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Who determines a woman's sexual marketplace value? Who decides where they rank on the scale of 1 to 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:52 PM
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Cue the rephrasing of dating market because it doesn't fit the current OP's argument in 3, 2, 1...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:51 PM
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Yes, unless you are intentionally not finishing for some reason or are physically/mentally unable to, your partner is doing something wrong. If you're focusing on yourself, then you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:03 AM
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I've never had a passive partner, either that's dumb luck or maybe I've only had sex with people who actually wanted to fuck me and I've always made sure to make the bedroom a place to get excited about, lots of foreplay and preparation going both ways. With your example I'd say you have more issues than just who reaches climax, it sounds like neither one of you are too interested and you'd be better off just going into separate rooms and sorting yourselves out. If sex for you is so boring, it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:27 AM
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Sex is a team game, not a competition. Focus on your partners pleasure, and you'll get yours. Women aren't a puzzle waiting to be solved. It isn't complicated to be good in bed it just takes a bit of effort. If your partner isn't reaching orgasm there's only one person to blame, and if you've finished, it isn't them. Stop trying to excuse poor performance by blaming the person who isn't satisfied. People wonder why their bedrooms are dead when their partners never climax. If you kept having bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:47 AM
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Separate beds/rooms tends to mean we both get a better night's sleep and it actually improved our sex life, we found if we went to bed together by the time we're both laying down we're tired and only really thinking about sleep but with separate rooms we make an active decision and as soon as we're both in one room it's on. We went from having sex 1/2 times a week to 5/6 and there's a lot more sexual energy during the day time as well, getting handsy/flirtatious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:13 AM
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Except he rejected her multiple times, flip the sexes and absolutely the guy should take no for an answer, it would even be harassment if he continued, the same as it would be for her. If shit is getting in the way of your relationship, wouldn't you want someone to respect your wishes and move on? Or would you prefer someone to chase and desperately cling to the you despite you rejecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:20 PM
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Well by your logic 80% of people are settling, are you top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:40 AM
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So because someone has had sex before with a partner more attractive than their current spouse, that means they think they're better than their spouse? The funny thing here is that there is absolutely nothing a woman can say or do that would make you believe that they think they're equal. If 1000 women told you they didn't settle for below their standard, you'd accuse them of lying. If 1000 women told you they loved their husbands and saw them as equals, you'd accuse them of lying. If 1000 women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:07 AM
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So average men would like to have above average women but settle for average or below, and average women would like to have above average men but settle for average or below... I'm not seeing an issue here. The majority of people want a conventionally attractive partner, which is why it's referred to as conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:31 AM
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You realise you can do both, right? It's possible to develop success in your career, style, hobbies and love life simultaneously. In fact, for most people, it's also possible to keep them separated, they don't need to be linked at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:27 AM
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So you agree that no men in the western world are alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:01 PM
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In which case, neither are men. It's cool guys, we've solved it, in the western world no one is alone and can not be described that way. Problem solved, let's go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:45 PM
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I think he's referring to in society in the western world as opposed to on a deserted island... good try though...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:40 PM
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It is you coping because you have to believe there's a reason you can't find a mate, but it can't be your fault, So there has to be a problem with all women or you need to come to terms with the fact that they're just not all that into you. Women's standards are higher, that doesn't mean the 80/20 rule is real, it means women don't have to settle for crap options anymore. If there standards are higher why would they settle like you claim? The issue isn't with 50% of the human race, it's with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:07 PM
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So 80% of men are fucking prostitutes or women that don't want to have sex with them? Cope harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:44 AM
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Holy shit, of the 80/20 rule applies outside of OLD please explain why 80% of men aren't virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:40 AM
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The 80/20 rule is something that literally only applies to OLD! And it doesn't mean that 80% of women are fucking 20% of men it just means that's who they're swiping right on. OLD is like a takeout menu, nobody chooses the shitty looking options and it just so happens that men make up most of the shittier options in the online world. It has precisely 0 bearing in real life. In the real world by the age of 30 less than 5% of men are virgins (studies vary, but most say between 5% and 2.2%) and les…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:30 AM
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Except i didn't say that no women think size matters, I said not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:50 AM
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Because being pickier doesn't mean 80% of women fuck 20% of men, it just means they have higher standards than men, I never referenced looks at all in the standards, except to say men seem to expect women to look past how they look. To say women have "extremely high physical standards" is laughable when you look at all the people in the world who have successful, happy relationships. How is it verifiably false that people men see as "chads" have a high failure rate? Do you think they fuck every …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:45 AM
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Holy shit, yeah, women change their minds and get raked over the coals for it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:29 AM
