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LogisticsSufficient-Cry-9163/r/seduction27/09/21 07:54 PM
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LifestyleSufficient-Cry-9163/r/seduction01/10/21 01:15 AM
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Are you schizophrenic?
/r/seduction07/12/23 10:28 PM
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You're on r/seduction but are unaware that men are supposed to lead in relationships? If the man wants an exclusive relationship he is the one who is supposed to establish that. The majority of women want serious exclusive relationships but most men are just playing around and trying to put their penis in everyone. So if a woman sees that's what he's about she won't think he's trying to date so she'll try not to become too emotionally attached to spare herself some pain.
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:51 PM
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The male decides the type of relationship (given that the female is interested at all). If he is dating multiple women it is clear he is not serious about one.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:46 AM
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A lot of that stuff would be inappropriate to say on a first date. Just cause she is on a date with him DOES NOT mean she already likes him...she may not know him. They may have met on a dating app and do not know each other at all. If he starts immediately talking about what he wants to do to her sexually and she is looking for a real relationship and not a one night stand, this would be too much. Like you said, Princess Leia TRUSTED. Nobody really trusts someone they just met. They might fuck …
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:23 AM
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If I had strong feelings for a man and found out he was still hooking up with other women when we were dating, I wouldn't take him seriously as a dating partner anymore.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:07 AM
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I think its just there or it isn't. It's created by spending time together repeatedly without having sex.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:04 AM
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Be a good looking shy guy.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:50 PM
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I meant call her a "good girl" while she's giving you a bj or something. It's not about wanting to be thought of as good. Its that she is servicing you and you're talking to her like a dog. So, its very very dirty without saying weird offensive things like "you're a dirty whore".
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:45 PM
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You only say this because you don't date men. Men ghost all the time. They're usually sleeping with multiple people, etc. On top of this...its pretty clear she's seeing other men and doesn't want you to be her bf. That's all you have to know.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:44 PM
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So says the grifters selling products to men with low self esteem. I'm a woman. I'm attracted to shy guys.
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:51 PM
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Its just female nature. If you have an ongoing sexual relationship with them they will develop feelings. To make sure they understand its just casual sex, bring up your sexual encounters/dates with other women often. I had a casual relationship with a man who would do this. I had a crush on him but understood he was not trying to date because he made it very obvious that he was really just into casual sex.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:38 PM
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The better fix is to ask him not to finger. No creative solution needed.
/r/seduction26/10/21 09:48 AM
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I'm a woman and having someone go down on me for hours sounds terrible to me. No thanks.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:21 PM
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Unless he is extremely bad in bed, this isn't the reason he can't get a gf.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:20 PM
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Do you ever ask any women out on a date? Trying to make a relationship out of casual sex can be difficulty, because sex feels like a requirement even if you don't get along that great on your dates. You should just ask a woman you like on an actual date...take her to a resteraunt or some night event. Actually date....that's how you get a gf.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:12 PM
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I looked at your picture. Nothing wrong with your appearance, you probably just give off a creepy vibe. The only way to fix that is to actually stop being a creep.
/r/seduction23/10/21 09:54 PM
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Just look in the mirror a lot and tell yourself you're really sexy and smart and funny.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:58 PM
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Being confident is the same thing as being delusional. There is no way to know that some stranger is going to like you. So you just need to delude yourself into believing they will. Then when they don't, you need to think they are too much of a loser to get how great you are.
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:35 PM
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He still has feelings for her after 3 years. It is not healthy to follow someone on social media if you feel that way. It does show the other person that you probably "care too much" but you're never talking to them again so what they think isn't important. Its for your own mental well-being.
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:49 PM
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If you care about yourself then you block. You're only not blocking to project a certain image to others. Just block, doesn't matter what they think.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:40 PM
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I like men with a similar personality type as myself. That's pretty normal I think. If he appears nervous to approach me but does it anyway, that is sexy as hell. I wouldn't take a confident guy seriously if he approached me. I'd just assume he approaches everyone.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:32 PM
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And you're missing the point. There are women out there who would find you very good looking and would brag about how cute their husband was if it were you. I never said looks don't matter. I'm saying some people will find you attractive no matter what you look like. Sally likes tall, dark, and handsome. Kara likes fat and balding blonde guys. Marie likes black nerdy dudes. All women have their own looks preferences. They don't all like Brad the white guy who is 6 ft with light brown hair and lo…
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:42 PM
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If you aren't super hot then Tinder might not be your best option dude. Nobody ever said it was.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:39 PM
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I would yeah, cause I like people who are more sensitive and introverted. You should be yourself so you're more able to attract the type of person who would actually like YOU, rather than try to attract people who would dislike the real you.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:35 PM
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And no. Women like to fuck. If she doesn't wanna fuck you 24/7 she's not that into you.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:56 PM
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You're the one acting like women are a seperate species...you think all women are the exact same and like the exact same things. There are actually billions of women and they all have their own unique preferences...just like the billions of men with their own unique preferences.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:55 PM
