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| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedIt isn't a problem, like get your dude friends together in literally anybody's house or private space lol. I can guarantee you that no woman will give one fuck. A lot of "women only" organizations exist pretty much solely due to how fucking creepy, gross, and predatory some men are. Like being able to relax and know that no sexually entitled dude who is incapable of treating women like human beings is going to be a fucking weirdo is delightful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedLol "Western" culture, y'all are a hive mind. Please for the love of god just go to wherever you think isn't 'Western," I guess you think women will like you there more than we do here. I 100% support your journey bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedCool, so you’re opting out of providing literally any support for your claims and calling it a principled stand. Translation: I don’t have receipts, just vibes and bitterness.“When anybody with eyes and ears fucking KNOWS them already.” Ah yes, the famous “Just Trust Me, Bro” school of evidence. If your whole argument relies on imaginary consensus, maybe it’s not the rest of us who need our eyes and ears checked.“This is an issue that is no longer up for debate.” Nothing says “I’ve got this airt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedYou’re not mourning the loss of “male spaces.” You’re mourning the loss of spaces where men could avoid accountability, mock vulnerability, and gatekeep masculinity by shaming anything soft, queer, or female. The truth is, those spaces didn’t collapse because women “invaded”—they collapsed because they couldn’t survive without punching down. If a community falls apart the moment it's asked to treat people with basic respect, it wasn’t strong—it was a clubhouse built out of insecurity. Men deserv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:23 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedYou’re not wrong that we live in an increasingly atomized, isolating society. Social trust is low, institutions have eroded, and everyone is struggling to find real connection. That’s not just a “male” problem—it’s a human one. But let’s be honest: a lot of men aren’t just asking for connection. They’re asking for status, power, and access to women’s attention, and they’re calling it “support.” Self-improvement is great. Building community is vital. But if your idea of support for men hinges on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedSo your advice is… become a long-term emotional barnacle in the hopes that one of the women who isn’t attracted to you will either change her mind or hand you off to a cousin like you’re a referral bonus? That’s not strategy. That’s low-effort manipulation wrapped in self-pity. Women aren’t Pokémon to collect until one evolves into a girlfriend. And “friendzoning” isn’t a curse—it’s a boundary. If you’re only sticking around in case someone eventually wants to date you, you’re not a friend—you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Like for example, I see a lot of men whining about "gold diggers" or women who expect or demand financial support, but those men by and large seem to expect or demand sex in exchange for idk dinner, or some financial thing? Those people absolutely deserve each other and are a perfect match. But the dudes seem to get big mad about it for some reason, while the women are practical and realistic about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?It’s not that men are delusional—it’s that they often confuse what gets attention with what earns respect and partnership. Plenty of women will respond to status or looks, especially if they’ve never had a model of equitable love. That doesn’t mean those traits are the goal—they’re often just what’s left when mutual respect feels out of reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?I don't think anything about your observations precludes you from viewing women as individual human beings. I'm not trying to argue with you or tell you that you are doing something wrong. I was explaining what my experience has been with other men. Sorry if I worded it wrong or in a way that seemed like a personal attack. I don't care about your "controversial" blah blah,. I was just trying to share my experience as a straight woman, if you don't like it no problem. Keep doing you! That seems t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Literally all that matters to me about a man, regardless of his sexual orientation, is whether or not he sees and treats me as an equal human being in the same way he sees and treats himself and other men. Every single woman I know regards this as her top priority, like you dudes are the ones who care about wealth, status, and whatever else you base your senses of self on. If women actually thought it was possible to have a straight male partner who saw her as a partner and treated her as such, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?I mean, I am not currently in the dating scene so I cannot speak as an expert regarding this. But seems to me like more and more, that the straw for women is not any of this archaic shit. Sure it can play a role I guess, but I and all my lady sisters are not going anywhere near a man who actually thinks that stuff is important. The bar is real low. Treat women like equal humans as you see yourself and other men. Height, benchpress prowess, deep voice, tall, strong--like are you so incapable of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?It's the water we all swim in man, it's totally fucked up! So much work to pick it apart. Ok so what do you see as the traditional things that attract women that still work for many of them? I'm not arguing with you at all, I just can't read your mind and know what those things are for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Feminists don't give a fuck what you do, lol. Stay small and emotionally stunted buddy! You're just clearing the field for men who are capable of critical thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?The majority of TikTok videos are literally shitting on you personally lol? That seems like a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Dingdingding. A "psyop" lol? Like u/DumbbellDiplomat actually believes there is some coordinated effort to "demoralize men of the US" ("while government does whatever it wants" I guess,whatever that means). Like a conspiracy? u/DumbbellDiplomat you seem like an insecure dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?What does r4rs mean, I'll google if you don't have time to respond to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Do you have male friends, like friends you can really be yourself with and talk about real things and feelings with? Like peers who you hug, even if only at the beginning and end of your social hangout time with them? That could address some of the touch starvation. If you don't hug or be real emotionally with male peers, then maybe you could find some better ones who are more deserving of your time and attention. Touch starvation is not gendered. Very sorry to hear about the effect your situati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Where were there women-only banks in the 1800s lol, on every street corner in the US? Europe? Where? Because my women ancestors could not open a bank account where they lived, or get a business loan from a local bank, until the 70s or 80s. And the bank stuff is just one tiny aspect of how women were forced to be dependent on men. Can you really not comprehend how not having the same rights as the people in your society who wield pretty much all of the actual power, and control your access to edu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?That's right u/Ok_Ask6327. Thank you. 💙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?If you think we are now living in a Matriarchy, that says something about you, not about society. If that were true there would be more women leaders in government than men, more women CEOs than men CEOs, more women in power than men in power, and the jobs that have been historically relegated to women-only would be valued and provide better income. All you have to do is literally just Google to know that isn't the case. Of course you want to go back to enforced traditional gender roles, humans … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?These are all such good, thoughtful answers here in this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Yeah, you're totally right. I'm sorry, I was just in rage mode and being a dick. You're initial comment was dead right. Like it's not just regarding incels, women who can protect and provide for themselves and have access to at least some of the resources, education, and opportunities that they were denied for the majority of human history (since the development of agriculture anyway) don't have to depend on men for those things anymore. And when men have been trained since childhood to believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?Yes, keep pushing this narrative. I'm sure it will eventually work lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Root cause of male loneliness crisis?What does that have to do with the OP comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 05:59 AM |
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