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| 3 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsOne of my friends (the one that worked in the same industry as his ex-wife) lost custody and has not seen his 4 kids in 2 years because she has falsely claimed physical abuse. She also posted that he abused her on all their business social media accounts and he has effectively been shunned from that industry in that state. One (the one whose wife makes triple his salary) has 50/50 custody, no alimony. He changed his career to a night job so that he can be with the kids in the day while she works… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/26 03:57 AM |
| 15 | Feminists do not support stay at home dadsDefinitely. I personally know 3 couples who decided to have that dynamic -- breadwinning wife + SAH dad. For different reasons. One because the wife made almost triple her husband's salary, so it just made sense. One because she didn't want to give up her career, so he gave up his. One because they worked in the same industry and owned their own business -- his work was far more flexible than hers, so he chose to take on that role. Every single one ended in divorce, resented the men for not work… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 11:02 PM |
| 26 | Why do women want to go to predominantly male communities/hobby ?Because we don't all hate men or spit out that ridiculous rhetoric. I grew up with older brothers, I've worked in male dominated industries, I've worked in all-male offices, so I have predominately male hobbies. I'm more at ease around men and I've never had any issues hanging out with men. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 05:11 PM |
| 21 | Women should not be allowed to claim sexual harassment if they never told a man ‘no’ or ‘please stop’We should encourage people to speak up and advocate for themselves instead of a blanket rule like that. Because the reality of the situation is the 95% of encounters - both initiated by men and women - do NOT get verbal consent. And because of that fact, you cannot rely on an overgeneralized rule like that. Not to mention that some people do actually say YES, then later say they only agreed because they felt pressured to agree or afraid of saying no. What we should do is push personal responsibi… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/26 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I don’t ever want to date a woman unless there is sex involved.Doesn't seem like he even sees value in dating in general if it doesn't give him access to a woman's body. Having emotional and physical needs is one thing, but OP makes dating a transaction - "return on investment." Yikes. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I don’t ever want to date a woman unless there is sex involved.I genuinely believe OP doesn't knows how to talk to or connect with women on a human level. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/26 08:12 PM |
| 3 | I don’t ever want to date a woman unless there is sex involved.Literally. And has the nerve to continue pursuing very religious women. Like, hire a whore and leave religious women alone, lol. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 5 | I don’t ever want to date a woman unless there is sex involved.Doesn't happen often, but every now and then... 😂 | /r/MensRights | 15/06/26 04:51 PM |
| -4 | I don’t ever want to date a woman unless there is sex involved.No pos guau. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/26 04:25 PM |
| 10 | what? the actual f**k do you mean its not a problem?It literally does allow men to be abused every minute. Misandry is deeply embedded in literature and research for IPV/DV. Men being subjected to emotional, psychological, and physical abuse at the hands of women is almost completely ignored and dismissed. And as a result, men stay in abusive relationships because they've been convinced that it's normal and okay for women to abuse them. And on top of that, men don't get sympathy -- society offers no support; the number of DV shelters that can acc… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/26 03:51 PM |
| 16 | Courts order children groomed by their teachers to pay child support.It's pure hypocrisy. And they don't care if it's at the expense of victims if the victims are male. It's disgusting. Like, she couldn't fucking understand that these boys - MINORS - are not only the victims of grooming and rape, but now they have to pay for the next 18 years of their lives. A constant, cruel reminder. They're essentially paying their abusers for abusing them. To which she said, "No different than girls having babies conceived through rape, and then raise those children." Like, b… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/26 05:20 PM |
| 23 | Courts order children groomed by their teachers to pay child support."And if it does, it's one in a million cases. Whereas women are constantly left with the burden of parenthood everyday." Showed this to a female friend of mine yesterday. This was literally her response. Needless to say, it led to a long argument. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/26 03:34 PM |
| 33 | Courts order children groomed by their teachers to pay child support.What in the actual fuck. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/26 08:33 PM |
