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Staying with the person you married is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:42 PM
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This. I tried, and it went well...for a month. It gets very old very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:11 AM
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Listen, some guys just are unlucky. I'm a slightly chubby man with gynocomastia, yet I have gotten not one, but 3 partners, and I'm only in college Sometimes you just have to try and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:01 AM
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It's also a self filtering thing. I'm not sure the term for it, or how even it works, but when you assume all women to be "you negative sterotype" more often than not you will see the bad sterotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:58 AM
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Try singing. Like no joke, whenever you listen to lyrical music, sing along. You will naturally match the pitch of the singer or at least try too. It really helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:56 AM
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Yeah, I was talking abut cases where there is a lack of evidence, and a lot of it is down to how the jury or the judge feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:47 PM
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However, sometimes there simply isn’t strong evidence. Maybe the evidence is like several years old. Maybe it’s based of testimony that was taken under duress, ir maybe it was circumstantial. I myself am not a lawyer, but I have a friend who is told me a lot of times cases were made are broken by how much the lawyer pissed off the judge or jury. I remember my friend told me there was a civil divorce case where both the husband and wife acussed each other of cheating, but a lot of the evidence wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:00 PM
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Right, this is not. Execute, I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:18 PM
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Bingo. Poor & middle class women more often than not split up the checks, IME. But wealthier and high class women typically make you pay, unless they asked you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:16 PM
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You'd be surprised how little cases have overwhelming evidence. Sometimes, it really is up to if the Judge was feeling pissy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:14 PM
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Honestlly, your dating strategies heavily depend on where you are. Some places, like colleges with 50/50 population(where I am), have pretty good dating options; other places (like large,busy cities without much of a nightlife) can be bad for everyone involved. In addition, I am talking a little bit from a high horse (I have a relationship) If I was talking to a women, I would probably tell her the same thing, but I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:07 AM
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Equating women to fish is certainly a take. You're not catching something that you are hoping to eat. A woman isn't something you use and leave. It's another person you hope to experience life with. If you try to draw in too many people and compromise your standards, you will be unhappy in your relationship. I'm not going to dictate your matching stratagy, but If you treat everyone just like a checklist and then act surprised when they don't want you, that's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:28 AM
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Yeah, but if you consistently treat women as a number and you struggle to make your relationships work or get dates, then that's probably a you problem, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:40 AM
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Men: Treat women like a number. Also men: "Why won't women date me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:35 AM
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However, a lot of men just want a hole. A non-insiignificant part of the online gay dating community is a straight male who just wants a rag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:33 AM
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The other day, I came upon a post detailing a (f) teacher that raped her (m) student. The Top Comment wasn't denouncing the rape. The Top comment was "Where were these teachers when I was in High School" In a patriarchal model of society, sexuality is something that men control, and it is something that is intrinsically masculine. Thus, according to the Patriarchy, a male cannot be raped, because that would mean that sexuality doesn't belong to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:15 AM
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I mean, it depends at what time of life they are in. 50-70k for recently graduated college grads isn't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:06 AM
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Yeah, but If you say you're hungry, and them complain when I had you an apple instead of a burger, that's not their fault, that's yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:01 AM
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I was lucky, my gf asked me out, and we are both engineering (lots of study dates) Some people just draw the short end of the stick. Maybe you had a particularly busy year, which meant you had little time to party. Maybe you flunked a class and were on academic probation. Next you know, you have spent an entire year without hanging out with friends, and you have missed social interaction for a year. Story of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:27 AM
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Because its funny, and I am terribly bored
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:28 AM
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My response to both:a) Unfortunately, My math class has supplemental instruction around that time, so I can't attend. I'm sorry about that. B) I would love to do so, but my Chemistry class just assigned new homework that I need to finish, plus I have an 8:30 class so I have to go to sleep early. Both of those were real responses I said to my friends. The main problem is that college students are expected to do much more. It used to be that students could ace classes and had a pretty nice chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:09 AM
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The Variability Hypothesis is controversial today because while it does ring true in the past, it is unknown whether it is a cultural or biological difference. Evidence does prove a cultural difference, however, as the Variability gap in male and female scores has been decreasing. Source: https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/the-greater-male-variability-hypothesis/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:56 AM
