Sufficient_Event7410 Archive

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–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? The litmus test for whether or not an act is selfish or selfless is only dependent on the motivation and execution. Not whether you decide to undertake it or not. Every voluntary act is decided upon out of self interest, and there is nothing admirable or selfless about doing something you have to. Does the task require self sacrifice to complete? Am I making this decision because it will provide a direct tangible benefit to me, or because I get a sense of satisfaction from benefiting others? For…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:48 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Let me key you into something you can’t seem to wrap your head around. EVERYONE IS ALWAYS GOING TO ACT IN THEIR OWN SELF INTERESTS. It just so happens that my self interest of having kids is more likely to have a positive impact on others than if your self interest was to be child free. Part of having kids involves self sacrifice. Just because it’s something I want to do doesn’t mean it’s selfish. Do you think people who volunteer at animal shelters are self centered because they want to volunte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 02:25 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? I should say misguided rather than self centered. I don’t think “no kids people” intentionally try to become selfish, it’s just that the decision to have kids forces you to do things you don’t want to. Often. You’re going to be a more considerate person on average if you have kids versus do not. Your decision making framework will naturally include others more when you’re a parent. Part of why I say they’re self centered is because when I was 13-19 I did not want kids at all. I wanted everything…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 01:56 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Appreciate it. This view isn’t something I’ve always held. It only evolved into that after I struggled with addiction and other life challenges in my late teens and early 20s. I can tell I’ve grown up a lot lately and truly discovered what I value in life. It used to be just money. Now, I want to contribute the great aspects of myself towards someone else, and I want my impact to be felt even when I’m dead. Having kids is the easiest and most rewarding way to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 01:44 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? That’s probably unique to my life experience and overall appreciation for my parents. They made lots of mistakes raising me looking back, but one thing I can say for certain is that they always had good intentions and put forth lots of effort into making sure I became successful, self sufficient, and a contributing member of society. I don’t have disdain for those who don’t have kids. Especially women wanting to avoid pregnancy complication. However, I used to be apart of the “not wanting kids” …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 01:38 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? False equivalency. Part of having kids is the fact they come from A PART of you. No shit people wouldn’t have as many kids if forced adoption and child swapping was mandated. That’s the dumbest argument and mental gymnastics I’ve ever heard to justify your position. It’s fine if you don’t want to have kids, but you’re just performing some cognitive dissonance to avoid confronting the fact many reasons for not having kids are self centered. You want to travel, not worry about watching them, don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 12:23 PM
2	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Raising 2 kids as a single mom isn’t analogous to getting married, owning a house, and then deciding to have kids. I understand her situation is a difficult one but I think most of the issues you explained or may come across with parenting are due to poor foresight and impulsivity rather than any fundamental flaw with the process of being a parent. As for why society isn’t having kids, that’s just a byproduct of a nation becoming wealthier and more individualistic. We have reduced environmental …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 11:18 PM
–	Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seem I would argue given current societal norms, being so religious that you are a virgin at 25 due to waiting to have sex till marriage qualifies you as a weirdo. Male or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 11:13 PM
2	What is Power, Who has It, and How Much? Just look at subjective reports made by people transitioning from FtM. Testosterone levels have a profound effect on psychology and behavior. It’s completely myopic to dismiss behavioral differences influenced by physiology as the cause of the preexisting power structure we have in place. There’s a reason that when agriculture was first developed, and complex society evolved, men became the gender in charge. It’s mainly due to biological differences tied to testosterones effects on muscle mass, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 10:53 PM
–	Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seem I think just being a virgin at 25 is the issue they see. There’s probably nothing that wrong with OP relative to all the other mental health issues the typical person from her/my generation might have. Maybe she comes off a bit weird in conversation but there are plenty of girls who aren’t virgins who do too. It’s just really weird to be a virgin that late. It either means you don’t have a sex drive, have some sort of mental block surrounding sex, or are so off putting to guys no one was willing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 01:30 PM
3	What is Power, Who has It, and How Much? The main cause of why more women aren’t in charge is an inherent biological tendency for them to avoid conflict and asserting themselves. Which are necessary traits for becoming someone in a position of power. This is because they don’t have testosterone anywhere near male levels. It’s also because when you are the physically weaker sex, it’s a good survival strategy to fall in line. Complex society without high environmental pressure has only been around for 2-3k years. Our living environment a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 01:17 PM