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The thing is though...people like people who match their energy. If you're low energy, a girl who is also low energy will find you more attractive than a high energy fake guy.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:05 PM
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Women who like having a huge active social life may find it unattractive. On Reddit, they seem to think all women are exactly the same. In real life, its not like that. Women who are more introverted and only have a few friends and don't want to have a crazy social life, would likely find it attractive or just not care either way. Its a matter of if you are compatible with a certain woman.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:04 PM
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If a man approached me and asked me out and seemed nervous, I would see him as being more brave and more attracted to me than a guy who is so confident that he seems like he does it every day.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:00 PM
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It could mean they think you're very sexy and you make them super shy.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:56 PM
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Women are not men....that's why that has nothing to do with appearance. They have vaginas and no penis...straight women want penises. Women also feel soft and squishy, that's gross, men do not feel like that even if they are fat. Men also smell different than women. They are bigger and stronger. A woman is not a man. Even a woman who looks like a male model is not of interest to a straight woman. Therefore, it isn't just looks that make straight women not want to date women. I do not click on pi…
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:40 PM
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Nah, I'm just tellimg you, your appearance is not why you can't find a gf. That's almost for certain. Facial expressions are not your appearance, they are your emotions showing on your face. Some people dont use much cause they are nervous or autistic or whatever....that could be seen as abnormal and be offputting to girls who like normies. But itd be attractive to girls who like nervous guys. I find most men unattractive, that is true. But you misinterpret that as "women only like super models"…
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:29 PM
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Uh...but the married dudes got women clearly. Not everyone gets lots of sexual partners, but pretty much everyone can get one. I know plenty of ugly dudes who have a lot of casual sex. Guys were so fat they have loose flabby skin, teeth all fallen out by age 30 due to drug abuse, guy who's only 5'3"...etc...all get lots of short term partners. It's 99% personality.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:13 PM
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True. If a man looks like a woman he is not going to be attractive to most straight women. But...all married men are super hot? Please. Marriage and appearance have no correlation.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:27 PM
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Well, as a woman, I'd say looks have very little to do with sexual attraction. I can find some men to be very good looking but they won't arouse me sexually. I have dated men who I found attractive because I liked them, but others might say they were average or unattractive, but I had more of a sexual attraction to them. Most women aren't into men that look like super models. You're overly focused on your appearance. I can almost gaurentee that's not your problem. Who ever criticized your dark c…
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:38 PM
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I like dad-bods. Chiselled is not for me (even though I myself am very fit). Eyes being unattractive might mean they arent attracted to your soul. I would say that is most important...not your eye color or anything, just the essense of you that shines through your eyes. Some will like it, some will not. It is important that i like how a man looks, but I can't really point to specific things, I like a variety of looks, heights, races, fitness levels...its mostly about his soul and how he moves th…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:18 PM
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Well I'm a woman. I'd say I'm more intimidate by very buff chiseled guys. I don't find it gross...just scary.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:22 AM
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Maybe ask her why she does not want to have sex yet. That should clear things up.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:53 PM
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I think you should re-watch this video...you seem to have missed a lot of Jordan's points. He wouldn't agree with your lifestyle. The Roommate's guy is a lame grifter who just wants to get dates from Instagram models so he created a show to have them on as guests. Jordan on the other hand, has great advice on all areas of life and you should listen to everything he has to say.
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:05 PM
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Did you not use "shaming language"? "I understand if this is Chinese to you". Seems its not just women that do that. Then you shamed me for "shaming you"...Maybe you're a woman? I was not shaming you. I was telling you that its not worthwhile to act fake just to be with someone...that's an incredibly horrible chore to do day in and day out. I'd rather be myself and be alone is all I was saying, seems like a better option. I know lots of men and women...most people work on themselves at times. My…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:50 PM
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You sound very hurt and afraid to be left for being boring. If you can't be yourself with someone, don't be with anyone at all. If you are "boring" just find a girl who is "boring" in the same way...she'll probably think you're perfect. You're still only sleeping with the "hoes". All the man hoes and women hoes are banging each other. You clearly hate women. The society (tv, movies, social media, dating apps) brainwashed both males and females to want to be promiscuous. Women are not your enemy,…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:03 PM
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Well I'm 35. I have had a number of experiences with a variety of men. I have been with "alpha" /flirtatious men, but they were never "my type" and most definitely are not now. I'm an introvert and have a career and several solitary hobbies or hobbies that are more likely to be done with other women. I just want a bf of good moral character who has similar interests and likes to sometimes go places on the weekend. I"m not looking for a man to run around flirting with other women to make me cry..…
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:17 PM
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I'm a woman. I only.like one-woman men. I'd leave in an instant if my guy was flirting to "keep me in line". This is very disrespectful. I put up with that type of behavior when i was super depressed and on drugs and had very low self esteem. Thats thr type of woman you keep around with games...one who hates herself so doeant think.she deserves to be treated well. If you want a self hating woman, thats sad.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:36 PM
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Its a turn on for me because I also do not use social media. There is no positive to a man having internet connection to every woman he has ever dated, had sex with, flirted with, etc. Its also a huge turn off for a guy to be following a bunch of instagram porn. Social media is very negative for maintaining a healthy romantic relationship.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:25 PM
