Sudden-Belt2882 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.	Debate	Sudden-Belt2882	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:19 PM
20	A lot of men here underestimate the importance of Female Friendships.	Discussion	Sudden-Belt2882	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage? Staying with the person you married is the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 06:42 PM
1	Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things. This. I tried, and it went well...for a month. It gets very old very quickly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 04:11 AM
4	Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things. Listen, some guys just are unlucky. I'm a slightly chubby man with gynocomastia, yet I have gotten not one, but 3 partners, and I'm only in college Sometimes you just have to try and fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 04:01 AM
-1	Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things. It's also a self filtering thing. I'm not sure the term for it, or how even it works, but when you assume all women to be "you negative sterotype" more often than not you will see the bad sterotype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:58 AM
2	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Try singing. Like no joke, whenever you listen to lyrical music, sing along. You will naturally match the pitch of the singer or at least try too. It really helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:56 AM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Yeah, I was talking abut cases where there is a lack of evidence, and a lot of it is down to how the jury or the judge feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 02:47 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. However, sometimes there simply isn’t strong evidence. Maybe the evidence is like several years old. Maybe it’s based of testimony that was taken under duress, ir maybe it was circumstantial. I myself am not a lawyer, but I have a friend who is told me a lot of times cases were made are broken by how much the lawyer pissed off the judge or jury. I remember my friend told me there was a civil divorce case where both the husband and wife acussed each other of cheating, but a lot of the evidence wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 05:00 PM
4	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Bingo. Poor & middle class women more often than not split up the checks, IME. But wealthier and high class women typically make you pay, unless they asked you out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:16 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. You'd be surprised how little cases have overwhelming evidence. Sometimes, it really is up to if the Judge was feeling pissy	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:14 PM
-1	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. Honestlly, your dating strategies heavily depend on where you are. Some places, like colleges with 50/50 population(where I am), have pretty good dating options; other places (like large,busy cities without much of a nightlife) can be bad for everyone involved. In addition, I am talking a little bit from a high horse (I have a relationship) If I was talking to a women, I would probably tell her the same thing, but I am not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:07 AM
-1	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. Equating women to fish is certainly a take. You're not catching something that you are hoping to eat. A woman isn't something you use and leave. It's another person you hope to experience life with. If you try to draw in too many people and compromise your standards, you will be unhappy in your relationship. I'm not going to dictate your matching stratagy, but If you treat everyone just like a checklist and then act surprised when they don't want you, that's your fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 07:28 AM
-1	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. Yeah, but if you consistently treat women as a number and you struggle to make your relationships work or get dates, then that's probably a you problem, not them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 06:40 AM
4	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. Men: Treat women like a number. Also men: "Why won't women date me?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 01:35 AM
1	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. However, a lot of men just want a hole. A non-insiignificant part of the online gay dating community is a straight male who just wants a rag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 01:33 AM
1	Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably false The other day, I came upon a post detailing a (f) teacher that raped her (m) student. The Top Comment wasn't denouncing the rape. The Top comment was "Where were these teachers when I was in High School" In a patriarchal model of society, sexuality is something that men control, and it is something that is intrinsically masculine. Thus, according to the Patriarchy, a male cannot be raped, because that would mean that sexuality doesn't belong to the man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 05:15 AM
2	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family I mean, it depends at what time of life they are in. 50-70k for recently graduated college grads isn't that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 05:06 AM
3	Friendship and family don't fully replace romantic relationship Yeah, but If you say you're hungry, and them complain when I had you an apple instead of a burger, that's not their fault, that's yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 05:01 AM
5	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It I was lucky, my gf asked me out, and we are both engineering (lots of study dates) Some people just draw the short end of the stick. Maybe you had a particularly busy year, which meant you had little time to party. Maybe you flunked a class and were on academic probation. Next you know, you have spent an entire year without hanging out with friends, and you have missed social interaction for a year. Story of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:27 AM
1	Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period... Because its funny, and I am terribly bored	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 03:28 AM