–	The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's part I’m late but man this is a brain dead take. Women aren’t attracted to nice men because they are not masculine what so ever. Not because they are physically unattractive. I’ve been a good looking nice guy myself and can tell you about it first hand. When you’re a nice guy, a woman does not view you as a man. It goes against her biological instincts to be attracted to a guy who is a total pushover and can’t stand up for himself. Those traits are indicative of a guy who is gonna get her and her kid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:10 AM
1	Simple observations of men/women behavior on the "balloon popping dating show" I think in the case of these dumb shows you’re right. It’s just women practicing the typical mob mentality and being afraid to voice their true opinion. This is why there are fewer women CEOs, presidents, etc. Women are just more passive in general and tend to fall into line more than men. In real life it makes sense though. It’s like buying a product because someone you trust gives a good review.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:00 PM
4	Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilities Well I mean on average it’s technically the same haha. Takes two to tango. What you mean is that women typically have a higher median body count than men. A small subset of men do the majority of the smashing. 20/80 rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 04:33 AM
12	Simple observations of men/women behavior on the "balloon popping dating show" Redditor finally learns about mating pre selection, 2024, colorized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 04:28 AM
4	Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms? Why do you think crime fell so much in the early to mid 90s, 16-22 years after Roe v Wade became law? A lack of children born to single parent households is about the only rational explanation. History has shown us that when fatherless children are never born, crime and other negative externalities on society go down when that cohort of unborn children would have came of age. If a woman lacks the proper judgment and impulse control to refrain from engaging in unprotected sex with a man who has n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 02:08 PM
1	Do men or women experience more violent crime in America? I think the dropping test levels is more indicative of western nations becoming extremely wealthy. Test levels are extremely dependent on a healthy diet, good quality sleep, and living an active lifestyle. Western society has progressed far enough that manual labor jobs are rare, high calorie processed food is easily accessible by anyone, and technology is constantly at your fingertips. People eat worse diets and are less active now than at any point in human history. Obesity is directly correla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 03:42 PM
2	Do men or women experience more violent crime in America? Very true. Especially when you consider the first thing successful dorks do once they get rich is to improve their masculinity. Zuck with his MMA, Elon with his semaglutide, bezos with his blatant testosterone usage, etc. They are smart guys and realize that is the male archetype nearly every man aspires to be. All those guys get fully invested in looksmaxing once they figured out the business side of their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 03:20 PM
1	This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimistic I’d agree with that to an extent. Being really hot gives you more leeway with your game in hookup situations. Whenever I’ve hooked up with a hot chick at a bar generally they come onto me first or give very obvious signals for me to pursue them. A lot of that is probably inspired by initial attraction. However I’ve seen some guys get kinda a cold shoulder at first, but their game is enough to take the girl home after they work their magic chatting. I think being a 6.5/10 with amazing game is mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 03:15 PM
8	Do men or women experience more violent crime in America? Reread what I wrote again and tell me where I implied that. I’m simply stating a fact that there is consistency across nearly all species relating to each genders propensity towards violence. I don’t understand how people still fail to realize there are biological differences in each genders hormones which have direct causation on their behavior. Women are seven times more likely than men to poison someone. They don’t like direct confrontation like men do and are far more passive if they do enga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 08:28 PM
2	Do men or women experience more violent crime in America? Men are just more prone to physical violence due to testosterone levels. In all species not just humans. Men and women actually commit murders at a pretty similar rate to which they are victimized. “In 2022, the United States had 15,094 male murder offenders and 2,107 female offenders, according to Statista. However, the gender of 5,857 offenders was unknown.” Obviously that data doesn’t align cleanly with the first Google search I had for murder victims by gender, but I’m assuming there are som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 07:59 PM
-2	This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimistic You don’t need to be a 10/10 chad to meet a women’s physical standards. Women have a minimal threshold that is required to get your foot in the door. It’s different for every woman and very unique to whatever their specific type is. Some girls like the gym bro frat chad, others prefer the theater kid with high cheekbones and clear skin. A guy who could be a 4/10 to one woman could be a 9/10 to another. There’s far more variance with how women rate men than vice versa. Once you are past that mini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 04:56 PM
45	Do men or women experience more violent crime in America? It’s not even debatable that men do. Over 14k men were murdered in America in 2022. Only just over 4k women were. Men are far more likely to be the perpetrators of crime as well as the victims. Even when adjusting for race and socioeconomic status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 04:53 PM
-4	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. Why would anyone enter into an LTR with someone who is asexual? You’re either not going to have any sex, or it’s going to be awful if you do have it. Humans are hard wired to want to procreate. Literally every single organism is. There’s a reason reward pathways in the brain are activated during and after sex. Being asexual is absolutely a mental illness and I guarantee it is not the only mental issue going on. It’s a clear indicator something is up with the wiring, and it’s extremely unlikely i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:10 PM
