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| 37 | Found on another sub but I think it fits hereLol, no. He'll sleep with her, dump her, and tell everyone she's "easy" and came onto him and now won't leave him alone, even if he messages HER multiple times a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 130 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...Marriage is not the ultimate goal. She probably left behind a lot of self-growth milestones for this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 16 | If a man says he was abusedUnless you're explicitly asking what went wrong, or cornering them on something they clearly haven't healed, it's none of your business. And it's definitely unfair to have it foisted upon you. If he's fresh out of it, and still trying to date, but can't stop processing it with you, you need to break up with him, and let him heal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 4 | the shit ppl do for cloutPosts like this make me want to go back to college... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 19 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationI straight up know women who don't get brought to orgasm, but their partners harass them when they go off to finally masturbate. Can you imagine if men had to go through that? The fact that we're still halfway into dudes makes zero sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenLess testosterone, on average. It makes a difference. There were a few studies done a few years ago with huge samplings. I can look for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | If I had the money I would make bank account specifically to lend out money to women trying to escape abusive situationsI know it will have to come to that. Nobody believed he was hitting and cheating until it was publicly exposed. And he had to also assault a MAN before it gained any traction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 4 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenAmazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 16 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenExactly. American women have been duped horrendously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:30 PM |
| 29 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenYeah! Because they're sick of dealing with stupid shit from dudes!! And it'll make its way to the West, too. It's so bizarre how everyone thinks the US is a feminist country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 22 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenI really like it when Asian women end up tearing my men apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:57 PM |
| 23 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenIt's the same stereotype that Indian kids are massively smarter than western kids. There's a small pool of very highlighted groups in those countries. And yes, you are correct. The stereotype has been more than enough to create waves of dating habits, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 13 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenOh, no. Lady. It'll be the Asian women pulling some triggers on bad marriages. Heh. I wasn't clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 21 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenMass divorces, but I could be wrong. They're not quite yet SM immobile, but they've found their last leg. Many are desperately returning to women of their own race, and even pulling the loyalty card. Ha. HAHAHAHAHAHA. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 53 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenIt's a few things, including that. Asian women are markedly more feminine than white women, however, asian women actually expect more out of a long term partner and tend to not build a man. It's the same thing that happened with the mail order Eastern brides. I say good riddance, personally. There aren't as many white women "freaking out about it" as MGTOW and the Alt-Right are boasting about. In fact, a lot of the "freaking out" is latent trauma finally hitting now that white women aren't being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:05 PM |
| 75 | NYT: Globally the Alt - Right is targeting Asian WomenIt's already over. Asian women are breaking out of the fetish stuff, and calling it out more and more. "I don't need no man," is no longer a purely Western statement. White women are the next sad sacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 15 | He forbade his sex doll bride from instaHe's trying to prove a point to actual women that he doesn't need us. Which is fine, imo. Mutual split. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 12 | If I had the money I would make bank account specifically to lend out money to women trying to escape abusive situationsHe makes subtle jabs at me at least once every call, and also, the boys occasionally will say things like "we didn't brush our teeth, oh no!" jokingly, and I'll have to correct them so he doesn't get ideas. They're 3.5 and 5.5 years old now, so it's not entirely that simple. He's also extremely racist and sexist, so I have to constantly just very calmly say "that is not appropriate" when he says something batshit crazy to the boys. His visitation times unnerve the crap out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:27 PM |
