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Q4W: Would you rather date an 8/10 (looks wise) 5’11” guy or a 7/10 6’3” guy? All else being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:41 PM
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I realized that I have nothing against women in real life. It’s the toxic stuff online that causes resentment towards the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with therapy but you have to find a good therapist. Ultimately you can’t think your way out of low self esteem. You have to take action but therapy can help you get rid of the mental blocks that are preventing you from taking action.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:43 PM
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No. Attractive women have the privilege of being able to hook up with attractive men. Is that what a straight men should be jealous of? Not if you want to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:29 PM
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It's definitely homoerotic. No woman talks about men's looks the way certain blackpill guys talk about men's looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:06 PM
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Why are so many men jealous of attractive women? Is this a new phenomenon? Growing up you'd never hear men express this emotion. Do these guys realize that you're not competing with women? You're trying to attract attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:52 PM
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No. They're mostly attractive. But most dates are a waste of time and effort. You start investing in a person only for it to go nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:48 PM
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400 + likes on Bumble and I'm miserable as hell and about to quit dating. I hope this makes some guys feel better. Matches, likes and dates don't mean anything. Dating apps are garbage <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:36 PM
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If I were that man I’d kill her. Not even joking or trying to be edgy. I’d at least knock her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:31 PM
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I’m at a point where I can’t get attracted to average women. Is it porn and social media? Maybe. Also I’ve dated very attractive women. I don’t even want to kiss an average looking woman. Is there something wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:10 AM
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Can you be a Chad if you’re under 6 feet tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:07 PM
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It’s well known that mid girls have higher body counts than hot girls. The hottest girls I know got into an LTR when they were young and got married in their 20s. Hot girls don’t need to have sex with random guys for an ego boost. They already know they’re desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:08 PM
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I was watching an 80s movie “No Way Out” and I was shocked by how skinny Kevin Costner looks in that movie. You never see actors who’re that skinny with skinny arms and no muscle mass. Male actors are more muscular than ever while female actresses look just okay and definitely not as good as they used to look
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:57 PM
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I feel so bad for blue pilled men. Imagine viewing the world through rose coloured glasses. As a man, if you’re not at least a little cynical about women, you’re sheep. Women can be blue pilled but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:40 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:34 AM
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Idk how men marry onlyfans girls. Can’t even imagine how cucked you have to be to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:11 AM
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It's much harder to change your personality than to change your looks lol. Changing your personality requires years of time and effort, being uncomfortable, therapy, etc. I suspect this is why personality is so underrated in blackpill circles. No one wants to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:32 PM
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if I were a woman, I’d try to lock up a high value man in my early 20s and get married. Casual sex/hoe phase is a waste of time for women. It’s not like male sexual attention has any value whatsoever. The ultimate validation for a woman is to marry a desirable man. Everything else is second tier at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:54 PM
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Women in their 30s are more cynical and jaded. They're almost looking for any excuse or reason to not enter into a relationship. Dating a woman in her 30s is like drinking with your colleagues. You can never relax. Everything is more formal, more scripted. There's very little room for fun or spontaneity. The above applies more to women in their 30s with white collar/professional jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:45 PM
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I think most PPD women are in relationships. They see the world through a blue pilled lens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:58 PM
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If I have a son I’ll tell him every day that life isn’t fair and that no one deserves anything in this world. You have to earn everything. I feel like a lot of us grew up with the belief that we deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:12 AM
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An underappreciated factor that's causing sexlessness among young men is the fact that more women are on SSRIs than ever. SSRIs are a numbing agent - they make single women "happy" and make them less horny. These women check out of the dating scene and can't get horny for the average guy anymore. This also applies to young men on SSRIs but more women are on SSRIs than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:27 PM
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Henry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth, Chris Evans, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:52 PM
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Why are most actresses mid these days? I feel like actresses used to be hotter. On the other hand, male actors are better looking than ever, more fit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:18 PM
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Women complain endlessly. That’s why men tune it out whether it’s online or Husbands who tune out their wives. No point in taking those complaints seriously. You also can’t make neurotic women happy. They’ll always find a reason to complain and get sympathies from other neurotic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:40 PM
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Pumping and dumping isn't that common. And when it does happen it's because the woman is aiming way above her league. No sympathy for delusional women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:06 PM
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If you're a woman and having trouble dating, you deserve zero sympathy considering all the privileges and advantages women have in the dating market. On the other hand, men who are struggling with dating deserve sympathy and empathy. Anything wrong with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:36 PM
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I still remember my first rejection at the age of 14. It fuels my workouts, thinking about it makes me angry even now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:25 AM
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Well, no shit. No well-adjusted man is going to show that side of him to a woman. It's about manners and fitting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:07 PM
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Why are women so puzzled that there are a lot of bitter men who are resentful towards women? Men usually initiate in the dating market and face rejection. Women are the ones who do the rejecting. Getting rejected hurts. It makes perfect sense that men who get rejected become bitter especially if they don't have any successes to balance out the rejections. Even highly successful men resent women on some level for the rejections they've faced at one time or another. Just observe men in an all-male…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:58 PM
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How do we know women prioritize this power and influence? Because women's actions from 18-30 reflect it. How much time and $$ do women spend on makeup, plastic surgery, weight loss regimes, clothes etc? All in service of gaining power and influence over individual (highly desirable) men. Older women are probably richer but they can't ever wield that specific kind of power and influence again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:47 PM
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Women's power and influence lasts from 18-30 and for minority of women who take care of themselves, the range is 18-35. After that, women kind of blend in the background. Their opinions just don't get heard. It's like background noise. Enjoy the power while it lasts, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:20 PM
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Natalie Portman’s husband cheated on her with a mid 25 year old. Is this evidence that the hottest and most amazing middle aged woman still pales in comparison to 20- something year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:19 PM
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True. If you want a hot woman it helps to be in shape. This is partly my motivation too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:20 PM
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Man looking for a woman Height- 5’1” to 5’11” Weight- 150 lbs or below Build- Athletic build but a little bit of fat is okay Age range- 20-30 Breast size- Doesn’t matter as long as not too small Income- 80k or above
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:07 PM
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Women have a tough time because they’re much pickier on average. For women, it’s better to stay single than invest in a man that doesn’t meet their criteria. This makes dating hard because it’s hard to find a man that fits their criteria and likes them back enough to invest in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:02 PM
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It’s almost impossible to approach women irl unless you regularly go to bars and clubs. I don’t wanna spend $200 to get drunk and feel like shit the next day. Idk where else I can approach women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:04 PM
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She makes good money at her job. You think any woman who disagrees with you is a Pick Me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:51 PM
