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Then he wasn't so extraordinary after all. When you say "no man," you don't really mean this literally. There are however men out there who unlike Brand literally can't be MeToo'd and never will be, because their wealth and power really is that great that no-one would dare threaten or blackmail them out of fear of their life. Whether that percentage is 10%, 1%, or 0.1%, such men really do exist. The Chad that can be MeToo'd is not the eternal Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:26 PM
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So... women are more attracted to aggressive, wilful men who are willing to take the risk of saying and doing what they want and seek control in their lives and relationships even at the risk of legal action more than mild-mannered, comfort-seeking men who follow rules made by other men to control and exert power over them? Huh. Sounds silly when you ask the question like this, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:14 AM
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When men as a group are criticised or attacked, everyone really knows this means ordinary men. Extraordinary men are by definition beyond the reach of MeToo or any other shaming or campaigns of any kind, if they weren't, they wouldn't be extraordinary. Subconsciously, society approves of any and all tests that make life more difficult for (ordinary) men and push more men down, because they more clearly than ever separate the weak from the powerful, the chaff from the wheat. Women approve, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:05 AM
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I'm thinking more about the changes that are happening right now or even have already happened. "Asian values" are increasingly a meme for Lee Kwan Yew speeches from the 1970s, or a talking point for sexpats with rose-tinted glasses. Edit: I realise now that you are Malaysian and/or Muslim or something, so my comment here may not be perfectly relevant to your culture in particular. That said, my comments were not specific, and I was simply pointing out the reality that seeking out a "non-Western…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:08 AM
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What makes you think that the social changes taking place in the West over the past few decades aren't happening elsewhere, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:14 AM
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Any attention men get takes attention and care away from women. Women instinctively dislike and oppose this in their collective self-interest, and men oppose it too as helping a weak man feels like throwing good money after bad and nurturing back to health an inferior seed that really should have been weeded out. Plus, helping another man is literally helping the competition. The truism that if you're complaining, you're not winning will always be the Achilles' heel of any MRA/MGTOW/whatever you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:45 AM
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Every time I've pointed out that men see themselves as winning if a woman fucks them and then immediately gets up and walks away To be fair, this idea is more common today than it once was, because of the peculiar nature of the particular society we happen to be living in today and how much mistrust there is among men quite frankly towards both women and social institutions. Obviously, there have always been jokes about the opposite sex being hard to deal with, can't live with them can't live wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:13 AM
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To be fair, both men and women are accused of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:16 AM
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A lot of them are misogynistic probably because of the rejection they faced in their youth. It also explains why they don't want to settle down while women their age do want to settle down. ​ A lot of assumptions here. You're implying it's somehow misogynistic to not want what (certain) women want, when they want it. You also haven't specified what are "normal" and "weird" ideas to have about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:14 AM
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D-dennis Prager? Is that really you? [*]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:02 AM
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I actually appreciate these most blunt comments that go beyond criticising age-gap relationships, and simply go to the jugular, and point out the reality that aging (minor qualifications aside) is unattractive, period. Because they make it harder to make the argument that a woman an older man's age or older is necessarily or even likely to be any more genuinely attracted to him than a younger woman is. The dogma that you have to or at least should date a woman your own age, because she could be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:27 AM
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Fair enough, but you were making the point that the "revenge" fantasy is wrong, because most women over a certain age are married. Perhaps: but many of them are not married to the man they want, or even a man they are attracted to. This is sort of the woman version of a man saying that it doesn't matter if a man is unpopular, alone and single forever, because any man can take the £150 in his pocket and hire a prostitute for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:25 AM
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Biologically, all organisms "want" to be successful: to breed, and to have offspring that breed. A man who isn't sexually successful seems either a) inherently and obviously unattractive or b) has some mental or other characteristic that makes him less driven to mate that could be genetic. If you're an organism that reproduces sexually, you don't want this in a mate, because if they have children that inherit this characteristic you have a much higher than average chance of this ending up the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:43 AM
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Nobody is saying you shouldn't find young (adult) women attractive. It's the wanting to be in a relationship with them and trying to sleep with them that makes it creepy/weird. ​ When looked at objectively, it's ironically and amusingly enough a healthy, natural, and inevitable instinct both for society to discourage age-gap relationships (so that young healthy people aren't "wasted" on the old), and for even older people to be attracted to healthy young people (because it's literally perverted …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:38 PM