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Maybe you're just not a sociopath and you view women as individuals. This "game" thing is a sociopathic mindset. You're asking how to not have feelings when a woman you like doesn't like you...this is normal and natural. These people who bang 100+ people are soulless. Very boring. You will repulse decent women.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:29 PM
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You lost your ability to bond with and care about people by treating them as service providers.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:23 PM
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They aren't. That's why he can't get a girl.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:34 PM
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Because I do not like stuff? I was never super into stuff. But at one point in my life I had to abandon all the stuff I owned, and I didn't end up missing any of it, so now I don't really value stuff other than for its practical purpose. Prefer to live in a small space, have a small car, have no extra clutter of stuff I don't need/use. I do not get hit on a lot, I'm very shy and keep to myself. I do not really go anywhere other than work and I work amongst women and children. I go to stores and …
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:13 PM
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Physically attractive at least...
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:44 PM
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I'm a woman. I make enough money myself and am not materialistic. I have dated men who have had poor employment records and no car in the past cause I value humans for their personality more than their money. But that being said, I'd rather be single than date a guy who can not make enough money to keep himself housed, fed, and owns a vehicle. I do not need a burden in my life. But i don't care if he makes $40k or $100k. Just is able to consistently meet his needs financially and is happy with h…
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:13 PM
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Always be a simp. Just wait until you find a woman who simps you back. Playing games with people is a waste of time.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:30 PM
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Are all girls instagram models? Compliments are not going around as rampantly as you imagine. Women love being complimented on their looks by someone who genuinely means it.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:27 PM
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You want to live your whole life acting fake to keep a woman? Be yourself or its a waste of time
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:21 PM
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Well porn is made for men, by men (mostly creepy old bi men)... making yourself look gay doesn't make women more attracted.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:35 PM
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Well everyone is different. Wouldn't you rather attract girls who like your body as it naturally is?
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:24 PM
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Well I love it.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:49 PM
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His personality (you can see that without knowing the guy) His penis Lots of chest hair Dark brown hair Hairy legs
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:33 PM
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You sound like you're single and never take anyone on a date. Lol. Maybe stop reading advice from other incels (who clearly don't know what they are talking about or they wouldn't be in that predicament) and actually take someone on an actual date and see how that works for you.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:06 PM
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If you do not know this woman, you need to used condoms. Maybe she loves spreading AIDS, you don't know her.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:03 PM
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Maybe she just wants to wait. She probably wants to make sure you're a serious candidate for a long term boyfriends and don't want to just use her for sex and move on. If its not that, perhaps she has insecurities about her body and doesn't feel ready for you to see it.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:35 PM
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Just realize there are many women out there who feel the same way. They just want one man to show them some attention and care for them. You wouldn't believe how many women 20-30 have never even been on a real date cause guys nowadays are all about Netflix-and chill. If you ask a girl out for dinner, it might be the nicest thing that ever happened to her. Just find a woman to be nice to.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:17 PM
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I don't think you have what you want. I think you fill a void with addictions. Your first comment alone indicates you are very bitter. But I keep taking xanax even though I know it makes me want to kill myself...but its working so I'm not gonna do anything different, so I feel you on that.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:17 PM
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Your world view is sad and pathetic and not based in reality. But you do you bud. Also, men who are married tend to have the most sex...they often aren't skilled hunters.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:51 PM
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Right. But deer really know deer, hunters do not.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:38 PM
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Cause I am one
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:30 PM
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If you kindly approach someone for a conversation that isn't illegal, believe it or not. I'm not suggesting stalking her when she runs away in fear. Be direct and ask if she wants to do something with you. If she says no, then you know to leave her alone.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:26 PM
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Nonsense. That is not a woman's nature.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:08 PM
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signs of her being more shy/afraid of you then of other people
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:56 PM
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Shyness. If I like a guy I generally never look at him or look away immediately if he is looking at me. I can't smile or flirt or anything like that cause I'm too locked up with shyness.
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:55 PM
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Just an addiction to texting a particular person. But...this isn't much better...
/r/seduction07/10/21 01:23 AM
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I'm 5'3. I don't have a height preference. Shorter than me might be weird but that's rare. Maybe it's mainly very tall women who are writing that.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:05 AM
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well...you might be...but a virgin manwhore
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:00 AM
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Its not abnormal to have sex for the first time at age 20. Why would you be ashamed that you didn't have sex as a teen? Why are you living in the past? The present is the only thing that exists. Also, women are people, don't use them and leave them. You break their souls.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:04 PM
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False. I am a woman. I know what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:04 AM