| 8 | Debunking a survey shared on Psychology Today, claiming that 82% of women supposedly state they experience "creepy" behaviours?It's probably some combination. It's hard to determine how much is social conditioning versus media narratives versus actual lived experience. I think media coverage probably amplifies fear, but it also generalizes beyond statistically likely scenarios. My point is more about how perceived and actual threat often function the same in the moment - regardless of the source of that perception. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/26 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Debunking a survey shared on Psychology Today, claiming that 82% of women supposedly state they experience "creepy" behaviours?Both of those are plausible. The only article I was able to find on PT was 9 Things That Can Make A Man Seem Creepy. That has the bullet point with the 82% stat, but it also states it's a consensus-style survey and that the problem with this data is that there is no clear and consistent definition for 'creepy.' Which boils down to what individual women perceive as creepy -- so, there's no real way to separate perceived creepiness from actual creepiness because we'd have to define what creepy is,… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/26 12:39 AM |
| 29 | Debunking a survey shared on Psychology Today, claiming that 82% of women supposedly state they experience "creepy" behaviours?I think it's because the perception of threat and actual threat are two different things, and women often process them both as true. Like, women who say they feel unsafe walking outside at night will perceive a threat if a man is just walking behind them even though the man hasn't done or said anything threatening -- just the simple act of walking behind them for more than a block will be perceived as a threat by some women. I don't know if there's a way to account for the difference since these… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/26 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Pre-Nup vs "Stash money away"The way they are received is a double standard, but I don't believe a prenup means lack of trust. Stashing money away does. In reality, both partners should be open and accepting of whatever is needed to protect themselves and their financial future. This is actually why I am against blended finances. I think a household budget should be set based on net income and both should budget to have 15% of their income to use at their own discretion with separate accounts. What you have/accumulated befo… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/26 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Just came across this post a lil bit ago. How are normal men supposed to react when fear of men is treated as reasonable by default?I genuinely want to understand what their lives must be like to feel that way. Like, I grew up in rough neighborhoods (like Compton), and at no point was I ever afraid to do any of those things. I literally used to jog at 2AM in an abandoned soccer field with no lights and only one entrance/exit. Nothing ever happened to me. A cop car rolled in once and asked me what I was doing. That's it. I've lived alone. I've traveled alone. I've roadtripped alone. I've solo hiked. I've solo camped. I've had… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/26 12:35 AM |
| 20 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.I believe in egalitarianism. I frequent these spaces because I've witnessed far too many instances of women lying about abuse and rape, and I deeply dislike the surrounding discourse. I moved into DV/IPV mental health work believing it would hold all abusers accountable, but quickly learned that men are victimized at a level where their status as victims is routinely dismissed, questioned, or outright stripped from them. The lack of understanding, patience, and empathy is sickening. Their vilifi… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 02:49 AM |
| 24 | Dear women of the subreddit/female MRAs: based on your experiences of interacting with other women, how common is it for women to have compassion towards male suffering?Having worked in two all-female companies for several years and meeting/talking to women through friends - very uncommon. It's not uncommon for women to have a fleeting moment of sympathy for male suffering, but true and genuine compassion to the point of acknowledging and actively combatting learned behaviors that contribute to male suffering -- very uncommon. I work in the mental health sphere, and I work specifically in DV/IPV. If highly educated women in psychology, sociology, and IPV are st… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/26 03:37 AM |
| 12 | I dont care if women dont "feel" safe.Which completely destroys the narrative that they have to avoid all contact with men for fear of being harassed. Like, do they really not see the logical inconsistency there? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/25 11:44 PM |
| 62 | I dont care if women dont "feel" safe.Unreciprocated, at that. Meaning they intiate the violence, act out violently, and the other person does not respond with violence. And that's usually men - just taking hits. Imagine feeling like a victim when the person you're abusing doesn't even hit you back. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/25 04:48 PM |
| 51 | This was just so heart breaking and unfortunate to seeYep! It caught me totally off guard. It was not at all what I expect when I started in this type of work. Everything I knew was basically a fucking lie. Working in DV has totally changed me. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 12:55 PM |