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The Variability Hypothesis is controversial today because while it does ring true in the past, it is unknown whether it is a cultural or biological difference. Evidence does prove a cultural difference, however, as the Variability gap in male and female scores has been decreasing. Source: https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/the-greater-male-variability-hypothesis/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:56 AM
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In Squid Game season 2 there is a character under the name Hyun-ju. This character is trans, and in the tv series, is playing the games so that they could get enough money to transition. South Korea is a notoriously conservative state, such that the actor itself is not trans, because finding an openly trans actor is hard. I remember going on r/squidgame after the series ended and seeing in a post numerous people remarking how the character made them change their views on how they perceived trans…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:51 AM
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Blue Pill isn't a talking point, it is an argument that Red Pill, Black Pill, etc have fundamentally misunderstood the Dating sphere and and are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:24 PM
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I was having a rough day with my finals and college grades coming out, but I swear it small things like this that make my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:19 PM
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The politics that goes into funding for academia can be more scummy than the stuff you see in Washington. The only difference is that Academia tends to follow the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:23 PM
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Says the guy whos never been in academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:14 PM
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English Comprehension clearly was not your favorite class, was it? Is there any other language you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:46 AM
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Humor and Mockery are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:59 AM
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the use of the word "Meanie", a deliberate attempt at mimicking the language mannerisms of a toddler, implies humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:12 PM
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Have you not heard the 20 bucks meme? Male sex work is less profitable, if they had the chance, they would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:06 PM
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Sarcasm and humor is clearly not your language...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:57 PM
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I was initially going to use pygame, however, a lot of software revolves around data processing and calculations, So I've started shifting toward Matlab. It is interesting to see how education differed in a lot of places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:06 AM
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It wasn't just that, In the end, my flowchart was 6 pages long. Normally this would not be a problem, but I decided it may look more organized if I tried to do it by hand. trying to get the end result all into one picture was hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:50 AM
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I'm an undergrad at Purdue. Lowkey, the project itself was kinda easy, it's just it was my first time really applying python and my code was horribly inefficient. (The final line count was ~300, I could have shortened it down to 200 probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:23 AM
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Lol that makes my programming project look like a cakewalk. Though, it was for an aero class.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:21 AM
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May I ask what was the project?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:09 AM
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Our minds are built for the savannah, and are now living in concrete jungles. In all seriousness, it's not only the randos, but usually its in combination with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:09 AM
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"that will not work on me. I need a tangible, real connection to fight for." I don't think you have been in a country that has been invaded recently. It's easy to consider this idea of gender relations when we sit comfortably in a bubble of security, but things will be very different when you are actually being invaded. Another example I will bring up is the Kurdish Movement in the recent civil war. Sure, some of them may fight for women and Children, but I bet many of them fight because they kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:01 PM
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You fight for yourself. You fight for the idea of your country, a nation of democratic ideals. You fight so you can go back and live on the land, not always for others. What country are you from, Seriiouslly? Most nations while being invaded go through a sort of nationalistic phase that only they can understand. It essentially diefys their country, making it stand on a pedestal, and fighting for it like they are fighting for god. That's why u/DrunkOnRamen Doesn't seem to react to your questions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:12 PM
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Honestlly, It's because being Blue Pill has worked for me. I am an average-height guy with a skinny fat disposition and a somewhat feminine face. I used to be red-pill, trying to be masculine, even when it felt somewhat uncomfortable. I went to the gym not be healthy, but to get girls. Needless to say, this didn't work out. While I could get dates, and an occasional relationship or two, I would struggle to actually maintain these relationships. Later, I decided to lean into my femininity and wen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:03 PM
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What country are you from? u/DrunkOnRamen doesn't care for the whole gender conflict whether due to good relations or more pressing issues. |what am I even fighting for? He are fighting for freedom. He knows that Russians are really just oppressors who seek to wipe out his culture and language. The Russian state is a brutal authoritarian state. They are fighting for survival, a notion that many people (including me) will hopefully never fully grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:47 PM
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What about women in front-line aviation roles. In some of my experiences, Women seemed to be equal, if not better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:44 PM
