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Question For WomenSuch-Bed7764/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:27 AM
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So basically if society is degenerate, and everyone so unhappy, you’re happy with this outcome as long as people are “doing what they want and living how they see fit “
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:52 PM
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Nothing like penis insecurity for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:50 PM
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Women will never be as insecure as men when it comes to sex. Women have a responsibility to build up their man’s security, not outsource it to stoicism and toxic repression. In my ltr we knew everything about each other. Including all past types of lovers and anything that was worth talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:19 PM
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So this is all theory to you, not how you actually operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:11 PM
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I don’t think the two are very comparable. A woman’s desired body part is out in the open. Men can get off from a woman just laying there and letting him use her, all he requires is her desire that that is what she wants. A man can want a woman and try his hardest in sex and do everything he can think of to be the best man, and still end up a dud in bed compared to a superior man. Iv already been in one relationship where the woman told me about her past and I got a good idea of it, this gave me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:09 PM
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Dick size. Types of fucking you did. Are not little details and iv asked them before in round about ways, some women are honest. Women don’t have to worry much about that because they don’t set the tone during sex. They follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:53 PM
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Why do you care about sleeping with a bunch of men and never having a long term relationship and being a hedonist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:52 PM
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Condescending types like you deserve to be attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:38 PM
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I treat my partners like gold. Better than you are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:35 PM
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So you live your life based on what you read from Reddit men on purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:28 PM
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There is also technique. Ability to stay hard and delay orgasm while maintaining sensitivity. How you talk during sex, what kind of wordplay you do. How you tease and the pace. Is there some dynamic that cannot be replicated like race, other taboos that turned her on. So no, I’m blunt in saying there are other important elements than dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:27 PM
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I will keep pursuing monogamous relationships, thank you very much. Female condescension is funny, y’all think you are so much sneakier than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:22 PM
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You only care about your kids skin color, eye color and hair color. How trite. You could mate with a blonde man who has a completely different skeletal structure or genetic history as you. I think you are making stuff up to justify your racialized ideas of men and what turns you on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:20 PM
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So you think biracial people are superior to mono racial people…. Ok… I guess we know what plans you have for marriage then..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:18 PM
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Why not have babies with a black guy then. They will look as far from you as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:16 PM
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Why do you assume men are banging on the first date ? A lot of men just kiss on the first date. Thats like standard. Not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:13 PM
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I am by default kind, empathetic, open minded…. Why would i feel value over something that is simply a product of how your parents raise you. You really only value yourself for how kind you are, really? Is that because you find it difficult to be kind, so you think it’s like an amazing quality, hard to develop? For me it’s default. And it certainly doesn’t make women attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:09 PM
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Too much work. I don’t like 3some anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:03 PM
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I’m not simply talking about dick. That’s just one part of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:02 PM
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It doesn’t matter what it’s a response to once it is said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:35 PM
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Maybe consider that your viewpoint is just gender bias instead of objective. At the heart of things I think I want what’s best for men and women and our society at large. And iv been traumatized by the behavior of women but especially how other women encourage their poor behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:34 PM
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I thought you said you had felt the feeling of being dickmatized before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:30 PM
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Reddit is mostly male and attracts a broad section of men so yes most are normal dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:29 PM
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You could have dated intentionally from the beginning but you are too obsessed with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:22 PM
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I honestly think it’s true because when I talk to my woman friends irl they never share the crazy opinions that I read about on here from these Reddit women. I really think Reddit women because of the demographics of this website are poisoning the minds of young men and distorting reality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:21 PM
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You just seem very lost and confused. You could have just dated intentionally from the beginning but you are too obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:19 PM
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Then what is the purpose of your so called “strategy” of making some men wait for sex…? It’s not misogynistic for a man to want to feel special with his woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:13 PM
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You’re the one who agreed that you’ve been dickmatized in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:10 PM
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Both obviously. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:09 PM
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And I and many men will find that quality of yours not very attractive in the least. Sounds like you are autistic and only care about the NOW and not the FUTURE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:08 PM
