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Nah it’s just mineral rich copium
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:06 PM
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Spot on. There are clear victims who are being re-victimized by the legal system. The legal standard in the US is that statutory rape victims must pay child support and that is deeply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:38 PM
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Sorry, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:34 PM
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Ah, maybe we can consider all the evidence, look for gaps in the research, consider the implications with and without new evidence, and work to improve society for both genders regardless?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:33 PM
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Are you saying coercing someone to have sex through verbal threats is not rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:29 PM
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That’s the same as women who still simp for abusive men. Saw this discussed around Chris Brown still having women followers and fans despite battering women. To be honest, I believe it would be as effective for women to police each other as men do. I’m not going to defend, support, or associate with men that abuse women. And I’m not going to take seriously women who tacitly support that. If a guy does not take abuse against men seriously, you should know that is a huge red flag. So if you’re a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:26 PM
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She said if you don’t do it, I’m going to tell the police you raped me. If you try to fight me, I’ll take pictures of the bruises and tell them you assaulted me and raped me. I just made that up but if a psycho bitch did that any man would be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:47 PM
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It seems incredibly naive to me to consider physical size or strength as the only possible power imbalance in social interactions. Considering that most men and boys are socialized to avoid violence, that there are real differences in maturity or authority based on age, position, or psychology, given that our species invented weapons to fight way outside our weight class, the fact that we live in a society that has police and judges and jail and prison, and that there is a social expectation tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:42 PM
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Because they met my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:09 AM
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Those are all terrible ideas that only treat symptoms, mask the issue, and open up all kinds of new issues. Our society should not be driving people to despair and suicide based on how they feel perceived and we should not be reducing things like human interaction and human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:36 AM
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I think the soft measures are more than enough. It's a cultural phenomenon. We need to groom our culture to be more thoughtful, sensitive and inclusive rather than vain and selfish. That will allow people to connect in more productive ways rather than avoiding and antagonizing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:34 AM
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I mean, if the meaning of life were to have sex, then sure, they are abject failures that should have been aborted. Luckily there's lots more to do in the world, much of which is better than pressing your sweaty body together with a desperate person. If that's what they want they can hire an escort who will probably be more enthusiastic and kinder anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:21 AM
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g-rated societal pressures, and the near x-rated sexualization of everything This is so huge I'm glad you mentioned it. I come from a conservative, religious family and those views and attitudes work well for everyone else but someone like me who is very logical and critical and open-minded. But unfortunately, even if you can leave your church, our society has very repressive puritanical values on everything. And this same society aggressively pushes sex at the same time. It leads to a cognitive…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:15 AM
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I mean, not really. There's not actually much wrong with them. I'm sure they are decent people. Probably employed, productive members of society. I'm sure they have loving friends and family. And yeah, they're probably weird, too. Everyone is weird. But you are right that they are screwed now. Not sure what's up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:07 AM
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I'm really not convinced that it is sex that young men are lacking. I might have a high libido but I can handle that myself. I've been searching for emotional intimacy and stability the entire time. All I've had is a string of flaky partners who never seemed very invested in a relationship, certainly not for very long. Oddly enough, it's only women who are unavailable who want to text everyday and talk about deep topics and stay in touch for years. Anyway, after a decade of that you get used to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:02 AM
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good reminder, I hadn't heard that in some years <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:16 PM
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That's true, but imagine you have a strong internal motivation for some goal, maybe it's a challenging career, or whatever, and through grit and determination you reach that goal. Then when you are established you look around for a partner and find out that you need to invest even more time into your appearance, spend time approaching, doing all that spinning non-sense, hot/cold, gym maxxing, and more. At some point, the juice is not worth the squeeze. The amount of time and resources it takes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:07 PM
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A murderer/killer. I don't work in forensics but if I did I might have a better psychological profile. And I don't work in sociology but if I did I might have a better economic and social profile. As it is I guess I'd have to guess - so it would probably be a male perpetrator but could be female. Most likely they are very psychologically damaged from childhood abuse. I would say someone who grew up closer to poverty than abundance. And also severe emotional and anger issues. In general, I'd say …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 PM
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That totally resonates, because it shows how both genders have internalized irrational fears. You know how terrifying it is for a guy to approach someone he's attracted to? He is literally imagining her screeching NO as police come to lock him up for being too ugly to live. Maybe a left-over from the tribal days when the caveman that is laughed at is left behind to starve. As it is though, if a man walks up to me, as a man, I'm more likely to be murdered than you are, all things being equal. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:48 PM
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Stay safe, that's a fairly dangerous part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:16 PM
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At engineering school: a sausage fest. For everyone else, their last chance to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:32 PM
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You made an argument that was an appeal to emotion and used two groups to illustrate the point, one of which is expected to garner more empathy than the other. The quote I invented is just the logical conclusion of what you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:24 PM