1	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. If she can’t find a SINGLE person she is interested how is that not indicative of her being crazy? If everywhere you go smells like shit check your own shoe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:07 PM
-4	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. Any of your explanations, or even any other possible explanations would cause me to RUN and fast. Being a virgin that late in life is extremely odd for either gender. Sex and physical intimacy is a basic human desire. If she avoided it into her 30s by choice, that would be a red flag. If she wanted to have sex but was never able to find someone, that’s also a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:21 PM
-5	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. I’d view it as an extreme red flag. Sex is a basic human desire. There are only a few explanations for why anyone would be a virgin that late in life and all of them are indicative of some mental illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:17 PM
2	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? Tell that to all the single moms who can’t delay instant gratification. They either cannot properly screen a sexual partner/potential father, or wait to practice safe sex. It takes two to tango. I can tell you are either under the age of 21, don’t have much experience being in committed relationships with men, or are terrible at screening your partners in advance. Only immature men who blatantly do not have their lives together act that way. There are very clear indicators about whether or not a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:01 PM
2	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? Have you ever had a serious relationship before? It’s truly an eye opening experience when you have your first. I didn’t until I was 22, and it gave me a whole different perspective on dating and relationships than I had previously. Sure, I was a bit jaded right when we broke up. But now I appreciate my ex for kinda showing me the ropes of how to navigate a relationship properly. It’s easy to get sucked into online toxicity and view women as an evil monolith. In real life, they’re far more nuanc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:41 PM
2	Have you ever known of a man who is cute, and personable yet was a #totalfail at casual sex or hookup culture? I don’t think that’s a rare sentiment. Myself and a lot of my buddies were big into trying to hookup with girls when we were younger. However, we eventually all had our first serious relationship/fell in love, and the casual sex and one night stands died down big time for nearly everyone. I don’t mind hookup sex, but even if the girl is attractive, I usually feel disgusted after I nut and want nothing to do with them. Can’t say the same when it’s girlfriend sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:31 PM
1	Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex? Yeah no I agree with the rest of your comment entirely, was just being a bit nitpicky lol. I think stimulants in general just make “work” tasks more enjoyable. Its abuse is extremely common in the trade, restaurant, and manufacturing industry. Prostitution is really no different than any other physical labor job, so it makes sense its use would be prevalent among sex workers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 01:30 PM
3	Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex? I can tell you have never actually done amphetamines before. They make it MUCH harder to reach orgasm. And they actually are a vasoconstrictor so they reduce blood flow to the extremities. Very tough to get a boner on Adderall or a similar drug like coke. Very tough for women to get wet on either too. I haven’t done meth per se but have done amph and coke, which are basically the same thing as they’re all just serotonin dopamine and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors. Yes, it makes you very horn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 12:59 PM
6	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Yep precisely! I get approached by women all the time at bars. I went through a MAJOR glow up around 2022, went from skinny fat at 220 benching 135 for a rep, to sub 10% body fat benching 225x7 at 185. Grew out my facial hair. Totally cleaned my skin up. Did everything possible to “looksmax” before it became an internet trend. The difference in how I get treated by women in social situations is night and day compared to before. Routinely I’ll have 3-4 girls a night blatantly compliment and hit o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 01:19 PM
3	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement I get approached by women all the time in bars. That’s actually when I’ve had my most success in terms of getting with girls who are in the upper echelons of my “league”. Girls my friends would call 8-8.5/10. But with those girls, the relationships never last. Even if we hookup and the sex is really good, the fact we met while drunk and horny, and progressed so fast makes it extremely awkward in the few instances we have followed it up with a sober hangout. Very tough to form a relationship out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 01:07 PM
26	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Nah hard disagree. I’m 24, 6 foot 3, 8 pack abs, white guy, can grow a mustache. I put a lot of effort into maintaining my physical attractiveness. I also have a solid white collar job making just under 80k a year. For my age demographic, I check a lot of boxes on paper of what women are looking for. I’ve been able to have romantic and sexual experiences with women I find very attractive. But it DOES NOT come easy. I have been on 10+ first dates in the past year that didn’t work out, and it wasn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 12:12 AM
2	What does a top 20% man look like? 10% of the ivy league incoming freshman identify as lgbtq. That goes up to 25% by graduation. Fr	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 11:50 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? Point A is so true man holy shit. I recently had this epiphany about a year ago. For whatever reason when I would smoke weed I would psychoanalyze myself and try and determine what my true ego was and what parts of it were my superego. This led to me doing the same in people I am closest with. Every single person had some sort of clearly visible insecurity, mental disorder, etc that manifested itself into their personality. Something else that took me a while to come to terms with is that litera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 01:25 AM