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Bro, I think you're overthinking this. The average Ukrainian man isn't going to be worrying about gender relations and women. Even if all the women left, Ukraine is still their country, and their land. It's simply Patriotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:41 PM
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Wars lasting for that long of a time are highly unusual. Wars mostly go for 4-5 years, if it lasts more than ten, its often an insurgency, not a full flung state war.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:39 PM
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If you think being Homeless is equivalent to being single, then there are more issues at play here. If you cannot be happy single, you will never be truly happy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:05 PM
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Th thing is, unless you are Adam, you're not stuck on an "island".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:04 PM
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Bruh, I thought your tag was a joke, but you literally are "Pondering insanity " Feminists aren't anti-sex or anti-children. There are some sects that actually encourage women to "raise children right" Even if conservative women are the only women left giving birth, there is still a chance of those children becoming feminists. Its the same way there will always be RP, Liberals, Conservatives, and everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:57 AM
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Exactly I am a guy with softer, more feminine features than traditional guys. It worked better for me when leaned into feminity than if I were to lean into the traditional "rugged masculnity."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:02 AM
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Sometimes you don't have the choice to be private. MY GF runs a DND account and still deceives hundreds of dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:59 AM
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If the best option is a bad option, then don't date her. Or if you were willing to put up with the bad to get the relationship that is a personal decision. Does that make her a bad person? Yes. But it's the same thing that many of you guys saw to women: If you only get bad people in your life, you need to reevaluate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:22 PM
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I pity them, but I feel less sympathetic because of you are willing to take anything that moves, then you can’t complain when she turns out to be not as good of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:51 PM
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Sure. But don’t complain when she turns out to be gold digger or a cheater is you take anything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:47 PM
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Bro has not heard about the Greeks and their literature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:22 PM
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Do you mean I wasn’t gonna die alone? I thought I had something to look forward too!! ( Jk I love my gf)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:10 PM
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There’s a small difference: you need a job to survive, it you don’t need a GF to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:04 PM
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The reason I come to this sub ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:34 AM
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Well, she knew he wasn't interested in him because he was interested in someone else. There would be no point in asking just to receive a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:35 PM
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I'd never thought I would hear a redpill statement that I agree with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:35 PM
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Thats Fair. The nature of how women build networks probably helps reduces the chances of them discussing it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:32 PM
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Previously, on this subreddit, a lot of the talk around invisible usually referred to older women who were "lost". I wanted to widen out this designations from the old group to say that it can affect everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:31 PM
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I mean it makes sense. Poor people suffer obesity at higher rates simply because healthy food is expensive. "in general the most obese people statistically are demographics that vote strongly democrat." You can't just say this without evidence. Even in your own charts you provided, there was only about 50% correlation between cities and obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:19 PM
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If you try to make a romantic relationship fulfill all of your emotional needs, then that relationship will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:35 AM
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Really. I am in numerous nerd fandoms like Warhammer 40k, DND, and online gaming. The same men who complain about how all women are bad will also complain that no one is willing to date them. (Mind you, even for some of them, there are people willing to date them. But either they turn them off or refuse to even acknowledge their presence. I will admit my relationship isn't conventional, not very traditional, so whenever I give advice it is rejected as a guy who simply "got lucky" It almost infur…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:30 AM
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If they are unhappy they really should just leave. Like Marriage is a two way street, you chose her as much as she chose you, and both sides have option to pull out. If she is not willing to tolerate her husband's positon at all, then that is a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:05 AM
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Perhaps I should rephrase. When I person goes out to seek a relationship, it shouldn't fulfill a need but rather be an addition to their present situation. When I saw a relationship as a way of fulfilling my emotional needs, I only ended in shitty ones. When I took a break to reevaluate myself and fulfilled my emotional needs with interactions with friends and groups, I ended in a (still-going) relationship that is amazing. Tbh, unless you're aromantic or asexual, you will always want a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:08 PM