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If a woman changed her mind and also did not inform her partner, she would be equally as scummy? There is no double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:21 AM
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Women are pickier about whom they have relationships with because they now have more choice and that's not a bad thing. People should hold the standards they want. The fact is women have always had higher standards than men, but historically, they've not had much choice. Why is giving them some autonomy a bad thing? To all the "nice guys" out there, would you actually be happy if you had a daughter and people were constantly telling her to lower her standards? Should she look past how they look …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:18 AM
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Ah yes, the female hivemind have slipped and let their guard down, good catch brother. About time we had some real evidence that ALL women feel the same way! Now all we need to do is find the queen bee who provides these abhorrent opinions and make her pass on a new message of love for all penis sizes, micro or mega! (/s for those who couldn't tell!) This lady has gone from what was probably a very large sized penis on her ex to a borderline micro penis (which is in such a small minority), so ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:47 AM
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More people cheat than you know! My source? Trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:02 PM
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So you're hoping to lower the standards of women instead of putting in some real effort? Women should stop dating guys they like and give the nice guys a shot because it might lead to a longer lasting relationship? Should they also stop chasing men they find sexually appealing? Maybe Quasimodo is actually a really sweet guy and that's who Esmerelda should have wanted all along? Attraction and emotional/mental stimulation is over rated ladies, you need to give the nice guys a chance after all. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:18 PM
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Yeah, there are definitely off days, days when you're not quite on the same page or particularly stressed etc. but it's a lot easier to just walk away and try again later than try to force a situation that isn't working well for one of you, it's painfully obvious when someone isn't having fun. It really is funny how complicated men make it seem, you don't need to have had 100 partners or had sex 100 times to figure out what works and what doesn't, I know what feels good for the other person by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:40 PM
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Absolutely if a woman has religious trauma that should be worked out in therapy before you engage in sex with her, not after (or after the first time if you were unaware, not after having given her more reason to hate sex over a prolonged period of time) and we're still only referencing 10-15% of women, not the 85% majority who are more than capable of orgasm. There is a difference in biological response between the sexes, but how often during sex is a man working on himself or providing instruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:24 PM
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I'd really love a genuine answer to this one, I'd be horrified and humiliated to find out my partner hasn't enjoyed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:12 PM
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And how much accountability do men take to get their own orgasm during sex? For most, all it takes is a few quick thrusts and the game is over. You're infantalizing men by acting like the inability to get a woman to orgasm is something it's up to the woman to fix, I find it actually hilarious that men need "help" with this. Women are not complex creatures that require years of study, it's also not their job to assist you in pleasuring them, that's ridiculous. How much training do women require i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:49 PM
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So 10-15% of women have never had an orgasm and we both agree that there are potential reasons for that, shame, anxiety, and religious trauma, but you still expect them to help? So despite the fact they may feel shame around their own sexual pleasure, they're supposed to overcome that on their own and help you make them orgasm? Seems fair... Again, it really isn't a complicated thing. It does take effort to make your partner orgasm but it's not impossible and it certainly isn't a difficult task.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:08 PM
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I think that's a lot rarer than you think and also most likely due to the fact that women exploring themselves is something that a lot of people don't agree with and shame. It also provides a very handy excuse for those who can't satisfy their partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:37 PM
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Because contrary to popular belief women aren't actually all that complicated, despite what others may have told you growing up you don't have to be a god in bed to make a woman orgasm, you just have to give a shit if she does or not. Try and see it from their point of view, imagine you get into bed with a woman and have to explain the up and down motion of a handjob or she starts to perform oral but it's all teeth and it hurts you. You'd get sick of it pretty quickly and that's what women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:26 PM
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No, they're in a long term committed relationship and they'd previously discussed a desire for marriage. If he changed his mind he should have told her straight away and if he never wanted to get married at all then he should have told her in their previous conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:03 AM
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If you're having conversations you wouldn't want your partner to read or conversations you wouldn't want them to have with someone else, then there's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:36 AM
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No, there was never any romantic intention on her part, so what would she have hidden? Her lack of sexual interest in him? I suppose you could argue she hid her true feelings about his confession but I think that's justifiable, if she called him sweet but found it creepy and weird she was trying to spare his feelings but needed someone to talk to about how she felt about the situation. In this case her friend group and its only because one of her friends betrayed her trust that he ever found out…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:21 AM
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The situations aren't comparable at all, the first is a long term relationship with established trust, romantic involvement and sexual compatibility in which the guy is lying to his partner about the seriousness of their commitment, he's actively deceived her into believing that marriage and kids are a mutual decision that's not too far away. The second is a man having a crush on a woman he's been friends with, he claims she's been flirting with him (but if he's been friends with her while activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:49 AM
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