SucreLavande Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Are FDS users aware of the fact that there's a large overlap in their thinking and traditional conservative values? I think it would be easier to ignore if it didn’t seem like it was getting bigger and younger girls being targeted for it in “legit” ways like ads on reddit to work on Onlyfans	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 03:34 AM
1	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? They risk becoming violent incels so yes society should care. I doubt that watching a bunch of porn is what is actually best for their mental health though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 10:33 AM
1	Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth. Maybe she meant don’t let yourself get caught up until he shows he’s very very into you (in love.) like don’t count your chickens before they hatch. Emotion /expectation management	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 11:10 PM
3	If A Woman You Date Says "I Don't Fuck On The ______ Date" Then She Is STRICTLY Fuck Zone Material REALLY isn't "like that" doesn't have to say it....SHE JUST DOESN'T ACT "like that." Most people wouldn’t say that. It’s an odd thing to say but she could also just be awkward and inexperienced, or say that in a response to something the guy says that alarms her. Don’t think it’s a for sure sign that she’s “like that.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 12:09 AM
20	CMV: In regards to the bottom 90% of people, women are the gatekeepers of both casual sex and relationships They should be since they are the ones who will need an abortion/adoption(not an easy thing)/single mom life if they’re pregnant from the wrong guy. They should be way more gate keepy. There are already plenty of women being way to nice from what I’ve heard at work	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 11:11 PM
1	What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man? Date men that really want to date you. Men are desperate/ eager to sleep with women and would mostly not be ashamed or sad after sleeping with someone and then not dating them. There are also men desperate to just spend time with a woman who meets their level of sexual attraction even if she is not an overall match for a LTR. They cast a wide net because so many of them want a date / hook up while many women only want to date /meet/ touch someone who looks like a potential long term partner for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 11:59 AM
3	If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractive Fds is not manipulation. It’s avoiding people who won’t be good for you. Those who aren’t compatible with your goals and I guess your « couple goals. » Letting them go. How is that a bad thing, to analyze a situation and peacefully decide not to date a person ? He’s completely free to date others afterwards and it’s never recommended to have a conflict with him. (Or to manipulate anyone!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 10:17 AM
7	Utah Law requires men who are biologically the parent to pay half of pregnancy costs -- positive or negative? One of the first things I thought of about this is some man is going to kill a woman to avoid this. Sadly I don’t think it’s far fetched based on murders I’ve read about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 10:17 AM
2	A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man? “A mother will tell you to find a good man before he is good and lock that shit down.“ that doesn’t work these days, does it? Also, how can you predict that? Doesn’t seem the most efficient strategy	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 02:00 AM
2	A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man? It’s not about offering nothing in return! It’s about continuously improving yourself and not risking your resources/safety on someone who doesn’t care enough to invest in you, to a reasonable degree. It’s also not about wasting time with people you’re not into, whether or not they can offer you gifts /dinner. Its focus is aiming for a loving respectful relationship, not to get stuff from random people. The idea is a person who is ready for a real relationship and values you will be willing and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 01:58 AM
-2	A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man? Not really. I know plenty of women who aren’t open to that, and I’m not either. However I admit that knowing it’s an option vs having no options could certainly change how being single feels. So could the fact that women can have very intimate and loving friendships (even while being straight and not touching each other.) Not sure if most male friendships are satisfying/feel connected in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 01:46 AM
0	A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man? Some people don’t need a car, that’s the idea here (even if it’s not a common situation in real life.) Cardi B doesn’t have a licence but bought some nice cars to pose with on her instagram. None of the cars she chose were oatmeal. Some celebs can afford to be driven around in limos but they still choose to buy nice quality motorcycles as something to enrich their life. They don’t choose oatmeal motorcycles or motorcycles that will risk their safety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 01:42 AM
4	"Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective? That’s embarrassing to tinder that they would make people pay for that. Only some women deserve to not suffer violence I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 08:10 PM