7	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It My response to both:a) Unfortunately, My math class has supplemental instruction around that time, so I can't attend. I'm sorry about that. B) I would love to do so, but my Chemistry class just assigned new homework that I need to finish, plus I have an 8:30 class so I have to go to sleep early. Both of those were real responses I said to my friends. The main problem is that college students are expected to do much more. It used to be that students could ace classes and had a pretty nice chance …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 03:09 AM
2	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor The Variability Hypothesis is controversial today because while it does ring true in the past, it is unknown whether it is a cultural or biological difference. Evidence does prove a cultural difference, however, as the Variability gap in male and female scores has been decreasing. Source: https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/the-greater-male-variability-hypothesis/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 12:56 AM
2	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor The Variability Hypothesis is controversial today because while it does ring true in the past, it is unknown whether it is a cultural or biological difference. Evidence does prove a cultural difference, however, as the Variability gap in male and female scores has been decreasing. Source: https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/the-greater-male-variability-hypothesis/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 12:56 AM
3	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor In Squid Game season 2 there is a character under the name Hyun-ju. This character is trans, and in the tv series, is playing the games so that they could get enough money to transition. South Korea is a notoriously conservative state, such that the actor itself is not trans, because finding an openly trans actor is hard. I remember going on r/squidgame after the series ended and seeing in a post numerous people remarking how the character made them change their views on how they perceived trans…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 12:51 AM
9	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Blue Pill isn't a talking point, it is an argument that Red Pill, Black Pill, etc have fundamentally misunderstood the Dating sphere and and are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:24 PM
–	Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirs I was having a rough day with my finals and college grades coming out, but I swear it small things like this that make my day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 10:19 PM
1	Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hating The politics that goes into funding for academia can be more scummy than the stuff you see in Washington. The only difference is that Academia tends to follow the rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:23 PM
0	Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hating Says the guy whos never been in academia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:14 PM
0	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies English Comprehension clearly was not your favorite class, was it? Is there any other language you prefer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 01:46 AM
-3	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Humor and Mockery are not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 12:59 AM
-2	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies the use of the word "Meanie", a deliberate attempt at mimicking the language mannerisms of a toddler, implies humor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 11:12 PM
2	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. Have you not heard the 20 bucks meme? Male sex work is less profitable, if they had the chance, they would do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 10:06 PM
-3	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Sarcasm and humor is clearly not your language...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:57 PM
2	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing It wasn't just that, In the end, my flowchart was 6 pages long. Normally this would not be a problem, but I decided it may look more organized if I tried to do it by hand. trying to get the end result all into one picture was hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 03:50 AM
1	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing I'm an undergrad at Purdue. Lowkey, the project itself was kinda easy, it's just it was my first time really applying python and my code was horribly inefficient. (The final line count was ~300, I could have shortened it down to 200 probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 03:23 AM
2	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing Lol that makes my programming project look like a cakewalk. Though, it was for an aero class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:21 AM
0	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing May I ask what was the project?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:09 AM
2	in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problem Our minds are built for the savannah, and are now living in concrete jungles. In all seriousness, it's not only the randos, but usually its in combination with other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:09 AM
2	5 questions regarding your pill, please share if you can. Honestlly, It's because being Blue Pill has worked for me. I am an average-height guy with a skinny fat disposition and a somewhat feminine face. I used to be red-pill, trying to be masculine, even when it felt somewhat uncomfortable. I went to the gym not be healthy, but to get girls. Needless to say, this didn't work out. While I could get dates, and an occasional relationship or two, I would struggle to actually maintain these relationships. Later, I decided to lean into my femininity and wen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 10:03 PM
5	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 What country are you from? u/DrunkOnRamen doesn't care for the whole gender conflict whether due to good relations or more pressing issues. \|what am I even fighting for? He are fighting for freedom. He knows that Russians are really just oppressors who seek to wipe out his culture and language. The Russian state is a brutal authoritarian state. They are fighting for survival, a notion that many people (including me) will hopefully never fully grasp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:47 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 What about women in front-line aviation roles. In some of my experiences, Women seemed to be equal, if not better than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:44 PM
