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I mean idk if its exclusive to me or not, I just find dating men risky and not worth it. I'm married to a man but like I had known him 7 years prior to dating him and tbh was really the only guy I was comfortable. When I was single I was fine with casually dating/hooking up w dudes but like I wasn't really keen on hopping into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:32 PM
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It depends on if they are down to compromise and respect my lifestyle if they want me to respect theirs. Sometimes it's an absolute deal breaker like if they are conservative or religious, or super into hustle culture, but everything else is fair game for discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:43 PM
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Men younger than me are emotionally immature and wouldn't want to deal with the insecurities. Men my age are mostly ok, my husbands only a year older and I love the fuck out of him, but like if I had to choose outside of him I would not try to date Men my age Men who are significantly older than me are mostly conservative or have kids and I don't want that either So in conclusion I think I find 1 man attractive and marriage material, but if he wasn't an option I'd date women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:42 PM
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My partner and i do chores that we are good at by ourselves and do annoying chores that we hate together to divide the workload no matter who has a job. I've had situations where my husband was unemployed where this worked and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:38 PM
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I went from a "practical" STEM degree/field into liberal arts and am doing a lot better in that sector in terms of job security and satisfaction than I ever had at my IT job. STEM fields are not more practical, it just matters what is best suited to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:54 PM
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If I was a stay at home partner, then I can justify being responsible for most of the household duties if my spouse was working. However if Iwas a stay at home mother, I would expect my husband put equal amount of attention on our child, since the child should be both our responsibilities. If that means that my husband comes home from work and cleans the house while I tend to the child, or vice versa then that is fair. Taking care of an infant child, and also being expected to do housework and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:52 PM
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Dating was one of the most annoying/scary experiences ever for me. Idk why you guys feel like rejection is the biggest disadvantage for dates when I literally have to send my friends my location, send them periodic texts to ensure that I am alive and kicking, and figure out what public place to date in so that they can't slip something in my drink or isolate me from the public space. And those are just the big red flags. What about the fact that men either do not engage in conversation or ONLY t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:47 PM
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I think communication is key. I'm in a heterosexual relationship, and my husband and I really hash it out in terms of what we want out our relationship. Obviously it's not perfect and we fight at times but the more we communicate the better it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:22 PM
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Your point of view is creepy and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:58 PM
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Of course they were friendzoned if they hit on me, but you know what a lot of them still stayed friends w me after rejection. also don't talk to me about the older generation of men that already have weird as relationship views. People get married because they love each other. Men and women have meaningful relationships that aren't sexual or romantic. Incels like you and others like you don't deserve to date people and honestly should not even try til you've had therapy. Also where are your sour…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:54 PM
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Lol what are you like 12? I grew up with guy friends, some who have had a thing for me and some completely platonic. Most of them were straight, some of them are still my friends after 15 years. Well adjusted non toxic men have normal relationships with women. Also its not really that anonymous your opinion is public and given that you're a guy who believes this people are gonna get cautious and not trust people that approach them no matter the intent. People like you make it hard for men to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:43 PM
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It eventually shows itself in a relationship. I've dated men like this so I know the signs and im pretty merciless with it. But its hilarious how you'll complain why women don't like you, post this bs online where we can all see it and be more cautious. Like yall are literally doing this to yourselves. Like how do you know that women. Wont see this garbage and just continue to not give men a chance, and rightfully so because who tf wants to be manipulated. I'm saying that if women become more di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:01 PM
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This whole view that you have is whats pointless. Most dudes in the real world who have more purpose in life than fucking seem to get by fine. As for the rest if they are having a dry spell its their own fault. Bitching and moaning about how you have to manipulate people to fuck them is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:11 PM
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Lmao the incels on reddit like you aren't most men. And I doubt you're gonna be anyone's option if these are the views you hold
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:51 PM
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Lol says the patriarchy isn't a thing...yet the doctor asks my husband if HE'S ok with me getting MY tubes tied.