| 14 | If I had the money I would make bank account specifically to lend out money to women trying to escape abusive situationsIt does, but the amount of pure sabotage made it harder than any logistical work I did. After we got to his moms, she tried to have me go back to him, too. Then she had me sign a CO stating that we're living with her. She would follow me around her home criticizing me, and I had no car, so I had to take the boys (1.5 yrs and 3.5 years at the time) for three hour long walks in the evening every day for 8 months. Eventually, her neighbor helped me get back to my home state. I've been away for almo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 16 | If I had the money I would make bank account specifically to lend out money to women trying to escape abusive situationsI am. It took a while, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 35 | If I had the money I would make bank account specifically to lend out money to women trying to escape abusive situationsThis happened to me, and I started a GoFundMe. My estranged family picked me up, had me share my fund, then kicked me out, and I had to go back to him before HIS mom finally saved us. There need to be more actual centers. People will take women's money, then ditch them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 110 | He forbade his sex doll bride from instaThis is one reason I approve of sex dolls. Keep that crap away from human women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:11 PM |
| 13 | The overwhelming majority of men in a woman's life are a risk factor.It rly do b like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 49 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.He's not joking. He wishes he could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 73 | Actress Margaret Qualley caught conspicuously making out with Shia LaDouche after he was sued for abusing FKA Twigs and giving her an STD. Pick Mes Need Psychological Help.They aren't stupid. In fact, they're smart enough to know that nobody cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:38 AM |
| 117 | I genuinely don’t understand why male redditors have a sub for every specific type of genitalia 🤢🤢It's a dehumanization thing. They do it so we're less inclined to and less able to fight them. This is what cruel domination looks and feels like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:57 AM |
| 87 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteDo not resuscitate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 37 | Why do friendship breakups hurt more than relationship breakups? :(Because friendships are usually more genuine. It's an actual loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 10 | You got to love how they reduce a supposedly strong female Protagonist into a joke. /s. So many things wrong in this movie, the plot and it’s characters!!! If you have watched it you will know what I mean.Is there a reason they went for an oversexualized Jessica Rabbit look? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:33 PM |
| 48 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidThey are literally jealous of the horses. It's the female equivalent of motorcycles. Except we don't get violent. We just avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 66 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidIf men hate you, you're doing something right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:35 PM |
| 22 | Before you let him spend the night or weekend or even let him know where you liveEffing amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 124 | Before you let him spend the night or weekend or even let him know where you liveIt's amazing how life punishes kindness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Another example of a woman encouraging another woman to accept lessI just thoroughly read back through, and you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Another example of a woman encouraging another woman to accept lessI do not have male friends. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Another example of a woman encouraging another woman to accept lessI say "I love you" to all of my friends. Because I love them, and I'm allowed to love them. And they say it back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with anti-single mother bias?I've had multiple marriage offers since my divorce. Way more than I did as a skinny, young virgin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 21 | Uncertain about the future with the FDS guidelinesIVF is a great option. Please never forget, LVM and NVM will wreck your life more quickly and permanently than loneliness or fertility panicking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with anti-single mother bias?Thank you. I needed to hear that. Really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with anti-single mother bias?I'm a single mom even if they don't hate me. That needs to not be lumped in with a bunch of insults. I didn't tank my marriage, and was essentially forced into leaving. That's not my fault in the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄It makes very limited sense, imo. IQ and efficiency are two different qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Yes, the tests originally were slightly more geared towards literacy. Modern tests actually value faster completion and will penalize test takers who take a long time, yet answer correctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 15 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Depp is an evil POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 10 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Modern men are in a gender cult. It's a safety in number kind of deal, and they're banking on women being "nice and fair" in order to keep it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 13 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄He literally is still blaming the victim for "ruining" him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 11 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄We scored higher than them on the originals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 12 | Age gap relationships are dangerous for women mentally and oftentimes physically. The odds are high that this man killed his 26 year old wife who was apparently planning to divorce him.Lawl. They probably argued with her about it too. "BuT iS hE rEALly tHAt bAD?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 15 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳She needs a new vibrator that will complain less. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:11 AM |
