Sudden8308 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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19	How do I tell him so that he really hears? You're not being too much, but you're approach is wrong. He is being driven by how he feels about you, not by what he knows you need. If you tell him you need something and he doesn't do it, he likely feels that his needs aren't being met, and so doesn't care to meet your needs. Waiting for the other person to meet your needs before you meet there's will never work. Someone always has to step up and start, and it takes continual effort. It's not a one time thing. If he feels that his needs are b…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/23 03:10 PM
1	Food for thought – reframe on accepting being provided for Right, well said.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/23 01:22 AM
1	Struggling and I see it's weighing on my boyfriend Just be aware of it and practice self control. Practice doing it in your mind ahead of time so it's easier when the situation arises. It doesn't have to be more complicated than this.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/23 02:56 PM
3	Therapists to talk about men's issues or the current state of men's issues in therapy spaces. Can you look into a "No More Mr Nice Guy" (or similar) male support group? If you're near a bigger city, there should be something like that nearby.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/23 02:27 PM
2	How not to mother my husband? Yes, THIS.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 04:54 PM
2	A family member of mine believes men can't be raped I was hard about 50% of the time whether being stimulated or not when I was a teenager. A woman could easily rape a 15 year old boy.	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 04:30 PM
1	How much will a man actually change? It's not that he needs to change. It's that you need to find out what makes him want to do those things for you. Speak his love language, not yours. If do that, there's a good chance he'll want to be more romantic for you. Also, this is not a one time deal. You both have will have to make a continuous effort as long as you want the relationship to thrive.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 04:25 PM
10	Do guys think it's cute when you get nervous? A bit of nervousness makes a guy feel like she's into him and cares to make a good impression. Too much comes across as insecure.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 04:12 PM
2	How not to mother my husband? You don't. If you want him to grow up and stop being a little boy, how do you expect him to do this when you mother him? Take care of him in certain loving ways, yes. Mother him, no. He will likely eventually resent you for this, if he doesn't already. If he already has a problem with you mothering him, he needs to grow up so that you don't feel the need to.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 04:06 PM
5	How not to mother my husband? Certainly not a good thing. Please don't do this.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 03:59 PM
3	Food for thought – reframe on accepting being provided for I think the problem with the feminist mindset is that people are confusing equality (in everything) with equality of value. Men and women are equally valuable, but they're different. Men (in general) are wired to be providers (financial) and protectors. It challenges their inner masculinity if you try and do either of these things for him. Be equal in value and contribution, but not equal in activity. Let him pay, let him carry heavy stuff. Do things for him that he values. Otherwise, you might …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/23 02:54 PM
2	Paying on dates It really depends on what is meaningful to him, but most guys thrive on a few things regardless. The main one is respect, followed by verbal praise (compliments) that builds up his ego, and specifically his masculinity (anything to do with is ability to provide for you and protect you, as well as how he is better than other men). He also very likely wants to feel like he's sexually desirable. All of this must be genuine, of course. The best time to do many of these things is right after he does …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/23 02:29 PM
2	Men are being gaslit into thinking they are misogynists and it’s destroying their mental health This makes sense to a degree, but at some point, peoples' behavior becomes unreasonable. Take your example above. The person called you misogynist for asking a question about a scene. I wouldn't feel bad about that, because 1. I know I'm not a misogynist, and 2. I realize that that person is being unreasonable. That being said, if you are actually misogynist, than by all means, feel bad about it, but if you aren't, then who cares what faceless people on internet say? If random weirdos on the int…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/23 11:46 PM
1	Do you think men are victims of DV at higher rates than women? This is because our society keeps trying to feminize or soften men, and then this happens. As if they didn't see it coming. If you're a dude and you're a victim of DV, your a little boy in a man's body, not a man. A real man being a victim of DV is a contradiction.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/23 10:32 PM
1	Quick relationship question (not domestic enough?) Physical appearance is important to most men. If you're making an effort to look good for everyone but him, he's going to feel disrespected. Respect is also extremely important to men.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/23 09:35 PM
1	Paying on dates Let him pay for things. He wants to provide for you. It makes him feel like a man. Do other nice things for him to help him feel appreciated and not taken advantage of. He doesn't want your money, he wants your respect and affection.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/23 09:25 PM
1	How do I get over his wandering eye? This is normal. Men are visual. When you see a cute puppy, it's just cute and you want to pet it, even if you already have a cute puppy at home. That's how it is for men and beautiful women. That's not to say they should act on it, but it's just how it is. Girls grow up watching fairytale movies where the man sees the girl, it's love at first sight, all other women become invisible, and he's intensely in love with her, warts and all. This is just as unrealistic as men watching porn and expecting…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/23 08:59 PM
13	Paying on dates Let him pay. He feels like he's taking care of you. Real men are driven to be providers. It makes them feel masculine to pay. When you tell him that you want to pay, he likely takes it as an insult to his masculinity, like you're implying he can't handle it. Men that want the woman to pay are little boys in men's bodies. Let him take care of you this way but make sure you're taking care of him in other ways.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/23 08:45 PM
2	My husband works so hard and takes such good care of me. I'm wondering what are some extra little things I could do to show him how much I appreciate him? Nobody is going to state the obvious? Okay then, I will. Wear something sexy and give him a very enthusiastic bj. Act like you can't get enough of it.	/r/MensRights	24/04/23 08:36 PM
1	Body Shaming Double Standards It's because men are a threat, so all they can do to feel like they have power is to call names and try and put men down. Knowing this, we as men can simply find amusement in all of it.	/r/MensRights	24/04/23 08:12 PM