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Doubtful. She's a very attractive woman. She doesn't need to be a Pick Me to get attention/dates...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:38 PM
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My 2 cents on the "woe is me"/incl guys I think identifying as a foreveralone or perpetually single man is somehow soothing to the ego. Choosing to identity as someone who's been wronged by society/women is a way of feeling special by virtue of being misunderstood, outcast, or pitiable. It's not that different from the prideful ego that finds satisfaction in being set apart by being the greatest. It's an addiction to misery. Once you are locked into that cycle of misery, going against that narra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:34 PM
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It can make brunettes, Asians, etc too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:20 PM
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Rate this AI babe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:59 PM
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Do women secretly seethe when they see men being content with waifus, AI women, VR porn, OnlyFans and IG thots?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:24 AM
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why do women hate "passport bros" so much? They're just trying to get the best mate possible. As long as it's consensual, who cares...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:40 PM
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Moara Sorio
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:59 AM
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Sounds like copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:54 AM
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Why? Cuz it makes you mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:27 AM
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He looks like your average bartender who loves to tan. Very cringe guy but he’s good looking so he can get 20 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:26 AM
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He looks great. I think a lot of 20 year old girls are attracted to him...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:22 AM
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The Italian actor from that trashy Netflix movie 365 days is dating a 20 year old. He's 32 and his gf is 20. It's accepted as normal. On IG, girls 18 -20 are asking him to pick them. According to PPD women, this age difference is "creepy". In the real world, it seems normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:54 AM
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How can I come across as my "wholesome" and relationship oriented? I think I give off fuckboy vibes :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:19 PM
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I have a short beard/long stubble
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:50 PM
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I’ve been getting told by so many women that I look younger than my age (29). How are 29-30 year old men supposed to look? I don’t have wrinkles and have all my hair. Is that it? I have a masculine face so it’s not a baby face issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:30 PM
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No. 2 of course. It’s more fun when attraction builds over time rather than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:12 PM
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Doesn’t matter whether you have sex or not. Life fucks us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:48 AM
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I (29M) am seeing a 22F. We've gone on a few dates, had sex a few times, have good chemistry etc.. But is the age gap too much? Is it weird? All the age gap stuff on PPD and Reddit in general is making me feel weird. PPD, your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:19 PM
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Had sex with my 22 year old date last night. She said I’m the only guy she’s been with that has a belly. She said it half jokingly but still Feels bad man. I’m bulking and about 17% body fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:59 PM
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Best men in the world drink soy latte 3 times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:45 PM
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Bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:10 PM
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Going on dates with a 22 year old. I’m 29. Why are 22 year olds attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:26 PM
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As a straight guy even I notice there’s so many good looking guys in the gym. If I were a straight woman I’d probably suck off half of the guys in my gym (no homo). Idk why women say there aren’t many good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:08 AM
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How is that homoerotic? That’s the culture in sports. In football butt slapping is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:19 PM
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Why do women seem to think close friendships between men are “homoerotic”? As a guy I’ve never seen it that way. Hanging out with your bros isn’t homoerotic at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:26 PM
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Lol I meant qualifiers. Brain ain’t working today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:50 PM
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Of course, that goes without saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:43 PM
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Because in the US and Canada, most women are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:42 PM
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You can be her sugar daddy if you feel bad for her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:42 PM
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PPD guys pretend to have no standards. That's clearly wrong. Most men do have standards especially for relationships. Let's look at the things that are necessary in a woman for me: Healthy BMI (not obese) Ages 22-32 Must have a decent job (server, bartender, retail are disqualified) That's already a small percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:27 PM
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I’m probably 15-20% body fat but I’m lucky that my face is pretty defined even in this body fat range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:21 PM
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I’ve been eating a lot and I look wide af. Getting lots of attention from women lately. I think the wide look is underrated. Of course my face is still defined. I’m not fat but my muscles look full and I look like I lift in clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:17 PM
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How many PPD women seriously dislike men as a whole? That’s the vibe you get sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:35 PM
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So why are you complaining? Some men prefer professional looking women. Im actually less likely to hit on scantily dressed women than a well put together but modestly dressed woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:46 AM
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Women here argue that men age like milk and hit the wall fast but they don’t want to date men who are younger than them. What gives? Explain that one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:49 PM
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Most of them would irl if they saw a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:37 PM
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How can I stop being looks oriented/shallow while dating? I end up with crazy or dumb hot women way too much. I attract them like flies for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:14 PM
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Q4W: What’s preventing you from looking like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:19 PM
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I don’t think so. I’m black pill + blue pill + red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:15 PM
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Why so much blue pill in the chat these days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:53 PM
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He looks like a regular normal guy. Mind blown if this is a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:44 PM
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Went to a strip club for the first time on Saturday. It was actually fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:08 AM
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Don’t worry. He wouldn’t be into you anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:05 AM
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If he asked u out you’d say no? Imagine you’re single and he asked you out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:03 AM
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He’s a Turkish actor. His name is Burak Celik
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:38 AM
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6’3”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:31 AM
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Q4W: Do you find this guy hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:59 AM
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Imagine Brad Pitt in his prime or Marlon Brando in his prime hitting on you at a bar. You’re saying you wouldn’t go home with them that same night?!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:38 PM
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REALLY? So if TImothee Chalamet came up to you when you're single, you wouldn't go home with him that same night?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:16 PM
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Q4W: What percentage of men your age do you think you could have sex with if the circumstances were just right? Maybe you're both pretty drunk, maybe you're horny af, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:41 PM
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Would you rather go a year without sex or a year without being able to eat your favourite food?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:45 PM
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Yes I would go out with a few hotties from PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:44 PM
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Nah, life is just about having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:39 PM
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But Chad gets unlimited casual sex on tap from the hottest girls. What’s the point if you can’t get that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:33 PM
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Is it possible for a man under 6 feet tall to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:30 PM