| 12 | DVDo not take the PPO down, even if his family begs. Get sole physical and legal, and don't give him a chance to get ahold of you. Find a stable place around people who will support your new life immediately. Make sure nobody around you is speaking with him behind your back. I'm so glad the worst is over. Enjoy the (relative) quiet. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:11 PM |
| 0 | I rejected a LVM and he had a nervous breakdown. We remained friends but he is somewhat manipulative and is trying to use a sexual/intimacy issue he has to get me to feel sorry for him.I'm female, and I used context clues about your post to draw my conclusions. Have a nice day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I rejected a LVM and he had a nervous breakdown. We remained friends but he is somewhat manipulative and is trying to use a sexual/intimacy issue he has to get me to feel sorry for him.You deleted the post, so I can't point out how you're now lying about how disinterested in you he actually was. I wasn't making you out to be a huge victim. I actually thought he was sleazy for not just ending it when he was clearly on the fence about you. If a guy likes you, he'll try harder to impress you. I'm wondering if you were this nasty with him, and that scared him off. It was made pretty clear that he was super lukewarm towards you, and I am not the only one who came to that conclusion… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | I rejected a LVM and he had a nervous breakdown. We remained friends but he is somewhat manipulative and is trying to use a sexual/intimacy issue he has to get me to feel sorry for him.Like many modern women, she's not prepared to hear that men will string women along while not being interested. It's a situation-shock at first. Notice how she pointed out that she wasn't interested in him "just for him to dump her." Assuming men have all women's best interest at heart is dangerous. Getting out of that mindset is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 2 | I rejected a LVM and he had a nervous breakdown. We remained friends but he is somewhat manipulative and is trying to use a sexual/intimacy issue he has to get me to feel sorry for him.I read it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:05 AM |
| 3 | I rejected a LVM and he had a nervous breakdown. We remained friends but he is somewhat manipulative and is trying to use a sexual/intimacy issue he has to get me to feel sorry for him.He's not that into you, but doesn't know why. Sounds like he broke up with you, but made YOU pull the trigger (as most men do). And yet, the rejection part hit him in the ego. He can't do his own dirty work, but is just offended that you did it for him, making him look like the loser. Please don't look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 10 | Maybe it’s because they don’t actually care?!Mmmmmhmph! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 26 | Maybe it’s because they don’t actually care?!We dun' take kindly ta yer type 'round herrrre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:25 PM |
| 17 | Just a thoughtThe best thing you can do is refuse to pander to them. It is wrong to hate a person for existing, but it is absolutely acceptable to hate what they're doing to your demographic, and take as many steps, personally and politically, as you can to protect yourself. It's sad to realize how bad things actually are, but having your own slice of the world, that people can't intrude on and disrespect you in is magical. Stuff like this is why women end up marching, and you really are not alone in your way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:21 PM |
| 11 | In movies and books women are portrayed as the "bitch, mean girl" but boys never get portrayed realistic. But this is how men are in real life not hot or nice but just cruel bullies. Never trust men.Culture lies about both genders. In opposite ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 63 | What are some characters in films you think are HVMs or women who follow the ‘strategy’ (FDS)?Leela of Futurama! And she hits close to home. She's competent but loving. She gets stuff done. She's all-around a great person. She might get dragged for dating Fry, but I like what they have. Also, Lana from Archer is naturally very FDS, but for some reason the writers continually ruin her by pairing her up with Archer or Cyril - arguably the two worst choices of boyfriend in the entire series. It's a shame HVW aren't a niche market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:53 AM |
| 12 | Negative reviews of FDS on YouTubeOf course they are? Society demonizes women, and no matter what we do, we're doing something horrendously wrong. Point that out, and you're guilty of even more treachery against good ole' 'Murica. The absolute worst thing we can do is stop giving people our time, effort, love, and bodies. We're being held hostage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 15 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.I'd argue that they see them as "fuckable," but older women won't have any of it. Plenty of older women have ridiculous amounts of sexual options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 154 | NEVER tell scrotes that you’re a virginThey're intentionally rough with virgins, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:45 PM |