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I just can't trust women not to be dishonest, quite frankly. And we have the problem of which lies to believe less. I suppose it's possible that older women actually do like regular older men and are just strategically pretending to hate them in age-gap posts on PPD, but it seems unwise to assume this. And I can't think of any good reason to assume that younger women who apparently hate older men start to like them more as they get older themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:24 PM
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Young women put up with more bullshit than older women due to a lack of boundaries. They put up with different kinds of bullshit. Young women put up with young guy bullshit, like not having his shit together, not having (much) money, etc. in order to be with the guy they like (thin/built, handsome, full head of hair). Older women (for a while) put up with old guy bullshit, like being fat, wrinkly and old etc. in order to be in a relationship with someone who can help her pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:51 PM
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Women here often say they are creeped out by guys who are attracted to young women, both because a) it's creepy and b) because women dislike the idea of the man (trying to) swap her out for a younger model as she gets older, and so they say men with an exclusive or overwhelming tendency to be attracted to younger women is disgusting to them for this reason. But since so many of the young women ITT insist that the vast majority of older men are creepy and repulsive also just because of their phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:40 PM
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I do find it funny how these posts on PPD are always full of both young and older women laughing and joking in all manner of creative ways about how repulsive and disgusting the vast majority of older men are and how obviously ridiculous the idea of younger women being attracted to them would be... but then the older women posters will turn around and insist on how they are actually totally and sincerely attracted sexually and romantically to these same men that they were mocking just five minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:18 PM
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I do not know ANY single women with the exclusion of widows. Most women over a certain age are married. This is true, but to be quite frank, we do have to wonder how many women over a certain age are married to men they love. For example, you said you recoiled at the 45 yo guy who asked you to hang out with his old-ass friends: how many women in their mid- to late-30s date and even marry "old-ass" guys like this, just to be in a relationship? Maybe less than in the past, but enough that I'd worr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:15 PM
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I have some bad news: only some men will admit to feeling (not thinking) sort of like this, the rest are lying. Young women are generally a lot hotter than older women. Young men are generally a lot hotter than older men, too, but women also lie about this (because they want older men to still be interested in marriage and relationships). And it's not really a cliff, sort of a more or less gentle downslope. Some people in their 30s and 40s are still looking okay depending on their lifestyle, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:57 PM
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Nah. Beta bux is if she's with you for the money. It doesn't necessarily mean you are being literally cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:42 PM
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IMHO, jobs aren't impressive, anyway. Most big important jobs just mean a lot of responsibility and hassle along with being a monkey on a string. Not to mention that if you have a big important job, it's easier to get hassled plus you have to worry more than most about keeping your nose clean, getting MeToo'd and all that stuff. What's actually impressive is being independently wealthy and/or off the grid, people in these situations have a lot more freedom of speech, freedom of action, and freed…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:40 PM
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Such men are a small percentage of the male population. If women are envious or jealous of "men" because of this, they're being ridiculous. It's only a little sillier than me being jealous of people who play the lotto because ”they" are wealthy and don't have to work for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:00 PM
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You're right of course, but the really depressing part for unattractive older men is when they realise that older women aren't any more attracted to them than their younger sisters are, they are just pretending to (both to themselves, for the sake of their own sanity, and also to the same-age/older men they date and marry, because it would upset the men and maybe make them give up on love and especially marriage). To be fair, older men are doing the same thing themselves, when they say dumb thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:54 AM
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As men age, assuming they stay in shape and have built a career, they retain their sex appeal (if not gain sex appeal) while women fall off a cliff as they age past 35. This is wishful thinking. Men only gain a certain amount of appeal as relationship material if they are particularly successful financially and in their career, which fewer men actually do than they'd like to admit. And even that's ultimately a betabucks thing and not the same thing as real attraction: an even smaller fraction of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:50 AM
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You shouldn't necessarily, at all. And the horrible truth is that the more true the suggestions that you're hitting the wall and are rapidly becoming an ugly hag might actually be, the more dangerous it would be of you to let yourself be latched onto by the (probably increasingly average, flawed, and cynical) men who tell you cliche shit like "it's time to stop chasing Chad" and "you need to realise your looks are fading and settle down." The men who would tell you this (either in person, or jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:20 AM