4	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. And maybe it’s not his level of attractiveness but something about his personality that she doesn’t find suitable for a Match/relationship With her. Whatever physical attractiveness level a man wants he may accept any woman who is that level to meet up with. For women even if the man is attractive to us, we won’t meet him if his profile shows something we personally don’t like/relate to/see as a match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 09:26 AM
25	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. Most women don’t think hookup with anyone is success though. It’s a degrading idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 09:23 AM
1	What is the best piece of advice from RPW? Not to yell back at someone yelling is good advise in general. Even if you’re the boss and an employee is yelling, that could be the right advise in some situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 01:53 PM
0	Thoughts on the Crystal Jackson Situation? I guess they want to show that they punish children for their relative’s sins	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 02:43 PM
0	Thoughts on the Crystal Jackson Situation? Terrible parents should not affect the children’s relationship with the school. Is she showing up at school? No? Is she putting children at risk (her own or others) school has a duty to report any risk to any children They know of. How does expelling innocent kids help though. I also disagree with prostitution and porn but I remember a porn star teacher getting fired and that was wrong too (unless she was talking about it at school, but I believe she wasn’t.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 02:42 PM
1	Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement? That depends on the parents and the community and where people live . It wasn’t the case for me as my parents are liberal and educated. However in my friends groups in university being thin dressing well, having a bf , getting engaged etc were really a measure of success and probably at least as important to me as my studies :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 07:38 PM
1	Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirs “For a lot of men...” they can do what they have to whether it’s being with someone younger, sticking to videos, etc. Those aren’t the ones she’s working with, they’re out of the picture. Sounds like the advice was for her behaviour with the men who do want to date her, and someone shared an opinion that she shouldn’t lower her standards. Unless she’s only looking to get pregnant, that’s good advice and it’s great to respect the man’s time too (not waste his time, not waste her own time.) aren’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 04:44 AM
2	Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women, So you’re saying most guys aren’t married, and that is their choice. And the reason they made the choice is that educated women have gotten around too much and uneducated women are simply not wife material because they didn’t choose college? Most guys in general or most guys in reddit groups about relationships from male perspectives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 03:59 PM
8	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women Maybe they mention that as the posts are making it clear the man posting sees women as objects to trap or whatever? A lot of single guys posts here are really oddly worded. A lot of men here are obsessed with the fact that being short will ruin their chances. Being fit and healthy will help, being active/respected /generous in ones community will help, being pleasant is much better than speaking and writing in an off-putting way. Being nice and outgoing and approachable will build social skills …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 03:54 PM
4	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women The man is nice first. Do you think they aren’t nice at the start? The woman doesn’t want or can’t have an abortion (Many reasons can be at play for that) and ruins /downgrades The rest of her life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 03:40 PM
4	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women Maybe they only wanted sex /casual because they aren’t wanting to settle down. Also maybe they are obsessed with that guy because the first time/first month/whatever he was acting nice, they were played or whatever and aren’t strong enough to cut him off yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 03:38 PM
1	Would you rather share the man of your dreams, or have a lesser man all to yourself? Bad hygiene and I can’t choose Just being single ? First option then. Can’t take bad smells or touching someone who I don’t like	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 03:06 AM
2	Just wear nice clothes bro Off the runway (Or maybe a nighttime party or the beach) a deep v neck is an awkward look for any man, I mean it’s not always going to be unflattering but it’s pretentious and a little silly. Just one opinion :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 02:55 PM
0	Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for Women I don’t know many women who do this. Never been in a room where one woman does and others join in. But from reality TV I believe in some American subcultures this could be normal. It’s probably not as common as you guys are imagining though, I think it’d be better to concentrate on what you can change. Check out reddit, there are plenty of women complaining about their intimacy issues in relationships, most of it (other than one person not wanting intimacy) is men wanting to do things Together t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 02:36 PM