| 21 | YuppI seriously dig it when they relate to my struggles, but since many of my struggles revolve around dudes who have tried to ruin my life, they often feel cornered into demonizing me. I actually think this is a huge reason men "can't relate" or "don't understand" women. Nobody wants to feel bad about what their gender is doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 62 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.Yes, and she settled for allowing him to grow soybeans in her land, but he must pay her to do it. The idea that old women are silly, stupid, horny messes is a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 91 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.I know 80 year old women who have to bat men off with a stick. My ex husband's grandmother lives all alone on a huge property and men continue to try to move in with her. She's had to have her daughter act as a bouncer! Lol. But you can bet the second she shows any interest, suddenly they'll be "into twenty year olds." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 100 | Why does it throw me off and affect me so much when LVM from my past reach out to me even though I have a healthy relationship now?It's shitty when men leave you when you want them, and then come back to sabotage you after all of the pain. I'm amazed how good they are at never providing value at the right time. They're only going to give their best when somebody else is doing better. .it's never actually about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 25 | The fact that this mentality is still prevalent and even encouraged in India is sickening.Many men in the West have similar ideas. It's a very impersonal way to break women down into parts, and assign any value they can, when they don't have the critical thinking skills to actually make good conclusions. They would prefer to buy a new shirt at Walmart, rather than find a $150 coat at a thrift store, just because there is a certain security in the concept of virginity for them. If you're a virgin, you're less likely to have STDs, be promiscuous in general, or be able to tell if he's b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."That is such a miniscule percentage difference, though. The norm is clearly half and half. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."We've always been able to do stuff. Do you really think 16th century peasant women didn't know how to live independently? That's why they've had to demonize us, and convince us we aren't whole without them. We're actually really good at being on our own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Yeah.... That one depressed me a bit. He played it well, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Most modern men actively want women to fail. They wish to brigade and demean us as a means of feeling powerful. It's despicable, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Who didn't... He didn't play Snape. He WAS SNAPE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Yes, I also got a message from some random guy who has never met me that I definitely need a man, but my standards are way too high, linking this post. It's like he didn't even read it, but he confirmed everything I already stated. I don't need one, but they'll do whatever they can to tell me I'm wrong, when they don't even know me. So bizarre. When men go MGTOW, the correct response is "okay, have a good life." Not "OMG, YOU N33D A WOM@NNN!" The same goes the other way, since we're not actually… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Neither men nor women are really "needed" by the other gender. I've heard that statement too, and I wonder who is creating lies this overt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:33 PM |
| 9 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Same!!! Most have really good jobs and younger boyfriends. Ha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 42 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."That's what I don't get. Neither gender is really disposable, in the grand scheme of things. There's a biological reason we have 50% men, and 50% women. Being married or having sex isn't a decent litmus test for worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:37 AM |
| 209 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”She needs to get her life together. He may have been "kidding," except he wasn't. They are never kidding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 20 | Grand pickmeisha. Precious “husband” is going to be walking all over this doormat in no timeI'd say throw out the entire sister, but her sister threw her out first. Womp Womp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 5 | A very misogynistic tv show FOR KIDS.HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No. Rock Lee might have liked her a little more. That could have worked. Naruto kinda loves Hinata, but doesn't he also insult her a lot? These shows, while they include female characters, are not for girls to watch, imo. Using our likeness as a lure for pre-teen boys is the extent of which we are welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 8 | A very misogynistic tv show FOR KIDS.SAME. We're really not supposed to bend over backwards for nonchalant dudes. Naruto is also pretty bad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 49 | I feel sickHoly shit, please leave... If he cared, he wouldn't have done it. A.G.A.I.N. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 11 | Please gods tell me this is fake #justboisontinderthings...this can't be real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.It's very often women who perpetuate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 5 | How would you get out of a hostage situation?(stay at home mom)Discreetly document that you are doing ALL of the parenting. When the time comes, he'll use the kids to harass you, and demonize you for leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 6 | How do you let go of anger for men who wronged you?I did not think of it that way. I need to redact that, and it honestly never occured to me that finding and maintaining justice is more important than "inner peace" crap that we consider feminine nowadays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 12 | I can’t believe I’ve ever had any doubts this dude wasn’t nuts.Modern men are not attention-starved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:38 AM |
| 90 | “Opening up” to menDon't. He will absolutely lose interest if you show him your weak spots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:37 AM |
| 24 | It's hard to meet HVW and have fulfilling female friendships.Men throw each other under the bus all the time (often for a woman). When you find HVW, hang onto them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:47 PM |
