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I was just being funny, dust off your vagina and lighten up. You failed miserably. I'm also another childfree person. I actually don't care if more people decide not to get married or have kids. If the species dies out, well, that's too bad for the human race. It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 02:22 AM
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Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 12:49 PM
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I'd argue that men were seen as being just as disposable when they were forced off to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 08:32 PM
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That's why there is an imbalance, that's why leaving it alone to biology means women only fuck a minority of alpha manly men. Feminism fucked over the average man, big time. What are you trying to say here? Was it biology or feminism that fucked over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 08:00 PM
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You said "pretty much all guys". That implies most. So, it was actually not obvious at all that you were only referring to young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 07:28 PM
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You really don't think highly of men, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:48 PM
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This isn't true. All men are different, and many want a relationship, while some do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:47 PM
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obesity amongst them shouldn't be tolerated Yes, why not toss the women who do not conform to what you want them to look like out from society. I couldn't imagine tolerating the view of someone who was not pleasing to me. /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:49 PM
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Great job sticking with your exercise routine. If you're actually dealing with depression, it can be really hard to stick with something, so I'm proud of you. Keep it up Susandeath. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:46 PM
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So why should it only be socially acceptable for men to have multiple partners? If both partners could have multiple partners there would be no place for resentment. As a woman, being sexually unsatisfied affects me too. It pretty much kills my relationship. Men and women have the same option when their partner is not interested in sex anymore - masturbate or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:27 PM
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1) Women like having sex with asshole alphas, this is just a god damn fact of life. It's prevelant througout society and the animal kingdom. 2) Men NEED sex with lots of women, in a way women will never understand. I don't agree with either of these things. Many women are turned off by asshole alpha bros. Not all are, but it's a stretch to say that when lots of women have a different "type". There are a million different beloved male archetypes in popular media. Plus you know, non alphas end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 12:27 PM
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According to what you said, if I avoid fucking hypermasculine men or become a lesbian that will prevent me from being hurt. Sure, I can do that, but it will doing nothing for the women who are attracted to hyper masculine men, or end up in relationships where they are being abused. Or are being abused by their families. I wouldn't be a feminist if I only cared about what happened to me, and thought it was someone's own fault for being assaulted if they had sex with Macho Thundercock. For me, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 02:55 PM
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I think getting rid of gender roles is central to pretty much all feminism. Women shouldn't be seen as more emotional and weak by default, and men shouldn't be seen as worse parents and be able to show emotion without masculinity nonsense making it feel shameful. Feminists don't like forced gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 02:48 PM
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That's assuming you only care about yourself, and not women as a whole. And I do avoid hypermasculine men, but thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 02:18 PM
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I know at least 5 people who are gender queer/don't identify as either gender, and isn't it funny they all identify as feminists. I don't particularly want to get rid of gender for everyone because that's just not going to happen, although I'd be open to the idea if it was an option, but I do support getting rid of all gender roles so people of either gender can feel comfortable doing whatever the fuck they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 02:16 PM
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Yes we do. There are some shitty feminist groups, like TERFs, who have a bad rep inside feminism and out, but I've never met anyone who uses feminism to mean they're fighting for female superiority. That's not the point of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 02:59 PM
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but she's seeing a psychologist, that's his problem to deal with not mine. You're right. Anyone can only do so much, and it's okay if you've reached a point where you don't want to deal with it anymore. Especially considering she's being manipulative and probably doesn't want genuine help from you. Good luck, and it's okay for you to prioritize making yourself happy. Too much drama will burn anyone out, and it's completely normal for you to feel this way, and it doesn't make you a bad person. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 02:36 PM
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I really think this isn't a healthy relationship. My current gf tried to make me dump her by acting shitty to me instead of breaking up with me herself This is immature at best, emotionally abusive and manipulative at worst. she'd have killed herself without me Trying to manipulate you to stay/feel too bad to break up with her. I really think you should reconsider this relationship, because I think she'll try to manipulate you every time she doesn't get her way. She sounds toxic. I caught feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:14 PM