1	Women DO NOT want you to share your emotions That 100th time thing... that doesn’t sound normal at all. “Getting angry” with violence isn’t the answer but you would not be wrong to have a conversation about your needs. The part where your sad about providing.. also merits a conversation. It’s not about being sad though.. have a conversation about what you want before being sad. If you can’t buy that house because your wife doesn’t work, talk about it before doing something that makes you sad. Don’t be in a relationship where you can’t affo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 12:45 AM
0	"Average" woman if men were hypergamous. I agree. If “most” women weren’t attractive to men anyways, socially there would be less pressure to focus on being in a couple and less stigma for those who don’t have a partner or a date. What I don’t know is would a bunch of women be desperate to have children /get pregnant ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/21 03:35 PM
1	Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands? Good point. It may be a turn off if we have to tell a guy to take care of basic stuff, the fact that he does it after being reminded is not the bad part it’s the reminding. It’s a huge turn off when men are lazy, in any aspect. Leaving little things out of place, neglecting bigger things like dishes or laundry, not focusing on the career, not being conscientious about our relationship. Lack of indépendant action is “beta” not the fact that he’ll do it after being reminded. The fact that he at le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 03:33 PM
2	Women don’t find the majority of men attractive because we tried to make men and women equal, but women are not attracted to their equal. True but beyond face creams which are a great idea, anything that makes a man look “extra“ will turn off many women. Many women may be ok with a man that doesn’t have a flat hard abdomen. On the other hand, man like that who wears a corset to look better would be a turn off for many women. Same for wigs, lashes, make up, heels, even hair dye to cover grays seems more a woman thing to me. Liking tall men doesn’t mean heels will be cute to me. I think that’s what he means. Even more in the last 10…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 11:26 AM
5	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. Not all women will loudly tell their friends everything they do. Let alone their family members and neighbours?!?! For those who do talk about that, not all friends are super interested or gossipy let alone want to tell their friend’s new partner about it to ruin her new relationship? People have etiquette and self control. I’ve never slipped up and mentioned ANYTHING about a friends past bf to any new bf, it’s not that hard to speak of other subjects. Not all people who have dated a lot have re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 11:05 AM
2	Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – except for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter. That’s true. Unless they happen to become close, why would either the bf or the neighbours bring up the subject, unless the neighbours are troublemakers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 10:59 AM
-1	Ideal body count for ltr/ marriage material women? That’s a good point, having similar expectations for the frequency is probably wiser than comparing experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 04:05 PM
11	Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)? Of course! We eat better wear more sunscreen and are less likely to overdo it (or do it at all) with smoking drugs and alcohol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 03:32 PM
2	Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men? My brother and his partner have a dog, and usually only one person walks it. She walks it more than him since she’s the one who wanted the dog and he’s also away for work. I’m sure his partner could look “sad” to some people when she walks the dog alone but no that’s just part of having the dog, unless you’re wealthy you probably have to work to afford a dog and working means both people may not be available to walk it together every time. I know other women who walk their dogs alone often too. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 05:21 AM
2	What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldness That’s funny for me to see you’re say that! as a teen I thought big foreheads were a feminine ideal and wanted one. Probably I got this from anime idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 11:51 AM
4	The more physically attractive a woman is the more shallow she’ll be in her mating choices This is news To you because someone told you you can date some one much more attractive than you without being successful? I don’t get this post	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 01:36 AM
3	The more physically attractive a woman is the more shallow she’ll be in her mating choices When you say cute and not shallow do you mean cute and willing to date someone less cute and not successful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 01:35 AM