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Actually, a lot of the poor counties are the most blue. This isn't an obesity thing, this is just how elections in the Deep South work. However, if you go more north and midwest, the trend kinda reverses. I mean, there's California, Kentucky, West Virginia, Kansas, and South Dakota buck the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:56 PM
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Every dating niche is a minority to the other If you surveyed a college campus, you will get different results than if you surveyed a city, and likewise with a rural town. For the most part, people stick to their environments, and subgroups within the environments. I met my GF through DND, whose preferences tend to differ from other women. You can say women do not like cross-dressers, yet you go to a Cosplay convention and I bet a substantial portion of them are committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:48 PM
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And Nobody has to accept it either, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:40 PM
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I cross-dress and am into somewhat feminine things and yet I am in a committed relations ship. I think you are oversimplifying things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:34 PM
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Exactly. I'm a guy who has a bit of a young and somewhat feminine body and face. When I tried to compensate for that with masculine actions, it didn't work well, but when I leaned more into my feminine attributes, it worked really well and I got my GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:32 PM
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Honestlly, I think you are exaggerating an incredibly complex issue. I am a college student rn, and the biggest problem people have is that more and more people are entering college already in a relationship, and those who are single are usually by choice. I think you are unfairly criticizing women without looking into more realistic answer. Where I am from, both men and women are committed at similar rates, and single at similar rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:25 PM
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In all honestly, it makes sense. Ages 1-15 people are usually too young to date, and if your are between 18-24, education can be stressful enough to make you not date. I mean, within my college, it was not unusual for many men and women to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:14 PM
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Not gonna be mean, but this does sound like it was written by AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:11 PM
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As person in a relationship rn, one thing that I would argue is that if you cannot be happy single, you will not be happy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:09 PM
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Calculated behavior can still be immature, even if the person doing it thinks they are doing something smart. These women thinks something belongs to them not matter what, as such, immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:01 PM
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Lol I just come here when I need my daily salt intake. Just go and sort by controversial. Best way to kill time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:59 PM
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On a side note: what does aspirin pilled women mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:28 AM
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Point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:26 AM
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Once again, the other party can't counter-sue for a no-fault divorce if one party brings it in a civil manner. There, the court will be forced to take it seriously, as this is no longer a legal agreement to end a marriage, but a civil suit. I think you are also misinterpreting what no-fault divorce is. No-fault divorce isn't a suit in and on its own, rather, it is a condition of divorce. It states that parties can sue for divorce with no fault on either side, but do not need to. You cannot count…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:07 PM
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The wife doesn't need to file for no-fault divorce. If she has due cause, then the divorce can turn into a civil case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:38 PM
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If you have a good lawyer, she shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:37 PM
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from a strictly legal sense, everything can go wrong. If you cheat and she gains verifiable evidence(keep in mind Divorces are a civil matter, the burden of evidence just has to be >50%, not beyond all reasonable doubt), her lawyer and her have free feign to gather any assets short of leaving you destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:45 PM
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Then Divorce her!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:39 PM
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The idea kinda makes sense. Women suffer through career setback when giving birth. Child support is essentially there to not only support the child but also compensate the women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:57 AM
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While you could you could say prone, One could argue that you can help reverse that through social engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:18 AM
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Indeed. I saw a friend of mine post the infamous "when the chicken is cold" and "understanding women" meme. It can be understood as a joke, but at the same time, the internet is a way for us to express our feeling without repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:13 AM
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I guess? If you have a High-earning job prior to the marriage, you can get that covered by the prenup. Realistically, Most people date around their social class, and/or are not wealthy at the time of entering a marriage where prenup is effective. Pre-nups are hard to maintain with children though, mainly because the court tries to preserve a child's "state of life" through the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:59 PM
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The thing, a lot of times people don’t understand what a pre nup does cover and what it doesn’t cover. A pre nups primary role is to cover pre martial assets. Most of the times it gets thrown out when one of the Spouses are a SAHP or there exists a wide income disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:22 PM
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Pre-Nups, when done right(i.e reviewed by lawyers of two parties, signed and notarized) are as strong as any other legal contract. However, many people forget that these documents are a form of a legal agreement, and must have the same processes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:24 AM