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The bluepill knows everyone is different, bluepill doesn't need to have more substance because we all get it, it only seems to be RPers that don't. Bluepill is literally just shocked that people can be as ridiculous as some of the posts in trp. That is it. There is no deeper meaning. We make fun of people who think treating other people like dirt is okay. This is just it. You don't have to be one way to be bluepill, except maybe not a misogynist. It's more that we're regular people who feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:01 PM
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That's why I quoted two of your points. I was refuting that a turned on woman would do anything for her partner AND that things that were enjoyed in the past will continue to be enjoyed in the present because you said both. And actually yes, exciting anal is due to the fact that I want to have anal sex. I/we plan it in advance to avoid mishaps, so it's not a "I'm so turned on right now" decision. But lets say I had anal in the past but now I don't with my current partner. It would have nothing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 12:35 PM
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A woman who loves and desires you will gladly do whatever you'd like to do in bed. those guys were different than the current one. That's all it is. I think everyone's entitled to their hard limits, and they have nothing to do with their partner. For example, my hard limits are scat and fisting. No matter how much I love and desire someone, those two things are not going to happen. Not for my boyfriend. Not for Johnny Depp. Not for Chad Thundercock. Some people have hang ups about other things, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:28 AM
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Not everyone realizes what kind of a parent their partner will be until the kid is here. Then there are also accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 08:37 PM
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It doesn't matter what he was then, he's a childish asshole now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:44 PM
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I don't think it's fair to hate pedophiles who aren't child molesters. They were dealt a really shitty hand. (I just read a post in offmychest that's literally about that).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:37 PM
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Start a movement of women getting out of the work force to support the family unit. When women stop pursuing careers, men will earn higher wages, and stable families will be on the rise Yeah, no. Having my degree become a worthless piece of paper is literally my worst nightmare come to life. Why can't all the men stay home so the women can earn higher wages? There'll be no hot men at work then to tempt the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:31 PM
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He used to pick up hot girls at clubs, get them all hot and horny, then say shit like, 'just kidding i'm too hot for you' and dump them on the spot just to let girls know how it feels when they reject men. What the fuck. Why would anyone do that to someone? That's mean, and it makes him no better than the women who have done that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:26 PM
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RP tries to claim that anyone who doesn't fit into the model is an outlier. So either reddit is filled with girls who are different, or TRP doesn't fit the majority of women like it claims to. I've also very rarely met guys who seem rp in real life. Everyone I know has casual sex, or gets into relationships, like normal people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:19 PM
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Why do you say that? It can be a very rational choice to leave someone who turned out to be a bad parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:12 PM
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I'd much rather be a diabolical ice queen or a dinosaur than a child, so I can deal with this. At least women can be intelligent, and independent under this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:10 PM
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Or, as an alternative, take the usual BP route... Refuse to get educated... I was literally with you until you included this. Did you really need to put a jab against blue pill in when we were trying to have a productive conversation? Also it's really arrogant to say that people who don't want to read red pill materials refuse to get educated, it's just that they see it as a waste of their time. Just because I'm interested in red pill in a sociological/anthropological kind of way doesn't mean an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:53 PM
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It rubs me the wrong way that you're taking credit for your girlfriend's awesome fitness accomplishments, unless you were literally her personal trainer. Even then, it feels really arrogant. She did the work. She stuck with the program. How did the red pill force your girlfriend to lift? If she didn't want to she could have just not. Or done a shittier job at going to the gym. Or found someone who didn't badger her to lift if she didn't want to get in awesome shape. Give her some credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:14 PM
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I wish more BPers would just read some basic material, try out a few innocuous and safe things, and see if it worked for them. If only to allow for more effective debate. I'm not going to read the whole library, but what do you think are innocuous and safe red pill things that a normal and happy relationship could benefit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:08 PM
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I apologize if I'm wrong, but isn't the idea to keep throwing your game at women and it will eventually work on one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 03:27 PM
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Neat. I legitimately think this is a good idea. It's too bad abundance mentality seems to be part of the fuel here, but in general I'm glad to see a post like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 02:25 PM
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Well, I'll explain how my boyfriend and I got together. Meet at work. Notice we have things in common and chat about them. Facebook message for a month or so about common interests. He asked me to go out with him. Sparks flew and we set up a second date. Keep dating and eventually have sex and become official. Pretty straightforward. Meet someone you get along with and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 02:13 PM