13	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Bro, I think you're overthinking this. The average Ukrainian man isn't going to be worrying about gender relations and women. Even if all the women left, Ukraine is still their country, and their land. It's simply Patriotism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:41 PM
2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Wars lasting for that long of a time are highly unusual. Wars mostly go for 4-5 years, if it lasts more than ten, its often an insurgency, not a full flung state war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:39 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. If you think being Homeless is equivalent to being single, then there are more issues at play here. If you cannot be happy single, you will never be truly happy in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 06:05 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Th thing is, unless you are Adam, you're not stuck on an "island".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 06:04 PM
7	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Exactly I am a guy with softer, more feminine features than traditional guys. It worked better for me when leaned into feminity than if I were to lean into the traditional "rugged masculnity."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:02 AM
3	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Sometimes you don't have the choice to be private. MY GF runs a DND account and still deceives hundreds of dms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:59 AM
2	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. If the best option is a bad option, then don't date her. Or if you were willing to put up with the bad to get the relationship that is a personal decision. Does that make her a bad person? Yes. But it's the same thing that many of you guys saw to women: If you only get bad people in your life, you need to reevaluate yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 10:22 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I pity them, but I feel less sympathetic because of you are willing to take anything that moves, then you can’t complain when she turns out to be not as good of a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:51 PM
-6	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Sure. But don’t complain when she turns out to be gold digger or a cheater is you take anything that moves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:47 PM
8	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill Bro has not heard about the Greeks and their literature	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:22 PM
2	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Do you mean I wasn’t gonna die alone? I thought I had something to look forward too!! ( Jk I love my gf)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:10 PM
-5	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. There’s a small difference: you need a job to survive, it you don’t need a GF to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:04 PM
3	q4w: you are the head of the country and are tasked with determining the quality of the male-female relationships for the past 100 years. Which metrics do you use? (Smiley faces don't count) The reason I come to this sub ngl	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:34 AM
-14	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. Well, she knew he wasn't interested in him because he was interested in someone else. There would be no point in asking just to receive a no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:35 PM
7	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. I'd never thought I would hear a redpill statement that I agree with more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:35 PM
0	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. Thats Fair. The nature of how women build networks probably helps reduces the chances of them discussing it online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:32 PM
1	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. Previously, on this subreddit, a lot of the talk around invisible usually referred to older women who were "lost". I wanted to widen out this designations from the old group to say that it can affect everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:31 PM
2	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? I mean it makes sense. Poor people suffer obesity at higher rates simply because healthy food is expensive. "in general the most obese people statistically are demographics that vote strongly democrat." You can't just say this without evidence. Even in your own charts you provided, there was only about 50% correlation between cities and obesity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:19 PM
1	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game If you try to make a romantic relationship fulfill all of your emotional needs, then that relationship will fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:35 AM
0	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game Really. I am in numerous nerd fandoms like Warhammer 40k, DND, and online gaming. The same men who complain about how all women are bad will also complain that no one is willing to date them. (Mind you, even for some of them, there are people willing to date them. But either they turn them off or refuse to even acknowledge their presence. I will admit my relationship isn't conventional, not very traditional, so whenever I give advice it is rejected as a guy who simply "got lucky" It almost infur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 04:30 AM
0	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game If they are unhappy they really should just leave. Like Marriage is a two way street, you chose her as much as she chose you, and both sides have option to pull out. If she is not willing to tolerate her husband's positon at all, then that is a toxic relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 01:05 AM
-2	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game Perhaps I should rephrase. When I person goes out to seek a relationship, it shouldn't fulfill a need but rather be an addition to their present situation. When I saw a relationship as a way of fulfilling my emotional needs, I only ended in shitty ones. When I took a break to reevaluate myself and fulfilled my emotional needs with interactions with friends and groups, I ended in a (still-going) relationship that is amazing. Tbh, unless you're aromantic or asexual, you will always want a relation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 11:08 PM