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No. The skin on the fingers of men is very rough. I do not think black men have rougher hand skin...wtf. I'd say black men actually have silkier skin in my experience, but skin on the palm of the hand is universally rough on men. Weird dude. Unless they guy is super lazy and does no work with his hands and has the hands of a pampered woman (which is a turn off), then that is the roughest skin on the whole body except the bottom of the feet. It feels like sandpaper on the female genitals. Penis s…
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:54 AM
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Syphillis is curable. You wouldn't even know if you had HPV, it just might turn into cancer in 30+ years. And for most people, herpes is like chicken pox...you get it once or twice then you never see it again. No change to quality of life. Your immune system is a wonderful thing.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:24 AM
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That's not sex.
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:35 PM
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Man fingers feel horrible on lady parts. Very wrong. Nothing turns me off more than rough fingers inside me. Penises are very silky and smooth. Fingers feel like sand paper. All female pleasure is from the clitoris? So you think women hate the penis in the vagina part? That's a very pleasurable thing as well. If she asks you to penetrate her and you don't, you run a good chance of turning her off. Maybe your fingers are really irritating her and she can't stand it anymore. Listen to what she say…
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:23 PM
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Neither. Just spent all weekend on Reddit to break another addiction.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:53 PM
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No
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:46 PM
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I'm a woman and I find overly confident men to be a turn off tbh. I like introverts. I don't want a guy who is too afraid to go out into public or wants me to make phone calls for him cause he's scared...but a normal functioning adult who is kinda shy is cool with me. You may be interpreting their looks wrong. The weird look might just be their nervousness showing on their face.
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:35 PM
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No offense, but if you thought it was possible to get the whole world to have the same opinion, you're not very sane.
/r/seduction03/10/21 06:38 PM
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A lot, probably the majority, of young women are going to be too embarrassed to orgasm on a call or a video.
/r/seduction03/10/21 05:18 PM
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Orgasm on a call?? She'll have to do it herself. However she usually masturbates. Or mail her a vibrator. You mean how to turn her on? Just describe what you want to do to her, maybe masturbate for her...
/r/seduction03/10/21 05:06 PM
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So you prefer to have sex with women who are so non-sensual that they can not even feel anything with their vaginas. Low quality of life you shoot for sir.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:58 PM
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Um...if she is engaged she is probably not trying to date you. If she doesn't even know you, she probably doesn't think anything about you and her profile pictures have nothing to do with you. Probably just thinks some stranger looked at her profile and accidentally followed her.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:53 PM
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AIDS is rare, and herpes is over rated. If you aren't having sex with strangers stis shouldn't be a concern.
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:26 PM
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Yes it is. Condoms feel horrible to women.
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:23 PM
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Well...I'm a female. I can get off by myself very easily, but I do not during sex and don't particularly care to orgasm during sex. And having sex (without orgasming) is more satisfying than masturbating to orgasm. So i'm not unfufilled.
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:23 PM
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Cause making that the goal of sex often makes sex feel like a chore. You can make her feel like she is disappointing you by not orgasming, when she would actually greatly enjoy the sex without orgasming.
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:58 PM
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Anti-depressants are unnatural. That's your problem. I took Zoloft for awhile and had that issue as well. I would strongly recommend against it. What's if good for if it is actually decreasing your quality of life?
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:52 AM
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I'd also add that getting to orgasm is not necessarily a goal for women during sex. Sex can be extremely satisfying without orgasming for women. Its different for men, they need to orgasm to feel satisfied generally. Makes sense biologically, as the male needs to orgasm to procreate, the woman does not.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:48 AM
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most women know how to get them self off (i hope) but usually this does not involve any thrusting...so, its completely different than masturbating. The only way I've ever orgasmed with men is if I lay on my stomach while they are penetrating me and I rub my clit.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:03 AM
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As a woman...I'd say that if it takes her a long time to get ready for penetration, she isn't that turned on by you. Kissing you, sitting on your lap, feeling you against her...that should be enough. All that I read about women needing tons of foreplay to get aroused makes me cringe. They normalize women having sex with people they had no sexual attraction to to begin with. Are they actually excited if it took 30 mins to get a little wet? Sounds like torture.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:01 AM
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or a man or woman who knows that doesn't feel great
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:53 AM
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That's horrible advice for pleasure.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:52 AM
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The guys examples would all be kinda awkward things that I wouldn't want to hear. Instead of calling her a good little slut for taking the cock down her thought....just say something more simple, like "good girl"...gets the point across without adding anything that could be insulting
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:48 AM
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Go up to her and ask her if she wants to go get a drink with you. She'll want to run away in terror cause she is so afraid of people. But maybe she is horny so she'll take a chance since nobody else ever asks her out.
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:08 PM
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Find a girl who looks extremely shy and socially avoidant.
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:04 PM
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Church.
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:02 PM
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You don't need to be a psychic to get a sense of someones character and whether they're actually into you or just trying to pick up whatever girl comes along.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:47 PM
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Its generally pretty obvious. So unless she is also desperately searching for sex or nobody has hit on her in years, its usually a no.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:46 PM
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You can't seduce people who are not interested. Some nights you get lucky, some you don't.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:25 PM
1

