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| 25 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.You can't make claims about gender dynamics in the real world on the basis of what happens in a small, niche subreddit... even if what you were saying were true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Oh, come on. You have to see how that's exactly what they're talking about, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:27 PM |
| 5 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesThese men are an incredible fringe fraction of these types of men. The vast majority of men who want non promiscuous women are are non promiscuous themselves. Everyone knows that promiscuous men wanting non promiscuous women are enacting hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeTo troll a subreddit for nearly two years? Yes. It is. Who are you even arguing for? Lmao. You're right. This person SHOULD keep wasting time making up bait posts in a small subreddit. You really won one for the women there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 6 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI suspect this is a man. But regardless. Not at this level. This is a person posting pretty consistently, for nearly two years now, often with directly contradictory opinions on things. This is a LOT of effort and a LOT of time to spend trolling a subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:43 PM |
| – | Attractiveness is more than just a number on a rating scaleSeething. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 11:46 AM |
| – | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeNo, trolling aside, you make these posts CONSTANTLY. Is something wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:24 AM |
| – | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeYou bait post basically every single day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:12 AM |
| – | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks RedditMen are seen as disposable. Women are to be cared about. Only a few select upper 10-20% of men are. Most men aren't human beings in the sense that women are, societally speaking. It's not even some hidden backpill. Women and children first is so deeply ingrained in the collective mind that literally everyone knows it from younger than 10 years old. We literally let little boys know that men aren't as important as women and are less worthy of protecting. There's god knows how many guy gets his co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:10 AM |
| – | Attractiveness is more than just a number on a rating scaleCope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 09:02 AM |
| – | Attractiveness is more than just a number on a rating scaleAttractiveness is based on how you look. Everything else is there to make up for a lack of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 08:27 AM |
| – | Most marital problems happen because men love their wives.Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationYeah, it's crass, but it's true. If you can make a girl cum a few times per session, you're going to be way, way better off than otherwise. Give a girl jelly legs, and you're the only man in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 02:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectificationGenerally speaking, most women are a doating sex doll maid for the right man. Don't get me wrong, guys fall apart for the right girl, too. But the right man just tends not to be the average one. No one falls apart for the average one. Objectification from the 6ft+ handsome rich guy, a turn-on that gives them butterflies. From the 5'7 normal guy working in Costco, a post on 2XC. Women hate talking about this, but if a woman is REALLY into you, no matter who they are, where they've been, or what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 01:35 PM |
| – | For those who have married their First Girlfriend please answer my question..I didn't, but I'm super close with some boys who married the first girl they were ever with. I've seen one asked that, they said they didn't think about it ever. They just wanted to be with them. I'm pretty sure the other ones feel the same. I used to go out drinking with these boys, we've known one another since school. I've seen them get hit on. They politely decline and dip out. 3 and 4. I wouldn't know how they feel about that, but I imagine they feel like I do when I've been in relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 10:17 AM |
| – | Am I Wrong for getting stuck in my Boyfriend's Past?There likely is a correlation between promiscuity and infidelity, I imagine. As to how big of a difference it makes, I couldn't say. Personally, I don't fuck girls I'm not in long term relationships with, let alone cheat. So it's hard to answer. If he's the type to be super sexually active with girls, he likely gets lots of attention and flirts with a lot of them. Sex doesn't just happen without trying for it. If I were you, I'd be wondering how many other girls have had him be their first. How … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipIt isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipI have no accountability for the actions of other men. I dismiss her concerns because they aren't representative of reality. It is an incredibly small percentage of men. Go outside and ask men about their opinions of the manosphere, and they'll have no idea what you're talking about. If you can't handle the Internet, get off of the Internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipIf these likes were even ten thousand, it would still only be 00.000125% of the population. And most of that 00.000125%, you'd never come into contact with anywhere but online anyway. Whether knowingly or not, you're putting yourself in situations where you're engaging with this kind of content. Simply stop engaging with the content, and you'll likely never experience anything of the kind again. Twitter is universally understood to be a shit hole. Stop climbing into the shit hole and being mad a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 23 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipExtremely online, isolated, mentally unwell individuals found only online say weird things. Yeah. That's about it. Either stop seeking out these incredibly fringe communities and go outside to interact with real people or come to terms with the Internet being the Internet. There's no view to change. Edit: Women downvoting got mad and can stay mad. It's not just guys that need to touch grass every once in a while. Women are just as susceptible to being terminally online, brainrotted sexists as an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenYou can boil ever problems down to "just solve it" if you want, but you'd be better off spending your time doing something you actually care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 02:10 AM |