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Sure, I mean that's what would happen. I guess the advice is less relevant if you don't care if your marriage survives? Then you can say no every time and be combative in the Costco checkout line. Bonus if you get a big payout in the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:18 PM
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Yeah, this is actually true. At least as far as I have seen in my conservative religious family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:14 PM
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I guess people wouldn't give out the advice if it wasn't a real problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:59 PM
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The idea is that she's going to reject you either way. Or rather, on the slim chance she doesn't reject you, it's only gonna happen if you purposely act like a jerk. Most guys who get desperate enough to listen to trash advice like TRP will try it out and realize that, at minimum, it isn't wrong advice. You can take that one of two ways: 1) you feel like this timeline is too dumb and you quit the game or 2) you stop acting nice to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:35 PM
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Men who are victims of drug and alcohol abuse do not deserve emergency services like older women who have poor heath Ridiculous argument. And this justifies telling ugly guys they are fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:30 PM
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I mean what do we mean by emotional? You know this is a key question, but it really needs to be reframed because as it comes up it's always in a who-is-better way. Not to generalize too much, but men and women metabolize emotions differently, and that's probably beneficial or we would not have developed this way in the first place. Always expressing your emotions is great for letting people know something might be wrong, but keeping them to yourself can also help maintain peace for others around…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:21 PM
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Okay, so next time you are writing a CMV, instead of stringing together a sequence of anecdotes and speculation, you can form an argument by having 1) a key point and 2) supporting evidence. It helps if you start with your point, end with your point, and include your evidence in an organized way somewhere in the middle. This would help a lot for getting productive replies and would help you find flaws or weaknesses earlier which you can address. I'm only going to address the title / last line si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:03 PM
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cannabis sales through the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:51 PM
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Maybe they're smart enough to realize it's a losing game, so they don't play. Why fret over making someone else happy when you can do something that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:49 PM
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While that is true of a number of collective behaviors, not sure this one falls in that bucket. If a large minority of people did this, they would probably have greater success than the majority who didn't. It doesn't work if you are literally the only person, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:46 PM
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Man, I didn't realize how horny everyone is. Crazy. And everyone is so repressed as well, you'd never know. Pretty reasonable take on it. Two months is hardly any time, it's not like you haven't waited years to ever meet this person. Wild the disagreement here. Also true that men or women could insist on either of these points. I agree on both and would view a woman who feels the same as more responsible, something I value highly. I guess the only reason I'd say you're wrong that this would solv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:41 PM
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Yes, whether or not you have to be physically present in the courtroom, whether your counsel can be present, or whether the opposing counsel can be absent all depend on the type of motion. But in all of those cases, a judge of a court is making a legal decision in a legal dispute based on legal arguments of the parties. So the 95% of cases that "don't go to trial" will overwhelmingly have legal fees, back and forth between parties, and making a case to a judge to decide, probably with many court…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:54 PM
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Well, now I know you're lying lol because you think that a child support motion can be put in place without a judge to make it binding. It would be terrible to be an advocate while harboring such ingrained sexist views, so glad to know that's hokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:45 PM
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only 4-6% of cases actually go before a judge This is not true, every case goes before a judge who will make all kinds of decisions over the days, months, and years that you are in dispute. The judge will urge parties to come to an agreement over and over that they can rubberstamp but also makes all decisions in the meantime before a divorce decree is in place. Whether or not it goes to trial does not mean there is no courtroom or no judge. For example, this case which involved dozens of court-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:16 PM
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The reality is that divorce with children is hell for both men and women and there are plenty of disturbing stories out there, fact and fiction, from both sides of the aisle. I appreciate bringing facts and logic to the table - I might quibble over some of the sources, seems like some studies are potentially dated or in limited geographic areas. But you did good. I still think there's plenty to discuss, however, because of both 1) how prevalent these views are and 2) the actual outcomes here are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:49 PM
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I'm about six foot tall and when I see a woman standing over me, the first thing I do is check her shoes. If she's not in heels I start feeling woozy. Have you ever stood on your tip-toes to kiss a woman? I have. I have never felt less like a man than in that moment, and she was an absolute smokeshow - a literal perfect 10. No reason to feel that way. Sounds baller to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:04 PM
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Cool. Well I know single mothers who were suicidal because they couldn't see their kids. I guess they suck too... In any case, you already made your moral judgement. But if you want to understand /why/ it happens, you need to change your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:54 PM
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That's a really easy way to read the situation. But did you ever consider that they were chased away? Only seeing your child every other weekend is soul-crushing. As well as having to deal with your toxic ex for 18 years. In court a man can sometimes come out ahead, if he invests huge amounts of money into lawyers and has incredible mental fortitude. But sometimes you gotta know when to call it quits. Just providing some perspective from the other side of the fence. I fought for 50/50 time with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:43 PM
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All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:09 PM
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I was once told on Reddit that homeless veterans weren't a social injustice - it's simply a logical conclusion that many men would end up discarded by society because reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:07 PM
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r/malementalhealth is a good reality check