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) A man who has a lower libido, or puts less emphasis on sex in a relationship, will be wise to look for a similar partner. High body count may be a contraindication Why would a high body count be a problem for a man with a lower than average libido ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:04 PM
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I said the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:00 PM
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Teaching you what? Do you even know what I am talking about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:59 AM
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No I provided an explanation in my OP which is that the men in these women’s social circles are actually unattractive in general, not just to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:58 AM
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The strategy of not sleeping with men on the first date. Jfc I am scared to have daughters. I’m just going to hope that intelligent women will be able to work this stuff out, hope they get my brains
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:55 AM
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Not as pathetic as all those women who fucked him though right ? I mean what the hell were they thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:53 AM
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My conclusion is that women learn to gaslight and obfuscate from an early age
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:50 AM
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So how will any other man with an average cock ever feel confident with you when you have given that energy to another man and it’s impossible for you to give it to him. Yes I am far more impressed by large dicks than average or small ones. If I like the person at all it sets off a praise response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:48 AM
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It means she doesn’t respect herself. Intelligent women with self respect know that your “strategy” of sleeping with randos easily and making men you actually want for real shit wait is both disrespectful to your future husband, and makes no sense at all for getting what you want, a man who finds you unique, special, wonderful, who wants to commit. I wonder if that kind of strategy is correlated to IQ in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:42 AM
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You aren’t alone. A few of the women friends of my last fling were stunners and were your age. One was an actual model, think tall Balkan girl. And two of them were virgins, well one just lost it to some guy. But they go clubbing quite often and it would be easy for a man to decide if they are sluty party girls going home with a new man every other weekend compared to the reality. I have another friend who is a total flirt, loves showing off her body. She has a low count still. Some women are pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:40 AM
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What is stopping boring girls from having lots of casual sex. In the end women decide the standards, not men. They have the power
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:35 AM
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Who are you to say what is worth spending time thinking about. Again with the egotism. Yes yes we know, youre a confident woman who doesn’t need to think about men, CONGRATULATIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:31 AM
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It does. Have you ever been dickmatized by a large cock ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:28 AM
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The narcissism. The egotism. “Men I like are princes the other ones are icky frogs!! Tee hee, even the guys in my friend groups, why would I ever consider one of them attractive ewwww”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:26 AM
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Well I’m impressive once I get past the ED. You’re the one who started off asking if I’m impressive. Now you’re saying I can’t be impressive if I’m not perfect. Goes right back to what I said with comparing me to other men. Once you fuck a man who is much better than me in dick size, technique, verbal play, foreplay, I’m not longer impressive to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:24 AM
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Don’t most women assume most men would play with them sexually if given the chance ? Women just assume they are attractive to their partners friends. Did you not think of this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:20 AM
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Why won’t I be impressive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:19 AM
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Good point. It’s disturbing though because it reveals they have very little attachment or investment in the culture at large. At least eastern people tend to reflect on how their behavior effects society at large
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:16 AM
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That’s totally normal but I don’t understand the knee jerk reaction to call your friends parters UNNATTRATIVE simply because he’s not a sexual option for you at that time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:12 AM
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Who we are attracted to can reveal degeneracies in the culture and our sexual upbringing. And is very much open for criticism to improve the culture over all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:09 AM
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Same KIND of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:59 AM
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It feels very powerful to have a harem as a man. Especially when you know so many other guys struggle lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:58 AM
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I have ED problems so that makes it harder to feel impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:55 AM
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You don’t get the sense that women on this sub are egotistical? Really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:54 AM
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Incorrect. Moreso I’m exposing how crazy female framing is. The thread is not about me so much. I know I’m handsome, I don’t have to fish for validation about my looks. There’s much more to being a sexually successful man than a pretty face
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:52 AM
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Both of them sound unattractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:48 AM
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Wow you’re like the first woman out of 30 in this thread to say you ever found one of your friends boyfriends sexy or hot. Women in group bias think is just off the charts. Do you feel insecure that your opinion is such an outlier among these Reddit women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:44 AM
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No. People generally are positive about my looks and superficial things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:42 AM
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I agree the way women operate is disturbing. But it’s also just fronting online. High egos make for extreme fear of any kind of objective comparison. It’s better to create narratives about “types” and why the men they pick are princes and everyone else is a frog
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:40 AM