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I strongly disagree with this statement that I see written on this forum alot. Its a revenge fantasy driven by men. ​ How is this a revenge fantasy for men? Being used for your money or stability when you're older by someone who likely doesn't love you doesn't sound like a win. Obviously the woman in this scenario has lost too since she didn't hook an attractive and capable man, but this seems like a big L for the male sex as well. -- Now, your argument about marriage. I do actually agree with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:20 AM
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if you are just trying to bang as many women as possible I don't recall saying or suggesting this. I mean, fair enough if you're just pointing out something in general about how a lot of guys think and what a lot of guys want (in an Absolut world). But what you're saying doesn't seem to be particularly relevant to the topic of my thread, and my main argument: The sort of older women making fun of their age group of men for being (generally) un- or at least less attractive clearly aren't that int…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:57 AM
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Fine, this is a nice, idealistic view of things, and certainly it can happen that someone who isn't conventionally attractive still attracts people because of their other virtues, or simply by chance. I wouldn't say otherwise. What I am saying is that to the extent that being attractive or unattractive respectively helps or harms your chances of true love and affection with the opposite sex, it can have the same effect on people of any age, and indeed any level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:44 AM
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This is precisely what I'm wondering about. I don't see any particular reason to believe that an older, less attractive woman is at all more likely to love an aging, less attractive man for who he is than a younger woman. If you're unattractive, you're unattractive. The fact that less attractive older women are more likely to have given up on the idea of hooking meme Chad and are broadening their proverbial nets doesn't mean they're necessarily at all any more sincerely attracted to an unattract…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:20 AM
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In my thread on this, I made the argument that it isn't so much that younger women are attracted to typical signs of aging in men, but that older women aren't, either. Every other age-gap thread is full of older women screaming their lungs out about how older men are unattractive and why would you think younger women would be into that shit (in my thread, they decided to start arguing about how le sad and dark and cruel an argument it is for me to suggest that the signs of aging are just general…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:43 AM
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The unfortunate reality is that less attractive men regardless of their age will be used for their money or stability by women both old and young. An older woman who picks a stable, responsible man her own age to settle down with is also ultimately doing it for the money, not the thrills. The sort of (rare) attractive older man who women his own age want to be with for his looks and personality will also attract younger women for the same reason; the sort of average older man who is not that spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:26 AM
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To be fair, I didn't say aren't super hot. I said unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:51 AM
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Unfortunately from what I can see, both literal gold-digging and just settling for a man to hold on to out of anxiety about facing the world, rather than desire don't seem great from the man's perspective. Some younger women are more likely to go for the relatively fast smash and grab, demand lots of expensive presents or worse, quick marriage and divorce (or maybe even waiting for you to pass on so they can take your stuff lol if you're that old). The older women might do the divorce thing, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:53 AM
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That's a reasonable argument, and I don't necessarily disagree. The crux of my argument though is basically just that if you're unattractive (whatever the reason is, aging, being fat, being skelly-tier thin, being boring, hair loss, etc.) your chances of attracting women of any age for the "wrong" reason (if they actually want you at all) goes up massively. You might see what I'm saying as a tiresome age-gap thing, and in a way, I suppose I can see how it kind of is, to the extent that I'm sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:48 AM
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Huh? I don't see how I'm implying that at all. I am implying that women I don't find attractive are logically more likely to be open to settling for people they aren't actually attracted to, just like a lot of less attractive men. But if you're unattractive, unfortunately pretty much any woman who shows interest likely has bad motives. Regardless of her level of attractiveness. That's kind of my whole point here. Be attractive is basically the only option if you don't want to make a bad outcome …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:39 AM
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That's not what I'm talking about though, I'm only talking about this from the older person's point of view. What I'm suggesting is that if you're unattractive, you're going to be only or overwhelmingly targeted by the "wrong" kind of woman of any age, simply because the "right" kind of woman obviously won't be attracted to you. This is something unattractive men worry about (traditionally they worry about being taken for a ride for their money), but it also can bother unattractive women, who wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 AM
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I'm only really familiar with Asians, but it's tiresomely familiar actually. When the locals are feeling ethnocentric and prideful, both sexes of Westerners are cast unflatteringly as fat, irresponsible, lazy, and lesser generally. When they're in a more self-critical mood, Westerners can be enlisted as part of their own gender wars. Asian guys will remind their women of how their Western sisters (when young and not fat) are prettier, more buxom, taller, etc. and also have a better attitude than…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:21 AM
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I'm only really familiar with Asians, but it's tiresomely familiar actually. When the locals are feeling ethnocentric and prideful, both sexes of Westerners are cast unflatteringly as fat, irresponsible, lazy, and lesser generally. When they're in a more critical mood, Westerners can be enlisted as part of their own gender wars. Asian guys will remind their women of how their Western sisters (when young and not fat) are prettier, more buxom, taller, etc. than them and how ridiculous it seems for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:16 AM