| 54 | This was just so heart breaking and unfortunate to seeThe contrast is very interesting. I facilitate group therapy sessions and lead classes for both victims and aggressors - men and women. In the few years I've been doing this, women have been the only ones to aggressively disrupt the sessions and they're the most emotionally volatile. They've gotten in my face, insulted me, threatened me with violence, have assaulted me (shoving, pulling, shouldering), and try to physically intimidate me - both in the victims' and aggressors' groups. Women are al… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 12:53 PM |
| 118 | Infuriating article by Vice: “Mankeeping Is Why Women Are Done With Dating”That is quite literally what is happening. In one of the articles I read a sociologist admitted that men’s roles could be considered “unpaid labor” under a broader definition, but has simply chosen to discourage the term's evolution to avoid including men in 'unpaid emotional labor' discourse -- because they don't want to include the fact that gender norms that harm men are framed as personal shortcomings rather than structural roles. Like, this has me all the way fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 11:52 AM |
| 322 | Infuriating article by Vice: “Mankeeping Is Why Women Are Done With Dating”Managing his stress. Interpreting his moods. Holding his hand through feelings he won’t share with anyone else. Is this not literally what men are also expected to do for their partners - on top of paying for everything and fully holding the weight of their financial future? I'm mad confused. I don't understand why this is considered 'unpaid emotional labor' for women but not for men? EDIT: So, I just went down a rabbit hole about this and basically sociologists and feminist scholars acknowledge… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 10:22 AM |
| 213 | This was just so heart breaking and unfortunate to seeI'm not allowed to respond, either. I have to either ignore it or redirect and ask them to explore why they feel that way about what I just said. It's fucking wild. I facilitate groups for both men and women -- the differences between the two still shock me and I've been doing this for 3 years. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 06:46 AM |
| 404 | This was just so heart breaking and unfortunate to seeLiterally my everyday experience as a woman that works within the IPV/mental health space. ME during group therapy sessions with female 'victims': "No, you don't get to hit men simply because you're frustrated -- it's still abuse. We're here to learn healthy ways to cope with that frustration. Men - like you - deserve respect and patience in times of frustration." "You're not a girl's girl," "pick me," "traitor," "ugly," "internalized misogyny," "fat bitch," "you deserve to be alone," "this is w… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please...They are, unfortunately, rare, but they do exist. It just really depends on your geographic location. But there are also national organizations with tons of information. The bigger the city, the more likely you are to find a men's shelter or men's social services. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/25 08:13 PM |
| 3 | I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please...Have you contacted a men's shelter? They typically have resources even if you're not a resident. You can also contact community centers - they'll typically have support groups. If you're in the US, contact your local dept of health and human services or dept of mental health offices, they can help guide you and help you find adequate legal assistance. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 09:23 PM |
| 5 | I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please...Bro, what the fuck. Are you in therapy? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 09:07 PM |
| -2 | response to the: "insecure men in the comments lol"😬 | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 09:24 AM |
| 39 | response to the: "insecure men in the comments lol"Women when men gently criticize literally anything about women: You're just insecure. Also women: "My man shouldn't have female friends." "Why are you being nice to other women?" "Why is your 62 year old female coworker standing so close to you in this group picture?" "What do you mean Margot Robbie is pretty? Why would you say that to me? I don't look anything like her." (AIO My boyfriend said Margot Robbie is hot but I don't look anything like her and now I can't stand the idea of having sex w… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it?You have to understand that here amongst men a lot of young men feel they can be themselves and that includes being honest, brutally so. Not having to consider the lasagna of artifice that society allows women to use. Honesty isn't the problem, it was OP's lack of tact that garnered that reaction from others in that sub. I have no objection to his post in this sub. But his "advice" (lose weight) was a useless comment in the context of that woman's post. You can be honest and tactful. I expect pe… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/25 05:37 AM |
| -6 | What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it?👍🏼 | /r/MensRights | 14/10/25 04:25 PM |
| -13 | What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it?Sure. 👍🏼 | /r/MensRights | 14/10/25 04:21 PM |
| -10 | What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it?Don't jump to conclusions. I don't necessarily disagree with the issue you're pointing out - I think denial of fatness is not "body positivity" but lack of accountability and self-delusion. I am explaining why you had that experience in that sub. IF her post was about her profile in general. If you're not open to constructive feedback and willing to reframe your perspective, then you're just going to continue having experiences like that. Edit: Sometimes I forget what this sub is like. I'm gener… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/25 04:05 PM |