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Sounds like both of you may be right about each others men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:35 AM
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In some ways. Not like the men in porn with super large dicks who can fuck in 16 different positions though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:33 AM
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All I said is that I’d prefer if her friends find me attractive. I don’t need anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:26 AM
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So you have many types and yet none of your friends ever happened to date your type. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:58 AM
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So you have one particular type and all others are unattractive. Or is that not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:55 AM
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It’s a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:53 AM
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I’m a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:52 AM
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What is different about your friends types
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:51 AM
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Again you can’t fetishize you can’t fetishize your own race. Don’t get things confused, you are the weird one for not finding your own group attractive. Iv been with all types of races sexually, not a big deal for men. When males go interracial, you damn well know it’s a fetish, you’ll never know what’s really going through his head at times when he’s fucking you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:49 AM
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A lot of my friends and I are interested in the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:46 AM
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I’m interested in porn use as well. You’re the one who tried to judge me saying I’m not being loyal and implying I’m lusting over the gfs friends when in fact that is provably what your hubby does. I wonder if he’s the type jack it to his girls friends, a lot of guys have that kink. Or maybe he just jacks it to e girls, either way he’s literally cumming thinking of someone besides you quite often
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:36 AM
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Right on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:32 AM
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What about people who claim they are loved ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:24 AM
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Uh no, he watches porn by himself. Even if he does with you as well. It’s obvious this is some kind of issue for you or you’d just admit that your bloke watches some porn sometimes to get a sexual escape like most dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:23 AM
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They don’t “like” white women. They fetishize them. Yes they think they are a bunch of whores too because they grow up watching 1000s of white women in porn where as it’s almost impossible to find Arab Muslim women in porn. Sounds like something someone would say who never had the courage to ask. “I don’t have to ask”. Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:17 AM
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I don’t pursue friends of women I am dating. Maybe you have more experience with incestuous stuff like that ? So you think only people “addicted” to porn watch porn? Awwww I bet your hubby tells you that he doesn’t watch porn because your his everything…. Why are women so naive jfc it’s amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:14 AM
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I don’t want either of those. I’d like a woman who exclusively likes guys like me. If her previous guys are guys like me then we’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:11 AM
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I’m just stating a fact that your wonderful husband jerks off to other women who look nothing like you and do things that you don’t do sexually. Does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:06 AM
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It’s part of my value, yep. Other things are how entertaining I am, how much money I make, how many cool friends I have, how successful are my kids (when I have them). To name a few. What do you base your value on ? Some guy saying he loves you? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:04 AM
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Oh seems iv found the woman who lacks an ego… impressive. Not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:03 AM
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I thought you were conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:02 AM
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So how do you feel about your husband jacking it to porn girls while you lecture me on why it’s somehow wrong for me to want to be considered an option by someone in my social circle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:01 AM
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My high paying job hasn’t gotten me any women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:59 AM
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If your partner is enough then you only care about what they think of you and develop blind spots on what others think of you. Other people matter too, you don’t live in an isometric dome cut off from society with just your hubby
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:55 AM
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Part of me being attractive to my partner is showing them that I am attractive to other people, that they have a catch and are lucky to have me because so many others also want me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:52 AM
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White women in general, they prefer. White women are status symbols. But blondes are better. You’ll believe any lies he tells you. I can’t have a fetish for my own people. Btw interracial couples kids have more fucked up teeth, so much for diversity is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:48 AM
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Intimate partners have less standards for themselves. That’s why married couples get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:44 AM
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They don’t care about that. They just want a good fuck from someone who makes them giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:41 AM
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Ya, you are obsessed with your own preferences. Thats how they get so narrow. Your elevated sense of self. If you were more grounded you’d have less ridiculous sexual preferences. Like for example your mother probably had much less narcissistic preferences than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:39 AM
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Uh, no, he has a blond fetish like most brown men from the Middle East and Indian subcontinent do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:37 AM
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because it means I’m valuable. It feeds my ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:36 AM
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I can’t understand how you can’t understand how someone wants to keep feeling attractive to others regardless if they are in a relationship or not. I’d not want to be with some women who doesn’t care about her appearance at all because she thinks there’s no one to impress anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:34 AM
