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| 1 | response to her prior bad experience with your (type) | Conversation | Successful_Engine191 | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 09:01 PM |
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| 8 | How to be funnyWatch stand up comedy from different comedians and their podcast if they have them, see what style you can copy the most. Some people are good with one liners, others sarcasm. You just need to be able to display a sense of humor no need to be hilarious. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.I feel like leading them on entails telling them promises or intentions you don’t mean. Just be a good time and if they ask, talk your way around it in a “idk I’m getting to know people” type of way. Just a suggestion I could be off in this aspect I’m a serial monogamous. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m stuck at getting 8sDress in a suit to have perceived value and importance and see if that does anything, just spitballing. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What are interesting questions to ask a partner about their sex life?Yeah but it was in a group as drinking game, I’m sure it’ll flow just as well with just 2 people. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | What are interesting questions to ask a partner about their sex life?Play a game of never have i ever and make it sexual. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 10:17 AM |
| 8 | An IG influencer with over 250k followers followed me back. How do you initiate such conversation?This the method, reply to a story post. Before hand as a feeler is like few pictures and she if she returns the favor | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 04:11 AM |
| 3 | How can you get really hot girls?I can’t hold a conversation with someone trying to advertise what’s they’re selling. Good luck with your students. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | How can you get really hot girls?They’re still women at the end of the day, sex appeal, chemistry and emotional compatibility can still pull them. And if they really have their pick they can entertain both. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 08:56 AM |
| 6 | How can you get really hot girls?You can have mid-low 6 figures. You basically making doctor/lawyer income, who’s shitting in that in this economy? | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I slowly give it up with womenOr his personality is off putting so much that after they get to know him they’re running. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Confrontation Openers Are Amazing!Women like lame and corny, there’s an audience for everything. How you present yourself and hygiene is more important than what your face is on a 1-10 scale. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downWomen don’t… jk | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why looks matter but not as much as you may thinkThis can be dangerous because people are inclined to have trust in confidence EVEN IF it’s not met with results and lack trust in results because the person is not confident but delivers. At the end of the day you want good results I don’t agree to turn down someone experienced because they didn’t have the best personality to project it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I’m 26 and dealing with social anxiety, so I’m looking for daily exercises to help me stay socially engaged and build confidence.Get a part time job in customer service and make small talk with everyone customer. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 06:13 AM |
| 3 | How do I flirt with my CoworkerCasual conversation just like you would a guy or stranger, get to know her over a few days and use things about her to tease and make jokes. Can’t give you a script so you rather sink or swim at that point. Mix in 1 or 2 genuine compliments over the few days for the good sentiment. could be something physical or how she does something. It doesn’t matter just don’t over do it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate on first date?I like everything you said except asking her what she likes in guys. You can easily come off as a (ask girls say) “pick me” and try to fit into the mold instead of just being yourself. Maybe that’s just my view on it but a lot of good advice here. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | What I have learned from some of my player buddiesHypothetically you could be right but don’t let ai make you jaded. They are pulling from somewhat quality info found online in most cases and professionals are using them in their practice with improved performance. I just pay attention to formatting even though it’s easy to work around it the lazy people relying on it usually don’t reformat. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | My insane level of rejection fear is ruining it for me M19Start by having casual conversations with strangers in proximity where rejection isn’t even a worry. Like food related conversation in the grocery store. Baby steps. Also helps to do a video talking service like Omegle. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 03:39 AM |
| 6 | Pushing out of my comfort zone to meet women—any tips?Shopping? Others has merit but the mall or market is a great place to meet women. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Seduction: I think there are contradictory perspectives being handled here.It is a numbers game, and the probabilities are not set in stone. An obese guy can go out and find someone that likes him whatever the odds are although if he lost weight the odds would increase as people usually prefer someone fit. Thats not necessarily a strategy but the point still stands, your probability is never 0 (but you never know maybe you’re that ugly) and can be raised with methods of attracting others with attributes they value. Doesn’t make anything guaranteed even with all your po… | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ?I was going to recommend something like this, I was going to say have a friend accompany you and peer pressure but getting the money back might motivate you more lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?It's a numbers game. There was someone posting on reddit about how bad they look with a picture (wasn't conventionally attractive at all, could easily get this rating from someone) and a girl commented she thought he was cute so they met up and ended up married in the end. That's just an anecdote, but the key is to compensate with other great qualities and set yourself up in favor of the odds (meet plenty of women). It's worth going after the girls you want, but it's also not a bad idea to pract… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Tired of being horny all the time...what should I do....I need some helpSpank ya meat | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldThat’s what I boil it down to, if you can open someone up to casual conversation the rest is how you play it and a dice roll. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldI’m from the city so maybe I’m oblivious but you don’t think that it works based on a social skill level? | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 7 | How to stop feeling inferior around beautiful women?You have some insecurity there because if there’s people who don’t like you for being different there’s people who will like you 2x more for those differences. You’ll stop feeling inferior from exposure, make friends with one with no intentions, hopefully she has attractive friends . Also rather they’re a model or an ugly duck they are still a girl and act like a girl, once you see they act like any other girl it’s easier to treat them as such | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 03:06 PM |