9	If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn? That's a political issue not a gender one. I know plenty of conservative women who are anti-abortion, and plenty of liberal men who are pro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 08:38 PM
1	In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say? Gender distribution by age. NYC has more women than men at every single age demographic. Manhattan is even worse than other boroughs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 04:24 AM
1	In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say? It's simple math, NYC has roughly 10% more women than men between 20-30. Of course they're going to say the dating life sucks when the ratio is not in their favor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 04:22 AM
1	Would men do the same in the current dating market? I hope you find self esteem soon man. It will never come from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 12:35 AM
3	Would men do the same in the current dating market? I think it's a culture shift. The majority of men these days are ok with being non exclusive because that's generally all they can get. The dating pool for women under the age of 30 looking for a long term relationship on Hinge is alarmingly small compared to casual encounters or short term relationships. I've set my preferences to that before and you run out of people to swipe on alarmingly fast. In a metro of 2.5 million people. The users of this subreddit just haven't matured to the point whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 05:41 PM
1	Nostalgia or was it simply better? I don't think the issue is to be blamed on either gender. It's a byproduct of society as a whole. Women more than have the capability to approach men in normal social situations too. You can't have it both ways with gender roles. As men and women become more equal, women should expect to have to do a bit of the heavy lifting with initial interactions when that was normally the man's "job". Social media also makes men scared to approach women in public. Most of my female friends have expressed to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 02:30 PM
3	Nostalgia or was it simply better? I wouldn't really call it a fallacy. Statistically, happiness peaked in America in 1993, right before the Internet came about. https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/22/americans-are-getting-more-miserable-theres-data-prove-it/ Studies have shown most happiness in life is derived from platonic and romantic relationships that occur face to face. Not materialistic things, career success, etc. More people are single than ever now because the Internet provides an alternative that is just go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 01:53 PM
7	Nostalgia or was it simply better? Wow, never thought about the impact the Internet had on music and art creation but you're right. We probably would have never seen the rise of some great local scenes like Seattle grunge, LA rap, Detroit R&B, etc with the Internet around. It makes our culture more homogeneous and people are disconnected from the people in physical proximity to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 01:48 PM
2	Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating market https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLM5jNme/ Maybe the top 1% but most men want monogamous relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 12:24 PM
-7	Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating market Awfully ironic coming from the person who has spewed nothing but ad hominem insults and hasn't rebutted a single point I made. And you can't even spell hysterical. NVM, I'm out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 10:05 PM
-9	Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating market Enlighten me then, why do you think older men choose to date women in their 20s? Because their personalities are so much more entertaining than you jaded used model sedans? No, it's because they find them HOT!!! Not some narrative you craft about them "being easy to manipulate". I'm a dude in their 20s who is on the short end of the stick with this whole thing, if anything I'd be the one bitching about them. It's just nature, deal with it. I don't fault the women for going along with it just as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:56 PM
-13	Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating market Idk, it's just evolutionary I don't really see your body's natural instincts as predatory. Attraction all boils down to evolution. Men are looking for a female partner that gives their offspring the best odds of not succumbing to infant mortality. That means a healthy woman in her young 20s with a wide hip to waist ratio. Likewise, women are attracted to men who can provide the most resources for them and their offspring, deal with outside threats, and ensure their families long term success. In…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:36 PM
-1	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? If you seriously think 5% of the male population is a habitual rapist you need to go outside and touch some grass before you fall into femcel territory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:48 PM
1	AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I really need to start practicing my cold approach skills. Been on hinge for months and nothing has gone anywhere. Seems it's impossible to differentiate yourself when the paradox of choice is so pervasive with OLD. Out of 200+ matches I've only been on 8 dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:45 PM
2	How bad Is in a relationship not being able to orientate/know Places? How bad Is being an inept? I don't think it's good. I'm very spatial aware and am a bit of a geography nerd. One of my exes lived in a city I had never been to until we met and started dating. I picked up on the geography and navigating it without a map very fast, like within spending a week or so of time there. It definitely increased her attraction. She was like "wow I'm so impressed you learned xyz city so fast". Women like to be led by the man, whether they will admit or not. Same reason why they will put on their dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 06:32 PM
3	What i learned It's like the Ken Carson song Jennifer's body, you need to adopt the mentality to have success. "Two things I ain't ever seen, a nigga that beat a gun, and a bitch I need". You gotta be strong in your own frame first before you can get a woman to want to enter it.	/r/seduction	31/12/23 04:04 PM