2	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? Actually, a lot of the poor counties are the most blue. This isn't an obesity thing, this is just how elections in the Deep South work. However, if you go more north and midwest, the trend kinda reverses. I mean, there's California, Kentucky, West Virginia, Kansas, and South Dakota buck the trend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:56 PM
0	Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships. Every dating niche is a minority to the other If you surveyed a college campus, you will get different results than if you surveyed a city, and likewise with a rural town. For the most part, people stick to their environments, and subgroups within the environments. I met my GF through DND, whose preferences tend to differ from other women. You can say women do not like cross-dressers, yet you go to a Cosplay convention and I bet a substantial portion of them are committed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:48 PM
27	Do you think men are less attentive? Do you think this woman was wrong to decline her engagement due to her bf’s plan? And Nobody has to accept it either, but here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:40 PM
0	Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships. I cross-dress and am into somewhat feminine things and yet I am in a committed relations ship. I think you are oversimplifying things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:34 PM
3	Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships. Exactly. I'm a guy who has a bit of a young and somewhat feminine body and face. When I tried to compensate for that with masculine actions, it didn't work well, but when I leaned more into my feminine attributes, it worked really well and I got my GF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:32 PM
-5	Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships. Honestlly, I think you are exaggerating an incredibly complex issue. I am a college student rn, and the biggest problem people have is that more and more people are entering college already in a relationship, and those who are single are usually by choice. I think you are unfairly criticizing women without looking into more realistic answer. Where I am from, both men and women are committed at similar rates, and single at similar rates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:25 PM
1	Dating apps are only useful for the top 5% of men looking to hookup with average looking women or vice versa. The apps are designed to fail for those looking for relationships. In all honestly, it makes sense. Ages 1-15 people are usually too young to date, and if your are between 18-24, education can be stressful enough to make you not date. I mean, within my college, it was not unusual for many men and women to be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:14 PM
1	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game Not gonna be mean, but this does sound like it was written by AI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:11 PM
-6	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game As person in a relationship rn, one thing that I would argue is that if you cannot be happy single, you will not be happy in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:09 PM
3	Why do women reject a guy but act jealous and try to cockblock him when he tries to date other women? Calculated behavior can still be immature, even if the person doing it thinks they are doing something smart. These women thinks something belongs to them not matter what, as such, immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:01 PM
5	What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material? Lol I just come here when I need my daily salt intake. Just go and sort by controversial. Best way to kill time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:59 PM
7	What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material? On a side note: what does aspirin pilled women mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:28 AM
2	Why do women reject a guy but act jealous and try to cockblock him when he tries to date other women? Point still stands	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:26 AM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. Once again, the other party can't counter-sue for a no-fault divorce if one party brings it in a civil manner. There, the court will be forced to take it seriously, as this is no longer a legal agreement to end a marriage, but a civil suit. I think you are also misinterpreting what no-fault divorce is. No-fault divorce isn't a suit in and on its own, rather, it is a condition of divorce. It states that parties can sue for divorce with no fault on either side, but do not need to. You cannot count…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 11:07 PM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. The wife doesn't need to file for no-fault divorce. If she has due cause, then the divorce can turn into a civil case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 09:38 PM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. If you have a good lawyer, she shouldn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 09:37 PM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. from a strictly legal sense, everything can go wrong. If you cheat and she gains verifiable evidence(keep in mind Divorces are a civil matter, the burden of evidence just has to be >50%, not beyond all reasonable doubt), her lawyer and her have free feign to gather any assets short of leaving you destitute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 08:45 PM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. Then Divorce her!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 07:39 PM
1	Does a prenup still work in modern day marriages? The idea kinda makes sense. Women suffer through career setback when giving birth. Child support is essentially there to not only support the child but also compensate the women for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 01:57 AM
0	Do you think it aligns with liberal progressive beliefs to view men as inherently more dangerous or predatory? While you could you could say prone, One could argue that you can help reverse that through social engineering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:18 AM
–	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Indeed. I saw a friend of mine post the infamous "when the chicken is cold" and "understanding women" meme. It can be understood as a joke, but at the same time, the internet is a way for us to express our feeling without repercussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:13 AM