| -11 | What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it?I'm assuming she posted on a bumble sub because she was asking for advice to make her bumble profile more inviting? If that's accurate, then it's because your comment was unnecessary. If she posted her profile asking for advice, she's asking for tips that would make her profile more inviting - things she can fix right now. She knows she's fat and she's on dating apps. She doesn't need you to comment on her fatness - believe me, she knows. She already knows that, she likely understands that, and … | /r/MensRights | 14/10/25 03:30 PM |
| 17 | Why do people still support amber heard?This is such a common abuse dynamic, I'm sorry to say. And the infuriating part of it is that when women are in these meetings describing this shit to me other women jump in to say that she's just "traumatized" because she was cheated on before to justify the abuse and controlling behaviors. They will literally have a whole discussion on how it's okay to act this way because of "past trauma" and how their partner's job is to reassure them unconditionally aka just take the abuse until women magic… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/25 02:09 AM |
| 40 | Why do people still support amber heard?The terrifying thing is that you're right about this. I facilitate several courses for DV victims and aggressors, they are taught that any sign of anger from men is abusive, but the label of "abuse" does not apply to women unless the act of violence is extreme. I change the language when I lead the courses or meetings because I do not subscribe to that bullshit, but it is something that is taught. It's implied perpetual victimhood. In many of the meetings, I make a point to ask what led up to th… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/25 10:52 PM |
| 58 | Why do people still support amber heard?Because women identify with the shit she did and have a very fucked up definition of abuse that is hypocritical. A lot of women - a disturbing amount of women - believe that because women are typically smaller and don't cause as much physical damage when they hit men that it's not "really" abuse. Like, you hear Amber parrot this on those tapes. She said: "I was fucking hitting you. I did not punch you. I did not deck you. You're not hurt. You're fine." After he said that she punched him in the f… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/25 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.You could easily put yourself in her shoes and see her side too if you chose to, there's always a reaction to other people's avoiding coming home at night and "friends" getting in the middle. There is no "her side" that justifies her behavior. And you're missing the part where I said I've witnessed her gross behavior in person - I've seen her lash out at people, and it's not just me; it's his entire friend group that have stepped away from him because of her. It seems like you're only interested… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.I mean, I've met her. I've seen her act out in person. I just don't have an established friendship with her. So, everything that I'm describing has happened after many of his friends (including myself) have decided to not spend time around him if she's going to be there - and he still confides in us. Your "grown up" point of view is passive-aggressive. Saying I sound like a "work wife" and asking if I think I'm the "better" that he deserves is not the sign of a mature person - that tone is not f… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.A work wife? I don't work with him. He's a friend. That's such a weird comment. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.So much about their relationship doesn't make sense to me. Like, not just the going home for lunch but staying late thing. Like he can't see any of his friends unless she is with him, but she doesn't like when his friends bring their wives/girlfriends. So, I'm like, "Does she want to be in your group of friends and be the only woman there?" He said she says the other women don't "respect" her and are awkward. And he keeps complying because he says it's just easier to do it than to argue about it… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 01:53 AM |
| 17 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.But if your life is miserable and uncomfortable all the time is it even worth holding onto a failed investment? Like, this friend is almost 40 now. They have been together like 12 years. Isn't there any part of him that wants to live the rest of his life in peace - even if that means being alone? He's only 38. He doesn't have to stay with her. I just don't get it. I have another friend that married someone that assured him for several years that child-free was the life they wanted. 2 years into … | /r/MensRights | 06/10/25 04:30 AM |
| 16 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.He doesn't express any of that to me, but that has to be it - or, at the very least, the bulk of it. Because it doesn't make sense any other way. Just makes me so sad because he really is such a great person, and he deserves better. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/25 11:38 PM |