| -1 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenI feel like this is a very simplistic view of a very complex problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenThey're up against decades of social conditioning from both men, women, and the world as a whole for men to be a certain way. You'd have to undo a lifetime of psychological development before men could start treating friendship with other men like women, treat friendships with other women. If we started now, the best we could do is fix it for future generations. It's not really choose, as such. I can identify all this, and I'm still repulsed by the thought of being emotionally vulnerable with ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:37 AM |
| 10 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenHumans are social creatures that need deep connections. Men generally don't get those deep connections from other men, but only from romantic partners. Having a romantic partner for a straight man is going to require being someone who has women's approval. You don't HAVE to do this. You can just not have deep connections. But those who don't have deep connections die pretty early, are far more prone to depression, suicide, lower rates of happiness, develop mental illnesses, have FAR earlier deve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Would you be willing to g to forgo all casual sex if it meant dating went back to how it was before?I don't do casual sex anyway, as a hard rule. I don't even date people who do. But, fuck no. Dating how it was before sounds God awful. Everything is on me, to make the first move, pay for everything, set everything up, take all the responsibility, and so on. Fuck that. I'd way rather shit be split or all the super leader type women we have now. Let me be your 6'3, 105kg shy housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A romantic relationship between a very rich woman and a man with an average salary is not only unfeasible, but also un-natural.Just to be clear, these weren't unattractive women, I did love them, and they were long-term relationships that I intended to be in permanently... but, you know. Life happens. I wasn't trying to hustle anyone. I really did my best to show how much I loved them. I just couldn't do so with money. I'd actually get into small disagreements later on because I didn't want them spending money on because I'd worry that they might start to feel like that's the reason I was with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 16 | CMV: A romantic relationship between a very rich woman and a man with an average salary is not only unfeasible, but also un-natural.If you're attractive, she'll want you regardless. Spend less time posting over and over online about Jordan Peterson and actually fuck around with women. I'm 30, 6'3, I've got like, 40 quid in my bank account, and I've been in multiple relationships with women who've earned more than I will in my lifetime. Women love buying shit for a guy they're madly attracted to. The reality is, even if you had money, women still wouldn't want you. They'd just be willing to put up with you in order to have ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 07:53 PM |
| 8 | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.As a rule, never have casual sex. Either we're exclusive, or we're just friends. But something is wrong with me, I can never stay hard with a condom on. It instantly goes flaccid the second I start rolling it down myself. I think it's anxiety. Anyway... It's never been an issue for me, though, as any partner I've had was happy not to use one so long as we were exclusive. Which we were. All have been enthusiastic about it not being a problem. And I'm never having sex with a partner whom I'm not e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 08:37 PM |
| – | Men Should Reconsider Long-Term Relationships (LTRs) with Women Who Don’t Offer Sex After the First DateIf she wants to bang day one, we're not compatible. If she wants sex without an emotional connection, even in past, we're not compatible. Those girls might be good for you, but they're not good for me. You can wait until you know one another really, really well, and still be extremely sexually attracted to one another. Not to be like, fucking gross... but I've waited months after meeting a girl to start having sexual relationships with them, as partners, and they were literally dripping wet when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?Of course not. If I'm starving to death, it doesn't mean I should suck wet dogs hit from between the cracks in the road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sJust off of a glance, it seems as though anywhere between 20% and 58% of women engage in choking sex. And about 48% have rape fantasies. The second one was a smaller sample size of 370. I'm sorry, but if you think choking and/or rape fantasies are uncommon, you just don't know enough women. We're talking one in every two women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sGirls from church, university, and volunteer groups? That's basically the only place I meet people. I'm not exactly hanging out in Manson Family meetings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 08:28 PM |
| 16 | Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are badMost SUPER promiscuous people I've met WERE bad people. From lying about abuse and traumatic events to cheating on partners to pretty intense emotional manipulations. I've seen it far too often to not notice a correlation between promiscuity and poor moral character. All the real sociopaths I've met have been really promiscuous people. I don't know if it's that being promiscuous makes you bad, or being bad makes you promiscuous, but I don't really care. I just know they tend to be bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:08 PM |
| -2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sWomen's sexual fantasies are all fucking crazy. It's all violence, rape and abuse. The number of women who've expressed to me that they think getting punched in the stomach is hot, us fucking wild. I've only ever been with one woman who wasn't into choking, and that's because she was into hurting me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 09:59 PM |