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Are average women any happier about the idea of settling than average men, though? I'm not saying you're wrong about average men (in fact, I think you're absolutely right that the notion that being treated like an average man is degrading, even if you are just that, is spreading like wildfire), I just think this is ultimately a gender-neutral phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:28 PM
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Yeah if OP thinks Dads are disproportionately Chads, this isn't true lol. An awful lot of Dads are People of Walmart, and so are a lot of if not most Moms to be fair except for a few school and college girls who got knocked up by accident. The idea that men who are chosen by women to be fathers are by definition genetically superior is ultimately circular, and you definitely don't get that impression from a first glance. I mean, I suppose it's undeniable that genetically speaking, the future bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:22 PM
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I feel very sorry for the guys commenting on this post who don't believe women are ever really attracted to men, only what they think they can get out of them or do for them. This has been one of the most excellent and unfortunate examples in a long time here of guys telling on themselves. It's like when you have guys here and elsewhere unironically saying things like how "all," or even "most" or "normal" women would never flirt with men first, or out of the blue (except maybe a tiny minority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:41 AM
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Men see each other as threats, meatshields, and tools/patsies. Every man paying taxes and child support, getting married to an older woman looking to settle down with anyone, holding a gun at the border etc. reduces his own burden/makes it less likely that he will have to eat whatever shit sandwich is being served. Men help women to groom other men into being chumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:55 PM
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Women as a whole will never be okay with that shit for the same reason you will never be able to get ordinary guys to be rational and cool with their future wives having had lustful, exciting affairs with more attractive men in their past. That's just how it goes, man, that's nature and how do I know you didn't get some older man's pipe when you were young yourself? Doesn't matter, it's not something they will ever accept or not want to furiously oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:51 PM
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Learn how to cook, this way you can a) legit have an excuse to invite chicks over to your house b) are improving yourself every time you have dinner with them and c) aren't spending big money besides on some fancy ingredients you probably will use by yourself too anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:35 AM
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Again, gunfights have only really been a thing for tops 450 years. That's not long enough to change human instinct, if you're waiting around for male height to start going down as a result of tall guys getting shot down in battle or something, or for women to start putting no guys over 5'6" on their Tinder profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:40 PM
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It's not a lie, it's just that human instincts haven't changed to account for the innovation of sophisticated weapons. Women emotionally feel like tall, built men have the advantage, because for 90% of human evolution, they did. Also yours by itself isn't a great argument for dating short kings, because big guys can also buy and learn how to use guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:22 PM
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But they don't and never will because men are inclined to compete against each other and see each other as rivals, if not enemies. Just look at how immigration and male outgroups are talked about virtually all over the world and this is plainly obvious. ​ Military-aged migrant Pajeet (bobs and vagene amirite?) Ricecel Sexpat Inner city.ghetto male ​ Men will only see each other as part of the same ingroup if they're very closely related genetically and there's an outsider to band together agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:09 PM
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I can see why you consider this a double-standard. That said, it's a somewhat understandable one: women can catch STDs from sex more easily than men, so given that men who have sex with men are at high risk to be STD carriers, you can see why all other things being equal women might want to give that stuff a pass, even if it's not PC today. Obviously, men who are extremely promiscuous generally (with women) are relatively high risk, too, and some women avoid promiscuous men for that reason, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:27 AM
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It essentially boils down to this: Those men who have their own power and independence and who are able to a greater extent than most men to behave accordingly, and act as they please without obeying following or deferring to others seem, act, and are above the rest, by definition. This is attractive to women. This is true and likely always will be true, even if it's just as obviously in the interests of both society and individual women for men generally to be controlled and under control, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:35 AM
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The un-PC answer is that they're kinda the same. There may be "toxic" i.e. attributes perceived to be sometimes threatening or dangerous to women in how men instinctively behave that some women would rather they weren't attracted to but often are, but these are fundamental and currently ineradicable aspects of masculinity. It's sort of analogous to how a lot of guys get turned on by women being slutty and overtly sexual but feel guilty/stupid and chastise themselves for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:21 AM