Yeah, that's what shyness is. Mine is extreme. Selective mute.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:43 AM
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Well that sounds sexy af if he's interested. If not, it could be considered disgusting.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:46 PM
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Also you may like your look and taste in dress but it may not be her taste.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:12 PM
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She just was not into you. You aren't her type. She has a boyfriend. She didn't like you. She does not want to go on dates in general. Who knows? There are thousands of possible reasons considering it was a complete strangers.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:11 PM
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I've looked up advice about leaving notes (cause I've considered leaving my phone number on his car) but seems that most people say this is very immature and creepy behavior.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:45 PM
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Most people think that's creepy
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:55 PM
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No. But I can tell men do not like extreme shyness based on being extremely shy my whole life.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:55 PM
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There are no men that are not attractive to any women. I can see that you know how to write coherant sentences, so you're not super special needs. If you have a job, and a kind human being, take decent care of your grooming (nails trimmed, daily showers), etc... it is very likely that some woman has been attracted to you before, you just didn't know about it. Also, women are often attracted to men based on thinking that the man is interested in them. Its not about your looks.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:53 PM
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Most women are not out there looking to hop into bed with the first guy who shows interest. Men who are "running game" on them, especially strangers, are often very obvious...and quite often, they are not great people. These women are probably just trying to go about their day and don't want you involved in it. They have every right to be scared. You're bigger and stronger and a lot of men do horrible things to women.
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:12 AM
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Men only like mild shyness
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:59 AM
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Honestly, this is more the kind of advice I'm looking for and probably me best option at this point.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:55 AM
1

