Sufficient_Event_520 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Checkmate, Redpillers		Sufficient_Event_520	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/24 10:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me. I also used to feel this way when I was reading a lot of stuff from men online. The thing is, a lot of online content is designed to illicit a reaction. It could be ragebait for the bit, or someone whose viewpoint is so extreme that their post kept getting clicks, and rose to the top of the algorithm. Since going to college, I've found that a lot of people around me are less polarized than I thought. A lot of people are, actually, shockingly normal. I found a wonderful guy and we've been dating …	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/24 04:08 PM
4	Can short men ever be sexually attractive? Yes. I have a major crush on a short-ish, somewhat overweight man. I don't remember how tall he is compared to me, because my brain shuts down whenever I see him. What I do remember is that he's shorter than most other men around him. I'll try to pay attention next time and will update in the replies. I am 5'6. I don't know anything about him personally but he's very confident and dresses well, and has my favorite body type. He's very hot to me but I wouldn't say "good for a night." I'd want a l…	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/24 04:13 AM
6	"Men need to be confident to get a relationship. Women do not." Thank you for saying this. You're absolutely right. It gives me some faith in humanity to see a man understand this. Introspection is a skill that gets stronger as you practice, and a lot of redpill guys are barely self aware.	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/24 01:48 PM
1	"Men need to be confident to get a relationship. Women do not." A guy cut me off because I was too hesitant and said I was interested but needed more time to talk. I understand that he wanted someone more prepared and eager, and that's alright. I think it's complicated and every guy I've chatted with has had a slightly different style of attraction.	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/24 01:44 PM
8	What do the people here think of evolutionary psychology? I believe evolutionary psychology can be used in some situations, like "Why do spiders look creepy?" I'm not scared of spiders, I love handling them, but the sight of their bodies still triggers some deep discomfort in me. Maybe we evolved to recognize a possibly venomous creature. That's a valid theory. I don't believe it should be used to tell people what they should do, or what is most "natural." A lot of bullshit evolutionary psychology is just taking your own bias or opinion and making up a…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/24 08:23 PM
4	Suddenly feeling empty about my partner after leaving TRP. The initial exciting spark of a relationship fades eventually. There will be times where you feel completely neutral about your partner, you simply want to be with them because you know you love them even if you don't feel it right now. There will be times when you two are sick of each other and need a short period of alone time to recover your enthusiasm. There will be times when the deepest love comes rushing in and you're obsessed with them. The first neutral period can hit you hard, so don't…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 12:31 AM
3	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way Subjectivity makes me think of a story with an ambiguous ending left open to interpretation. Everyone will have their own opinion. But they may reliably fall into categories, and the majority will favor one interpretation. There will even be some wildly unpopular interpretations that very few people hold. What I'm saying is, I believe attraction can fall into trends and still be subjective. It's influenced by a lot of things. -There is evolutionary biology, which tends to be overhyped in redpill…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 06:35 PM
3	I don't think I've seen any proof of physical attraction being subjective in any way that's meaningful to me Idk man, I'm currently crushing on a guy who's shorter than me, chubby and balding. I think he's the most attractive person in the world. I don't really get what you mean by attraction being objective. I guess it's an objective fact that I'm attracted to those specific traits?	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/24 04:17 PM
1	Checkmate, Redpillers It’s a character trope so they are portrayed that way, but I guess that is a pretty negative term. I’m sorry. I meant someone who is weaker than average, a bit insecure, and who would appreciate having someone to take care of him.	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/24 05:51 PM
1	Checkmate, Redpillers That’s true. At the very least, the underdog trope made me attracted to nerdy, pathetic men	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/24 04:23 PM
2	Checkmate, Redpillers This is a very good point. Their whole philosophy is based around giving into primal urges and toxic structures that hurt everyone.	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/24 03:03 AM
4	How do I make women friends again especially after me losing the majority of them? Like others here said, clubs and activities! Join something with a bunch of other people, and some of them will be women. They'll be far more prepared to socialize than someone at the gym who is minding their own business.	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/24 05:57 PM
1	Do women live life on easy mode? Need to have a debate so I can learn more about reality I need to share an important argument on the dating point. Many women do not really enjoy casual sex—at least nowhere near as much as men do. For us, sex is often physically uncomfortable, exhausting, and emotionally taxing. There's also a huge risk associated with pregnancy. In order to avoid getting pregnant, we have to use extremely unreliable methods (pullout), somewhat unreliable methods (condoms), or methods that can have really nasty side effects (hormonal + iuds). Contraception might see…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/24 06:37 PM