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:58 PM
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At this point in my life, basically yes. I look at the women in my family and see how they've let me down. I look at my past lovers and how they mistreated me. My closest female friend is a sex worker who I pay for her time just to talk to someone. So yeah, not feeling anything warm and gentle for womanity. That part of me died in divorce court along with the chance to see my child everyday. Edit to add: I may be jaded and resentful and I don't hold any hope of finding a relationship. But I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:27 PM
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It's also fine to be indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:33 PM
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Stop hating women. I'm cured!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:31 PM
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Evolutionary psychology is great at coming up with explanations for how the world came to be but not for explaining how the world should be. Given that humans are self-aware and self-governing, we have already stepped out of the natural world into the artificial. If we were to guide our society by our base instincts instead of our rational minds, it would go to hell in a hand-basket. In some ways, we can't control the unconscious mind, and people do have instincts. And that is where our culture …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:27 PM
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Solitude does not have such a negative connotation but it is usually a temporary state, not perpetual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:23 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:15 PM
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Brad Pitt I can never get over how smelly this guy's name is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:46 PM
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Huh? No one does everything for themselves. We live in a society. I don't know why you dodged the point that men helped get women voting power and gain advantages in society. I know you didn't ask, but if you wanted to know some ways that women could help men in this timeline, you could look first at mothers, teachers, and caregivers, since they are overwhelmingly raising our boys. Before reaching adulthood, life is essentially a matriarchy. Anywho... I have gotten over 'the pain' of providing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:27 PM
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I mean, I've seen unironic calls for male genocide, so it's more of an apt comparison than it'd seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:23 PM
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Try zooming in on where racism and sexism intersect and you might see the real picture. You can start by looking at incarceration rates and mortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:21 PM
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Weirdest world paradox. Women are interested in men who are obsessed with women (or themselves - for the purpose of entertaining women). Productive people have no time for dating nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:16 PM
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Being a neckbeard is how I got a high-paying FAANG job. Now stay away from me. I'm an incel by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:13 PM
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Yes, and many men have supported them along the way. Perhaps it's time for women to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:52 PM
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It doesn't really matter why, at least if you can't acknowledge the gap in the first place. The truth is that women in the US have both greater voting power and greater spending power if you look at any of the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:49 PM
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We are living the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:35 PM
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I found being a stepdad more fulfilling than dating their mother. And it pays better dividends. Seeing my stepkids becoming adults and still come to me for guidance makes me feel great. They have always been welcome additions to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:24 PM
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If you're going through Hell, keep going!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:52 PM
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and smarter This trend has been reversing for over hundreds of years now. Honestly why I'm more cynical. We have a real deficiency in cognitive ability to face the problems of the present and future and all that humans are working on developing are tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:49 PM
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Waiting for the PurplePillDebate braintrust to spill all of the unconscious secrets of both sexes and for a scrappy band of misfits to put together the puzzle pieces for a Universal Theory of Happiness which changes the world into a magical place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:47 PM
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Lol men and women have the same problem of getting conflicting trash advice. ETA something productive: A woman can be platonic friends with men if she has strict boundaries both with these men and with herself. Which includes not exploiting free attention or stringing anyone along or letting a man debase himself for you. You can also try giving back at least as much. A guy is into you that you thought you were just friends with? Put him on a blind date, introduce him to other women, don't treat …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:33 PM
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it's genuine friendship from our side. Yeah, in a genuine friendship between men and women, men give more, whether through their time, physical labor, or emotional labor. Hell, the same is true of family even. My older sisters will call me when they need a favor. I wouldn't bother trying because they wouldn't even pick up the phone for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:31 PM
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and i'm proud to say that i fixed personal life of a few women i know. lmao there it is. Platonic friendships between women and men are simply an excuse for women to receive free emotional and physical labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:30 PM
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Thank you for your support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:54 PM
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Yeah, I wonder if I can get just the good advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:49 PM
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It's a really great position for a man to be taken advantage of if that's what you mean. Think about what kind of effort a man puts into your friendship. Do you put in the same amount of effort? The same amount of work? Would you move a couch for him? Assemble a bookshelf? Listen to the annoying things his girlfriend does?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:46 PM
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Shrek is love. Shrek is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:13 PM
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Personally I disagee. I'm 32, have a really successful career for my age, work from home, and I'm divorced with an 8 year old son. My ex-wife cheated on me with one of my coworkers from before we were married, takes over 30% of my income in child support, and constantly gives me shit. And yet, if she had simply said 'sorry' and not filed for divorce, I'd imagine I'd be a lot happier and I would be providing even more - since I wouldn't be wasting my money on temporary satisfaction to avoid the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:19 PM
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