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Whether I reciprocate or not on a blowjob isn't the point - the point is that someone is willing to actually do something unselfish for me that I really enjoy because they want to see me happy and make an actual, material show of their devotion (as opposed to "blah blah blah LOVE, blah blah blah DEVOTION, etc."). I respond better to actions than to flowery words. You are exactly the kind of person that will eventually kill any relationship. There is constant score-keeping about who is doing how …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 01:58 PM
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How does TRP explain how to be confident and social?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 01:51 PM
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The funny thing is, feminism has screwed over high SMV women the most. Why do you say that? Feminism has allowed women to live the bachelor lifestyle, or do whatever they want, and I think that's awesome. I'm a career women who doesn't want to have children, with a stable long term boyfriend. I personally feel like feminism has helped shape a society where I can happily live my life this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 01:21 AM
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Not having any respect for someone is far more insulting than not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 11:21 PM
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However, on this date the guy kisses Samantha, and wants to have sex with her. Samantha refuses, but the guy says: "Chloe has been hooked up with me and nearly all 30 guys in our class, so I guess if your not interested in sex now I don't think i'm really interested in committing to you while I could bang chloe for much less effort." He then politely walks away. I would be happy if someone said this to me on the first date if I was looking for a long term relationship. The goals of both of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 11:17 PM
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Then why do women resist guys trying to have sex with them all the time? They don't. Some women don't want to have sex with some men. Lots of women don't resist having sex with men they are attracted to. It's sad that you don't view women as winners when they have sex. Sex is supposed to be mutually beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 11:09 PM
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It's sentences like that that make me wonder if TRP is just a dedicated bunch of trolls. I tried to address that sentence, but couldn't come up with anything besides "that's just not true". If someone doesn't believe that men and women can love each other equally, and love each other more than the individual parts of a relationship, there's just nothing else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 02:11 PM
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Because women throw themselves at these men, and since men like sex more than women, these men do not reject many women. This kind of desperateness, where someone will have sex with anyone who throws themselves at them, is the biggest turnoff there is to me. And I imagine it is to other women as well. And it's a turn off, and social faux pas, to fuck someone who has fucked your friends. Pretty sure no one is into that unless they're trashy and feed on drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 11:54 PM
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Better example: You had bad grades in freshman year of college. "But the past is the past and that doesn't matter!" If you said that at any professional interview you would be laughed out of the room. And possibly blacklisted from the industry in question. But, I've seen this happen. I know people who failed out of their major the first time, then went back and started getting good grades and had no problem finding work terms and employment. "I was young, and dumb, and didn't know how to study, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 11:45 PM
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Anecdotal experience, take it as you will: Rape, and pressure to have sex you don't want, are rampant in the housing at my university. The pressure being that groups of people will almost badger a girl about how much Guy A likes her, and try and 'get them together'. It's as weird as it sounds. Of course there's also lots of sex where the woman is far far too drunk to consent. No one reports any of it because a) the fear of creating drama. It's easy to get ostracized since each house is like a we…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:49 PM
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You spelled dumb wrong. Lots of people have gone on dates to a private place without the intent of having sex. And even if the intent was there originally, it doesn't mean both parties will want to later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:26 PM
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So if I blackmail someone into saying yes to sex with me, you don't think that's rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:20 PM
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I really prefer equal relationships. I want a relationship where my partner and I make decisions together and can compromise. I don't like to have to make all the decisions, but I don't having them made for me either. Gotta have good communication. Sexually, I primarily like being submissive, but occasionally enjoy being dominant. Sex with the FA person could evolve into anything though, and I think it's fun to introduce someone inexperienced to new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 07:41 PM
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I'd pick the forever alone. I imagine that person would be very happy to have a partner, and I'd rather be with someone who's inexperienced than someone who sees me as a plate. FA can learn to be a good partner, and a good lover, RP can't learn to see women as more intelligent than teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 12:45 PM
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I would say it means she feels sure of his love for her, and doesn't feel like she has to make herself uncomfortable to get this guy to stay with her. Not saying it was healthy for a hypothetical person to have done this in the past, but it doesn't have to say anything about her respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:43 PM