| 70 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.I was talking about this with a friend and between us we realized that we don't personally know a happily married man. Not one. And some of their situations are so grim - it's so depressing. I have a married friend that stays at the office until 10-11 pm just to avoid being around his wife as much as possible. During their marriage she stopped working and the mask fell - she has emotional outbursts, she threatens to off herself when he tries to talk to her about divorce, she has made it almost i… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | any EX feminists here on this sub?i think what i am trying to say is, if the majority of whatever group/religion/belief believes or behaves in one way, then that is ultimately what that religion or ideology is since its made up of its members, regardless of if a small percent of reasonable members think Yes, that's kind of my point. Feminism is a global thing. It is far too diverse to be exclusionary, and so there is no real "majority" on a global scale - you'd have to be way more specific for this logic to apply. Feminism has r… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | any EX feminists here on this sub?and if the main group doesn't consider these subgroups feminists then i wouldn't really call these subgroups the ideology they claim to be form. I'm not sure what you're trying to say here. Are you saying that the majority has the right to exclude others if they simply disagree with the interpretation or if the definition has evolved over time? I just want to be sure I understand before I get into what that actually implies if that logic is applied to literally everything else in life. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Literally isn't. It's right there. For it to be a No True Scotsman fallacy, I would have to say something like: "Those mainstream feminists aren't real feminists because they disagree with my definition." At this point I just think you're willfully ignorant. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 05:27 PM |
| 0 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Okay, well, if you can't see why you were incorrect after I spelled it out for you, then I can't reasonably expect this exchange to be fruitful in any way. So, you have a good one. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | any EX feminists here on this sub?No, not being sarcastic. Agreeing and giving what you described a name. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 05:11 PM |
| -1 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Listen, I'm happy to have this conversation, but if you're going to throw around fallacies you're going to have to use them correctly. The No True Scotsman fallacy happens when someone redefines a group to exclude counterexamples only to protect their argument. That is not what I'm doing. I am not redefining "feminism" to exclude certain feminists. I am explicitly acknowledging diversity within feminism: some agree with mainstream organizations, others don't. I am saying, "Mainstream feminism do… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 05:00 PM |
| 0 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Yes, but feminists are not a monolith - like any group, there are subgroups that fall under the umbrella of the term but don't necessary agree with everything. Mainstream feminist organizations have their own agenda and do not represent feminists as a whole the way PETA doesn't represent all vegans. And just like many vegans fucking hate PETA, many feminists fucking hate those organizations. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 3 | any EX feminists here on this sub?So, egalitarianism. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 04:29 PM |
| 6 | any EX feminists here on this sub?I wish. I thought so, too, but no. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 04:28 PM |
| 6 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Because to a lot of them I'm not a "true" feminist if I don't agree with everything they say or if I challenge their positions - especially if I point out double standards. It's like the whole "you're not a girl's girl" type of thing. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 04:27 PM |
| 12 | any EX feminists here on this sub?Interestingly, DV/IPV is exactly why my views shifted so radically and it pushed me to learn more about feminism - which led to Erin Pizzey. I started working at a nonprofit 3 years and we have programs for DV/IPV - I see firsthand how insanely biased it is, how inappropriate the literature is (like automatically using he/him pronouns to describe abusive partners), and how dismissive people are of male victims. It has been an uphill battle to rectify that where I work, and it definitely hasn't m… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 04:24 PM |
| 38 | any EX feminists here on this sub?I'd say I'm an ex-"modern wave" feminist and now more feminist in the true egalitarian sense. Which makes me unwelcomed in a lot of women-centered spaces. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/25 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments)Nah. She fucked around and found out. I do not believe in the bullshit 'enlightened' response. Some people walk around acting like an ass because the people around them keep taking the passive route. If you don't want to get decked - verbally, emotionally, or otherwise - learn to act right. The only thing that sucks here is people's tendency to believe she is the victim in that exchange. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 12:52 PM |
| 4 | I can't with this app anymoreThey banned me for the same thing a long time ago. It's so silly. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 10:07 PM |
| 52 | Women are allowed to be total creeps towards menThat's so fucking gross. And the fact that most of them think it's cute or impressive is worse. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/25 01:53 AM |
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