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"Yeah this is all bullshit, jobs arent a once in a life time lol, you can allways take part time or get another job." Maybe if you are from the US, but the Hyper competitive market for white collar jobs in Korea means that once you leave a job, it is virtually impossible to re enter. "If it truly was only about them being worried about affording pregnacies there are work around. " Like what? "Also then we would be seeing couples at normal rates/near normal rates, but just without children but we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:57 PM
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That almost sounds like a cyber punk dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:51 PM
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I urge you to talk to any SK general, or any long term Geopolitical strategist; the chances of NK invading are absolutely low. Thier military isn't even a defending program, but free labor one. Instead of punishing women for not having children, create benefits for them to do so. Like i said earlier "A good idea would be to increase maternity and paternity leave while strengthen worker protections regarding it. At the same, increasing wages would help counter the cost of living so each family do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:51 PM
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Bit curious, what are chaebols?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:53 PM
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They expect men to do so because worker protections are practically non-existent. Sure there is maternity leave, but women who take the risk of being fired or laid off due to "lower productivity." If a man wants women to have children, he should be able to afford it, so they need to earn practically twice their salary. Its basic economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:52 PM
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Jesus Christ man, what you just said is just sort of Raping women so that you can have children. What happened in South Korea can literally be explained through economics. A high cost of living means families need two working parents to afford basic necessities. Both men and women need to work Another factor is that SK is still very patriarchal, more so that the US. Women are expected to be the dutiful housewife and have a 9-5 job. Worker protections are also almost non-existent, so while there …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:50 PM
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They also pretty poor quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:00 AM
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Either way, that is not the fault of SK's female population. It is the fault of generations of patriarchal and corporatocratic policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:28 PM
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"What professional military? You think the guys in the army appear out the ground? They're still the same guys, they still require the same amount of logistics." with a birth rate of 0.78, SK is going away anytime soon. Sure, that below replacement, but it can sustain itself "Oh I'm sure that the US will protect a vagant place with no strategic or economical advantage." SK, even if there is nobody at all, presents a valuable geographical advantage. Not to mention, SK is still an economic power w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:19 PM
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That's fair. I just worried about the bureaucratic hassle that such a contract would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
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A) Even if they lose thier conscipted troups, they still have a professional military. B) The US exists, and will defend SK if need be. C) With the track NK is going, it may not even have a peasant army with spears.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:00 PM
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Now that is something that I would agree with. However, keep in mind, you just made it harder for men post divorce. Since now there is a piece of paper that men can sign if they don't want to pay for a baby, they failure to sign that paper before the birth of child is legally considered enthusiastic consent for a child, and thus a requirement for any divorced parent to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:23 PM
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It could also be that GenZ is still somewhat young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:17 PM
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Ukraine isn't winning in the same way russia is not, the war is stalemate. However, since this is an invasion, the party being invaded only has to stalemate to win. Plus, while drones are being used, they are meerlly one aspect of modern warfare. Combined electronic arms warfare is another. Just to point at one example, the atrillary system has come so far since the 2010, namely, with its incerpation of the next gen radar and over the horizon detection. meanwhile, Russia has its soldiers using M…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:13 PM
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that is important, but I was pointing out how the Ukraine war is not the example of a modern war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:09 PM
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I would agree that they should sign a legally binding contract, refusing custody of child if they want too. However, this draws to my last sentence,; this assumes women have access to abortion to anywhere, at any time, which simply is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:08 PM
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Thats....a Huge pile of bullshit. First about NK, the only thing they have going for them is their massive artillery force(which they have pointed at Seoul, and the fact that since they are so poor, any attempt at reintegration would be prohibatvlly expensive. The NK army still uses WW1 and WW2 weapons as part of their main line battleforce. Thier forces are famished to the point that the average NK person is shorter than the average SK person. A war with NK would be devastation, but would be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:04 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with how their society developed. Western societies had the chance to develop individualistic lives, while far eastern...didn't. There, you are not just 'you' but a representative of your family, and must behave like one. If you go to the Far Eastern immigrant population, they typically have a healthier birth rate. Makes you wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:33 AM
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Not just men. Women too. Especially in Modern day SK, Women are expected to be both a dutiful housewife and work a 9-5. (Also, I can't tell if you're disagreeing or agreeing)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:27 AM
