "If I put out for that guy, I reckon I have a 5% chance of getting him to commit to some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot separate between men wanting sex from men wanting marriage.They don't, but it's a generalization that we all have noticed. People disingenuously pretend not to notice the trends that even the most dense people notice. It's willful ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Nonverbal communicationIt can be counter-productive to talk about things when the thing is too hurtful or risky to be honest about. For instance, if your wife doesn't want to have sex very much and the reason is because she simply isn't sexually attracted to you, is she really going to say that? Or is it going to be, "well, you should make me feel loved more by doing thoughtful things like giving flowers and doing chores around the house and giving me foot massages and then I'll magically feel like having sex with you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Males Benefit More From Monogamy, in Aggregate, than FemalesIt does benefit women because how many women can an alpha really support? And are beta's going to be willing to support the alpha's women and children in exchange for sex? In a totally patriarchal society, where husbands were chosen for daughters by their fathers, they weren't enforcing monogamy as part of a conspiracy to get beta's more pussy. They were doing it to ensure the safety of their daughters by getting them a husband who would take care of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do some RPillers blame crime and violence on men not getting laid?I don't think it's just about cycles. It's also about testosterone. I could be wrong, but aren't high T women much hornier than low T women? Well, even low T men have more than high T women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Does equality degrade sex?I don't think it's "opposites attract" as much as the fact that men and women just prefer different things in a partner. Women tend to want a guy who makes more than them and has more education than them but men don't care as much about women's income/ education. So I guess it depends on whether or not women's preference for a higher income/ higher education guy is hard-wired or it it will go away as soon as women make as much money as men so that they don't "need" a higher income/ education guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/16 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do many incels and redpillers get upset at women wanting 'top' guys, when they also want 'top' girls?Men have been kept in the dark about what women are attracted to because of their dual mating strategy. Men have been told for years that women aren't sexual in the same way men are, women are more emotional and more into love and intimacy, they are deeper than men. So in order to get a woman you have to be a good provider, be successful, and woo her by showing how much you love her and how devoted you would be to her. Now that we live in a "hook up" culture and men can plainly see that women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Height doesn't matter as much as people think when it comes to attractionI understand that it goes both ways in that there are women who are turned down for being too tall. And I understand that height is just one of many factors so it's not an end-all be-all. But I think that people confuse physical characteristics with confidence. In other words, tall guys can seem confident even if they aren't and short guys can seem like weak, timid little boys even if they are confident. People subconsciously practice physiognomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Height doesn't matter as much as people think when it comes to attractionI thought what you were saying is that short guys have trouble because of their lack of confidence due to their height as opposed to their lack of height. Was that not what you were saying? Seems like an attempt to deflect. "The problem isn't that women are shallow, it's that men are weak and don't have enough confidence." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Are women attempting to legislate away the consequences of pursuing/fucking bad boys?I think it's obvious that the basis of welfare for single mothers is the idea that single motherhood just somehow mysteriously happened to them. I don't think it's a conscious attempt to make bad-boy chasing safe. I think that propaganda has us all seeing women as victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill, how do you feel about men befriending women they are interested on sleeping with?In a lot of cases it's a weird guy who won't leave a hot girl alone and their "friendship" is just her appeasing him because she's not a bitch so she's not just gonna tell a guy to fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 10:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Height doesn't matter as much as people think when it comes to attractionThat's like saying that the main reason why they don't like guys with small dicks is because they lack confidence because of their small dicks. But no amount of confidence will make up for a penis that is too small for a woman to feel anything during sex. Same with height. If a guy is so short that a woman feels like a giant next to him and can't feel safe and small and feminine when she's with him, no amount of confidence can fix that. Blaming the short guy for his lack of success is just addin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How often is the "girls date assholes" just a result of jealousy of another man, who is probably equal or greater SMV?When "girls like assholes" is said by a "nice" guy lamenting his romantic failure, it is definitely just jealousy. A lot of guys like that still see the world according to high school: Jocks are the assholes of the world. When you get away from that Hollywood trope and actually observe the world, you find that there are plenty of nerdy outcast assholes who don't get girls and genuinely good-natured guys who are stereotypical masculine bro's who get girls. But... girls do kinda like assholes. Eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Red Pillers, what parts of Blue Pill ideology do you believe are true?Blue Pill is kind of just a circlejerk making fun of TRP, I thought. So I'm not exactly sure what the BP ideology is. I assume that it's the conventional pop culture wisdom on romance, but I bet even a lot of BP people disagree with a lot of that stuff. The main thing I disagree with about TRP is their view of male infidelity. I do think that female infidelity is worse than male infidelity, but not that much worse. TRP would have you believe that the ideal setup is a marriage where the wife is p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Blue pillers, what parts of red pill theory do you believe are true?What women say their preferences are and what they reveal their preferences to be through their actions are often shockingly different. Sometimes to a degree that actually disturbs me as a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What combination of the following would produce the best sex for you?The modern, romantic conventional wisdom states that for women, sex is all about love and emotions and feeling close to the person and whatnot. But we live in a culture where many women are openly promiscuous during their college years and do the exact opposite of what the conventional wisdom says women do. Contrary to the stereotypes, women are not all "just following their hearts" so they can "find the one" but end up sleeping with jerks along the way because "they didn't know any better" or "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Has feminism has done women a disservice by painting men in an antagonistic light?Not as much as it has done men a disservice by ruining women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | An odd sex question for women of PPDDuh and duh. That's why I phrased the question the way I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/16 06:33 AM |
| 1 | An odd sex question for women of PPDJust curious- for you, how long does the instrument have to be to stimulate the anterior/ posterior fornix? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone can get a divorce for any reason, isn't this a good thing?Being able to unilaterally divorce your spouse without having to prove fault means that marriage does not exist. What is a marriage contract if you can just void the contract on a whim? If a woman makes a vow to stay with a man until death and then leaves just because she got tired of him, you don't see anything wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Is male entitlement behind domestic violence, school shootings and the events like the Orlando shootings?So when a nutcase goes on a rampage, the natural feminist/ cuck response is that it's because men suck and masculinity is to blame and everyone seems ok with that response. It's absurd. Using fancy terms like "toxic masculinity" is a way for bitter people to blame all men for the behavior of some violent men without actually proving that maleness is at the root of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Is Obesity the reason for the warped SMP in America?Duh. 3/4 of adults in the US are overweight or obese. It did not used to be that way. Not only does obesity make you less attractive, but it can kill your sex drive by messing up your endocrine system/ hormones. Not to mention the psychological blow to your sex life by making you feel less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 10:29 PM |
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