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Hi PPD. Did you all miss me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:28 PM
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Broke up with the model I was seeing cuz she’s too high maintenance and ditzy as hell. Looks cant makeup for dumbness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:38 PM
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There’s very few high T alpha masculine men on PPD. That’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:07 PM
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Speak for yourself. I want sex daily and ideally multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:53 PM
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Why? Men’s prime lasts until 50. You don’t think 50 year old men are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:02 AM
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How many women here would consider being a sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:02 AM
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Non troll post I think a lot more guys who struggle irl should start listening to women’s opinions if they want to improve their dating game. Use PPD as a resource instead of a venting/trolling platform if you’re struggling with women. Listen to women on who they find attractive, what makes them tick, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:55 PM
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The subreddit r/sugarlifestyleforum has over 150k members. Sugar dating seems to be a really big phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:41 PM
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Bro split. CHest and tricep,s back and biceps, shoulders , legs. 5-6 times a week. I don't stick to that exactly however. I incorporate lower back stuff on my leg days for example. I'll incorporate abs stuff on my shoulders days. I also do pullups 3-4 times a week and dips.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:37 PM
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Emily Ratajkowski has the perfect face imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:41 PM
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What about pretty privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:38 PM
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I prefer far left and far right over the middle one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:34 PM
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Q4W: Do you think your life would be better if you looked like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:25 PM
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Collagen deterioration, she also gave birth so her body is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:53 PM
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Maybe a 9 now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:51 PM
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Emily Ratajkowski in her prime was probably a 9.5. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:48 PM
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Michele Morrone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:30 PM
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Why do women love this guy so much? Is he really that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:22 PM
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Which women do you consider 10/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:15 PM
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Lmao no way. This is an average white woman. The woman I posted is at least an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:04 PM
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They’re clearly fake
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:34 PM
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Rate her on a scale of 1-10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:12 PM
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Ignore the fact that it’s Brad Pitt. Just assess physiques
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:04 AM
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Boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:03 AM
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Q4W: Which physique is more attractive ? #1 vs #2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:48 AM
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I hope I didn’t trigger the ladies of PPD by posting hot bikini girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:27 PM
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You think only chads are worth dating??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:09 PM
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Why? He makes good money and I’m pretty sure he’d be a loyal husband
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:06 PM
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Update on my 28M virgin cousin: his parents are looking for a woman for him back in the old country
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:49 PM
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I think because I’m not saying looks are the only aspect that matter (which is the black pill thesis); instead I’m saying that being attractive can offset negative stuff and at least get you laid with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:18 PM
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Is it possible for an attractive man to struggle with getting laid/getting a gf if he has low standards? I don’t think it’s possible. If you’re not getting laid at all and get rejected every single time by average or below average women, chances are you’re not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:09 PM
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Q4W: How much money would you give to look like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:33 PM
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The girl I’m seeing doesn’t go to the gym but still has a nice body. How do I encourage her to work out? I think working out is a hobby we should share
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:46 PM
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I’ve never talked about that with my friends. Never expressed the opinion that women shouldn’t have rights. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:30 PM
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Poll: What is your n count this year? Mine is 6
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:05 PM
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He’s expecting random women to come up and compliment him? That doesn’t happen even to top 5% of guys. Women are built different. If he’s attractive he might get compliments in a social setting that involves partying/drinking. Women will often compliment something like clothes than a guy’s bone structure lol. A woman might also show interest in an attractive guy in different ways that aren’t verbal. If a girl finds excuses to touch you, how is that not a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:09 PM
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Why is he waiting for girls to tell him he’s good looking? That’s a very feminine mindset. No doubt girls can sense that from his body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:56 PM
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I agree. Good response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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Damn. I like your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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Q4W: What’s preventing you from looking like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:32 PM
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Are water signs more likely to be incels? Women avoid Pisces men like the plague. Should men start hiding their birthdays (or tell girls they're Leo or something) to get laid????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:54 PM
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i follow some random IG thots without any expectation of being followed back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:41 PM
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But that won’t work because they’re not tall and attractive Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:26 PM
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Is this a feasible solution to the inc3l problem? The government starts putting chemicals in the water supply that diminishes male sex drive. Call it “soft” chemical castration if you will. I think this could help society and reduce the inc3l problem since men won’t want to have sex anymore, or at least their desire will diminish greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:15 PM
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By strong-willed you mean asexual or low T men. Normal men badly want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:37 PM
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This is blue pill stuff. Sex comes before legacy in the hierarchy of wants. Once you’ve had sex then u can focus on your legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:29 PM
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Men under 30 are less accepting of women's rights. How could this be??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:28 PM
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Not saying it’s their fault but it’s a fact that not all women can get the man they want. Men also get to choose who we pursue relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:27 PM
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I love when single women brag about not settling and preferring to be alone because there’s no good men that they’re attracted to. Do they realize that the good attractive men exist but simply aren’t pursuing them? They’re choosing other women. In general, anyone who thinks it’s a flex to be single is somewhat deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:03 PM
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You’re laughing but this also says something about you. Obviously there’s a reason you can’t attract the man you truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:01 PM
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Honestly you have to admit that your friends just can’t attract the men they desire. That’s the reverse side of this no one talks about. If your single friends were all gorgeous, great cooks, boss women with great personalities there would be a line of attractive single men (who meet your friends’ standards) willing to date them. But that isn’t the case because your friends have something wrong with them as well. Always remember that dating takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:00 PM
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Men aren't usually complaining here about being held to high standards within a relationship. Men are complaining about not getting dates. You have to get in a relationship in order to show you can cook, are emotionally vulnerable, etc. Many men aren't getting that chance at all more than ever. That's what has changed about dating. You're talking about a different thing altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:11 PM
1