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Are you serious? No, it is not okay for anyone to feel forced to do anything sexual that they don't want to do. Anyone who argues that someone should HAVE to participate in a sexual encounter they do not want to be a part of is gross, doesn't care about their partner's needs/wants, and shouldn't have a partner. I also don't think women should be beaten down into agreeing to participating in threesomes, but I guess that goes without saying. And it's not selfish to want to stay within your own sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 12:58 PM
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Are you joking? How is Red pill the most equalist when it thinks women are mentally inferior to men, and that women can't control themselves from taking their pants off and jumping ship from a relationship when an alpha male comes around, yet men can be honest and loyal and it's morally okay for men to have as much sex as they want with no consequences but women who have as much sex as men are used up and unfit for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 01:14 AM
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I'd be willing to argue more feminists split the bill than non feminists. Some probably rationalize the "real gentlemen pay for dinner" mindset somehow, but not me, OP, or the feminists I know in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 01:09 AM
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I think it depends. I'd flirt with someone who had the capacity to give me a discount if I found flirting enjoyable, but I don't think I'd feel disappointed if I didn't get anything out of it. I'd never be able to straight up ask for a discount while flirting because that seems really rude and awkward. But I wouldn't feel bad if I got an extra side of guacamole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 03:05 PM
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You're right. Now I've seen the light and I know I'm supposed to never speak and just give blow jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 08:41 PM
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You must really hate women for some reason. The point of this is it literally doesn't matter to me what choice he makes, and just because we discuss something that doesn't mean I have a set plan of what I want him to do. He's actually staying at his current job right now because he loves the company, just not what he's doing, and is hoping he can get transferred where he wants to be in x amount of time (we think he'll get some kind of a pay cut when he moves where he wants to be too, since the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 06:26 PM
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He can go back to school guilt free and he knows that! We discussed what he wants to do and he is already doing what he wants to do. I don't have a problem, I'm not looking for advice, I'm explaining that I have an equal partnership where my partner is free to do what is best for him without it benefiting me in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 05:32 PM
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Okay. So if he takes charge and changes things himself without talking to me that's okay. But if I make suggestions and tell him he should feel free to do what he wants/needs to do in order to have the career he wants instead of one he hates I'm a nagging micromanager. Lol. And I already make the same amount of money he does, and my income is going to surpass his very soon (he graduated before me). What he makes means nothing to me as long as he's happy at his job and we have enough to eat and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 03:17 PM
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This is just straight up not true. My partner has self respect. I don't care about all of my partners hobbies, but I encourage him to take part in them and do things that he's on the fence about but would enjoy (that wouldn't increase his smv). He hates his job that pays better than anything else he would get, and I encourage him to start looking at job ads at least so he can do what he wants, and we'll handle the pay cut if it happens. I've offered to be the sole breadwinner while he goes back …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 02:06 PM
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Non red pill men are not trained dogs. They're human beings who don't feel the way you do. There are many relationships in which both partners support each other to reach their goals. Seriously, good equal relationships exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 01:43 PM
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I personally think it's healthier to approach people with the idea that you have no idea what they're like, since everyone is different. If I assume they'll be a manipulative brainless harpy I'm more likely to be paranoid about it/feel confirmation from little things that aren't actually an indication of them being manipulative. I don't do those things you mentioned, but I do tend to trust that my partner isn't putting up a facade after we've been together for a while. Noticing new red flags can…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 01:35 PM
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This was a really interesting and thorough response, and I think it deserves more than an upvote. Your job sounds really neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 11:52 PM
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This read like absolute gibberish to me. Are there any nonred men who can confirm that this is how you felt growing up, especially if feminists told you you're not going to have many things?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:44 PM
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If you say you don't want to something you should not be nagged. If you are in a disagreement you should not be the calm one while the other screams and slams stuff. I think everyone would consider this scumbag behavior. You don't have to be red pill to not put up with toxic people and their shitty behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:33 PM
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And then, he realizes that the guys who are having "good relationships" - they're just following a set of rules. A set of rules that he was never taught. Not all guys in successful relationships are secretly red pilling their girlfriends though. That's a naive thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:27 PM