| – | Why do unattractive cis men automatically assume that trans women want them? These are ugly guysMen aren't thinking about transsexuals nearly as much as you think they are. In all likelihood, the vast, vast majority of men just think, "I wouldn't be involved with one." And don't think about them again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:24 PM |
| – | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and datingIn my experience, fuck all has really changed. Girls who were down to fuck are still down. Girls who bounce from relationship to relationship are still bouncing. Girls who tend to just sleep with their boyfriends keep sleeping with them. It's really just a minority of crazy, terminally online, loud women finding a new thing to be loud, crazy and terminally online about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender normsYour assertions are based on the assumption of fairness. This isn't correct. In reality, women are able to press this advantage, ensuring that they get the best of both worlds at the expense of men. Life isn't fair. In dating, men are at a substantial disadvantage for a lot of reasons. This is one of many. This also won't change. Women can demand modern gender norm benefits while also demanding the benefits of traditional gender norms while pushing the negatives off onto men. There's also nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failI'm more referring to traditional as in traditionally masculine in their demeanour, attitude, and looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:17 PM |
| 7 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.It's offensive, but it's right more often than it's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".I'm assuming we're talking about nonsexual, more personality based preferences. You'd be in quite an extreme minority. There's nothing wrong with that, but most women have a severe repulsion to a partner who looks weak/yielding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:46 AM |
| 40 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failRed Pill started off genuinely helping men to change their attitudes to becoming more traditional. Which women tend to respond to really well. But these days, RP is just gathering a gaggle of whores around a table and screaming at them for three hours for your viewers to revel in while also spending God knows how much on their onlyfans afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:37 PM |
| – | Most couples meet from IRL, not onlineThe only couples I know who've met IRL now have been together since high school. Where as, provided you can hit a certain level of attractiveness, you can sink a few dates with a few different girls from Tinder and Bumble a month, so do long as you're proactive. I'm 6'4, and it carries me a lot in meeting girls. I basically never even try IRL because I can just get 10x more positive results online. I also think seeing the numbers 6'4 in a profile do a lot more for me than just seeing me does. As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".I struggle to understand you because your English is quite poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:04 PM |
| 3 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".Through either of your posts, I struggle to make sense of what you're saying. You seem to be under the impression that submissive/assertive is inherently sexually related. It's not. This has nothing to do with sex. Passivity has a plethora of meanings outside of the bedroom. I would also consider it to be a tragedy that half of the population can never be truly vulnerable with the person who is supposed to love them the most. That suicides amongst men are so high, and they are getting higher. SS… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 5 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".Terrible things will happen to good people. Bad people will have wonderful lives by doing terrible things to good people. Cancers will kill children who don't understand what's even happening to them. People will live poor lives, then pass away alone and frightened. Whether something is depressing or not doesn't make it true or false. It's awful, but we deal with a lot of awful realities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:33 PM |
| 19 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".There's this idea that assertive women will be attracted to submissive men, but that's nonsense. Submissive women like assertive men. Assertive women like assertive men. Next to no one submissive men. Submission is often times a weakness. It can indicate self-esteem issues and a lack of confidence. Women despise these things because they're signs of weakness. Weakness invokes repulsion and disgust in women. If you have a negative self-image, you ARE worthless to women. Women are disgusted by wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 23 | Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you.Treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:03 PM |
| – | What would you do if your gf lied to you about past?This is a hard question to answer because a girl with a big tattoo between her tits probably isn't someone I'd expect to be super demure anyway. I wouldn't date a girl with a big tattoo between her boobs because she's already the type of girl I wouldn't date. Would I leave? It's hard to say, I don't want to be there anyway. The question kind of poses contradictory situations. I just struggle to imagine a sweet virgin with tattoos between her tits. If I try to look past the question and be more g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 03:22 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Wives should decenter their husbands and childrenWhen in long-term relationships, I have to think of my partner as much as I think of myself. Me and my partner are one unit. We have to be one another's primary if we're going to go the long haul. With children, your only focus should be your family. In a relationship, assuming you want a good, permanent one, you must always be thinking about the other person. Too many people get into relationships/start families without wanting to stop thinking selfishly. Decenter all you want, but don't be sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 03:21 PM |