How can my unattractive cousin date a hot girl? He wants to date a hot girl. He’s gonna be making 400k soon. He’s 28, 5’8”, balding, shy/introverted, loves talking about physics and computer science, etc. Is his only option a sugar baby??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:23 PM
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It’s kinda funny how normal looking Eastern European women would be considered Stacys in the US. They’re also way less arrogant than hot American women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:47 PM
0

Q4W: would you be turned off if a guy you’re attracted to told you he’s seen escorts in the past? Assume you’re attracted to his looks. He doesn’t look like the kinda guy who can’t get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:32 AM
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I do this. It’s fun to watch a movie (esp horror movie) with a girl. Feels like being 16 again. Lots of Making out, running hands down her leg, etc. Then you can talk about the movie afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:09 AM
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Sounds like Italy- the simp capital of Europe. Italian men will simp for any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:56 PM
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I actually like it when my girl dresses sexy out in public. Am I in the minority? I like it when we’re at the beach and she’s wearing a thong bikini. I like it when she’s wearing a sexy dress etc. i don’t get insecure like that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:48 PM
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Are women lying when they say they don’t get turned on by still images of attractive men? I don’t really believe it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:52 PM
1

He's a virgin. You think he's happy about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:07 AM
2

I feel really bad for my cousin. I told him to shave his head but he doesn't care. He looks like an old man because of his balding. He has the Dr. Phil hairline and he's only 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:00 AM
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How can I get my cousin laid? He’s a software engineer making 200k +. He’s 5’8”, bald/balding (but doesn’t shave his head), he’s very quiet and doesn’t care about fashion/style but he’s a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:42 PM
2

Q4W: Would you rather date a male model or an accountant? Assume they look the exact same and have the same income.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:31 PM
2

What does the quote “most men live lives of quiet desperation” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:47 PM
4

Shave your feet please
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:58 PM
1

How many married men are actually virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:43 PM
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Are most men under 6 feet technically virgins? By technically I mean that their sex partner wasn’t enthusiastic about the sex or the sex was out of pity or they were beta bux or they got laid because a Chad wasn’t available nearby. Interesting thought
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:40 PM
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Im straight but honestly I see a lot of good looking guys in my city when I’m out and about. I don’t know if they’re sexually attractive to women but I think I can tell when a guy looks good. This is why I don’t understand when women say they go months without seeing a single attractive man. Makes me question their sexual orientation tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:28 PM
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I kinda envy the fact that women live in a constant state of post nut clarity. Ladies, correct me If Im wrong. As a guy, my horniness can make me do stuff that I regret later. I’ve made a lot of bad decisions because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:56 PM
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What’s the point of using dating apps if women only make up 20-33% of them? Seems like a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:40 PM
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A lot of people would be much happier if they could just lower their standards. Problem with dating is most people are aiming too high. If you could just settle for someone who isn’t so unattainable, your life could be fulfilling and rich with memories. A life well lived with a partner that’s just right for tou. A life filled with experiences that bond two humans ever closer. Aging will destroy beauty anyway so who cares about going for the best looking man/woman? Men and women are just flesh an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:27 AM
3

Can you really tell a woman’s n count by how her feet look?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:17 PM
1

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:07 PM
2

Women don’t need game. That’s why they don’t have it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:33 PM
1

Loaded and/or high status
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:14 PM
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Hot women like muscles, period. If they’re with a guy that doesn’t have muscles, he’s probably loaded, high status and/or has crazy game. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:10 PM
2

Facts. Be the best you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:02 PM
1

Yep. Your comment made me write this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:58 PM
3

Women are attracted to guys who take steroids. It’s pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:54 PM
2

Women are supposed to be naturally hairless below the eyebrows. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:21 PM
1

You’re doing something wrong. I don’t get that many flakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:08 PM
2

Most women I’ve been with seem to prefer body hair tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:59 PM
1

He’s probably on roids. Does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:12 PM
1

Q4W:Are you attracted to this physique?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:48 PM
1

White toes are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:22 AM
2

How am I supposed to suck on my girl’s toes if they’re hairy? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:28 PM
1

No girl ever said it's unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:18 PM
1

You mean normal men like hairy feet on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:01 PM
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She had normal breasts, just on the smaller side. Her mom taught her to prioritize looks above everything else. The mom married a rich professional man even though she’s a high school grad and a SAHM so it worked for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:28 PM
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Im sorry but hairy toes are the worst. Ladies, please remove the hair on your toes. Its one thing that is an instant boner killer. This is a PSA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:26 PM
1

Really??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:22 PM
2

What do you think of parents who pay for their daughters’ boob jobs? Seems kinda messed up to me. I know one mom who actually encouraged her daughter to get it. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:11 PM
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You don’t like good looking men in suits? Because a lot of them are conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:42 PM
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So many hotties at my gym. No wonder Im extra motivated to work out these days 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:32 PM
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Q4W: What would you think if a self-described straight guy told you "there's so many attractive men but there's only a few attractive women"? Would you think he's in the closet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:23 PM
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Testosterone encourages persistence in the face of continued defeat. Does this mean people who “give up” have lower T? I don’t understand how a man can give up so easily. https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/r3o12f/testosterone_encourages_persistence_in_the_face/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:50 PM
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Blue pill should be renamed the Cuck Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:31 PM
5

I’m endlessly fascinated by things and places stuck in time. It’s why I love exploring and watching people explore abandoned buildings. Anyone else like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:27 PM
2