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It makes me sad that this was considered a feminist thing to say when this should be considered base human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:26 PM
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Because he took a well-known and accepted general assumption ("women are better at socializing and communicating") and made a statement of the downside that fact entails ("women are better at manipulating"). You don't know how to respond to that because you're offended, because giving women as a whole severely unflattering characteristics to you is probably anathema to you. I could accept this. I could probably believe that women are better manipulators in general because we have higher EQ. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:20 PM
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I see trying to get someone to fall in love with you as more mutually beneficial. I don't see anything immoral in wanting to be loved/love someone else. Is it desperate to want to attract a man so badly you're reading a book about it? Yes. But wanting to have a fulfilling relationship is not hurting anyone. I see trying to manipulate someone into sex as per sexual strategy to be gross, and desperate as well. But it's also cold and bitter and sexist. A big part of that strategy says women are tee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:15 PM
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This is where we just fundamentally don't agree. Right now I know many men and women who are fit/unfit/somewhere in between depending on the partner for LTRs. I don't see the trend in women being the ones who are more unfit. Plus there are a lot of men out there who are having casual sex because they want to, not because they swallowed TRP. It's backpedaling to say that casual sex isn't acceptable to men when men are having it regardless of TRP or their beliefs in the loyalty of women or anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 01:29 AM
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For some women, casual sex is the best option available to them. Some men also just enjoy having casual sex, and some women do too. Not everyone wants a relationship all the time, and casual sex is acceptable to many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 01:02 AM
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From my understanding, a big part of red pill involves having plates. Having sex with plates is casual sex. How is it not acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:57 AM
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Please do not equate harmless flirting which happens probably subconsciously to cock carouseling. Just because it is common behaviour does not make it acceptable behaviour. Casual sex is generally acceptable behavior in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 11:37 PM
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Using someone for sex isn't the only problem here. Thinking that women are essentially children/teenagers forever, that you should "push through their resistance" because they lie, and that they have no loyalty/can't be monogamous are all negative views of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 11:22 PM
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Pretty much all women have a 'soft harem' of ex boyfriends, 'cool guys', co-workers, whatever, that they are currently fucking or are one drink at the local bar away from fucking. Are there any statistics on this? I literally can't wrap my mind around it. There is no one who I am one drink away from fucking. I do know two girls who have "soft harems" but I don't see this as the norm among my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 02:28 PM
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Were your parents more involved in your life than most other kids or less involved in your life than other kids? Or neither. Please elaborate. Well my father wasn't around for most of it. Mom was involved, but not a helicopter parent or anything. I'd say she was about the same as most parents. Related questions (about your school age years, 6-18): Did your parents make your breakfast, lunch, dinner or did you do that yourself? Mom made breakfast until I was in grade 5 or so, then she started onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 02:12 PM
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Well obviously he exists, and no one wants to be him. There are people I would consider sleeping with without wanting a relationship with. But they'd be people who I think are attractive and would be fun to sleep with, but I don't have matching life goals with. I wouldn't sleep with someone who was a jerk or a player, because I wouldn't sleep with someone who seemed dishonest or mean. There are people in relationships with passion for each other. I would never be in a relationship with someone I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:44 PM
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I am horrified whenever either partner cheats on the other. Less so in fictional TV universes where every character is morally shitty, because you kind of expect it, more so in fictional universes where I'm invested in the characters. I also just read a thread about a guy being raped and his girlfriend not believing him. I don't care about gender, I really feel for that guy. Anyone with a terrible partner who has done nothing but treat them right ellicits empathy from me. When things get more gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:25 PM
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Bisexual woman. I'd be with any variation of a trans person if I found them attractive, they seemed nice, and we seemed compatible. The only thing I'd have a problem with would be if they were pre-op and didn't enjoy having their parts touched. I couldn't have a satisfying sexual relationship with someone who wouldn't let me touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 10:23 PM
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Unrelated: I really like roller derby. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 02:44 AM
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What I don't understand about all of this is how these things are in a woman's nature. It makes me wonder how they rationalize women who don't do these things. Does TRP sees lesbians as a whole different kind of person all together? I know this is straight couple sexual strategy, but hypothetically, are there 20% of alpha lesbians who get 80% of the sex, or are their brains wired differently? If I don't want children, and don't care much about the idea of marriage, am I automatically going to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:28 PM