| – | The problem with assuming men can’t get dates because they’re “not nice enough and misogynistic” is that nobody acts moral 100% of the time.Being nice or even a good person has very little to do with dating success. It's about being attractive. If you're attractive, you can be a bad person and still succeed. If you're attractive, you can be a good person and still succeed. If you're unattractive, you can't succeed. Outside of extremes, your morals have very little to do with dating success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:49 AM |
| 0 | The man vs bear "debate" is a case study showing that women struggle with logic and are overly emotional, and thus not worth arguing with.As a man, I'd pick the bear because I wouldn't trust a woman not to falsely accuse me of sexual assault. If that sounds ridiculous to any women, that's how ridiculous you sound picking the bear. You can make your own choices, but others are allowed to feel those choices are stupid. Edit: Downvote all you want. You're just being emotional for not understanding. Feel free to cope and seeth. 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesPeople shouldn't be sending him mean shit. But let's be real. He's a pudgy, pimpled, overweight, unattractive adult who's never been on a date, let alone dated, bringing flowers to a girl that he's just getting to know. It's not great. People were mean to him, so much so that it's inexcusable, even if the advice was good advice... but it was good advice. This is some shit you'd see on the Undatables. There's a lot of women here saying they'd date him, like it's hard to find a socially oblivious,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do?A. I wouldn't trust a situation like that with someone I love. Look, if the guy WAS falsely accused, I really feel for had for him. He's basically a dead man socially and maybe professionally. He's in real danger, he's fucked. ... but I'm not risking someone I love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:56 PM |
| -2 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?While I wouldn't date a girl like that, not much happens to them. They tend to do what most girls do. They tend to find some boy to marry them/get into a long-term relationship and coast from there them. There's not some cosmic punishment or universal reward or whatever. Some stay whoring through their 30s and 40s, but even then find someone to be with them. This thread is going to be filled with people shrieking insecure! at one another soon though. Edit: People can downvote as much as they wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere?You post on r/teenagers a lot for someone who was a published author in the twenty tens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | why do most of u continue the rigged games, even if it leads nowhere?Please, just write correctly. I hate so much that so many people here construct posts and comments with the grammatical skills of a twelve year olds discord posts. If you're old enough to post here, you're old enough to write you and not just u. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:33 PM |
| 14 | CMV: The "be a man's peace" request is a red flagNever, ever take anything from TXC seriously. It's either ragebait or mentally unwell, terminally online femcel posting. TXC is just R9K for women. People who dispise the opposite gender and dedicated their days to constantly talking about it. It's the woman equivalent of those YouTube channels that do nothing but post videos like "Post Wall 30 Year Old Woman Regrets Wasting Life on the C**k Carousel." It's just a place for the bitter to seeth. There's actually a LOT of user crossover between TX… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:08 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.Most PEOPLE are boring, unappealing, and have the wrong opinions. It still doesn't make being single any less lovely, hollow, devoid of romantic love, and sad. It's a struggle to meet someone you click with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.Empathy is just understanding how a person feels. Of course women don't lack empathy. They're fantastic at empathy. They're brilliant at it. So are manipulative sociopaths. Empathy is just understanding, not caring. Compassion is caring. Women lack compassion. Women don't give men compassion because men that NEED compassion are inherently unworthy of it. If a man needs help, he's a lesser man, which puts him below them and, as such, isn't worthy of compassion. They understand that some men are i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:31 AM |
| 15 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Neither I nor the OP said or implied anything derogatory towards women. This all happened in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 06:51 PM |
| 25 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Men need to open up more. They need to talk about their feelings and experiences. No! No! Stop! Not like that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Why and how do people fall out of love or "lose feelings" or "lose attraction" in a relationship?People are inherently selfish. They love that, which gives them what they want. If they find another person who gives them what they want, but in greater amounts, they'll drop the other person and fall out of love with them. Sometimes, a person is drained of everything they can give them, so they leave. A person can also just get everything they need from a person and leave them. The person you can be so deeply in love with that it's agony to be without can just toss you aside one day, without s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksWomen are mainly attracted to money and resources? What a shock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:05 PM |
| – | Im a trump voter and am not proud is there any redemption arch?Just don't tell anyone. And this is all Internet nonsense anyway. No one is nearly as doomer about this in real life as the people online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 06:27 PM |
| – | The hypocrisy of womenMost people are too stupid to consider the percentages. Most people's thought processes go... A bad thing happened!? X must be responsible! Because I don't like X! A bad thing happening must in some way be thanks to the people you don't like. The notion that the group they identity with might be responsible for something being bad isn't something they consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 06:27 PM |
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