3	Girl inches: what are they and who's to blame? I don’t think it’s necessarily different in different circles, most ladies don’t in any circle and once in a while there are 1-2 people in a circle who do but others in the group don’t meaningfully engage, that’s been my experience. If you don’t want to be vulgar and discuss that (and violate someone’s privacy) another woman can’t force you. Even when I was in my late teens I had this one best friend who was very into talking about stuff and although I was not usually good with boundaries she co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 11:31 AM
1	Are Instagram models and only fans girls the equivalent to male athletes? One difference is women don’t look up to those women? I mean they look up to some instagrammers but mostly not the ones men would like, I feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/20 02:39 PM
3	"Desire is not negotiated" So what do they want from you ? A passport ? The OP was discussing genuine desire	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/20 08:26 AM
6	Female privilige≠pretty privilege Drugging and robbing men who wanted to pay her for sex. It is weird that there is no penalty for her or other people who did that though. There’s always the possibility that Amanda Knox didn’t kill her roommate. There’s a documentary on Netflix and she does not come off guilty at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/20 11:33 AM
5	Would you choose to help another Woman over your own Son? No ! Check out the justno MIL sub for a more realistic picture of what usually happens	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/20 02:44 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I don’t understand this. If you were incel anyways how does Covid change your options? I thought it was more for people who like to have hook ups/ one night stands/ go on dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 07:08 PM
1	Do you care that a man genuinely wants to get to know you as a person if you aren’t attracted to him ? Since I don’t focus on male friendships he would have to be somewhat physically attractive/right age/have a job, whether or not there was a spark/attraction or I’d consider it to not be worth my time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 10:18 AM
1	Is dating actually worth it nowadays after seeing a lot of demoralizing posts? I’m a woman and don’t know if any women who do the first thing. Most are overly romantic (very focused the relationship and generous with love).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 10:13 AM
1	Why don’t women like video games or board games generally? Yeah my ex who’s not a great person used to game and there was regular use of the n word the f word and rape threats all part of the ´Witty banter’ so I can’t imagine them being too respectful of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 10:09 AM
3	"Nice guys" wouldn't need to accommodate their personality to women if their list of requirements weren't so long... Ok so don’t date her? Or maybe find humour in it? Who exactly is she hurting by “parading a list” and either peacefully staying single or potentially finding a compatible partner. Where do they parade the list? The idea is the person is not desperate (because they are ok single) and have had bad experiences or just aren’t attracted re: things outside the list. Like perhaps something bad happened in her life And she never wants to date an unemployed guy again. Or maybe a short guy Or long haired …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:45 AM
1	Unattractive people suffer worse life outcomes but men face HIGHER penalties For one thing the most attractive woman cannot typically make as much on average as a normal looking guy in any field especially those 1% Wall Street jobs etc. Therefore the gap between women’s Incomes is less than for men. You mention bigger penalty for unattractive men another totally accurate way to say this is bigger penalty for attractive women (being attractive doesn’t make them excel and be at the top of all fields.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 06:44 PM
3	I feel like some/most women don't understand how much advantage they have in dating. One night stand and ghosting	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 11:15 AM
3	I feel like some/most women don't understand how much advantage they have in dating. « If you're a 6/10 man, you MIGHT get a few matches. They won't be the most attractive of the bunch, but they're women at least. » Since in your Theory he is six he is also not the most attractive of the bunch. Why are you even mentioning the « most attractive » in regards to him. It’s like you’re already complaining the women Aren’t good enough. « But they never do it themselves. And if they do, because they find a guy really hot, they then approach. But this only happens if the dude is super a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/20 11:14 AM
0	Do Men actually want women to take the lead when it comes to dating? I doubt it. I’ve never had to try this and it would make me feel uncomfortable. A friend of mine has had lots of failure with it. However her current partner who is loving, generous and successful and appropriate age and looks match for her (she’s a little cuter) she met from a OLD where he had a profile and she messaged him first but then he took the lead. So maybe a single message on OLD where people are Obviously there to date is ok?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/20 04:23 PM
1	Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad. It’s more of a trap? They aren’t looking for the long term happiness of anyone but themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/20 04:46 PM