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I was about to wholeheartedly agree with this comment, but your username makes me second guess your real motives. But seriously, using either strategy is manipulative, and a turn off. Just be an interesting and kind human being who is not super obese. Approach a woman as a person, and not a sexual object. From my experiences, that's how normal people's relationships are formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:06 PM
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I see "be confident" as far more specific advice than "be attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 11:37 PM
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I didn't say women, I said people. Men can get trapped in abusive relationships too. There's a lot of psychology going on in the abuservictim dynamic that makes these people feel like they can't get out. I suppose they are passive until they either reach out to someone or they get killed. But I really don't think it's fair to call them passive, because they feel more powerless than passive. Either way. For some people, there is no level of getting to know someone that would save them from being …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:56 PM
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There are probably some little red flags. But like you said, they're easy to ignore when you're in the honeymoon phase and such signs can be overlooked. It's easy to see how someone you love calling their exes crazy could invoke a "wow, what a shitbag someone would have to be to harm this perfect magical partner I love". Not always, but there's often a level of low self esteem already present in these people. There's a lot of gaslighting to make the abused think they're crazy for having their no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:47 PM
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The weird thing is that it wasn't even a jab at the red pill. It was just an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:36 PM
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What beta traits do the guys who have the best relationships have?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 03:06 PM
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Usually people can't tell they're with an abuser until it's been 6 months to a year, and the abuser slowly ruins their self esteem and makes them feel worthless. They feel like they're trapped, not good enough for anything, and they make the abuser act this way by being such a terrible unloveable human being. No one punches someone in the face on the fifth date. It's more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:38 PM
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Good for you, but if 40% admit to the practice you can be sure that it happens more than that. I imagine you don't think the answer here is to fight for women's equality since you're so down on Feminism. But what do you think should be done about this issue instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 06:19 AM
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Curious, what's the middle ground here to you? I see a lot of people who exist in that range, but that's based on my own perception of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:16 AM
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Many people who have been in jail go on to commit more crimes. We don't get notified when someone who committed a home invasion moves into our neighborhood. Jail is supposed to be rehabilitating, so in theory even those on the sex offenders list should come out with a second chance. I kind of think the list is immoral. If someone can't come out and live a semi normal life, and is at high risk for re offending, maybe they shouldn't be living with the public at all. Usually just googling someone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 12:10 PM
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I 100% would support it. Except for the sex offender registry part, since that sounds more like revenge than something that's needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 02:44 AM
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But even for the most lowly dog, there is only so many times you let someone kick you with their boot before it starts to piss you off. Woof, woof girls. Are you saying here that you're red pill because you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 10:23 AM
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A trans person is not pretending to be the other sex. Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 01:29 AM
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I'm bisexual, so my vote doesn't really count. But it's yes only as long as I'm with a trans person who is comfortable with their body. I don't think I would be able to stay in a relationship where I couldn't pleasure my partner because they were triggered by their parts being touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 01:21 AM
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I'm a woman, so I can't use RP tactics. When I was a teenager I had a partner neg and dread game me, and it just resulted in me feeling bad about myself, hating him, and then me breaking up with him. I can't think of any successful tactics, but I've seen talk of "The Sex God Method" around. I've never read exactly what it entails, but it seems to be lots of dominance and control, which is what I'm into (but we also have a safeword). But I mean, I have a blue pill partner. He's super shy and swee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 07:20 PM
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How would that help anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:36 PM
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What is a better way to force the judges to be objective than to want there to be no assumptions made about either parents skills as a parent based on their gender? Seriously, what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:32 PM
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Yes, the draft is an issue that feminism should do something about. Shame on all feminists everywhere for not prioritizing the draft over all the inferior issues it cares more about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:29 PM
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So, maybe American men should try and abolish the draft if they care so much and not blame feminism for not solving all of their problems? Even if I was American I probably wouldn't care about the draft, when was the last time it was ever used?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:15 PM