Do you drink soy lattes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:22 PM
2

Anyone notice a surge in blue pill guys here? Soyfication of PPD is underway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:18 PM
1

Bah you’re weak. I could pick u up with one hand and throw you across the room
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:35 PM
1

How much do y’all weigh? Be honest. I’m 179 lbs at 5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:08 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:28 PM
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We’re aging like fine wine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:47 PM
6

Gen Z guys look kinda dumb with their broccoli haircuts. Do girls even find that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:42 PM
1

Are you black pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:59 PM
1

Even better if he’s 5’4”, unemployed and a male feminist with a heart of gold 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:50 PM
0

This is the most obvious thing ever. Idk how anyone can disagree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:38 PM
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I hope she’s red pilled so we can talk about this stuff. It’s kinda amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:35 PM
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Q4W: Would you lose attraction towards your boyfriend/husband if he started balding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:34 PM
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The girl I’m seeing right now is nervous about turning 25 soon. She doesn’t like getting older. Does this mean she’s red pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:12 PM
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WHat do you guys think of the message in this song? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZfgLKBfgkEA&t=1s "Therefore, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:35 PM
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I never even used to think about my height (5’11”) before I started reading redditors complain about height queens. Don’t really come across height queens on tinder and bumble either other than the rare profile. Not sure if I’m living in a parallel universe tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:00 PM
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Even in heels, you’d be shorter than the 5’11” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:46 PM
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Feel free to make that poll. I’m 5’11” myself so Thats why I included 5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:16 PM
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Trying to see if taller is always better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:10 PM
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Q4W: Would you rather date a guy who’s 5’11” or 6’5”, all other things being equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:53 PM
1

I prefer thong bikinis too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:44 PM
2

Long usually looks better but short looks good too. I prefer long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:25 PM
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Wanting to care for her, protect her, do things for her, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:19 PM
1

I think the jaw surgery is just a cover up. He looks like he got fillers too and a ton of cosmetic work done
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:18 PM
1

Zac Efron looks weird now. Do women still find his face attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:14 PM
4

By dad bod they mean a power lifter who’s on a bulk not a guy who’s never lifted weighs in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:51 PM
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What about this? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xkgc0q/why_shouldnt_women_give_up_on_dating_if_you_guys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:47 PM
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No one thinks 25 year olds are “elderly”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:40 PM
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I don’t know why women make it a big deal that men are attracted to 20 year old women. Most men don’t and wouldn’t leave their wives for hot 20 year olds. This attraction to younger women doesn’t even matter unless the man is a famous celebrity/athlete with a ton of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:39 PM
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Why do women want to cope so much about single aging women being happy? Obviously women want to be loved and be in relationships. That’s common sense. Once they’re no longer desirable they cope by taking SSRIs, drinking wine and having 7 cats. They may be “happy” in the same way that I’m happy when I do nothing but play video games and watch porn. It’s not a fulfilling life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:30 PM
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I only lasted 4 days on no fap. PAWGs are my weakness and there are way too many in my gym. No fap is like torture for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:28 PM
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Not being able to get sex with a roster of hot girls on a regular basis unless I try really hard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:25 PM
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That’s cool. Your ex approached you on the subway? Damn that takes balls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:17 PM
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How do you meet men? Dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:07 PM
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Russian men aged 18-65 are being denied permission to travel outside the country. Russian men are screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:56 PM
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Same. I’d be hella annoyed dating a very liberal woman. “Sex work is real work!” Ok, wh0re. Calm your tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:40 PM
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You should ask your husband if he’s okay with you getting a tattoo/piercing. He should be able to make or veto decisions like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:40 AM
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No. That doesn’t even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:43 AM
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Tattoos and piercings are indicators of high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:43 AM
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Well women have more opportunities to cheat. It’s easy af for a woman to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:39 AM
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I think women cheat more than men. I don’t believe the stats that men cheat more. How is that possible? It’s all self reported so women probably lie more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:56 AM
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I post like a neck beard inc3l misogynist (I’m self aware) but I’m not bad looking actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:25 PM
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Nah dude. Strongly disagree. They want attention from high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:22 PM
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CMV: If women in their prime (18-30) stopped getting attention from men they would sink deep into depression. Attention is a drug to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:17 PM
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You’re not entitled to love and affection. You’re not entitled to even being liked. You’re not entitled to being appreciated. You’re not entitled to being viewed as beautiful or fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:11 PM
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Doesn’t matter if it’s a high school crush or a college crush or a mid 20s crush. I remember every slight, every rejection and it fuels me. Is it healthy to be this way? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:02 PM
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How many men basically never get over the fact that their high school crush rejected them? I think male ego can be a big barrier to living a content life. I still find myself seething over past rejections even though I can get girls now. My life fuel is basically proving my haters and doubters wrong. How many of you are like this too? Kinda ashamed to admit it but this is how I’m wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:57 PM
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I wouldn’t say 90% of stuff I post here irl because I’d be cancelled to oblivion. I don’t want to become an unperson
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:50 PM
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Is it really wrong to cheat on your wife if she ages horribly and you age like a fine wine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:25 PM
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2 > 1>>>>>>>>>>3 I would not go for 3 unless I was horny and drunk af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:59 PM
2

I see short kings in the gym who’re killing it. They look better, gain muscle faster and look more proportional. I guess being short does have advantages
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:52 PM
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Society pushed them to do it though. Society is extremely brutal on short men. Height discrimination is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:09 AM
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Should government subsidize limb lengthening surgery for short men? It’s a genuine health concern. Mental health is extremely important and for short men (5’6 and below), extra inches could solve their mental health issues. I think the state should cover 50% of the cost of the surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:00 AM
1

When I can’t sleep, I try to count the n count of all the women that rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:47 AM
2

Are you? Do you place a lot of value on looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:59 PM
5

How popular is the red pill va the black pill these days? Feels like black pill has taken over
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:43 PM
4