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You’re the one who is rigid. You only see things from your own bubble. Like I said, it comes from narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:33 AM
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Even if they thought you were ugly, below average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:25 AM
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People can be physically sexually and socially attractive in general, objectively. Why does this idea offend your sensibilities ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:24 AM
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Why are you so picky given that you are a low value. Shouldn’t you have more flexible ideas. There are many different kinds of beards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:21 AM
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Simply Reading my post is not seeing my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:17 AM
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It matters because it makes me feel good to know I am attractive. So if all your friends bfs let it be known that they find you ugly… you wouldn’t care because your bf says you are cute ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:15 AM
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When have you ever tried to see things from my perspective ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:12 AM
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No, you don’t like many attractive people. You only like a narrow subset of people whom you deem to be “ your type”. Your type does not encompass attractive people at large
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:11 AM
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Nah, they are going to be brown and brown. They won’t share your traits. As you said, your traits are recessive. Remember that why your husband likes them because they are special, and now they are gone, poof lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:09 AM
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Ok, this thread is about the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:00 AM
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I’m saying I don’t have types. I just like attractive people. So no I can’t relate to you liking men with a specific hair style or color whatever and that being your “type”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:58 AM
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Not true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:57 AM
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Rejecting people is super easy, wtf are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:55 AM
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Sounds like you had a type. Why didn’t you try dating more passive shy guys who respect women’s boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:53 AM
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Nothing wrong with being vain. There’s so many worse qualities to have. Enjoy your unkempt poorly dressed, poorly groomed men who have no vanity. Hopefully they clip their nails at least
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:47 AM
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Part of enjoying myself is feeling like I am impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:45 AM
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I assumed you were friends with people with similar morals and lifestyle as you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:42 AM
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This response makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:42 AM
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Iv been with MANY different types of people and can get excited by many different things and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:40 AM
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Why, what’s wrong with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:38 AM
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Meh, everyone reading this conversation will know I am right. Cause I’m saying simple things that are universally true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:37 AM
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Don’t know why you think it’s boring to pass on blonde genes instead of obliterating them by catering to your Arab husbands fetishization of said blonde features.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:35 AM
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I think you do in fact care whether people in general find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:33 AM
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Is it possible that they both are in fact ugly? I’m not ugly and I would be kind of shocked if my girlfriend’s friends actually thought I was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:32 AM
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All of that, and still no description of your type. No I do not relate to your analogy at all. It sounds… narcissistic when you put it that way. I’m not such a special snowflake to view potential partners like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:28 AM
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Which is it. If your friends attractive man met you and first created sexual tension then you’d be attracted to him, but because he’s with your friend there’s no sexual possibility or tension so there’s no attraction, is this what you are saying ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:23 AM
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So you just have racialized fetishes? Ok then…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:20 AM
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Why are you assuming their men are so different from your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:19 AM
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Why wouldn’t I want to be perceived as attractive ? I also don’t want to hang around a bunch of women who think I am unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:18 AM
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Based on our previous conversion, I’m not surprised you have this opinion. But it’s a silly opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:16 AM
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I’m not talking about wanting to have sex with them. I’m talking about simply finding them attractive. Ie. they pass your looks threshold and your onto the behavioral evaluation side of female attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:12 AM
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So what else did the bridge troll have that made him attractive to her. He was very charismatic? Life of the party ? Extremely tall ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:10 AM
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Literally all the women replying to my thread are saying they never in their lives found one of their girlfriends men attractive. Read the thread. Apparently they all have “types” and not a single one of their gfs has the same “type”. You should ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:09 AM
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How can none of the men your friends ever date be your type ? What is so rare about your type ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:07 AM
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How is it that out of all your women friends, none of them like men who are your type? I’m having trouble picturing you guys all out at dinnner, and all the women thinking the men are very different from each other. Especially because most groups of people I see, people tend to look very similar to their friends. Personally I prefer when a girl I am with has friends who also think im hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:05 AM