| 70 | Such.. bitterness.Because we have a lot to lose from choosing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:41 PM |
| 94 | How do you let go of anger for men who wronged you?...How are you in any way responsible for how they treated you? You can hold onto it. If they did it before, they'll likely do it again. You can forgive them without forgetting. And a little bit of anger at the memory is karma for them, not baggage for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 68 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.He hates her. He may not be aware of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 201 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.He likely enjoys it because it causes her pain. It's a domination thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 7 | An epiphany I had about my dad who was raised by a single motherThey're way more common than you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 16 | Reminder to never be nice to disgruntled menMy ex step dad is still trying to ruin my life and still tries to talk badly about me to my family just because I didn't agree with my mom running him off. He's also against women's rights. If you give an inch... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 8 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?Oh Dear Lord, don't let this dude mess up your studies... Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:38 PM |
| 15 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.Lying guttersnipe detected. DISPOSE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:08 AM |
| 83 | Scrote trying to move in with HVW.Hahahahahahahaha. Hehehehe. HAHA. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA!! AAAAAAAAH! No. Her accomplishments will become "his," and his failures will be because of "her." Hahahahahahahahaha. No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:49 PM |
| 11 | A Church Girl's RantChristianity is an ecclesiastically patriarchal religion. As most religions are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody else get this trash on Facebook? These game ads? Like, really? And the rest of the game is spent having her desperately trying to survive in the ads, when she chooses to leave.Omg... I can't... XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Does anybody else get this trash on Facebook? These game ads? Like, really? And the rest of the game is spent having her desperately trying to survive in the ads, when she chooses to leave.Lily has a rough time, I see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 21 | Does anybody else get this trash on Facebook? These game ads? Like, really? And the rest of the game is spent having her desperately trying to survive in the ads, when she chooses to leave.My smile is a mirthless one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 29 | Does anybody else get this trash on Facebook? These game ads? Like, really? And the rest of the game is spent having her desperately trying to survive in the ads, when she chooses to leave.I saw that one. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 11 | The sole function of the clitoris is female orgasm. Is that why it’s ignored by medical science? NSFW?Because it is viewed as a failed penis that is vestigial and unnecessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice and discussion about the harms of porn useIt takes two minds not wandering to sustain that kind of thought control. If he's checked out and not thinking of you, your mind will probably wander to. It's a good goal to try to reach, but that's a pretty high bar. Especially for someone who hasn't wifed you up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone else get triggered from casual sex scenes in movies/TV shows?I used to. Since then, I've orgasmed from sex and instead of wanting to cry, I can't watch it because it gets me hot, and I get really embarrassed. I'm really sorry you went through that. It's much less scary when you don't associate it with pain and humiliation. Hopefully, you can get to that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | We regret to inform you ...They're on the periphery, naturally. Society is one big "GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN, IM COOKING," to them. That's why it's important to make whatever they're doing look really useful and refined. Famous chefs are usually male because they get kicked out of every kitchen that they go into, on the basic level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | The ways men project and gaslightWell, sure, but you can still basically see the gradient. And even when you can't, it can be assumed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 30 | The ways men project and gaslightI don't understand how these thoughts aren't just common knowledge at this point. Effing ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 17 | We regret to inform you ...(like our children , too, imo) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:55 PM |
| 125 | We regret to inform you ...I'm not sure why this argument is actually important. First of all, women aren't huge credit seekers, because we don't need to constantly justify our existence. Second of all, women are as intelligent as men, and we have proven so again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again. We know we have worth. If a man doesn't know it, maybe he's just an idiot? If men, as a class, don't know it, then maybe they are just idiots? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮Half of man's "great literature" being taught to high school students should be considered child abuse. The protagonists are often awful people who overtly dehumanize women, and the writers usually did too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:44 AM |