1	Women have no loyalty I mean are you talking about ww2 concentration camps? They were literally trying to save their own lives, possibly those of their children	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 01:57 PM
3	Women: "Nobody is ENTITLED to sex!!" Also women: "Uhmmmm.... single mothers need to have their Maslow's Hierarchy Needs fulfilled too" She can’t hook up due to covid, and she would like to have a 2 person experience but isn’t in a relationship (And again, can’t hook up), this is my understanding of what is written.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:45 AM
1	Women: "Nobody is ENTITLED to sex!!" Also women: "Uhmmmm.... single mothers need to have their Maslow's Hierarchy Needs fulfilled too" The issue Mentioned about that plan is the covid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:44 AM
2	Women: "Nobody is ENTITLED to sex!!" Also women: "Uhmmmm.... single mothers need to have their Maslow's Hierarchy Needs fulfilled too" I think they’re talking about her doing it by herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:43 AM
1	CMV: All age gap discourse is just driven by bitter older "women" It’s not one of my main concerns to protect women from that nor do I think every relationship with age gap is bad (some of my friends have them and have comfortable easy lives although The drawback would be the men aren’t good looking at all compared to my friends) but it does seem like a lot of the age gap relationships which the younger women posts about on reddit Have some weird disturbing issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:34 AM
3	CMV: All age gap discourse is just driven by bitter older "women" Lol that’s very weird (as is the sugar daddy thing these days) but that’s not the typical issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:30 AM
5	CMV: All age gap discourse is just driven by bitter older "women" The woman in the pic looks like 55 more than 30 though	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:28 AM
33	YASSSSS KWEEN, MORE 👏 FAT 👏 REPRESENTATION 👏 FOR 👏 WOMEN 👏 Aren’t there more famous fat men than famous fat women? It seems like more famous women lose weight too, like recently Adele, and that blonde Australian comedian and kelly Osbourne-who was not that fat but took drastic measures. Rosie O’Donnell and Oprah are no longer very fat. And you know most women don’t want Lizzos body right? She’s respected for her musical talents and her general vibe /style. Should people not enjoy her music just because she’s overweight and wears revealing clothes ?! The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 07:07 AM
7	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Make it easy, as easy as possible, to make the report. There’s a Netflix show about this, which depicts when it’s easy to report vs when it’s detrimental, based on a true story. « Unbelievable »	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/20 08:41 PM
2	Where do I find low n-count or better: virgin women when I am in my late twenties-early 30s? If a woman was your age but had a different bf every few years she could have close to double digits. All it means is she likes being in a relationship and is able to attract a bf. Why is that so hard to relate to? It doesn’t mean the um, intimacy was anything crazy or weird. Depending on the frequency doesn’t even mean she has done it more times than you. I think we need more details about why you only had one partner? Do you have particular values or life style? Are you in your early 30s but t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/20 01:01 PM
1	When Did Discussion Shift From "How To Have Casual Sex" to "People Shouldn't Have Casual Sex"? Maybe from covid?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 01:52 PM
1	[Q4All] What are your thoughts on couples who sleep in separate beds? She explained that the alternative is her literally using a pill or Smoking drugs every night. This is a free and more physically healthy option than subjecting her body to that. Maybe he’s a nicer More intelligent person than typical chad. Also, he gets his own bedroom to decorate to his taste and lots of space to stretch out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 01:49 PM
2	[Q4All] What are your thoughts on couples who sleep in separate beds? My thoughts are this is not a super popular option so I can’t make a relationship generalization about people who choose this. I know it’s often done for sleep reasons that have nothing to do with the relationship. Everyone needs sleep and some people unfortunately have difficult sleep issues and luckily they recognize the problem, take action, and can afford another bedroom. Good for them, maybe sad for their partner but hopefully their partner will Look at it more objectively and feel blessed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 01:47 PM
1	There is damn near no hope for the average man when dating. Change my mind. Idk I’ve known many women happy with their partners /husbands who are Less than 6 feet tall. My partner happens to be tall but I am also tall so what do you expect. Actually, yes personality is quite important, especially politeness and some common interests, goals, hobbies, habits, cultural background (even if both people are Americans of the same « race » there are a variety of sub cultures and I feel this is important to women- ive even seen women discontinue a relationship with rich guys bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 09:20 AM