Relationship. He’s not into casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:13 PM
3

Cuz he makes good money and is very smart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:36 PM
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He’s balding but doesn’t shave his head. Yea it’s not a great look…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:34 PM
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He’s just not very social. Kind of a nerd but he makes over 200k. Smart as hell. Just not a ladies man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:25 PM
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He makes 200k, he’s 5’8”, above average face but bald, doesn’t care about style, doesn’t have great social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:21 PM
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My cousin is kind of an incel. He’s in his late 20s. His mom used to be a feminist type but I heard her say recently that “women have really high standards these days”. She basically conceded that getting a modern woman is really hard for men. Kinda funny to see things change when your own child is struggling. I guess the empathy factor kicks in cuz she knows her boy is a great catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:12 PM
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No that’s fine. That’s high T behaviour. Low T behaviour is wanting validation/attention without the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:53 PM
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Are men who crave attention and validation from women low T? It’s definitely feminine behaviour. I’m not talking about wanting to be desired from a woman you like but he tiny attention from women writ large.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:40 PM
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What about promiscuous women? They should be happy too, no? I see plenty of women on Tiktok making videos about partying, having a high n count, etc. it’s easy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:59 PM
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Doesn’t matter cuz I have 20 years to sort myself out 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:53 PM
2

Look at the actor Frank Grillo. He’s 57 and looks great. That’s how I’ll age. He can date any woman in her 20s or 30s easily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:41 PM
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It feels nice knowing that I have over 20 years left before I hit my peak as a man. I’ll be 50 and be at my peak. Nothing beats that. We men have all the time in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:36 PM
1

Lmao that’s cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:36 PM
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Why should men care about women’s issues then? Reciprocity goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:58 PM
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They’re not happy because it’s harder than ever to get Chad to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:45 PM
1

Yes that’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:24 PM
2

What if 80% of men are actually sexless? What if the “couples” you see irl are fake? Maybe the average guy pays the girl to pretend to be his gf. Maybe only 20% of men are having sex and in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:15 PM
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Why is there no such thing as toxic femininity? Why only target masculinity? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:20 PM
1

Yep it must very tempting for men in their 40s to cheat on their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:51 PM
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The fact that women age so badly is one of the greatest misfortunes of the human race. It sucks for men when we’re the better looking ones in the relationship. Check out r/over40 for pics of men and women. The men have aged way better than the women. This is what I notice irl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:37 PM
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I don’t even know what toxic masculinity is. Sounds like some fake feminist bs created to demoralize men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:14 PM
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How can I increase my toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:51 PM
7

You think most men watch child porn? How are men abusive pedophiles….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:49 PM
2

Day 3 of no fap. Instead of fapping, I’m pacing back and forth 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:21 PM
2

Nothing that women didn’t know already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:47 PM
3

I think you’re just imagining all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:25 PM
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I think one way social media has increased polarization is by exposing women. Before social media, men genuinely used to think that women are better people than us, less shallow, more empathetic, more relationship oriented etc. Now, with the advent of online dating sites and social media, it’s become clear that women are just as shallow (if not more). In a way this is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:22 PM
2

Are lats and shoulders the keys to looking wide af?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:42 PM
5

I’ve never done this. Post nut clarity can make me feel a little sad or indifferent but never mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:07 AM
2

I think 6’2” is perfect, speaking as a 5’11” man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:44 AM
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I’m on day 2 of no fap. I’ve unfollowed all the thots on IG, deleted my tiktok and unfollowed coomer subreddits. This shit is hard af (pun intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:40 AM
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I’m 29. My ex is 22. The woman I’m currently dating is 24. Q4W: Am I a predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:34 PM
1

I mostly date high maintenance women so I know what goes into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:30 PM
5

Am I the asshole for strongly preferring that my girl be hairless down there? I prefer waxed but shaved is okay too. Most women are these days but every once in a while you get a bush
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:45 PM
5

Only hang out with men, only talk to men, only look at men, only sleep with men (in a platonic way). That’s the only way to level the playing field. Take away women’s power. Stop giving them attention. Just look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:42 PM
2

Women offer sex and men are extremely horny. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:32 PM
2

Cuz that’s what I want if I ask a girl on a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:47 PM
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I’m not getting out of bed to go to a coffee date. Ladies, if you want the D you’d better take me out to Olive Garden or better 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:16 PM
1

Single childless women have a lot of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:15 PM
1

From first date onwards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:01 PM
-1

So can you really blame poor men for lying about intentions to get their base desires fulfilled? It’s like a starving child stealing bread from a store.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:58 PM
1

Women should pay for men on dates in order to counteract female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:53 PM
-1

Women can get what they want by being truthful but most men can’t. That’s the tilted playing field created by dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:42 PM
0

Is it really wrong to lie about intentions as a man? The playing field is so lopsided against men that lying is the only way to get what men want, ie casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:11 PM
1

Why is it wrong for a man to date multiple women at the same time? That’s what women do and they’re proud of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:09 PM
3

Society. Men are victims
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:52 PM
1

Reading PPD makes me believe men are victims of society and women. It makes me think of the quote- “Man is born free but everywhere he is in chains”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:49 PM
5