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Honestlly, I believe that people as a whole, but society is bad, because people, on average, try to be somewhat good, but society, by its nature, highlights our worst traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:20 AM
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Exactlly. South Korea is the worst mixture of poor gender relations and early stage corporatocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:11 AM
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The ways of war are fundamentally different from then and as it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah, like wtf. As a pretty young person, I hate how everything has become so transactional now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:08 AM
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There is a problem to that: how would you enforce it. If its just by verbal agreement, it turns into a he says - she says argument. If its by contract, then it is possible. Refusal of custody does exist. However, this presumes that all women are capable of having abortions, which is not always the case, whether for legal or physical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:00 AM
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With all due respect to Ukraine, the war Ukraine is a war between a country that lags in technology, and a country that specializes in throwing bodies at the problem. Even, then, it was Ukraine's drone technology that is helping it win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:49 AM
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Same. When I feel Like I haven't had my salt intake for today, I go here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:45 PM
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I will say this as a guy: YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP I was in one, and the trauma doesn't end when you break up. Hell, it still affects me within my current relationship. I struggle with intimacy, while at the same time suffering from moderate anxiety(used to be severe) It is the worst, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I would have been better if I had just stayed single. If you want to be one, then fine, but do not assume others want to. Do not assume someone is more fort…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:27 PM
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Are you listening to yourself? How can being in an abusive relationship be better than being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:21 AM
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my brother in christ, she was talking about getting into abusive relationships. being single is better than being in an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:38 PM
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...Reproductive rate doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how happy you are in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:06 PM
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Honestlly, The same thing happens with guys too, just in different ways. The best way I see this is how Gamers defend other gamers, despite their their true crime. The Dr. Disrespect incident comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:58 PM
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I have a right vote. I am not required to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:34 PM
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A) No, I Didn't. But I feel like he is in the minority. In addition, his heckling seemed to be one of circumstance. The Toronto Student Union seemed to really have hate against him and published many articles against him before he spoke. Many feminist organizations actually supported his speech. I feel like that example is just the problem with the area, not with feminism as a whole. B) A plank of modern feminist theory is to remove sexism from men's culture. This could be like a toxic form of "…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:13 PM
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I know that what am trying to say is that It shouldn't be on feminists to spearhead the men's rights movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:46 AM
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A) Yes Corporations and Politicians pander to them. They're 50% of the politicians. They also pander to men. B) If you're looking for Feminism, the South is really not a good place. It had a deeply autocratic structure. A woman was either too poor and didn't have enough time to fight for feminism, or too rich to even care. This can be contrasted with the North, which had a more rigid base. C) Yes Elitist Women led the movement. Just like how Elitist people led the abolition movement. But that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:13 AM
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It's good that they are protesting. I searched videos of these men, and they don't seem to face much opposition. Where do you have evidence of Feminists trying to cancel men's spaces? Internet Feminists aren't usually the best example; by nature of how online media works, the more controversy, the more "rage bait", and the more views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:00 AM
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How do white women have more power than any other group? Families benefitted from slavery no doubt, and many of the women in the families became feminists. But for most of history, working and middle-class women were the rank-and-file of the feminist movement. Even so, what's wrong with wanting rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:08 PM
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Men didn't just up and decide they wanted to support feminist issues. And even when they did they didn't do it "en masse" For instance in the US, Feminsim only really gained support in the US when it started allying with civil rights organizations. Before that, they weren't always on good terms. And even this, after the civil rights movement in the 60s, in which many Feminists participated in, those groups would abandon Feminists. In addition Feminists played a key role in the abolishment of Sla…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:59 PM
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Okay, so why don't men fight for that then? Do you think feminists got their rights by just sitting on their hinds?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:49 PM
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Words Change. The original word for 'bear' didn't mean 'bear', it meant brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:47 AM
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Bro thinks a country where people are physically stunted due to malnutrition are gonna steamroll a country that has the support of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:28 PM