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Equality of the sexes will result in equal treatment. And what are you even arguing? Yes, custody used to go to men by default. That was wrong. That got changed, and it was assumed it was in the child's best interest to be with the mother by default. That was wrong. Then that was abolished, and children are supposed to go to the more fit parent. But considering that there is no law in place, any bias is coming from the judge. If the judge didn't have any assumptions based on gender then there wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:12 PM
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I don't agree with anyone not being able to control their anger. Everyone gets mad, and that's fine, but no one should be screaming at or intimidating someone else. And considering anger is already a masculine emotion, I meant more along the lines of emotions that make men look vulnerable, but I think you knew that. The people who think child raising is women's work. If both sexes were seen as equally nurturing then custody wouldn't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 12:47 PM
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If women are viewed as men's equal they will get equal sentences. That's it. And what have you done to address this? I support equality. I volunteer at a women's center that promotes equality, deals with awareness for sexual health (including paps for men), and does fundraiser events to raise money to donate to local charities (mostly women's shelters, but we've also donated to LGBT charities, and a shelter that helps reintegrate men who have been in prison). I am doing the action I can to try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:12 AM
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I know that feel. I just don't see the benefit of women getting lighter prison sentences from any perspective, feminist or otherwise. I want prison to be rehabilitative, I personally don't plan to ever break the law, and I would rather people who are truly dangerous to be in a place where they aren't going to hurt anyone. There is no benefit to women getting lighter prison sentences, except for that particular person. I don't know what he thinks feminism is, but it doesn't want female criminals …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 02:52 AM
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Reading one book and a sidebar of essays doesn't make someone well read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:04 AM
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Feminist here: I'm not. A) I hate that women are seen as/expected to be weak, fragile, nurturing, etc. which is why they would get lighter prison sentences. B) I believe the prison system is shit and corrupt. I don't know why I would want women to get lighter prison sentences than men, because that's not equality, and it plays into gender roles, which I really fucking hate. I also don't want dangerous criminals of either gender on the street when they should be in jail. I also hate it when peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 01:00 AM
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RP men believe that our hypothetical slooooot has shot herself in the foot and ended up in a situation worse than what she initially envisioned, having to settle for the clown she's not really satisfied with out of necessity because her Facebook feed is making her unhappy and the city in which she lives has a bylaw restricting the number of cats she can own. What percentage of women do RP men think are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 03:18 AM
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Oh god. I'm 22 and not snacking is hell for me. Are you telling me that there is a point where this gets worse, and I will have to eat even less than I do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 01:30 PM
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First one barely counts because we were young, but it goes without saying we grew into different people from ages 13-16. Second partner cheated on me (and gas lighted me and negged me, it was pretty emotionally abusive). Third partner, I felt like he wasn't prioritizing me, and I realized our sex drives/desires were too different for a long term relationship. So, I don't think any alpha-ness could have stopped my break ups. And vagina tingles is a pill-less word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 12:56 PM
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Well, that's a sunk cost at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 10:06 AM
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being nice and supplicating would work in the dating market. "Just be yourself" advice would work for 90% of guys, But it does! I will never understand this. I am a woman who is with a nice non alpha normal man, I have been for two years and still love him/the relationship more than ever, and my friend's relationships are along the same vein. Why is this so hard for redpillers? If you're not completely off putting then you can find a nice partner who loves you the way you are. And if someone was…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 11:36 PM
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Some must, but I can imagine one's life isn't very fulfilling that way. Yes, Sex is great, and fun. I do it every second day or so. But I mean, it's not the be all end all of the world. It seems like such a small thing to make the centre of one's life to the point where one would base their personality around how to maximize sex over anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 08:14 PM
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I assume he loves her, and finds her to be sexy rather than just her body being sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 10:25 PM
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At the very least, I see this as someone not having their priorities straight. I'd rather not have sex and be a good person than be a toxic jerk who gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 08:19 PM
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Because we could toss anecdotes back and forth all day. Mine could be a rare 1/10000 thing, while yours is common, and without quality research to go on we'd just keep going around in circles. And one of us could make ours up. I think technically they are a kind of evidence, but not convincing or hard evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 08:16 PM