If women can have toys we can have toys too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:47 PM
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No I’m not. I’m just offering a man’s perspective. Romance is a lot of work for men. Imagine doing All that work for nothing if there’s no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:47 PM
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Because romance without sex is like giving yourself blue balls. All that work just for blue balls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:14 AM
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You take a pre-workout every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:47 PM
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What supplements do you guys take daily? I take vitamin d drops and omega 3. Zinc sometimes. What should I add? My blood work earlier this year was apparently perfect according to my doctor I take creatine 5 mg daily too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:26 PM
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Bad things happen to even the most powerful and strongest of men. What happened to you is tragic but doesn’t mean that women have less power than men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:47 PM
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Women’s problems in dating: 1) picking the hottest/best man out of 100s of options 2) filtering out creeps See, I completely understand women’s problems in dating. It’s not complex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:50 PM
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MRA isn’t even a real movement. Feminism is corporate and government backed female victimhood industrial complex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:18 PM
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Men will always be stronger than women. Nothing we can do about that. Weak people are scared of stronger people. A weak man is scared of a big strong man. Gender doesn’t factor into it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:06 PM
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What now? Therefore, feminism is unnecessary. Men and women are as equal as we can be. Avoid feminists. It’s great to be a woman in the West. You have a lot of advantages over men. Cherish them and stop playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:04 PM
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Yea but so do you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:57 PM
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A lot of men would kill to have your privileges. Some men literally do kill for that. I don’t feel privileged at all as a man but some women insist I am
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:51 PM
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NSA sex on demand, validation from men, endless number of romantic options for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:47 PM
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Female privilege is real. Let’s popularize this term. Get used to it. Admit your privilege and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:24 PM
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Acaciduh agrees with me and she’s a woman. Just admit that female privilege is very much real. I don’t know why women can’t admit this. Sure, men may have certain privileges but women also have real and substantial privilege in the realm of dating, sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 PM
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Why can’t more women just admit that women have an easier time in dating/relationships/sex than men? Like y’all should be proud of having this privilege and power over men. Why deny it? Because you want to be a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:57 PM
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A lot of women actually love having more options to have NSA casual sex or FWB type arrangements. Hell, even on this thread you see women saying it’s great to be a single woman because you can just have casual sex whenever you want. A lot of women do see it as a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:51 PM
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You can’t really speak for all women. Acaciduh agrees with my point…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:47 PM
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So, if all this is true, why do women get bent out of shape when men talk about female privilege in dating/relationships/sex? I mean why not just admit that women live on easy mode in realm of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:19 PM
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Women have it easier at every level man. Even 30+ women have it easier than men of any age. That’s just the reality. It’s a supply and demand issue. Men want women more than women want men. The wall is real but post-wall women still have a lot of options. They don’t have as many good options as they did in their prime but the average post-wall woman has more options than the average man of any age. No point in denying it. I think everyone should accept that women have it easy when it comes to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:55 PM
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It is deeper than that. The locker room stuff is just posturing. We care about the other stuff too. Take a look at the poems and love songs that men have written for women. Male sexuality didn’t just change. We’re still like that and our ideal woman is someone we have a deep romantic connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:40 PM
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I’m not saying it’s the same as being a 5’4” guy. I get it. It sucks being a short guy. Just trying to say that you don’t need to be a lot taller than your girl. There’s guys who’re shorter than their gfs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 PM
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In bigger heels she’s taller than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:57 PM
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That’s part of the story. Guys think hot girls don’t go for guys who’re under 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:51 PM
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I’m seeing a model right now. She’s almost my height. She’s 5’9” and I’m 5’11”. She wore heels on our last date and was about the same height as me with heels on. It doesn’t bother me and doesn’t seem to bother her. Just a PSA for the guys here insecure about their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:33 PM
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I just say I’ve dated here and there but didn’t find the right person. I also say I was focusing on myself. Of course I’m not gonna tell them I was getting blowjobs from Tinder every other week
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:54 AM
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It’s not a real thing. “Toxic masculinity” is a psy-op against men by radical feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:41 PM
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Looking at dating as a men vs women thing takes the fun out of it and poisons interactions between men and women. Men should focus on themselves and the women they’re trying to get. Forget AWALT, forget the 80/20 rule, forget dating stereotypes. Just focus on yourself and the women you’re trying to attract. Individualize the women- what is she into? What makes her tick? Is she fun to be around? How do I feel when I’m around her? Is she good for me? Be observant, be social, be tenacious (in all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:37 PM
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Yes, it sucks to be an average man these days. No doubt about it. I can certainly understand why the average man is frustrated with the dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:10 PM
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RP is full of blind spots and contradictions tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:47 PM
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This is a good point actually. Men tend to assume all hot girls are nice, agreeable and have no baggage when it’s not true at all. Some of the hottest women are the most fucked up mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:41 PM
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The average woman doesn’t look as good as 40 years go. Make up, filters and surgery can only do so much. Obesity is a major hit to attractiveness. That’s why the average 25 year old woman would be a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:59 PM
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But that goes against my experience. A lot of women love hooking up and the hoe phase is a rite of passage for most women. Maybe your social circle is different. IME women go through a hoe phase in between relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:35 PM
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How can average body count of men be higher than women? Doesn’t make sense. Women share top tier men and can get sex any time they want. The only explanation is that women lie about their body count even in anyonymous surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:03 PM
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Average body count of college girls is probably 20+ at least. Anything else is an underestimate. Self-reported numbers will be lower since they lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:04 AM
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Maybe 20 +. Less than 5 if women are reporting it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:20 AM
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I have this line in my bumble profile lol. R/twoxchromosomes just loves whining about anything men do. We can do no right in their eyes. Anyway, I wouldn’t a woman that has so much baggage anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:02 PM
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Right on. I’m probably a 7-8 if I’m being conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:01 PM
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Damn. Are you hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:55 PM
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How many PPD guys are on steroids? Be honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:25 PM
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Fair. I wouldn’t date a fat girl or a skinny girl with no ass and boobs. I’d probably have sex with them though if I was going through a dry spell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:57 AM
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You’d prefer a tall ugly guy over a handsome shorter guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:52 AM
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All I know is that when I was fat I didn’t get any “love”. After losing fat women magically started being attracted to me. Love isn’t this pure ethereal thing. People fall in love with someone they desire and that desire is based on superficial things. In other words, love has a lot of strings attached. What’s wrong with discussing the conditions that are attached to love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:47 AM
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We respect the honesty but women don’t want you to be honest. They want men to think women are angelic beings who have no shallow preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:31 AM
3