| 5 | How I doubled my Tinder matches last week (exact photos included)There’s tall white men that are puscless. If you think that’s going to do all the carrying you should get to know more people | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingNot my style but definitely an ice breaker but not one an amateur should use. Reminds me of the guys that can insult a girl as an ice breaker and turn it around into conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Date without alcohol, clubs, & phones put away?Made a comment before but, I don’t WANT to vs I DONT drink is 2 different statements. Lie about having liver problems if it’s so tough for you when you get pressured. It may feel counter-productive but women will respect your discipline | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Date without alcohol, clubs, & phones put away?I would just establish the boundaries, one guy I know doesn’t drink, will still frequent clubs and just get a water and hookah. Night club? I’m a disciplined early bird I like to be in by 9-10 (maybe meet women in the early morning who I’m sure would be open to a date at a nice coffee shop. Women(people in general) will bend their rules if they authentically like you so just stand in it and let them walk away if they don’t like it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 08:51 PM |
| 8 | Do girls not like nice guys at all?“Nice guy” isn’t really about morality or ethics it’s more of a saying based on personality type that tends to be friend zone due to passivity. And the scum bag who is aggressive is more likely to get the girls because he takes lead and goes which works out better with women despite the character. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 07:37 AM |
| 1 | response to her prior bad experience with your (type)That’s something I struggle with depending on how I’m moving and grooving now that you mention it. Thank you and will do. | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Stop Memorizing Pickup Lines - Do This InsteadBro ai is here to stay and it could’ve been made with chatgpt, that doesnt mean that’s the source of his information and only the source of what he used to compile and edit it. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Which of these cities has the best parties, the most beautiful and reciprocal women who are willing to talk and who are open to seduction and hooking up with a guy at clubs?You don’t need too much, keep in mind Miami is a vacation for travelers they’re there to have a good time and you can find women to have fun with without buying a club bottles and sections. | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How to conquer my approach anxiety once and for all?Rejection (exposure)therapy helps, look for chances to ask something from people that’s unlikely for people to say yes to. This way you get exposure to rejection and more comfortable with people turning you down. Asking a crazy favor from a friend or even stranger, free (blank) on top of what you’re already buying, whatever comes to mind | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How to set up your dating profile if you're just looking for hookups?Better off in person, online is a tough crowd people are usually 10x more surface. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 10:57 AM |
| 5 | To the guys who took the prostitutes/escorts route. What effect did it have on your confidence/self esteem?I’ve never participated either before he get into defensive attack mode. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 05:28 PM |
| 8 | To the guys who took the prostitutes/escorts route. What effect did it have on your confidence/self esteem?there’s nothing wrong with sex work or those who participate. You can judge specific reasons maybe but the whole field is just you projecting some inner emotions probably unresolved. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameMaybe it’s the story that’s a turn off to y’all but I’m more so talking about the concept. Women DO like when a man has a healthy relationship with mom. when I say women I’m speaking generally, and never includes all so you can be excluded. but I’ve seen plenty evidence in my life that the corny and cheesy shit (to men) is effective. Examples like couple matching PJs, finding a random love poem on a note card. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameDamn I got rage baited 😡 I need to do better | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameSo It boils down to you not thinking it’s worth the “overpriced” ticket. I understand but I only have that sentiment on necessities. outside of that it can be a fully free market, $10M for a painting or $10k for a course. Courses CAN be scams or worth every dollar, depends on the quality of the mentor and only bad reviews will tell you outside of taking the course yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 12:59 AM |
| 3 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameEveryone learns something for the first time at some point. If you read books by different experts on a single topic, you’ll get a lot of repeat info. If you keep seeing the advice, maybe it’s because it’s consistently good so why leave it out. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameSounds like he’s providing a service that men are willing to pay for using his own experience including the information women he’s been with(which is a good source on the topic hate it or not). No need to hate or shame or whatever you’re doing, not sure what your point is? | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameYou don’t have to be a mamas boy, women will gauge how you treat women with your relationship with mom. (Similar to men judging women on daddy issues) it’s a way they profile. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIt’s crazy that you guys dislike this comment because it’s basically a method of giving social proof. And if you know women , yk they can be a sucker for the corny cringey things so if it sounds bad to you it’s because the wrong part is between your legs. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 5 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameHe is being a man, by utilizing his tools. The most wealthy work smarter not harder | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Yeah this thread should have plenty to pull from as a start point but I’ll still add this Everything is your fault, even if it’s bad luck it’s your fault for being unprepared or poorly reacting/handling it. I say this because your focus is more external on the ugly men and women, when it should be on yourself because no one else can solve your problem but you. The last thing you should be worried about is where you are in life at 22, you can lose your virginity at 30 and still fuck 100s of women… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Opportunities that initiate physical touch?If your laughing together it’s an opportunity to touch her because laughing being a knee jerk reaction you can tie the physical movement to it harmlessly (leaning into side, backhand or hold onto arm or knee mid laugh) depends on how funny also if she makes a joke on you and you’re close make a light arm bump or something as a “get back reaction”. If you have to tell her something personal or just for you 2 to hear, pull her close as you lean in. It’s very Freeform and can happen anytime there’s… | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 09:52 AM |
| 16 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Reference to kill/death in games, simply your own measurement of success/failure. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Too old for cold approach?I believe it’s about how you clean up and approach, not to be harsh but it seems your approaches listed you lacked warmness and charisma to make them truly consider it. I have an uncle(40-50) who is very popular in his social life. His daughter’s friends(20-30) flirt with him openly and ask if he’s single. He doesn’t try to attract them he’s just fun to be around and party with. how you do that is unique to you and your qualities. Be Well dressed, groomed and starting with enjoyable small talk a… | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you build sexual/romantic tension?Great response mind expanding a bit more on purposeful misinterpreting | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 03:47 PM |
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