| 9 | Men made up the G-spot so you could feel bad about not orgasming. 82 percent of men, in fact.The g-spot is real, but there are also many other clusters of nerves in different spots, and they vary in size for different women, of course... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Do not trust men, even childhood friends WILL betray you without a second thought^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 8 | What’s a pick me man called??A dirty liar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 168 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyPorn and cruel men have ruined it ALL for me. I wasn't born to put a bunch of angry people's penises in my mouth while they call me names for it. In any other day and age, that's a "fight for your life and honor" situation, but nowadays it's "fun?!?!" What?! I was exposed to it at around 13, and I still feel the same way at 26. The idea that it's powerful is a lie. If it was powerful, random dudes on the street wouldn't be harassing women for it, and women wouldn't be crying, choking, and gaggin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayOh, of course not. That came off the wrong way. I'm condemning his entire brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:39 PM |
| -1 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayHe may have not even done it intentionally. Like, that kind of manipulation of soulful emotions just comes naturally. When I said something, he seemed to not even understand what I meant. He was sorry that there was "a break," but not sorry that he was the one who sporadically enforced it (likely to chase tail) and then tried to crawl back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 9 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayExactly! It's actually kind of narcissistic of me to assume it was anything other than a cursory glance that he had to excuse with some bullshit romance rhetoric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:04 AM |
| 104 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayI'm currently in this headspace with someone who bounced back and forth between being really mean to me, then telling me he was in love with me. In the back of my mind, I still think he's going to come back and give me some scraps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Just sayin'I know maybe three couples where the man is HV and earns all of the money, but he isolated his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 12 | Controversial opinion: it's better to remain childless than to have children with a shitty dudeThank you. He's against women's rights, and repeatedly tried to prevent me from divorcing my ex - who still harasses me constantly with fake concern for the boys' welfare. He pretends to not know how to find out when my oldest son's school breaks are, so he has an excuse to still message me. I keep asking him to not message me unless it pertains to the boys, and as SOON as I say that, he comes down with a slew of questions about the boys, as if I haven't basically been doing it all on my own for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 57 | Controversial opinion: it's better to remain childless than to have children with a shitty dudeMy life has essentially been ruined by a LVM, who cheated, drank and hit, and now is remarried to a woman who has custody of zero of her children from four different marriages. I was encouraged by a father figure who is an anti-feminist to never grow up to be a crazy cat lady, but he didn't have the care to run off a dude I was too naive to have been dating. He also condemned casual dating, and gave me the whole lock-and-key speech, to the point where I valued my hymen more than my dignity. He b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 14 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄It's bizarre how these guys are usually the same types who denigrate black people for black-on-black violence. But when it's white men, of course, they're just victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The worst of "female qualities" usually have to actually come from a man. Because we don't actually pull crap like this, and are usually way too accommodating. :)Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Just sayin'My God. Hopefully sooner than later, for her sake. I'm lucky. Mine assaulted someone else the same he he assaulted me (though he'd done it repeatedly for years), so FINALLY everyone took it seriously and he went to jail. Now I have the kids, and we live 8 hours away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 67 | Scrote Mad After Opening MarriageI guarantee he's been cheating the entire time anyway. They only tell half of the story ever, and this is already bad on him. Imagine what he's neglecting to tell us. ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 6 | Just sayin'May I ask where you are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 18 | Just sayin'Dear Lord. Why did my teenage brain take men so seriously?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Just sayin'Why do you feel stupid for that? Children are wonderfup, but you don't even need a man to have one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:49 PM |
| 32 | Just sayin'^ FDS needs to have you be an admin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 37 | Just sayin'So? Some jobs women are genuinely way better at. We live in a society that requires work. They're going to have to deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 9 | The worst of "female qualities" usually have to actually come from a man. Because we don't actually pull crap like this, and are usually way too accommodating. :)In those scenarios, the only actual problem is lack of genuine female independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 13 | The worst of "female qualities" usually have to actually come from a man. Because we don't actually pull crap like this, and are usually way too accommodating. :)I'm positive the experience was jarring af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:49 PM |