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Staying in shape is something you can talk about early on in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:02 AM
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You don’t know what an “average man” experiences anymore than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:33 AM
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Why don’t you just pick a man who does not want to let himself go, there’s many. Perhaps that’s the best you can get. The kind of who let themsleves go
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:30 AM
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Poorly. We were/are together about 10 years and did open relationship for a while and I realized I need to leave and have something real with someone else and they cannot let go sadly. We’re very compatible personality wise but I am unfulfilled and casual sex with others cannot fill the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:28 AM
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Oh no that’s definitely your go to, excusing men of making stuff up when they give an anecdote you find taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:22 AM
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How can a man discern how he stacks up compared to previous men a woman has been with ? Why do women find this idea of comparison taboo ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:19 AM
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I didn’t introduce her to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:18 AM
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Because women do not risk violence harassment or ostracism for saying they think other girls are hot. It has hardly any consequences for them or the type of men that they can attract
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:27 AM
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I don’t like non-binary trans women or activists or artist types. I like professional driven women who like guys who play golf and go on fancy vacations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:25 AM
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Most bisexual women are straight for all intents and purposes. They rarely if ever have relations with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:41 PM
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There is some truth that men who have only mild attraction to women will hardly ever get a chance to fuck pussy because of how many hoops men have to jump through for causal sex so they end up sleeping with men exclusively even though they would also enjoy playing with women. A lot of gay men would play with women occasionally if inviting them over was as easy as finding dick on Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:43 PM
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Think of how many women would be in satisfying happy relationships if they had not had casual sex with Chad to bias them against normal average men and forever impact their “standards”. Imagine how happy a poor 3rd world immigrant would be to switch places with a rich person who’s depressed that their social life isn’t comparable to his peers, barely having any thanks for the money and wealth, too focused on what they are lacking than what they have. That is what casual sex with their betters do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:19 PM
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I may tell someone if I trust them enough but it has very little benefit to me. Women are often known for being initially accepting but then down the road building resentment and anxiety about it. So it’s always a liability. Society will not change. Women like what they like and unless the culture forces them to change why would they change. And they have good reasons for their prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:15 PM
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Right.. I’m asking how you found a dealer in a foreign country you just arrived in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:47 PM
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Most women are biphobic. Even the ones that aren’t it will “change” how they see you forever. There’s definitely not plenty out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:53 PM
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There’s definitely way more gay men than there are lesbians. This is born out in all the stats on lgbt. My theory is that because women’s sexuality is reactive and contextual, there is less innate homosexuality in women in general but that women can be influenced to find women “attractive” under the right conditions. Men’s sexuality is more rigid. Regardless of if they like men women or both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:52 PM
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Where are you finding cocaine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:46 PM
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How do you expect a little dick man to NOT think about penis size ? How is that in any way realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:44 PM
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So men should feel inadequate about size, how easily they get hard and how sensitive their dick is. Nice list. Imagine having problems with all 3, those guys should never even think of touching a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:36 PM
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I exclusively play with trans the last 10 years but when I was younger I met up with men. I have no romantic attraction to men if I ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:54 PM
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Well enough of those women have said it for me to believe them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:51 PM
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You aren’t debating, just asking questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:50 PM
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It’s a descriptor. You fill in the blank. There are many “human behaviors”. Too many to list
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:01 PM
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You can’t define female nature in a couple sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:49 PM
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It’s a side effect of uninhibited behavior which is attractive to women. Just look at how women stereotype different ethnic groups of men and then treat them different sexually based on these assumptions. Female mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:41 PM
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Idk what women find attractive about violent men. I can only make assumptions. They don’t seem to be attracted to males for the same reasons I can be. I don’t see how passive men would be violent, yes. I’m not a violent person, even though I do boxing for fun and to feel like I could potentially be violent if I had to. But I accept I’m largely passive, and don’t have it in me to be violent. I assume it’s the same with other passive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:26 PM
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Yes. For some reason violent men are seen as worthy by many women. Where as passive men are not. Surely it’s a sexual motivation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:17 PM