How does the death of the Queen impact the sexual marketplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:54 PM
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My ex, a feminist, loved being dominated. She wanted me to choke her, spank her, pull her hair, push her against the wall, tie her up, call her a sl*t etc. On several occasions she got bruises from the sex cuz she just kept asking me to be rougher. She was so proud of those bruises on her ass. There’s a stereotype that men have degrading kinks and while that’s true, a lot of women want to be degraded. Even feminist women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:00 PM
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Lol and then women have the gall to complain that men don’t approach them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:19 PM
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Ladies, it’s up to you to make the first move at the gym. Men have been conditioned to never approach women at the gym for fear of coming across as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:08 PM
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Would you rather be ripped but look small in a t-shirt or not have visible abs but look jacked and wide in clothes? I’d pick the latter if it means being 12-15% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:37 PM
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Why you sound bitter bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:35 PM
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Am I the asshole for swiping left on every woman who identifies as a “feminist”? I believe in equality between men and women but don’t want to be with someone who constantly has gender wars on their mind. I believe in cooperation between men and women not competition
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:56 PM
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Wouldn’t surprise me if PPD women are mostly dating/married to male feminists 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:53 PM
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You’re wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:20 PM
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R/twoxchromosomes Is full of fake stories lol. Very toxic subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:01 PM
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I would still smash but she’s like a 6. Flat af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:29 AM
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I don’t find Zendaya attractive at all. Idk what all the hype is about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:17 AM
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How come women never criticize onlyfans creators, pornstars etc? Men will criticize other men who are red pill, pickup artists, Andrew Tate followers, incels etc while women who claim to hate porn and objectification will never call out other women who are part of the objectification/porn industry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:10 PM
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The average woman has a nice ass, perky boobs, cute face, slim waist, hairless body, wears sexy bikinis and is confident in her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:47 PM
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How many men have been gaslighted by women claiming they don’t like muscles? When I was a skinny twig I got no love. After gaining a bit of muscle the difference is night and day in women’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:48 PM
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These days I do pull-ups and dips every time im in the gym. Dips are amazing for upper body development
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:55 PM
2

Someone sent a RedditCares to me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:48 AM
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Does any woman here wanna rate me? I’ll send pics via DM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:22 AM
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Respect for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:28 PM
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Because his physique is naturally attainable, is not overly muscular and looks ideal to many women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:56 PM
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Ed Norton is 6 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:56 PM
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Q4W: would you rather date a 5’9” guy with a full head of hair and a muscular ripped physique (think Brad Pitt in Fight Club) or a 6’2” guy with a full head of hair but no muscle/just skinny? Assume all else is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:30 PM
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Q4W: would you rather date a 5’11” guy with full head of hair and a muscular physique or a 6’5” guy who has a receding hairline and a skinny body? Assuming all else is equal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:29 AM
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I have this theory that if women had to live as men for a few days, most of them would become depressed and suicidal. Life is truly hard for men. There’s no hand outs, weakness is not perceived as “cute”. There’s no safety net; no man or woman is coming to rescue a weak man. You must perform well and with confidence. You must take risks. Being a man is not for the faint of heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:53 PM
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Yea this is obvious. Men live on hard mode. Being a man is not for the faint of heart. Most women would absolutely hate being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:46 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:32 PM
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That guy made the right call
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:13 PM
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It’s annoying for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:45 PM
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Everywhere I look On Reddit I see rampant misandry. R/twoxchromosomes, r/askwomen etc. all full of calling men evil, misogynists, etc. I’m at a point where if a girl calls herself a feminist, I immediately nope the f out. The rampant man-hate is definitely driving men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:36 PM
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Because women know guys will fuck anything. Even an average girl can walk up to a chad and get laid that evening. Being able to have sex with a guy is not validating to most secure attractive women. They know it means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:35 PM
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It’s much easier when women are in their early 20s and at their peak in terms of attractiveness. In their late 20s and 30s, they’re competing with a bigger pool of women for those top percentile of men. And why would a top tier guy pick a woman in her 30s who likely has a lot of baggage and trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:31 PM
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Does it feel worse when you fail even though the cards are stacked in your favour? Talking about all of the single women who date on easy mode but still can’t get commitment from a desirable man. There’s so many attractive single women in their late 20s and 30s lmao. What happened to them? They’ve had it easy since they were 18 and still couldn’t lock a man down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:20 PM
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Women want men to be able to cook, clean, be emotionally available, make more money than them etc and yet we can’t make fun of the fact that modern women don’t know how to cook. Isn’t cooking a basic life skill? I cook better than most girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:16 AM
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I feel much better now. I went on a date with a cute girl last night. Breakup with ex still hurts but that doesn’t mean I gotta be mad at all women. Gonna stop watching toxic stuff on tiktok etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:22 AM
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Why is the gym so packed? It’s not January last time I checked…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:45 PM
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I get that women are half the population but the same patterns repeat. The 80/20 rule, hypergamy, women having way more options than men, etc. Makes it hard to not see women as a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:28 PM
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I’m already doing this and you’re right, it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:27 PM
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How can I get rid of the rage/anger phase? I just went through a break up. I’ve been watching too much red pill content and it’s making me lose faith in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:04 PM
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Sounds more like a power lifter physique. How’s that a dad bod? The term dad bod refers to physique of a typically dad. The typical father doesn’t have that much muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:36 PM
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Don’t be assholes but don’t be extra nice either. Don’t do something for a woman you wouldn’t do for a man especially if she’s not your gf/wife. Don’t give women special consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:34 PM
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Honestly if you’re fit and good looking, it’s easy to get laid nowadays. Sex has kinda lost its value in that regard. I would say it’s worth it if you’re aiming for a long term relationship, know what you want and pursue only women that fit your criteria and are good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:38 PM
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This is the reason TRP tells men to ignore dating advice from women. They won’t come out and say this but we all know that “reliable and nice men” end up in the friendzone. You need an edge as a man. Being reliable and nice makes you someone women want to rely on but not have s3x with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:20 PM
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