1	Does a prenup still work in modern day marriages? I guess? If you have a High-earning job prior to the marriage, you can get that covered by the prenup. Realistically, Most people date around their social class, and/or are not wealthy at the time of entering a marriage where prenup is effective. Pre-nups are hard to maintain with children though, mainly because the court tries to preserve a child's "state of life" through the divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 10:59 PM
2	Does a prenup still work in modern day marriages? The thing, a lot of times people don’t understand what a pre nup does cover and what it doesn’t cover. A pre nups primary role is to cover pre martial assets. Most of the times it gets thrown out when one of the Spouses are a SAHP or there exists a wide income disparity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 03:22 PM
9	Does a prenup still work in modern day marriages? Pre-Nups, when done right(i.e reviewed by lawyers of two parties, signed and notarized) are as strong as any other legal contract. However, many people forget that these documents are a form of a legal agreement, and must have the same processes for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 04:24 AM
1	Balthazar Ebang Engonga proves that 4B won't work. It could also be that GenZ is still somewhat young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 06:17 PM
–	The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse I think a lot of it has to do with how their society developed. Western societies had the chance to develop individualistic lives, while far eastern...didn't. There, you are not just 'you' but a representative of your family, and must behave like one. If you go to the Far Eastern immigrant population, they typically have a healthier birth rate. Makes you wonder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:33 AM
–	The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse Not just men. Women too. Especially in Modern day SK, Women are expected to be both a dutiful housewife and work a 9-5. (Also, I can't tell if you're disagreeing or agreeing)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:27 AM
1	There’s too much casual misandry on the internet Honestlly, I believe that people as a whole, but society is bad, because people, on average, try to be somewhat good, but society, by its nature, highlights our worst traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:20 AM
–	The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse Exactlly. South Korea is the worst mixture of poor gender relations and early stage corporatocracy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:11 AM
6	Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior. Same. When I feel Like I haven't had my salt intake for today, I go here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 06:45 PM
2	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. I will say this as a guy: YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP I was in one, and the trauma doesn't end when you break up. Hell, it still affects me within my current relationship. I struggle with intimacy, while at the same time suffering from moderate anxiety(used to be severe) It is the worst, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I would have been better if I had just stayed single. If you want to be one, then fine, but do not assume others want to. Do not assume someone is more fort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 05:27 PM
4	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Are you listening to yourself? How can being in an abusive relationship be better than being single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 02:21 AM
6	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. my brother in christ, she was talking about getting into abusive relationships. being single is better than being in an abusive relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:38 PM
10	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. ...Reproductive rate doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how happy you are in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:06 PM
1	Q4W: Are men and women not so much different? Honestlly, The same thing happens with guys too, just in different ways. The best way I see this is how Gamers defend other gamers, despite their their true crime. The Dr. Disrespect incident comes to mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 09:58 PM
1	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. I have a right vote. I am not required to vote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 10:34 PM
–	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. A) No, I Didn't. But I feel like he is in the minority. In addition, his heckling seemed to be one of circumstance. The Toronto Student Union seemed to really have hate against him and published many articles against him before he spoke. Many feminist organizations actually supported his speech. I feel like that example is just the problem with the area, not with feminism as a whole. B) A plank of modern feminist theory is to remove sexism from men's culture. This could be like a toxic form of "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 04:13 PM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. I know that what am trying to say is that It shouldn't be on feminists to spearhead the men's rights movement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:46 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. It's good that they are protesting. I searched videos of these men, and they don't seem to face much opposition. Where do you have evidence of Feminists trying to cancel men's spaces? Internet Feminists aren't usually the best example; by nature of how online media works, the more controversy, the more "rage bait", and the more views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 01:00 AM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Men didn't just up and decide they wanted to support feminist issues. And even when they did they didn't do it "en masse" For instance in the US, Feminsim only really gained support in the US when it started allying with civil rights organizations. Before that, they weren't always on good terms. And even this, after the civil rights movement in the 60s, in which many Feminists participated in, those groups would abandon Feminists. In addition Feminists played a key role in the abolishment of Sla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 05:59 PM
12	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Okay, so why don't men fight for that then? Do you think feminists got their rights by just sitting on their hinds?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 03:49 PM