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What's funny about this is that traditionally, it was the other way around: men very much worried about their potential future bride having worked at a factory, public house, kitchen, or other low-class job, because of the perceived higher likelihood of sexual immorality. Obviously, the ideal woman was the sheltered kind who'd mostly ever been with her watchful parents and maybe her female classmates at school, but among working women, those with somewhat more respectable jobs (governess or some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:06 PM
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Men have the freedom to send unsolicited dick pics, approach 100 women Uh...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:16 PM
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Is this a realistic fear on your part? Exotic-looking people can only be so because they are rare, by definition. I mean, obviously everyone can have a certain anxiety of their other half running away with someone more attractive generally for whatever reason, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:41 AM
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The workplace is definitely one place where the closer to the bottom you are, the easier most guys find it to date. Not because women are particularly more receptive, but because they feel more confident to fuck around in every sense of the word on the job without worrying about it. If you get fired from McDonald's or an Amazon warehouse for banging the wrong person, chances are you're not really going to give that much of a shit, you just leave the job off your CV and write the whole thing off.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:04 AM
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some power play where I’m like “tell me how bad you want it” “so bad daddy blah blah” makes me cringe and laugh but if that’s what most women find sexy That's not what they find sexy. What they find sexy is men who legit feel like they're in a position where they can be aggressive and demand/take what they want without worrying about the potential consequences, either because they're powerful and on top socially and have rational reason to be that way ("the noble/ the leader") or because they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:30 AM
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Its not random, though. Because let's face it, there are men who have reasons to not worry as much if at all about being MeToo'd. The unemployed (no job to be fired from), those who already have serious criminal records (because getting hit with a sex crime rap wouldn't be that big of an additional blow), those who live by different rules (the 1% in the West, Saudi royals, etc.). Of course, there will be other guys who feel little or no anxiety about getting hit with this shit, even if they rati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:19 AM
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Even consciously though, it makes sense. A woman naturally feels secure with a man who is powerful and independent in his own right, not a guy who is smothered and dominated by society (even if women as a collective have largely made modern society the way it is). If a man can barely fend off false accusations and is terrified of random women or officials arbitrarily deciding to brand him a sex criminal and ruining his life, how can he ultimately defend the interests of a wife and child? I mean,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:26 AM
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Because women know that a lot of men are asking this shit because they're afraid of being MeToo'd, not because they're nice guys. Being afraid of the law/society/women arbitrarily punishing you (even if it's actually somewhat understandable) shows fear and a perceived lack of power/impunity. Basically, women can tell a lot of dudes these days don't feel on top of things, and that's a turn-off, for obvious reasons, even if it's justified. Especially if it's justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:04 AM
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Higher testosterone levels in men explain everything. There are many, many women who will do nothing sexually unless either a) a man is pushing her into it or b) they happen to run into basically a god among men, only a small minority is sexually aggressive and an even smaller minority of that minority is both promiscuous and indiscriminate. On the other hand, even though there is a veritable horde of men who have given up on women and dating, their surrender is more than made up for by a minori…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:40 AM
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You feel confident that most Asian women in general or even women in most Asian countries are virgins when they marry? Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. I'm not Asian, and I'm not pretending to be. But forgive for being extremely sceptical, unless you've been checking out a representative sample of women all over Asia up very close and personal before their wedding night, I don't see how you'd be in a position to say so with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:37 AM
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in most Asian countries, women stay virgins until marriage Maaaaaaybe in a few Muslim countries. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:01 AM
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The reality is that no-one likes being "settled for" or settling. And it's natural to take it personally: it means that not only does your other half not really find you that attractive, but they also themselves aren't attractive enough to get what they really want and probably are unhappy about it. Everything is depressing about the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:35 PM
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I'm not planning on moving to Thailand to find a girlfriend or otherwise, and I'm not seeking a "Girlfriend Experience," whatever that is. You're making all kinds of assumptions. My main point was that there are all kinds of good reasons to consider moving to a different place for an improvement in your overall financial situation and quality of life, even if it doesn't directly improve your dating life specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:03 AM
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I'm not dreaming of any paradise. You're barking up the wrong tree, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:00 AM
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No double-way. Thai people are all massively interconnected. You could get in some real shit taking like that. Everyone is interconnected. There's a reason why people for example will say things on PPD that they don't say IRL to anybody. What I'm getting at is that your race angle seems overstated. Obviously a Thai man would be reluctant to say that kind of thing IRL even to a Thai man, but he might well say it on a Thai internet forum, the same way Americans here on PPD talk smack about America…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:19 PM