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If you dated me it would be just like dating a straight man. I’m not letting another man fuck you just because I find dicks esthetically pleasing. Don’t have a desire to be pegged either at this point. Iv dabbled and didn’t enjoy it. Women always say they will date bi men because they want to some funky non-traditional relationship. That’s not what I’m offering. I want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:10 PM
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No, I can’t show you posts. I don’t harvest posts like that. Instead I have to rely on you using your brain and having some common sense instead disbelieving me for no apparent reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:03 PM
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It’s not a problem, it’s reality. Maybe it’s a problem for you so you have to deny reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:02 PM
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Women brag about fucking hot men all the time here. Are you assuming all those women are also hot ? Women that I date don’t know shit about my sexual history unless I tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:01 PM
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What if he was majorly inconvenienced, then punching walls is acceptable to you? What about general demeanor. Women aren’t attracted to men who have the demeanor of a man who can be violent when necessary ? Women like pussies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:58 PM
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I’m trying to figure out why women choose violent men. Are you one of those women who’ve chosen a violent man in the past ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:57 PM
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Uh ya.. it’s a submissive act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:56 PM
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Who are “men like me “? Sorry, to me getting fucked by dick is a submissive act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:50 PM
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You don’t think it’s because they were attracted to the uninhibited nature that violent men display. The confident don’t give no fucks attitude ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:49 PM
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I have very high T.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:40 PM
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Uh no. Women are the sexually submissive gender. Why would that offend you when it’s what you want. It just has to be the “right” man, the “real” man, the man “worthy” of submitting to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:39 PM
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Have you actually managed to make a deep friendship beyond the age of say 25…? I’ve only made acquaintances
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:35 PM
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Women are too weak and enjoy submitting to dominant men too much to control anything. Kind of like how women do not respect gay men or see them as real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:34 PM
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I stopped jerking off 4 times a day when I stopped being a teenager. I also don’t get turned on just from a woman putting her hand on me. Or breathing on me or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:32 PM
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I’m bisexual and dominant but it’s still a deal breaker\turn off for most of the women I want. So I have to hide it. It makes me sad but this is the world we live in. I can’t force women to change their behavior, I can only adapt Aversion to bisexuality is a lot deeper than simple dom vs sub mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:24 PM
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I like sexual pleasure, in fact I believe it’s addicting and can be a detriment to other areas of life. But I also believe in and pursue long term delayed pleasure and satisfaction, such as building a family. Without anything greater than yourself isn’t life kind of boring and shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:19 PM
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Why is this that more interesting? We already know that men have more baseline violence. Male elephants musk and some males fight each to the death for mates. Why do women choose violent men when there are SO MANY nonviolent men out there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:14 PM
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That does sound kind of annoying. It’s almost like you are pressuring each other to have sex every day like it’s some kind of duty. I bet both you and the girl are insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:04 PM
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Women on this sub constantly rant that most men are bad at sex and that sex rarely ever gives them orgasms so why should a man assume that a women choosing to have sex with him means she’s going to enjoy sex with him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:02 PM
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Women don’t notice patterns equally or react to violence equally. It would be more interesting to look into why women reward violent men by letting them into their lives at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:51 PM
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So why don’t you do drugs then if you’re in the pursuit of pleasure and that’s what you value out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:46 PM
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Why is my last paragraph not something to brag about when the (average) women on this sub routinely brag about finding hot guys to have casual sex with. Why are you encouraging men to purchase escorts ??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:42 PM
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You said something is intuitive or not. You got it or you don’t. And that you can’t learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:30 AM
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People probably role their eyes when you say shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:15 AM
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Ok, you seem kind of naive. Do you really call men sexist irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:13 AM
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Making money usually requires social skills… don’t miss the forest for the trees my friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:12 AM
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Common sense? When did you use common sense in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:10 AM
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That’s a pretty myopic view. Are there other things in your life that you believe you’re born with, where self improvement is worthless and any attempt is “sociopathic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:09 AM
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I don’t understand your perspective, because if I was a woman I would want a man who mostly adheres to that list up there. What in that list is a turn off to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:06 AM
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Women and men are different and have different standards when it comes to different things because they are different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:03 AM
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No. Because she’s a woman. That would be fucked up behavior. Women don’t need prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:00 AM
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She’s not a whore because she fucked with some dude who rizzed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:58 AM