1	CMV : I Think Some People Missed The Point Of The Redpill = Insecurity Post Words Change. The original word for 'bear' didn't mean 'bear', it meant brown.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 06:47 AM
7	South Korea will be the first feminist country in modern history to be butchered. Bro thinks a country where people are physically stunted due to malnutrition are gonna steamroll a country that has the support of the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 01:28 PM
2	Biden's due process thing This law hasn't changed anything that wasn't already in effect. Trump was convicted of Rape, yet he still paid E Jean Carrol in Civil Court. Why? Because the burden of proof in Civil Court is much lower, where rather it it being beyond all doubt, it is about more than 50% confidence. Biden is simply acknowledging that School disciplinary boards are more like Civil Courts and Crimminal Courts, because something that gets you expelled doesn't have to be illegal. The trick is, people who have enoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 02:25 AM
3	When male loneliness is brought up, what is meant? Romantic loneliness or general loneliness? What Male only spaces are being destroyed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 02:18 AM
3	Women simultaneously benefit from traditional gender roles and modernity, but only where it suits them I differ on your first point. Intially, Trade jobs pay well, however, Trade Jobs have a harder ceiling than office jobs. My friend initially made more than me, but fast forward, I make 1.5 more, and have benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 10:39 PM
–	A lot of men here underestimate the importance of Female Friendships. Sorry I didn't meant it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:41 PM
–	A lot of men here underestimate the importance of Female Friendships. I''m not old, still in my mid 20s	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:41 PM
–	A lot of men here underestimate the importance of Female Friendships. I wasn't looking for them. There were taking the same degree path as a me, and we just connected. I made this post because I thought that there were noticeable differences in my friendships that I thought were helpful, for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:40 PM
1	Masculine Aggression Is Not Always The Answer That has more to do with poverty, not psychology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 04:10 PM
0	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. If you head down to r/rolereversal, you find that majority of the people there are women. And actually, I'd argue the opposite. Most people want control, to have power over their life and decide how it goes. Being a sub means to cometlly let go of all semblance of control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:24 PM
0	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. Head to r/rolereversal. Majority of the posts are by domme women looking for sub males. Many men want a domme fantasy, but rarely want to be a sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:22 PM
4	Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship? Actually, I would argue that thiers operates different, but not neccerilly less. From my experience, Men's "baseline" or "average" libdo is higher, but their "highs" are typically lower than women's "highs"	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:14 PM
2	How do you vet someone? Prevouslly abusive Household also has a factor. If the only 'love' you see hurts, then you choose hurtful 'love'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 11:34 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state I mean, in a dark way, there is a reason why paternity fraud isn't a crime Laws aren't made for individuals they are made for society. If society benefits, then the Law fits. It's how government works. Sure, Paternity Fraud is a bad thing---for men. For society? It means several children are getting supported by something. That benefits society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 11:25 PM
2	If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s? Have you heard of the Oedipus complex? Sure, you probably have heard it apply to mothers and sons, but it also works for fathers and daughters. Most people need two types of figures: a strong, strict, protective one and a soft, kind, nurturing one. Miss one or the other, it can screw your dating life tremendously. If you look a the non-gold-digging women who date immensely older, they tend to have troubling family history. Maybe their father left or was absent. Maybe their father was emotionally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 12:34 AM
1	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? alright, I'll bite 1.) The US Selective Service System is one of the biggest jokes ever. Like Millions of American men don't sign up for it, and don't get punished. It happens so much that there is an entire legal term for it. When I registered to vote, I had to remind the guy in front of me to register me for the draft. Sure, Men De jure are required for it, but de facto... 3.) The Equal Pay Act was signed into law in 1963. Here. It was made due to a widespread suffrage movement designed to com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 01:48 AM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. "Hamlet," Act 3, Scene 1, "To be, or not to be, that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles And, by opposing, end them. To die: to sleep; No more; and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep; To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub; For in that sleep of death what dre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 01:16 AM
1	Prehistoric patriarchy vs Prehistoric matriarchy Not neccearilly. DNA evidence and what little art our ancestors left for us indicated a polygamous society, where everyone reproduced wth everyone, and Children were often raised less by the mother but by the village, so to speak. It was only with the Agricultural revolution, when the need for lineages was strong, that we see the earlier examples of monogamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 12:34 AM
4	Prehistoric patriarchy vs Prehistoric matriarchy Indeed. Harari points out that the patriarchy is largely a result of a Patrilinial society. After all, since women often had more and more child-rearing duties to attend to, Men went out to the fields to work, which created a world where Men were treated better than women. If you're curious, I strongly suggest you read his novel, Sapiens. (I do warn you, he can be a bit heavy-handed in his Atheism, but his points about religion are very interesting)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:06 AM