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This law hasn't changed anything that wasn't already in effect. Trump was convicted of Rape, yet he still paid E Jean Carrol in Civil Court. Why? Because the burden of proof in Civil Court is much lower, where rather it it being beyond all doubt, it is about more than 50% confidence. Biden is simply acknowledging that School disciplinary boards are more like Civil Courts and Crimminal Courts, because something that gets you expelled doesn't have to be illegal. The trick is, people who have enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:25 AM
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What Male only spaces are being destroyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:18 AM
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I differ on your first point. Intially, Trade jobs pay well, however, Trade Jobs have a harder ceiling than office jobs. My friend initially made more than me, but fast forward, I make 1.5 more, and have benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:39 PM
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Sorry I didn't meant it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:41 PM
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I''m not old, still in my mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:41 PM
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I wasn't looking for them. There were taking the same degree path as a me, and we just connected. I made this post because I thought that there were noticeable differences in my friendships that I thought were helpful, for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:40 PM
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That has more to do with poverty, not psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:10 PM
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If you head down to r/rolereversal, you find that majority of the people there are women. And actually, I'd argue the opposite. Most people want control, to have power over their life and decide how it goes. Being a sub means to cometlly let go of all semblance of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:24 PM
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Head to r/rolereversal. Majority of the posts are by domme women looking for sub males. Many men want a domme fantasy, but rarely want to be a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:22 PM
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Actually, I would argue that thiers operates different, but not neccerilly less. From my experience, Men's "baseline" or "average" libdo is higher, but their "highs" are typically lower than women's "highs"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:14 PM
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Prevouslly abusive Household also has a factor. If the only 'love' you see hurts, then you choose hurtful 'love'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:34 PM
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I mean, in a dark way, there is a reason why paternity fraud isn't a crime Laws aren't made for individuals they are made for society. If society benefits, then the Law fits. It's how government works. Sure, Paternity Fraud is a bad thing---for men. For society? It means several children are getting supported by something. That benefits society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:25 PM
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Have you heard of the Oedipus complex? Sure, you probably have heard it apply to mothers and sons, but it also works for fathers and daughters. Most people need two types of figures: a strong, strict, protective one and a soft, kind, nurturing one. Miss one or the other, it can screw your dating life tremendously. If you look a the non-gold-digging women who date immensely older, they tend to have troubling family history. Maybe their father left or was absent. Maybe their father was emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:34 AM
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alright, I'll bite 1.) The US Selective Service System is one of the biggest jokes ever. Like Millions of American men don't sign up for it, and don't get punished. It happens so much that there is an entire legal term for it. When I registered to vote, I had to remind the guy in front of me to register me for the draft. Sure, Men De jure are required for it, but de facto... 3.) The Equal Pay Act was signed into law in 1963. Here. It was made due to a widespread suffrage movement designed to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:48 AM
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"Hamlet," Act 3, Scene 1, "To be, or not to be, that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles And, by opposing, end them. To die: to sleep; No more; and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep; To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub; For in that sleep of death what dre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:16 AM
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Not neccearilly. DNA evidence and what little art our ancestors left for us indicated a polygamous society, where everyone reproduced wth everyone, and Children were often raised less by the mother but by the village, so to speak. It was only with the Agricultural revolution, when the need for lineages was strong, that we see the earlier examples of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:34 AM
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Indeed. Harari points out that the patriarchy is largely a result of a Patrilinial society. After all, since women often had more and more child-rearing duties to attend to, Men went out to the fields to work, which created a world where Men were treated better than women. If you're curious, I strongly suggest you read his novel, Sapiens. (I do warn you, he can be a bit heavy-handed in his Atheism, but his points about religion are very interesting)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:06 AM
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Honestly, I think it's a mix of both. Yuval Noah Harari points out that in a Prehistoric society, both men and women would have to work to be successfully functioning, which would have probably resulted in a more egalitarian society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 AM
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It was a bit different for me. From what I heard, STEM Majors can have this sort of "old guys club" where it can be hard to fit in if you don't have too many traits. Women in STEM tend to be hit on a lot and tend to face unique barriers in their employment. Yale Actually did a really interesting study here:https://news.yale.edu/2012/09/24/scientists-not-immune-gender-bias-yale-study-shows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:34 AM
