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| 6 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?I'm not threatened by you in the least and have no animosity towards you, so I don't know why you're trying to attack me as a person. I think the only one who's offended or threatened here is you. I'm not trying to tear anyone down. I'm legitimately here to help people. What reason do I have to tear women down? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/26 12:32 PM |
| 5 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?From what it looks like, a lot of them are struggling with the dating scene and want to find a partner or husband. A lot of that is due to two things: 1) They meet the douchey red pill men who are controlling assholes and just want to use women for sex, or 2) they don't know what's important to the decent red pill men and come here to find out. Unfortunately, a lot of the answers they're getting are from other single women who think they know what men want but really don't or they'd be in succes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/26 12:30 PM |
| 6 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?She's not responsible with money. She was in the poverty subreddit a few months ago saying she's too broke to give Christmas gifts to her roommates. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/26 11:55 AM |
| 48 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?Men don't care about women's financial stability, so it's not something they see as "being brought to the table". They'd date a McDonald's cashier if she had other features they find attractive. It's considered a red flag for a woman to boast about her career. They're going to view it as a potential issue in the future because she'll likely prioritize her career over their marriage and their family. It's not the flex women think it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/26 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a gamer?That sounds like my ex-BIL. He lived with my parents and never showered, never helped around the house, worked PART TIME, and would spend every waking second playing World of Warcraft. After my sister divorced him, he skittered off from whence he came into his mom's basement and has probably stayed there ever since. He was a giant fucking manchild. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 11:36 PM |
| 8 | Would you date a gamer?It really depends on how much of a priority the games are, whether you are more important than them, and whether they interfere with his responsibilities and life in general. My husband is a gamer, but he doesn't play multiplayer games that require constant real-time attention like competitive shooters (Call of Duty online, etc). Because of this, he's able to step away any time I need him and he doesn't prioritize his gaming. It's a hobby, not his whole personality, and other than the gaming, he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 11:32 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel more confident/feminine?I've noticed that it's very closely associated with how I dress and how I look. If I'm in jeans and a t-shirt with Converse, I feel sloppy and self conscious. If I dress in a maxi skirt with a nice blouse, jewelry, and some nice shoes, I feel very confident and feminine - especially if I have my nails and hair done. I never got my nails done... But recently I've been getting them done once a month (just French tips) and I feel WAY more feminine. I heard once that you should always imagine you ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Advice please?Dump him immediately. That man does not respect you; he views you as property. A man should not EVER think it's appropriate to use derogatory words or "names", as you call it, for the woman he claims to love and treasure. I could NEVER imagine my husband doing that to me, ever. He does not own you and you are not his daughter, which means he doesn't get to decide what you wear. That is disgusting. Would you want any future children to see him treat you that way and think it's normal? Would you a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Boundaries around textingI think OP meant her needs aren't being met. That was likely a typo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Boundaries around textingIf you're just texting and he's not wanting to see you, he might not be that interested in you. My husband wanted to see me every second of every day that he possibly could when we were dating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/26 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Boundaries around textingCan you clarify with more details what you mean? What is "pen pally"? With whom? Why is this bothersome? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/26 12:29 PM |
| 6 | Help with anger in submission!Honestly? Have your thyroid checked. I have hypothyroidism and I was a rage monster when my thyroid hormones were unmanaged. I'm much more calm and able to keep myself under control more easily now that I'm on the correct medication for it. I also take escitalopram, which has helped my anxiety and my irritability. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | getting badly anxious about aging out of my mid-20sCheck out the YouTube channel in my last message. It might be what you need. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Curious about male attraction in modest culturesIn instances like that, men get to use their imagination, which is sometimes much more exciting for them than actually seeing it. There's also attraction in the way a woman speaks and moves, even if they can't see her body or hair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 01:33 PM |
| 8 | getting badly anxious about aging out of my mid-20sYou live your life how you've been living it and let a man come to you while you work on yourself. You don't have to be out seeking someone on social media or the internet. The most genuine relationships will happen when you meet in person and feel the chemistry. A man wants to be with a woman who is competent and confident but sweet and soft enough to be submissive to him and let him take the reigns. Love yourself first; only then will you find a prospect that will turn into a relationship and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:12 AM |
| 3 | 23F and I find it hard to not dislike redpillI'm going to be brutal honest here: It's not the other people who are the problem. YOU are the common denominator. You are not a victim in this situation. If that many people completely cease wanting to engage with you, you are acting in a way that is causing people to have negative associations with you. You likely have some serious work to do on your character and your social interactions, but you're blind to the fact that you need to do it. I recommend Jordan Peterson often to people who need… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/26 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Realized I’m the problem.. What’s one thing you swear by that made you a better wife?Honestly? Get your thyroid checked and look into antidepressants. This sounds EXACTLY like me before I found out I had hypothyroidism and got on Armour Thyroid. (Levothyroxine is the most common medication but it made me exhausted and didn't fix my problems.) I also take generic Lexapro. My TSH is now balanced, my moods are so much better, and I'm so much more calm, nurturing and loving with my husband and my 4 kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/26 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Bf texted another girl to compliment herGirl, that is a serious boundary breach, and if he's done it before this time, he'll do it again. He has no respect for you or your relationship. It's time to get out. You can't fix that level of lack of devotion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I have been told by my friends that I don't have boundaries and am "too nice" I have started reading the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" but I'm not sure it resonates with me. I would appreciate any help!Boundaries and Boundaries In Marriage (both by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend) are going to be two books that help you A LOT. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | About men's mentalityNo. Read "His Needs, Her Needs" by Willard F. Harley. You don't have to be THE most attractive person he's met but he still needs to be attracted to you. Sex is their most important need to be fulfilled, but it's deeper than that. Read the book. It'll tell you so much more than I ever could. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/26 08:18 PM |
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