| 117 | Just sayin'Then why are they so pissed when we choose career over family? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 46 | Just sayin'"While I call you a bitch during sex, and to my friends, and my side girl." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimumGet job? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 26 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?In a way that won't get me shot as a messenger, yes, I would, and I have. I've also been on the other side as a faithful spouse who was "cold," and everyone knew for months and I didn't. Nothing made me more angry than walking around with toilet paper on my shoe and people not saying anything. Maybe they assumed I knew, but I sincerely wish they would have double-checked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 56 | They know....they do know!Inspect his family, too. I avoided LVM behavior, but still ended up with a LVM. His MOM paid for his car, his bills and his college tuition. And even then, it turns out he almost got kicked out multiple times for racism. They can present as very high value when it's called for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 48 | They know....they do know!"That male loved that woman." OH, HOW THE TIDES DO TURN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsBeen there. Former Orthodox Christian. Women have a lot of power in the church, but they even state that God is exclusively male and the Church is female. What's being said is so blatant, it's ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 24 | Jeannie Mai says she’s Taking a 'Submissive' Role in her marriage to Young Jeezy. Sis has been really guzzling that Hotep Koolaid.This is why we can't see every woman as an ally. Women like this are also the ones levying to have women's rights taken away. Basically, what she's saying is that she's rich, and has options if things don't pan out, or if he does an awful job. He may lead well, he may not, but at the end of the day, average women don't have the ability to "fake submit" and then bounce back if the guy screws us over. This is coming from a deep place of privilege, and absolutely should not apply to a huge chunk of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 52 | Men insist they're not sexist for hating this upcoming movie that they haven't actually seen. In reality, if this were a similar trailer with a white male cast, they would keep their comments to themselves instead of spewing about it *pandering to diversity*.They genuinely think Ironman and the Hulk are more realistic than female agents. I swear, they're toddlers... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 173 | Rant: does anyone else feel like it is a cruel trick that there is such a disparity between men and women?Women have always been saying this. We just rarely publish it in an act of sexually and socially dominant aggression. And when we do, it gets swept under the rug, hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:20 AM |
| 46 | These scrotes ain't loyal, but we knew that. 🙄 Here's an idea: how about you tell your GIRLFRIEND she's beautiful, not me. Boy bye. 😤This happened to me. He told me off the bat he wanted to marry me. I looked at his profile, clicked on his fiancee's link, and her entire wall was covered with "where the hell is my fiance? I'm handling this pregnancy all alone!" "If someone knows where "X" is, please tell me!" She wasn't too attractive, but she was about at the same level as me. He knocked her up and got bored of providing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 35 | are men ok lolIt's a good thing he said something! We were all under the impression that all of our female friends were having mind blowing orgasms and we were being left out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How on earth do you let it get this far...If she's not insane and making this up, then she's insane for still planning a wedding and "tricking" him. I somewhat suspect she's the bad guy here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 29 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsYou aren't alone. It's actually really difficult to remain religious in a community that devalues you for your gender. It's actually really unfair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 6 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.Same with my father figure. He's against women's rights, but has been secretly cross dressing since his teens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 9 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.I wish thoughts like these were more commonplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:41 AM |
| 8 | For anyone who’s struggling or feeling vulnerable after leaving a guy just remember..I hope you have full custody. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:35 PM |
| 47 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.It's not a compliment. He's trying to stunt her, and other women who want to be like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Another proof you shouldn’t tell men your insecuritiesWhy would men want monogamy when they can get everything they want otherwise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteIt's very straightforward. They DO see women (including themselves) as secondary. They want to win the easy way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | High value women exercise their right to vote!...That's actually a really good point. I apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Several magazines have actually hired this person to write articles about sex..... .... Lemons taste way less offensive, IMHO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How to manage finances once you’re married?File the taxes by yourself? TurboTax does not require two people if you have his info. File separate? You aren't under rules of coverture, and men should never by fully trusted, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:30 AM |
| 12 | How to manage finances once you’re married?This goes against all the soulmate stuff that gets pedaled, but is there a reason he should know much much you make exactly? Lowballing it gives you two advantages. 1. He feels like a provider, and 2. You have a safety net. You can do it by just doing it. Another great method is buying jewelry that's worth something. That's the more honest way of having a safety net that you can use, brag about, and cash out on if necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:45 AM |