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Ya because lefties are sexually virtuous…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:58 AM
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She got rizzed by the pastor dude. Pastors have a lot of rizz generally. I don’t really find this kind of stuff embarrassing unless the reason she fucked him was because he was some how radically different than the man she was going to eventually marry. It’s all about intent and COMPARISON between men. That’s why it’s so much more insulting the more distant the guy who fucked her appears to be both physically and personalitywise in relation to the man she’s committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:57 AM
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Well that’s true. It’s also possible for a “redpill” man who is speaking HIS truth to actually be speaking a bunch of retarded lacking in nuance tunnel vision bullshit that is in fact not the truth. But my point is that many women regard any discussion of female nature which is necessarily generalizing as misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:51 AM
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Ya bro. Duh. This is the real world. Not everything is fair. Men and women are different. You’re drawing a false equivalency that a man should morally approve or tolerate any behavior he’s able to extract from a woman, in other women in his life. And purchasing sexual services is a murky moral topic regardless. I’m very sensitive to hypocrisy, but in this case there is no hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:47 AM
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Fuck no. There will be multiple redlines for my daughter. I hope that she naturally never gets near them due to her upbringing. But I’d be willing to cut relations with my children if they cross certain lines, I’d feel like a failure as a parent but I won’t be an enabler.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:38 AM
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Cause you are, for all intents and purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:35 AM
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I’m genuinely curious how this dynamic starts. I assume during your first time having sex, he did all the typical stuff like focus on pleasing you and then having dominant coded PiV with you? Is it after a man displays his ability to perform sex in a traditional dominant way that you then take the relationship into other paths
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:34 AM
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“Women” don’t accept submissive men. So they should be scared. Why do you want people to act stupid and naive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:30 AM
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Red pill means understanding female nature and adjusting your behavior to compliment female nature and receive validation from women as a result. Women do not like hearing about female nature. What makes women tick is offensive and taboo even to women so they prefer not discuss it or put words to their behaviors. Thats why you see redpill labels for female behavioral patterns labeled as “misogyny”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:29 AM
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But I am agreeing with your logic. Men are impotent and women will do what they want to make their pussies feel how they want. If that means giving a minority of men all the sex, that’s what women will do, if it makes women feel good. Men cannot stop this or control women’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:25 AM
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It can happen to men too. But the difference is that women can generally seek out men more physically attractive than them for casual sex. Ugly men can never seek out pretty women for casual sex. Iv personally had sex with a number of women I would never date, that I considered below me in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:23 AM
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Why are less women virgins than men. Has it always been that way or are women more sex hungry than in the past ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:21 AM
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Women experience a broad range of “orgasms”. I don’t know your relations, I’m speaking generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:20 AM
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You believe in fairy tales. You just want that little flutter in your chest, to be real so badly. Someone whose performing is not being genuine, they are doing just that, performing. A man’s normal state is not “seducing” women. It’s literally just a skill you have to learn to because of how complicated women’s sexuality is. It’s not any kind of natural or genuine act, it’s like you giving a blowjob. It’s a technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:17 AM
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I agree. I think the future will look like harems for studs. And basically cuckhold style dynamics. If you as a woman can fuck big dick studs, get that out of your system and then ALSO find an “average” man to love you and commit to you, why wouldn’t you just do it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:10 AM
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Your assumption is that large numbers of women are voluntarily remaining virgins ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:08 AM
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Those women you know are just failing to find or appreciate their looksmatch in a man. Women can fail and many do but you will rarely ever see an average looking, average personality woman fail hard like an average looking average personality man. Physically Hot handsome men can even fail with women, even average women below them in looks. Simply from being SHY! Have you ever seen a hot women fail at dating, it’s impossible almost unless she’s completely agoraphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:07 AM
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I’m just saying. Sex is more complicated than “my wife loves me and we have sex therefore we’re both getting an a thoroughly satisfying experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:02 AM
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You sound super jaded. The fact that you’re over here calling this guy naive while saying something like “seduction and lying is not the same thing”. It’s all acting, you just choose to believe the better performers are genuine and “real”. Awww I bet you only date the “real studs” and the “real men” right??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:55 AM
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And how exactly do you end up knowing more by having more penises inside you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:47 AM
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Just because your wife cares about you doesn’t mean she’s turned on by you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:45 AM
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I see a lot of misinformation on prostitution in this thread. While I would not encourage a friend to use prostitution (primarily because then he will always have to have a secret from his special lady which is a burden), I’ve had awesome experiences. Some of the best sex iv had has been with prostitutes. Now I will say, I am fit, handsome, if your an uggo perhaps you will get more negative energy from these women even if you pay. One girl who I’ve seen 5 or 6 times will literally do anything fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:40 AM
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