I see him often. He is a neighbor. We aren't that young though, he's about 40 so no cool shoes and tshirts. I like that he seemed possibly interested, before that he was not someone I had any attraction to. Other than that I really only like his gaze. That's not something that starts a convo. I don't use social media, so not gonna be looking at anyone's instagram. I can't just start waving hi at him for no reason. What home exercieses?
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:54 AM
1

you can't have a woman you dated as a friend, that's bad for her in 99% of cases
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:11 AM
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Not possible. Unless you beat her, emotionally abuse, and steal all her money. In that case, she'll be better off when you leave even she is initially very depressed about it. I'm not suggesting to do those things though.
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:09 AM
1

Well if you stated that you're trying to "hook up" and she is into it...then, she probably is. If you're ok with her cheating on her bf to be with you, that's up to you. If you are trying to actually "date" her and want her to be your girlfriend, its probably not a good idea. She will most likely do the same thing to you.
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:03 AM
1

You just talk and get to know each other. If you get along well, then maybe she'll start to feel more comfortable with the idea of playing pool on the next date. Maybe she has never played pool and it would be embarrassing for her to do that in public with a stranger.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:55 AM
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It really depends on how much you want to keep that job. If it is replaceable and you can quit an any moment, then, sure go for it. But if you'd like to keep the job and it's important to you, do not date or flirt with coworkers. Things could end badly, resulting in anything from just uncomfortable interactions to HR becoming involved in sexual harrassment cases, or negative gossip going around about you, or even a woman that is angry at you and tries to make your life at work miserable.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:52 AM
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Your vagina should expand when you are aroused. If you are not aroused...chances are you shouldn't have sex with that guy cause he doesn't turn you on. Sex is about playing and enjoy, its not about performance. You can't do anything wrongs, you're just enjoy sensations and connection with a partner.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:37 AM
1