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People "get tired of people" all the time though. That's why many LTRs end, I imagine, because eventually one or both partners aren't feeling it anymore. I think it depends on how two people fit together more than one partner's past, unless it was riddled with cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 03:04 AM
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This is the funniest post I've read all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 02:48 AM
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as a man or woman, would you be more willing to stick around after one type of infidelity than another? Or are both types of infidlities a deal-breaker for the relationship? I think that sex or an emotional affair would both be deal breakers. Assuming I did want to save the relationship for whatever reason, I think it would be easier for me to recover from an emotional affair. From what I imagine, those start out innocently enough by just talking with someone you think is cute and over time it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:08 PM
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Glad you agree that game works I am super blue pill, but I accept that it has to work on some women or else no one would ever talk about it. I think things like dread game are mean, I wouldn't put up with it if I had a partner that used it, and I don't see how stuff like this can be part of a healthy relationship where everyone feels secure. I also don't believe it's a universal thing that works on all women, because people are different. They do, totally want to ride that carousel hard. I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 03:28 PM
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If by player you mean someone who cheats, or pretends to reciprocate someone's romantic feelings to use them for sex, yes. That's what I see a player as. However, I wouldn't be friends with someone who hated either gender, or thought people who had a lot of sex were inherently bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 01:10 PM
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Huh. Personally, I wouldn't be able to be with a guy who had negative views on women in general (sluts, need to stay home, are stupider than men, etc) even if he thought I was the exception. Not only because I would think he eventually would or actually did apply that to me as well, but also because painting a group of people with the same brush grosses me out. To each their own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:44 PM
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Easy, millionaire As long as I could pick who I married and wasn't just assigned a random partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:17 PM
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I think you meant to post this in KetoDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:12 PM
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are men incapable of love because they are just looking for another vagina Yes, totally That was surprising. I've never seen anyone admit this, is this 'real red pill' or just how you feel? I would think far less badly about TRP if they admitted they were just guys trying to get laid as much as possible and found a way that worked, and didn't pull this "men are the only ones who can love, and are loyal and virtuous while women are evil whores who naturally want to ride the cock carousel but only…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:09 PM
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You wouldn't mind being with a male partner that has slept around a lot, but thinks that women who have had more than ~3 partners are sluts? (I'm not trying to be an ass here, I'm genuinely curious because that would bother the shit out of me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:01 PM
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Everyone has passions. Why would I discourage it? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on femininity on TRP, and I think that high levels of ambition aren't traditionally feminine. Your response is completely reasonable. I agree that as long as my partner is happy doing what they do, I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 03:51 PM
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I just don't care that much if a woman matched my passion with regards to success. This is something that so many feminists have a hard time understanding, or maybe refuse to understand because they want men to reward women for success in the same way women reward men. Would you at least be supportive if your partner had something they were passionate about/achieved success in, or would you discourage it? Do you understand why many women would want to be with someone who (and live in a world tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 03:18 PM
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I'm a woman, and I like having a lot of sex. I have a partner of ~2 years, and we still have a great sex life. I don't think of it as something he "gets" from me, because I am a very happy and active participant. I think there's equal enjoyment here. However, in the past when in a relationship where the sex was not fulfilling for me, I did see it as something he "gets" from me. That led to some build up of resentment and weird feelings about sex. So I see men "getting" sex from women as the coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 02:57 PM
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I resent this. My mother left my shitty alcoholic father when I was 1. I'm her only child. She went to school, and works a white collar job. She has worked her whole life only to declare bankruptcy at 50 years old. She never asked for a penny of child support from my father because she's too proud, he barely works anyway, and she didn't want to be one of those single mothers who are draining tax dollars when there are "people who are worse off than her". So seeing people complain about single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 09:54 PM
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First of all, the child is punished when the divorce occurs. As a child who was very happy when her parents broke up, I strongly disagree. It's better to be happy with your parents apart than for everyone to be miserable as a family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 01:52 AM
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What have you contributed to society?
/r/askTRP11/11/14 05:58 PM
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Are you Brock?
/r/MGTOW28/09/14 09:26 PM
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