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My comment here wasn't about dating specifically. Just that it is a fact that a 20,000 RMB income puts you in the top 20% or even 10% in terms of income in many places, and that this allows for a much better quality of life than the same income does in the West, which is true (gripes about air pollution, traffic, crowds etc. aside). I would not want to live in China on $2K a month -that's a lot of noodle soup Have you heard of cooking? There are literally millions of people in China living on 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:10 PM
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There is no way on earth that a Thai man would speak that way about Thai women to a westerner. No, but he might well speak to another Thai man in that way. I'm not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:54 AM
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But you didn't just say Korean, you said Korean boyband member. Also, not everything is, or has to be a clear hierarchy: it can at once be true that most people in Thailand or most places in the world really are most comfortable with people like themselves, while outsiders (being rare) also have niche appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:51 AM
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They're neither, they're just women obviously. I wasn't making any point regarding the women that guy was talking about, but rather that your above comment seems a bit ridiculous. I'm sure Thai men themselves have all kinds of spicy things to say about women that they wouldn't say offline for the most part, especially in mixed company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:49 AM
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Fair enough, but that's Thailand, not the West. I still disagree with your point about white people becoming more nationalist and racist. There has been a backlash against multiculturalism, but so far the backlash against the backlash has been stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:09 AM
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These nice sweeties I see giving alms to monks? Would you express that view to a middle class Thai person? That's gonna be a no, dawg. It's a culture of face-saving and respect. You do not respect these people. I'm sure that comes across. This is a facetious reply. Obviously a lot of guys will speak differently (especially online) about women than they will to women. This has nothing to do with culture, or misogyny for that matter. It's just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:18 AM
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And they'd be much happier blowing a Korean boy band member, by a factor of one million. How are Korean celebrities relevant to anything? A lot of people all over the world would like to date famous actors and popstars, but they're in limited supply and not realistic prospects for average men or women in any country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:13 AM
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western men are not considered more egalitarian partners than most? This is a double-edged sword, though. Many non-Western women who are particularly attracted to this image of Western men as less chuddy than their local variety will have the expectation that you live up to this image. So for Western men who are hoping for a more "trad" relationship, this could be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:06 AM
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As white people have become more nationalist and racist, so have Asians Where and when did the former happen? Immigration and naturalisation policies in the West generally used to be much tougher, years and decades ago. It used to be much more common and more socially accepted to be opposed to miscegenation (and to call it that). Certainly there's been a backlash against multiculturalism, but it has been a fairly feeble one so far. On the other hand. I think you're correct that there's a rising …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:53 AM
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It's not just about earning more money. In many cases, you can enjoy a higher standard of living or have more disposable income in parts of Asia with the same skills and earning the same or even a lower salary. A 20,000 yuan monthly salary in Mainland China or the equivalent in Vietnam and other developing countries goes a lot further than a 2,000 euro or dollar salary will in the West because of how much higher rent and expenses usually are. A $2,000/month salary in the US means watching what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:44 AM
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The main problem with the idea of going abroad to escape feminism is that let's face it, there's a strong correlation between how anti-feminist a society is and how chuddy and jealous/protective the local men are. If the men of a society believe in women not making their own decisions and cleaving strongly to their kin and community, this is not great news for a would-be sexypat. Afghanistan, Yemen, Iraq, and Pakistan are among the very least feminist societies on earth, but they are not great p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:25 AM
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It's absolutely the case that going somewhere where your savings go further (or where you can earn a better salary) can improve your standard of living in many respects, and this goes for your social life, too. For one thing, on a basic level, many average workers in the West simply can't afford to regularly do sociable things. Even going to the movies, socialising at bars, eating at cheap restaurants, going on local holidays at the seaside etc. are expensive luxuries for those who see their ren…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:23 PM
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As someone who has spent considerable time among all kinds of different Asian people (obviously the passport bro thing is also a Latin American/West Indian/African phenomenon too, but Asia is a big part of this as well), this whole passport bro thing is just a bit baffling, really. Essentially all the same factors that are changing how relationships work in the West are happening elsewhere, sometimes even on a faster timeline. There are good reasons to live abroad. Expanding your horizons, devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:15 PM
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