| 17 | How to manage finances once you’re married?Have a secret savings account in case he screws you over. That's high value af, and many wealthy women have many backup plans. Do not tell him. Pump up his ego. But be prepared with multiple plans in case there's "other woman" fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?....does it count if we don't have men because we don't go near them, as a principle? I had to chase off two different stalkers this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | High value women exercise their right to vote!Ill happily pounce on her, and not in spite of being pro-woman. She has a huge history of demonizing other females around her, and ESPECIALLY demonizing female victims of her male entourage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 7 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?You have every right to harshly correct your brother, and let it be known. At no point have men been even slightly fair to women without us having to be "the bitch." My half brother is a genuine Incel, and I let him know when he said that "incels are funny" that incels are actually dangerous, damaging shitty people, and being male doesn't give them any inherent value. A good portion of the time, being male makes them slightly more dangerous. He shut up. I don't know if this is how he still feels… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:44 PM |
| 13 | Feminist book called I Hate Men sells out in France after government official attempted to ban itGood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:34 PM |
| 130 | Saddens me more than I can sayA lot of women absolutely love using feminism to actively shit all over feminists. These women truly need to burn in Hell, and I'm somewhat certain God would agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:10 AM |
| 5 | High value women exercise their right to vote!Hillary was genuinely against him, but she's more loyal to the majority male oligarchy than she is to women. Kind of like how Trump doesn't give a crap about his alt-right voter base. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:04 AM |
| 18 | 🙅🏻♀️Scorpio men are horrible. They're the kings of the breadcrumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | High value women exercise their right to vote!We need better female candidates. What would be amazing is if Hillary runs against a female Republican. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 23 | That's why I don't have casual sexDo a Google search and see if you can find it. They usually upload them, which is technically illegal, but men still do it all the time. Literally anything you share with men can be used against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.They hate what women are doing no matter what it is. Astrology used to be managed almost exclusively by upper class men with spiritual authority. Of course, when women do it it's all "wives tales" and stuff. The best way to go about it all is to not give a shit what they think. They will not change their minds. It's not about actual astrology. It's about disempowering women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteThey're likely being treated very well by the men in their lives, honestly. A woman with everything doesn't want for much. A woman with nothing NEEDS to be able to own property and vote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 44 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteThey want female slavery. We are not people to them, and they have delusions about how they are going to be treated by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteCan I ask where you are? These sentiments have been boiling underground for years here. Boys used to snicker about rape and assaulting women when I was in high school a decade ago. Some even said women shouldn't be allowed to drive. These weren't low class boys either. They were AP class students. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 15 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteRight. They WANT female dependence and male domination. None of this is new. It's just surfacing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 54 | Another proof you shouldn’t tell men your insecuritiesThe same thing happened to me. I was blamed for ALL of my husband's affairs, while I was raising the kids and honoring my vows. He's cheated on every single person he's been with. Its not you. The overwhelming majority of men will cheat when they have the option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Scrotes Unhinged: The Bizarre Case of Stephen McDanielThere was a Facebook page SUPPORTING HIM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 14 | We Can Define Our FemininityFeminine rage is infinitely more scary, dominant, and aggressive than male rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 94 | Oh yeah thats why that sounded so familiar 🤔The fact that women demanding to be seen as basically human was laughable to them shows that no, nothing has changed. "You're ugly" has always supposed to have been the final nail in our supposed coffins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 29 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮This video made me sick. She's tripping over herself for basic attention from him. HOW DEPRIVED IS SHE?!? The dude's horrible. If you gloat when your starving pets jump for joy when you feed them, you're off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 18 | All the usual pickmes in the comments saying asking for child support is gold digging...smhI care infinitely more about my kids than I care about the opinion of a woman who either A. Has no kids, B. Doesn't have custody, and never asked for support, or C. Is just trying to appeal to men. I'd rather be a huge bitch and a good mom than lovable to men while I can't raise my boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:01 PM |
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