10	Prehistoric patriarchy vs Prehistoric matriarchy Honestly, I think it's a mix of both. Yuval Noah Harari points out that in a Prehistoric society, both men and women would have to work to be successfully functioning, which would have probably resulted in a more egalitarian society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 02:58 AM
0	Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted men It was a bit different for me. From what I heard, STEM Majors can have this sort of "old guys club" where it can be hard to fit in if you don't have too many traits. Women in STEM tend to be hit on a lot and tend to face unique barriers in their employment. Yale Actually did a really interesting study here:https://news.yale.edu/2012/09/24/scientists-not-immune-gender-bias-yale-study-shows	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 02:34 AM
5	“genuinely kind guy” is a rebrand of the “nice guy” I just want to add an anecdote. I have volunteered in both Male and Female DV shelters. In fact, the Male DV shelters are often offshoots of the female DV shelters. But I digress. One thing I noticed was that Males don't typically use their DV shelters. Both shelters were advertised equally; everyone knew They existed. But men just didn't come. In fact, there were times when the Shelter was empty. The main problem with Male DV shelters is that no one uses them, and if nobody uses them it is simp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 04:22 AM
1	What do you think is the cause for this to happen? Marriages are not arranged. Yeah my bad, that's the wrong country. Still, that doesn't remove the very true fact that the Porn Industry is widely popular amongst Japansese society. Not to mention, Japan is highly family oriented, people are expected to behave for the family, not their own wishes. Marriage is less about people, but about a social contract to benefit families. No one really marries for love, and if they do, they tend too be more for financial and legacy benefit. Not to mention, in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 02:35 AM
8	Women wearing revealing clothing A wet t shirt does feel cooler, but at the same time, it has the potential to heat up faster. That is why our body doesn't let out one load of sweat at a time, but a trickle, so that the sweat outside our body has a chance to leave and cool water can run. In a desert envoirment, you can't afford to sweat or you dehydrate. In a humid envoirment, The heat just sticks around you, so it is benefical to have less clothing Trust, me, I have been and worked in both envoirments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 05:45 AM
4	What do you think is the cause for this to happen? Ehh, u/SteveSan82 is vastly oversimplifying an incredibly complex issue. Japan is still a state where a good chunk of marriages are arranged. Most of them are predetermine by parents with very little input from the people being married. This ends up with neither side getting a good deal. Women Cheat because they don't love their husbands, and they were likely forced into marrying them by their parents, and cannot divorce due to social stigma. In addition, men cheat a lot, not just with people, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 05:36 AM
3	What do you think is the cause for this to happen? Japan is one of the best examples of how self-destructive runaway capitalism can be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 05:32 AM
20	Women wearing revealing clothing Arabian desert is a whole different breed. The Desert, unlike more temperate heat, is relatively moisture dry. Thus, people in the desert wear clothes that are designed to prevent moisture from leaving. Contrasted that with heat in temperate reigions like the US, where moisture is prevalent, having more clothing would mean that the clothing would only be trapped onto your body, which in turn would heat us up more. Source: Lived in india and explored both temperatures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 05:25 AM
3	Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters? Religion has a potential to be bad, and has a history of doing so. The main problem with religion isn't the god aspect of it, it's the fact you must have an unquestionable belief in something, and that can lead to a lot of bad stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 01:39 AM
3	Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters? She's not putting blame on men specifically. In this story, it describes an anecdotal story in which she was on the wrong side of a man who was trying to use sympathy points to get into someone's pants, which both genders do. Hell, my own GF's boss tried to do the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 01:36 AM
1	“Women/men aren’t a monolith” When the world has 8 billion people, even .1% is a significant population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 12:46 AM
0	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with It's a hit or miss. For some, Romeo and Juliet is a terrible tragedy about lovers; for others, it is a comedy about a bunch of teenagers making bad decisions. After all, "Comedy = Tragedy + Time." Still, plays always are political/social commentary. At the time of Shakespeare, England was facing political upheaval due to James's shaky inheritance of the British throne. We also saw in this time period a few female nobles trying to gain power. Lady Macbeth was a play on these female nobles. In fac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 04:36 AM
0	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with That's the thing about most tragedies at the time, they they also doubled as comedies, satirizing the political trends of the time. I mean, if you look into it, Macbeth is literally just Shakespeare brown nosing James l	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 03:27 AM
–	Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired? That Math doesn't add up. The world has a 49:51 gender ratio. For your statement to be true, 1.7 million men must be reproducing with 3.2 billion women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 04:42 AM
2	In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity? I know this. I have a friend who makes handmade drawings for my B-Day and Half birthday. The best I can often give is store-bought products, which I feel have no worth behind them. She still treasures each and every one of them though, even when they have no value. Like there is this stuffed animal that I bought for her that literally falling apart, but refuses to keep it because it was a gift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 03:22 AM