I second this. Marijuana greatly improves sex for me. But you might like it so much that you don't want to have sex without it.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:35 AM
3

If you look at all the men you know who are married or have girlfriends? Are they all gorgeous, outgoing, charismatic, etc? No definitely not. Women generally want a guy who care about them...that is rare to find. You should probably make her laugh but you don't have to make everyone laugh. You should be a person who strives to improve yourself and be as good to others as you can...but you can make mistakes. Its really just about finding ONE woman that you get along with, have a friendship with,…
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:34 AM
3

Find a girl with low self esteem and ghost her after she thinks you like her.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:27 AM
2

People seem to be missing that boobs are not genitals. I most definitely am not going to be flashing my genitals. Men walk around topless in public all the time. It is legal in many states for women to do the same. It is always legal to do so in your own home.
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:11 AM
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I most definitely do not want to taste test wine with him...or at all in general. I was actually into that kinda stuff at 25. Now, not so much at 35. I do cook...but, I'm not inviting some stranger over for a meal. Honestly, that sounds more out of touch with reality than a flash. I think the people on this website seem kind of insane.
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:09 AM
1

Ok. Your take on this is insane. You are acting like flashing a chest is the same as flashing a penis. That is ABSOLUTELY NOT ILLEGAL. I am most definitely not flashing my genitals at anyone. It Is LEGAL to be topless. Men do it out in public every day. Women generally do not. Also, he's a 40 year old man, he isn't going to be terrified seeing some boobs. If he has to avoid me from now on outside due to being nervous, it wont change his life at all because I rarely see him when we are both outsi…
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:37 AM
1

It's legal in a lot of places for women to be topless in public. Its always legal to be topless in your own home. Men don't ask permission before they go running outside with no shirt on do they?
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:53 AM
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Well I am interested in him BECAUSE he showed interest in me...so its inspired by what he wants. He isn't nervous like he is afraid i"m going to harm him. I'm a small shy female. I'm flashing in order to let him know that if he wants what I think he wants...I want that too. But I can't go up to him and say that.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:50 AM
0

Men flash their chests in public all the time. I'm not flashing my genitals.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:45 AM
1

Depends on who's life.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:43 AM
2

Sounds sexy.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:38 AM
1

I used to want to be different. I currently accept myself as a very introverted person. I just need one very introverted man and my life would be perfect.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:00 AM
1

Random men go running around topless every warm day. You act like boobs are the same as a penis. If I was showing my vagina it would be pretty vulger.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:59 AM
1

You sound like you're not my type.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:57 AM
2

Yes, I have a nice body and like to express myself physically. Not so much through conversation.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:57 AM
1

That's why I'm flashing. I don't know about everyone else, but after about age 32 I stopped regretting or having FOMO. Whatever happens happens. Old people shouldn't have regrets whether they did a lot, or did nothing.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:41 AM
0

What's wrong with a little "inappropriate behavior". No 40 year old man has ever been traumatized by seeing some boobs in a window.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:37 AM
2

I actually generally want 0 attention. I'm very introverted. I just live a soft core porn kinda life I guess. Trying to get a little more hard core porn going on.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:34 AM
2

I had some bad experiences and was depressed for a long time. I'm no longer depressed. Now I do yoga and feel happy-ish most of the time. I am horny and kinky and stuff but I don't really know how to get back out there and get a man who would be into me. I'm pretty awkward and hard to talk to with most people.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:26 AM
0

What would be the wrong moment? Nonsense.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:13 AM
0

I'm never going to start a convo and neither is he. This is the last option.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:51 AM
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Um. Its not a fantasy if I"m doing it. Its real life. Some people flash in real life, believe it or not.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:37 AM
1

I'm a mute.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:28 AM
1

Isn't exhibitionism always unsolicited?
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:17 AM
2