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I just want to add an anecdote. I have volunteered in both Male and Female DV shelters. In fact, the Male DV shelters are often offshoots of the female DV shelters. But I digress. One thing I noticed was that Males don't typically use their DV shelters. Both shelters were advertised equally; everyone knew They existed. But men just didn't come. In fact, there were times when the Shelter was empty. The main problem with Male DV shelters is that no one uses them, and if nobody uses them it is simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:22 AM
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If I were to attack Nazi Germany, you wouldn't accuse me of attacking All german people, would you? I mean, one of the biggest controversy of the United states is the WW2 internment camps. I can criticize Nazi Germany, but that doesn't mean I am attacking all germans across the world. In the same vein, OP can criticize some male clients, but not be attacking all men. The fact that you take it that way is a bit problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:39 AM
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Marriages are not arranged. Yeah my bad, that's the wrong country. Still, that doesn't remove the very true fact that the Porn Industry is widely popular amongst Japansese society. Not to mention, Japan is highly family oriented, people are expected to behave for the family, not their own wishes. Marriage is less about people, but about a social contract to benefit families. No one really marries for love, and if they do, they tend too be more for financial and legacy benefit. Not to mention, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:35 AM
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Warning flags? what flags were they? most men don't start of douchy, if they did they wouldn't have been able to attract women. Some of them gradually transition that way, and by the time they become problems, the women can't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:30 AM
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Yes, she is describing a scenario, in which men are the aggressors. Doesn't make her blaming all men. If I were to attack Nazi Germany, you wouldn't accuse me of attacking All german people, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:47 AM
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A wet t shirt does feel cooler, but at the same time, it has the potential to heat up faster. That is why our body doesn't let out one load of sweat at a time, but a trickle, so that the sweat outside our body has a chance to leave and cool water can run. In a desert envoirment, you can't afford to sweat or you dehydrate. In a humid envoirment, The heat just sticks around you, so it is benefical to have less clothing Trust, me, I have been and worked in both envoirments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:45 AM
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Most of these men arn't what you think of as "Shitbags" Maybe, during the early dating process, they promised the moon and back. Maybe, they thought they could do it. But suddenly, they realized what a parent entails and noped out Now the Mother, with a kid and small source of income (because in this economy, being a single parent is hell), is forced to stick by his side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:40 AM
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Ehh, u/SteveSan82 is vastly oversimplifying an incredibly complex issue. Japan is still a state where a good chunk of marriages are arranged. Most of them are predetermine by parents with very little input from the people being married. This ends up with neither side getting a good deal. Women Cheat because they don't love their husbands, and they were likely forced into marrying them by their parents, and cannot divorce due to social stigma. In addition, men cheat a lot, not just with people, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:36 AM
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Japan is one of the best examples of how self-destructive runaway capitalism can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:32 AM
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Arabian desert is a whole different breed. The Desert, unlike more temperate heat, is relatively moisture dry. Thus, people in the desert wear clothes that are designed to prevent moisture from leaving. Contrasted that with heat in temperate reigions like the US, where moisture is prevalent, having more clothing would mean that the clothing would only be trapped onto your body, which in turn would heat us up more. Source: Lived in india and explored both temperatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:25 AM
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Religion has a potential to be bad, and has a history of doing so. The main problem with religion isn't the god aspect of it, it's the fact you must have an unquestionable belief in something, and that can lead to a lot of bad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:39 AM
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She's not putting blame on men specifically. In this story, it describes an anecdotal story in which she was on the wrong side of a man who was trying to use sympathy points to get into someone's pants, which both genders do. Hell, my own GF's boss tried to do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:36 AM
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When the world has 8 billion people, even .1% is a significant population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:46 AM
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It's a hit or miss. For some, Romeo and Juliet is a terrible tragedy about lovers; for others, it is a comedy about a bunch of teenagers making bad decisions. After all, "Comedy = Tragedy + Time." Still, plays always are political/social commentary. At the time of Shakespeare, England was facing political upheaval due to James's shaky inheritance of the British throne. We also saw in this time period a few female nobles trying to gain power. Lady Macbeth was a play on these female nobles. In fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:36 AM
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That's the thing about most tragedies at the time, they they also doubled as comedies, satirizing the political trends of the time. I mean, if you look into it, Macbeth is literally just Shakespeare brown nosing James l
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:27 AM
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That Math doesn't add up. The world has a 49:51 gender ratio. For your statement to be true, 1.7 million men must be reproducing with 3.2 billion women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:42 AM
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I know this. I have a friend who makes handmade drawings for my B-Day and Half birthday. The best I can often give is store-bought products, which I feel have no worth behind them. She still treasures each and every one of them though, even when they have no value. Like there is this stuffed animal that I bought for her that literally falling apart, but refuses to keep it because it was a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:22 AM
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