1	Would you women be offended if your boyfriend took you to Macdonald’s when he took past hook ups to Morganfield’s? If it was just a hookup then it would seem he was compensating her with a high end meal. If it was a serious gf and I’m also a serious gf I’d want to know the reason for the change. Maybe he got laid off and has a much lower salary, and doesn’t want to be foolish with money. That would be a very good reason. I would not go to McDonald’s though, but if he likes to eat there and invites me to join it’s not necessarily offensive	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/20 06:16 AM
1	Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of poverty I don’t know if it’s relevant to your idea but he doesn’t even need to have more money to help her (or vices versa.) They can have similar incomes and just sharing the rent and chores will be a good resource and money saver for both of them. Same for having a (compatible) roommate. It may not seem like “gold digging” but it (Saving a few hundred on rent plus other conveniences) will help a poor person a lot and is the reason many women stay in abusive relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 12:49 AM
9	We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same way Really I know no one who thinks that these things are cool options for young women	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 09:20 PM
10	We should view men who pump and dump and women who finesse men for money the same way But that money thing is not common. I never had any friends who do that. And also I see on reddit that men do that to women too. Whereas the other thing, that has happened to my friends and it’s pretty much a known risk in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 09:20 PM
1	CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else. What kind of actions and texts do YOU want to do that you think women won’t like? Just be polite, err on the side of caution. Don’t scare people by pushing boundaries. she’s a human with feelings and wants to feel respected	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/20 09:35 AM
1	CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else. Dress clean but different women like different clothing. Like several of my coworkers don’t dress the way I’m attracted to but still they have girlfriends so someone else really likes it. If you want to get like a facial ring or Tattoo or grow your hair or beard long, someone may really like it and others may find it a turn off. Most women are honestly happy dating men with really basic clothes. I find my s.o really attractive in a $6 cotton t from H&M with basic shorts sport pants From costco o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/20 09:32 AM
2	Why are some women ages 18-22 attracted to drug dealers Curiosity. Grew up /partied in highschool with them, or met some new female friends who did. They buy generous gifts, which career guys Even when rich may find are a waste of money. They may be close in age (Wheras how many non DD 18 yo men have a high enough income to offer that lifestyle plus have that much free time). The woman may be a drug user (Whether occasionally or heavy). The woman may not want something serious! Happened to meet him and got physically and or emotionally attracted. Alt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/20 05:17 PM
14	CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CC Jeff bezos divorced but somehow is not with a trophy type, his wife is not young, not particularly attractive (to my taste?) and was successful in her career. Also, mark zuckerberg seems very happy with his wife who is more educated same age and not better looking than him. Bill gates is still with the same wife as always. Some men obviously like having a life partner. If you don’t want to though, you don’t have to .	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/20 04:03 PM
4	Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance? Because (As you know) women get a lot more compliments. And have experience with compliments being followed by various bad things. And don’t necessarily feel the compliments are sincere. And get compliments in the wrong time and place. When someone you don’t know and are seeing for the first time compliments you randomly It feels like either they are trying to trick you into something (like a street beggar/vendor/mugger) or are harassing you. Only if they are like a similar level of attractivene…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 09:44 PM
1	It's OK for a man to have preferences on N-count, dating history and promiscuity They’re just trying to save time on both ends. She will have fewer msg to go through. he won’t waste time writing a msg to her if he doesn’t meet the criteria.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/20 06:14 AM
8	Do women actually like men? How do you get the data for this observation? I mean what’s it based on, who are all these men who suddenly can’t provide ? Because on Reddit I see a lot of stories of women complaining their men haven’t worked for 5 years and then she still doesn’t want to break up with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:35 AM
0	Do women actually like men? Yeah we do. No, not only for excitement. Emotional intimacy, fun, protection, sharing responsibilities, support, intellectual discussions are what come to mind about my partner other than ‘excitement.’ If we valued romance “more than careers And independence“ we would really be at men’s mercy, I mean it’s fine if you don’t desire a career (Some people Honestly don’t) and have a great prenup but do most men want to protect their wives’ best interests with a prenup? Or do they value sole ownership…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:32 AM