Yeah...flashing is way easier than talking. I may not be normal here, but if he were to flash me I'd be into that as well. But I get what you're saying. I'm not flashing my vag though so it's different. If a man walked around topless nobody cares. If I flashed my vag that'd be pretty extreme.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:14 AM
1

I get so frozen with fear that I can't smile at people. Like..I can't even smile at coworkers I have been around for years. I'm very weird and unapproachable.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:05 AM
1

The way he dresses and the shape of his face I guess is why. He may very well be gay. My friend who saw him also thinks he is gay. But his talking to me and holding my gaze makes me think maybe not. Also saw him with a woman on a weekend morning once awhile back, but seems to be single and mostly a loner.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:53 PM
1

It isn't, I promise. I'm out of touch with reality maybe. Maybe this is normal single 35 year old behavior though, what do I know.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:43 PM
4

But the thing is, I know I will never approach him and ask him to hang out with me, and he is never gonna do that to me. Its this or nothing. And I'm leaning toward the flashing.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:16 PM
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I'm not manipulating or using him. I would like to have sex and if we get along I'm open to whatever happens. I'm not trying to use and discard him, but I'm taking the risk that that will happen to me.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:11 PM
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No. I'm 35 and retired from dating.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:03 PM
2

Why would he hate me? That's not sane. He might avoid me, sure, but I've had that happen before.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:02 PM
2

I'm a 30 something f though. But he's older.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:52 PM
1

But...I am kinda insane, so...it wouldn't be inaccurate. He might like that though. He doesn't seem like an extreme normie.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:51 PM
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Yes. I'm shy but horny. This is the only strategy I have unfortuneately. I'm pretty immature, yes. I can't start conversations with people I do not know.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:39 PM
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false. I have poor social skills. I'm extremely shy and autisicish...but high sex drive...need to do something
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:36 PM
1

I dunno. The way he holds eye contact makes me think he is interested. I just am so shy I can't really show i'm interested back so I freeze up and look away. I'm extremely unapproachable. This will let him know i am interested. If he doesn't try to talk to me or do anything after that then I know he not interested...
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:34 PM
0

I'm kinda autistic. I'm actually used to having awkward interactions with neighbors and needing to avoid them after. It'll just be a regular part of my day. Honestly see him more out the window then us being outside at the same time anyway.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:32 PM
1

Well if I know he is interested I can talk. If he is gay or uninterested it'll be awkward to try to flirt.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:27 PM
1

Its gonna be intentional looking.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:23 PM
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I'll talk only if I'm sure he is interested. This will let me know. My friend just saw him and thinks he looks gay though.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:22 PM
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My life is a porno though.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:20 PM
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He's not gonna make a move. I blocked it with my shyness long ago. I have to make drastic moves.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:07 PM
14

Well, someone stole his parking spot and he drove to a spot out of view. Not happening today. But I'll try to make some kind of move by the weekend.
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:38 PM
0

Only problem with that is that there are other people who will walk by outside the window most likely at the time period that I am waiting. I'm too shy for the finger and blowing kiss thing at someone I don't know well.
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:14 PM
4

I don't know his apartment, he is not on the same floor as me. I have thought about putting a not on his car though, but idk what to say.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:36 PM
13

I'm trying to work up the courage. If he comes home at the usual time and parks in the usual place it might happen.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:24 PM
1

Only women with low self esteem stay with men who are playing games with them. If you care about her, don't do that.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:19 PM
1

Sounds like she thinks you are only interested in sex and she wants to make sure you're interested in her and want to do day time activities with her that don't involve being intoxicated, but you're showing her you're only interested in sex.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:16 PM
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Its very typical for douche bags to refuse sex. They all assume that its a rarity for a good looking woman to get rejected for sex, but its common. If you end up dating her, she will begin to feel unattractive and lose interest in sex with you.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:04 PM
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