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 03:39 PM
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Gave away her youth? Lmao her youth is hers not yours. See this is why I feel like most men on reddit should just go to therapy instead of bitch and moan over why they are single. Yall single for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:05 AM
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Lol I hope they don't get it. These people are incapable of being loved and should honestly just lay down and accept their misery. Honestly I commented on this post because it perpetuates harmful information regarding dating and is giving people the notion they need to resort to shit tactics to get laid. Love can enrich your life, but manipulative tactics aren't the way to get it. I hope the takeaway from this idiocy is that women start noticing manipulative tactics or at least being wary of it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:54 PM
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No ones entitled to love. You gotta be loveable in order to have love and support from anyone. No one is denying love to them, people just don't want to love them and thats ok. And tbh if these tactics are what is getting them through the door, maybe women should just stay away and let them die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:46 PM
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Men's need to fuck and their loneliness should not be stronger than morals. To participate and encourage stuff like that is super gross. Men that feel the need to resort to tactics like that deserve to be lonely and sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:39 PM
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Lol 😆 no amount of manipulation is right even if you do get them to bang you. If someone doesn't want a relationship respect that and back off. This is why I chewed out every guy thats tried that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:35 PM
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Are you literally telling me what a woman likes vs doesn't like, when I am a woman who has dated other women. I never used pua tactics, gay women aren't any different from straight women in terms of what they want in a long term relationship. Also I know a lot of other people in long term relationships who didn't need to be manipulated by their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:27 PM
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The vast majority of people don't need pick up artistry to be in a relationship. Literally 0 women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:19 PM
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If men need women for basic shit like this, then yall deserve to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:24 PM
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It varies from person to person. Like id say that if I find someone attractive I don't one word them over text, ill actually reply to messages, and ask them questions and show real interest. Oh and I usually just explicitly tell people I have a crush on them. In fact I put on more of a facade when I'm creeped out by a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:22 PM
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My husband never used any pua or manipulation tactics...so clearly this whole ideology is flawed. I don't think the people complaining about being single is the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:16 PM
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You could say the same for plenty of men too who date clearly toxic women. Abusive relationships happen because not all ppl are good people, and a lot of people get stuck in them due to emotional isolation, financial, and other reasons (like joint assets and kids). I know lots of women who have dated super nice guys who share their values and love them. I'm married to someone who loves me and is one of the nicest guys I've ever met. If niceness and compliments is all you have to offer however th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:02 PM
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Or women just don't wanna date redpill men because their views don't align with how most women live and act
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:28 PM
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Its not necessarily about standards and more so like "ok you're nice but so is most people". I'm not gonna emotionally invest in a person thats just cordial and has no other attributes to attract me to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:32 PM
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Yeah it is. I dated someone who was just nice after a bad relationship. But thats all he had to offer he was nice. He wasn't interesting, our values didn't align, our passions didn't align, we weren't sexually compatible. He was a good dude but there was nothing outside of that that made me wanna be in a relationship w him. I dumped him 2 weeks later because it just felt like he was a friend I was occasionally fucking. Someone you actually have a connection with and someone whose only "nice" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:55 PM
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I mean it's true, niceness is the bare minimum anyone can do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:36 PM
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Niceness is the bare minimum. If thats all you have to offer then thats not much. Also I'm married to a super nice guy the difference is that he didn't feel entitled to being w me just because he's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:03 PM
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If anyone cold approaches me I'd be uncomfortable like why should I have to talk to some strange guy that I don't know or care about. People aren't entitled to conversation with me so if I feel uncomfortable then I will act accordingly. Its so weird that consequences aren't something people think about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:01 PM
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Yeah but you have the ability to connect w people emotionally for all of those things. I'm just saying you can't compare economic constraints to not being able to be in a relationship. Like I didn't have to select the person I am married to. Intimacy and love grow over time, but I can't whine about it if im not compatible with someone. Comparing incompatibility to economic disparity is a little stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:17 PM
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Relationships and interactions are a 2 way street its not privileged if someone doesn't vibe with you. In the rich poor thing everyone needs money to survive in our current economic climate. Without monetary value a poor person is likely to die or be unable to do their day or day tasks. Whether or not someone wants to be in a relationship with you is to a degree in your control too and to a degree out of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:52 PM
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I'm not single but back when I was it was a deal breaker for me if men didn't have platonic relationships with girls. Like im an adult and I expect my partner to act like one too and have clear communication and boundaries and healthy relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:39 PM
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In my experience dating women yeah actually it was definitely less stressful and breakups were more amicable. I am married to a man now but I wouldn't say he's like the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:32 PM
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Nah dealbreaker for me if they are right wing or religious its an automatic no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:18 PM
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Maybe the average guy isn't that great?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:17 PM
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Of course he does! I dated other people when he and I were just friends and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:31 PM
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What you think is a genuine mutual attraction isn't genuine from the other persons standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:06 PM
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All 3. I never got to be a teenager or a kid because I raised my sister and my parents were dicks. The world is fucked and its not my choice to be here so if im forced to live I wanna live comfortably. And its also my preference because I wanna have my husband all to myself and do all the fun things we planned for each other and our futures
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:05 AM
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I'm married to the guy my friend used to have a crush on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:47 PM
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If a guy thats my peer or near my age calls me those things I usually get pissed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:28 PM
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I don't care what a person's height is, like I've dated girls of all heights. But when dating men the guys who were near my height (im 5'1") were so insecure that it affected our relationship. Like we would get into fights over me wearing heels and being an inch or two taller, its like not even a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:26 PM
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Men being predatory isn't sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:40 PM
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Thats kinda sad...I'm friends with my husbands friends and he's friends w mine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:32 PM
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And vice versa..sometimes you just gotta satisfy the need during a dry spell and id rather do it with someone im comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:31 PM
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I've had plenty of no strings attached sex. I'm literally still friends with two of my fwbs even after we stopped having sex and all got in relationships. (Yes our partners know we used to fuck, they aren't threatened that we stayed in contact)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:30 PM
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Yeah no. Some people actually like their spouse and marry them for more than financial benefits or solely companionship. If you replaced my husband with anyone or anything id be devastated. Even if that entity looked like Chris Hemsworth or someshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:25 PM
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Because there aren't really rules people just fuck people they like. Lots of gay women also go for feminine women, otherwise all lesbian relationships would be two butch women. Im into masculine women, I just don't like hyper masculine men because their looks and personality is usually a turn off for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:14 PM
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Your comment was literally "women are attracted to masculine traits"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:10 PM
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Every guy has some masculine traits, I married a guy because I love him for who he is, if he was a girl id still marry him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:03 PM
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My husband* and traditionally masculine guys are pretty unattractive to me in looks and personality just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:00 PM
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My friend group consists of my husband and 3 other guys that I met through him back in high school. I didn't have to insert myself they already liked me and we hang out all the time even after 14 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:52 PM
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I mean I slept with assholes because they were easy sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:50 PM
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So lesbians who date other femme lesbians don't exist? I'm married to a guy, and the reason I'm attracted to him outside of how he looks is because he's not traditionally masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:49 PM
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